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Still in need of a New Year's Resolution? Why not love yourself for a change? Just
be sure to stick to this one!
First of all, self-love is not that easy as some of you may think. We live in a
society where everyone is practically taught from childhood on to hate
themselves. We have the media right on our necks about how we should look,
how we should dress, how we should behave, how we should talk, frankly, the list
goes on. It's not just the media and the people behind them, it's also that almost
everyone is being greatly influenced by what the media says. Our society puts up
unrealistic standards and it is expected of us to abide by these rules to be
acceptable and doing so is just impossible. We've been taught that self-love is
taboo and the act of self-love may be selfish when in truth, it is nothing like it.
have and once we've seen that others have it better than we do, we'd go spiraling
back into self-pity and self-hate.
Now I'm telling you about self-love and self-acceptance not because I have
perfected the art of loving one's self but because I am like you who tried to put
up to everyone else's expectations but mine. I hopelessly aimed to match up to
the society's idea of a girl. However, I had an epiphany once and I never looked
back again. It was when I was at my lowest point, I just graduated university and
just months in, I was not accepted for regularization at where I was working and
I was jobless. I somehow stopped contacting my friends, I don't even go online to
chat with them. I hated using any form of social media sites because every time I
see my friends' posts about how happy they are with their work, I feel much
sadder. I was at a point where I was so ashamed of myself, I hated myself for not
holding on to a good paying job just like how a good daughter should.
[Be a dreamer. Dream of the impossible and make them come true. Find
something youll look forward to always. Set a never-ending list of goals. Tick
something off that list each day. Find your purpose. Work towards achieving what
you have always dreamed of. Enjoy the moment. Dream again. Photo of sunset
as seen through some grass.]
[You are amazing and wonderful, always remember that. You are strong,
beautiful, and intelligent. Its okay to be different. You got your own path. Hang
on to your dreams and make them come true. You got to believe in yourself, you
can do it. Its okay if you venture on your own. Its okay not to have what others
have. Its okay to hope, but all you need is to have faith in yourself. No one can
define your worth but you. Love and accept yourself. You are a gem and if
someone cant see that in you then might as well leave them behind. You are
great. You only need yourself and your aspirations in order to be happy. Never
forget that you are extraordinary. Believe it. Live by it. Photo of a sunset
reflecting over a lake surrounded by a forest]
[You are amazing, just as you are. Its okay to be sad. Its okay to be happy. Its
okay to be alone. Its okay to feel lonely and desire company. Its okay to be
different. The world may never agree but that does not mean you cant exist
because you are here, alive. Never let anyone tell you how you should be and
what you should be doing. Your path is different from everyone else and you can
go whichever way you want. Dont copy others because there is a great path set
out for you to discover. It may be dark and cold sometimes. Its just a matter of
enjoying your journey and making discoveries about yourself and your resilience.
You are stronger that you think. You have come this far. It is okay to pause for a
while as long as you keep coming back. You will meet people along the way and
most of them will only stay for a while. You might meet someone wholl stay with
you even if it gets difficult but things could change and youll be venturing on
your own again. Its fine too. You might get hurt in the end but at least you had a
great journey. Photo of clear sky behind some twigs and leaves.]
[You dont need anyone but yourself to be happy. Happiness is in what you do,
how you choose to be, and not in the people youre or youre not with. You are
beautiful. You are amazing. You dont need anyone to feel loved. Love yourself.
You deserve it. Consider this day the greatest day of your life, when you finally
learned to love and accept yourself, and know that you would do great even
without the people you thought you cant live without. People come and go
sometimes and youll only have yourself. Trust yourself. Theres an infinite list of
possibilities and you get to choose. You are extraordinary. You define your own
worth. You can do anything. You can be everything that you want to be. Define
yourself and live your life however you want it. Photo of a starry night sky seen
through some trees ]
Now, if you have decided to pursue self-love, take this as your first assignment.
Tell yourself these: "I love you." Just three simple words but trust me, it does
wonders.
Now once you've done that, for your second assignment, get a piece of paper or
whatever logging device you have and list down all the things that you want to
do. One by one, do something from that list. What's stopping you? If there is,
address that and live a life to your expectations. What is it that you've always
wanted to do? Do that. And remember, no matter what you're set out to do, if
you think it will be good for you, do it. Do things on your own accord. Own your
decisions. Love yourself and be happy!
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