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The Wedding Day - A Day of Commitment for life time, a bridge to provide
the bride and groom an opportunity to make promises to each other.
A ceremony which make the Boy A MAN to his Wife & A Girl into A WOMAN
for her Husband to fulfill those promises form the basis of their marriage,
therefore a proper care should be taken in being firm that- the promises, if
kept, will make their marriage fulfilling and secure, this then gives an official
right to them being the husband and wife.
The entire wedding ceremony emphasizes and clarifies those promises to the
Guests, Friends and Family present there.
The wedding ceremony should focus wedding values & attention on what the
bride and groom will be promising to each other. Also it should be a guide for
guests who may have forgotten their own pledges. Many who attend
weddings sermons should find recommitting themselves to each other when
the purpose of the ceremony at Pheras or at the time of Nikha Khutba or at
the time of wedding vows it is made clear.
The relationship between spouses, which brings love, harmony, trust and
compassion, in the most moving and eloquent terms:- is the strongest of
bonds, in which God unites the two, who come together on the basis of love,
understanding, co-operation and mutual advice, and establish a family in
which children will live and grow up, and they will develop the good
character and behavior to become a strongest component of a society when
its members are productive and constructive, helping and encouraging one
another to be good and righteous, and competing with one another in good
works.
We all know in church weddings a priest asks the bride & the groom: - Will
they live together in the covenant of marriage? And will they love each other,
comfort, honor each other and keep in joy and in sorrow, in plenty and in
want, in sickness and in health, and they should be faithful to each other so
long as they both live.
Once a couple has accepted each other as a marriage partner, when a Nikha
Nama is singed as an official traditional marriage contract the marriage is
sealed, and the gathered congregation may bless them; they sing the oath: Bride:
Groom:
These and similar vows emphasize in The Seven Vows of Hindu tradition
Saath pheras have proven to be very valuable over the centuries.
The Seven Vows:
Groom:
You will offer me food and be helpful in every way. I will cherish
you and provide welfare and happiness for you and our children.
Bride:
I am responsible for the home and all household
responsibilities.
Groom:
Bride:
Groom:
Bride:
Groom:
Bride:
Groom:
Bride:
Groom:
Bride:
Groom:
Bride:
We are now husband and wife, and are one. You are mine and I
am yours for eternity.
As God is witness, I am now your wife. We will love, honor and
cherish each other forever.
As we all know wedding is a religious & social affair so it also has values
added to make it more comprehensive, a bond which remains there for a
lifetime complementing each other in all phases of the time span..
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