10 Observations on Women From Banging 100

Girls
Last year was an incredible year for me; I traveled a lot of countries across the world and
smashed a lot of exotic girls.
Last year I banged well over 100 girls covering the entire spectrum of personalities: I met
pure angels and I met some of the worst kind too; I smashed virgins and I smashed super
sluts. From each interaction I got something.
In the past year I had some moments when I slowed it down and had a mini relationship,
other times I maintained a group of regulars and sometimes I was smashing a few new
girls a day (Full Month Cunt Hunt). I did exactly what I wanted to do and when I wanted
to do it.
Having this kind of variety not only in types of girls but also in the metre of intensity is
the key to long term traveling and adventuring.
Since January is the month of reflection and making resolutions, Ill look back on some
observations I made from banging a large variety of girls.

1) Dont waste time on chicks that are not

interested

Theres a difference between a girl thats not attracted to you yet versus a girl that is just
not interested in you. You have to know what you are dealing with. Usually this will be

clear from the very first interaction with her. If a girl is not interested in you dont waste
your time trying to convince her otherwise. For nearly all the girls I banged I had some
sign of interest from the very start.
You are better off investing the time you spend trying to convince this one girl thats not
interested in you in finding 10 other girls that are. In fact the harder you try to convince
that girl the worse you make it.
The few times I turned around a cold girl to being interested were actually by softnexting her. Sporadically keep in touch with her and only try to make a move again after
a few months. Maybe her situation has changed and shes now ready to meet you because
you didnt display any neediness at all during that time.
Dont next a girl as soon as you reach an obstacle though; just be wise about your time
investments and dont prioritize the girls that are cold to you from the start.

2) Its 100 times easier to find a new girl than to

repair a fuck up

A lot of newbie questions on game are about how to fix a specific situation with a
specific girl. And that is normal; it is in our nature as men to want to fix and repair things
that are broken. But if you fucked things up with a girl, you are really better off forge tting

about the whole affair and moving on to the next girl, where you can start off with a clean
slate. Just learn from your mistakes!
Over the past year I fucked up a few times and lost some really cool girls.
Examples of fuck ups:

Failing her shit tests

Misreading her signals
Going sexual too early
Not pushing for sex enough
Breaking your frame
Acting incongruently
Some fuck ups can be corrected, if they are not too big and not too often, but once you
reach a threshold and she classifies you as undesirable or unsuited, its game
over. Trying to repair your mistakes will likely make you break your frame and come
across as needy. Even if you manage to repair a situation you will have lost some of
your power in the process and your relationship with her will never be the same again.
Your weaker frame is now the new default.
The best repair when you fuck up with a girl is to move on.

3) You control whether you are put in a lover role

or a provider role

You decide in which role you let yourself be put. You do not want to be put into the
provider role even if youre looking for a LTR (long term relationship). If she sees you as

a provider, she will make you wait for sex and try to get you to spend on her and
eventually she will find another man to fulfill the lover role.
You have to start out as being her lover, she will then start and try to convert you into a
provider (the betaization process). But if you start out as her provider, you can no
longer change into being her lover anymore.
Here are some of the mistakes that can get you labeled as a provider:

Providing for her

This holds up especially is she has means for herself but also if she doesnt. I visited
some really poor countries and sometimes it was tempting to just pay for things. You
absolutely CAN help her out, some girls really couldnt afford paying a taxi or public
transport, but even in those situations you have to make sure she is not thinking of you as
a way to get free stuff. You can help her but only after you have established a connection.
E.g. if you meet a girl online its obviously a bad idea to buy her phone credits before you
even met.

Trying to impress her with your means

Trying to impress a girl is a bad move anyway but trying to impress her with material
things is even worse. The only thing you are achieving when you try to brag about your
possessions or finances is getting her to think how much she can mooch off you.

Not being sexual enough

I made this mistake a few times and I always paid for it dearly. Like that last time, I had
already banged a new girl and had a regular coming over later at night, so I was a little bit
lazy with my current date. I got her to my room but during her LMR routine I got sick of
it and thought: Whatever, Ill get her next time. She interpreted this as me not being
sufficiently sexual and sure enough next time I had a hard time getting her to meet up
again.

She didnt want to come to my place anymore: I want to go to a dinner / I want you to
take me to the movies
You have to push for sex always and you have to get your LMR skills up to level.
Read some more thoughts on pushing for sex in my article on the Power Shift After
Sex: http://swooptheworld.com/the-power-shift-after-sex/

4) You have to fuck her well on the first night

This fits in with being a lover rather than a provider. You have to be congruent with your
role as a lover and be able to please her passionately.
After you go through the whole game of seduction and she has classified you as a lover
and decided to give it up for you, its your turn to deliver and fuck her really well. If you
want to see her again you have continue your lover frame in the bedroom; leave the
romantic love making for her boyfriend or for when you know each other better now
its time for fucking her brains out.

Dominate her and let her feel dominated, she wants to be taken. Make her cum and make
her feel like a woman.
Even if you dont care of seeing her again, you have to make this your default
performance for the first time you smash a girl, its just part of your frame
Read Fistos article how to use sex for more information.

5) Women lie more than men

We all know the beaten to death opener from the PUA-days of yore. The question is
supposed to raise some controversy or polarized opinions, but to me this question is as
debatable as who menstruates more? The more women you get to know and the more
you learn about them, the more obvious this reality becomes.
Besides the normal lies everybody makes (men and women alike) women ADD two full
categories of lies on top of these:
1) Justified lies that she doesnt even register as lies
Women love to appear as innocent little angels and they will lie about anything that could
damage this self view without giving it a second thought. Lies to protect this innocent
identity are automatically justified and she doesnt even consider them to be lies.
For example, it will be very rare for a woman to give you an honest answer on her
number of previous sex partners (read Innocence is a weapon). Like that guy that banged
her on her trip to Jamaica: Didnt count, and that one time she was drunk: That didnt
count either, also that one time the guy just kept insisting: Not her fault, so it doesnt
count. These lies dont even register as lies to her, because she made
herself believe them.
2) Lies she doesnt even realize shes making
Another category of lies that women make are those they dont even realize. Listen to
every single description a woman gives about what her ideal man should be (sweet,
caring, romantic, kind, a gentleman, etc.) or about what shewants (I dont want sex on the
first date, I only want a serious relationship, etc.). Only the fact is that the guy they get
wet for doesnt happen to portray these qualities. No, they are attracted to the guy that

doesnt fall for their bullshit, whos not afraid to show his sexuality and who pushes for
sex on the first date.
But can we really blame women for this? Its just how they are programmed, right? Can
we really blame the lion for eating a baby zebra?
We all have to accept our nature, but women are like lions prancing around the African
savanna claiming they are vegetarian.
When you meet a lion you can trust on its not a vegetarian; the same way can trust that a
woman is not as innocent as she would like to have you believe.

From all the girls I met, none of them were as innocent as they tried to appear. Read:
Dont get fooled by her words or sweet appearance. Which brings us to the next point.

6) DONT listen to a womans words, listen to

her actions

As discussed in the previous point, women often have no clue that they are lying and
some of their lies are not even registered as such; you can never take a womans words
seriously.
In fact when you take a womans words literally or seriously, you will actually be
losing attraction from her.
A perfect example of this is a girls ASD (anti slut defense) or LMR (last minute
resistance). A woman will tell you No, stop! I dont want to have sex with
you!while she is helping you take of her pants in your bed. Should you actually listento
her, she will resent you for it. She will think What a loser, how can he not understand
the signals Im sending him.
Women EXPECT you not to listen to her words and instead read the signs that shes
sending you.
A great example was this girl I had met at a party, I ended up at her place but I forgot my
condoms. She explained me in detail how to get to the 7-11 near her apartment to go and
buy condoms; yet as Im putting on my shoes to head out she tells me: But were not
going to have sex!!! (full story here)

7) You can and should judge a woman by her past

The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior

This maxim holds water especially when it comes to predicting a womans loyalty. The
less men she has slept with before, the more likely she can be a loyal girl, with a huge
drop in the curve between 0 and 1.
There are good girls, sluts and everything in between and its an illusion that many men
love to adapt to believe they can change the nature of a girl. This illusion is false. A
slutty girl can shift upward on the good girl scale, but only a little bit and with a
clear time constraint. The bigger the slut, the smaller this behavioral shift is and the
shorter this time window will be.
Your best guarantee to finding a girl that can remain loyal to you is to find a virgin.
From all the girls Ive slept with in the past year the girls that have been most trustworthy
and loyal are the girls that were virgins.
In contrast, take Kanya for example, one of my regular girls in Thailand. I knew from the
start she was a party girl but I demanded loyalty from her. Even though she was
completely in love with me at that time, I later found out that she had cheated on me
while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. Some girls crave male attention and they
need it like they need oxygen. You cannot change that, you can only control it for a
specific time.
You cant turn a slut into a good girl, even if they are in love

It is up to you to find out what you want from a girl, if loyalty is important to you make
no illusions about changing her nature and just accept your girls as they are.
Fisto wrote a great article on The Nature of Sluts that will be republished soon.

8) Drama is predictable

If you spend enough time with any girl drama is a guarantee. Do not believe that you can
avoid it. There is no such thing as a stable, status quo relationship with a woman.
Relationships are a battlefield where the woman will not cease to claim power over her
man.
She will keep testing his frame to find weaknesses. A womans weapon of choice to do
so is drama.
A good prediction on when to expect drama is ironically after you have been too
nice to her. If a woman senses shes gaining ground with you, she will try to anchor her
gains by eliciting an emotional reaction from you. She will test your boundaries by
starting drama. She doesnt need a direct reason, if she doesnt find a specific trigger, she
will CREATE one. With the drama she will start making demands, e.g. to see her more
often, to spend more time with her, to be monogamous, etc.

Shes testing your reaction to her irrational behavior.

An example from one of my Dominican girls:
It was the first time I had let her sleep over at my place. She was so happy and telling me
how great I am and how much she loved me. She had just acquired a new privilege so I
knew drama was coming. The next day I didnt reply immediately to one of her messages
(this had never been a problem, sometimes I wouldnt respond to her for days) this time
however, she started sending followup messages: Why dont you reply?! You never
have time for me! OK, I will never see you again.
So very predictable. If youre girl is giving you drama always remember what is going on
and dont fall in the trap of trying to solve it with logic. It isnt about the logic for her!
Read some more on drama in http://swooptheworld.com/the-secret-to-never-letting-agirl-affect-your-frame/
There is no such thing as a drama free relationship with a woman: A red pill man
can only rest in his grave.

9) Willingness to walk away & Calling her bluff

One of the best weapons for a man to keep the upper hand in a relationship with a girl is
the willingness to walk away.

A woman can never feel like you need her more than she needs you. There is no such
thing as a healthy, perfectly balanced relationship. One person will always have the
upper hand, one person will always want the other more. You have to make sure
thats its you who has the upper hand.
A girl having the upper hand in a relationship is a recipe for disaster ; a girl cant be
given power over you, she will immediately use it to claim more but she wont be happy
when she gets it. Shell lose respect for you not being able to control her.
As soon as you are in some way dependent on a girl , emotionally or by other means,
she WILL exploit this to establish power over you.
Emotional investment will be exploited
That is why you should never give her full security or commitment and always
display a willingness to walk away from her and the relationship. The best way to do
this is to have options for yourself. Always have many girls in your life. Never make
one girl the priority in your life.
A lot of times women will bluff (drama: you will never see me again!) to test your
reaction. If you have other girls to fall back on, you are much more likely to be
unaffected and call out her bluff by showing your willingness to walk away. She will see
her drama didnt work and come back to you with increased attraction and commitment
and the power balance in the relationship will remain.
Occasionally you may lose a girl and it sucks to lose one of your favorite girls, but you
are better off losing a girl then being controlled by her.
You are better off losing a girl then being controlled by her

10) Women do NOT understand themselves and

you cant explain it to them

Women are unaware of all these messed up behaviors discussed above, they act
impulsively on their emotions and then later try to rationalize their behavior trying to
make sense of it all.
For science I have tried to explain the Red Pill theory and these observations to one of the
most rational and logical (smart!) girls I have met so far; surprisingly she could relate to
it. Less surprisingly this did not impact her behavior in the slightest way. I predicted her
behavior to the letter and still with this information and the goal to proof me wrong she
could not control her emotions and was ashamed to admit I was right. Its a force stronger
than rationality and logic.
More research data is required (working on it) stay tuned for part two covering more
observation.
Peace,
TravelHardcore (THC)