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Skipping School
Monday, 29 September 2008 00:12
The Problem
You just got a call that your child is absent from school. You know that he left the
house with his backpack this morning. He must have skipped school. That's not
such a big problem, is it? You remember skipping school yourself from time to
time.
Many experts believe that a pattern of skipping school is often the first sign that a
teen is in trouble, and is giving up on his education. Skipping school is a good
predictor of other problems, including (but not limited to) gang membership, drug
and alcohol use, theft, high-risk sexual behavior, and vandalism. Statistics show
that children who start skipping school are at high risk of dropping out of high
school and ending up struggling through life.
Why do kids skip school? An isolated incident may just be an attempt to see if
she can get away with it, or something she did on a dare. But students who
develop a pattern of skipping school may do so for other reasons, such as the
following:
Current laws demand that the school must provide parents with notification of
school absence. This is one way to assure that parents will take steps to correct
the problems that lead to skipping school. Most states also impose fines or even
jail terms on parents of children who are truant from school. Some states are
linking school attendance to incentives, such as an increase in public assistance
for the family or the child's ability to obtain a drivers' license.
What To Do
Take it seriously. Even if it is just one incident, resist the temptation to
provide an excuse to the school for your child. One of the ways that he
can learn from his mistakes is to pay the consequences for his behavior. If
he missed a big test when he skipped school and his grade goes down as
a result, remember that it's not your fault, it's his.
Talk to your child. If it's just a one-time thing, following through with
consequences such as losing a privilege may be enough. But if your child
indicates that he's frustrated with school, doing poorly in school or if you
suspect he is having problems with drugs and alcohol, it's time to get
some help. He may need tutoring and encouragement to catch up and
begin feeling better about school, or professional help to deal with
substance abuse.
or even jail. Going to school will keep you safer and makes your resume and
future applications look much better.
In brief, skipping school has more negative than positive sides. Teachers and
students should not allow anyone to miss out on school and then come back with
no consequences. There should be a certain number of sick days that a person
is allowed before suspension or possible expulsion comes into place. In my
opinion, it should be school every day or no school at all. Whatever one you
choose is your decision, but consider your future before you turn off the alarm
clock.
http://www.teenink.com/opinion/school_college/article/333148/Skipping-SchoolIs-it-Worth-it-or-Not/
Many parents recognize the fact that children cannot learn effectively without going to
school. Skipping school or some classes hinders students from gaining academic success
which in turn may limit their capability to become financially successful in the future.
Parents, being the primary authority figures responsible for their children, definitely play a
big role in reducing juvenile truancy. What are effective consequences and punshments for
skipping school? There are several traditionally accepted means of imposing discipline to
children who purposefully and regularly skip classes.
Parents may choose to withhold privileges as a form of discipline. Withholding privileges may
also reduce the distractions to teens' studies. Restricting your teen's access to the internet,
phone privileges, or use of a family vehicle may be helpful. It may also help to impose a
stricter curfew or shortening/curtailing time spent outside the house during weekends. As
with any kind of punishment or consequences, what is more important is being consistent
about imposing them in order to effectively communicate the seriousness of your stand on
the matter.
It's also important to communicate with your child what the school's policies are regarding
truancy and reiterate that you will not protect them from these consequences. Many schools
impose detention and in cases of regular teen truancy, even suspension or community
service. There are also some states where school attendance is mandatory and habitual
truancy can result in parents and their children getting into some trouble with the law. The
worst thing that a parent can do is shielding their children from the consequences of their
mistakes by making false excuses for them.
The best kinds of consequences imposed for bad behavior are those that lead young people
to learn valuable lessons. For example, parents who deal with teens constantly skipping
school may opt to address the issue a different way. They may try to set reasonable
academic goals for their children. If they meet this goal, they receive a reward. If they don't
meet this goal, some of their privileges will be restricted until the goals are met.
This way, children focus on the real goal rather than just on school attendance. They also
learn for themselves that when they don't stay in school, they most probably can't meet
their academic goals. After all, parents want their children to stay in school not just for the
sake of school attendance but for the sake of learning what they need to learn in order to
advance to the next stages of their academic life.
When a teen consistently skips school, it's a good idea for parents to take extra measures in
order to keep their teens in line. Here are a few suggestions that may be helpful.
Keep track - Parents can request the school to notify them if their teen is absent, regardless
of whether the absence is excused or not. If possible, have your own system to track the
attendance of your teen in school (like an attendance log signed by their teacher).
Investigate - Ask your teen if there are any specific reasons why he doesn't want to go to
school. Is he being bullied? Are there classes that he's scared to attend because he's not
confident about his performance in it? Are there gang problems in the area? Talk to your
child's guidance counselor and teachers to find out if he has begun hanging out with a bad
crowd.
Explore alternative solutions - For parents who continuously have a hard time keeping
their teens in school, it may be best to explore other alternatives. Depending on the reason
your child is skipping school, possible solutions may include homeschooling, encouraging
your child to see a therapist, transfering your child to a different school in order to avoid bad
crowds, and others. In some cases, sending teens to therapeutic boarding schools may help
stabilize them emotionally before reintegrating them to mainstream schools.
There are many possible reasons why teens skip school, and while consequences and
punishments for skipping school is an important means of behavior modification, it is not
enough. Finding out the underlying reasons why your child is unmotivated to go to school (or
motivated not to go to school) is the best way to help them get back on the right track.
http://www.troubledteens.com/problems-at-school/consequences-and-punishments-forskipping-school.html