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has also appeared in several Broadway shows and will
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Teams of therapists and staff members
from HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital
of Vineland and Inspira Rehab Care will
go head-to-head on Thursday,
September 24 at 5 p.m. at Cumberland
County College in a neighborly softball
game as part of National Rehabilitation
Week celebrations. Assemblyman Sgt.
Robert Andrzejczak will be present to
throw the first pitch at the game, which is
free of charge and open the community.
Our staff enjoys being part of our
patients rehabilitation journeys, says
Matt Ferro, HealthSouth Vineland director of therapy operations. Since we work
together as a team in our hospitals to provide comprehensive care to our patients,
we figured it would be fun to put our
teamwork to the test in a game of softball
with our friends at Inspira Rehab Care.
National Rehabilitation Week was
established in 1976 to create awareness of
people with disabilities and promote the
benefits of rehabilitation. This campaign
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more than six million individuals take
their first steps toward literacy or continued education.
These youth literacy grants are awarded at the beginning of the academic year
in an effort to give teachers, schools and
organizations a great start with the funding and resources they need for the
upcoming school year. A complete list of
grant recipients may be found online at
www.dgliteracy.org. Grant applications for
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Center, 21 E. Main St., Millville, will hold
a job fair on Tuesday, September 29
from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. The event is free and

open to the public and offers links to


immediate openings for 200 jobs in the
following:
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Participants should bring valid forms of
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more job fair details, call the Center at 856765-0205 or ACCU Staffing
Services/Vineland at 856-794-8282.

Trongone-Scheffler Earns
Masters in BA
Christa (Trongone) Scheffler graduated
from Goldey-Beacom College, earning a
Masters degree in Business Administration
with a concentration in Financial
Management. Christa is the daughter of
Loretta Trongone and the late Anthony
Trongone. Graduating with a 4.0 average,
she is a member of the National College
Honor Scholarship, Alpha Chi. She is currently employed by BlackRock Financial
Management in Wilmington, DE, as an
Associate. Christa, a 1991 graduate of
Vineland High School, is married to Brett
Scheffler and has a daughter, Breanna.
They reside in Delaware.

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The Guidance Center will honor Jane


Morton Galetto and Peter Galetto, Jr., at
an awards ceremony on Wednesday,
October 7, at Merighis Savoy Inn in
Vineland. Jane and Peter Galetto will
receive the prestigious 2015 Mental
Health Distinguished Community
Leadership
Award for
their outstanding contributions and dedicated service
to the greater
Cumberland
County area.
They will be
recognized for
their many accomplishments in economic
development and their work for preservation of natural lands and wildlife, along
with their leadership of and philanthropic
support for the arts, environment, health,
education, and history.
For information or to make reservations to honor Jane and Peter Galetto at
the awards event, contact Gary Moellers
at 856-825-6810, ext. 203, or e-mail
gmoellers@ccgcnj.org.
The Guidance Center is a comprehensive mental health agency providing professional services and programs for the
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The Cumberland County Historical Society is a registered NJ Non-Profit Organization.

Computers have taken human element


out of most realms, but not politics.

tephen Hawking is worried about


artificial intelligence (AI). Since he
is generally acknowledged as the
smartest man in the world, it seems
to me that this is probably a good time for
the rest of us to give it some thought.
A few years ago they had that contest on
Jeopardy where the all-time top contestants
competed against Watson, the IBM computer. Watson, of course, won handily.
The name Watson was chosen for the
famous Alexander Graham Bell quote,
Watson, come here that Bell used to summon his assistant, Watson, from another
room in the first demonstration of his new
invention, the telephone.
Well, Watson is not only in the room
these days; hes the elephant in the room.
In the trailers for the upcoming biopic
of Apple computer genius, Steven Jobs,
they show the investors meeting where
Jobs unveils his new computer with the
pronouncement that the two most significant events of the 20th century were the
Allies winning World War II and the introduction of the personal computer.
Pretty hard to argue with that.
Men have walked on the moon, sent
pictures back from Mars and the farthest
reaches of the galaxy and made significant
advances in science, medicine and
communications.
Every single thing was expedited
through the use of AI. Its the reason everything is moving so rapidly. So rapidly, in
fact, that most of us can hardly keep up.
Theres an old joke about the guy who
was conceived through artificial insemination who, each Fathers Day, sends a card to
a syringe at the Mayo Clinic.
It may be just a matter of a very short
time before the Nobel Prize for (name a
science) will be awarded to a computer.
Seriously, we really seem to have come that
far. And, apparently we have only scratched
the surface of what is possible with AI.
I grew up in Detroit. When I graduated
high school in 1961, I was one of the few who
didnt go straight into an auto factory. They
were good paying, guaranteed jobs for life.
You had the same thing right here in
Cumberland County with the glass industry. Good paying, guaranteed jobs for life.
You can blame a lot of things for the
changes that have occurredunions, mismanagement, global competition, etc.

But the bottom line is that most factory


jobs these days are done by computers.
One of the last things my Dad did before
he died was tour the Ford River Rouge
manufacturing plant (hed worked at
Chrysler all his life) where they still pour
steel, rubber and plastic in one end of the
assembly line and a car pops out on the
other end.
Dad was amazed by the fact that there
were so very few actual live people
involved in the process. But he acknowledged that they did make a good car.
Im just wondering, though, if we are
missing an opportunity. Seems to me we
arent using AI for all the best reasons.
The number one priority should be the
one thing that screws up all the restelected
and appointed government officials.
We started out wanting it to be of, for
and by the people. What we seem to have
now is a government that has evolved into
its own entitytoo big to operate efficiently
and too big to fail.
Seems to me that maybe we should stop
electing officials and start building them
from the ground up.
Imagine a world where computers make
decisions regarding health services, taxes,
immigration, retirement benefits, and laws
without regard to getting re-elected.
Or without regard (in local instances) to
putting cousin Jims little son on the city
payroll to keep peace in the family.
I think computers would quickly realize
that we have more than enough laws (the
constitution only recognized three crimes,
incidentallytreason, piracy and counterfeiting) and there were only 10 on that
tablet Moses brought down from the
mountain.
Personally, I wouldnt be the least bit
worried about AI if it werent for the fact
that people are going to be involved at some
level of programmmg.
Hawkings theory (google it by typing in
Hawking + AI) suggests that we may
already be past the tipping pointcomputers
smart enough to improve themselves.
If thats so, then we would be wise to
remember Final Jeopardy.
In the Watson versus humans contest,
Watson could not be beaten in the final
question, so Ken Jennings (the winningest
contestant ever) simply wrote: All hail our
new overlords. I

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Faces in the News


Happy Birthday to Michele Bondi
On Wednesday September 23rd
Youre the Best, Michele
We wish you a very happy
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Santiago Honored by BOE


Eddie Santiago, a Vineland Public Schools
security officer, was honored by the Board of
Education at its September 9 meeting for
thwarting a burglary at Leuchter School and
assisting in the apprehension of the subject.
Santiago was on night patrol when an alarm
summoned him to Leuchter Elementary
School. Upon checking the building, he discovered a man attempting to steal district property. The man fled, and Santiago gave chase while letting the police know his location. The police promptly arrived at West and Park avenues and arrested the
suspect.
"He did an outstanding job," said John Provenzano, Director of Security.
"I appreciate being part of the district," said Santiago. "It's a wonderful district, the city is great, and working alongside Mr. Provenzano is an honor and a
privilege."
From left: Joe Pagano, Board of Education member; Santiago; and John Provenzano,
Director of Security

Inspira Auxiliary Marks


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Pictured from left are officers, Kathy Cavallero, Secretary; Robert Odorizzi, Chairman;
and Stacy Fisher, Treasurer. Connie Montero, Vice President of Auxiliary, is not pictured.

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The Inspira Health Network


Foundation Cumberland/Salem dedicated a wall plaque at Inspira Medical
Center Vineland commemorating over a
decade of donations raised by the
Inspira Auxiliary Cumberland County.
The plaque marked an impressive milestone of raising $400,000 since its inception in 2004. The Auxiliary raises money to support the Inspira Foundation
Cumberland/Salem's mission of providing renewable financial resources for the
delivery of quality health care to the region.
Throughout the year, the Inspira Auxiliary Cumberland County holds several
fundraising efforts including Calendar and Restaurant Raffles, Princess Party, Fall
Yard Sale, Flower Sale and multiple vendor sales at Inspira facilities.
Over the past decade, funds have been allocated to support:
The Frank and Edith Scarpa Cancer Pavilion
Pediatric Emergency Department Examination Bay
Medical Family Waiting Room
Deborah F. Sager NICU
Second Floor Patient Waiting Area
Stereotactic Mammography Room
I am proud of every member of the Auxiliary, said Carolyn Heckman,
Executive Director of the Inspira Foundation Cumberland/Salem. Their tireless
efforts over the last decade have helped to improve the health and lives of our
families, friends and neighbors.

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Radio host from WVLT 92.1 FM, Al


Snyder teamed up with Rick Fiocchi of
Uncle Rickys Outdoor Bar & Grill to
host a fundraising car cruise for a local
child who is a cancer patient. The event
raised funds to help the family of Gia
Creaturo. The cruise took place at
Uncle Rickys Outdoor Bar & Grill and
drew more than 90 cars.
Clockwise from top left: Al Snyder and Gia
Creaturo, Snyder and Ricky Fiocchi, Gia
Creaturo in Jim Vertollis 1958 Pontiac.

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The Boys & Girls Club of Vineland members joined a conglomerate of women
and teen girls for a full day of empowerment in New York City over the summer
at the PowHERful Summit, provided by the Starfish Foundation. The summit
helps foster educational, professional and personal development with its specially designed sessions and workshops aimed at building confidence and empowering the attendees.
Misty Copeland was the keynote speaker at the event. Copeland was recently
honored by being promoted as the principal dancer of the American Ballet
Theatre, and she is proudly the first African-American female ballet dancer. Her
keynote speech was entitled HERES HOW: Dance to Your Own Beat, in which
she encouraged young women to keep pushing and persevering no matter what
obstacles they may face.
Former President of Entertainment for Telemundo, Nely Galan, kicked off the
PowHERful Summit, and workshops were held by Macys, Google, Lyft, Capital
One, and HHC throughout the day.
Pictured here are Boys & Girls Club members, volunteers and staff who participated in
the summit and are part of the Club's SMART Girls, a life skills program for girls ages 11
to 17, with Soledad O'Brien (center).

Cumberland Equestrians Compete in State Show

Cumberland County 4-H equestrians joined 4-H representatives from throughout the state last month to compete in the annual State 4-H Horse show. The
state contest includes English, Western, Dressage, Driving, Very Small Equine,
Challenged Rider and Game divisions. Held at the Horse Park of New Jersey at
Stone Tavern in Allentown, the State 4-H Horse Show is an exhibition of the best
4-H riders and mounts in the garden state. Cumberland County brought home
grand championships in the Western Division and Driving Division, with many
members taking awards in their classes.
The Cumberland County 4-H horse program is directed by Cyndy Hetzell, and
supported by the tireless efforts of 4-H staff and volunteers including parents,
families and friends of 4-H members. We are proud of our Cumberland County
4-H Members and grateful to the many Cumberland County 4-H volunteers who
step up and take leadership roles each year at the State 4-H Horse Show. Cyndy
Hetzell does an outstanding job encouraging our 4-Hers to compete in the best
spirit of sportsmanship and expand their equine skills, develop life skills and
meet other 4-Hers from throughout the state. Says Julie Karavan, Cumberland
County 4-H Agent
Cumberland County captured Grand Champion in the Driving Division and
Western divisions as well as Reserve Champion in the VSE division.

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In a thrilling overtime victory, Nihym had 5 tackles from his OLB position, including 3
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Edna B. (Hunter) Mendolera, 92, of


Pennsville, and formerly of Millville,
passed away September 10, at
Carneys Point Care Center after a
lengthy illness. Mrs. Mendolera is survived by two sisters, Mildred Lewis and
Frieda Davenport, both of Pennsville;
and many nieces and nephews. She
was predeceased by her husband
Louis in 2010; and her siblings,
Herbert R. Hunter, Dorothy M. Burden,
Helen Batson and Francis Hunter.
James A. Jim Viehmann, 65, of
Millville, died on September 10 after
an illness at the Inspira Medical Center
in Vineland. Born in Vineland, Jim had
been an area resident all his life. He is
survived by caregiver Josephine
Shelton; godchildren William Mays Sr.,
Edward Mays, Rosemary (Mays) Tassa
and her husband, Robert.
Jared Burke, 41, of Philadelphia and
formerly of Vineland passed away of
natural causes at home on September
11. Jared graduated from Vineland
High School where he earned the title
of District Champion in wrestling. He
is survived by his mother Gail Burke;
his father Richard Burke; brothers
Richard Burke and Darren (Heidi)
Burke; nephews Shane and Kyle Burke
and Dylan and Christian Burke; and
great-niece Autumn Burke.
Abraham Kleban, 102, of Vineland,
passed away on September 14, at the
Lincoln Specialty Center in Vineland.
Abraham graduated from Millville High
Class of 1931. He was a successful
poultry hatchery business man and
real estate agent. He is survived by his
wife Helen (Lorch) Schwarz Kleban;
stepsons, Robert and Steven Schwarz;
grandchildren Heather Schwarz Lopes
and Brandon Schwarz; great-grandchildren Alexis Schwarz, Samantha, Nicole
and Kaitlyn Schwarz. He was also predeceased by his sister Rae Leroy and
his brother Sam Kleban.
William Willie Amadei, 90, of
Vineland, passed away on September
16, at home surrounded by his family.
He was a graduate of Vineland High
School in 1944. Willie worked as an
auto mechanic for many local repair
shops; including Allonardo Brothers,
Cresci Motors, Pepe Chevrolet, Levari
Trucking, Fisher-Elkins and Gordon

In Loving Memory of
Sean Gibbons
on his 59th birthday
September 18th

We love and miss you so much. You


will always be in our hearts forever.
All our love,
Wife JoAnn, Mom, Dad, Katy
Casey, Nicole, Shawn,
ShyAnna and Elijah
Cadillac. He leaves behind his wife of
67 years, Ruth whom he has known
since age 5 when she moved across
the street from him; children Sandy
(Robert) Platoni, William (Debbie)
Amadei, and Brenda (Michael) Brown;
grandchildren Stephanie and Donald
Whitesell, Robyn and Sam Levin,
Michelle and Charles Amadei, Michael,
Jamie and Sarah Brown; great-grandchildren Addison and Ella Whitesell,
Dylan Sheppard, William and Ethan
Amadei and his brother, George
Amadei of PA.
Rhoda Pierce, 95, of Millville, passed
away in her home on September 17,
after a brief illness. Born and raised in
Millville, she was a lifelong resident,
where she lived in the same house for
94 years. Mrs. Pierce was a homemaker and worked part time as a seamstress for Model Blouse. Mrs. Pierce
will be sadly missed by her children
Joseph Pierce (Debra) of Millville and
Trish Pierce of Malaga; four grandchil-

Linda Ellen Morrell (Carter)

Train
Train Where
Where the
the Champions
Champions Train!
Train!

February 3, 1948 September 17, 2001


It has been 14, long years since I last heard your voice. Not a day goes by that I
dont think of you. I rely on the wisdom you provided, as I walk through this life
without you. You would have loved your only granddaughter, Mia Ellen; she is
just like you, so in a way, I have you in her. You are missed by so many, and I am
reminded of that on a regular basis. You were my coach, my best friend and the
very best mother a daughter could possibly ask for I dont know how I have
managed without you, all of these years. I miss you terribly.
Love, Marcy and Mia

Continued from previous page


dren Mike Pierce (Tracy Clifton) of CA,
Katherine Arp (Mike) of Fair Lawn, Kim
Pierce of Maine, and Missy Park of FL;
one great grandchild Andre Hancock of
FL; and her cousin Ronald Locke of
Millville. She was predeceased by her
husband Andrew J. Pierce in 2000; her
son William Pierce; and grandson
Joseph H. Pierce Jr. in 2000.
Felix Baez, 80, of Vineland, passed

away on September 16, at Lincoln


Specialty Center. Felix was born in
Puerto Rico and later moved to
Vineland. Despite his handicap, Felix
never complained. He found joy in the
simple things. He enjoyed spending
days at the Senior Center in Vineland
meeting new people, sitting on his
porch and greeting all his neighbors.
He is survived by cousin and caregiver
Cruz Lopez of Vineland; several siblings and many cousins.

I Downtown Vineland

{ BY RUSSELL

SWANSON, EXEC. DIRECTOR, VDID / MAINSTREET VINELAND }

Wedding
Weekend

For more information on Main Street


Vineland, call 856-794-8653, visit
www.mainstreetvineland.org or check them
out on Facebook. You can also e-mail rswanson@vinelandcity.org.

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is in showing that our downtown is a real


destination to shop. That is part of the mission of Main Street Vineland and we want
to have more merchant-related events like
this downtown.
So, before you and your beloved tie the
knot, come to Landis Avenue on September
26 and see how we can make that special
day even more special.
***
I also want to urge you to come out this
coming Saturday for Fall Planting Day. Itll
take place, rain or shine, from 9 a.m. to 12
p.m. and just like Fall Clean-Up Day last
Saturday, well meet at the mini-parks at
the Boulevard and Landis Avenue. Just as
we cleaned up this past Saturday, well
plant this coming Saturday, bringing seasonal beauty to these downtown focal
points. With enough volunteers, we may
even add in some other downtown focal
areas. If you have gloves and hand tools,
bring them; otherwise, well have some.
Well also have pizza for you when the
work is done. The more help the better, so
come on down!
***
Looking ahead, remember to buy tickets
for A Taste of Vineland and our Volunteer
Recognition Event, to take place on
October 14. Its an opportunity to enjoy
food, music, and fellowshipall to help
Main Street Vineland in its workand for
just $40 a ticket! Well also be recognizing
our Main Street Vineland volunteers and
give our Volunteer of the Year award. I

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n last weeks column, I told you


about the first two in our September
trifecta of eventsFall Clean-Up Day
this past Saturday, September 19 and
Fall Planting Day this coming Saturday,
September 26. Ill tell you this week about
the third event, also taking place this coming SaturdayWedding Weekend. If youre
a bride- or groom-to-be, its an event you
wont want to miss!
One our most successful events is our
Wedding Weekend, which has been steadily gaining popularity over the past four
years. Organized by Main Street Vineland,
its major sponsors, this year, are Als Shoes
and The Banquet Hall at the Landis
Theater. Itll take place from 10 a.m. to 5
p.m., rain or shine, on Landis Avenue. With
our downtown area having several wedding-related businesses, about a dozen
businesses will give the happy couple information about services they offer. Youll find
everything from gowns and formal wear, to
shoes, to jewelry and flowers, catering
facilities, limousine services, nail salons,
tanning facilities and more.
As in past years, were sweetening the
pot with some great grand prizes. Prizes
include a $250 gift certificate from DeSoto
Jewelers and almost $750 in certificates
from other participating businesses. All you
have to do to be eligible for the grand
prizes is to register at half the participating
businesses that will be set up along Landis
Avenue. Businesses will be participating
from their own locations or will have booths
set up in other locations on the Avenue.
Brian Lankin, owner of Als Shoes
downtown, spearheads the event each year.
Brian is a member of our Main Street
Vineland Board of Directors and is chairperson of our Promotions Team. His heart

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Sept 19 at Hobby
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La. (North Italy Club).
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home improvement items,
tools, furniture and collectibles,

For Sale
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Announcements

Bikes Wanted
Have a bike taking up
space in your home?
Please consider donating
it. The Vineland Rotary
Club has partnered with
Pedals for Progress to
export bikes to third-world
countries where they are
needed for transportation.
Also collecting treadle and
portable sewing machines.
Contact Henry Hansen at
856-696-0643 for drop-off
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paroled prisoners where they would be


buried in trenches. The prisoners clothing, usually tattered beyond repair, was still
a commodity among inmates and unguarded pants and shirts were subject to theft.
The Confederates were unable to provide
their own soldiers with new uniforms, so
any chances of new clothing for their
charges was out of the question.
Futch tells us that the results of such
conditions revealed themselves through the
inmates attitude and psychology. The
nonchalance with which many regarded
death and the unfeeling eagerness with
which they stripped dead or dying men of
their valuables and clothing were shocking
to newcomers in the stockade.
In July, a group of prisoners decided to
petition the Federal government for their
release. Their efforts proved controversial
when some of their fellow inmates saw it as
shirking the duty of their military obligation. Nonetheless, sergeants of 107 divisions signed the petition and six of them
were allowed to deliver it personally to the
Federal Government. But, according to
Futch, nothing came of it.
As week after week passed, Futch
writes, the prisoners situation grew ever
more desperate as their number steadily
increased and the death rate mounted. So
crowded was the stockade that the average
amount of space per man of the month of
June was only 33.2 square feet.
Enlargement of the stockade increased this
figure to 40.5 for July, but the constant
influx of prisoners reduced it again to 35.7
for August. This was less than four square
yards per man, including the uninhabitable
swamp. The average number of prisoners
during the month of June was 22,291; July
29,030; and August 32,899. During the
month of June, 1,203 died; in July 1,742;
and in August 2,993. The largest number of
deaths on any one day was 127 on August
23. Perhaps it is impossible, as so many exinmates maintained, to grasp or convey an
accurate picture of the horrors of
Andersonville Prison or the suffering
endured by the men confined there during
that awful summer of 1864.
These are the conditions Jared Gage
encountered when he entered
Andersonville that October. I

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hen Vinelander Jared Gage


entered Georgias
Andersonville Prison in
1864, he was one of approximately 31,000 Union soldiers in a facility
incapable of accommodating that number
of inmates. For Gage, the experience would
haunt his health and lead to an early tragic
death. One prisoner wrote about
Andersonville, None will ever realize the
suffering here but those who live to endure
and live through it, but well attempt to
examine what had occurred prior to Gages
incarceration there.
According to History of Andersonville
Prison by Ovid L. Futch, the conditions at
the prison, which opened in February 1864,
were due to the Confederates lack of provisions, the facilitys inadequate size to
accommodate the large number of prisoners and certain inmates disregard for
maintaining sanitary conditions. Ration
limitations led certain prisoners to pay or
barter for food while those who couldnt
afford to buy meals usually had to settle for
cornbread, bacon and a lack of nutrition. As
one inmate reported, Men actually starve
to death here for want of food.
An expansion of the prison camp was
undertaken, using inmates as workers. A
10-acre addition on the north side was
completed by June 1864, but the unending
influx of new prisoners meant that the new
portion was overcrowded once it was
opened.
According to Futch, as early as the latter part of March, Michigan cavalryman
John L. Ransom noted that the prison was
becoming filthy and considered the prisoners themselves somewhat to blame for it.
Before April was half-gone, he complained,
There is so much filth about the camp that
it is terrible trying to live here. Some
attempted to keep clean and to avoid contamination, and on occasion they ducked
and scrubbed some of the dirtiest of their
comrades, but many became discouraged in
these efforts.
Water soon became scarce and soap
non-existent so that lice and other vermin
settled into the uncut and matted hair of
the prisoners. History of Andersonville
Prison describes the stockade as having
reeked with an overpowering stench
from human waste, rotting bodies waiting
to be transported to the cemetery by

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WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 23

Domenica Italiana
Italian Sunday 129
$

40/person plus tax

Choice of
Fried Calamari or Mussels Brodo
Choice of
Gnocchi Sorrento
topped with fresh mozzarella
or
Cavatelli Mare Terra
Garlic, shrimp and broccoli rabe
House Salad
Choice of Entree
Grilled 8oz Rib Eye BocCone
Topped with mushroom and gorgonzola with
roasted potatoes and grilled vegetables
or
Grilled Salmon
Served with potatoes and grilled vegetable
Dessert Cannoli
and a complimentary limoncello
Includes a coffee or iced tea
Regular menu available

Mon.-Thurs. 11am9pm
Fri. - Sat. 11am10pm Sun. 12pm9pm

1303 Harding Hwy., Richland


(next to Richland Carpet)

Buena Vista Twp.

856-457-7360

Monthly Book Club. Vineland Public

Reunion: CORRECT DATEThe

Library, 1058 E. Landis Ave., Vineland. 23


p.m. Book to be discussed is A Tale of Two
Cities by Charles Dickens. 856-794-4244,
ext. 4243.

Vineland High School Class of 1948


will meet for lunch on Thursday,
October 8, 12 noon, at Marcianos
Restaurant, 947 N. Delsea Drive.
For more information, call Lucille
Barber at 856-825-4342.

Prostate Cancer Support Group.


Inspira Fitness Connection, 1430 W.
Sherman Ave., Vineland. 79 p.m.
Facilitator is Joe Profetto. Guest speaker is
Dr.Sanjay Kasturi, Vinelands first fellowship trained Robotic Surgeon.

The Woman's Club of Vineland Fall


Southern District Council. Corner of
Main Rd. and Washington Ave., Vineland.
11 a.m. 856-696-1044.

Historic Friendship Church Fundraiser.

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 16
Annual Lobster Bake. Greenview Inn
at Eastlyn, 4049 Italia Ave., Vineland.
Cocktails at 6 p.m., dinner 7 p.m.
Inspira Health Network Home Care and
Hospice Lobster Bake event offers
Down-the-Cape-style food and fun.
Tickets $80 per person with proceeds to
benefit the Home Care and Hospice program. Cash bar, fish bowl auction, jewelry raffle and candy bar buffet. Music
provided by The King Richard Band.
856-641-8290 for tickets.

Longhorn Steakhouse, 110 Bluebird Ln.,


Millville. 59 p.m. Historic Friendship
Church is celebrating its 207th year. Ten
percent of check will be donated to the
churchs historic preservation fund. Let
your server know you are dining in support
of Friendship Church.

for purchase. Mark.Madara@DorothyFire.


org or 609-429-3065.

SEPTEMBER 24 THROUGH 27

Vineland Nature Club Meeting. Luther

24th Annual Irish Fall Festival. Festive

Acres, 560 Sarah Place, Vineland. 7 p.m.


Claire Walton will talk about growing
orchids at the clubs first meeting of season. All are welcome, bring a friend.

four day event is sponsored by James J.


Reilly, Division 1, Ancient Order of
Hibernians (AOH). The AOH is an organization that fosters and preserves Irish culture and heritage. For lineup of events,
contact the AOH at 1-800-IRISH-91 or
www.cmcaoh.com.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 25

High Holiday Services


Services at Beth Israel Congregation
commemorating the end of the High
Holiday period will take place
September 28 through October 6 at
the synagogue, 1015 E. Park Ave.,
Vineland. Services for Sukkot, the
Festival of the Harvest, will take place
on Monday, September 28 (first day),
and Tuesday, September 29, at 9 a.m.,
Wednesday, September 30 through
Friday, October 2, at 7 a.m., and
Saturday, October 3 (Shabbat) and
Sunday, October 4 (Hoshanah Rabah),
at 9 a.m.
Services for Shemini Atzeret (the
eighth day of Sukkot) will be held on
Monday, October 5, at 9 a.m., and
Yizkor will be chanted at 10:45 a.m.
Simchat Torah (Rejoicing in the Law),
which concludes the annual cycle of
the Torah reading, will be celebrated
with services on Tuesday, October 6, at
9 a.m.
Rabbi Alfredo S. Winter, spiritual
leader of Beth Israel Congregation, will
lead the services. For more information, call the Beth Israel Congregation
office at 856-691-0852.

Mganolia Rd., Vineland. 10 a.m.2 p.m.,


Car Show 9-2. PTA hosts this rain or shine
event. Basket auction, carnival games,
pony rides, bounce houses and food.

Market Day in Colonial America, presented


by the Cumberland County Historical
Society. More than 85 vendors, artisans,
craftspeople and historic displays.
Admission $5 (children 12 and under free).
Rain or shine, ample free parking along Ye
Greate Street. 856-455-8580 or
www.cchistsoc.org. Also on Facebook!

Community Yard & Bake Sale. Maxines

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 27

Studio of Dance, 2388 N. East Ave.,


Vineland. 8 a.m.12 noon. Proceeds benefit Vineland Regional Dance Company.

Moonglow Gala. The Greenview Inn,

Welcome Back to School Carnival and


Car Show. John H. Winslow School, 1335

Designer Bag & Basket Bingo.


Woodland Country Day School, 1216
Roadstown Rd., Bridgeton. Doors open at
6 p.m., games begin 7 p.m. Coach,
Michael Kors, Kate Spade, and Vera
Bradley bags and baskets made by famous
company in Ohio. Tickets $25 (for 20
games). 856-453-8499 ext. 112.

SEPTEMBER 25 AND 26

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The Art of Worship Mens Conference.


Rock of Savation, 513 Grape St., Vineland.
Friday 7:30 p.m. serveice. Saturday 9
a.m.12 noon. Guest speaker Marco
Hernandez. 856-794-8898.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 26
Family Wellness Event. The Glass Works
Business Center, 1101 Wheaton Ave.,
Millville. 95 p.m. Some 20-plus practitioners present classes and offer services.
Well-versed and practiced holistic doctors
and practitioners.
Dorothy Volunteer Fire Company Car
Show. Fire Company Grounds, 70
Tuckahoe Rd., Dorothy. 10 a.m.3 p.m.
Rain date 9/27. Registration 910 a.m.
Judging 11:30 p.m., awards 22:30 p.m.
Registration $10 per entry. Food available

Health Fair/Yard Sale. St. John U.M.


Church, 680 Fordville Rd., Bridgeton. 9
a.m.12 noon. Blood pressure, diabetes,
choloesterol testing, health service organizations and other vendors. 856-451-2857.

Newfield Day Fall Festival. Parade


begins corner of Northwest Blvd. and
Catawba Ave., Newfield. Noon. Chicken
BBQ, video game truck, inflatable bounces,
carnival games, hayride, pumpkin patch,
music. Rain date 9/27. 856-897-1100.
Story Hour. Millville Public Library, 210
Buck St., Millville. 1:30 p.m. Miss Jan
reads First Grade, Here I Come! by Tony
Johnston. Freeand open to public.856825-7087, ext. 12.

SEPTEMBER 26 AND 27
Greenwich Artisans Faire And
Marketplace. 1730 Gibbon House, 960 Ye
Greate St., Greenwich. Saturday 10 a.m.5
p.m., Sunday 10 a.m.4 p.m. Experience

Eastlyn Golf Course, 4049 Italia Ave.,


Vineland. 48 p.m. Celebrate compassionate living and enjoy the best of the harvest, hosted by American Vegan Society.
Hors doeuvres social, silent auction, buffet
dinner, music and dancing. $75 adult, $50
student/low income, $100 supporter. For
details, reservations, and menu go to
www.AmericanVegan.org or call 856-6942887. Phone for seating availability.

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 28
To Bee or Not to Bee. Franklin Township
Library, 1584 Coles Mille Rd., Franklinville.
6:30 p.m. Local beekeeper and Barry
Glogau discusses basics of beekeeping.
Open to all ages. Q&A to follow lecture.
RSVP 856-694-2833.

OCTOBER 1, 2 AND 3
Annual Rummage Sale. Millville
Woman's Club's club house, "E" and Third
sts., Millville. Thursday and Saturday 9
a.m.3 p.m.; Friday 9 a.m.4 p.m. Vast
array of items; on Friday, meatball sandwich for $5, 11 a.m.12:30 p.m. Call 2931805 for pre-ordering.

All Things Apple


...at the Greater Bridgeton Amish Farm Markets
Apple Festival on
Saturday, October 3.

he air is turning crisp and the


apple harvest is upon us. Its
time for fresh-pressed cider and
homemade applesauce. Look no
farther than the Greater Bridgeton Amish
Farm Market.
On Saturday, October 3, apples will be
the specialty of the day, as the Apple
Festival brings out family and friends in
search of some good fall fun. There will be
a craft show, live bands, a pig roast, scarecrow making, a straw maze, free mule and
wagon rides (pictured below), a kids pedal
tractor pull (above), and so much more.

2 Cassidy Ct. Bridgeton NJ

856.497.4079
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County, PA, coupled with the delicious
taste of Jersey Fresh produce, seafood,
and much more. The shop owners represent a mix of families from Lancaster
County, PA, and Cumberland County, NJ.
Amish Market vendors include Dutch
Family Furniture, Dutch Country Meats &
Deli, M&M Meat and Meals, Shags
Seafood, Dutch Family Restaurant, The
Dutch Cafe, J&S Custom Crafters,
Marlboro Farm Market, Dutchway
Structures, Country Home Baking, and
Martys Candy & Bulk Food.
The Greater Bridgeton Amish Farm
Market is located at 720 Shiloh Pike (Rt.
49), Bridgeton, 856-451-3008
www.bridgetonamishmarket.com

3 lbs. Hamburger Patties


3 lbs. Ground Beef
3 pc. New York Strips
3 lbs. Loose Sausage
3 lbs. Center Cut Pork Chops
2 lbs. Hickory Smoked Bacon

59

00

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Thurs. 85:30 Fri. 86:30


Sat. 73:30

rd

Sat., October 3

Apple
Festival
Live Bands
Free Mule &
Wagon Rides
Kids Pedal
Tractor Pull
& much more!

at the Greater Bridgeton Amish Market


Amish Pine & Oak Furniture & Much More!

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SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 26
The Machine Performs Pink Floyd.

Landis Theater, E. Landis Ave., Vineland.


8 p.m. America's top Pink Floyd show,
has forged a 25-year reputation of excellence, extending the legacy of Pink Floyd,
while creating another legacy all their
own.Tickets $40.55 and $45.65 available
at ticketmaster.com
After an almost three-year absence from
the band, beloved singer/guitarist Joe
Pascarell returns to The Machine performs
Pink Floyd beginning with the show at the Vermont
State Fair on Friday, September 11. Joe is one of
the founding members of the band and performed
with them for 23 years. Joes knowledge of the Pink
Floyd catalog, as well as his passion for live performance, is unparalleled; his ability to accurately
sing both the Waters and Gilmour parts is uncanny.
The band is planning a variety of special theme
shows in conjunction with his return. Founding
member drummer Tahrah Cohen says, We are ecstatic to have him back and we know
his fans will want to welcome him at our fall shows.
With Joe resuming his duties on lead guitar and lead vocals, long-time member
Ryan Ball will switch back to the bass guitar and vocals after masterfully taking on lead
guitar during Joes absence. The ensemble also includes long-time member Scott
Chasolen on keyboards and vocals.
For 26 years, The Machine has forged reputation of excellence, extending the legacy
of Pink Floyd, while creating another legacy all their own selling out theaters, large
clubs and casinos across North and Central America, Europe and Asia. They have also
appeared at renowned music festivals such as Bonnaroo, Riverbend, Gathering of the
Vibes, Buffalo's Artpark, and Germanys Rock of Ages. Additionally, the quartet has
shared the stage with full symphony orchestras, including the Atlanta, Detroit,
Pittsburgh and San Diego Symphonies.
The New York based band focuses on making every show an authentic experience
performing a diverse mix of Pink Floyds extensive 15-album repertoire complete with
faithful renditions of popular hits as well as obscure gems. The Machines stellar musicianship, dramatic lighting and video, and their passionate delivery set them above and
beyond the rest. Rolling Stone Magazine once said, The Machine duplicates the sound
and hits of Pink Floyd with chilling accuracy.
For more information: http://www.themachinelive.com/

SEPTEMBER 21 THROUGH 28
Nightlife at Bennigans. 2196 W.
Landis Ave., Vineland, 205-0010.
Karaoke Thursdays with Bob Morgan, 9
p.m.-close. Live music Fridays 9 p.m.midnight. All Sports Packages: Drink
specials seasonally for MLB Extra
Innings, NBA League Pass, NHL Center

Ice, and NFL Sunday Ticket. Call for


RSVP and details.

Nightlife at MVP Sports. 408 Wheat


Rd., Vineland. 856-697-9825. Food and
drink specials all week. Wed.: Pool tournament, cash prizes. Thurs.: DJ Real
Deal. Fri. Ladies Night 9 p.m.

Nightlife at The Centerton. Ten22, The


Centerton Country Club & Event Center,
1022 Almond Rd., Pittsgrove. Tues.: Trivia.
Wed.: Country Night, $5. Every third
Thurs.: Comedy Night, $5. Flashback
Fridays with DJ Scott. Sat.: DJ Moose.

record labels, and toured with international acts. $25-$45. www.levoy.net.

Dan Godbey. Bogarts Bookstore. 210 N.


High St., Millville. Live music. Free. 79 p.m.

EVERY THURSDAY
Jazz Duos. Annata Wine Bar, Bellevue

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 26
3rd Anniversary Gala Event: Martin
Short. Levoy Theatre, 126-130 N. High

Ave., Hammonton, 609-704-9797. Live Jazz


featuring area's best jazz duos. 6:30 9:30 p.m. No cover. RSVP recommended.

St., Millville. 8 p.m. Tickets $75-$150.


www.levoy.net.

Chris Lax. Bogarts Bookstore. 210 N. High


SEPTEMBER 24 THROUGH 27
Nightlife at Old Oar House. Old Oar

St., Millville. Free. 24 p.m.

House Irish Pub. 123 N. High St., Millville,


293-1200. Wed.: Karaoke. Fri.: Kids Dont
Bounce 9 p.m. Sat.: Glen Eric 9 p.m. Sun.:
Megan Knight in the Beer Garden 5 p.m.

Country Dance Night. Summit City


Farms Winery, 500 University Blvd.,
Glassboro. 711 p.m. $5 cover for open
dancing and lessons. DJ Dawn Sharp.
Bring a snack to share.

Nightlife at Ramada. Harry's Pub at


Ramada, W. Landis Ave. and Rt. 55,
Vineland, 696-3800. Wed.: Ladies Night,
1/2 price appetizers all night. Happy Hour
Mon.-Sat, 4-6 p.m. $1 off alcoholic drinks.
Wed.Sat., live entertainment.

Nightlife at Bojos Ale House. 222 N.


High St., Millville, 856-327-8011. Wed.:
Nick@Nite Open Mic 7 p.m. Thurs.: DJ 8
p.m. Fri.: Live music, 9 p.m. Sat.: DJ Gatti 9
p.m. Daily drink and food specials.
EVERY SATURDAY
Back in the Day Dance Party. Villa
Fazzolari, 821 Harding Hwy. (Rt. 40), Buena.
856-697-7101. 7 p.m.midnight. Five hours
nonstop dance music from 1970s and 80s.

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 25
Echoes of Sinatra. Levoy Theatre, 126-

Mulford Dr., Bridgeton. 710 p.m. $5 cover


for open dancing and lessons. DJ Dawn
Sharp.

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 3
Comedy Dinner Show. Merighi's Savoy
Inn, 4940 E. Landis Ave., Vineland, 6918051. Doors open 6 p.m., show at 8 p.m.
Headlining Jeff Pirrami, also Al Caz and
Scott Friedman. Full buffet dinner and show,
benefits CHOP through Alesia Shute
Foundation. Tickets $40, available at
Merighis Savoy and Salon Fabrojae, alesiashute-foundation.ticket.leap.com.

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 4
Maurice River Music Salon Concert.
A residence in the Mauricetown, NJ area..
2:30 p.m. Pianist Ron Levy with special
guest artist, flutist Margaret Swinchoski,
open the 2015-16 season of salon concerts. Seating limited, reservations
required. Donations to assist in covering
expenses will be accepted. To reserve
seats, get directions, or receive more
details call 856-506-0580 or visit
www.mauricerivermusic.com.

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130 N. High St., Millville. 8 p.m. Creator


Steven Kazlauskas, who delveloped the
show in concert with the Tony T.
Orchestra. Pays tribute to the legendary
performer with stories and songs that
bring back the golden era when swing
was king. Members of the group include
talented musicians whove performed on
Broadway and TV, recorded on major

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 2
Country Dance Night. Gia's Catering, 37

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Bridal Guide

FALL

2015

All in the Family


Whether its a Brady Bunch blended
family or just the two of you, your
wedding day is all about creating a new
family unit. The Grapevine has tips and
services for couples and families to
consider from start to finish.
Index of Advertisers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .B-3
Happily-Ever-After Strategies . . . . . . . . . .B-4
Photographing the Group . . . . . . . . . . . . .B-8
Mainstreet Vineland Wedding Weekend . .B-9
Cake Dreams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .B-10
Success Stories . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .B-10
Limo Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .B-12

C O N N E C T I N G YO U TO

S O U T H J E R S E Y. W E E K LY.

Wade and Jessica Loatman, each with


kids of their own plus one together.
PHOTO COURTESY ROBERT ALAN PHOTOGRAPHY

FALL 2015

Bridal Guide
A marriage of more than
two has its unique set of
challengesand joys.
{ BY SHARON HARRIS-ZLOTNICK }

arriage used to define the legal


and emotional bond between a
bride and groom. To an extent, it
also involved the blending of their parents,
siblings and extended family. If they got
along, it was great. If not, they could often
keep a polite distance to avoid any potential
conflicts among them. Traditionally, the
couple married and later established permanent roots by having
children and buying
a home.
Those days are gone, as
society and its marital customs have changed.
Second or third marriages,
whether heterosexual or
same sex, may now involve
one, or both, partners with
children and/or parents
living within the household.
Without careful planning and acceptance,
meshing these multiple
groups of people can prove
challenging at best, and
unsuccessful at worst. The
smarter couples try to
leave nothing to chance.
While no one can predict
the future, they can avoid

the mistake of not discussing and deciding


key issues in advance. Ignoring the realities
of their familial situation often means disastrous consequences as the marriage progresses.
Research and insight on this area of
family dynamics comes from the non-profit, non-partisan Council on Contemporary
Families (CCF), founded in 1996 at the
University of Texas at Austin. The organizations mission is to provide the most current analysis about American families to
the media and the public. Its membership
roster includes diverse professionals,
including demographers, economists, family therapists, historians, political scientists,
psychologists, social workers, sociologists
and communication scholars.
The CCF offers education about how
and why contemporary families are changing. It also defines not only the future
needs and challenges of these families, but
also how to positively meet those needs.

Stacy and Ted Lambert, who


married last October, with
his sons Theo (older boy)
and Jake. Read about them
under Success Stories

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PHOTOGRAPHY

INDEX OF ADVERTISERS
BAKERIES
Crust N Krumbs ....................B8
J&J Deli and Kakes ..............B2

JEWELRY
Dondero Diamonds and Fine
Jewelry ......................................B9

CATERERS
Martins Catering ..................B11

LIMOUSINE SERVICES
Golden Years Limousine ......B11
Touch of Class Limousines ..B9

FINANCIAL SERVICES
Century Savings ....................B3
FORMAL WEAR
Juvante Formal Wear ..........B12
Meadows Bridal ..................B10
Rienzi Bridal Salon ..............B4
The Pin Cushion ..................B10
FLOWERS
Antons Florist ........................B8
Colonial Flowers ..................B11
Savannahs Garden ..............B11
HAIR AND MAKEUP
Cynthia Roberts Salon ..........B2
Frinj Hair Salon ....................B8
Marias Hair Salon ................B4
Salon Fabrojae ......................B9
Salon Promise ......................B12

OFFICIANTS
Costello Weddings ................B10
PHOTOGRAPHY
Robert Alan Photography ....B11
Roxys Photo Booth ............B10
T&F Camera ..........................B5
RECEPTION/PARTIES
Buena Vista Country Club ......B5
Carriage House ..................B6-7
Five Points ..............................B3
Martins Catering ..................B11
Merighis Savoy Inn ..................B8
TANNING SALONS
Cinnamon Bay ....................B12
TENT RENTALS
Rental City ............................B2

INVITATIONS
Sir Speedy ............................B11

in a stepfamily, only nine percent are living


with a stepchild, whereas 46 percent of
remarried men in a stepfamily are living
with a stepchild.
Ironically, the dramatic increase in stepfamilies since 1980 has brought more
acceptability. Manning writes that while
blending the complexities of two families,
the prevalence of these living arrangements
across the U.S. has heightened the awareness of how to deal with issues. Couples
who are educated on these issues may be
better equipped to adjust themselves to
their new living arrangements.

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In her June 2, 2015 briefing paper prepared for the CCF, Wendy Manning, codirector, National Center for Family and
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society, 38 percent of first-time couples
marrying already have a minor child under
18 living at home. That number increases to
46 percent for remarriage. Although the
rate of remarriage has declined significantly since 1990, the majority of remarriages
involve children.
Manning writes, Nearly 63 percent of
women under age 45 in remarriages are living in a stepfamily, but it is far more common for men than for women to be resident stepparents. Among remarried women

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Couples can successfully work their way
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a binuclear stepfamily.
On a graph, the elements of the relationship would appear as overlapping circles of
individuals radiating from the central couple. Their sole point of commonality is
derived from the couple itself. However,
each half has its own individual history of
traits and conduct.
In other words, there are obvious surface variations that may include race, etnicity, religion and geography. These elements
often create subsets within these cultures

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expectations going into it. Abbey Bradway,


MS, LPC, ACS, of the non-profit Kedesh
Counseling Center in Vineland, has counseled couples for almost two decades.
Statistically, the divorce rate among second and third marriages that introduced
stepchildren into the relationship is high.
Bradway claims that research shows that at
least half of all women who marry men
with children would reconsider their
choice. Conversely, since comprehensive
research has not been done for men who
marry women with children, the data is
incomplete.
Bradway states that if couples understand the challenges, it will certainly make
a big difference. This is not like a smoothie...there is nothing smooth about it. The
scenario is often set up so that people dont
think clearly, she says.
She supports an evolving professional
philosophy that is changing the thinking
about family relationship dynamics. Rather
than viewing them as blended families,
Bradway subscribes to the theory that
these marriages actually combine two distinct lifestyle cultures. She replaces the
blended terminology with the concept of

of how the different families behave. The


greater the differences between a couples
cultures, the tougher the adjustment
may be.
There are also more subtle subsets that
may be unique to each partner. Bradway
claims that ones expectations of behavior
can interfere with the success of a stepfamily. That may include their level of discipline,
affection, closeness to external family members, work ethic, money management skills
and a host of additional daily life issues.
She says, People tend to believe that
whatever they grew up with is normal and
often act out of their own perspective.
Successful families seem to also understand
this concept and then strive to accommodate these variations. For example, it is
often preferable that the biological parent
and stepparent co-exist and live together,
but then recognize that the biological parent is an insider to the children while the
stepparent is an outsider.
Bradway cites multiple ways for couples
to appropriately approach life as a stepfamily:
Teach family members a structure of
who is aligned with whom, somewhat like

concentric circles overlaid over one another.


Reject the theory that spending more
time together will improve relations.
Ironically, the opposite may be true.
Togetherness should not be rushed and
developing friendships is a process.
When possible, do things together, but
also recognize the dynamics of the subset.
Regardless of age, children feel a major loss
from a divorce or parents death and have a
loyalty bond to the biological parent.
Talking things through is a must.
Try to understand and respect the differences of the other side that has joined a
family structure.
As part of life, even the most successful
stepfamilies will have disagreements.
Bradway states that the way couples handle
discord may predict the long-term quality

of their relationship. Some research


describes the endurance of a couples conflict style. Fighters will probably continue
to fight; couples with solid negotiating
skills can look forward to a long, happy
marriage. No couple can escape conflict, so
couples that almost never argue may actually be disconnected from their marriages
rather than enjoying healthy relationships.
While disagreements cannot be avoided,
they can clearly be minimized through
smart conflict resolution strategies. In her
book Marriage in Modern Life: Why It
Works When It Works, Dr. Anne Brennan
Malec counsels managing expectations and
maintaining cordial relationships with for-

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When to schedule:
Hair/Make-up for wedding day:
6-12 months prior to wedding
Pre-trial Hair: 2 months prior
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Facials: 1st treatment 2
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2nd treatment 1 month before
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Waxing: 3-7 days before wedding**
Haircut: 1 to 2 weeks before
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Grooms haircut: 1 week before
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Color: 1 week before wedding
Nails/Pedicure: The week of
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On your special day:


Come in with clean, dry,
straight hair unless you been
advised to let hair air dry or diffuse
Bring pictures of desired look
for both hair and makeup.
Come in with clean, moisturized, make-up free face.
Wear button down/easy-off
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Bring all hair accessories.

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when the original duo is at odds. However,
the new couple must never ignore their
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members. As the co-owner of VG Photo in


Vineland with his wife Margarita, Garcia
insists on meeting everyone in the family
prior to scheduling the event.
He says, Our studio is connected to our
home and we require all prospective clients
to consult with us. Margarita and I become
acquainted with the family and learn every-

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Although all other components of a


wedding will end with the final dance of
the day, photography lasts forever and
paints a picture that even the bridal couple
and their families may not fully appreciate.
A blended family scenario requires discretion and attention to detail, as wedding
party/family dynamics may become prominent issues to consider. It is difficult to hide
emotions and attitudes in a photo.
Photographer Vincent Garcia believes
conduct and chemistry are so important
that he may not book a wedding job if he
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The ultimate shopping experience for brides
and grooms, with the chance to win some great
grand prizes, returns to downtown Vineland
when Downtown Wedding Weekend comes to
Landis Avenue for the fifth consecutive year.
Sponsored by Main Street Vineland,
Downtown Wedding Weekend will feature
approximately a dozen downtown businesses
and will occur, rain or shine, on Saturday,
September 26, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on
Landis Avenue. The major sponsors for this
event are Als Shoes and The Banquet Hall at
the Landis Theater. The participating businesses will display the merchandise and services
they can offer to the bride- and groom-to-be.
Find everything from gowns and formal wear, shoes, and jewelry to flowers,
limousine services, nail salons, tanning facilities, and catering services as part
of this special event.
Brides and grooms who visit with least six of the participating vendors
along Landis Avenue will be eligible for prizes, which include a $250 gift certificate from DeSoto Jewelers and more than $700 in gift certificates from
other participating businesses.
This is an exciting way to bring together our downtown businesses and to
show brides, grooms, and everyone the array of shopping choices in downtown
Vineland, said Brian Lankin, Main Street Vineland Promotions Committee
Chairperson, pictured here with the registration form/map in his downtown
store, Als Shoes.
Maps to help people locate participating businesses will be available at any
of the businesses. Most businesses will be participating from their own locations while others will have booths set up at other locations on Landis Avenue.
Part of the mission of Main Street Vineland is to help downtown merchants, including how to market themselves, said Main Street Vineland
Executive Director Russell Swanson. Downtown Wedding Weekend serves
this purpose and also makes the public aware that downtown Vineland has a
variety of businesses to serve all your needs.
For more information, call the Main Street Vineland office at 856-794-8653,
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be a wonderful experience. The Garcias


usually enjoy their assignments so much
that they often end up friendly with their
clients long after the affair is over.
VG Photo typically photographs eight to
10 weddings per season throughout
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operation over a maximum of six hours.
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between them and us important, but they
must also demonstrate positive chemistry
among themselves.
It is often about the maturity level of
the bridal couple and how they expect
their children to behave at any age. These
children often reflect their upbringing,
good or bad.
After more than two decades of photographing weddings, Garcia claims they will
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dressed; next is the ceremony venue and


the final stop is the reception site.
Margarita is also a wedding planner and
often recommends the location.
Garcia says, Following the ceremony,
we give the couple an additional 30 minutes to capture whatever activities they
want to emphasize. Blended families often
include out-of-town relatives, so the wedding may be the only opportunity for everyone to get together. We are open to creative
ideas.
We feel so fortunate to have shared
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Nothing explains how to merge families
better than those who have actually done it.
These two local couples, with very different circumstances, have found a way to
successfully bring their individual family
groups together under one roof.
Lorraine and Aaron Dickel of Vineland
met and began dating in 2005. She had
relocated to Vineland from New York in
1997. He was born and raised in Vineland.
Four of their children knew each other
from school, so these parents met, as many
do, at the school. Between them, they have
seven childrenfive daughters and two sons.
"We took our relationship slowly and
did not date to be selfish. Aaron and I
wanted the kids to approve of our friendship that had grown into a more meaningful relationship. We married on July 29,
2012, says Lorraine.
She admits that challenges and disagreements arose, as they would in any family,

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Metallic Cakes: If an
entire tier is too much glitz
for you, consider adding a
little sparkle all over.
Ruffled Cakes: Skip
the bold patterns and addons in favor of subtle
embellishments with allover sugar ruffles.
Naked Cakes: With the deconstructed cake, you get to show off the
inside.
White-On-White: The fresh new
way to do a white wedding cake is to
add interesting all-white embellishments.
Lace Cakes: Decorated with beautiful designs, reminiscent of the most
gorgeous wedding gowns imaginablelike yours.
Woodland Cakes: Accented with
fresh or lifelike sugar flowers and
leaves.

Geometric
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chevrons,
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fun, fresh twist.
Rosette
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sugar-made
roses all over
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Sugar
Flower Bouquet
Cakes: A new take on wedding cake
flower accents is to cluster sugarmade flowers into a mini-bouquet.
Ombre Cakes: A rich saturated
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Monogrammed Cakes: The idea
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and Jake, almost seven.


The Lamberts split their time with the
boys, who live with their mother in
Pennsylvania. Ted has weekend custody
during the school year and weekday custody in the summer. They are regularly on
the highways, transporting the children
back and forth.
Stacy describes their life as constantly in
motion. She commutes to Moorestown for
her job in fashion for Destination Maternity.
Ted owns the popular Sidelines Sports Bar
in Millville and works staggered hours.
Both in their 30s when they met, the
Lamberts purposely took their time to
develop their relationship.
I grew up two blocks from the Sideline
and had moved to New York in 1999. I
came home for the weekend and went
there to hang out with my friends. Ted runs
a very sociable, friendly bar and he came to
say hello. He took my number, texted me
and our first date did it for us, says Stacy.
Believing it is a mistake to invite kids
in too early, they waited six months before
Ted introduced Stacy to Theo and Jake. She
says that while there were early challenges,
she has come to cherish the children. Stacy

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but objectivity was a vital element.


Lorraine claims that as the children got
older, there was greater communication
among them all.
She states, We had to remain neutral as
parents and never took sides with our own
children. With so many kids, we tried to
ignore the trivial stuff. We expected respect
and got it. Also, we have believed it is so
important to concentrate on our own marriage and the quality of our relationship.
In fact, the kids began to refer to us as
The Parents when it came to discussing
us. Today, they are close enough that when
meeting people who do not know our background, they often introduce [each other]
as sister or brother rather than as stepsiblings.
Today, everyone leads busy lives. Both
Lorraine and Aaron work and only four of
their children are still home. She says,
Everyone is doing their own thing and we
are all together at holidays and family
events. Now adults, the older kids have gone
on with their own lives. We are already
grandparents to an 18-month-old little girl.
Newlyweds Stacy and Ted Lambert of
Millville, married on October 5, 2014, had
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adds that whatever the rest of their week


entails, she and Ted concentrate on their
lives with the boys on the weekends.
"Its all about the boys when they are
here. Since Teds relatives, including his
mother, live in Millville, we regularly take
them over for visits. I miss the boys when
theyre away and would like them to be
with us fulltime.
We have all grown together since they
were so young. Jake doesnt remember a
time when I was not in his life. We are
patient, but also provide discipline. As

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young as they are, Theo and Jake have a real


sense of right and wrong. We teach them
respect and responsibility. Even at their
ages, they have chores to do, says Stacy.
Ted considers himself a fortunate man.
He credits Stacy and her family with
improving not only his life, but also his
childrens lives.
I handle the discipline and my sons are

Limo Logic
Choosing the right limo can be a
cumbersome task. With so many companies and cars to choose from, how
do you pick the right one?
Linda Dixon-Ponzetto, owner of
Golden Years Limousine Service, has
provided a few important factors to
keep in mind when choosing a limousine. Having over 17 years hands-on
experience, she advises you to choose
a company that has experience in the
business.
Also, take the time to see the vehicle you are renting. You might be able
to get a good sense from online photos, but seeing it in person will ensure
you get the exact transportation you
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Price is obviously a major factor.
Limousine companies sometimes have
layers of fees that they add on to your
base rate. Youll see fuel surcharges,

definitely Daddys boys, he says.


However, they turn to Stacy for nurturing.
Whenever they are sick or sad, they call for
Stacy. She has been amazing in how warmly
she has responded. Im also blessed to have
such wonderful in-laws. Stacys parents and
her extended family have really stepped up
to help beyond my wildest dreams. I am
so lucky. I
administration costs, tolls and gratuity
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percent higher than you were quoted.
Linda recommends making sure your
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Safety is a vital factor in your
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Overcrowding is a safety hazard. Some
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by carrying more passengers than
their cars are designed for. Linda recommends counting the number of
seatbelts to find out how many passengers the car is supposed to hold.
All of the vehicles in her fleet carry a
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All of the attendants in Lindas fleet
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