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REFORMS IN MARRIAGE RELATED LAWS

FOR ENSURING PREVAILING OF LEGITIMACY IN RELATIONSHIPS, UP HOLDING INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE, INDUCING RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOUR
IN YOUTH TOWARDS PARENTS, FAMILY & SOCIETY, CONTAINING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & CRIMES FOR HEALTHY LIFE, PRODUCTIVITY & NATION

**Creation of centralised National data bank of married couple for preventing men/women
to cheat others by marrying again when they are already married, useful in establishment of
legitimate stay by couple in hotels/guest houses, to prevent adultery/ prostitution.
**Creation of centralised National data bank of live in relationship couples for prevailing of
honesty in relationships, upholding trust in couple, prevention of adultery/ prostitution.
**Creation of centralised National data bank of divorce in process/granted couple for
ensuring sustenance of marriage, preventing re-marriage before getting divorce; criminal
offence to enter relationship with other persons when divorce in process; corpus fund to
reward persons revealing adultery/ bigamy: Fixed no. of hearings in court to grant divorce,
deposition of compensation amount in Govt. account, dispensation by Govt. to ex wife.
**Creation of 24/7, National toll free real time multi lingual marriage counselling centre for
both genders to hear out marriage related issues and suggest ways & means to followed for
sustenance of marriage, all callers given unique id number; district wise, mandal/ block wise
marriage counselling centres for in person counselling for critical cases before applying to
divorce, for applying divorce, going through online call centre counselling, personal
counselling and transcripts of the calls, personal advice received and result of applying
advices in mandatory, for going to courts, to reduce happing of divorce cases, reduce
courts time, quicker pronouncement of divorces
**Mandatory pre-marriage registration, approval from marriage registrar for going ahead
for marriage; mandatory to furnish the details of maritorial status, all phone & social media
contacts, bank account details, their assets, planned expenditure for marriage, source of
funds for such marriage expenditure etc ; Mandatory for all marriage related service
providers to register with marriage registration authority in that district/city, should provide
service to the couple only after getting the pre marriage approval number; Incentives for
performing Traditional Marriages for preserving, carry forwarding culture & customs
**Mandatory submission of marriage expenditure statement & gifts received by couple;
Mandatory for gift presenters to provide declaration of value, purpose, relation
**Right to know Total income, Source of Income, expenditure and assets of un married child
by parents, in case of married by spouse, Mandatory to disclose such information every
quarter/ half year by unmarried son/daughter, wife & husband
**Mandatory operation of joint bank account & joint assets by parents & un married child till
he/she married, after marriage between wife & husband, all income earned by both
automatically transfer to joint account, limit for expenditure for each can be fixed mutually
** Life imprisonment for pre matrimonial sex, criminal offence for indulging in love, love
letters, proposals by aged below 21 years, by un employed youth irrespective of age.
** Mandatory introduction of religious teachings, spirituality, practice of meditation, yoga as
part of school/ college daily curriculum for inducing values, morals & ethics
** Mandatory disclosure of gender, age, marital status, straight/ homo sex in social media s
**Creation of National centralised data bank of persons convicted/ accused in heinous crime
of rape, dowry harassment cases, domestic violence, or in case of any other marriage
related crime like adultery etc irrespective of gender; sending message to friends of accused
as in phone address book, on social media, in native place/ village of the accused to name&
shame such crime was committed by such person belonging to this family, this village.
**Attachment of properties of the accused in cases of crimes against women and auction the
properties on final judgement of highest court and either the money accumulated should be
given to the victim or in case of general crimes then to government corpus fund.
**Mandatory tests for HIV/STD, for both groom & bride for applying for PMR, Mandatory
test for sexual dysfunctional / potency test for male before applying for PMR
** Mandatory disclosure of invitees of marriage functions with contact & address details,
mandatory obligation of the invitees to go through details disclosed by bride & groom from
PMR website, reveal to authorities in case found wrong, concealed information, otherwise
invitees are penalised, in case of any crime, part of Social Obligation/ Audit.
**Mandatory Social obligation of public/ relatives/friends to reveal to government when
they are aware their friends or neighbours indulging in criminal acts like dowry harassment,
Domestic violence, indulging in Adultery, pre/ extra matrimonial affairs, aged below 21
persons indulging in smoking, consuming alcohol, drugs, writing/ sending proposals of love
etc, else they are liable for not disclosing the truth to govt. even though they are aware of it.

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[1] INTRODUCTION
[2] NEED FOR CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF MARRIED COUPLE AND DIVORCED COUPLE RECORDS
[3] MANDATORY PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION CERTIFICATION/ APPROVAL FOR PERFORMING/
SOLEMNIZATION OF MARRIAGE
[4] NEED FOR DETAILED DECLARATION FROM PERSONS WILLING TO MARRY FOR ENSURING
HONESTY, TRUTHFULNESS, & LEGITIMACY PREVAILS AT ALL TIMES
[5] ENACTING LAW FOR MANDATORY DISCLOSURE OF AFFAIRS PHYSICAL OR MENTAL, OF
PROSPECTIVE BRIDE AND GROOM, IN LIVE IN RELATIONS PRIOR TO MARRIAGE IN THE PRE
MARRIAGE REGISTRATION SUBMISSION
[6] MANDATORY OATH BY PARENTS / BRIDE & GROOM FOR WILL NOT TAKE DOWRY, WILL NOT GIVE
DOWRY IN CASH/KIND, OATH ON THEIR RELIGIOUS GODS & ON THE BRIDE & GROOM & ON
THEIR CHILDREN
[7] MANDATORY TO HAVE MINIMUM FINANCIAL SECURITY FOR BRIDE/GROOM
ENTER LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP

TO GET MARRIED/

[8] MANDATORY THAT ANY MARRIAGE RELATED FUNCTIONS/ RITUALS WHETHER FORMAL OR
INFORMAL MUST START ONLY AFTER GETTING PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION (PMR) NUMBER
[9] MEASURES FOR REGULATING
ARRANGEMENTS MADE

SUDDEN

CANCELLATION

OF

MARRIAGES

AFTER

ALL

[10]
MANDATORY DECLARATION BY BRIDE & GROOM WHETHER THEY ARE STRAIGHT SEX OR
HOMOSEXUAL, IN PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION DECLARATION ; IN CASE FOUND LATER
INDULGED IN HOMOSEXUALITY PRIOR TO MARRIAGE/ AFTER MARRIAGE HE/SHE SHOULD GET
LIFE IMPRISONMENT. MERE DECLARATION OF HOMOSEXUALITY SHOULD NOT ATTRACT ANY
PUNISHMENT.
[11]
MANDATORY HIV & STD CLEARANCE CERTIFICATE FROM GOVERNMENT HOSPITALS FOR
PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION; STD PARENTS CAN MARRY AFTER FULLY GOT CURED, HIV
PATENTS CAN MARRY ONLY HIV PARENTS NOT HEALTHY OPPOSITE SEX.
[12]
MANDATORY FOR GETTING CLEARANCE FOR NO IMPOTENCY (DYSFUNCTION
REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS) FOR MALE FOR APPLYING PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION

OF

[13]
MANDATORY TO FIX THE MAXIMUM AGE GAP BETWEEN BRIDE AND GROOM TO GET
MARRIED; THE GAP SHOULD NOT BE MORE THAN 20 YEARS IN MARRIAGES OR IN LIVE IN
RELATIONS.
[14]
MANDATORY FOR SOCIAL MEDIA SERVICE PROVIDERS TO CORROBORATE PROFILES WITH
VOTER ID CARD OF USERS FOR AUTHENTICATION OF ACCOUNT USER; MANDATORY TO UPDATE
THE STATUS OF THE INDIVIDUAL BY DEFAULT FROM SOURCING INFO FROM REGISTRAR OF
MARRIAGES THE AGE, GENDER, THE SEXUALITY I.E STRAIGHT OR HOMO SEXUAL ALONG WITH
LATEST PASSPORT PHOTO SHOULD BE DISPLAYED ON THE PROFILE
[15]
MANDATORY FOR MATRIMONIAL ADVERTISEMENTS TO VERIFY THE DETAILS OF STATUS
OF THE INDIVIDUAL AND ALSO THE CRIMINAL CASES SHOULD BE MANDATORILY MENTIONED IN
THE MARRIAGE PROFILE.
[16]
MANDATORY REGISTRATION OF ALL PRIESTS PERFORMING MARRIAGES, NO MARRIAGES
IS VALID IF IT IS NOT PERFORMED EITHER BY THE PRIEST OR GET MARRIED IN FRONT OF
MARRIAGE REGISTRAR, ALL MARRIAGES SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST 5 WITNESSES ON BOTH SIDES,
STRICTER PUNISHMENTS FOR CONCEALING INFORMATION BY PRIESTS/ WITNESSES.
[17]
MANDATORY FOR ALL MARRIAGE RELATED SERVICE PROVIDERS TO GET REGISTER WITH
MARRIAGE REGISTRAR.

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MANDATORY MENTION/ DISPLAY OF PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION UNIQUE ID NUMBER
IN ALL MARRIAGE FUNCTIONS.
[19]
MAKING IT MANDATORY ANY GIFT PRESENTED ON ANY OCCASION TO ANY ONE, SHOULD
ISSUE A SELF DECLARATION IN STANDARD FORMAT.
[20]
AMENDING LAW FOR SIMPLIFYING AFFIDAVIT SUBMISSION ONLINE USED FOR VARIOUS
PURPOSES , ESPECIALLY MARRIAGE RELATED PURPOSES
[21]
MANDATORY THAT GOVERNMENT VERIFY STATUS OF NRI BRIDES/ GROOMS IN THEIR
RESPECTIVE COUNTRIES THROUGH INDIAN EMBASSIES IN THAT COUNTRY WHERE THEY ARE
RESIDING FOR GRANTING PERMISSION FOR MARRYING ANY INDIAN RESIDENT BRIDE/GROOM,
FOR PREVENTING CHEATING / DECEIVING, ALSO FOR PREVENTING POOR GIRLS/WOMEN IN
MUSLIM COMMUNITY GETTING MARRIED TO ARAB SHAKES, FOR FEW MONTHS, LATER ON THEY
VANISH, SPOILING THE LIFE OF YOUNG GIRLS/WOMEN.
[22]
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF LIST OF INVITES, TO THE MARRIAGE FUNCTIONS ALONG
WITH THEIR CONTACT DETAILS, AND ADDRESS; FIXING RESPONSIBILITY ON THE RELATIVES IF
THEY DO NOT REVEAL ANY CONCEALED INFORMATION KNOWN TO THEM REGARDING BRIDE/
GROOM OR THEIR FAMILY AS PER DATA OF THE PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION; INDIRECT WAY
OF CONDUCTING SOCIAL AUDIT ON THE COUPLE.
[23]
MANDATORY FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM TO MENTION TWO NEIGHBOURS IN THEIR
PLACE OF LIVING EITHER ADJACENT TO THEIR HOUSE, FOR MULTIPLE ADVANTAGES; ALSO
MAKING IT A SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY OF NEIGHBOURS TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND ACT AS
WATCH DOGS
[24]
ENCOURAGEMENT / REWARD FOR INFORMERS FOR REVELLING UNDISCLOSED/
CONCEALED INFORMATION/ FALSE INFORMATION SUBMITTED IN MARRIAGE DECLARATION
DURING PMR PROCESSING.
[25]
MANDATORY TRAINING/ COUNSELLING OF PROSPECTIVE COUPLE AFTER PRE MARRIAGE
REGISTRATION UNIQUE ID FOR ENABLING THEM TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER FOR BETTER
HARMONIOUS RELATION, HOME MANAGEMENT AFTER MARRIAGE
[26]
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF TENTATIVE EXPENDITURE PLANNED FOR MARRIAGE,
SOURCE OF FUNDS FOR MARRIAGE, FOR GETTING PRE MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE.
[27]
ENACTING LAW LIMIT FOR FIXATION OF MARRIAGE EXPENSES BASED ON THE INCOME
GROUP OF THE BIDE AND GROOM; MAKING IT A CRIMINAL OFFENCE FOR PERFORMING
MARRIAGE BEYOND THEIR FINANCIAL CAPABILITY OF THE PARENTS OF BRIDE/GROOM WHO
EVER PERFORMING MARRIAGE;
[28]
BANK LOANS WITH LOW INTEREST RATE FOR MARRIAGES WITH 75% IN DEBIT CARD,
25% CASH, DEBIT CARD USED FOR OBTAINING MARRIAGE RELATED SERVICES.
[29]
CREATION OF CORPUS FUND FOR MARRIAGES OF BRIDES & GROOMS BELONGING TO BPL
FAMILIES
[30]
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF EXPENDITURE INCURRED ON MARRIAGE WITH DETAILED
BREAK UP STATEMENT BY PARENTS OF BRIDE & GROOM / COUPLE WITHIN 7 DAYS OF MARRIAGE.
[31]
RECOVERY OF EXPENDITURE INCURRED ON SECURITY ARRANGEMENTS FOR ELECTED
REPRESENTATIVES/ CELEBRITIES VISITING MARRIAGE FUNCTIONS.
[32]
INCENTIVES, TAX CONCESSION FOR MARRYING IN A TRADITIONAL MANNER, FOLLOWING
THE RELIGIOUS CUSTOMS OF THEIR RELIGION AND REGION.

[33]

INCENTIVES FROM GOVERNMENT FOR MARRYING FARMERS CHILDREN/ TRADITIONAL ARTISANS

CHILDREN FOR ENSURING THE AGE OLD TRADITIONS ARE CARRIED FORWARD FOR NEXT
GENERATION; INCENTIVES FOR MARRYING WIDOWS, MANDATORY RE MARRIAGE FOR YOUNG
WIDOWS

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ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR CREATING RIGHT TO KNOW TOTAL INCOME, SOURCE OF INCOME /
EARNINGS/ ASSETS OF THE SPOUSE EACH OTHER, ALSO BY PARENTS IN CASE OF UNMARRIED
YOUTH; MANDATORY MAINTENANCE OF EXPENDITURE STATEMENT AND UP DATE EVERY DAY BY
ALL INCOME EARNERS

[35]
ENACTMENT OF LAW MAKING IT MANDATORY FOR BOTH WIFE AND HUSBAND JOINTLY
FILE EQUALITY PLANNER IN AN EXCEL SHEET WITH BIFURCATIONS OF WORK ALLOCATION,
WHO PERFORMED WHICH WORK FOR ENSUING BOTH WIFE AND HUSBAND IN A MARRIAGE
SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES EQUALLY WITH MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING, FOR ESTABLISHMENT OF
EQUALITY OF BOTH GENDERS AND REDUCTION OF DOMINATION OF ONE OVER OTHER DIRECTLY
OR INDIRECTLY TO LEAD BY EXAMPLE, THE FIRST STEP IN ESTABLISHMENT OF SOCIAL EQUALITY
[36]
MAKING IT MANDATORY TO OPERATE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT FOR MARRIED COUPLE, ALL
EXPENDITURE SHOULD BE FROM JOINT ACCOUNT ONLY, WITH EQUAL EXPENDITURE LIMIT FOR
BOTH INDIVIDUALLY, OVER AND ABOVE JOINT SIGNATURE.
[37]
ALSO MANDATORY THAT ALL ASSETS PURCHASED AFTER MARRIAGE SHOULD BE JOINTLY
BY WIFE AND HUSBAND
[38]
ENACTMENT OF LAW MAKING IT MANDATORY THAT TILL MARRIAGE THE CHILDRENS
SHOULD HAVE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT FOR MONITORING OF THEIR EXPENDITURE BY PARENTS,
ALSO ALL ASSETS PURCHASED TILL THE CHILD GETS MARRIED SHOULD BE IN THE JOINT NAME
OF PARENTS AND UN MARRIED CHILD.
[39]
MANDATORY RESPONSIBILITY OF EVERY MARRIED COUPLE TO PAY PART OF THEIR
EARNINGS FOR BASIC LIVING OF THEIR OLD AGE PARENTS. THIS PAYMENT THOUGH AUTO
DEDUCTION IN SALARY /INCOME FROM BANK ACCOUNT.
[40]
MANDATORY RESPONSIBILITY OF THE SON/ DAUGHTER THE RESPONSIBILITY OF HEALTH
CARE OF THEIR PARENTS
[41]
ENACTING LAW FOR MANDATORY VISIT TO PARENTS HOME BY THE MARRIED COUPLE
ALONG WITH CHILDREN AT LEAST ONCE IN A YEAR FOR WEEK DAYS ON ANY OCCASIONS
[42]

CREATION OF MORE OLD AGED HOMES

[43]
MANDATORY FOR ALL COUPLES WHETHER MARRIED OR IN LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP TO
REGISTER WITH GOVERNMENT SOON AFTER BECOME PREGNANT; STRICTER PUNISHMENTS FOR
ILLEGITIMATELY TERMINATING PREGNANCY
[44]
MANDATORY SALE OF PREGNANCY TERMINATION KITS, MEDICINE ONLY AFTER QUOTING
THE MARRIED COUPLE ID NUMBER, LIVES IN RELATION ID NUMBER. HOW EVER CONDOM
CONTRACEPTIVES CAN BE SOLD WITHOUT ANY RESTRICTIONS.
[45]

ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR PROTECTING THE MARRIAGES OF CHILDLESS COUPLES

[46]
AMENDING LAW FOR ADOPTION; BAN ON PRIVATE / NGO ADOPTION CENTRES; ALL
ADOPTION CENTRES SHOULD BE RUN BY GOVERNMENT.
[47]
MANDATORY FOR MEDICAL CHECK UP FOR MARRIED COUPLE/ LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS,
EVERY HALF YEARLY, MANDATORY TO MAINTAIN MEDICAL RECORDS OF THEIR CHILDREN, ISSUE
OF SMART CARD FOR CHILD HEALTH RECORDS, PERIODIC CHECK HEALTH CHECKUPS.
[48]

MEASURES FOR CONTAINING HAPPENING OF DOWRY

[49]
CREATION OF CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF OUT OF COURT SETTLEMENTS OF DOWRY
HARASSMENT CASES
[50]
MANDATORY FOR GOVERNMENT TO CREATE THE CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF DOWRY
HARASSMENT CASES PENDING IN COURTS ANY WHERE IN COURTS, CONVICTS DETAILS AND THE
FAMILY TREE OF THE CONVICTS, PENDING CASES.

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CREATION OF DISTRICT WISE PSYCHIATRIC COUNSELLING CENTRES TO TREAT MARRIAGE
RELATED DISORDERS, ESPECIALLY THE DISORDER OF SUSPICION OF CHARACTER OF SPOUSE
[52]
ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR CONTAINING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, AND CREATION OF
AWARENESS OF VIGILANT-ARIAN-ISIM/ INFORMER NETWORK, AND INCENTIVES FOR REVEALING
INFORMATION REGARDING OCCURRENCE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE; PUNISHMENT FOR NON
REPORTING OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, ANY ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES BY THE NEIGHBOURS, DOMESTIC
HELP, SERVANTS, RELATIVES, ONUS SHOULD LIE ON THEM TO PROVE THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF
SUCH INCIDENCE TO MAKE THEM ACT AS WHISTLEBLOWERS.
[53]
NEED FOR EXPANSION OF SCOPE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE; EXPANSION OF SCOPE OF
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TO INCLUDE THE HARASSMENT BY DISGRUNTLED YOUNG WIFES ON THE
IN LAWS, CROOK SONS ON THEIR PARENTS BY LISTING FALSE ALLEGATIONS OF THE WIFES
[54]
ENACTING LAW THAT ANY OF MARRIED PARTNER CAN NOT STAY AWAY FOR MORE THAN
30 DAYS OUT OF HOME, WITH EXCEPTION TO SOME PROFESSIONS. ; MARRIED WOMEN SHOULD
HAVE RIGHT TO SAY WITH HER PARENTS FOR 30 DAYS IN A YEAR; FORMULATION OF RULES
UNDER WHICH CIRCUMSTANCES MARRIED COUPLE CAN DENY PARTICIPATING IN SEX, FOR
BETTER UNDERSTATING EACH OTHERS RIGHTS FOR BUILDING CONSCIOUS AND HARMONY IN
MARRIED LIFE, REDUCTION OF SEXUAL HARASSMENT AT WORK PLACE, ACHIEVING MORE
PRODUCTIVITY DUE STABLE MIND.
[55]
CREATION OF MULTI LINGUAL TOLL FREE NUMBER FOR PRE DIVORCE COUNSELLING
ONLINE REAL TIME, MANDATORY FOR ALL WHO WISH TO GO FOR DIVORCE TO CALL THE
NUMBER, FOLLOW THE ADVISE AND IN EXTREME CASES GO FOR PERSONAL COUNSELLING,
AFTER EVERY EFFORT GOT EXHAUSTED GO FOR FILING OF COURT CASE, TO FILE COURT CASES
IN DIVORCE, BOTH PARTIES MUST MENTION THE UNIQUE ID NUMBER OF PRE DIVORCE
COUNSELLING
[56]
DISTRICT WISE / MANDAL WISE PRE DIVORCE PERSONAL COUNSELLING CENTRES; NEED
FOR REDUCTION OF TIME GAP FOR GRANTING DIVORCE FROM 3 YEARS OF SEPARATION TO ONE
YEAR; SEPARATE FAST TRACK COURTS FOR DIVORCE CASES; FIXED NO OF HEARINGS TO
DECIDE CASE.
[57]
CENTRALISED SYSTEMS TO MONITOR THE MONITORY COMPENSATION DISPOSAL;
AMENDING LAW FOR REPLACING THE EXISTING PRACTICE OF AWARDING THE COMPENSATION IN
DIVORCE CASES AT THE WILL/ WISDOM OF JUDGES TO MAKING A FIXED PERCENTAGE OF
COMPENSATION FROM INCOME EARNED AND FIXED PERCENTAGE OF COMPENSATION FROM THE
VALE OF ASSETS, WHICH SHOULD BE SAME FOR ALL DIVORCE CASES IRRESPECTIVE OF INCOME
GROUP/ RELIGION; NO DIVORCE/ BREAK UP APPLICATION WHEN THE WOMEN PARTNER IS
PREGNANT, ONLY AFTER DELIVERING CHILD THEY MAY APPLY; FEMALE CHILD SHOULD BE
RAISED BY MOTHER MANDATORILY.
[58]
CRIMINAL OFFENCE TO MARRY, ENTER INTO LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE CASE OF
DOWRY, DIVORCE PENDING FOR FINAL JUDGEMENT FROM THE HIGHEST COURT.
[59]
ENACTMENT OF LAW RESTRICTING MAXIMUM NUMBER OF MARRIAGES, OR LIVE IN
RELATIONS ONE INDIVIDUAL CAN IN HIS/HER LIFE TIME BE RESTRICTED TO TWO IRRESPECTIVE
OF RELIGION.
[60]
ENACTING LAW, MAKING IT A CRIMINAL OFFENCE FOR ONLOOKERS FOR NOT ACTING TO
STOP CRIME, HELP THE VICTIMS IN THE VIOLENCE/CRIME AGAINST WOMEN. REWARD FOR
PERSONS COMING FORWARD TO HELP THE WOMEN
[61]
MEASURES TO CONTAIN ADULTERY; ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR LIFE IMPRISONMENT FOR
ADULTERY; CONFISCATION OF PROPERTIES WHEN PERSON INDULGED IN ADULTERY AND ON
CONVECTION, GOVERNMENT SHOULD AUCTION SUCH PROPERTIES AND THE MONEY
ACCUMULATED SHOULD GO TO THE GOVERNMENT RELIEF FUND. TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT
FOR GOVERNMENT/ PRIVATE EMPLOYEES, PERSON RECEIVING GOVERNMENT BENEFITS SHOULD
LOSE THEM PERMANENTLY.
[62]
ENACTMENT OF LAW GIVING RIGHTS OF WOMEN IN ADULTERY CASES, FOR ALL FUTURE
CASES

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GOVERNMENT MUST ALTER THE DEFINITION OF TERM CONSENSUAL SEX WHICH CAN BE
REFERRED ONLY TO LEGITIMATE COUPLE.
[64]
CENTRALISED DATA BANK OF CONVICTED IN CRIMINAL CASES RELATED TO ATROCITIES
AGAINST WOMEN, MANDATORY DISPLAY OF THE ACCUSED, CONVICTED DETAILS IN THE NATIVE
VILLAGE, IRRESPECTIVE OF PLACE OF CRIME HAPPENED WHETHER IN THE SAME SATE OR OTHER
STATE, TO NAME AND SHAME THE CRIMINALS, SENDING SMS TO ALL CONTACTS IN THE PHONE
NUMBERS OF ACCUSED, CONVICTED, PUTTING IN SOCIAL MEDIA CONTACTS OF THE ACCUSED,
CONVICTED IN CRIMES AGAINST WOMEN TO NAME AND SHAME.
[65]
FREEZING OF THE ASSETS OF ACCUSED IN CRIMINAL CASES AGAINST WOMEN
ESPECIALLY IN HEINOUS CRIMES OF RAPE, ACID ATTACKS, AND DOWRY HARASSMENT CASES, IN
CASE OF CONVECTION THE ASSETS SHOULD BE AUCTIONED AND THE MONEY SHOULD BE GIVEN
TO THE VICTIM
[66]
MANDATORY MENTION OF INDIVIDUAL, FAMILY STATUS WITH MARRIAGE REGISTRATION
NUMBER, LIVE IN REGISTRATION NUMBER IN RENTAL AGREEMENTS, MANDATORY TO REVEL
DETAILS OF PERSONS STAYING IN THAT HOUSE, THEIR RELATION WITH THE PERSON TAKING ON
RENT, ETC; ALL RENTALS SHOULD BE GIVEN AFTER DUE VERIFICATION OF THE STATUS OF THE
INDIVIDUAL, FAMILY, TO CONTAIN BIGAMY, EXTRA MATRIMONIAL AFFAIRS, ADULTERY,
PROSTITUTION, IN CASE OF FOUND SUCH ILLEGITIMATE ACTS HAPPENING THE OWNERS ALSO
LIABLE FOR PUNISHMENT. ALSO PERSONS LIVING IN OWN HOUSE SHOULD SUBMIT ANNUALLY
THAT WHO ARE STAYING IN THEIR HOUSE, THEIR RELATION. ETC.
[67]
MEASURES TO CONTAIN PROSTITUTION, STRICTER PUNISHMENTS FOR PARTICIPATION IN
PROSTITUTION, GOVERNMENT/PRIVATE EMPLOYEE CAUGHT IN PROSTITUTION SHOULD
PERMANENTLY LOOSE TO DO JOB/ EMPLOYMENT IN ANY ORGANISATION IN LIFE TIME, ALSO FOR
TRUCK DRIVERS LOSE THE DRIVING LICENCE PERMANENTLY, FOR STUDENTS DEBARRED FROM
PURSING EDUCATION, NO EMPLOYMENT, FOR MNREGA EMPLOYEES CANCELATION OF JOB CARDS
AND OTHER GOVERNMENT BENEFITS, ALSO USE OF RELIGIOUS GROUPS TO PREACH/ PURIFY/
SANCTIFY PEOPLE INVOLVED IN PROSTITUTION COME BACK FOR DIGNITY OF LIVING FOR
BRINING PROSTITUTES INTO MAIN STREAM LIVING, SELF EMPLOYMENT, SHG FOR THOSE WHO
LEAVE PROSTITUTION IN ADDITION PROVIDING PUCCA HOUSE IN THE NATIVE PLACE AS A PART
OF REHABILITATION.
[68]

LEGALISING PROSTITUTION FOR MULTIPLE BENEFITS

[69]
MANDATORY MAINTENANCE OF CENTRALISED DATA BANK OF HIV PATENTS, STD
DISEASES BY GOVERNMENT WITHOUT MAKING PUBLIC, ONLY USED FOR USE BY GOVERNMENT
IN CASE OF LEGALISING OF PROSTITUTION/ USE FOR BY MARRIAGE REGISTRAR BORE ISSUING
PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION UNIQUE ID.
[70]
CENTRALISED DATA BANK OF CONVICTED PEOPLE WHO ARE INVOLVED IN PROSTITUTION
TO ALERT FROM GETTING CHEATED BY SUCH PIMPS, TOUTS ETC
[71]
CREATION OF CORPUS FUND FOR GIVING INCENTIVES FOR INFORMERS REGARDING
HAPPENING OF PROSTITUTION, ADULTERY, BIGAMY
[72]
ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR CONTAINING HAPPING OF HOMO SEXUALITY, CONFISCATING
PROPERTIES OF PERSONS INDULGING IN HOMO SEXUALITY SHOULD LOSE RIGHT TO THEIR
INHERENT PROPERTIES; IF GOVERNMENT THINKS TO SAVE MILLIONS OF MARRIAGES THEY
SHOULD LEGALISE HOMO SEXUALITY UNDER STRICT CONDITIONS.
[73]
NEED FOR LEGALISING & REGULATION OF LIVE IN RELATIONS (COHABITATIONS OF
HETEROSEXUALS I.E MAN & WOMEN LIVING TOGETHER), MANDATORY REGISTRATION OF LIVE
IN RELATIONSHIPS EXISTING AS WELL AS ALL FUTURE AFTER ENACTMENT LEGALISATION COME
INTO FORCE; MANDATORY APPROVAL OF PRE LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP REGISTRATION I.E PLR
FROM REGISTRAR OF MARRIAGES FOR ENTERING LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP; CENTRALISED DATA
BANK HUB OF LIVE IN RELATIONS
[74]
MANDATORY OPERATION OF JOINT BANK ACCOUNTS BY LIVE IN COUPLE; MANDATORY
PURCHASE OF ANY ASSETS WHETHER MOVABLE OR IMMOVABLE ACQUIRED IN LIVE IN
RELATIONSHIPS IN JOINT NAME

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ENACTMENT/ AMENDMENT OF SUCCESSION OF PROPERTIES ACTS, FOR BARRING
PERSONS IN LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP, RIGHT TO CLAIM OVER INHERENT PROPERTIES
[76]
NEED FOR REGULATION OF PLAY SCHOOLS, CREATION OF PLAY SCHOOLS IN EVERY WARD
IN URBAN AREAS AND IN EVERY VILLAGE, STANDARD DESIGN FOR PLAY SCHOOLS AND
MANDATORY CC CAMERAS AND LIVE FEED ON THE MOBILE PHONE
[77]
MANDATORY PRE SCHOOL HENCE FORTH TO EMPLOYMENT ONLY TRAINED TEACHERS,
ECO FRIENDLY PLASTIC, ENVIRONMENTAL DEGRADABLE MATERIAL FOR PRE SCHOOL LEARNING
MATERIAL, ALL CHILD PLAY EQUIPMENT SHOULD UNDER GO STRINGENT QUALITY CONTROL FOR
HARMFUL CHEMICAL PLASTICS, FUR ETC, COMPLETE BAN ON IMPORT, SALE OF CHILD PLAYING
KITS FROM OTHER COUNTRIES AND INDIGENOUS MANUFACTURING WITH LOCALLY AVAILABLE
MATERIAL. REWARDS FOR INNOVATION FOR COST EFFECTIVE LEARNING, EQUIPMENT
[78]

BABY SITTING TRAINING COURSE WITH CERTIFICATION

[79]
MANDATORY MAINTENANCE OF CRCHES IN ALL OFFICE ESTABLISHMENTS WITH
UNIFORM FACILITIES IN ALL CRCHES, ALL THE CHILDREN OF ALL EMPLOYEES OF NEW MOTHERS
IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR DESIGNATION WHETHER THEY ARE CEO OR PEON CAN USE THIS
FACILITY
[80]
CREATION OF MARRIAGE VENUE COMPLEXES/HUBS IN EVERY VILLAGE/ MANDAL/ BLOCK
IN ACCORDING TO THE POPULATION AGED BETWEEN 15 TO 25 POPULATION OF UNMARRIED
YOUTH; VARIOUS OTHER MEASURES LIKE BUILDING NEAR METROS, RESTRICTING NUMBER OF
INVITEES, RESTRICTING SO CALLED BARAT IN CITIES, BAN ON USE OF PLASTIC GIFT WARPS,
ETC TO MAKE MARRIES FUNCTIONS GRACIOUS, NOT CREATING INDIRECT/ DIRECT TROUBLE FOR
OTHERS
[81]
CREATION OF CARRIER COURSES/ SKILL DEVELOPMENT FOR MARRIAGE RELATED
SERVICES AND ALSO FOR CREATION OF FINANCIAL COUNSELLING, HEALTH CARE COUNSELLING
PROFESSIONALS TO MAKE THEM AS FULL TIME CARRIER COURSES.
[82]
ENACTING LAW MAKING IT A CRIME FOR SENDING SO CALLED LOVE LETTERS/ SMS/ E
MAILS/ ORAL PROPOSALS FOR ALL BELOW 21 YEARS OF AGE, ESPECIALLY STUDENTS BELOW
DEGREE, ALSO 21 YEARS ABOVE WHO ARE DOING JOB CAN SEND SUCH LETTERS BUT NOT MORE
THAN TWO TIMES ANY ONE CAN SEND SUCH PROPOSAL EITHER BY MALE/FEMALE, IF THERE IS
NO RESPONSE WITHIN 90 DAYS FROM OTHER SIDE IT SHOULD BE CONSIDERED AS REJECTION,
AND EITHER MALE OR FEMALE SHOULD NOT PURSUE FURTHER, OTHER WISE CONSIDER AS
HOUNDING, INTIMIDATION AND FORCING SOME ONE TO GET INFLUENCED DUE TO UNDUE
PRESSURE AND THEY SHOULD BE IMPRISONED FOR COERCION TO ACCEPT THEIR PROPOSAL.
[83]
MAKING PRE MARTIAL SEX A SERIOUS CRIME, SEX SHOULD NOT BE GRAVE CRIMINAL
OFFENCE IF DONE BELOW 21 YEARS OF AGE. LIFE IMPRISONMENT FOR BOTH MALE AND FEMALE
FOR INDULGING IN SEX BELOW 21 YEARS OF AGE, IN ADDITION PHYSICAL CASTRATION FOR
MALE
[84]

COMPLETE BAN PORNOGRAPHY, SURFING PORNOGRAPHY IS CRIME; ETHICAL HACKING FOR

MONITORING CHILD BEHAVIOUR TO KNOW THEIR WEB BROWSING CONTENT, SOCIAL MEDIA
VISITS, MOBILE INTERNET PERIODICALLY AND REPORTING TO THE PARENTS FOR ENSURING
ADHERING TO MORAL BEHAVIOUR BY THE CHILDREN; ISSUE OF SMART CARDS FOR STUDENTS,
RECORD ATTENDANCE PERIOD BY PERIOD AND TIME IN AND TIME OUT OF SCHOOL/ COLLAGE
SHOULD BE REPORTED TO PARENTS. PERIODIC SURPRISE HEALTH CHECK UP FOR STUDENTS FOR
IDENTIFYING HABITS OF SMOKING, CONSUMPTION OF ALCOHOL, DRUGS ETC.; REWARDS FOR
FELLOW STUDENTS FOR REVEALING WITH PROOF, IF ANY FRIEND/FELLOW STUDENTS INDULGE
IN SUCH ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES, PUNISHMENT FOR FRIENDS WHO WITNESSED SUCH ACTS, NOT
REPORTING TO AUTHORITIES.

[85]
MANDATORY TEACHING OF RELIGION (THE RESPECTIVE RELIGION FOLLOWED BY CHILD,
STRICTLY NO COMMON RELIGIOUS TEACHINGS/ PRACTICES, RESPECTING EVERY RELIGIOUS
SENTIMENTS/NORMS) AS CURRICULUM FOR SCHOOL CHILDREN FOR INFUSING GOOD
BEHAVIOUR; NEED FOR MANDATORY SPIRITUAL EDUCATION/ MEDITATION FOR ALL SCHOOLS,
COLLAGES, OFFICE ESTABLISHMENTS
[86]

CONCLUSION

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1) INTRODUCTION
India being the second most largest populated country in the world
(within few decades going to the largest populated country), having more
than 70 % youth population, of which more than 50% are aged below 25
years as of now, even though the eligible age for marriage is 21 years, but
most of the youth are not showing interest in institution of marriage, delays
the marriage in the name of carrier and settlement in life, are leading to rise
on live in relationships, and the very essence of Indian tradition & custom
of Institution of marriage is fading away, when marriage is the beginning
and foundation of new generation and also fundamental aspect in process &
sustained development of any country.
Even though It is a fact from history of INDIA, that there are some
instances of live in relationships, adultery narrated in some of the ancient
epics, but by and large INDIA is Known for
FAMILY LIFE through
MARRIAGE, which will yield long lasting positive effects on health of the
individual, family, nation but the youth of the country are slowly moving
towards live in relationships, and also delaying marriages, even though
marriages are happing the harmony in marries becoming like mirages
resulting in rise of broken marriages and rise in divorce cases is really a
matter of concern.; All these are due to vicious circle of money i.e dowry,
sex, adultery, extra matrimonial affairs, pre matrimonial affairs. History says
there existed what is called KANYASULKAM i.e paying money for marriage,
i.e for getting married, the groom has to pay for the parents of bride some
amount, but in the present era this turned to dowry i.e the brides parents
has to pay for the groom to get her married, which become a major
burden/deterrent for marriages in the present era, even though there exists
anti dowry law with stricter punishments but hardly there are no measure to
unearthing the happening of dowry as a result the anti dowry law is hardly
able to prevent the happening of dowry in one or other form.
Also it is a fact that performing marriages is a lot of financial burden for
the parents of bride, and for millions of parents the worry starts when the
child is still a foetus in pregnant mothers womb, even now in some parts of
the country many parents want to know the sex of the child in advance
when the wife/ daughter in law is pregnant illegally, in case female child in
the womb they want to culminate the pregnancy or not able to bear the
future financial burden on account of dowry, all this in spite of ban on
identifying sex of the foetus, also some may allowing, but still majority feel
burdened, for majority the stress in the mind starts from the day the girl
child is born in their family, the stress is for, how to earn more money, how
to save money, build basic assets for ensuring at least they can perform
their daughters marriage, also it is fact that millions of parents of girl child
are going for loans to meet the marriage expenses, also in the anticipation
of getting more dowry some parents delay the marriages, at the same time
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some male are not getting brides due to unemployment/ due to lack of
adequate job/ regular income, and those who are well off are not showing
interest in marriages due to concern for carrier, some who have enough
resources at their disposal are sex maniac who do not value the family life,
all these are causes of rising in adultery, prostitution, which has tremendous
negative impact not only on the individuals, but also it impacts the family/
children, also the work output and the entire economic progress of the
nation, as it is a fact that healthy family life leads to healthy mind and thus
healthy work output and thus a healthy & wealthy nation.
As such there is acute need for ensuring youth of the country uphold the
traditions and customs of the country respecting the women, laws of the
land are followed for ensuring the institution of marriage/ family life prevails
for a happy family life, which is necessary for a healthy nation. But most
unfortunately due to lack of proper information regarding the marriages, the
details of couples/ married man/ married women, millions of young girls and
women get cheated by some corrupt minded men apply all their tactics, act
as innocent, friendly, helping nature etc etc exhibiting all good man
charactering in the pretext of becoming close to the females and later on
either get into pre martial sex, extra matrimonial sex in the pretext of
getting marriage, or some cases propose them to get marry to acquire
wealth, income earned by the female in case the females are employed,
have large inherent properties and after having the pre martial sex or
marriage, lately the females getting to know they were cheated by these
scoundrels who are already married and also having grown up children?,
but most of the victim women are either getting silent due to fear for
society, some may continue the relationship due to fear of expose by the
scoundrels the intimate relationship videos got exposed or some approach
police & courts, but finally the women are more sufferers?; also lack of
proper counselling leading to increase in divorce cases, also due to lack of
systems to detect happing of dowry?. Also it is fact lot of domestic violence
happing, when
the women questions the wrong doings of their
man/husband, or concealed information about his previous relationships,
acts.
In order to prevent all kinds of crimes related to marriages, prevent
cheating/ prevent bigamy, government must reform /re enact the marriage
laws, and the beginning should be making it mandatory within a stipulated
time period all existing marriages/ live in relations should get registered by
in a standard format, and all marriages in future should get pre marriage
registration approval from the government to get married, by submitting
information regarding the bride and groom, in an affidavit form, or online
only after the pre marriage approval any kind of marriage related function
should happen, to issue pre marriage approval, the bride and groom must
submit details in a standard format, with the voter ID card/ Passport/ Adhar
card etc etc, the in principle approval should be granted in the form of
granting unique ID number, after getting confirming the bride or groom
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were not already married/ not in live in relation to someone, elsewhere in

the country (by verifying in the central data bank of married people and live
in relation people), government must issue smart cards for both spouses,
also the same should be linked to voter ID card, Passport, Adhar card to
certify they are couple. After getting state wise data, the National/central
data base should be created the data can be used in several ways..
2) NEED FOR CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF MARRIED COUPLE AND
DIVORCED COUPLE RECORDS
Even though there exists norms for marriage registration at present, and
some percentage of marriages in urban areas are getting registered, but as
far as rural areas are concerned the registration of marriages are much less,
also it is fact even though Supreme court of India directed state
governments to make it mandatory to register marriages, which was still in
the process, as such in the first place all state marriage registrations should
give advertisements in media for getting the marriages registered who
otherwise not registered till date within a stipulated time period,
simultaneously all the records should be digitalized in a standard format in
all states, and then there should be central data base of all marriage
registrations happened in all states by synchronizing data, for ensuring no
married person can re marry in any part of INDIA and no person while
divorce petition is still pending before courts can re marry, as in the
centralised data base of marriages the data of all married persons all over
INDIA exists, as such anyone interested in marrying anyone should first
check the details of person for the matrimonial status, this measure will
certainly prevent happening of bigamy, and innocent lives are saved from
cheating and lifelong humiliation. So there should be a centralised database
of the all married couple for marginalisation of cheating/bigamy.
Similarly gathering the information of divorced cases, all divorce cases
pending in various courts in the country and up load as per district, state
and a national data base is created. This data base is made public, for
alerting them not to get in to marriage alliance when the court case is still
pending. This measure saves lot of women get cheated, as till date no such
central data of divorce in progress is in existence, as such some intentionally
hiding the details of previous marriage and getting married, later on found
that they are already married. All this sort of issues has no room hence
forth, once the central data bank of divorce cases, divorce in pending in
courts.
3) MANDATORY PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION CERTIFICATION/
APPROVAL FOR PERFORMING/ SOLEMNIZATION OF MARRIAGE
There should be one marriage act in place of marriage act of different
religions HINDU marriage act, Muslim marriage act, Christian Marriage act,
to formulate one act replacing other previous marriage acts including special
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marriage act, In the new act the spirit, religious faith, norms of all religious
acts should be intact, only change required is there should be two prone
process of performing/solemnisation of marriage, one preliminary approval
of marriage after getting basic details of both bride and groom and on
authentication that the details submitted by the individuals are true, after
ensuring both are free to marry without any bondages/ previous marriage
bonding in existence, once applied within 30 days the pre marriage
registration (PMR) approval should be granted for going for marriage, every
religious person may get married as per their religious customs, once
approval is granted i,e PMR unique ID issued, marriage should happen
within a specified time period 90 days (the time for 90 days is for giving
time for performing some pre marriage rituals and also for auspicious dates
etc) , after performing marriage the registration should be done immediately
through submitting details online. After expiry of 90 days if the marriage is
not performed this should be treated as marriage proposal nullified, in case
they want to extend, they may apply for extension, specifying the reasons
for not able to perform marriage within 90 days, if the reasons are justified
then they be either given extension or in case extension not granted the
individuals are free to apply for fresh marriage proposals with different
individuals. The reasons for cancellation should be within the specified list
approved by the marriage registrar, otherwise they should be investigated
for failure of the marriage on account of dowry or on account of concealing
information/ wrong information by one of the party.
4) NEED FOR DETAILED DECLARATION FROM PERSONS WILLING TO
MARRY FOR ENSURING HONESTY, TRUTHFULNESS, & LEGITIMACY
PREVAILS AT ALL TIMES
The mandatory details for pre marriage registration include names of the
individuals, photographs of the individuals, the details of parents, domicile
state, birth place, present living address, contact details, phone, e mail id,
social media etc if any, the caste& sub caste of individuals, the religion of
the individuals, the age of the individuals, if any one of the partner is
married earlier, if any of the partner has children (from previous marriage),
educational qualifications occupation, chronology of study, detailed break up
of school, college, university, year of pass of both individuals, whether
employed, or not, in case employed the chronology of employment, with full
details of employer, income per annum of the individuals, the properties and
wealth of the individual, properties include the movable/ immovable assets,
the details of voter id card, the pan number, the passport number, the
details of police cases, court cases pending against them, any chronic
diseases they are having, any disabilities they are having, whether they
smoke, consume alcohol, the health details of the HIV test, the STD test
reports, whether they had love affairs, pre martial sex/ adultery prior to
marriage, whether they had love affair etc, whether the marriage an
arranged marriage, then the details of the persons who arranged the
marriage, in case of love marriage the details of close friends who helped
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them if at all; also the where they wish to get married, in a religious place,
or at registrar office, or any grand event to be performed, who are going to
bear the expenses for performing marriage whether the bride/ groom, what
is the approximate amount going to spend, the sources of such funds,
whether the money is tax paid, the details of income tax PAN number and
three years records, in case of arranged marriage the details of income and
assets movable & immovable of both the parents and unmarried children,
also the family tree details of the both the bride and groom etc etc ; these
details are very necessary, after all the marriage is not of one day/night
affair (not prostitution/ call girl-isim), but a life long journey of the two
individuals, also the the future of the country, as healthy married life will
lead to healthy and good conduct children; the details should be submitted
in an affidavit form individually & jointly, the information should be shared
among the parties who wish to marry, any wrong information mentioned in
the affidavit by any of the partner found later is liable for criminal offense of
deliberate cheating and the law should take its course.
Some of the details of prospective bride and groom should be made
available on the centralised web data base for 30 days, in internet (some
details like phone numbers, bank account, passport details etc should not be
made public, remaining all details should be made public including the
financial position, the assets, the amount intended to spent on the marriage
etc ), any public should able to get type the name, voter id card number and
know the details. These measure are necessary to prevent bigamy,
cheating, reduce un happiness in marriages, reduce atrocities /crime against
married women, and also reduces happening of divorce cases, also reduce
the adultery on account of disturbed marriage life, also to reduce
prostitution, as most men live happy married couple.
In case any individuals have any objection they can file a complainant to
the marriage registration authority by way of an affidavit through speed
post/ or through e mail by quoting their voter id card number, mobile phone
number, address, along with proof for such objection, or in case they are
third party and only to alert the bride/ groom regarding any information
which was furnished wrong by either party and they are aware of the truth,
or concealment of any information by either bride or groom about their
status or they are indulged in any illegitimate/ illegal activities, they may
send the details to marriage registrar, anonymously, or if sent by name
also the identity of the whistleblower details should be kept secret, if such
information found to be true, then the whistleblower should be reward
appropriately, in case of false or fabricated information then the
whistleblower should be punished, the marriage registrar have right to
cancel the unique ID of PMR even minutes before marriage found
information of HIV, serious criminal cases which attract live imprisonment.

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5) ENACTING LAW FOR MANDATORY DISCLOSURE OF AFFAIRS

PHYSICAL OR MENTAL, OF PROSPECTIVE BRIDE AND GROOM, IN
LIVE IN RELATIONS PRIOR TO MARRIAGE IN THE PRE MARRIAGE
REGISTRATION SUBMISSION
Also it is fact that most of the marriages are not successfully running,
even though may not end up in divorce but the harmony between the wife
and husband getting dented permanently after, the issue of affairs of both
physical (i.e sex) or mental (i.e so called unsuccessful love) matter is known
to the husband or wife, certainly the heart will break and once the heart is
broken, it is impossible to function the same manner, as none in the world
can repair the broken heart, if is broken fully in married life, it may end-up
in divorce, if it is broken to some extent, the harmony is lost in the family,
and the family life of such couple can be termed as more or less vegetative
state of living, as there is no real happiness exists, the couple may have
sexual relations but the original respect/ harmony will not prevail among
each other as the their self feels that were cheated in one or other way and
the trust has dented); since till date no such provision of mandatory
disclosure of previous affairs before marriage whether they are physical or
mental is not in existence, only based on trust the marriages are happening;
but most of the people of such history is marrying simply due to pressure
from parents or just want to marry to lead life.
Also it is a fact that in some cases when husband is consciously revealing
to the wife soon after marriage in the arranged marriages, then the wife
which came with great expectancy about her husband, goes into distress in
her heart, which she may not exhibit immediately but certainly the image of
her husband getting tarnished in her heart, so she will start ill treating him
or she will try to dominate him by controlling/rationing sex, where as in case
the husband do not reveal before marriage and during the course of happy
married life if it get out in future (after all truth will prevail, and certainly
one or other day it will come out for sure) , then the harmony in married life
gets disturbed she will go in humiliation in her heart and the relationship will
not be the same,; where as in case if wifes who was affairs prior to
marriage not disclose in the beginning of marriage, but on fine bad day
when the truth is out then the husband starts domestic violence in case the
marriage relation continues, or in some cases gets into divorce? of course
there are certain percentage of wifes and husbands with large heart and
forgive the past and live in present and future, but such percentage of
understandable good husbands and good wifes is very low compared to
people who are hurt, feel cheated, feel frustrated and get fell to go out of
the relation; these are naked truths, not a illusionary/ imaginatory thinking
but it is a reality faced/ facing by millions of couples. So all this disturbed
life leads to loss of peace, and without peace perfect workout will not be
expected/ achieved, since INDIA having largest young working force, it is
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peaceful without any disturbed mind, for this the root cause should be fixed
to prevent happing of things later on, which cannot be repairable?
So it should be made mandatory that before marriage both groom and
bride should disclose about their previous affairs of life in an affidavit form.
After knowing each others affairs if any, if have mutual understating prior
to marriage and forgave each other and make up their mind to go for
marriage
they
can
do
so
by
a
joint
signature
for
such
forgiveness/compromise to get PMR clearance for marriage, else they should
drop the proposal of marriage their and then. This measure also gives
thinking to many parents with young children to make them under and
educate not to indulge in pre matrimonial sex, also not in indulge in so
called love affairs, start developing interest at very tender age in the name
of love when their energies required concentrating on education/ skill
development for better living in future.
Also it should be made a grave criminal offence to lie on affidavit by
wrong info/ concealing the information while submitting PMR data, in case
found later stage of marriage, it should be considered as malafied intention/
deliberately cheating the other partner, as such they should be awarded life
imprisonment for spoiling the innocent life. This measure should be
applicable for all marriages; both arranged/ love, also in the live in relations.
This measure will certainly lead to drastic reduction in pre matrimonial sex;
also it reduces so called love affairs.
6) MANDATORY OATH BY PARENTS / BRIDE & GROOM FOR WILL NOT
TAKE DOWRY, WILL NOT GIVE DOWRY IN CASH/KIND, OATH ON
THEIR RELIGIOUS GODS & ON THE BRIDE & GROOM & ON THEIR
CHILDREN
In order to reduce the happing of dowry in a direct (monitory) or indirect
(kind like vehicles, jewellery, property) manner, while submitting the pre
marriage registration form, an additional affidavit on oath should be
submitted by parents of the bride and groom as well as both bride and
groom. The affidavit submitted by parents of bride and groom along with
PMR should contain that they swear on their religious faith/ god / guru
whom they worship and they swear on their living parents & living children
that they will not give dowry or take dowry, in cash or in kind whether
movable assets/ immovable assets even as gifts to bride/groom, either
though them or through their relatives at any point of time before the
marriage or after the marriage, where as the affidavit of bride/groom should
contain oath swearing on the religious god/guru they believe in, swearing on
their parents, swearing on their future children that they will not allow their
parents to take dowry/ give dowry, and in case they get the information
without their their knowledge if their parents/ relatives take/give dowry
before marriage/ after the marriage even as gift, they will immediately
inform the anti dowry wing, in case they fail to do so, or in future if found by
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authorities that dowry happened in this marriage, then they are liable for
punishment as per law for giving dowry, giving false information /
concealing information, in addition they are praying almighty to punish them
if they lie on oath. This measure will certainly reduce the dowry to some
extent, after all most of the people are religious and have faith either in god
or gurus and have fear that by lies on oath they get bad results in future.
7) MANDATORY TO HAVE MINIMUM FINANCIAL SECURITY FOR
BRIDE/GROOM TO GET MARRIED/ ENTER LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP
Also since India being the country with largest youth population, and
unemployment is on the rise, not only in India, but throughout the world, in
this circumstances, without having financial security for basic livelihood / job
security/ regular source of income/ money deposits in bank/ assets in hand
possessed by at least one member of the prospective couple, no marriage
should be allowed / pre marriage clearance unique ID should not be
allocated to marry or even they should not be allowed to do live in
relationship.
This measure is necessary as without any source of income, even in
arranged marriages it is heinous to depend up on the hard earnings of the
parents/ in-laws ?; also in case of love marriages where there is no parents
support the case much more vulnerable?. So law should be enacted
ensuring that at least one member in the wouldbe couple should have
regular source of income as pre condition for eligibility to get married. It
should be minimum Rs 5,000 per month earnings in urban areas and for
rural areas it should be Rs 3,500 rupees per month on an average (the
minimum amounts should vary year after year based on average cost of
living), in case of BPL families the MNREGA card which gives 150 days of
working at 200 Rs per day), in addition they should have at least Rs 15,000
rupees balance in savings bank account for urban areas and Rs 11,500 for
rural areas, all this for those who have some way of regular income by way
of employment. In case of no regular income source like agriculture or self
employment etc they should have fixed amount in either savings bank /
fixed deposit in the name of the groom, but certainly they should indulged in
earning in that field, in such cases they should accumulate somehow savings
to the tune of Rs 60,000 in urban areas and Rs 42,000 in rural areas to get
their children married or the child once cross the age of 18 he/ she should
start earning either by way of education and getting job or by way of self
employment through going for skill development etc and certainly wait for
few years may be 3 to 4 years and do savings of 1,000 Rs per month for
four years and get married. Without knowing earning/ start earning, how do
the male youth is expect that he can take care of the family? Strange? ; the
only exception in so called love marriages is the same condition of earning
per month or minimum bank balance criteria will be the same, however if
one of the partner in marriages i.e groom/ bride has that earning capacity
they can get marry, but only exception is it should be mandatory is that
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marriages should be simple marriages and should be done in the presence

of marriage registrar or the maximum expenditure allowed for marriage in
love marriages should not be more than 10,000 rupees, Irrespective of the
financial status of the bride or groom, otherwise there is every possibility
that dowry can be routed through brides account.
This measure not only creates responsibility on the part of the male
youth to do some savings, try to do some productive job to earn their
bread, this measure will reduce the dowry/ domestic violence to a great
extent, as most of the domestic violence happens in the BPL/ LOW income
group, to some extent in the middle income group. the domestic violence on
account of dowry/ more money for luxury of the husband, if he do not have
job and got married this is happening, so by putting earnings of one of the
partner is necessary pre condition will certainly reduce domestic violence to
a great extent in these lower strata income group. Also this reduces so
called love marriages/ eloping just like that in the name of love without
having any source of income by the un employed youth having no other
work by using the hard earned money of their parents for trapping the girl
to love, later on expecting dowry that after marriage start harassing the girl
to get dowry/ more money to live, this will not happen if this measure of
earning is pre condition for marriage is in place.
Also this measure will
encourage male youth of the country to earn money and get married rather
than living on the earnings of the women.
8) MANDATORY THAT ANY MARRIAGE RELATED FUNCTIONS/
RITUALS WHETHER FORMAL OR INFORMAL MUST START ONLY
AFTER GETTING PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION (PMR) NUMBER
Any marriage related functions/rituals between the prospective bride and
groom of what so ever nature whether it may be ring ceremony or printing
of marriage cards or for that matter any function what so ever it may be as
per traditions of that religion/ sect/ family should happen only after
receiving the preliminary marriage registration approval with unique ID,
which is nothing but the couple are free to marry, there is no legal hurdles,
if any one performs any marriage related function without applying for PMR
or while PMR is in processing , PMR is rejected, it should be treated as illegal
both bride and groom and their parents in case of arranged marriage are
subjected to penalty and imprisonment for culpable bigamy. Also even for
booking function halls, catering etc etc for any professional services for
performing the marriage function requires the pre marriage registration PMR
unique ID. Without PMR number no one should print marriage cards, without
PMR no one can book a function hall, without PMR no one can supply food
etc, this measure saves lot of illegitimate/ illegal marriages.

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9) MEASURES FOR REGULATING SUDDEN CANCELLATION

MARRIAGES AFTER ALL ARRANGEMENTS MADE

OF

Also it should be ideal to make it mandatory that once applied for PMR
jointly by both bride and groom, no party can cancel the marriage proposal
arbitrarily, without list of valid reasons, without informing the registrar of
marriages for such dropping of proposal by either of the party. Also once the
pre marriage registration unique ID is issued and in no case marriage should
be called off/stopped unless otherwise valid reasons are presented. There
should be a list of valid reasons prepared by the registrar of marriage after
due deliberation and consulting various religious leaders and social leaders
(as different religions have different reasons for cancellation/ postponement
of marriage), which should be uniform for all that persons in that religion,
the list of causes for cancellation should be if there is any death in the
family/loved ones or bride and groom might have hospitalised for valid
reason and not in a position to move out of hospital, or not able to travel/
lost property due to natures fury like cyclones, earthquakes, tsunami etc,
the reasons should not be superstitious, but only on medical grounds or any
incriminating information regarding bride or groom found after pre marriage
registration unique id before marriage, etc which should be rational in
nature, which should be subjected to evidence, in no case any marriage
proposal once obtained PMR can be cancelled arbitrarily, All arbitrary
cancellations are subjected to FIR and investigation. Also There should be
compensation clause that in case marriage is called off due to criminal cases
on one party, then that party should pay all the expenses incurred by the
other party after getting PMR should be given back with 300% on that as a
penalty. This measure saves lot of marriages and humiliation/ suffering of
several families as it is prevalent that marries are cancelled even after cards
are distributed mostly just because of non fulfilment of so called dowry
commitments or the groom finds better bride than the present one, or just
because of rumours about the bride or groom for character assignation.
Also it should be made mandatory that when prospective bride and
groom fix a date of marriage after getting PMR, they should inform the
registrar of marriage the date of marriage. In case of failure to get marriage
registration done after 90 days of PMR validity expires, the registrar of
marriages sent a notice to both
bride and groom side for written
explanation within 48 hours after expiry of 90 days validity of PMR, and
after getting information, if the marriage registrar feels that the cancellation
is not due to the valid reasons listed by registrar of marriage, then he
should order immediate registering of FIR and investigation by the local
police for probed, submit findings within 90 days.
Also either the bride or groom can approach the registrar of marriage &
the local police before the expiry of the PMR Unique ID Number complaining
regarding unreasonably / unilateral cancellation the other party.

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Even if they want to cancel the marriage with mutual private

understanding and agreement, the reasons should be within the stipulated
reasons mentioned by the registrar of marriages rules and not suppositional.
This measure has many advantages, one, superstitions do not have place/
consideration for cancellation of marriages, second even if any of the
information provided by the bride or groom is wrong/ concealed information,
in order to avoid further legal complications they may go for a private
understating and compromise to cancel the marriage, so in order to punish
for filing wrong information on affidavit, also in order not to give scope for
unlawful agents/agencies/anti social elements
for doing settlement/for
private understanding. Also all the above measures will certainly ensure
brides cannot be treated as commodities and dignity of the bride upheld.
10)
MANDATORY DECLARATION BY BRIDE & GROOM WHETHER
THEY ARE STRAIGHT SEX OR HOMOSEXUAL, IN PRE MARRIAGE
REGISTRATION DECLARATION ; IN CASE FOUND LATER INDULGED
IN HOMOSEXUALITY PRIOR TO MARRIAGE/ AFTER MARRIAGE
HE/SHE SHOULD GET LIFE IMPRISONMENT. MERE DECLARATION
OF HOMOSEXUALITY SHOULD NOT ATTRACT ANY PUNISHMENT.
It should be made mandatory that both bride and groom should declare
the sex they follow, i.e only straight sex, only home sex, homo sex but can
also indulge in straight sex. Concealing information regarding the
homosexuality is a grave crime; it should attract life imprisonment for
concealment of homosexuality (gay/ lesbian) in the Pre Marriage
Registration data submission. As it is fact many marriages are broken/
domestic violence/ adultery/ divorce are due to the reason either of the
spouse is homosexual and they are indulged in pre martial sex in the form
of homosexuality and they cannot live straight sex life and they married
simply because of the pressure from parents or just because for getting
dowry. If there exists an information about homosexuality in the PMR form
the marriage can occur if both prospective bride and groom are both
straight. Or both parties agrees in case one of the partner is straight and
other partner is homosexual, but willing to participate in straight sex, they
shoul give their consent in a joint written affidavit Otherwise the marriage
registrar will not give PMR unique ID number for going ahead of marriage.
The cancellation of proposal on account of homosexuality should not attract
punishment, Also n punishment for just declaring one is homosexual, only
when caught red handed they should attract punishment under law. This
measure will certainly reduce divorce cases, as well reduce adultery cases,
and also reduce prostitution (female/male)

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11)
MANDATORY HIV & STD CLEARANCE CERTIFICATE FROM
GOVERNMENT HOSPITALS FOR PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION;
STD PARENTS CAN MARRY AFTER FULLY GOT CURED, HIV
PATENTS CAN MARRY ONLY HIV PARENTS NOT HEALTHY
OPPOSITE SEX.
Since no one knows how many pre matrimonial sexual affairs, live in
relationships, visits to various brothels/prostitutes before finally entering a
marriage or live in relation, it is necessary that every individual both bride
& groom has to mandatorily undergo the STD and HIV test, Only on getting
clearance for STD/ HIV negative one should get PMR unique ID. (the HIV &
STD tests are certainly not the tests for confirming virginity/ chastity , but
only to ensure the other married partner is not cheated)
This measure will certainly reduce the pre matrimonial sex/ visiting to
prostitute to a great extent for the fear of getting caught before marriage/
before entering live in relationship. It is fact that even men may not exhibit
openly but have certainly low opinion for those who has previous sex, even
when he is a second hand fellow? This measure of mandatory STD / HIV test
is to reduce the risk of the diseases getting transmitted to the healthy
partner (female/ male), having STD/ HIV should not be an impediment to
marriage, after getting cure for STD one can marry/ enter in live in
relationship; but in the case of HIV he/she can marry another HIV patent
only not a perfect health partner even a perfectly healthy person have no
objection, if one has no objection in marrying a HIV patent it means there is
motive behind it, in general no one will marry/ enter live in relation for just
ding service like a hospital nurse? Obviously for sex?, If they say that they
want to serve a HIV patent when they are fully healthy, it is either for
acquiring property or wants to commit suicide in one or other manner? So
non HIV affected patent should be allowed to marry a HIV positive patent.
As HIV has no cure but only prolong for few years to live once affected? This
measure will save lot of lives from getting chronic diseases.
12)
MANDATORY FOR GETTING CLEARANCE FOR NO IMPOTENCY
(DYSFUNCTION OF REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS) FOR MALE FOR
APPLYING PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION
It is fact that many marriages are breaking / getting divorce/ happening
of divorce since the family members of the male hiding the fact in (some
cases) that their son is impotent/ not capable for sexual intercourse, in most
cases they may not know that their son is impotent. They are getting
married to normal women. So the problem starts soon after the marriage
and the differences between bride and groom starts as the groom in most
cases still try to hide the fact that he is impotent, some may reveal at early
stages, this is nothing but deliberate cheating and spoiling of innocent
girl/women life?. Also in case the newly married bride girl bares this
impotency and continues the married life, then domestic violence is
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happening, as the husband always is suspicious about the wife for chastity
break, adultery, character assassination occurs, there will not be peace at
home, undue stress for both wife and husband even though they appear
very normal for neighbours, outsiders, relatives and patents and friends but
internally both couple are extremely anxious. Also there are chances that
women may develop adultery in low & middle class, where in the elite/
upper echelons they even indulge in calling male prostitutes, risking their
lives even more. So in order to prevent happening of all this unwanted
things which are illegitimate, government must make it mandatory that all
male who wish to marry / be in live in relationship should undergo the
potency test in a designated government hospitals only, also stricter
punishment of life imprisonment for the groom and his parents/ guardians,
for hiding the facts, manipulating the facts.
13)
MANDATORY TO FIX THE MAXIMUM AGE GAP BETWEEN
BRIDE AND GROOM TO GET MARRIED; THE GAP SHOULD NOT BE
MORE THAN 20 YEARS IN MARRIAGES OR IN LIVE IN RELATIONS.
It is high time that government must fix the maximum age gap between
bride and groom. As it is a fact that even now in certain communities child
marriages like things are happening, i.e the bride is as low as 18 to 21,
where as the groom is more than 75 years of age right in the very heart of
the cities in some cities in some communities/ religions. Strange, how come
such age deference people can be called as couple?, in fact the maximum
difference of age between male and female in marriages should not be more
than 20 years, otherwise it is nothing but one way encouraging child
marriages, suppose a 60 year old want to marry 21 years old, is there any
meaning for marriage?, with average life expectancy is just 67.3 in males
as per latest reports 2011-15, do the women want to become widow at
young age, or in case he is already married and having children from
previous marriage more than the newly married girl?, how do the parents,
society expect that if there is more than certain age gap between man and
women makes their marriage meaningful?, it is fact that marriages are
made not for doing only service to the man like food preparing cook, or
administering medicine like a nurse, but certainly marriages are definitely
for physical relationship? It is hypocrisy to believe that women at young
age is like the persons in mythological epics that she will be happy just to
give birth to the child of the person and she will remain for rest of her life
like that? as such government must make it a law that there should not be
more than 20 years of age difference between a man and women either in
marriages or live in relationships, also in addition that the man/ women
should not marry below the age of their eldest children from previous
marriage or previous live in relationship, whichever is higher either 20 years
difference or the eldest childs age should be the minimum age gap between
the couple to be married.

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Also it is a fact that marriages in age group of groom 40 + and bride

20+, majority of these families are more or less not happy families, if
thought on biological changes, that if a man with 40 years of age marries a
women of 20 years, then by the time the man reaches 50, the women is
just 30, and the man if he is a working/ employee then he might reach the
middle level management job, whether in government or private, where
there is more work load, then he is over burdened with undue stress in life
whether in office or at home? It is a known fact that with stressful mind one
cannot perform work at hand; this principle applies to performing at physical
relationship also? when the women in 30 having more desire for physical
relation. the husband do not show interest in physical relation or use
artificial stimulus to make her happy, all leading to serious overall health
hazards for the man & over all family relations and harmony? Also in this
the women if not happy at physical relation cannot concentrate on family life
of rising children properly or if the women are also working/ employee, then
she may not deliver the best at her work/employment. Also it is fact that
when ageing happens the so called stamina of a man/ interest for physical
relation start deteriorating? ; the case is same, if a women in her 40 marries
a man with 20 years of age, when she reaches menopause, (around 50
years), the man in his 30 need more physical relation, at the same time the
so called beauty of the women gets fading, so he starts filtering or
searching adultery, or younger women? All these measure are potential
causes for adultery? Of course there are some couple who life very
harmoniously with or without physical relation, and such couples very
meagre in percentage of total married couples or live in relation couples?
Also it is a fact if a man marries at 21, and has a baby child, then by 41
of age he will have daughter of 20 years, then how come one justify that a
daughter like girl this 41 years fellow marrying? Shame? Is it not appearing
that unknowingly the human beings are turning worst than animals? So it is
high time that government must fix mandatory that the age gap between
bride or groom should not be more than 20 years under all circumstances.
This measure makes the the parents of the youth search for matches for
their son/ daughter soon after their child gets job, so the marriages at
young age (21 + below 30) happens, and in most cases both bride and
groom are of same age group or + or 5 years of age, this will make
perfect understanding of the couple and this will lead to healthy and happy
married life which will lead over all prosperity of the country.
Also
concealing information of age gap, by fabricating birth certificates etc should
lead to criminal offence with life imprisonment.

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14)
MANDATORY FOR SOCIAL MEDIA SERVICE PROVIDERS TO
CORROBORATE PROFILES WITH VOTER ID CARD OF USERS FOR
AUTHENTICATION OF ACCOUNT USER; MANDATORY TO UPDATE
THE STATUS OF THE INDIVIDUAL BY DEFAULT FROM SOURCING
INFO FROM REGISTRAR OF MARRIAGES THE AGE, GENDER, THE
SEXUALITY I.E STRAIGHT OR HOMO SEXUAL ALONG WITH LATEST
PASSPORT PHOTO SHOULD BE DISPLAYED ON THE PROFILE
Also it should be mandatory that social media websites should ensure
that every user in India should get register / update their account with voter
ID card number. (in case of minors, with guardians/ parents voter ID) For
authentication of the account user, he/she is not fake and a real user, also
mandatory disclosure of mobile number in the account form of social media
by all users. (it should be criminal offence to leak the mobile numbers to
any private marketing agency or any unwanted promotion calls and in no
way the social media agencies can use the mobile phone numbers for any
promotional purpose of their own service, in case used they should be liable
for billions of fine.) All minor accounts should be barred from getting any
kind of advertisements related to adult content, pornography, or a minor
should be restricted by default settings to surf/ browse, access to any
pornography, adult content pages in the social media sites; Also it should be
made mandatory that on real time bases the social media sites take data
from the government websites of marriage registrar and update the profiles
automatically by default regarding the married status of the profile creator
without his/her consent by default, display with bold letters at the profile
front page/ at the end of ID. Married, divorced & single, divorces pending,
live in relation, if the name do not surface in any of the lists sourced from
government marriage registrar, then the status should be shown as single
after asking for final confirmation from the single status person. Also the
profiles which lied in the status should be reported to the government for
necessary action. Also the social media profile should display the unique ID
of the married couple, live in relationship, divorce, etc, also the social media
profiles should clearly mention that how many times got divorced, in case of
multiple divorces similarly how many times break up in live in relationships
should be by default kept as display information to their profile. Also it
should be made mandatory that by default the social media accounts should
display the age and gender by default, also it should be made mandatory
that all social media users should disclose whether they are straight sex or
homosexual, and it should be mandatory for social media service providers
to display the same on the profile. If these basic content are not filed by the
users the social media sites should be made defunct; All these measures are
not infringement of privacy or curtailing liberty in any manner, These
measures will certainly reduce the crimes on account of social media in
many ways like alerting individual from getting cheated by any one hy
hiding his age, gender, sexuality, status of mirage, also help to hotels,
lodges; guest houses to get re confirm the status of the individual before
giving room to them. These measures will certainly reduce the family
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disputes and also make a happy family, it is not a deterrent to the women,
but it up holds the dignity and freedom of women, the male partners treat
them with care and respect in case of live in relationships..
15)
MANDATORY FOR MATRIMONIAL ADVERTISEMENTS TO
VERIFY THE DETAILS OF STATUS OF THE INDIVIDUAL AND ALSO
THE CRIMINAL CASES SHOULD BE MANDATORILY MENTIONED IN
THE MARRIAGE PROFILE.
Also it should be made mandatory that all matrimonial advertisements
whether in internet or on print media or through individual professionals
should find the status of the person giving advertisement, before making it
public, from centralised data bank of married persons, divorced persons,
domestic violence persons, criminals in trail related to atrocities on women
by a single click, on the registrar of marriages website. For advertisement in
matrimonial services the bride or groom or their parents should submit the
details in affidavit from; even in case of online, government should alter the
definition of affidavit by making a bar coded stamp to be available in any
post office, or government revenue department, can be purchased by
individuals by providing an ID card number, of the person who wish to use;
if this bar coding number entered in the online form, then it should be
treated as submitted in affidavit form, and has all legal validity, sanctity.
Also it should be made mandatory that all matrimonial advertisements
should contain the details of any police cases or Criminal cases under trail in
the court, the reasons for divorce/ court cases like harassing women/
atrocity on women/trafficking of women etc by providing the ID number of
such person. Also it should be made mandatory that in all the matrimonial
advertisements the wealth of the individuals should be declared should be
based on the income tax returns field, by the individual or the family as a
whole and not arbitrarily? Otherwise liable for tax scrutiny and evasion, this
measure will reduce lot of marriage related disputes as in the very first
instance only the the two parties will drop the cases in case of found he/she
is involved in criminal cases.
16)
MANDATORY REGISTRATION OF ALL PRIESTS PERFORMING
MARRIAGES, NO MARRIAGES IS VALID IF IT IS NOT PERFORMED
EITHER BY THE PRIEST OR GET MARRIED IN FRONT OF MARRIAGE
REGISTRAR, ALL MARRIAGES SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST 5
WITNESSES ON BOTH SIDES, STRICTER PUNISHMENTS FOR
CONCEALING INFORMATION BY PRIESTS/ WITNESSES.
Also it should be made mandatory that all priests of all religions should
mandatorily get registered with marriage registrar and get a unique ID
number, and it should be mandatory that the ID number of the priest with
signature / thumb impression is necessary in the marriage certificate even
after PMR. This measure will certainly reduce marriage frauds, especially the
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child marriages, second marriages, the marriages of poor Muslim girls to the
Arab Shakes ; it should be mandatory on the part of the priests to know
whether the both bride and groom got jointly registered in the pre marriage
registration and obtained PMR unique ID before preparing for marriage for
conformation none has either already married nor none as on date indulged
in a living in relationship.; if any wrong information / concealing information
should amounts to life long life imprisonment for soiling the life of an
Individual for both priest who performed marriage as well as to the person
who committed crime. In case the individuals wish to marry without priest,
they can, but in front of the registrar of marriages in the office of registrar
of marriages. This measure of keeping onus on the priest to know the PMR
will certainly ensures marriage related frauds of concealing information and
getting married will be marginalised to a great extent.
Also it should be made mandatory by amending the law regarding the
witnesses to the marriages, that the number of witness from each side
should be 5 i.e total 10 number of witness required for a marriage, whether
an arranged marriage or a love marriage for getting marriage registration
certificate. The witnesses should give undertaking that they will be
subjected to enquiry in the event of breakup of marriage for what so ever
reason. Only persons who knows the bride or groom or for that matter any
reason should be eligible to become a witness, not everyone who are by
passers on road can become just witness for the sake of witness. Also the
witnesses should give declaration in standard format with brief description
that how do they know the bride or groom, and from when, who introduced
them etc,; also it should be mandatory that the witness should know the
person whom he/she supporting must me known to them for at least one
year. The details of address proof, like voter ID card, pass port, copy and
contacts of witness mobile, social media should be mandatorily disclosed in
the witness declaration from. This measure will certainly eliminate the touts
to act as witness, just by signing on the documents without address for
contact; also this measure saves lot of uninterested marriages, performed
under force/ coercion of the parents, as witnesses also liable in case of
complaint by the bride or groom. Also the details can be used in case of
domestic violence or dowry harassment cases.
17)
MANDATORY FOR ALL MARRIAGE RELATED SERVICE
PROVIDERS TO GET REGISTER WITH MARRIAGE REGISTRAR.
Also it should be ideal that government in order to better contain lavish
expenditure through un accounted money at marriage functions, while on
the paper making it limited to the maximum allowed limit for that income
group (in the event of government fixing marriage expenditure limit), by
putting a trach/ monitoring the expenditure indirectly, it should be made
mandatory that all marriage function related activity service providers like
priests/ match makers, marriage hall rentals, decorators, event managers,
card printers, to food suppliers, to suppliers of furniture, jewellery & cloths
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suppliers / retailers with mandatory on the part of the marrying party i.e
bride or groom to disclose to the retailer that the jewellery is for marriage,
(when they file expenditure statement they should get reflected that from
where they purchased jewellery, cloths) cooks, the travel agents, etc should
register with the respective district marriage registrar and each one
category wise should get unique ID number. If any marriage happened in
that district should use services from the registered service providers only,
all payments should quote the PMR unique id number, and it should be
mandatory on the part of these marriage service providers to do service
only those who got pre marriage authentication number. Precisely only after
getting PMR any one can start the process of marriage related activities.
Also it should be mandatory on the part of the individual marriage
service providers to submit annual income/ expenditure statement to the
registrar of marriages where they were registered, by using the pre
marriage unique ID code, the marriage register can get the details of
expenditure, which should be reflected in the expenditure statement
submitted by the married couple/ their parents/guardians, also the
expenditure statement submitted by married couple or bride and groom
should clearly mention bifurcation of total expenditure each category wise
like expenditure on Jewellery, cloths, venue, decoration, food etc etc each
supported by the purchase bills, if they purchased, in case third party
purchase also the same should be submitted with the bills, and no gifts
should be accepted in marriage without bills of purchase by the so called
third party and a declaration in standard format that they are giving this gift
to so and so on the so and so occasion. These measures will certainly reduce
use of unaccounted money in the marriages.
18)
MANDATORY MENTION/
REGISTRATION UNIQUE ID
FUNCTIONS.

DISPLAY
NUMBER

OF
IN

PRE
ALL

MARRIAGE
MARRIAGE

It is necessary that those who know the prospective married couple, and
those who do service for marriage must do some due diligence based on the
information available on the PMR unique ID submitted by the bride and
groom. As such it should be made mandatory that all the invitation cards,
messages (e mail, sms or social media) / at the venue of the marriage the
pre marriage authentication number should be displayed, with details of
date of application, date of grant of authentication, for public understanding.
Also all purchases for marriage after PMR should clearly specify the PMR
number. This measure will ensure that the marriage is subjected to indirect
due diligence of the public, and any concealed information will automatically
come out, so in almost all cases the prospective couple will reveal the truth.

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19)
MAKING IT MANDATORY ANY GIFT PRESENTED ON ANY
OCCASION TO ANY ONE, SHOULD ISSUE A SELF DECLARATION IN
STANDARD FORMAT.
Also it should be made mandatory that hence forth for what so ever may
the occasion whether it may be marriage/ birthday, office assuming, just
greeting on festivals etc if any individuals gives any gift, they should provide
a copy of the purchase of the gift, in addition also a declaration in a
standard format that they have given so and so gift to the so and so
individual on this occasion or just like on this date and time. This standard
formats should be purchased from post offices or revenue departments or
from banks, which are otherwise bar coded, with a carbon copy,by providing
basic details of voter ID, phone number of the purchaser. This measure will
certainly reduce the happing of corruption, circulation of un accounted
money in the form of expensive gifts given to various sections of people, or
people in order to avoid tax just say that this was a gift from their parents,
relatives, friends etc, in order to ensure that all gifts sponsored are from tax
paid money, this measure is necessary. Also it should be made mandatory,
if any person gives the gift, he/ she should certainly get reflected in the
personal expenditure statement, with the bar coded number of the
declaration, signature from the receiver.
This measure reduces the wasteful expenses made by the youth or
others in the pretext of getting the girl/ boy fall in their trap for so called
love or adultery sex, and in case if any girl/ boy says that she got a gift, she
/ he should reveal to the parents that from whom she/he got the gift and
the purpose of the gift, the occasion of the gift, the money for the gift, etc
and no one claim later on they given gifts for sex or love?; in case parents
can report to the parents of the boy/girl that his son/ daughter is giving so &
so expensive gifts/ treats just like that, ask them to keep a watch on their
son/ daughter. Similarly the spouses can track the gifts of the This measure
will not only save lot of money, but also makes the youth follow the ethics,
that without earning spending the hard earned money of the parents for
tapping someone in the name of love is ridiculous, also in case of married
people, the wife can track the gift, and couples will be alert in not wasting
money on gifts even with un accounted money. Also this measure will
certainly creates responsibility of the giver and taker, taker should not
accept gifts from strangers with motives, which otherwise common in
political, bureaucratic circles that most of the people who wish to get some
or other work done from these people will throw expensive gifts on festive
occasions or just like that, which is the root cause of corruption/ bias
towards those who favoured them.

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20)
AMENDING LAW FOR SIMPLIFYING AFFIDAVIT SUBMISSION
ONLINE USED FOR VARIOUS PURPOSES , ESPECIALLY MARRIAGE
RELATED PURPOSES
Also government must make the affidavit submission simple, what all
required is every stamp paper should have a unique bar coded number,
which should be purchased from the government either in post offices or
revenue department by giving basic details of the purchaser, and the stamp
paper number should be quoted online, by quoting the number online to the
register of marries itself should be treated as submitting to government, and
bound to be legally valid. In this the stamp paper should have the buyer,
the individual who is submitting the details, and the submission through the
official phone number/ e mail of the Individual who is submitting, is
mandatory, in order to protect the interest of the individuals, there should
be some security codes should be forward to the individual mobile numbers
for final submission of the details, just like the online banking transactions in
order to prevent fraudulent / vested interest submitting the details without
knowledge of the individual.
For those who do not have the e mail, mobile phone, must physically
visit the marriage registrar office/ or post office (post offices must be used
for this purpose) and pay a nominal fee and submit paper affidavit. And the
marriage registrar / post office should give copy of the attestation of what is
submitted by the individual in the standard format, in order to ensure there
wont be any frauds by the corrupt staff wrongly registering the details/ any
other frauds tampering the details/ doctoring the affidavit for vested interest
colluding with vested interests in this regard.
21)
MANDATORY THAT GOVERNMENT VERIFY STATUS OF NRI
BRIDES/ GROOMS IN THEIR RESPECTIVE COUNTRIES THROUGH
INDIAN EMBASSIES IN THAT COUNTRY WHERE THEY ARE
RESIDING FOR GRANTING PERMISSION FOR MARRYING ANY
INDIAN RESIDENT BRIDE/GROOM, FOR PREVENTING CHEATING /
DECEIVING, ALSO FOR PREVENTING POOR GIRLS/WOMEN IN
MUSLIM COMMUNITY GETTING MARRIED TO ARAB SHAKES, FOR
FEW MONTHS, LATER ON THEY VANISH, SPOILING THE LIFE OF
YOUNG GIRLS/WOMEN.
Also it should be made mandatory that all the abroad pre matrimonial
matches should be go through the Indian embassy in that country, all the
abroad matches should mandatorily do pre marriage registration at least 60
days prior to such marriage with the marriage registrar in INDIA and the
marriage registrar will forward it to the external affairs Ministry of
Government of India and MEA will forward the details to the respective
country INDIAN embassy where the individual lives for authenticating the
claims individual, that his/her visa is valid, do he/she having permission to
get spouse to that country, do he/she was a permanent residence of that
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country, from when he is staying in that country, till date how many times
the individual visited INDIA, where the individual is employed/working, what
is the salary the individual getting etc, in addition the details of the
individual as mentioned by the individual to the marriage registrar should be
kept in the separate website in that country, and the INDIAN embassy
should do due diligence with the marriage registrars of that country for
information regarding marrying in that country, (also may give
advertisements in the respective country media that anyone individual who
are known to these person (who are in the process of getting married in
INDIA) should see the website and contact the embassy in case they found
the Individual who is willing to marry in INDIA either already married to
anyone in the country or in living in relationship with someone in the
country, in addition Indian embassy must sent the details posted by the
individual to the INDIAN associations living in that country for information
and due diligence. by this way a lot of fraudulent marriages of abroad
matches can be contained to a great extent. Also making it mandatory that
marrying an INDIA by Foreigner on visit visa is banned and a serious crime.
Also this measure will certainly reduce the so called Arab Sheks
(irrespective of what age group they belong to) getting in to marriage for
one month with young Indian girls (as low as even 12 years, but in nikha
inflating their age as 18 fraudulently) in the name of nikha due to corrupt
mullas and mediators, the parents of the girls are indirectly selling the girls
into one kind of prostitution to live with these arab shakes for one month or
two months in the name of marriage, and just before their visit visa expires
these arab shakes left these young girls in INDIA and go back totheir
countries, and either never returns to India, or even returns never visit the
married young girls, later on these married young girls either never get
divorce or become a victims / hounded / forced to prostitution by these
middle men/women? Shame, all this kind of marriages can be controlled if
there is pre marriage registration is mandatory? ;
In order to prevent abroad marriage frauds, the abroad matches should
apply for PMR, 60 days before marriage date if both bride & groom are
Indian Domicile, where as if the marriage between any one of them are
living in India and other partner is in Abroad whether Indian Origin or
FOREIGN national, then at least 90 days before the marriage they should
apply for pre marriage registration, for obtaining PMR unique ID. Prior to
this permission, if any one get marries then both the individuals are liable to
rigorous imprisonment, if the parents force the children to perform the
marriage then parents/ guardian are also liable for imprisonment, also those
who performed the marriage should be liable for punishment, also those
who attended the marriage should be liable for punishment.

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22)
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF LIST OF INVITES, TO THE
MARRIAGE FUNCTIONS ALONG WITH THEIR CONTACT DETAILS,
AND ADDRESS; FIXING RESPONSIBILITY ON THE RELATIVES IF
THEY DO NOT REVEAL ANY CONCEALED INFORMATION KNOWN TO
THEM REGARDING BRIDE/ GROOM OR THEIR FAMILY AS PER
DATA OF THE PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION; INDIRECT WAY OF
CONDUCTING SOCIAL AUDIT ON THE COUPLE.
Also government must enact law in such a manner that all marriages
performed in a function form must mandatorily submit the details of invitees
to the function by filling a standard format to the marriage registrar. The
format should classify the invitees into various categories.
1
2
3
4

Blood related relatives with their relationship to bride/groom

close friends, friends, from when did they know (tentatively)
acquaintances neighbours, old neighbours in their residence, etc
office colleagues
Also how long you know them, approximately

Also it should be made mandatory that while PMR submission that it

should be made mandatory that details of the bride/ groom parents in case
of arranged marriage, in case of love marriages by both bride and groom
that when did they know each other, who introduced them, how many times
they met / be in contact before marriage (tentatively), the details of phone
numbers and address of the persons introduced; the family tree of the bride
and groom from their grandparents onwards. These details should be
submitted one week before marriage date/ function, after obtaining PMR
either through e mail or fax or personal submission in affidavit, form All
these details should be useful for future needs;
The registrar of marriages must send the details of the bride and groom
as declared by them and their parents while submitting for PMR should be
shared with the invitees for information in the form of e mail, sms to go
through the details for information from the website of marriage registrar by
typing the PMR number. This measure will certainly ensure that by and large
the bride and groom will reveal the truth not only about their personal
details, but also the assets of that they and their parents holding. In case
they feel that if some of the friends, relatives, neighbours who knows much
about them and they may reveal if the info sent to them by the government
marriage register (in the event of concealment of any information especially
the assets) , then they may not invite them for marriage, in that case there
is every possibility that these people who are not invited by the bride and
groom side will personally feel insulted and there is every chance they may
anonymously reveal the details to the marriage registrar as informers. Also
it should be made mandatory that after the marriage function is over the
registrar of marriages has to put it on the web that details of invitees (only
names, under which category they are invited, not their contact details) by
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the couple. (each couple should have a webpage in the registrar of

marriages website).
Also it should be mandatory that in case the invitees knows the
information / truth but will not expose due the friendship or any other
reason, they are liable for criminal act in case of the crime proved at a later
date and in case found in investigation that they are aware of the concealed
details. The details if concealed that attracts criminal case are any previous
marriage/ live in relation/ adultery, concealing of information regarding
dowry, concealing information regarding domestic violence, concealing of
assets of the parents/ bride/ groom. Also in case of love marriages the
friends introduced them or the friends who are acted as witness etc will be
used for future needs.
All these contacts in both arranged marriages and love marriages used in
case of divorce cases, domestic violence or any other atrocity done by either
of the spouse / their parents/ in laws, all these contacts will be sent
information regarding the case and use them for ensuring that divorce
proposal be dropped for amicable solution reached between the wife &
husband; also in case of domestic violence the contacts can be used to
make the husband/ wife understand their mistake and get rectified in the
first instance and as a last resort of repeated violence either husband/ wife
should be booked under domestic violence; Also in case of dowry
harassment the contact should be questioned for their knowledge and in
case they conceal they should be punished as per law, These measure will
certainly yield the desired results.
All these measure ensures that the couple in marriage is subjected to
social audit so the chances of concealment of information are very minimal.
23)
MANDATORY FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM TO MENTION TWO
NEIGHBOURS IN THEIR PLACE OF LIVING EITHER ADJACENT TO
THEIR HOUSE, FOR MULTIPLE ADVANTAGES; ALSO MAKING IT A
SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY OF NEIGHBOURS TO KNOW EACH
OTHER AND ACT AS WATCH DOGS
Also it should be made mandatory that the bride and groom should
mandatorily provide contact details/ reference of at least two neighbours
adjacent / besides/ opposite their house of stay whether they are
acquainted or not, with address and contact numbers in the PMR form who
are neighbours of both bride and groom as well as their parents.
Also it should be made mandatory while applying for PMR they should
reveal the place of living after marriage, both transit accommodation and
permanent accommodation. In case of permanent accommodation of
separate living is not known at the time of applying PMR they can reveal
within one month of such occupation of such new accommodation after
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marriage. Also it should be made mandatory to provide the details of

neighbours of transit accommodation as well as permanent accommodation.
This measure is necessary to ensure that every one will develop better
interpersonal relationships with neighbours, in addition they get
acquaintance, also they are also act as watch dog on each other, as part of
social responsibility, and try to know more about each other and they will be
useful in case of domestic violence etc as a witness. Also it should be made
mandatory that the neighbours of each residential colony/ apartment should
know each other and must act as watch dogs for preventing happening of
prostitution, Adultery, domestic violence, un accounted property, property in
benami name, where the actual owner is someone but on record some
titular one, etc This measure will certainly yield results in multiple ways, as
people themselves act as social audit agents in building prosperous INDIA.
24)
ENCOURAGEMENT / REWARD FOR INFORMERS FOR
REVELLING UNDISCLOSED/ CONCEALED INFORMATION/ FALSE
INFORMATION SUBMITTED IN MARRIAGE DECLARATION DURING
PMR PROCESSING.
Also in order to ensure that all the information submitted by the
prospective bride and prospective groom who wish to marry is correct and
truthful, and the financial details are true, an external pressure is created in
them in the form of encouraging informers. So if any one who wish to get
reward or for that matter any one whish to uphold the legitimacy,
truthfulness in the marriage relationship and no one get cheated can visit
the marriage registrar website, just type the either name/ voter id card/
passport number on the website of centralised data base of marriage
registrars and just know that whether what is disclosed by the individuals is
true or not; in case if they found that the information submitted by the bride
and groom are not true, or if they have any details to prove that they
concealed information, they should sent an e mail, send letter with required
proofs, to the marriage register, only those objections with proofs should be
taken into consideration and an explanation should be sought from the party
on whom the acquisitions are made, in case of proofs of crimes, the
marriage registrar should refer to the police, On getting the explanation
from the party, on examining the details, if found satisfactory, the register
should give permission for getting married by allotting PMR unique ID within
30 days of submission for PMR.
Also alternatively, like passport verification by police, the marriage
verification service should be initiated by the police department, on payment
of certain amount, they should visit the bride and groom and gather the info
and re check it with the information submitted and give clearance. This
measure eliminates lot of marriage related crimes to a great extent.
Also government must provide reward of 10% of the value of the
property/ assets of the person who concealed information/ cheated the
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other party as reward, which was otherwise not declared in the income tax,
or to the marriage registrar, whether it is movable property (like gold,
jewellery, vehicles, articles, shares, investments
etc) or immovable
property (land, buildings). Also these informers can find out the new
purchases after the marriage and inform the marriage registrar/ income tax
authorities which was otherwise purchased from the dowry money mostly,
for this also they should get reward.
People who know the correct
information may at any time contact the income tax authorities or marriage
register with the PMR unique ID number. This measure will certainly reduce
un accounted money circulation, dowry, as with dowry money lot of men
purchase vehicles, land and property and jewellery etc. Since the groom &
bride and their parents submit their bank accounts and assets, for PMR it is
easy for the investigation agencies to establish the un accounted money/
dowry transaction based on the either specific information or otherwise
keeping such bank accounts under scrutiny. This measure reduces
corruption as well as dowry to a great extent.
25)
MANDATORY TRAINING/ COUNSELLING OF PROSPECTIVE
COUPLE AFTER PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION UNIQUE ID FOR
ENABLING THEM TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER FOR BETTER
HARMONIOUS RELATION, HOME MANAGEMENT AFTER MARRIAGE
Also it should be made mandatory that after getting pre marriage
registration PMR both bride and groom must attend training/counselling
secessions either before marriage or after marriage,(within the valid period
of PMR i.e 90 days) regarding the family values, home making, kitchen &
budgeting, time management, issues rated to pregnancy, child care, issues
related to nucleolus families, financial management Investments & savings
for future needs health care & stress management, spirituality, yoga/
fitness, occupational health hazards, issues related to various occupations
for better understanding by others, sharing of responsibilities, for reducing
the misconceptions/ notions in future, care for the elderly, legal rights,
government support for the females etc certain sessions gender exclusive
and certain sessions jointly. Also certain part of training should be based on
the income group, to suit their budget in the financial management and
stress management.
The training sessions, should be for four days, with weekly one day for
four weeks, one day training starting from 10 am to 5 pm with adequate
beaks for tea, lunch, snacks for ensuring this time is utilised by the
prospective couple to understand each other in the back drop of training,
also at the end of each secession there should be a questioner in local
language, separately for bride and groom, to know each other ideas and
discuss it better during the breaks, for better understanding each other and
rectifying the shortcomings at their end to live a balanced life. For this the
government must create district wise centres with necessary infrastructure
& professionals related to the respective fields recruited permanently for
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providing the training for the prospective couple. For this fee should be
charged as per income group of the couple. For BPL families, low income
group no fee, for middle income group nominal fee, for higher income group
higher fee. This measure will ensure perfect start of family life after they
wed each other as it develops ways and means for better understanding of
each other before marriage and after marriage.
26)
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF TENTATIVE EXPENDITURE
PLANNED FOR MARRIAGE, SOURCE OF FUNDS FOR MARRIAGE,
FOR GETTING PRE MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE.
Also it should be made mandatory that for getting pre marriage
registration PMR approval from marriage registrar, it is necessary to submit
the total expenditure planned and the source of funds, without required
minimum funds / adequate funds as per their marriage plan expenditure in
the bank account for the expenditure planned on marriage while applying to
PMR, the pre marriage registration approval clearance should not be given,
as without source of funds who come one perform the marriage?; in case of
simple marriages at registrar of marriages office or otherwise need no
expenditure, but certainly minimum amount of 15,000 in urban areas and
11,500 for rural areas is required for 3 months living.
27)
ENACTING LAW LIMIT FOR FIXATION OF MARRIAGE
EXPENSES BASED ON THE INCOME GROUP OF THE BIDE AND
GROOM; MAKING IT A CRIMINAL OFFENCE FOR PERFORMING
MARRIAGE BEYOND THEIR FINANCIAL CAPABILITY OF THE
PARENTS OF BRIDE/GROOM WHO EVER PERFORMING MARRIAGE;
Also making it a criminal offence to perform marriages beyond their
financial capability, as even till now millions of parents are in acute financial
stress/ debt for the marriages performed 30 to 40 years back, then one can
imagine how far the marriages makes the family suffer?, as such
government must enact law in such a manner that no one should perform
marriages beyond the limits set by government for each income group.
The annual income, should be considered as the bases for determining
the maximum expenditure that the performer of the marriage on each side
can spend for the purpose of marriage can be determined; for all those
whose annual income is below Rs 1,00,000 (parents and un married children
all put together s the total income for consideration), they can spend a
maximum amount of Rs 30,000, (this maximum limit of expenditure is
irrespective of savings in the bank), like that several slabs should be created
with maximum amount on ultra high net worth income group should be
restricted to maximum of Rs 50,00,000 Any expenditure above the limit
should be liable for penalty/ rigorous imprisonment;

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Also government must track the bank accounts of the prospective bride
or groom for one year before the marriage, one year after the marriage for
large transactions/ loans, deposits, issue of cheques etc for tracking the
financial capability of the individuals and track the happening of dowry, also
the government tracking of marriage service providers, who all are got
service for what value, this will make the parents of the married couple
adhere to the norms.
Also it should be made clear through advertisements in media also
through road shows that financial health of not only the newly married
couple, but also the parents of the bride should be healthy in order to have
a happy life. Also if anyone over spends beyond their financial capacity for
so called false prestige, that the marriage celebrated this grandly/ that
grandly etc etc is just a notion and short lived after all people come eat and
defecate within 24 hours, the decoration of so called flowers/ lighting etc will
be removed soon after the marriage is over, but the financial burden on the
parents for performing marriage beyond their financial capacity will remain
lifelong till they are alive (in some cases the left over burden carried by
children), they live with rest of the life in stressed, will any person get
blessings of almighty if someone put in misery and enjoy?, if this sort of
thoughts repeatedly placed on the people, with sowing some real cases how
pathetic they are living due to the debts on account of performing marriage
of their child., at least some % of population will adhere to their financial
capability when performing marriages of their children in future.
Also government make it mandatory media whether print or electronic
completely barred from airing so called big fat weddings and writings about
the big fat weddings that this family spend this lavishly, that lavishly etc etc,
in addition individuals and their family/ friends are barred from posting
material related to the so called big fat weddings on social media.
28)
BANK LOANS WITH LOW INTEREST RATE FOR MARRIAGES
WITH 75% IN DEBIT CARD, 25% CASH, DEBIT CARD USED FOR
OBTAINING MARRIAGE RELATED SERVICES.
Also only bank loans should be provided for marriage in case no
cash in bank accounts prior to applying for PMR, by mortgaging the movable
assets/ fixed assets they possess with the loan amount restricting to the
maximum of loan to 25% of the value of assets, or the maximum limit of,
and that too based on the repayment capacity. In case of taking marriage
loans they should clearly specify that the loan is for marriage and all
marriage loans should be of nominal interest, and they should be given in
principle loan sanction for marriage purpose and once they get PMR it should
be released. This loans should be 75% in debit card, 25% cash and the
debit card should be useful in all out lets that are registered with registrar of
marriages for marriage service providers; And there should be complete ban
on availing private loans used for marriage purposes (ideal government
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must make it mandatory that all); this measure will certainly reduce a lot of
burden on most of the parents in the country, especially the middle class
and low income group; Also it should be made mandatory that the planned
expenditure amount should be deposited/ transferred to a special marriage
purpose account, and a debit card issued, in this also 75% amount should
be used in debit card, and 25% cash they can use; the all marriages should
have special debit card and all expenses for marriage should be through that
debit card only, so that majority of the expenditure is tracked, and while
filing the expenditure statement it will be reflected and can be cross checked
online with service providers payments. This measure curtails happing of
dowry, use of unaccounted money in the marriage related activities.
29)
CREATION OF CORPUS FUND FOR MARRIAGES OF BRIDES &
GROOMS BELONGING TO BPL FAMILIES
Also it should be made mandatory that government must create a corpus
fund for the marriages of downtrodden BPL family members or whoever
seeks support from government, if they do not have funds for marriage, this
corpus fund should be joint contribution of state and central government in
appropriate percentage of sharing, also Corporate and the individuals who
wish to contribute for a noble cause can contribute, such contributions
should be exempted from tax. All non government contributions (already
some state governments are encouraging mass marriages/ inter caste/ inter
religious marriages) should get 100% income tax relief. And this also should
be part of CSR, so that any corporate can donate some extent of money as
CSR. The government must not only perform marriages in their respective
religious faiths on any of the auspicious occasions of that religious faith on
mass marriage functions and such BPL couples should be provided with
basic living facilities like utensils, cloths, etc in addition they should get
registered in the BPL Housing scheme, and also in the SHG/ MNGEGA etc so
that there will be regular source of income for the couple. This measure is
only for those who could not save minimum amount of 15,000 Rs in urban
areas and 11,500 in rural areas, as part of PMR submission because they
are poor, all such cases government select by lottery that year from the
applicants for getting married through the corpus fund, only limited number
of such marriages should be supported by government. These measures will
certainly improve the quality of living of the BPL families and in addition the
children are healthy and lead to a better INDIA.
30)
MANDATORY SUBMISSION OF EXPENDITURE INCURRED ON
MARRIAGE WITH DETAILED BREAK UP STATEMENT BY PARENTS
OF BRIDE & GROOM / COUPLE WITHIN 7 DAYS OF MARRIAGE.
Also it should be made mandatory that all the married couple/ parents /
guardians of both sides who performed the marriage should mandatorily file
the marriage expenditure statement to the marriage registrar with total
video of the marriage function, the expenditure on invitation cards, to venue
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to decoration, to food, stay of the guests to transportation etc; This

measure is necessary to ensure the expenditure is limited to the maximum
limit allowed, also this measure contains dowry to large extent for tacking
all the details of income and expenditure of both bride and groom.
31)
RECOVERY OF EXPENDITURE INCURRED ON SECURITY
ARRANGEMENTS FOR ELECTED REPRESENTATIVES/ CELEBRITIES
VISITING MARRIAGE FUNCTIONS.
It is very strange that so called VIP elected representatives, so called
celebrities uses common persons tax paid money for pleasing someone by
attending the marriage or function of his/her acquaintance is how far
justifiable? (Even a BPL family member paying tax on soap, tooth paste
etc?)? Why does tax payers money should be allowed to spent on private
purposes? As such it should be made mandatory that the expenditure
incurred for the security arrangements in the event of any so called political
class/ bureaucrats, celebrities attend the marriage/ function, the cost
incurred on the state police/ municipal authorities for extending, security,
service at the venue etc should be borne by the marriage function invitee or
by the person visiting; Also all elected representatives/ bureaucrats/
celebrities who are under security cover provided by government should not
use official vehicle to attended any private functions, also should not use the
personal security when visiting the function, in case they feel that they
should use government provided vehicle, government security, such
individual elected representative/ bureaucrats should pay to the government
the expenditure incurred on their vehicle/security to government. In case of
so called celebrities government must charge the organisers for controlling
the crowed in that vicinity, clearing traffic etc.
The amount recovered should be equivalent to the salary paid for that
period (per hour expenditure can be determined based on his /her salary
per day/8 hours duty, the duty of how many police, municipal authorities on
duty should be calculated in a standard formula, the same should be
calculated the total number of hours the personal security, the police at the
venue/ in bando-bast duty from the residence/place of such security
covered person to the venue of the marriage function or any function and
return), this measure is necessary, after all tax payers money should not be
spent on the private events? .
Also there should be special fees from the traffic police, municipal
authorities and electricity authorities and water supply authorities for use of
their services for the event for marriages/ functions attended by so called
VIP political class, bureaucratese, celebrities, as for such marriages there is
lot of traffic jams, and more police need to be deployed, also more
municipal waste get generate after the marriage function/ any function
happens, similarly more electricity used for lighting and other uses, so
additional cost for power should be charged, also more water charges for
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use of more water. The same should be applicable for any celebrity opening
ceremony of any establishments/ attending any functions etc.
32)
INCENTIVES, TAX CONCESSION FOR MARRYING IN A
TRADITIONAL MANNER, FOLLOWING THE RELIGIOUS CUSTOMS
OF THEIR RELIGION AND REGION.
Marriages are made in heaven, etc etc are no logical reasoning if think
rationally, but once can come to logical conclusion with rational thinking that
certainly birth and death are not in the disposal of humans and certainly
there is some unknown external cosmic forces have full control over them,
majority of the people in the world believe it as god, some believe in cosmic
forces, the very minute if any one feel everything what majority thinking is
foolish and no existence of god/ cosmic forces, it is nothing but hypocrisy,
as they think that they are larger than life, and certainly these kind of
people are with jaundice eyes?
So whatever majority of religious leaders say (all religions), certain
customs and traditions preached and practiced by our ancestors are very
logical and even have some scientific validity for sure. Example tying the
house with green leafs, spraying cow dung water on the open mud on the
ground is to protect from harmful bacteria killed , etc etc greenery like
mango tree leaves/ neem leaves, and fresh flowers certainly have some
essence of giving some medicinal values, fragrances of flowers act life air
fresheners, also applying the turmeric, taking turmeric and neem both has
its own medicinal values, similarly the hymens chanted, the traditional
music played with traditional instruments has some therapy values to the
mind and thus to the body. Also traditions and customs gives a sense of
inclusion of entire family members and immediate relatives, Since the newly
married is the future of the world, and certainly the new wed couple have
some gratitude in that their family members/ immediate relatives was part
of their marriage (not as a visitor in the modern day marriages, but doing
some ritual as a part of marriage if one follows the age old traditions and
customs during marriage), they keep in touch with them and with a sense of
gratitude, also making them to do some rituals by the elderly is to ensure
that these young new couple will take the advice from the experienced
elders in the new life and also to take care of the elders when in need to
exhibit their gratitude.
So many things can be learned from traditions and customs of the
religion and region, as every religion as some faith embedded in it, also
every region (territory) has its own traditions based on the geographic and
climatic conditions. These traditions and customs must be preserved and
carry forwarded to generations to come. This measure also provides some
employment to the hereditary traditions carriers like priests, the traditional
musicians playing traditional music, the artisans etc etc.; also in case
marriages are performed following the traditions and customs, there is a
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possibility of reduction in divorce cases, reduction in domestic violence,

reduction in dowry harassment, of course these maladies have multiple
reasons but once they followed traditions the chance of occurrence of dowry
harassment may be low. So government must encourage by way of
concession on tax to perform traditional marriages. This measure is
necessary as the country is getting digital and rapid urbanisation, the
younger generation is completely out of sync with the traditions and
customs of the religion and region, so in order to preserve age old traditions
and customs for generations to come, also to make the youth aware of the
essence and goodness, long term benefits of following traditions and
customs, it is necessary to provide concessions to encourage them to follow.
33)
INCENTIVES FROM GOVERNMENT FOR MARRYING FARMERS
CHILDREN/ TRADITIONAL ARTISANS CHILDREN FOR ENSURING
THE AGE OLD TRADITIONS ARE CARRIED FORWARD FOR NEXT
GENERATION;
INCENTIVES
FOR
MARRYING
WIDOWS,
MANDATORY RE MARRIAGE FOR YOUNG WIDOWS
Also government must provide incentives for marrying the persons /
children of certain sections of people, as it is very sad state of affair that the
persons who are feeding the country with their hard labour, i.e the farming
community, are now a days encouraging their children leave the farming
profession and go for migration to cities even to do as an unorganised
labourer, all this with heavy heart, just because, they cannot see that their
young children (especially male), even though are handsome, but still not
getting matches, no one ready to give their daughter for a farmers son,
because, he do not have regular income, and his earnings are volatile, fully
depended on the luck, mercy of not only nature/ rain god, but also on the
mercy of the sellers of seed, fertilizers, and pesticides for not cheating them
with duplicate/ spurious seeds, which will spoil their all hopes, makes them
to languish in debts, also in case the crop homes by the grace of god, then
the middlemen at market yard will loot them by denying the minimum
support price, forcing the to sell at price less than the investment ? all these
leading to continue the the profession of agriculturist very difficult, which
once up on a time a people are proud to say, honoured to call agriculturalist,
now a days are fearing to say they are agriculturists, so government must
provide al support to their children in all possible means at least that they
should get married .
Also similarly the priestly class who are the otherwise install religious
faith in several people and carry forward the customs and traditions of the
religion has hardly any regular income, except in some urban areas where
they are paid salaries for working in temples, masjids, churches, So if any
one of the priestly children want to continue their hereditary profession, for
carrying forward the age old traditions and customs to the future
generations, they are not getting matches, most of the girls are not willing
to marry, so government must provide all necessary support for getting the
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children of the priestly class to get married in order to ensure that they
carry the hereditary family tradition of priestly-ness, it is necessary that
next generations should have full religious knowledge, these hereditary
priests of all religions are necessary to be encouraged to carry forward their
profession. Also hence forth government must provide regular salary for all
the priestly class of all religions equally for minimum maintenance of family
by putting 0.1 percentage of religious cess on all income earnings of all
sections, to form a corpus fund for paying salary for the priestly class as per
percentage of population of religion.; Also similarly matter children of all
artisans who are continuing the age old traditions like hand weaving,
pottery, cobblers, haircutting etc who are following their profession by
hereditary (not employed in any organisation, but running their own,
handmade, not machine made); also government must extend concessions
for marriages of persons with any physical disability (complete ban of
marriages of mentally in stability/ mentally disabled);in addition government
concessions/ incentives for marrying army soldiers.
In addition government must extend maximum incentives for widow re
marriages, they should be provided with tax concessions on personal
income, increments in employment, etc, it is necessary there might be
several young widows due to accidental deaths or due to any grave illness
or what so ever reason may be, as it is a fact that India is having more than
1.5 lack accidental death cases every year, and may increase year after
year, in addition many youth lost their life due to consumption of tobacco,
smoking, also due to work load stress even youngsters in their 30 + years
of age are getting heart diseases and heart attack, facing death at very
young age; as such government must make it mandatory that all young
widows who are at the reproductive age, i.e who not attained menopause
should mandatorily re marry within 24 months of the death of first husband
(if no criminal cases pending related to marriage, involvement of the widow
related to the death of the husband); for this government must not only
extend the incentives for widow marriages like providing preferential
employment opportunity for re-married widow both in government as well
as in private employment, mandatory providing one time increment in salary
/ fixed amount hike per month for the re married widow or her husband if
they are employed either in government or private, also if the MNREGA
employee should get special pay of 25% hike in her pay for rest of her life;
in case she re-marries either to her or her husband in case he too also an
MNREGA employee, also in case a MNREGA widow employee do not re
marry within 24 months of the death of her first husband (it is a fact the
more the widow women poor/ economically weak, the more she is
vulnerable for atrocity on her, as the male will eye on her to poach her for
adultery by exploiting basic economic needs?) all these measures are in
order to ensure widow marriages happen, government must make that in
case of no re marriage within 24 months of the death of the first husband
the widow should lose government support like widow pension, and also she
should lose right over her inherent properties; this measure is necessary to
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ensure young widows re marry for happy life for rest of her life; this
measure of mandatory remarriage of widows is necessary purely in larger
interest, welfare of the women, as it is a fact that many men will eye on/
lure with lust, the young widow women for extra matrimonial affair/
adultery, if incentives are given for re marriage of widows many male will
come forward to marry, the safety and security of the widow women is also
taken care due to re marriage; For all incentives (providing monitory/kind)
support to these sections (farmers, artisans, widows etc), government must
create a corpus fund and also extend 100% tax concessions for contribution
to the fund and should under CSR, also ideal to impose 0.05% cess on
petrol/ power for using the fund for creation of corpus fund for this purpose.
34)
ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR CREATING RIGHT TO KNOW TOTAL
INCOME, SOURCE OF INCOME /EARNINGS/ASSETS OF THE
SPOUSE EACH OTHER, ALSO BY PARENTS IN CASE OF UNMARRIED
YOUTH;
MANDATORY
MAINTENANCE
OF
EXPENDITURE
STATEMENT AND UP DATE EVERY DAY BY ALL INCOME EARNERS
Since income earned and expenditure made is the major factor that
determines the health & happiness of the family, if there is no monitoring by
the parents what their unmarried young son/daughter earning per month
and expenditure per month or by the spouse (wife/husband), then there is
every possibility that the un married son/daughter may not spend
judiciously and may exhaust money early for luxury/ fulfilling wises like
partying/ alcohol/ womanising etc and without knowing the parents, in order
to maintain the false status or wises, he/she may take loans from fiends are
known people, also may not do any savings for future when the parents are
struggling to lead the family due to financial burden on account of
repayment of loans taken for education of their child/ house loans and
running the family? This is most common syndrome/ phenomenon seen
most of the houses; Also the case is same in most of the married couple,
mostly if the wife is home maker then the case is same as parents, of
course to some extent better if both husband and wife are employees. Also
in order to ensure that the youngsters will earn money in righteous
legitimate manner, it should be made mandatory the parents, spouse should
have the right to know the source of income, and it should be mandatory
obligation on the part of the un married child, on the part of the married
spouse to disclose the source of earnings to the parents/ spouse. This
measure will certainly ensure youth do not indulge in criminal activities, un
lawful activities to earn the money quickly without much effort. In case the
un married child/ married spouse did not disclose the source, they should
inform the government authorities to keep track on the person, to start with
ethical hacking, then personal enquiry; failure to do so, in case the un
married child caught in any illegal earning of money, the parents are liable
for criminal offence for either wilfully encouraging un lawful earnings by
their child, or concealing the information in case of married couple the

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spouse should be liable for criminal offence for not reporting to authorities
wilfully or wilfully encouraging the spouse to earn money illegally.
So in order to make young age behave responsibly and adhere to
financial discipline and making them adhere to judicious spending (certainly
not making misers), and also inculcating good habits though monitoring of
expenditure by parents till marriage and by spouse after marriage, for this
government must enact law making it mandatory that all income earners
whether they are MNREGA employees or class 4 employees or the
presidents of MNC or even elected representatives they have to mandatorily
maintain the expenditure statement, by maintaining an account book in the
mobile or computer system and update every time when he spends /
expenditure is made, either in cash, or bank debit card, cheque or credit
card to a have track of daily expenses, even though statements of
credit/debit cards comes. And the cash payments / with drawls should not
be more than 10% of total earnings.
Also it should be made mandatory that every parent (for unmarried
son/daughter) or spouse (wife& husband) has the right to know the
income, expenditure & Assets (RTKIEA) statement every month / quarter/
half year/ annum with all required supporting documents i.e bills/vouchers
for expenses and supporting documents for assets whether they are
movable or immovable. If any of the parents/spouse complains that they
have not received the statement to the concerned government authority,
then they will issue notice to the person for explanation for reasons and
submit it to the authority, in case it is intentionally not given details to
patents/ spouse, they should be fined for that which should be equivalent to
1/4 of the annual income or three months earnings.
In addition, also it should be made mandatory that every individual
should submit the IEA statement should be submitted in an affidavit form
whether they are income tax payee or not, to the government, For this
government must make create a mobile app and it is mandatory that every
individual should download in their mobile, for smart phones and for
ordinary phones through sms form. And update their income and
expenditure statement and the cumulative will automatically get displayed
every month/ quarter/half year and annually.
This measure will not only reduce the misunderstandings/ myths among
the spouse/ parents& children but also reduces happening of domestic
violence & divorces and also it leads to healthy family for using the hard
earned money judiciously and most of expenses will be inclusive decisions, it
reduces corruption, since the chances of hiding the expenditure/ savings is
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35)
ENACTMENT OF LAW MAKING IT MANDATORY FOR BOTH
WIFE AND HUSBAND JOINTLY FILE EQUALITY PLANNER IN AN
EXCEL SHEET WITH BIFURCATIONS OF WORK ALLOCATION, WHO
PERFORMED WHICH WORK FOR ENSUING BOTH WIFE AND
HUSBAND IN A MARRIAGE SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES EQUALLY
WITH MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING, FOR ESTABLISHMENT OF
EQUALITY OF BOTH GENDERS AND REDUCTION OF DOMINATION
OF ONE OVER OTHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY TO LEAD BY
EXAMPLE, FIRST STEP IN ESTABLISHMENT OF SOCIAL EQUALITY
It is a fact in most of the marriages wife, is a home maker as still the
country, it is because that women do not have equal opportunities in
employment in the country, due to lack of 50% reservation for women in
education, employment and electoral system.? They are subjected to
domination, more or less becoming bonded labour to the husband or in
laws; Even though women are working, the percentage of women working
class is much less than the male working class, as such most of the women
still remain at home, and working like cogs in oil mils in majority of the
homes from dawn to dusk, whereas man just poses as if he is working hard
to earn money (of course without some work no one can earn), but
strangely, the case is same, even if the women is also working / employee
in majority of the homes that women has to take of all house hold work and
then should go for work, at the same time more strangely, in some homes
especially in upper middle class and elite, or even in other classes, some
husbands become bonded labour to the wifes and do all the work at home
(they may employ a maid servant for limited job just to wash utensils and
sweeping/ broom-ing), but remaining all work done by husbands and the
women just indulge in taking rest or practicing beauty tips for maintaining
beauty, to look pretty or doing kitty parties or going for clubs or shoppings?
So in order to ensure balance of work, equality of responsibilities prevail
in the married life, it should be made mandatory that both wife and husband
share work equally more or less (even in joint families), for this either they
should have personal understating orally and also in writing which they
should keep among themselves, but if they fail to have equality and
domination prevails, it can be one of potential the reason for granting
divorce in future in addition to punishment for the person who dominates ot
forces others to do more work indirectly.; in case government restricts
number of marriages/ live in relations to 2 in any individuals life time, the
couple will certainly practice equality for avoiding divorce.
So in order to ensure equality be practiced by both wife and husband,
they should mandatorily maintain a standard format Equality Planner
dividing the work at home, and maintain the record and keep it with them
and submit annually in an affidavit form on oath i.e the Equality Planner,
to the registrar of marriages with joint signature; It is up to the couple to
distribute the work allocation/ sharing of the work either on day to day
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rotation or weekly or fortnightly or monthly or quarterly, rotation of work, or

share the day to day work each day ensuring more or less they should have
equal responsibility, irrespective of whether wife is just a women maker or
both wife and husband are working, irrespective of so called position/ status
/ income earning of the husband/wife. For this they should tabulate and list
all kinds of works each day required to perform (cooking, cleaning, washing
cloths, etc), works that needs weekly attention (washing floors/dusting,
etc), the works that need monthly attention (paying electricity bills, EMIs
etc etc), other periodic works (vehicle servicing, servicing of refrigerators,
etc), along with wife and husband columns and trick mark each other every
day who performed which work, at the end of the week,/ month or quarter
the works done by husband and wife in washing category / entry of work
(cooking is one work, washing clothes is one work etc ) should be more or
less equal This measure will certainly ensure equality of both gender and no
kind of domination of any gender directly or indirectly on each other. If the
equality begins at home, then only one can think of social equality, if one
cannot lead by example, how can one talk about and achieve social equality.
Not filing the equality list annually should attract penalty / punishment to
husband/wife for ill-treating the spouse.
36)
MAKING IT MANDATORY TO OPERATE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT
FOR MARRIED COUPLE; ALL EXPENDITURE SHOULD BE FROM
JOINT ACCOUNT ONLY, WITH EQUAL EXPENDITURE LIMIT FOR
BOTH INDIVIDUALLY, OVER AND ABOVE JOINT SIGNATURE.
In order to ensure equal treatment/ equal rights for wife and husband,
also for having harmonious relation and also ensuring financial discipline,
and also fully establishing the ethos of any marriage the decisions in their
life are consensus and have knowledge about each others expenditure,
government must enact the law that soon after the marriage the individuals
should open a joint bank account, all their earnings should be automatically
transferred from their individual bank accounts to the joint account on auto
debit method (in case of wife and husband are salaried employees working
in different organisations, possessing different bank accounts to receive
salary, then the salaries received by them individually in their respective
bank accounts should go the joint account soon after it credited into their
account by the respective organisations). Also there should be two debit
cards issued to the wife and husband from the joint account, also it should
have by default have mobile numbers of wife and husband, soon any
transaction happened from the joint account, both the mobile numbers
should get information about the transaction. Also there should be limit for
value of transactions individually one can do which should be equal (say
25% each of the total value of available credit at the beginning of the
month, rest 50% by joint signature), over and above the limit the joint
signature is needed to operate the account. This measure ensures &
inculcated financial discipline to both wife and husband, also the expenditure
made is judicious and need based, any investment/ expenditure above the
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limit will be a joint decisions and inclusion of wife in decision making by

husband for such high value purchases, investments, this measure also
gives financial freedom to house wifes and other wise working wifes to
spend according their wish at least to some extent; all this lead to
harmonious living for having each other cooperation in all decisions.
Also this measure will ensure more ethical behaviour in men, not spend
money for luxury, wises like visiting alcoholic bars, or spending on other
women, girlfriends hoping to get closer to them for developing intimacy &
covert that intimacy to relationship later on etc etc will not happen, as every
payment is through bank card the information of every rupee spent is
recorded, not only that immediately after the transaction SMS will be
received by the wife, also they can access the statement in the internet
banking. Also in case of women is the only earning member in the married
couple and male is un employed then the bank account should be only with
women and till the male gets some regular income all the assets should be
in the wifes name only, this measure is necessary to create some sense in
the unemployed husband to earn livelihood rather than completely
depending up on the wife forever?
37)
ALSO MANDATORY THAT ALL ASSETS PURCHASED AFTER
MARRIAGE SHOULD BE JOINTLY BY WIFE AND HUSBAND
Also in order to create more security to the family, as well as women it
should be made mandatory that all assets whether movable (vehicles,
jewellery, shares in stock market, business investments) or immovable
(land, buildings) after marriage should be in the joint name of wife and
husband. In case of mortgaging property or selling such property should
require joint signature, so all decisions in the family will be inclusive and
certainly harmony exits as, for every decision they cannot get done by force,
if force issued then it will turn to domestic violence? In case they wish to
purchase in their minor childrens name or their minor children get gift from
any relatives like grandparents or any others, the guardian of such
properties should be jointly both wife and husband, once the child becomes
major, the child will get authority over such properties.
38)
ENACTMENT OF LAW MAKING IT MANDATORY THAT TILL
MARRIAGE THE CHILDRENS SHOULD HAVE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT
FOR MONITORING OF THEIR EXPENDITURE BY PARENTS, ALSO
ALL ASSETS PURCHASED TILL THE CHILD GETS MARRIED SHOULD
BE IN THE JOINT NAME OF PARENTS AND UN MARRIED CHILD.
Also the law should be amended that till the child gets married the
parents should posses the final absolute authority over the assets / income
earned by the child. As such it should be made mandatory that once the
child starts earnings either through salary or self employment it should be
deposited in the Childs bank account, but all children should have separate
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joint bank account with both parents when he/she started earning,; the
earnings of the children once get deposited in the Childs personal account, it
automatically transfer into the joint account, the limit for expenditure on
joint account debit card for parents and child can be set as per mutual
understating, and any expenditure made on the joint debit card will reflect
on mobile numbers both child and parents; this measure will certainly
ensure whether the child is working in the same city/district where the
parents are living and living with parents or child working in far way
city/place, the expenditure made by child is tracked, this measure will
certainly enforce some discipline and ethical, moral behaviour in the child till
married. This measure is necessary after all the parents raised the child to
that level baring great pain, with care & love in raising them from infant till
that age, making them educated, taking care of their health, etc, and but
once the child started earning how come he/she forget all the pains
undergone by their parents and just because his senses are urging for some
enjoyment of what so ever nature , he/she will get indulged in enjoyment,
spoiled just because he/she is earning money is how far justifiable???
It is a heart burning pain for most of the parents even in this age/era,
because most of the children after start earning are becoming arrogant,
adamant, and value for parents get diminished, degraded and with their
mediocre mind they think that enjoyment, partying, sex is only life for many
youth, completely forgetting what hard ships their parents went through to
rise this child to that level? as such many parents in the age group of 40 to
55 in this present era are getting lot of stress related diseases like BP,
SUGAR, HEART DISEASES, etc, because of worry of the youth are spoiling
their health & future?.
Since INDIA is a country with most young population this measure is
very necessary for ensuring the youth of the country adhere to ethics,
morals and sentiments of parental care. This measure will ensure more
youth are disciplined, (it is fact that due to lack of monitoring of the
expenditure of the children, lack of knowledge of how much the child is
earning, also since due to globalisation and rise of pay per month with fat
salaries at very young age, many youth are getting perverted and start with
smoking, boozing at weak ends, then becoming addicted to consuming hard
alcoholic drinks, even some going for drugs & narcotics, then going for high
tech prostitution in the weekends, or else spending on the social media
friends, office colleagues with the presumption they get intimacy, to concert
intimacy to relationship, etc etc, which otherwise has lifelong impact on their
life even after getting married?, even some are starting so called live in
relationships, and parents have literally no idea about what their child
doing? And how come society blames the parents for the wrong acts of their
perverted children. In order to prevent happing of such incidents to the
maximum extent possible, making children to adhere to moral thinking and
better future, children prefer more arranged marriages, also in case child
prefers love marriages, the love marriages will be pure, as love is not
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blossomed just because the boy/girl is spending luxuriously and giving

expensive gifts etc.
Also it will be ideal that till marriage the unmarried child joint bank
account should have limit of withdrawal of the child should be not more than
50% of their earnings or as mutually agreed by parents and children for
meeting their basic living expenditure if the children are employed In
outstation, this measure will certainly compel most of the children to adhere
to ethics. Morals?, after all the new age parents are mostly educated, mobile
savvy and also in future internet savvy?
Also it should be made mandatory that once the unmarried child start
earning, the amount earned should go to clearing the loans that parents
taken for education, then for housing etc, then only can be used for buying
assets whether movable or immovable, Also all the assets purchased till
marriage by the unmarried child should be in the joint name of parents and
the youngster, And any movable assets/ immovable assets the youth
purchases, acquires it should be in the joint name of parents and the youth.
This measure will certainly reduce the burden on the parents, also it is some
sort of gratitude and repaying to parents fraction of the debt that the
children owe to their parents, after all the child what he/she is due to the
parents?, if any youth of the world, country feel it is ridiculous they should
hang their head in shame for reducing them/ becoming less than
parasites??Parents should abandon such crooks? Who is otherwise a burden
to the society?? society do not need such self centred selfish crooks?
These measure will censure tracking of the expenditure of their young
child?; also this measure ensures the children get married at the early age,
so that they can have better healthy life, and more disciplined way of living,
not adhering/ addicting to any kind of wises, especially smoking, consuming
alcohol, going for prostitution/ doing adultery. This creates responsible
youth in the country, also when married at young age they get the taste of
what is life, and also responsibilities make them to think straight forwardly
rather than getting their mind perverted to the sensory urges. This creates
better society, and better nation. In case of youth wants to start live in
relation he/she should forfeit their jointly earned property and start a fresh
life. This measure will certainly reduce live in relationships and reduce fruit
of adultery children?.
39)
MANDATORY RESPONSIBILITY OF EVERY MARRIED COUPLE
TO PAY PART OF THEIR EARNINGS FOR BASIC LIVING OF THEIR
OLD AGE PARENTS. THIS PAYMENT THOUGH AUTO DEDUCTION IN
SALARY /INCOME FROM BANK ACCOUNT.
It is fact that nucleolus families are in raise, and the value, affection for
parents getting drastically seized soon after they got married, for most of
the youngsters either abandon, or isolate most of the parents. If the parents
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are not having government employment, then the parents are not getting
even pension for meeting their basic living, forgot about caring them. In
these circumstances it is heinous that the children are enjoying life to the
maximum possible extent, getting their self centred urges fulfilled, but
strangely leaving their parents to suffer. This situation needs to be changed.
In case the parents do not posses any source of income, not in a position to
earn due to any illness/ due to aging, then an additional amount of Rs
10,000 per month or 10% of the earnings per month/ annual earnings
whichever is lower should be deducted from the joint account earnings per
month of the married couple and should be auto credited to the parents
account every month for self caring (this measure is for the parents of both
wife & husband). This measure is only if the parents do not possess any
assets with them and left with no other way of living. This measure will
certainly help millions of parents. The same amount should be deposited in
corpus fund of old homes run by government in case parents wish to stay in
old age homes. In case of more than one child they should share the
expenses/ responsibility equally.
40)
MANDATORY RESPONSIBILITY OF THE SON/ DAUGHTER THE
RESPONSIBILITY OF HEALTH CARE OF THEIR PARENTS
Also it should be made mandatory that the children will take care of the
health of the parents, till the natural death of parents, whether they stay in
the same place of living/city where parents live, they may stay with parents
or separately staying or they living in faraway place in the country or even
in abroad they should ensure their parents health care is taken care by
making periodic health checkups for them, by paying for the health
checkups online so that the corporate hospitals visit home and pick up the
parents and conduct the tests and prescribe the medicine as per
requirement if needed, the children should keep the dossiers of heath
records and submit it the government. The tests should include eye care,
teeth care, diabetic, BP, ulcers, urinary tract infections, breast/ ovary
cancer, prostate cancer etc etc, the full body checkups should be conducted.
Also it should be made mandatory that health insurance for parents
should be bared by the children only for any sudden need for operations for
cancer, or any accidents or heart surgery or any other surgery. To make it
a habit for the young children, once they start earning, the responsibility of
health care and maintains of heath records of parents is on the child; the
same thing will be done by government for the old aged people who do not
have children or they lost their only child due to death for what so ever
reason; in case of low income group/ BPL families it is the responsibility of
the child to take them to the nearest government hospital use the health
care card of the government. Also government must make it mandatory that
all government hospitals will be equipped with instruments and trained staff
for conducting full body checkups like in the private hospitals, also all
specialities under one roof from eye care to tooth to heart to bones to brain
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to gynics etc, also government will do the same in case of very old people
that government itself will pick up and do the tests periodically and provide
required medicine.; This measure will provide a great relief for many, failing
to do so they will lose government benefits with immediate effect.
41)
ENACTING LAW FOR MANDATORY VISIT TO PARENTS HOME
BY THE MARRIED COUPLE ALONG WITH CHILDREN AT LEAST
ONCE IN A YEAR FOR WEEK DAYS ON ANY OCCASIONS
Also it should be made mandatory the married couple will visit their
parents jointly once in a year mandatorily and spend/stay there for at least
week days for ensuring family values are intact and the children know about
the grandparents, also for prevailing of customs and traditions, also should
mandatorily visit once in a year their ancestral villages/ spend time in village
of their choice in case their families are based in cities for week days in a
year. This measure will certainly ensure their children will know what is
village life and their roots are not forgotten.
42)

CREATION OF MORE OLD AGED HOMES

Also there is need for creation of old age homes by the government
itself, as many youth migrates to the cities, and also in the cities they wish
to live in nucleus family, the need for old age homes arises, even though in
the event of government making it mandatory periodic health care of
parents is the responsibility, but still they need personal care, it may not be
possible for young couple to take care personally on day to day bases, in the
event of both wife and husband are employed; in such circumstances if old
age homes exists, wither in the city or in rural areas (for healthy couple),
the children can pay or if the parents have pensionable job they can pay
themselves or government can take care of them. This measure is
necessary for healthy and happy life of both young couple as well as elderly.
43)
MANDATORY FOR ALL COUPLES WHETHER MARRIED OR IN
LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP TO REGISTER WITH GOVERNMENT SOON
AFTER BECOME PREGNANT; STRICTER PUNISHMENTS FOR
ILLEGITIMATELY TERMINATING PREGNANCY
Also it should be made mandatory that every couple/ female has to get
register at the government soon of conceiving pregnancy (like the one
formulated by Haryana state government very recently); only under medical
emergency the abortion of the pregnancy should be allowed, for terminating
pregnancy they should apply to the government, or in case of emergency in
any private hospital/ nursing home they can do but soon they should inform
the designated government hospital the reasons for termination, in case of
no emergency, but medical care needs that pregnancy be terminated in
such cases they should inform the government hospital only after a
government doctor certifies then only the pregnancy should be terminated;
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Also government must amend law that in case of illegitimate means of

termination of pregnancy by illegitimate means, if found by doctors the
reason for illness is due to illegitimate means of termination of pregnancy by
self medication or any other methods, not approaching hospitals for legal
termination, should be treated as murder & suicide case and the punishment
should be awarded to both male and female partner involved in this act, in
addition, if any relatives, friends advise/force to do termination of pregnancy
by rude methods, they also should be charged with abetment of suicide.
This measure will certainly reduce adultery cases, in addition it increases
use of contraceptives like condoms, will increase, which will certainly reduce
STD and HIV cases drastically.
Also the law should be amended making termination of pregnancy even
by medical doctors without valid medical reason should be equated to the
murder, and punishment should be given to all involved in this act; also it
should be made mandatory that the pregnancy whether due to legitimate
relationship or illegitimate relationship the women has to bear the
pregnancy, only in the event of rape cases, if pregnancy occurs then the
female has the right to carry the child or not, however the case of rape
should be registered before the pregnancy confirmation based on her LMP
(last month period), in order to ensure that fabrication of rape cases in the
event of differences between male and female in their illegitimate relation/
adultery. If any pregnancy occurred due in an illegitimate relation, i.e
without legal marriage, legal live in relationship, the case of adultery should
be booked on both male and female and should be liable for punishment for
adultery. Adultery should receive life imprisonment.
Also it should be made mandatory that all pregnant women register
should be given some tag with number or non erasable ink mark on her
wrist, each time she visits for check up to get identify by others that the
pregnant women get registered or not; Also the chances of pregnant
mother not registering to government is very remote, in case government
makes it social responsibility for friends, neighbours to inform the
authorities in toll free number about the pregnant women by identifying the
marks on her wrist.
44)
MANDATORY SALE OF PREGNANCY TERMINATION KITS,
MEDICINE ONLY AFTER QUOTING THE MARRIED COUPLE ID
NUMBER, LIVES IN RELATION ID NUMBER. HOW EVER CONDOM
CONTRACEPTIVES CAN BE SOLD WITHOUT ANY RESTRICTIONS.
Also it should be made mandatory that the pregnancy testing kits, pills
used for preventing unwarranted pregnancy, pregnancy termination
medicine/drugs should be sold only by quoting the unique ID of the married
couple, live in relation couple and selling only on medical prescription, and
the details of doctors also should entered, without this it should be a
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criminal offence on the part of the seller, also it should be criminal offence
on the buyer. However condoms can be sold in free market without any
restriction. This measure will certainly reduce the adultery cases, pre
matrimonial sex cases to some extent.
45)
ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR PROTECTING THE MARRIAGES OF
CHILDLESS COUPLES
Also since there exists lot of childless couples, especially in the present
era due to various reasons, especially due to low sperm count of male or
egg count of female. So it should be made mandatory that in the pre
marriage registration (PMG) submission both the individuals should give
declaration that they will not seek divorce on the grounds that pregnancy
could not be conceived for either low sperm count of male or low egg count
of female or for any other health reasons and they do not have any
objection if mutually agreed in future to adopt a child from the orphanage in
such event of childlessness or may simply live life long as a childless couple.
Or in case of pregnancy could not be conceived due to health problems of
the female then they may go for surrogacy child, provided the male health is
perfect. This measure is important because lot of stress related issues are
faced by the childless couple.
46)
AMENDING LAW FOR ADOPTION; BAN ON PRIVATE / NGO
ADOPTION CENTRES; ALL ADOPTION CENTRES SHOULD BE RUN
BY GOVERNMENT.
Also since India is having lot of youth population, and there is rise in live
in relationships no doubt there are lot of children going to be either
abandoned or treated carelessly. Also there is a rise in childless couple, Also
there are rise in nucleolus families and both wife and husband are
employed, in such cases there is room for negligence of child care, abuse of
children, in order to prevent child is being abused or ill-treated Government
must enact stricter laws for the keeping the child away from the parents.
For this lot of orphanages required, so government must make orphanages
in every district with adequate facilities. Also the laws related to adoption
must be simplified. Government must have regular monitoring of the health
of the adopted child. The couple who adopted must periodically get checked
the health of the adopted child and record details of vital parameters growth
in a government hospital and send the reports to the adoption centres. If a
female child is adopted, there should be surprise checks to the residence of
the couple who adopted, once the child cross the age of 11 or after the
female child becomes adolescent, in order to prevent the child being
trafficked for prostitution, also there should be surveillance on the residence
of the couple where the adopted adolescent child is living for ensuring that
the child is not subjected to forced flush trade in the residence, and a set of
female health councillors should visit the house and examine the child
periodically to find out any pressure on her for doing any wrong acts. Also it
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should be mandatory condition for the people who are adopting that they
will pursue the education of the child at least till degree. And they will bear
all the necessary expenses.
Also government must ban private adoption centres, all adoption should
be done at the government adoption centres, if private NGO are interested,
they may do service at the adoption centres by providing manpower,
material. In the event of government making it mandatory registration of
pregnancy, the chances of abandoning of child ruthlessly do not arise, in
case willingly any parent want to abandon the child they should do it at
government orphanage/ adoption centre; in case if any one abandons the
child they can be caught easily in the event of registration of pregnancy, and
abandoning on the without proper procedure should lead to life
imprisonment for both mother and father of the child. In these
circumstances the need for government run orphanages/ adoption centres
yield the best results, as the care for children can be assured.
47)
MANDATORY FOR MEDICAL CHECK UP FOR MARRIED
COUPLE/ LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS, EVERY HALF YEARLY,
MANDATORY TO MAINTAIN MEDICAL RECORDS OF THEIR
CHILDREN, ISSUE OF SMART CARD FOR CHILD HEALTH RECORDS,
PERIODIC CHECK HEALTH CHECKUPS.
Also it should be made mandatory that both wife and husband should go
for medical check up once in every half yearly. This measure will ensure that
the wife and husband are given preventive care, all the time for most of the
disease, that are occurring due to stress, also for chronic hereditary disease
can be detected early, also in case of deadly disease like cancer etc can be
detected in the very early stages so that the cure can be easy, life
expectancy can be prolonged. Also this measure of periodic heath check up
for wife and husband will ensure that the husbands behave themselves and
do not indulge in domestic violence, as it can be easily found, during
checkups, as the wifes should under psychological check up in addition to
other normal checkups. In case identified that the injury marks on her body
or psychological depression is due to domestic violence, then the doctor
should do immediate medical treatment, in addition should inform the local
police, in case failed to inform to local police, in the event in future a
domestic violence case filed by the victim, then action should be initiated on
the doctor who conducted medical check up. This measure not only reduces
happing of domestic violence but also ensures both wife and husband is
healthy life long for periodic check up of health and maintaining the health
records for future medical needs.
Also it should be made mandatory that every married couple to make a
record of the medical history of their children. And government must
provide a smart card for every child for medical history record, and it should
be mandatory for all paediatricians, doctors to quote the number / unique ID
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of each child in the prescription form, also it should be mandatory that

medical shops should issue medicine based on this number/ smart card, as
far as paediatric medicine is concerned; the idea of smart card is make the
medical data of the child recorded periodically. From the date of
confirmation of pregnancy onwards and they should submit to the
government regarding the periodic vaccination, periodic checkups for BMI,
and other parameters for ensuring proper care of the children, this measure
ensures the event of any kind of illness/ diseases the history can be readily
available to the concerned doctor conducting the check up for the child, also
the data of visit of the doctors and the medical bills should be kept on
record. This measure should be linked to the school / college admissions. In
the event of failure to submit the quarterly medical report online to the
government, the couple should be liable for penalty equivalent to three
month salary or 1/4 of the annual income in case of business/ self
employed. This measure ensures healthily child, thus healthy nation.
48)

MEASURES FOR CONTAINING HAPPENING OF DOWRY

It is a fact that even though anti dowry law is in existence, still till date
dowry is happening either directly (cash) or indirectly (kind like jewellery,
vehicle, property etc) in majority of the marriages, and it is an open secret,
it is all because that there is no mechanism to monitor the happening of
dowry, mechanisms to indentify the happening of dowry, As such in order to
contain the Dowry issues, it should be ideal to keep observation on each
marriage by the local authorities in revenue department (income tax)
regarding the purchase of any fixed assets/ movable assets, deposits in
bank by the groom and their parents are immediate family members. This
measure will certainly reduce the happing of dowry to a great extent,
otherwise the anti dowry act is just a name sake an even though there is
mention for punishment for the dowry, but due to lack of mechanisms to
establish the dowry happened, the law hardly able to prevent happening of
dowry, only in very extreme cases of dowry harassment the women are
coming forward to complaint, and in this also the police are not sensitive,
most of the cases once the case is registered, the family of the accused do
all sorts of manipulative management with police to delay/ stop action
against the accused family, also in the absence of fast track courts in this
regard lifes of several young women are getting spoiled, as without the
case getting resolved they are not able to get divorce/ get married to new
person to start new life.
Also in order to monitor the happening of the dowry, the investigation
authorities should gather the information from the marriage registrar
regarding the details of pre marriage clearance certification issued persons
and the bank account details of the groom/ bride and the parents should be
tracked, also the income tax CIB should collect the details from the movable
assets retailers like motor bikes, four wheelers, the properties, the jewellery
shops, for the purchase of assets in the name of bride/ groom/ parents/
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immediate family members. This should match with the expenditure

statement submitted by the bride and groom and their parents to the
marriage registrar. In case of discrepancy, they should be called for
explanation. Also in order to make this measure of containing happening of
Dowry a success, the government must introduce reward of 10% to the
person who gave information regarding the happening of dowry, any relative
or persons working with the bride/ groom, or with their parents or any
neighbours who has information regarding the happening of such dowry,
may not be in cash transition, but purchase of new vehicle, or house or
house plot, commercial space/ agriculture land etc. This measure will
certainly contain the happing of dowry to a great extent.
49)
CREATION OF CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF OUT OF COURT
SETTLEMENTS OF DOWRY HARASSMENT CASES
Also the proposed amendment of government allowing out of court
settlements in dowry cases is ideal, but there should be some safe guards to
be incorporated like in case of found this out of court settlement is due to
force or coercion of what so ever nature on the petitioner to withdraw case
and come for compromise, all such involved in such case at a later date
after the compromise is over, should get life imprisonment. Also it should be
made available on the web the data bank of such out of court settlements,
so that public should know that who are all indulged in dowry harassment
cases and they can keep an eye for preventing happening of domestic
violence. And also all those who wish to give daughter in the family of the
out of court settlement will think twice before giving her daughter, may take
all precautionary measures, this measure will certainly prevent happing of
dowry harassment in the first place, if they have more than one child, or
within their family.
50)
MANDATORY
FOR
GOVERNMENT
TO
CREATE
THE
CENTRALISED DATA BASE OF DOWRY HARASSMENT CASES
PENDING IN COURTS ANY WHERE IN COURTS, CONVICTS DETAILS
AND THE FAMILY TREE OF THE CONVICTS, PENDING CASES.
Also it should be made mandatory that government must display in the
website of central data base of marriage registrars the details of those who
got convicted in the dowry harassment cases and also those in the trail for
dowry harassment cases so that people across the country are alert to
others before marrying in the same person/ family. This measure will
certainly create positive pressure on each family not to indulge in the dowry
harassment, as it leads to name & shame the entire family in the country by
displaying the family members photographs; there will certainly reduction
of dowry harassment cases.

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51)
CREATION OF DISTRICT WISE PSYCHIATRIC COUNSELLING
CENTRES TO TREAT MARRIAGE RELATED DISORDERS, ESPECIALLY
THE DISORDER OF SUSPICION OF CHARACTER OF SPOUSE
It is fact that suspicion of character or chastity or virginity or suspicion
of having an affair with someone or suspension that wife/husband was
leaking family secrets to the near and dear etc etc, or suspension that
husband is giving money to their parents/ sisters or caring his relatives etc,
etc or wife caring their parents with husbands money, etc etc are many
types of suspicion prevailing among wife & husband, which are main reasons
for domestic violence, it is because of suspicion they are becoming
perverted/ restless in their life, harmony is just a mirage if once suspicion
bug enters their mind; as such in order to prevent/ rectify such suspicious
sickness, government must maintain district wise psychiatric counselling
centres, any of the family member or friends or near and dear, or
neighbours or office colluges of the couple can call for a toll free number or
register a compliant, and the psychiatric experts will conduct tests to find
out whether the complaint is true or not, in case the complaint is having
such characteristics he /she will be sent on forced leave if they are
employed and get counselling done, if the case is serious they should be
admitted for some time in the psychiatric cure centres. This measure will
saves lot of marriages and reduces lot of domestic violence cases, also
reduces divorce cases as suspicion is one of the reasons for developing
hate/un interest on the other partner which is leading for divorce.
52)
ENACTMENT
OF
LAW
FOR
CONTAINING
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE, AND CREATION OF AWARENESS OF VIGILANTERIANISIM/ INFORMER NETWORK, AND INCENTIVES FOR REVEALING
INFORMATION
REGARDING
OCCURRENCE
OF
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE; PUNISHMENT FOR NON REPORTING OF DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE, ANY ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES BY THE NEIGHBOURS,
DOMESTIC HELP, SERVANTS, RELATIVES, ONUS SHOULD LIE ON
THEM TO PROVE THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF SUCH INCIDENCE TO
MAKE THEM ACT AS WHISTLEBLOWERS.
Also it is a fact that domestic violence is a major concern and is on the
rise year after year, even though it is not being reported by many women,
(even some men are feeling they are under domestic violence due to
excessive stress created by disgruntled/perverted wifes. But hardly there is
no kind of monitoring system to detect the happening of domestic violence
and the case of domestic violence is coming into light only when the victim
complains to the police, when the atrocities on her becoming un bearable?,
so in order to reduce the happening of domestic violence in the very first
place, there should be an indirect monitoring by encouraging informers and
vigilanterains/ whistleblowers, who are either working as domestic help,
drivers, servants etc or neighbours or friends/ relatives / onlookers.

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Also government must maintain a multilingual toll free number for

complaining about domestic violence, soon after receiving complaint, base
on the nature of atrocity, advise the effected person/victim and police/ anti
domestic violence squad persons should visit the home when the accused is
at home and call the neighbours and council the accused for correcting
his/her mistakes and change the mindset/ mistakes, after the counselling
still the accused continues atrocities on the victim, whether the police got
complaint or the informer gives the happening of such domestic violence
then the police should immediately register a case and arrest the culprit and
proceed legally.
Also it should be made mandatory that Anti domestic violence groups
(ADVG) should be formed in each ward/ village comprising of women from
different age group/ caste/ religion and political parties with the sarpanch/
ward member as members. Government under W&CW department, Police
should do basic training for these members regarding ways and means of
identifying the domestic violence and also the basic law for protecting rights
of women etc The duty of the ADVG members is to identify informally about
the happing of domestic violence in the their territory i.e in the BASTI,
Village as most of the villages / basti live in very limited space and adjoining
houses, it is very easy to identify the happening of domestic violence,
initially the sapanch/ ward member should go along with the ADVG
members and do council the victim and accused, in case he repeats after
wards they should take it police station for FIR registration.
Also it should be made clear that in case of joint family the members of
family, servants, domestic help, etc witness any kind of domestic help, or
find un usual marks on the body of the married women like marks of beating
with stick, belt, burning marks on skin with cigarettes or always the women
getting in depression/sadness/ weeping etc they should immediately inform
the domestic violence prevention & counselling centre, in case the victim
women complaints for domestic violence and says these people are present
at the time of happing of violence by the accused, then all those who are
mute spectators for such domestic violence should get punishment and not
reporting to police even though they are aware of happening of such
violence. The onus should be on the individuals spectators to prove that
they are not aware of such incidents, in the absence of failure to detect /
report such incidents, after all every individual in the society should be a
whistleblower and have the responsibility as a citizen to curtail the
illegitimate acts? This measure will certainly make people alert to be
whistleblowers, informers should get reward for rescuing, life of accused,
These measures will certainly reduce happening of domestic violence.
Also government must develop a mobile app for Anti Domestic Violence
ADV, which if once the app is pressed the app records both audio& video
and automatically forward to the ADVG group and local police & police
hierarchy & W&CD on real time bases, and the police/ ADVG team can get
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exact location of the mobile phone and any ADVG member identified
through GPRS near to the incidence will be alerted and they should reach
the site and immediately record the version / find out the fact and based on
that they can do counselling of the couple can be made later. Government
must provide the app to all mobile phones by default for all future phones,
all existing phones can download free of cost this app. Any of the people
who witness the happing of the domestic violence just press this button for
recording audio, in case possibility they can make the video.
Mandatory to keep cc cameras in all houses in the common living room
or at the entrance, who has complaints about domestic violence, whether in
the pukka houses of economically stable families or kutcha houses of the
poor; Making neighbours complain in case of found domestic violence
whether in economically stable residential areas or in the slums and villages
where poor, BPL/ low income group lives, Also providing cash incentives for
the informers of domestic violence should be made, these measures will
yield result in reduction of domestic violence as many informers will start
taking photo/video/ voice record the incidence of happing of domestic
violence by their neighbours family or in the locality in the slums dwellings,
as it is fact near about 50% of the domestic violence happens in the poor/
low income group. due to lack of education, due to habit of alcoholic
addition by the husbands and also lack of proper earnings make them feel
frustrated and their inner frustration be exhibited on their innocent wife un
necessary without any rhyme or reason or sometimes very pity issues. So
by giving incentives the youngsters in the slums/ neighbours in the slums
will become informers and make domestic violence creators caught red
handed/ caught on tape. Also if few get punishment, remaining people will
defiantly fear and do not indulge in the domestic violence; also it should be
made that onus on the elected ward member to contain/ report the
domestic violence; the persons who indulge in domestic violence should lose
government support to them like cancellation of MNREGA card, suspension
of trading/ driving licence etc, along with imprisonment.
53)
NEED FOR EXPANSION OF SCOPE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE;
EXPANSION OF SCOPE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TO INCLUDE THE
HARASSMENT BY DISGRUNTLED YOUNG WIFES ON THE IN LAWS,
CROOK SONS ON THEIR PARENTS BY LISTING FALSE
ALLEGATIONS OF THE WIFES
Also it should be made by amending the law for expansion of scope of
domestic violence that even slapping the women or dragging by hair should
be treated as domestic violence either by husband or brothers or father or
any male or female relative or in laws.; similarly wife beating the husband
also should be treated as domestic violence, also ill-treatment/ abuse/
humiliation by wife towards the parents of husband should be considered as
domestic violence, Also the anaemic condition of women should be
considered as domestic violence for not having giving proper nutritious food,
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proper care, for the first time it should attract fine, second time it should be
booked for violence and should be imprisoned.
Similarly the scope for domestic violence should be expended rescue the
old aged parents of the son, or old aged from the daughter in law/ son in
law, it is a fact that nucleolus families are in raise even when the parents
living in the same city/ town/ rural area the newly married couple are
shifting to new houses either owned or rented and starting new life,
abandoning the old aged parents, taking example from the friends who got
separated soon after the marriage i.e with in few months of marriage, most
of the daughter in laws who are staying with their in laws starts abusing/ ill
treating/ humiliating the old parents so that they will be shunted out of the
home in case the house belongs to the husband whether it is own house or
rented house, or they will move to new house in case the present house
where they are staying along with parents of husband belong the parents of
the husband.
Also since there is no law for protecting the abuses by the disgruntled
daughter in laws, and also adding insult to the injury, some of the crook
sons joining their wifes in humiliating their parents; so there should be a
law to protect the domestic violence by the son/ daughter in law for either
for property or pension amount of the old parents or just like that without
any reason since the old parents become watch dogs for acts of daughter in
law otherwise she wished to enjoy life with so called kitty parties at homes
etc etc and enjoy life with old friends in all possible manner etc ??? Also
these old aged in laws are judicious in spending, where as the newly
married daughter in laws wish to have every luxury at home immediately
they come home, buying everything in EMI;s without having sense for
budget balance of the income per month, buying everything on credit cards
and all this for the false prestige to the so called neighbours and friends,
also buying expensive clothes for her or for her siblings / parents but do not
spend single penny on the health of the in laws , even if the eye sight
glasses of the parents broken, they do not spend couple of hundreds but
spend thousands on LED TVs? ; Also old age parents room do not have
even fans for air circulation especially in summers, but these type of ladies
buy air conditioners for their room?, also these type of lady and their kinds
eats nutritious food and fruits and juices, but the old aged in laws has to live
proper nutritious diet? It is high time tall womens right activists and
feminists should think that is it appropriate to justify that, if the girl/ women
is young and having sexual reproductively then only so called domestic
violence should apply, but if a women becomes old and crosses the
menopause age, she should lose the right of domestic violence? Is it not
hypocrisy?? Strange, this is gross injustice and insult to the entire
motherhood-ness?
Also some percentages of sons who are married becoming crooks by illtreating the parents just to please his newlywed wife / wife, just for few
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minutes of sexual pleasure, this kind of crooks forget that his parents raised
this fellow bearing all odds and just because of their parents, he is what is
today is due his parents blessing? Shame, such crooks deserve punishment
harshly? also it should be made mandatory that in case of deterioration of
health of the parents on account of lack of care/ lack of food then also
domestic violence act should be applicable on the son & daughter in law.
Also it should be made mandatory that in case domestic violence case on
the son & daughter in law booked, then they are not eligible for inherent
properties, and the assets of the inherent properties after the death of both
parents should automatically go the government old age homes; Also it
should be ideal to take declaration on oath at the time of applying for PMR
that they would like to live separately or will live with parents till their
natural death and will care them all the times, will not indulge in domestic
violence and in case of indulged in domestic violence they are ready to
forfeit the inherent properties. Also ideal to suggest that in all joint families
CC cameras should be installed in the living areas. This measure reduces lot
of domestic violence? This law should be not from retrospective effect, but
hence forth after enacting the law; this measure will be great relief for
millions of parents.
54)
ENACTING LAW THAT ANY OF MARRIED PARTNER CAN NOT
STAY AWAY FOR MORE THAN 30 DAYS OUT OF HOME, WITH
EXCEPTION TO SOME PROFESSIONS. ; MARRIED WOMEN SHOULD
HAVE RIGHT TO SAY WITH HER PARENTS FOR 30 DAYS IN A
YEAR; FORMULATION OF RULES UNDER WHICH CIRCUMSTANCES
MARRIED COUPLE CAN DENY PARTICIPATING IN SEX, FOR
BETTER UNDERSTATING EACH OTHERS RIGHTS FOR BUILDING
CONSCIOUS AND HARMONY IN MARRIED LIFE, REDUCTION OF
SEXUAL HARASSMENT AT WORK PLACE, ACHIEVING MORE
PRODUCTIVITY DUE STABLE MIND.
Also it should be made mandatory that only for discharging official duty
an employee, a married person can stay alone/ away from spouse for not
exceeding 30 days in out station (exceptional for certain employments like
armed forces, merchant navy etc), in case of stay in out station is more
than 30 days, they has to take the spouse along with them, also making it
mandatory for the government or private employers to provide conveyance
and stay arrangements for couples in case of more than 30 days at a stretch
for any work, if the employee wish to take the spouse along with them they
should be allowed to take them, in case they dont want to take their
spouse, they should be able to en-cash the monitory benefits, in any case
away from home by spouse should not exceed 180 days at a stretch even in
military/ merchant navy or any other profession.
Also it should be made mandatory all married women should be entitled
to take 30 days leave from the husband, she may use the leave to visit her
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parents, or siblings house or she may simply do what she likes to do

legitimately, for this wife need to take consent/approval from the husband
for going to parents home, the husband should not object her wish to take
leave, unless there is some emergency of hospitalisation of the parents of
husband in case joint family or children having examinations or he has some
official office work, etc etc; also the approval or consent of husband need
not be prior, wife can take permission after reaching parents home through
phone call, with voice record/ text/ e mail, it should be the responsibility /
onus of the husband to take the call and give reply, in case he says no, he
should give reasons. It is the duty of the husband to accept her once she is
back home when she feel to join him.
In case of more than 30 days stay, she should give reasons for extension
of stay, in case the husband feels that the reasons without any supporting
and reasons are petty/ gullible he may ask her to join her immediately
within a specified time period, in case she fails to join the husband can give
one more chance as a remainder after a gap of few weeks, in case she still
not responding or still gives excuses, he can give final chance after another
chance of few weeks and after that he may approach court for divorce for
not fulfilling the duty as wife. All correspondence should be in writing in e
mail or letter with acknowledgment for receipt of letter.
Also in case wife do not wish to have sex with husband for more than 30
days at a stretch when staying with him in the same premises, the husband
can give a remainder to her as a warning, after 15 days second remainder,
and after 15 days final remainder, all this again through mobile text
message, voice record/ e mail, video record, If still wife do not cooperate
and denies the right have sex, unless otherwise on medical grounds, with
medical records, he may approach court for divorce. It is a fact that most of
the married women uses sex as tool to get control over husbands and that is
why hen pecked husbands are on the rise to great extent, this why adultery
is on rise, this why prostitution is on rise, to some extent, and how for it is
justifiable to make husband plead for sex, just to put him under her
control/dictatorship.
Since most of the women buy the husband prior to marriage like a
commodity, in one or their way by paying dowry, so she wish that her
husband should be under her control to recover the amount paid to him in
the form of controlling him not to look after his parents, because for taking
dowry at the instance of parents of husband, also she wish he should not
look after his siblings mostly his sisters, etc etc in a sense she is indirectly
taking revenge on the husband for taking dowry in most of the cases? As in
majority of the marriages, dowry is happing in one or other form, the only
tool wife is having is control over sex, as she is fully aware that men marry
any women, 100% for sex in the first place for sure, So she will deliberately
say no the husband even though she like to have, just to put him under
stress, as a distress call he will come for bargaining and fulfil her desire of
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saying yes to her on every matter, obeying her orders to neglect parents,
siblings, even he should go to the extent of abusing them on and off just to
please the wife to have so called harmonious relation i.e sex? Also some
wifes think by allowing husband to have sex with her is a great favour she
is doing to him, as he is getting so called pleasure, so he should be obelised
to her, otherwise she will not cooperate with him when he requires? This is
the common in majority of the houses, but hardly the truth comes out
because of the fear for feminists and womens right wings/ organisations will
fall on this poor fellow?.
It is high time to change such rude behaviour/ techniques playing by
wifes in general, in some cases the husband also, but husband denying sex
cases are miniscule compared to wifes denying sex, In this regard it is
hypocrisy to say women have right over her body so she can deny sex at
her will and wish and whims and fancies is ridiculous argument and it not
only reduces the healthy life of women, but also healthy life of entire family,
healthily life of the country at large? , of course women have right over her
body, for that matter ever human being should have right over their body,
and right over body is a fundamental right, but also it is fact as per
constitution itself all rights are subjected to some other limitations/ caveats?
So there should be set of rules, within which the so called right over body,
for ensuring consensus among the wife and husband, for prevailing of
harmony in married life. Yes only there should be consensus sex among the
married people about how many days they should have sex in a month, but
certainly there should be some rules and regulations, within these
boundaries they can have consensus and so called harmony etc etc for
happy and healthy living, as it is a fact that healthy legitimate sex with
single partner lifelong will ensure both the couple are healthy life long and
the chances of getting other illness is reduced to great extent, unless they
have hereditary health disorders.
As such all womens activists and government must decide the rules, a
list of reasons that women can deny sex with husband or a man can deny
sex with wife, the reasons should be like he/she is having illness, he/she has
health disorders, he/she is out of mood for tragedy in her family of
immediate relatives or her close friends etc etc these lists should have
maximum period of denial of sex for each reason, the time should be
specified, also the list of immediate relatives or close friends should be given
to husband/wife (as per PMR list of relatives, friends),
Since India having largest youth population, if they have healthy, regular
sex then they will be healthy throughout their life time, which means more
work output & productivity by the young work force whether it may be
agriculture or industry, thus the economy will improve. As it is a fact if the
married man do not have regular sex he will certainly have disturbed mind,
even the case is same for women, a person with disturbed mind cannot
perform the work at hand with great efficient, effectively, as a result the
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workout/ productivity will certainly effected? So there should be set of rules

for having harmonious living of married couple/ live in relations
Also it is a fact that just because the married man do not have good sex
life at home or did not have regular sex/ enough sex a home/ did get his so
called sexual fantasies fulfilled, he becomes one or other way restless at
office, in this case he wish to develop intimacy at office female staff
working in his office, it is a fact majority of the women do not like to have
extra martial affairs, so they will not respond to the so called signals /
verbal intimacy moves by the office colleagues mostly the superior, then
over a period of time this man develops frustration and it is turning into
sexual harassment, so without fixing the root cause for sexual harassment,
just framing laws for punishment for sexual harassment will not yield the
desired results, as it a fact as per surveys one in every three working
women faces sexual harassment, but hardly they report due to social
reasons as well as job security and getting humiliated within themselves for
these atrocities and their conscious wont allow them to do adultery? In
some cases, even women initiates adultery as they do not care about
society, inner conscious, treating it all as trash are willingly en-cashing the
so called disgruntled/ disturbed husband employee colluges, who happens to
be her boss in the office to get favours done for her, this is leading to
adultery/ un authorised live in relations, this is more in case of government
employees? But the percentage of women employees doing adultery is
miniscule/ abysmal compared to sexual harassment by men for not able to
trap the women colleague in his line is doing sex in future? All this is mainly
that the working men when reaches home it is tired, wish to relax, but in
most cases wifes deny him from having sex for not acting on her complaints
instantly?, all this leafing to disturbed mind, this can be contained by
ensuring all married men have good sexual relationship with their wife for
ensuring peace prevails at home and thus in office/ work, if one works with
peace, then certainly the productivity will get increased thus the overall
growth of the country happens.
55)
CREATION OF MULTI LINGUAL TOLL FREE NUMBER FOR PRE
DIVORCE COUNSELLING ONLINE REAL TIME, MANDATORY FOR
ALL WHO WISH TO GO FOR DIVORCE TO CALL THE NUMBER,
FOLLOW THE ADVISE AND IN EXTREME CASES GO FOR PERSONAL
COUNSELLING, AFTER EVERY EFFORT GOT EXHAUSTED GO FOR
FILING OF COURT CASE, TO FILE COURT CASES IN DIVORCE,
BOTH PARTIES MUST MENTION THE UNIQUE ID NUMBER OF PRE
DIVORCE COUNSELLING
It it is fact that due to lack of proper processional advice, counselling for
pre divorce , most of the couple are ending up due ego Battelle among the
wife & husband, till date if at all there exists a counselling facility, it is the
police station or some of the close friends/ relatives. As such it is very
necessary there should a multi lingual toll free call centre to record the
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complaints of females, for real time counselling of the affected persons

either male or female to hear their pain and give some sort of legitimate
solutions to them which will relive their stress/ fear/ anxiety when they are
preparing for divorce, to give moral strength, the legal provisions, protecting
of their rights etc to avoid divorce and try to resolve the issues, ensuring
mistakes rectified amicability as far as possible to ensure the marriage
sustains, only under extreme cases they may go for the divorce. This
measure is necessary, since only counselling centres for couple wants
divorce is women police stations/ very few NGOs are doing, only after the
case reached to the stage of police case/ filing of divorce/ the situation for
divorce made public, then doing counselling at this rotten stage of mindset
may not yield the desired result of sustenance of marriage in most cases
only very few % of cases there is chance for sustained of marriage.
Also most of the women/ men do not want to go to the counselling
centres even though they are available in some parts of the country, and
most of them dependent on the advice of their close friends/ relatives, as
most of these friends/ relatives are either mediocre as far the resolving the
issues, and their non legitimate, non professional, and certainly cannot be
balanced due to love and affection for the victim and certainly biased
towards victim, in fact these mediocre advises aggravate the cases more
complicated and become irreparable rather than resolving the even if the
matter for going to divorce is very petty / smallest issue, because of lack of
professional training in counselling, also due to affection they have with the
aggrieved party, they just take the side of the aggrieved party, and look
everything as negative on the accused party, also sometimes there is no
communication to the accused party for hearing their version and advising
them, this is how millions of cases of divorce are happening, in order to
reduce the cases of divorce cases drastically and ensure the wife and
husband resolve any differences amicably and for happy married life, the
online real time counselling on a toll free number will certainly a great help
to the women folk/ even men who are otherwise preparing for divorce, due
to distress, which otherwise can be solved by dialog;
This online/ real time call centre is necessary as most of the aggrieved
party like to call only when they are alone at home, so when they call the
counsellors should be available online real time, also it is ideal that the calls
should be voice recorded and data stored/banked for future references, and
each caller should be given a unique ID number when called first time and
next time when they call they should mention the unique ID number, so that
it saves not only the time of both caller and who attends the call, but also it
unable to connect the call to the person who attend their call previously in
case they are available at the time of call, and also the unique id will be
used for data bank and record recollection regarding the issues of the caller
and the solutions provided by the advisor and also this measure will ensure
advisors also more responsible and rational in their advise as the calls are
being treated equally without any difference of caste / religion, income
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group; in case any special counselling is required the calls can be diverted
to the specialists in that particular field, the data banking of the caller voice
will be used for specialist to understand the case and give expert advice.
This measure of multi lingual toll free call centre is necessary as after
marriage the couple may move to different place (example a south Indian
female married to a south Indian male shifted to north India and the male
knows Hindi/ English and the female do not know any language other than
her own mother tong, then she even may not be able to share her feelings
with neighbours as her neighbours may not understand her language, even
in case phone is available to her and many not like to share with parents at
their hometown as their parents may get humiliated due to the sufferings of
daughter, in all such cases she may call the toll free number and speak to
the marriage councillors, so toll free multilingual counselling are necessary;
making it mandatory that for applying to divorce the marriage call centre
unique ID and the conversation, suggestions call record and did they person
applying the divorce put into practice the advices and the result of the
advice, a must for applying the divorce.
56)
DISTRICT WISE / MANDAL WISE PRE DIVORCE PERSONAL
COUNSELLING CENTRES; NEED FOR REDUCTION OF TIME GAP FOR
GRANTING DIVORCE FROM 3 YEARS OF SEPARATION TO ONE
YEAR; SEPARATE FAST TRACK COURTS FOR DIVORCE CASES;
FIXED NO OF HEARINGS TO DECIDE CASE.
Also it should be ideal that government must open a district wise in first
phase and later on each mandal wise/ block wise marriage counselling
centres, to call the couple personally for further counselling in case the
experts feel that personal counselling of the male member/ couple together
is necessary after the phone counselling advises not yielding results; All the
counselling should be in camera counselling, also this district / mandal
counselling centres should have quasi judicial powers to summon the
accused/ aggrieved party and it should be made mandatory that no lawyers/
authorised persons should be allowed to represent the summon, it should
be mandatory that the person on whose name the summons were issued
should mandatorily appear in person. And the details of district counselling
centres to further council the couple individually as well as jointly, all in
camera recording, in case still the couple cannot live together, decided to go
for divorce, then they may apply for divorce; all those appearing for
personal counselling should given special UNIQUE ID, in case either of the
individual in the couple wishes to apply for divorce even after personal
counselling (after personal counselling at least 60 days time should be given
for either parties to resolve and reconciled), should apply for transcript of
the call details of the individual done during online real time counselling, in
addition to the transcripts of personal appearance before the council of the
individual and joint statements, which should be mandatory for applying for
divorce in the court, (only the person who is participated in the online
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counselling that person only will get the conversation details individually, in
addition the joint details only in order to protect the privacy of the
individuals statements)This measure not only reduces the cases going for
divorce, in addition reduces the valuable time of courts.
These district marriage counselling centres / mandal counselling centres
should be filled with eminent persons retired
from various fields &
professions and some spiritual/ priestly class of all religions should be on the
panel, and each panel should be formed based on the need of the case.
Even for live in relation break ups also should go through same procedure.
Also there is an urgent need to amend the existing law of mandatory gap
of 3 years of separate living is required for grant of divorce should be
reduced to one year gap of separate living (forced living) or divorce can be
granted even if they are living in same house/ room without any sexual
contact among the wife and husband; however the gap due to staying in
abroad, not getting permission to visit back home or the spouse not getting
visa to join the spouse in abroad or persons serving in jail or any such
unavoidable circumstances they can have separate living should not be a
reason for divorce. This measure is necessary as it is a fact most of the
cases of adultery/ prostitution is happing if there is a gap of forced
separation for three years, the more the gap in the forced separation, the
more the vulnerability for occurrence of adultery, live in relationship or
prostitution, after all once tasted the enjoyment of married life / sexual
pleasures, chances of male waiting for years to get divorce to come to go for
sexual pleasures with another women is very less?
Also there should be separate fast track courts for divorce cases and the
cases should be disposed within a year or maximum of 8 hearings, with
maximum of two adjournments from each party side and two adjournments
from judge side. In case any one of the party whether the appeal party or
respondent party do not attend the hearing after two adjournments or
deemed adjournments in case not attended for two consecutive sessions,
the judge have full authority to do ex-party in the third hearing itself or if
the judge wish to take more hearings then he may take but adhering to a
maximum of 8 hearings in a calendar year the case should get disposed off.
Only on greave medical conditions , in case the any of the party cannot
attend personally, their might me some relaxation in such cases, however
such medical cases should be listed, only such cases this kind of facility
should be extended in rare circumstances; When the case is filed for divorce
after following due procedure of going through online counselling and
personal appearance at personal counselling centres, the properties of both
parties should be deemed to be under attachment till the case is disposed
off and the award is declared for compensation.

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57)
CENTRALISED SYSTEMS TO MONITOR THE MONITORY
COMPENSATION DISPOSAL; AMENDING LAW FOR REPLACING
THE EXISTING PRACTICE OF AWARDING THE COMPENSATION IN
DIVORCE CASES AT THE WILL/ WISDOM OF JUDGES TO MAKING A
FIXED PERCENTAGE OF COMPENSATION FROM INCOME EARNED
AND FIXED PERCENTAGE OF COMPENSATION FROM THE VALE OF
ASSETS, WHICH SHOULD BE SAME FOR ALL DIVORCE CASES
IRRESPECTIVE OF INCOME GROUP/ RELIGION; NO DIVORCE/
BREAK UP APPLICATION WHEN THE WOMEN PARTNER IS
PREGNANT, ONLY AFTER DELIVERING CHILD THEY MAY APPLY;
FEMALE CHILD SHOULD BE RAISED BY MOTHER MANDATORILY.
Also there government must make a separate wing in the marriage
registrar office district wise, with centralised data, for collecting the
compensation awarded by the court in the event of divorce, for maintenance
of ex wife, children, the ex husband should deposit the same amount in this
special wing account; the persons receiving the compensation, as well as
persons paying compensation should reveal their bank accounts, and it
should be automatic deduction from the bank account of the person paying
compensation to the government account whenever such funds are available
in his account, from which the compensation should be forward to the
concerned receiver; in this measure the government account is only an
intermediary just to auto debit and auto credit the compensation amount,
this measure is necessary that even after courts judgements, some male are
avoiding payment to the females, or paying less than the amount awarded,
or paying correctly for certain period and their after vanishing, all such
events the ex wifes life is becoming misery, so with this method, such
issues can be contained, if the through government transfer is happening, in
addition this facility will ensure in the event of the male transferred to any
other place than the place due to work, change in work place/ office, change
in business, change in city, etc from the place where the female receiving
compensation, or in the event of male intentionally not paying, or in the
event the male makes zero balance in the bank account number given and
operating other bank accounts, the government can trace such persons
operating other bank accounts using his voter ID, Adhar, pass port number
to get traced in automatic process in the central banking servers of all banks
and attach such accounts to the amount limited to the compensation, and
ensure payment to the receiver reaches in time, also in the case of 25%
compensation awarded to the child in case the male leaves the child for Ex
wife/ ex female, then the income tax returns should be taken into
consideration and such income should be attached to make payment
annually, in case of salaried employee the salary can be attached to recover
the compensation.
In the event of male/ Ex husband who is involved in dowry
compensation, child compensation, wish to travel abroad, he has to deposit
money in the government account equivalent to such an amount as fixed
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deposit, that the fixed deposit should earn such interest which should be
equal to the amount of compensation, in the event of return from abroad he
can with draw the deposit. Also it should be made mandatory that male who
are directed by court in divorce cases to pay compensation should yearly
submit their stay of place, and mandatory to submit to the authorities any
change in bank account, place of living, contact numbers etc.
Also the government must amend the law for fixed compensation in
divorce cases i.e fixed percentage of compensation in the earnings per
month/ per annum, also fixed percentage of value of the properties should
be automatically awarded along with granting of divorce irrespective of
status of income of the husband or wife, rather than making the divorced
women should be at the mercy and disposal of the discretion authority of
the judges which is happening at present. It is really pity that women of the
country who are in distress due to divorce are left for the mercy of the
judges? Do all judges are honest? there is acute need for fixed percentage
of compensation/ value of the properties will certainly deliver justice to the
victim of divorce, after all the man enjoyed the chastity of the women and
he should pay for it for breaching the trust?.
Also it should be made mandatory that all divorce cases whether
marriage, live in relationships, the couple are not eligible for applying
divorce if the female partner is pregnant, only after the delivery of child any
individual partner can be eligible for divorce, also in case of divorce,
granted, it should be made mandatory that female child should be raised
with mother only, in case mother wish to abandon the child, they may give
it to government orphanages/ care centres by paying compensation for
rising the child, till any childless couple adopt.
58)
CRIMINAL OFFENCE TO MARRY, ENTER INTO LIVE IN
RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE CASE OF DOWRY, DIVORCE PENDING
FOR FINAL JUDGEMENT FROM THE HIGHEST COURT.
Also it should be made mandatory that till the final judgement by highest
court is delivered in either divorce or dowry harassment case, i.e by
Supreme court, in case any of the petitioners go to the supreme court, in
case petitioners do not go to even High court, when the specified time for
appeal lapses, then the petitioners can apply to the registrar of marriages to
clear their names from pending list, then on examination of such records,
and calling either parties individually or together and record their
statements to lift the ban on them for getting married.
Also it should be made mandatory that till the marriage related cases
are disposed off by the highest court, no kind of living in relationship should
be allowed, in case found should be booked as prostitution, and appropriate
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Also it should be made mandatory that if any person involved in marriage

dispute and till the case disposed off/ settled fully, if anyone caught in
prostitution or adultery they should get rigorous imprisonment for not less
than 10 years.
Also it should be made mandatory that all the dowry harassment cases
the full details with photos of the convicted persons and in the cases under
trail, only the accused person should be made available on the website so
that it is one form of name & shame and these families will not further cheat
any other female.
Also in case of divorce the details of both the male and female should be
made available, so that in the very first instance they try to make a
compromise rather than going to court and get exposed, by going to court
one can understand unless there is an extreme conflict between two sides
and which they feel it is not possible to go together, in such cases only will
go to the court, as it is a fact, open secret known to all that in majority of
the cases it is due to bad behaviour of male that divorce will happen, so it
should not be an issue to show the profiles of both the couple till the case is
pending, after granting divorce, the reasons for granting divorce should be
displayed in the website. This measure of recording the reasons for granting
divorce by court (the court order) which if attached to the profile of the
INDIVIDUAL in case seeking remarriage/ living relationship will certainly
alert the women to chose the right man; also this measure reduces
domestic violence to a great extent, as most of the divorces are on account
of domestic violence, and once the profile of the individual man who got
divorce marks that he was granted divorce by the court on account of
harassment due to domestic violence, in general no women will come
forward to marry/ be in live in relationship? This measure will certainly
reduce marriage disputes to a great extent, ensures that wife and husband
live in harmony as far as possible.
59)
ENACTMENT OF LAW RESTRICTING MAXIMUM NUMBER OF
MARRIAGES, OR LIVE IN RELATIONS ONE INDIVIDUAL CAN IN
HIS/HER LIFE TIME BE RESTRICTED TO TWO IRRESPECTIVE OF
RELIGION.
Also there should be mandatory restriction of any individual can marry a
maximum of two times on account of divorce of first spouse or due to death
of first spouse, the case is same for live in relationships one can have
maximum of two live in relationships (after breakup of the first live in
relationship); also if one have first live in relationship then he/ she can have
only one more time enter another live in relationship with another new
partner or marry one time only ; after the two times marriage, live in
relation occurred in case of break up or divorced or death of one of the
partner the other partner should lose the right to remarry or right to enter
live in relationship. This measure is necessary as most of the youth having
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MNC jobs with fat pockets, they just do live in relations for as short as one
day to few years and once they feel bored, they just break up and go for
another relationship, like that in the span of life they may even enter several
dozens of times?
Since it is fact that majority of people do enter in live in relation mostly
for sex, and in case of malfunction of contraceptives they are high risk of
getting STD and other unknown STD can get developed over a period of
time which are more dangerous than HIV? So there is urgent need for
restricting the number of marriages/ number of live in relationships one can
enter in life time. Even in the Muslim personal law says that the Muslims can
marry four times, but it says only after the death of the first wife or only if
the first wife is gravely ill and the disease is un curable and there no kind of
sexual relation between first wife and husband then only the Muslim male
can marry second wife? (also it should be mandatory that even Muslims
living in INDIA should follow this measure of maximum two marries in life
time, only after divorcing the first one should be strictly followed, the law
should be uniform for all living in INDIA irrespective of religion or caste or
income group; Just because one has some money or wish to enjoy with
several partners or wish to swindle money from many in the name of live in
relationship or marriage while getting enjoyment / pleasure is how far
justifiable? It is nothing but one kind of prostitution? How come one allows
this kind of indirect prostitution to prevail in INDIA? Also media should be
sensitive towards this issues and should not air that in such n such celebrity
has done this many marries, this many break ups etc etc? Which will
otherwise creates a negative mindset on the young budding binds to follow
the footsteps of their so called favourite celebrities?; So it is high time
government lust restrict number of marriages one individual can make in
his/ her life time; this measure will certainly ensure long term living in
relationships and also marries will be happier as there exists an element of
love and care will prevail, all leading to healthy family life, leading healthy
productivity, healthy nation.
60)
ENACTING LAW, MAKING IT A CRIMINAL OFFENCE FOR
ONLOOKERS FOR NOT ACTING TO STOP CRIME, HELP THE
VICTIMS IN THE VIOLENCE/CRIME AGAINST WOMEN. REWARD
FOR PERSONS COMING FORWARD TO HELP THE WOMEN
Also it should be made a criminal offence for the onlookers for not
attempting to stop the happening of crime/ atrocity against women when
they are present at the site of crime, also the on lookers should get half the
sentence of the person getting convection. Also there should be reward for
persons coming forward to help the people in distress. The reward should
be in the form of concessions in train tickets/ flight tickets, consideration for
admission in government schools, etc. Provided the case is genuine and the
FIR is lodge against the crime and the onlookers/ people helped in
preventing crime are of great help in saving the dignity, honour & life of the
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victim. This measure saves lot of domestic violence in the BPL families, as
most of them are living in slums, most of the domestic violence happens
publicly by dragging the women, beating publicly, abusing with stangs
publicly, all this will certainly get reduce.
61)
MEASURES TO CONTAIN ADULTERY; ENACTMENT OF LAW
FOR LIFE IMPRISONMENT FOR ADULTERY; CONFISCATION OF
PROPERTIES WHEN PERSON INDULGED IN ADULTERY AND ON
CONVECTION,
GOVERNMENT
SHOULD
AUCTION
SUCH
PROPERTIES AND THE MONEY ACCUMULATED SHOULD GO TO THE
GOVERNMENT RELIEF FUND. TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT FOR
GOVERNMENT/ PRIVATE EMPLOYEES, PERSON RECEIVING
GOVERNMENT BENEFITS SHOULD LOSE THEM PERMANENTLY.
Also it should be mandatory that if any government employee caught in
adultery, bigamy, prostitution, illegitimate live in relationship, he should be
immediately put under suspension, and on getting convection from court
he/she should be terminated from government service and should not be
eligible do any employment in private companies, not allowed to do
consultancy/ self employment, nor to even take any bank loans for starting
any industry/ business, if at all he / she wish to earn livelihood should
depend upon the mercy of the family members or else can do cultivation,
when the case is on trail, / after serving the punishment of life
imprisonment, when he/she is realised from prison; also he/she should lose
bank credit cards, if any, only debit card should be allowed to operate.;
similarly the same terms should be applied for all salaried employees
anywhere in the country in the private sector. in case the family losing lively
hood on account of punishment to the accused, in such cases, government
provide suitable employment to the kin of the such accused in order to
ensure the family should not suffer for the bad behaviour of their bread
winner. In case the kin is not eligible for employment due to minor or lack of
minimum qualifications, the government will fund such families from the
government fund accumulated by auction of the properties of all accused in
the adultery cases.
Also all the persons involved in adultery cases should be barred from
government concessions if any they are receiving like MNREGA, all sorts of
government benefits, except health care benefits, till the trail is completed
and the punishment awarded or acquitted. In case the owner/self employee
indulged in this act, he/she, the government must attach the assets and
he/she should not be given any bank loans further, recover the already
availed bank loans by auction and after adjusting the loans, taxes payable to
government, the remaining amount should be given to the family members
of the accused, this measure reduces lt of sexual harassment by the
employers. This measure will certainly reduce adultery cases in INDIA to a
great extent, it is a fact that many murders are happing in INDIA due to
adultery caught red handed by the spouse, in case the husband/ wife is very
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soft hearted they get humiliated themselves lifelong for the acts of their
husband/ wife, or their son/ daughter/ daughter in law/ son in law who
indulged in adultery, but not able to come out due to lose of social respect
of the family in the society; Also it should be made mandatory that those
individuals both male and female who are caught on adultery their
properties should be confiscated and on getting convicted by the highest
court, they should be put for auction, and such amounts should go to
government relief fund. In addition, they should lose the right to claim
inherent properties of parents, spouse, or any other nature.
62)
ENACTMENT OF LAW GIVING RIGHTS
ADULTERY CASES, FOR ALL FUTURE CASES

OF

WOMEN

IN

Also it should be made mandatory in the event of adultery, if the women

complain before caught red handed such incidence, the same can be taken
as rape and not consensual sex. In case of men they too can file rape by
women, in case a woman lures the man and has several times SEX with her
at the pressure of women. This measure is necessary as men may try to
influence/impress the women in a very tactical manner and make her go for
adultery, or even when some cases women lures men for adultery, in any
case without the cooperation of men adultery will not happen? (adultery
happens mostly within the know personalities like within relatives, within
friends circle, within the neighbours living in same residential zone or within
the office colleagues/ subordinates/ superiors, or sometimes strangle within
someone met in travel become friends etc), so in the event of women
having even so called consensual sex (which should be otherwise banned),
the women have right to complain as rape if she blinks first within one year
of first encounter of such incidence, so men think well before going for
adultery / so called consensual sex. The case should be same for men, they
too can file case of rape by women in case a women lures him and in case
the women initiates the case. As it is a fact that adultery happening in
offices is due to men mostly, other adultery happening in residences is
mainly due to women, this is because the women has unfulfilled sexual
desires, and the husband neglects her desires, also most of the men after
certain years of age do not care to maintain their physical fitness turn
cylindrical with bellies, the women may want so called six packs, in such
circumstances if she finds some one, certainly she try to make him come in
line? So it is a weak up call for all husbands to get fit all the time, so regular
health checkups and doing yoga, fitness exercises to maintain him/ herself
will have multiple benefits? Also the marriage age gap should not be more
than 20 years to ensure perfect health and harmony in sex relations and
happy married life. This measure will certainly reduce adultery as most of
the men are fear for exploitation/ blackmail by the women in case of
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63)
GOVERNMENT MUST ALTER THE DEFINITION OF TERM
CONSENSUAL SEX WHICH CAN BE REFERRED ONLY TO
LEGITIMATE COUPLE.
Also government must make it clear that the term consensual sex,
means for having sex both wife and husband in married life or male &
female partners in live in relation (on legalisation& regulation of live in
relationships) agree jointly to have sex, the word can be used only referring
to legitimate relationships, if any one indulges in so called consensual sex
other than legitimate relationship i.e declared marriage, declared live in
relationship, should be considered as adultery/ prostitution, and should be
liable for punishment.
64)
CENTRALISED DATA BANK OF CONVICTED IN CRIMINAL
CASES RELATED TO ATROCITIES AGAINST WOMEN, MANDATORY
DISPLAY OF THE ACCUSED, CONVICTED DETAILS IN THE NATIVE
VILLAGE, IRRESPECTIVE OF PLACE OF CRIME HAPPENED
WHETHER IN THE SAME SATE OR OTHER STATE, TO NAME AND
SHAME THE CRIMINALS, SENDING SMS TO ALL CONTACTS IN THE
PHONE NUMBERS OF ACCUSED, CONVICTED, PUTTING IN SOCIAL
MEDIA CONTACTS OF THE ACCUSED, CONVICTED IN CRIMES
AGAINST WOMEN TO NAME AND SHAME.
Also it should be made available in the marriage registrars website the
details of persons who are convicted in sexual assault cases, who are
involved in any sort of crimes against women, who got convicted, should be
displayed with full profile, where as the cases pending in court should be
displayed with limiting to name and some details (without picture, as he is
just an accused till the case is proven); this measure will certainly reduce
cases atrocities/ assaults on women as these kind of mindset male will
certainly be cautious in dealing with women (of course no one can stop
happing of a crime, if they are fully prepared for punishment or in inhibited
condition, but certainly reduce petty crimes like stalking, out raging modesty
of women, etc etc)
Also it should be made mandatory that all accused in the criminal cases
against women, if the trail court convicts, their names with photographs
along with nature of crime and the term of punishment should be displayed
at the native place of the accused, (i.e suppose a person migrates from a
village to a city and commits crime at city, where he is just a bachelor or
married, but his parents/ other relatives live in the village, it is ideal that the
accused persons conviction should be displayed in the village post office,
sarpanch office and also made a meeting of the villagers and should read
the trail court judgement, this measure will certainly create some amount of
fear in some people at least and certainly there will be some reduction in the
crime against women, as they feel that the entire village will know about
their crime and the respect of the family will certainly be lowered in the
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village on account of their crime against women, of what s ever degree may
be the crime. As it is a fact that millions are migrating from villages and
settling in cities, but still their family members or relatives lives in villages
and as and when possible on any functions, auspicious occasions, festivals/
holidays most of them working in cities will visit their native place, so doing
this act will certainly create a sense of fear for loss of social respect. Also
men & females are social animals so by getting fear for loss of friends &
relatives in the society they may not do the crime, so both ways the crime
rate can be reduced to a great extent for sure
Also it should be made mandatory as a part of name & shame convicts in
crimes against women, government must send text messages to all the
contacts in the phone number of the accused, all the contacts in the social
media of the accused who was convicted by the trail court should be sent a
message regarding the nature of crime the individual done and the
punishment awarded. This will certainly humiliate many prospective
criminals and will be cautious in doing crime against women, will certainly
reduce the crime rate, also it sends a message to the others in his friend
circle to behave properly, after all unless otherwise similar band width of
mind they cannot become friends? . Also since media is pro actively doing
its job immediately taking up any issues of crime against women, when got
into its notice doing enquiry about the accused and showing it on television/
print media, if its acceptable to all even the accused if FIR got registered
then they may be exposed in their local village as well as to their contacts in
phone, social media, however permissibility of legal angel for intrusion into
privacy of the accused, as till the case is proved he can plead still innocent?
Also in case of proven case, with supporting evidence like video in case
of eve teasing / staking etc etc by any students, youth, they should be
exposed in a similar manner among the friends circle, in addition showing
the video in the school/ college/ university mass assembly, this measure will
certainly reduce the eve teasing by the college going students, in case of
any other person other than students, the same should be done in their
place of work, residence colony/ basti/ village/ ward in addition to their
contacts and native village. Also if done by an un employed youth he should
be de listed from employment number, so that in his life time he will not
get employment anywhere in the country; These measures will lead to
drastic reduction in crime against women for sure.
65)
FREEZING OF THE ASSETS OF ACCUSED IN CRIMINAL CASES
AGAINST WOMEN ESPECIALLY IN HEINOUS CRIMES OF RAPE,
ACID ATTACKS, AND DOWRY HARASSMENT CASES, IN CASE OF
CONVECTION THE ASSETS SHOULD BE AUCTIONED AND THE
MONEY SHOULD BE GIVEN TO THE VICTIM
Also it should be made mandatory that on filing FIR against any accused
in cases related to crime against women, which attract more than one year
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imprisonment, on obtaining the permission from the court, in all such cases
the phone, social media, should be immediately put under surveillance, the
bank accounts should be attached, all movable assets should be confiscated
and all immovable assets should be attached, till the case is disposed off by
the final court of law, when the accused is convicted / sentence in case of
crime against women like dowry harassment case, rape, murder, acid
attacks, outraging modesty of women in full public view etc, then the assets
belonging to the convicted should be auctioned and the amount should be
given to the victim, in case of dowry harassment cases, even the properties
of all those involved and got convicted along with the main accused also
should be auctioned and the same should be given to the victim.
The fear for loss of assets, lively hood, should be certainly reduce the
crime rate, in order to protect the people from wrong cases, in case of
proven the case is made with malafid intention, then the wrong petitioner
and their supporters should be liable for lifelong imprisonment, and their
properties should be auctioned immediately and given it the persons who
was wrongly accused, otherwise there is every danger that due to settle the
revenge/ vengeance some may file fabricate false cases, and without doing
any crime innocent will get victimised / injustice? ; in case of even eve
teasing caught red handed with video& audio evidence then the mobile/ bike
used for such crime should be confiscated and should be auctioned and the
money should go to government corpus fund to help the deserving women
or for any social purpose. Also to name and shame the eve teasers should
be photographed in handcuffs and putting behind bars in the police station
and the MMS should be sent to the phone contacts/ social media contacts of
the eve teasers for getting fear among their friends not to indulge in such
anti social activities, also it creates fear in the youth by and large and will
not think of doing such crimes.
66)
MANDATORY MENTION OF INDIVIDUAL, FAMILY STATUS
WITH
MARRIAGE
REGISTRATION
NUMBER,
LIVE
IN
REGISTRATION NUMBER IN RENTAL AGREEMENTS, MANDATORY
TO REVEL DETAILS OF PERSONS STAYING IN THAT HOUSE, THEIR
RELATION WITH THE PERSON TAKING ON RENT, ETC; ALL
RENTALS SHOULD BE GIVEN AFTER DUE VERIFICATION OF THE
STATUS OF THE INDIVIDUAL, FAMILY, TO CONTAIN BIGAMY,
EXTRA MATRIMONIAL AFFAIRS, ADULTERY, PROSTITUTION, IN
CASE OF FOUND SUCH ILLEGITIMATE ACTS HAPPENING THE
OWNERS ALSO LIABLE FOR PUNISHMENT. ALSO PERSONS LIVING
IN OWN HOUSE SHOULD SUBMIT ANNUALLY THAT WHO ARE
STAYING IN THEIR HOUSE, THEIR RELATION. ETC.
It is a fact that majority of the cases of Bigamy, adultery, live in
relationship, are happening in rented premises, mostly in the residential
areas, in order to prevent happening of such illegitimate acts in total,
especially in the residential localities, Also it should be made mandatory
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that all rented houses should have status of the individual/ couple who are
hiring the house on rent, in addition mentioning of details of people who are
going to stay in that house and their relationship with the person who has
taken on rent, in case couple are going to live in that house, the details of
registrar of marriages for marriage certificate number, living in relation
certificate a necessary; this measure will certainly prevent adultery, un
authorised living-in relationship/ bigamy/ prostitution in residential areas to
a great extent.
This measure will certainly improve harmony in family life of the married
couple, epically men cannot use the married women just as servant, and
enjoy with someone else, also the other women get alerted that the man is
already married (during rental agreement if one types the voter ID or name
the details of already married people will appear), also this measures
ensures that if any females if for what so ever reason many like to stay
away with married men, in order to live respectably in the society, they can
get respect, cannot be branded as prostitute? (the government data bank of
people indulged in prostitution are available in the public domain, and the
house owners can verify, should not let their house with such history). Also
in order to ensure not only rented house people are checked for matrimonial
status, but also the persons/ couple/ family living in own house should
submit to the government in affidavit that in their house the following
persons are living and the relationship with each other like spouse, children,
aunt/uncle with full details etc, this measure will certainly reduce happening
of illegitimate relations/ prostitution in residential areas to a great extent.
67)
MEASURES
TO
CONTAIN
PROSTITUTION,
STRICTER
PUNISHMENTS
FOR
PARTICIPATION
IN
PROSTITUTION,
GOVERNMENT/PRIVATE EMPLOYEE CAUGHT IN PROSTITUTION
SHOULD PERMANENTLY LOOSE TO DO JOB/ EMPLOYMENT IN ANY
ORGANISATION IN LIFE TIME, ALSO FOR TRUCK DRIVERS LOSE
THE DRIVING LICENCE PERMANENTLY, FOR STUDENTS DEBARRED
FROM PURSING EDUCATION, NO EMPLOYMENT, FOR MNREGA
EMPLOYEES CANCELATION OF JOB CARDS AND OTHER
GOVERNMENT BENEFITS, ALSO USE OF RELIGIOUS GROUPS TO
PREACH/
PURIFY/
SANCTIFY
PEOPLE
INVOLVED
IN
PROSTITUTION COME BACK FOR DIGNITY OF LIVING
FOR
BRINING PROSTITUTES INTO MAIN STREAM LIVING, SELF
EMPLOYMENT, SHG FOR THOSE WHO LEAVE PROSTITUTION IN
ADDITION PROVIDING PUCCA HOUSE IN THE NATIVE PLACE AS A
PART OF REHABILITATION.
Since the measure of registering the marriages/ pre marriages
registration/ live in relationships will certainly reduce to great extent the
prostitution indirectly/ directly as their exits grater harmony between the
couples but since due to containing adultery, there is every possibility of rise

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in prostitution, as such in order to contain prostitution to the maximum

extent the following measures are necessary.
It is a fact that prostitution is growing in cities rather than in rural areas,
as the income earning is more in the urban areas, also more and more
single male youth are migrating/ staying in urban areas due to employment,
as such in cities the hotels, lodges, are more prone to prostitution, (High
tech prostitution, use mobile, internet, social media, advertisement,
organised in one other way), where as in rural areas/ small towns the
prostitution is mainly on the road side for the some perverted/desperate
vehicle drivers/ cleaners etc, (petty prostitution, completely un organised,
done mostly by individuals, or sometimes by small time mafias also) who
are more vulnerable for STD and HIV. The urban/ city prostitution is
effecting on the economy rather than the rural prostitution, as the so called
upper echelons, even middle class working age group are the targeted
sections, at the same time rural prostitution is directly effective health by
way of more prone for HIV/STD for lack of awareness for protection/
unhygienic conditions, all due to lack of education/ poverty of the person
doing prostitution.
It is a fact that prostitution is completely ruining the family life of millions
of people, in fact the prostitutes them selfs are risking their live with more
vulnerability and spending very pathetic life. most unfortunately those who
are in the prostitution profession are downtrodden and majority of them
belonging to Dalits, Adivasis and Muslim minority, who are otherwise most
of them are in forced prostitution as per various reports/ surveys conducted
by various organisations. Since the government wants to take the
advantage of demographic dividends that INDIA is having for faster growth
of economy, for that the youth energies must be channelized in positive
productive direction than wasting energies in unproductive illegitimate
prostitution/sex, it is high time to make sure youth of the country are
morally and ethically perfect. Also It is a fact most of the men who are not
adhering to spirituality, certainly prone to the syndrome of sex sickness at
some point of time, also it is a fact that most of the youth at present are not
spiritual and more or less rational and atheist types, because till date no
kind of compulsory religious/spiritual education in schools and colleges. So
there should be stricter measures for containing prostitution by enforcing
punishments for participating in prostitution. The fear for loss of job/ lively
hood will certainly make the youth to think before going to prostitution.
If all the elected representatives, the political parties and so called
religious outfits that talk about the religiousness and modesty of women as
top priority, if they have will to they should marginalize prostitution, they
should use the force of police, army, media and alerting the citizens by
completely dismantling the red light areas, and showing alternative
measures of living to all the prostitutes, by completely donating one year of

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their MP/MLA lands and in addition government must provide appropriate

fund for making them to lead dignified living in a righteous manner?
Also need to educate the citizens to see the rehabilitee people who were
languished in prostitution should be seen equality not as as lower strata of
people, in fact what many people do not understand that these lower
income group people do prostitution for filling the stomach of their family
members, where the elite and some section of so called celebrities and
upper echelons/ rich do prostitution for greed and ultra luxury living & for
consuming narcotics etc etc without knowing this the common people
patronize them, become fan followers to these upper echelons who do
prostitution secretly, behave as popular/prominent figures in sociry?, but the
poor prostitutes who return from the trade viewed as lower class un
touchable? What a pity hypocrisy prevailing in society? There is need in
change of mind set of all sections of people. The religious leaders who talk
large about their religion should first ensure the destitute in prostitution are
freed from bondage and then purify them, if they have real concern for their
religion?, otherwise they do not possess moral authority to purify any other
ordinary living people? These measure will certainly marginalize flush trade
in INDIA, if not completely eradicate? .
Simultaneously government must fix the root causes/ origin of
prostitution modus operand, it is high time that government must ensure
preventive pruning measures to contain happening of prostitution. It is fact
that most of the educated youth do not visit red light areas having some
fear for STD and unhygienic surroundings, but it is a fact that in the news
papers and in the internet prostitution advertisements are mushrooming like
anything, in a veiled manner or some even directly, it is an open fact that
prostitution is happening in the name of BODY MASSAGE hotel or home/
ESCORT GIRLS to come anywhere, that pretty decent house wifes, air
hostess do body massage? (any person with little common sense can
understand why do house wifes perform body massage for strangers in
their house/hotel just because they pay money?; also when safety of girls is
not sure in the hometown, why do girls go with strangers to anyplace along
with strangers as so called escorts?) the advertisements are more or less
like alcoholic beverage brand advertisements in television and print media
sighting that cassettes and music CDs , mineral water etc, it is also just like
that; So government immediately put ban on such advertisements, in
addition government must make it mandatory that all the hotels, lodges,
guest houses should mandatorily have internet connection it should be
mandatory that rooms should be given to any couple after verifying the
central data base of marriage registrars website, and in case of single male
and single female no issue in allotting room after standard verification for
the voter ID or any other ID card. This measure is necessary as most of the
youth with fat pocket jobs do frequent travels across the country on official
duty, and certainly most of these generation youth are not spiritual, as such
there is every chance of getting involved in prostitution when in out station,
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staying in hotel/ lodge as they feel that it is an opportunity for them to so

called enjoy, since no one in their family or friends are watching, they may
just call the call girls in the internet advertisements, even when the their
visit are planned? So by the above method of giving rooms after verification
of relation, taking full details of visitors will certainly reduce the happing of
prostitution.
In case of un authorised/ suspicious couple wants to take room than it
should be mandatory for the hotels, lodges & Guest houses to inform to the
local police immediately, no un authorised couple should be allowed to stay
in room, unless otherwise they mention the relation of sister, mother, aunt
etc with required proof to that extent. In addition no visitor should be
allowed to visit the rooms in the hotels, lodges, guesthouses without filling a
prescribed visitors format, which should be standard for all, which should
contain the details of name, parents/ guardian/ spouse, contact phone
number, social media contact, and in addition voter ID card copy/ passport
copy, the purpose of visit, the relation/ friends, acquaintance, colleague/
business purpose, then which business you are in and the guest staying in
etc etc, a must for going visiting the staying guests in the room of the
hotel, lodge, guest house, otherwise without filling the details they can meet
in the reception/ lobbies, there should be online central data base of the
hotels, lodges, guest houses, which will track the both guests as well as
visiting guests and in case of same visiting guests are seen at different
places based on the frequency, then they may me identifying the guests
contacts, and in case suspicion they should inform the police for surveillance
for confirmation whether the frequent visitor is indulged in prostitution.
This measure is for ensuring no adult men should live the same room
with any unknown women, they may live only with their blood related
mother and grandparents, in order to establish mother and son, they should
carry family certificate. It is fact as per one religious belief that no adult
female should sleep in the same room with any man other than husband,
even father of the girl should not sleep in the same room, if strictly followed
the principles laid in this regard, all other religions must appreciate and
follow this measure (there should be exception to this norm, that except the
father/ brother is in grave illness/ completely bed ridden and not in a
movable position due to any accident, or for visiting a hospital one should
be allowed to stay together under humanitarian grounds, for this they must
produce the required medical certificates, the appointment with doctor or
after visiting the doctor they should produce the details, or they must give
an affidavit along with the medical history).
The above measure is necessary to reduce/prevent to a great extent
happening of adultery/prostitution in the hotel rooms/ lodges/ guest house,
as SEX IS BLIND, that is why adultery is happing all over the world, also
rapes are happening all over the world, it is the senses that creates the urge
in the human brain, if the individuals brain is weak, it may react to the
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urges of senses quickly, once the SEX URGE is accepted by the brain, the
remaining part of the brain will become blank/dark and the only focus of the
individuals mind is how to satisfy his/her urge for sex, ; it is a common
sense that when in sleep we (any human being male or female irrespective
of age) are not aware of the body movements, so if the female sleeps in
the same room with some adult man, whose eyes always searches for sex, if
accidentally by chance he sees any malfunction of wardrobe, any private
parts of the female visible/exposed even slightly, there is every possibility
that the man may develop a sense for SEX, in case his mind is morally
weak, simply forgetting the relationship, as in general ordinary mind will get
blocked if SEX though originated, and only his focus is to satisfy the sex
urge (only motherly relation have the power to alert the brain of even an
inhibited person, as he recognize the mother, so mothers are exceptional
can stay with son in the same room); also if the man is in inhabited
condition, his bran may not be under control, it may get recollected such
seans of sexual stimulation either watched in porn, movies,, in magazines
previously some time back, and once his mind is fully filled with such
images of sex, then his will act accordingly in the inhabited condition, or
even not not inhibited condition, if his mind is weak, forgetting the fear for
law/ punishment/ repercussions/ insane etc, because of this only rapes are
happening.
In case of single women, single male wish to stay in the hotel, still there
the details should be obtained and sent it to the parents/ guardians/ spouse
if there are bachelors, in case married then to the spouse. This measure is
also provides a sense of relief / releases undue , un known stress to the
parents/ guardians/ spouse that their loved one is safely reached the place
and security is taken care. This measure is necessary as lot of travelling
happing and many young working age group both male and female are
travelling and staying in hotels, lodges, guesthouse and service apartments,
and the parents and spouses are certainly in anxiety/ un known stress till
they call and tell that they reached and occupied room and till they return
home safely. For the single occupants, the details of spouse contact/ parents
contact mandatory to stay in the hotel/ lodge/ guest house. Also in case
single occupants, the guests should be allowed to meet in the lobbies and no
guests should be allowed to stay in the rooms.
Also it should be made mandatory that if any employee of government,
private caught red handed doing prostitution, in the hotels, lodge, and guest
house or even in the residential apartment/ house/ room should be removed
permanently from employment, in addition should be bared from getting
employment in his/her life time. This measure will certainly yield the
desired result. Also it should be made that in case law enforcement
authorities like police, let the people visiting the prostitutes lose and escape
by paying bribe and let the prostitutes to lose by taking bribe from them,
then they should not only get dismissed from service but also should get life
imprisonment. He/she should be barred from getting job in their life time.
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Also there should be incentives for the prostitutes, if they themselves

become informers and inform the anti prostitution toll free number, that if a
prostitute informs to get the person visited caught red handed, the
prostitute may be allowed to commute the punishment, in addition, the
prostitute (female/male) should get cash incentives to the tune of all
benefits of P F/savings the employee entitled who was caught in
prostitution. Or part of the value of the assets of the self employed
individuals. This measure will certainly reduce the happening of prostitution.
Also there should be toll free number for providing information regarding
happening of prostitution, for getting incentives from the government, more
incentive in case of giving clues for getting them caught red handed.
Also in order to dismantle the red light areas government must take the
help of military after identifying the red light areas in each district and
jointly put efforts along with state intelligence for tacking/ tapping the
phones in that area and also cordoning off the areas, putting single entry
and single exist in that periphery, with installation of multiple number of
high resolution CC cameras in each and every lane, sub lane, at entry and
exit point, also the phone GPRS of the persons in that area,
and doing
combing searches in each and every house, walls, in the house with infrared
scanners to identify the humans stuffed in the walls/ cupboards/ alarms,
mezzanine floors which are otherwise not possible to identify with naked eye
that in that wall like places dozens of prostitutes are stuffed like garbage?.
After every operation they should collect all those involved in the
prostitution and separate them as per their local language and religion and
kept them in the stadiums for a week like a transit /make shift house, all of
them should be given due medical checkups, in addition all religious heads/
leaders/ poised persons belonging that religion like swami-jis, mullas,
fathers etc for giving thought provoking preaches to them, sanctify them
give them hope and induce confidence & mental strength in them for leading
normal life in the society, and even some hypnotizers should be brought and
make the people go for hypnotize them for good behaviour. Similarly all the
prostitutes should be taken identity and the details of their home town and
sent back to their native place, all nearby locals should be transported to
other far way states and rehabilitate them, all those orphans, government
must put them in government rescue homes for some time and make then
to shift to some states where the female population is less and provide them
livelihood/ pension, house to stay and making the sarpanch of the village
responsibility of their welfare, if any one wants to marry them, government
must provide all support with incentives.
Also as far as the prostitution in rural areas / small towns is concerned,
the large cliental for them is the truck drivers, cleaners, MNGREA workers/
small time earning people, most of them involved in the prostitution or
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poor/ downtrodden/ belonging to BPL families and doing prostitution for

livelihood. They stand on the high ways, stay near the high ways and
indulge in prostitution for petty pay for lively hood. So the government
should announce incentives for the public for giving information about such
people and when such incidents are happening or found them when they are
on the streets, and certainly people will give positive response. Also there
should be severe punishments, in case of any truck driver, driver found
involved in prostitution cases should lose their driving license. All truck
drivers should mandatorily go for STD check up every 30 days, for this a
smart card should be issued to all truck drivers. In case of STD found for the
truck drivers immediately the medical investigation should happen to find
out the reason and in case found it is not transmitted due to legal marriage
in case of truck driver is married, in case truck driver is a bachelor them his
driving licence should be cancelled immediately and barred from driving for
life time. Also in case of any MNREGA employee found going for prostitution
he should lose his MNREGA card and other government benefits.
Also government must make it mandatory that all employers, un
employed should register with government, and the data of village wise,
ward wise population of employment and unemployment can be identified;
all those employers should have bank account, and all employees should be
paid through bank account transfer only; also every employee should be
displayed in the village / ward government office, the salaries drawn by the
employee should be graded i.e (up to Rs 5,000 Pm grade 1 and above Rs
5,000 and below 10,000 Grade 2, similarly above 10,000 and below 20,000
grade 3 etc etc on different grades), and without disclosing the exact
amount the employee earning, the grade can be displayed for social
understanding, people can easily identify that if anyone living luxury at very
low grade, or without any employment, one can report to the authorities for
further identification of source of luxury?, also if the employee is not
recognised by government and paying thousands of rupees salary, they
should be kept under scrutiny, also similarly parents should ask the children
for the source of income, expenditure, in case they found that suspension
they should report to authorities, else parents also culpable for encouraging
prostitution/ corruption; also the details of employers should be up loaded in
the web, so that anyone can see that whether such and such employer is in
existence, as prior to employment or after he employment it should be
mandatory on the part of the employee to inform the authorities about the
employee with employee registration number, if any employer employees
any unauthorised any one for employment i.e the person who has not
registered with government or without informing the government, the
employer should be fined as well as liable for imprisonment. Also it should
be made mandatory that all those who wish to employ should first put their
requirement for employment with nature if work in the government
employment, this should apply even for employing domestic help at
residences to a helper in mom & pop (kirana) stores, so if anyone wants to
go for employment, they should see whether such requirement of
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employment is in existence or not; This measure of mandatory employment

with registration at government, village wise/ ward wise data of employers,
right to know the source of income by the parents/ guardians, social audit
by the neighbours, friends and relatives measures will certainly contain the
prostitution to a great extent, as well as saves lot of lives from the risk of
getting trapped by middle men to lure the innocent poor females in the
name of employment, all these measure certainly reduce the happening of
prostitution, adultery; it also reduces so called consensual sex for earning
money/ gifts to lead luxury life in the urban areas.
Also it is ideal that religious leaders of various religions in each and every
district/ mandal should conduct come back for dignified living camps in all
districts / mandals to sanctify the people involved in flush trade, with the
help of the local police, identify the people and go to their place of living and
pursue them for dignified living, purify their mind and scantily them for
starting their fresh living, also they should be treated by the doctors for
curing their STD if any, and also give them medicine for anti depression,
anti sexual thoughts, this measure should be initiated/ involved cutting
across religions, political parties all elected representatives and so called
elders in that village / mandal should voluntarily pursue this. These
measures will certainly yield the desired results.
After this for all those involved in prostitution, (other than prostitutes)
pimps/ touts/ so called house madams, owners of brothels, mafias and
make them wear the RFID collar tags which are GPRS enabled to track their
movement wear on their wrist or ankle and make them to wear 24/7, 365
days, life long, in addition there should be daily visit by the local police,
make them visit the local government office like police station, post office,
etc and sign their with the RFID collar on their wrist/ ankle.
All those who left prostitution profession should be provided with bank
loans for SHG, or might be joined in the already existing SHG with some
incentives for joining them, or given skill development training in some or
other skill which gives them the legitimate earnings and a dignity of living.
Also government must provide a house for those who left prostitution and
leading normal life in their native village, and the house should be non
transferable/ non rentable/ non saleable. These measures will certainly
yields good results and certainly the scale of prostitution will come down.
68)

LEGALISING PROSTITUTION FOR MULTIPLE BENEFITS

If government feels, that by completely controlling prostitution is not

possible, and by controlling prostitution, there is every possibility of rise of
crimes against women, as those who are habituated for prostitution, if found
no way out to fulfil their desires, they may commit atrocities on the girls and
women? If government, all religious leaders, elected representatives at
their wisdom feels that it is ideal to reduce the transmission of STD/ HIV
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through legalizing prostitution rather than putting ban and running it under
the carpet, then government must do it, but under stringent controls, as
legalisation of prostitution has its own advantages, after all every women
has right over body, she should also obelise to the legitimate living, there
should not be any hesitation in earning through prostitution?,
In case government wish to legalise, they should ensure that all those
who wish to do prostitution should register with government and they
should undergo medical checkups once in a week, and there should be
designated places to do prostitution in every mandal, block, rather than
allowing it do at public places like hotels, residential places, government
must construct buildings for prostitution just like government constructing
shopping complexes, after all prostitution is also a form of business for
many? (Prostitution should not be entertained at residential places or
hotels). All those who wish to visit the prostitutes should get registered with
government in an online form to get a unique ID, only those who registered
with the government must be allowed to visit a prostitute, after thorough
medical checkups, and government must kept the details under secret. All
the prostitution hubs should have adequate number of medical
professionals, and a medical labs attached to it to conduct medical tests for
the visitors as well as prostitutes; also the government must make it
mandatory that all prostitutes should get more or less equal pay and there
should be fixed number of visitors per day/ week, however every prostitute
should have the liberty to fix the rate per prostitution valuing his/her body,
the visitor intended to visit they should pay online % of the initial fee in the
bracket of charges from the available charges, then the nearest prostitute
should be alerted for convenience/ willingness to reach the place in that
time to the prostitution centre, this measure is necessary to ensure that
prostitution is also like a job, the method of GPRS should be used to identify
the nearest prostitute (the method like call taxi using GPRS), and every
once can earn equally and customers should not have choice, but to go with
who ever in that age group, rate, he chooses comes, if not interested the
customer may leave the place, since the minimum pay is already recovered
which should be given to the prostituted who was called for, also once the
customer visits the prostitute, they should pay the remaining balance
through online swiping the bank card personally. This measure is necessary
to ensure someone will pay in proxy names and someone else visit the
prostitution centre, all the prostitutes can spend time at home if they wish
to choose, only on logging in the centre, they should be allotted the
customers., and all payments to the prostitutes should be through bank card
transaction only. This measure will ensure that equal distribution of
work/earnings for prostitutes? Also it ensures tracking of people visiting
prostitution. The main reason for registration with government online to visit
for prostitute is to ensure that no married man, man in live in relationship
when their marriage is valid, live in relationship is in valid, then all such
men/women should be barred from either doing prostitution or visiting
prostitution. (Here the right over her body/ his body do not apply for doing
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prostitution, even fundamental rights granted by constitution are not

absolute?).
Also all those un married income earning people/ divorced people who
are visiting the prostitutes, and their record is with the government and
when they apply their profile for marriage they should make it mandatory
that they should reveal that when they visited prostitutes, how many times
etc etc, when they apply for pre marriage registration PMR, the government
will reveal the details to the prospective bride bride/ groom that this many
times the candidate visited the prostitutes on so and so time.; if one is man
enough & possesses guts, they should not have any hesitation in making it
public when they do not have hesitation to go for public sex?, if a person do
not have guts/ courage to face the public for his acts, he/she should not
indulge in this kind of activity?, at least to the person who is intended to
marry, honest is needed ?
Also the measure ensures that no under aged / minors involved in
prostitution, only majors (aged above i.e 21 for male/female) either can do
prostitution or visit prostitutes; also this measure ensures that no HIV
patent is either allowed to prostitution or visit a prostitute; also those who
are undergoing the STD treatment should be barred from either doing
prostitution or visiting prostitution. Government must impose tax on
prostitution to recover the money on the buildings/ infrastructure for
prostitution created by government. Also it should be mandatory that all the
prostitution should use condoms, all the prostitutes should be subjected to
medical check up every day before every visitor is allowed to visit. Also it
should be mandatory that the age difference between the prostitute and the
visitor should not be more than 20 years, else it is nothing but too heinous
crime, like a mother and son or father and daughter sex which should not be
allowed under any circumstances. So while visiting registering the visitors
list of prostitution the age certificate and the ID card of the place of
employment or bank statement showing regular income should be made
mandatory.
Even in case government wants to legalise prostitution, at the very first
instance before announcing legalisation of prostitution, they should
dismantle the red light areas and ban all the existing advertisements etc so
that those who are languishing in forced prostitution should be set free, and
then allow some time to make heal the woods that are both physical and
mental, when they left prostitution and made them to lead normal life. Then
government may announce legalisation of prostitution, that too only after
identifying the areas for construction of buildings, once the required
infrastructure and supporting staff to oversee the systems in legalisation of
prostitution is ready then they may announce legalisation of prostitution?
In this case there should not be any advertisements in any medium for
prostitution, even the list of persons doing prostitution/ visiting prostitution
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should not be made public. But records should be maintained for enforce
legitimacy that no married person can do or visit prostitution, etc., Also it
should be made a pre condition that all the houses of prostitutes should be
under CC camera surveillance; In case of any one found illegally do
prostitution or visiting prostitution should lead to rigorous life imprisonment.
So by legalizing prostitution will certainly yield the best results.
69)
MANDATORY MAINTENANCE OF CENTRALISED DATA BANK
OF HIV PATENTS, STD DISEASES BY GOVERNMENT WITHOUT
MAKING PUBLIC, ONLY USED FOR USE BY GOVERNMENT IN CASE
OF LEGALISING OF PROSTITUTION/ USE FOR BY MARRIAGE
REGISTRAR BORE ISSUING PRE MARRIAGE REGISTRATION
UNIQUE ID.
Also it should be mandatory that government must maintain the details
of all HIV patents district wise, state wise and centralised data bank with
voter Id card/ adhar card/ passport number as base. This data should be
only for use by government and should not be made public. Even should be
out of RTI preview. Also the treatment for STD/HIV symptoms should be
done only in government hospitals, also whether the treatment done by a
regular doctor or allopathic doctor, it should be the primary duty of the
doctors to send the details of patents visiting with STD/HIV symptoms
immediately through SMS/ online to government hospital website, for
getting a separate Unique ID for the patent on return SMS or immediately
on online, the details should include the voter ID card number of the patent,
and it should be mandatory for all doctors to mention this unique ID in the
prescription form, also it should be made mandatory that all medical
retailers should sell the medicine for STD/HIV only if the doctors
prescription with special code exists, or only should b given by government
free of cost at government hospitals, And they should also enter the details
of the unique ID of the HIV / STD patents.,. Also in case of legalisation of
prostitution, government must synchronized with the data of all STD/ HIV
patients with those who registers to do prostitution or wish to visit the
prostitutes, here prostitute means both female and male and trans genders,
similarly the visitors means men, women and transgender. After getting
cure the patents with STD should visit the doctor for verifying and giving
certificate that the STD is cured fully, then the doctor should send SMS,
online with unique ID STD patents for getting his/her name cleared from the
list of STD patents. Only after clearing that there names are not exists in
the list of STD patents any one can be allowed to do prostitution/ visiting
the prostitution. Also the registrar of marriages can verify from the data
bank for confirming that the applicant for marriage either bride or groom do
not have HIV/ do not have previous history of STD. Then only the register of
marriages should issue PMR unique ID

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70)
CENTRALISED DATA BANK OF CONVICTED PEOPLE WHO ARE
INVOLVED IN PROSTITUTION TO ALERT FROM GETTING CHEATED
BY SUCH PIMPS, TOUTS ETC
Also it should be ideal to display the photo graphs of both male and
female involved in trapping young girls and women for trafficking,
prostitution, or who are convicted in running brothels or doing prostitution.
This measure will alert many young women, parents of the girl child not to
fall under the trap of these serial offenders, also government must put these
kind of people under 24/7, 365 days surveillance all these kind of people, or
those who are in regular phone touch with them by looking after their
mobile phones, also they should be made to wear radio callers and their real
time movements can be monitored. This measure will save lot of young girls
into prostitution mafias/ rackets. The photographs of such people should be
displayed permanently in the local gram panchayat office & mandal office,
VRO& MRO office, post office of the village and mandal, and in the gram
sabha meetings, where the person belongs to or lived. This measure will
save lot of innocent BPL, downtrodden SC ST MINORITY girls falling into
their trap in the pretext of getting better salaried job in the town or bigger
city / metro etc can be contained to a large extent.
71)
CREATION OF CORPUS FUND FOR GIVING INCENTIVES FOR
INFORMERS
REGARDING
HAPPENING
OF
PROSTITUTION,
ADULTERY, BIGAMY
Also government must create a corpus fund to marginalize the adultery/
bigamy, prostitution, there should be a toll free number, contact e mail,
mobile number, to receive information from anyone regarding happening of
adultery/ bigamy, on verification, trapping/ caught red handed, the couple
should be punished as law and the people who gave information should get
appropriate reward.
This measure will certainly yield desired results as taxi/ auto drives/
riksha pullers or pan shop people or staff of bar& restaurants, lodges,
hotels, guest houses etc will become potential informers. The government
must protect the informers identity at all times. The informers should get
incentives in the form of cash, till government introduces the mobile cash
transfer, i.e sending top up to the mobile the value of the incentive and the
mobile top up can be discharged at any mobile recharge centres / banks/
post offices for en cashing the amounts. This measure will certainly ensure
no leakages in the incentives given, also the amount will be transferred to
the mobile by the higher authorities and without even knowing to the field
level/ local authorities, who are in execution of law and order at local level.
Thus making the informers identity protected fully. Also it should be made a
criminal offence on the neighbours of the place where such incidents are
happening, owners of such house, staff of the hotels/ guest houses/ lodges
for not reporting to police the happing of adultery/ prostitution, in case the
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couple staying do not furnish the details of marriage ID/ live in relation Id or
family relation ID, and the management given room without verification.
72)
ENACTMENT OF LAW FOR CONTAINING HAPPING OF HOMO
SEXUALITY,
CONFISCATING
PROPERTIES
OF
PERSONS
INDULGING IN HOMO SEXUALITY SHOULD LOSE RIGHT TO THEIR
INHERENT PROPERTIES; IF GOVERNMENT THINKS TO SAVE
MILLIONS OF MARRIAGES THEY SHOULD LEGALISE HOMO
SEXUALITY UNDER STRICT CONDITIONS.
It is a fact that homosexuality prevails in INDIA, there is rise in
homosexuality in INDIA, also government of India has recently voted
against homosexual marriages in the UN, also the Supreme court itself said
homosexuality is crime, as it is against the nature and perverted in nature
mindset people only practice, if legalised/ allowed to continue like so called
live in relationship of heterosexual, the youth of the country will certainly
get spoiled, certainly get attracted towards homosexuality in case of
government exhibits its real concern for girl child and up holding legitimacy
in relations, by enacting laws and ensuring proper implementation to contain
adultery & prostitution, As such government should take all measures to
minimize happening of homosexuality by putting stringent punishments like
confiscation of properties of people indulged in homosexuality, and also the
people involved in homosexuality should lose the right to inherent property,
also homosexuals should be barred from travelling/using public mode of
transport or using same sex driver for vehicles, using same sex servants/
same sex domestic help at home, or working in government or private
employment, also their driving licenses should be cancelled, however they
may be allowed to travel in all modes of transport provides if some straight
opposite sex accompany them, after all this is one kind of mental sickness,
and they should be treated as mentally ill people and the same facilities
should be extended to them as available to the severely mentally challenged
people (even though they appear normal and do all work as normal persons,
when the matter of sexual urge comes they become un natural?) This
measure will certainly reduce happing of homosexuality. Just declaring that
he/she is not going to attract punishment, but when caught red handed,
only such punishments will attract any kind of punishment.
In case government feels to save millions of straight marriages from it
turning into disasters/ lifetime nightmares, it is ideal to legalize the
homosexuality rather than allowing it grows in a din, then they should do
with certain conditions. It should be made mandatory that the individuals
should declare in an affidavit that they are homosexual; government must
make a list of people who are homosexual. It has its own advantages, since
in the absence of legal rights to homosexuals, who happens to be more than
2.5 million people across the country as per unconfirmed reports, and are
growing every minute, which are potential people who are at the risk of
carrying HIV, in addition, most of them are youth, in case they marry a
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straight sex male/ female, then the life of the straight sex female will get
spoiled, marriage is a disaster, as he will not touch the women, her married
life is completely destroyed, she has to go for adultery or divorce, or face
domestic violence in case goes for adultery, all this is because of the legal
problems of punishment for homosexual, as such the homosexual person
just say yes to their parents wish and get marry as normal person, such
cases are in millions? So by legalising homosexuality government can save
millions of lives from either divorce/ adultery/ domestic violence, in addition
can contain spread of HIV. In case of legalisation, the list of homosexuals
along with photographs should be displayed in the website. Government
should start counselling centres for homosexual feeling people to make
them straight, by both spiritual preaching are as well as medicine for
psychiatry. This measure data base of homosexuals with pictures has many
advantages. In case government makes legalisation of homosexuality, if two
men or women staying in hotel can be identified as homosexual legal,
otherwise till date no such provision of identifying homosexuals in hotels,
lodges , guest houses?, other than the legal homosexuals, if any of the
homosexuals identified staying in the same room can be considered as
prostitution/ adultery and they should be punished as per law.
73)
NEED FOR LEGALISING & REGULATION OF LIVE IN
RELATIONS (COHABITATIONS OF HETEROSEXUALS I.E MAN &
WOMEN LIVING TOGETHER), MANDATORY REGISTRATION OF
LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS EXISTING AS WELL AS ALL FUTURE
AFTER
ENACTMENT
LEGALISATION
COME
INTO
FORCE;
MANDATORY APPROVAL OF PRE LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP
REGISTRATION I.E PLR FROM REGISTRAR OF MARRIAGES FOR
ENTERING LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP; CENTRALISED DATA BANK
HUB OF LIVE IN RELATIONS
Also since there is no law existing as far as Live In Relationships, only
Supreme court has termed it as neither legal or illegal, as there is no law
terming the so called live in relations as illegal, and also Supreme court
stated that if reasonably lone term living will get entitlement of some rights
for the live in relation couple. As such it is high time that government must
formulate a law for legalising live in relationships, as till date there is no
such law/ ways and means to identify, regulating the live in relationships
exists, only on mutual trust, the live in relations are happing, in this live in
relationships, women are more vulnerable for their rights, and they is no
fixed norms for binding/ regulating the live in relationships, also since no
monitoring of live in relationships, many married men are doing live in
relations, leaving misery to the already married wife and children without
divorce, all such cases can be contained if there exists legalisation and
registration of live in relations.
In order to regulate the live in relationship, there should be contract
agreement between one male and female, the terms of contract should be
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more or less same with options to be chosen mutually. The time of validity
of contract should vary based on groups, more particularly the age of the
female. The minimum age for live in relationship for any male or female
should be 21 years completed and should be single, either non married, or
legally divorced and single. The period of contract to live in relationship for
a woman aged 21 years to 30 years should be minimum of 15 years, for a
women aged 30 to 40 years, it should be 25 years, and for a women aged
above 40 it should be till the natural death of the women. Also it should be
mandatory that the age group difference between the man and the women
should not be more than 20 years in all live in relationships. Also in case of
divorced person, he/ she cannot enter a live in relation with a person who is
less than the age of his/her son/daughter.
This age group division for female is to ensure that female get another
partner / marry provided she was in that age group, rather than once the
women is nearing the menopause the man terminates the contract, abruptly
and want to enter another live in relationship or marriage, and the women
nearing the menopause find it difficult to get a live in partner or marriage,
of course in most of the live in relationships in future, both the male and
female are employees or both are earning independently.
Also in live in relations, the women should get 100% compensation from
the male if the either male or female wish to terminate the contract
prematurely for the remaining period of his earnings (salary, income
earned), in addition 50% of the value of the assets earned till that date. In
case during the contract agreement period if the children are born, then
even after the contract is over/ terminated pre maturely, the male has to
provide compensation for the child 25% of his earnings till the child turns
21+ and till the starts earning, in addition 50% of assets to the child what
so ever earned during the contract period. In case the live in relationship
couple wants to abandon the child, they should be free to do so by handing
it over to the government orphanage, by paying 50% of their earnings to
the orphanage every month, till someone adopts the child, this facility
should be only if the child is below 5 years. Also if the child is not adopted
both the live in partners should pay 50% of their earnings till the child
completes education and employed after (21+ age), in addition the man
who fathered the child should provide 50% of the value of the assets to the
child when the child turns 21 years. These measures will certainly give
meaningful life for both women in the live in relationship as well the child of
the live in relation couple.
Also there should be a centralised data base of all live in relationship
couples in the country; For this those couple who are already in live in
relation should get register with the government (else they should be
treated as adultery/ prostitution.), also those who wish to live together must
go for it should be mandatory that the all live in relationship should
registered with marriage registrar in the standard format more or less
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similar to that of PMR. Only after getting PLR i.e Pre Live In Relation
approval, they can go for live in relation contract agreement. This measure
is necessary in order to protect the interest of the women as there is every
chance that the male partner may live with many women cheating them
with pretention that he is only in relationship with that one individual only,
Also this measure is necessary to protect thee married women from barring
her husband to to enter live in relations / bigamy; also this measure is
necessary to reduce the risk of spreading the Sexual transmitted diseases,
apart from reducing the mental agony for the women after break up?, this
measure is certainly not in any way curtailing/infringing in the freedom of
the individuals life, any legal adult have the liberty to live with any
individual if mutually agreed to live together, but there also honesty/ trust
worthiness should prevail? If the individuals do not have the courage to
reveal their details then there must be something fishy?, so if any couple
found without registering in the marriage registrars central data base, found
together living in a hotel/ room/ house, etc or in compromising position
anywhere, then the prostitution act should be applied for both the
individuals and the law should take its course.
74)
MANDATORY OPERATION OF JOINT BANK ACCOUNTS BY
LIVE IN COUPLE;
MANDATORY PURCHASE OF ANY ASSETS
WHETHER MOVABLE OR IMMOVABLE ACQUIRED IN LIVE IN
RELATIONSHIPS IN JOINT NAME
Also it should be made mandatory hence forth that all persons in live
relationship couple should open joint bank account and the individual
earnings should automatically transferred to that joint account, each person
should hold debit card with 50% limit of expenditure. Also in live in
relationships, the properties should be in joint name only, no properties
earned in any individuals partners name, the property rights should be with
the women only if the contract is terminated pre maturely on account of
domestic violence (the contracts termination in live in relation should be
only limited reasons like domestic violence, having extra sexual relation with
any other person other than the person in the contract agreement). In case
the properties are purchased on EMI, in case the women wish to terminate
or they decided to not to extend the contract period is over, the joint
properties should be sold and shared equally, or either of the partner can
pay their 50% share and own it, in case of properties both movable/
immovable or in case of properties taken on EMI get auction the properties
and repay the loans and take the remaining properties or in case of pre
mature termination on account of domestic violence she should get full
rights over the property. This measure not only ensures equal treatment
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75)
ENACTMENT/ AMENDMENT OF SUCCESSION OF PROPERTIES
ACTS, FOR BARRING PERSONS IN LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP, RIGHT
TO CLAIM OVER INHERENT PROPERTIES
Also government should enact/amend succession of properties law
making those who indulge in live in relationship should lose the right to
claim the inherent properties forever unless otherwise parents approve the
so called live in relationships, after all majority of the parents do not like
live in relationships, especially most of the grandparents, then if the
individuals value their personal relation more than their grandparents and
parents and having confidence in them they can do live in relationship
happily together, then why should they need their ancestors properties? In
case parents approve within 7 days of the registration of live in
relationship in a written affidavit to registrar or marriages, such approval
should be exhibited in the web that these live in couple has blessings of
parents, else by default that exhibit that these couple do not have approval
of their parents. All parents, approved live in relations should be treated as
normal married couple, and they have same rights what normal married
couple have as far as inherent properties are concerned.
This measure is necessary to reduce so called fruit of adultery even
though terming the live in relationships child, is very sick minded and
undignified/ humiliating, for the reason that child did not committed mistake
by getting born to the couple?, but the society will look at them in the same
manner in their inner conscious, otherwise if not call them openly? As there
is no guarantee that the father will live life long with the mother? As such in
live in relations the persons on both sides should give declaration that they
lose the rights over their properties/ assets of their parents and ancestral
properties, it should be mandatory that if any of the partner whether male
or female once enters the live in relationship they should permanently lose
the right to inherent properties by default, in case of a divorced women
gets properties from the divorce, she can retain that properties, if the
properties are distributed before she entered live in relation, however once
she enters the live in relationship, the monthly compensation supposed to
be received as a result of court decrees on account of divorce should be
nullified, even if she had a child from the previous marriage the
responsibility of the child should be solely on the both live in relationship
partners and certainly not on the ex husband, even after the expiry of the
live in relation contract agreement, and they marry each other or marry any
other person (law should be amended in this regard,) they cannot claim
right over inherent properties unless the parents approve such marriages. In
no case the children of the live in relationship are eligible to get right over
the inherent properties of the parents, only properties earned by the parents
when their relation started will be taken into account. This measure will
reduce live in relations and also reduce break ups in live in relationships,
also reduces, the fruit of adultery children. The child in the live in relation
should carry the fathers name only who fathered the child irrespective of
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whether the child is getting raised by the mother, or child getting raised at
orphanage, till new parents adopt the child from orphanage, either after
termination of the contract pre maturely or once the validity of contract
agreement is over.
76)
NEED FOR REGULATION OF PLAY SCHOOLS, CREATION OF
PLAY SCHOOLS IN EVERY WARD IN URBAN AREAS AND IN EVERY
VILLAGE, STANDARD DESIGN FOR PLAY SCHOOLS AND
MANDATORY CC CAMERAS AND LIVE FEED ON THE MOBILE PHONE
Since lot of youngsters going to marry every year, the birth rate also
increases simultaneously, so the demand for crches / play schools also
increase, so government must formulate uniform norms for establishment of
play schools, at least from now onwards there should not be discrimination
of children based on their income group, social equality should be the basic
foundation of these crches/ play schools, also it should be made mandatory
that irrespective of the income status of the family i.e BPL family or ULTRA
RICH, all children by the age of three they should be in the play schools, and
every play school should have same facilities, and without going for
playschool, admission in regular school should be denied, and there should
be proportionate reservation as per the percentage of population of income
group, religions, caste and gender in every play school, and also in every
school. Also all play schools should have school bus facility and all the
children should be picked up by from the nearest point to their home,
whether the child is a son/daughter of a billionaire or a BPL family; this
measure will be the seed for social equality; Also all play schools should be
web connected and fully under surveillance from entry to exit, even in the
school bus also CC Cameras should be installed, feed can be viewed by
parents or authorised persons in their mobile/in their phone pads or laptops.
77)
MANDATORY PRE SCHOOL HENCE FORTH TO EMPLOYMENT
ONLY
TRAINED
TEACHERS,
ECO
FRIENDLY
PLASTIC,
ENVIRONMENTAL DEGRADABLE MATERIAL FOR PRE SCHOOL
LEARNING MATERIAL, ALL CHILD PLAY EQUIPMENT SHOULD
UNDER GO STRINGENT QUALITY CONTROL FOR HARMFUL
CHEMICAL PLASTICS, FUR ETC, COMPLETE BAN ON IMPORT, SALE
OF CHILD PLAYING KITS FROM OTHER COUNTRIES AND
INDIGENOUS MANUFACTURING WITH LOCALLY AVAILABLE
MATERIAL. REWARDS FOR INNOVATION FOR COST EFFECTIVE
LEARNING, EQUIPMENT
Also since youth population is more than 50% below 25 years, and most
of them are employees, so there would be a great demand for pre schools,
also it is very ideal that in order to make the gene next children are become
more active, more analytical thing, they need to be educated from the very
child hood in the pre schools/ early learning centres, for children above 2
years, and till 4 years they should be in play school. This measure not only
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makes the child more learning orients, but also creates substantial
employment, if there exits at least 10 play schools in each mandal with 100
children in each play school, maximum, then there could be at least 5 jobs
in each play school, which means 50 jobs in each mandal, then in 7,000 odd
mandals in India creates more than THREE LACK FIFTY THOUSAND, 3,
50,000 jobs, on a minimum estimate.
Also there will be huge demand for play school learning material, which
otherwise mostly imported, for the reason that china goods are cheap?, but
these play school toys/ learning material has no standards, it is fully toxic
plastic, by bighting with the teeth by the children could lead to serious
threat to the health, which were otherwise banned in developed countries?
So Government of India put stringent quality checks, make sure that all
preschool learning material/ toys should be of food grade plastic, or eco
friendly, bio degradable materials which otherwise has no harm to the
children health. Also government must ban import of play school learning
material/ children toys, provide incentives for the indigenous manufacturing.
Also government must provide rewards for innovative learning process/
material created from locally available material by any individuals in INDIA.
These measures are needed to make INDIA future ready.
78)

BABY SITTING TRAINING COURSE WITH CERTIFICATION

Since lot of young couple both are employed, then to look after child in
the event of a nucleus family, trained baby sitters are needed. As such
government must make standard Training procedure for baby sittings and
provide training for babysitting also it should be made mandatory that only
trained baby sitters with certificate from government should be employed
hence forth by any couple who wish to employ baby sitters at home. Before
employment they should inform the government prior to employment for
ensuring verification for no criminal records when employed, so that
periodically checking for criminal cases, Also government must maintain a
centralised data bank of all trained baby sitters, also it should be mandatory
those who employ baby sitters should install cc cameras inside the house in
all areas where baby, baby sitter moves, with live web casting, so that the
video should be seen on the Also the baby sitting should be exclusively
reserved for girls above 18 years. This measure will certainly provide lot of
employment for female youth of the country.
79)
MANDATORY MAINTENANCE OF CRCHES IN ALL OFFICE
ESTABLISHMENTS WITH UNIFORM FACILITIES IN ALL CRCHES,
ALL THE CHILDREN OF ALL EMPLOYEES OF NEW MOTHERS
IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR DESIGNATION WHETHER THEY ARE CEO
OR PEON CAN USE THIS FACILITY
Also since young working population is raising and India having largest
young working population, since many newly married due to Employment
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has to stay away from the parents and both wife and husband are
employed, also in case of two young couples for parents can stay only at
only at one couple, so all these issues lead to forced nucleus families in
some newly web couple, in case child is born, when both are employees, it
is not possible for them to take break more than, few months, also all the
young families cannot afford to keep the baby sitters at home to take care
of the baby from feeding to cleaning, to making them play, sleep etc etc. It
is necessary to have crches in the work place. So government must make
it mandatory to have crches with same set of facilities should be available
in all offices. The space for crche should be fixed and uniform for all office
establishments based on the number of female employees below 30 years of
age. In case of space constraint, in the offices/ shopping complexes, few
office establishments/ business establishments should take space on hire or
own it run the crches; all the crches should have trained baby sitter to
attend the babies, the number of baby sitters should be at least one baby
sitter for 5 children. Even they can keep the baby sitters on contract
employment from among the government trained and certified baby sitters.
This measure will not only ensure the baby is healthy, but also the
productivity from the female employees increase, thus over all productivity
will increase.
Also it should be made mandatory that even private employers should
grant at least 3 months leave before the delivery of child i.e from 7 month
onwards and 9 months after the delivery the leave with pay for the
employee if the female employee is carrying, and government should
provide 50% amount as tax rebate from the government. Also all the
private employers in the individual business, Shopping complexes should
maintain a joint crches within 500 meters from the work place jointly by
the traders associations. this measure will certainly prove humanity, but
also will be useful not only increase in the productivity but also the future
generations are perfectly healthy, strong, as it is fact that for healthy child
mothers milk, nourishment is necessary up to 6 months at least, in addition
mothers affection cannot be replaced by any amount of care taken by any
others including the own blood related grand parents?
Also government must make it mandatory that in case a MNREGA female
employee is carrying, she should be stopped from attending the work, she
should be given 50% of the amount of the total remaining days in equal
monthly payment in her bank account, also soon after delivery of the child,
government must provide the basic infant care kits, and 100% payment for
next 9 months, by equating payment per month is total days equated for
twelve months; this measure will ensure at least healthy child and healthy
mother in the BPL families, alternatively, government must provide
provision card for the BPL pregnant mother and she should get the nutrient
products from the nearby government PHC , which can be collected by their
husband or any authorised person or can collect in person when they come
for monthly check up to the PHC, the value of the products should be equal
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to the amount due to her on account of pay for her of remaining days, the
products include nutrient supplements for health of the pregnant women,
infant care products etc etc; there should be some checks and balances for
ensuring standard, quality products are issued by the PHC, for this there
should be centralised procurement by the government health departments
all products should be certified by the FDA and Doctors association, and also
the products specifications and uses, directions of use should be printed on
paper in the local language or sms to the mobile number of the pregnant
women or husband in the local language. Also since if making it mandatory
for all pregnant women to register with government, all employees should
get employee unique id also all the MNREGA card holders have a specific
number, it should be made mandatory that while registering the pregnancy
confirmation, the details of employment, source of income for the family etc
should be recorded. This measure proper positive pressure is enforced on
the employers to take care of the pregnant employee.
Also it should be made mandatory that even in private employment no
employee should be removed without any valid reason, the list of valid
reasons should be prepared by the government which should be followed by
all employers including employing domestic help. Also in case the female
employee in a private organisation is employee once she was granted leave,
the employer may keep a temporary replacement by contract employment
by hiring from the un employed with same skills, but once the pregnant
women delivers the child and returns to job after 9 months of delivery the
employer should reinstate her in the job, in case the employer cannot
reinstate he should pay a penalty of one year salary of the female employee
additionally and can terminate her service, this measure will ensure job
security for female employees working private sector, which relives lot of
stress in minds of female employees working in small & medium enterprises.
80)
CREATION OF MARRIAGE VENUE COMPLEXES/HUBS IN
EVERY VILLAGE/ MANDAL/ BLOCK IN ACCORDING TO THE
POPULATION AGED BETWEEN 15 TO 25 POPULATION OF
UNMARRIED YOUTH; VARIOUS OTHER MEASURES LIKE BUILDING
NEAR
METROS,
RESTRICTING
NUMBER
OF
INVITEES,
RESTRICTING SO CALLED BARAT IN CITIES, BAN ON USE OF
PLASTIC GIFT WARPS, ETC TO MAKE MARRIES FUNCTIONS
GRACIOUS, NOT CREATING INDIRECT/ DIRECT TROUBLE FOR
OTHERS
Since India has a large youth population in the world and many millions
are going to marry every year, it is need of the hour for government to built
adequate space either multi storied buildings with vertical parking or just
marriage halls in horizontals, in all the cities, in the first phase and the tire
two cities and small towns in the second and third phase.

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All the marriage complexes should be built in city outskirts (in future
these outskirts may become heat of the new cities?) with provision for at
least 500 marriages in each of the complex with adequate space, with
different sizes of spaces for different economic groups in the same marriage
complex/hub and government must make a carrier for marriage related
services in these government complexes made either by government or in
PPP mode, by government providing land. These marriage function
complexes should be attached with service providers for marriage occasions
like decorators, caterers, either from private or government etc etc The
management should be government in all PPP marriage complexes/ hubs,
the private party only builds as per the design given by government. This
measure will not only make people relived of burden of expensive marriage
halls, but also generate lot of employment for youth, saves lot of traffic
congestion in cities, lot of carbon emissions can be reduced on marriage
function days, due to reduced traffic congestions and pollution in the city on
account of motored vehicles.
Also there should be different marriage function complexes for different
religions to perform marriages as per their religious customs and traditions
n the religion as per their religious norms and customs.
Also it should be made mandatory that the number of invites should be
restricted to the space available for the marriage function hall and the
parking space and the budget of expenditure of the marriage performer, and
a formula should be worked out for number of invitees, however it should
not exceed the average as per the space availability in the function hall. This
measure will not only reduce the burden on the marriage performer but also
reduces the traffic and pollution to a great extent. Also ideal to make it
mandatory in all marriage functions hence forth entry by invitation, for this
all marriage cards should have chips installed to identify the invitee or sms
code to show in the mobile to get entry. This measure not only ensures only
known people can attended the function, who all are attended., but also
saves money to some extent that strangers not joining the function.
Also the marriage function complexes should have service apartment
complexes in it for stay of the relatives who otherwise comes from faraway
places/ in case bride or groom from out station they can stay in that place,
it should be very affordable and also it reduces the travel of some of the
people and it also reduces the traffic and pollution.
Also it is ideal that marriage function hall complexes in cities should be
adjacent to metros, near to bus complexes, so that most of the invitees are
travelling in the same direction they can use the metro service if metro is
available, else government must provide exclusive bus services to the
marriage function complexes during the marriage seasons so that most of
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to their home. Also government must build multi storied parking complexes
in cities. also in the marriage function halls.
Also there should be solar energy/ alternative energy use of at least 10%
of the marriage function hall energy use and during the ideal time they can
sell the power to the grid through net metering; Also the waste disposal
mechanisms should be in place to adequately convert the waste to either
compost or goober gas for use in the cooking, this measure will certainly be
greener. Also it should be made mandatory that all marriage function halls
should be green buildings. Also all marriage function complexes should have
adequate green cover in the form of need trees etc with medicinal values,
which will not only give coolness& oxygen but also have medicinal values
Also making it mandatory that in all marriages only recyclable non
plastic, paper made disposables should be used as a fixed norm in the
marriage functions, this measure will save lot of water for cleaning the
plates etc; Also there should be incentives for using paper less invitation
cards like just sending an e mail or on social media platform for the invitees
or an SMS for reducing the use of paper, also the paper invitation should be
taxed heavily to discourage the use. Also complete ban of use of polythene
bags for giving gifts, wrapping gifts etc, also ban completely use of plastic/
polythene bags in the readymade garments/ textile stores only paper bags
should be used.
Also government must make it mandatory that no marriage function halls
should be in the heart of city or where the traffic density is more, this
measure is necessary in order to prevent traffic hurdles and just because of
few minutes of traffic congestion at one place will lead to hours of traffic
congestion in some cities, in addition, few minutes of traffic congestion at
once place in heavy traffic density places will release millions of tomes of
carbon monoxide.
Also in case of marriages in the place of worship like temple, church, etc,
the number of invites should be restricted to very minimal, if they are
situated in city and has limited or no parking place, as already these worship
places
are crowdie with regular visitors in addition if such functions
happen., then there will be total kesos?
Also making it mandatory for change of customs in marriages of going
under procession i.e barat, which will certainly causing traffic disorder/
congestion as a result lot of pollution of both sound and carbon emission
happing from the stranded vehicles in the traffic, since cities are being
overcrowded and lot of migration happing to cities, and more and more
marriages are going to happen in so called auspicious days, if this measure
is not in place, then there will be complete traffic chaos during the marriage
season. So this measure of so called barat in the cities should be banned,
they may just do the so called barat once they arrive near the marriage
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function complex built in the outskirts or to limited extent within the

compound in the function halls in the city centre if there exists such
provision within the compound wall of the marriage function hall, in case
they wish to do barat in the roads, then they have to pay heavy price of Rs
one lack per person in the barat and per every meter one lack rupees, i.e for
100 meters it should be one crore rupees. (this appears strange, but the
amount of carbon foot prints that emitted due to traffic congestions will be
the same?) This measure will certainly discourage many doing barat in the
city traffic. The barat can be made to continue only in the villages, in small
towns, if the roads are not obstructing the highways etc based on the
permissions given by the police keeping the traffic density and connectivity/
approach to the high way.
These measures will certainly yield the desired results as most of these
are need of the hour and government must act upon immediately for better
handling of future demand.
81)
CREATION OF CARRIER COURSES/ SKILL DEVELOPMENT FOR
MARRIAGE RELATED SERVICES AND ALSO FOR CREATION OF
FINANCIAL
COUNSELLING,
HEALTH
CARE
COUNSELLING
PROFESSIONALS TO MAKE THEM AS FULL TIME CARRIER
COURSES.
Since India is having large youth population, creation of employment in
every sector is necessary, it is fact that till date no professional courses
related to marriage services are in existence, (of course lot of match making
professional services are available in private sector, but most of them are
just like that getting jobs from general education), these marriage match
making service providers job ends with match making. Also there are no
organised marriage service providers, also since the marriage is a lifelong
process, between two people, So from home making to health care to
finance to child care etc etc needs professionals advice, as everyone cannot
be expert.
Due to rapid urbanisation and development activities in the country there
are rise in the percentage of middle class and neo middle class people, it is
a fact that middle class is the most financially stresses section in the
country, even though they earn considerable income through employment,
but due to lack of proper financial management, personalised financial
counselling, they are suffocated with their income, expenditure gap, not able
to lead healthy & happy life, they try to buy everything in EMI, try to buy
home, all at the cost of reducing the expenditure on nutritious food,
neglects regular health checkups etc all this leading to lifelong stressful
living,? Harmony in the married life of a middle class couple is only for
appearance for outsiders, but within their home every day they worry
internally almost every day/ night. Similarly the poor do not have any kind
of planning to come out of their poorness due to lack of proper advises,
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even though at least their children can become more educated and come
out of their poorness, but there are no advisors to advise personally;
In this circumstances, it is ideal that government must introduce short
term carrier courses for financial councillors to understand each income
group and advise individually how to spend the money within their source of
income, how to save for future, etc. Also similarly a specialised marriage
health councillors to advise the women on health care of family, child and
issues related to marriage life health disorders, how to eat nutritious food
within their available resources, the checkups needed, etc (these specialised
health councillors are only advisors like ASHAS and not doctors), similarly
for regular employment opportunities since millions of youth are going to
marry there is need for marriage planners, who can plan the marriage for
filing of the PMR documentation, to till the marriage is performed they
should take care for a pay (even though marriage planners are available at
present, these are more used by urban elite and not for middle class or BPL
families). So by this measure not only employment is generated but also lot
of good happens to the country. As most of the marriages are done without
any worry, within the available limited resources in a professional manner,
also the health of the family can be taken care, also the finances by the
family better used for present and future needs due to professional advise
based on professional knowledge, all leading to happy living of married
couple, all leading to healthy and prosperous nation.
82)
ENACTING LAW MAKING IT A CRIME FOR SENDING SO
CALLED LOVE LETTERS/ SMS/ E MAILS/ ORAL PROPOSALS FOR
ALL BELOW 21 YEARS OF AGE, ESPECIALLY STUDENTS BELOW
DEGREE, ALSO 21 YEARS ABOVE WHO ARE DOING JOB CAN SEND
SUCH LETTERS BUT NOT MORE THAN TWO TIMES ANY ONE CAN
SEND SUCH PROPOSAL EITHER BY MALE/FEMALE, IF THERE IS
NO RESPONSE WITHIN 90 DAYS FROM OTHER SIDE IT SHOULD BE
CONSIDERED AS REJECTION, AND EITHER MALE OR FEMALE
SHOULD NOT PURSUE FURTHER, OTHER WISE CONSIDER AS
HOUNDING, INTIMIDATION AND FORCING SOME ONE TO GET
INFLUENCED DUE TO UNDUE PRESSURE AND THEY SHOULD BE
IMPRISONED FOR COERCION TO ACCEPT THEIR PROPOSAL.
Since it is a fact that INDIA is having largest young population and will
remain as young country for several decades to come, and it is fact that
most of the youngsters are influenced by so called MOVIES in all regional
languages and HINDI primarily depicting love is the only theme and male
should go after female for getting her in his line by one way or other, even
very heinously just to earn some money by creating curiosity among the
youth, that the so called film makers are even making movies by showing
that even 10 th class students eloping and getting marries, and even 10 th
class students sensing love letters to the teachers, shame, how come that
till date the so called sensor board allowed this to air, what is the morale
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massage they are going to send it to the young budding minds,? Is it

entertainment? Shame, and utter derogatory, utter hypocrisy if one say it is
entertainment? Do the people of the country, not aware that media/ movies
are the influential mediums on the young minds?, how come the move
veterans accept this kind of highly deplorable nonsense, can any person
with wisdom justify this heinous act of corrupting the young minds and
making them to repeat the act, how do one expect that young budding
minds have any discrimination of reality and real life?, because of the
external influence, many unemployed youth getting into so called love,
wasting the time, rather than develop some skill, try to earn some
employment, income ? also even as low as 10 years old school children are
writing love letters, leave alone the collage going children, who are just
becoming mature / becoming adolescence due to changes in the body
metabolism/ anatomy, if the students fall in so called love trap how do one
expect quality education? How do one expect that without quality of
education, the innovations happen, the good work force evolve out of our
young manpower of the country?
Do so called love is required when a
boy/girl is a student, below degree and below 21 years of age?, do the un
employed need to concentrate on skill development and search for some
employment as his primary object of life or so called love? Do any meaning
for making movies with love subjects in schools and degree collages? Do
love means to generate artificially the interest in the other person by
constantly making them to think about the person? Is it called true love?
Certainly it is really not true love if any single person interested in other
opposite sex and by trying all means to please the other opposite sex
person in love to make them accept his/ her love is ridiculous, even censor
board should do pruning of such love films,, it is nothing but indirectly
hounding the other person to accept his/her love? ; If love is real that will
spontaneously attract each other and there is no need for any type of
bribing/ corruption to please/ plead for love? it is otherwise ridiculous, as it
is nothing but artificial creation of love, it is more or less live doing cloud
seeding for getting artificial rain i.e spraying silver iodide chemical on the
clouds to make them precipitate and rain, such rain is not perennial? And it
is has a cost too?, such love will not sustain for long?.
Also it is a fact most of the love marriages are either for money or just
for so called beauty i.e attraction, as it is fact what is beauty will never be
long lasting, it will fade away with age, as age increases, the beauty
decrease, also it is fact that what is beauty today many not be beauty
tomorrow if someone looks more beauty than than already existing there is
no guarantee they will be loyal life long without regretting? It is a fact that if
it is written on the fate that one should become couple, they will for sure? If
anything done artificially, it will not sustain long? Its very true, if caves are
formed naturally, they will lost long, all man created structures has short
life? As such it is fact that even in So called love marriages, if they are true
love , in a natural way, they will last forever, if they are artificial they fade
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away slowly, as such even in love marriages lot of domestic violence is

happing, even getting divorces if the love is not natural, but artificial?; also
there is no guarantee that in the love marriage, the person had earlier had
affairs, loved others, and once they came to know after marriage, the case
is same, the relationship and harmony is in stress and affected??
Sad that no laws till date to prevent such kind of waste of time, talent
tarnishing concept of so called love; yes no one can say that love is trash
etc etc, it is a fact that true love do not deserve to follow up, do not require
by impressing them by buying expensive gifts or fighting with some anti
socials to gain attention to become so called hero? etc. If there is true love
it is called love at first sight (not attraction of physical beauty, if such love
happens between two persons, the nature/cosmic forces unite them for
sure). So It is ultra high time that there should be measures to regulate the
so called love for below 21 years aged, also for un employed.
1) No students below degree should either write love letters/ e mails/ text
messages/ oral expression, if they indulge in any such activity in the
name of the love, they should be suspended from school as first warning,
second warning they should be demoted/ suspended for one year/
detained in the same class, if still such student involves then he/she
should be debarred from school/ collage and such persons should be kept
in the web, they should be barred from getting education / employment,
also it should be crime to employ such perverted minded people.
2) Also all youth should mandatorily get registered in the employment
exchange with their skills, only those registered in the employment
exchange should be employed by any employer whether it is a MNC or a
mom& pop store ; if any unemployed youth indulges in the so called love
and a case is registered against him/ her that the unemployed youth is
sending love letters/ sms/ e mail/ social media/ orally, and on proven
charges he should be de listed from employable youth list in the
employment exchange (with centralised data base of all states), this
measure will automatically disqualify this person from getting
employment lifelong in any part of the country. In addition there should
be complete watch on such de listed persons with radio callers and
putting this person under surveillance for ensuring this person will not
indulge any criminal activity
3) Any un married person earning on his/her own, can expresses love
proposal / writes love letters / e mail/ through social media / text / mms
/ orally etc, but not vulgar in nature, not threatening in nature, no
intimidation in it, for a maximum of two times by any mode of
communication to only one person in life time (as true love is not by trail
and error). If there is no response within 90 days of the proposal that
he/she should stop sensing such proposal, in case found sending such
proposals repeatedly, he/ she should be booked for eve teasing and
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punished as per law, in addition he/she should lose the employment form
that employer (he/she after serving the punishment for eve teasing may
apply for revival of his/her unemployment registration for getting
employment in future) in case of self employment, his licences should be
cancelled, and all those who got sentenced on account of eve teasing
should be kept under surveillance by police doing ethical hacking of his/
her mobile, e mail, social media contacts, even after that he/she is
repeating to send proposals to the same person who rejected / trying to
influence through friends and relatives of that person, they should be
booked for criminal intimidation to get the girl/ boy into their fold, and
they should be imprisoned for life. in case of rejection by the girl/ boy,
the person who send proposal barred from trying other persons other
than the rejected person,, however he can enter live in relation, or
marriage, however the details of branding once up on a time this person
was a eve teaser will remain in the centralised open data bank of eve
teasers in the website of list of eve teasers in INDIA.
4) If a married person sends a love proposal for an un married person,/
another married person, if he/she is an employee he/she should be
dismissed from employment, in case he/she is a MNREGA employee, the
card should be cancelled for ever., and sent to imprisonment for life.
5) All the youth who are unemployed should get nominal un employment
allowance that should be sufficient for meals for that person, to skill
development, not for so called love?, it is a fact that most of the cases of
love it is just a physical attraction, even one can see that most of the
movies the boy / girl loves the person because the girl is pretty/ beautiful
as per his description, and as per girls description the boy is handsome/
macho.; any youth debarred from holding employment on account of
love, can do only cultivation for earning his bread.
6) Also the parents should be made responsible in case of students for not
monitoring the child, allowing the child to indulge in time wasting tactics,
and the parents should pay heavy penalty of Rs one lack or 10% of their
annual earnings whichever is higher in case any child found / indulged in
so called love; this measure will certainly ensure that they take care of
their kids even though both parents are employed.
7) Also incentives for informers, coming with proof that so and so is
intimately moving in the name of love, if they got caught red handed the
informer should get reward, details of the informer are kept confidential.
The above measure will certainly make sure that the youth will not waste
their precious time & energy in the name of love when they are learning/
studying, also these energies can be used for better productivity of nation.

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83)
MAKING PRE MARTIAL SEX A SERIOUS CRIME, SEX SHOULD
NOT BE GRAVE CRIMINAL OFFENCE IF DONE BELOW 21 YEARS OF
AGE. LIFE IMPRISONMENT FOR BOTH MALE AND FEMALE FOR
INDULGING IN SEX BELOW 21 YEARS OF AGE, IN ADDITION
PHYSICAL CASTRATION FOR MALE
Since India having young population below 21 years, it is on the rise year
after year, and this the age that children should concentrate on education,
focus on skill development and earn livelihood, but strangely some of the
children are becoming perverted due to non monitoring of parents, free
access to internet & pornography. It is a shocking fact for many parents
may not aware that, school children aged above 11 years are entering into
sex, even more shockingly some having multiple partners as per survey
reports few years back. If the trend goes on without any measures to
contain these heinous acts, then what the advantages of India having if the
talented young will turn to sex maniac persons, and the dream of
government to utilise the demographic dividends will be a trash. If the
budding young minds at learning age indulges in wasting their energies for
sex, then how come they excel in studies, how come new innovations will
occur, how come they lean to update their knowledge to sync with latest
technological developments,? if youngster started sex below 21 years, how
do expect that this youngster not turn as criminal in case the person whom
he/she likes did not obelise for sex in future? So there is an urgent need to
contain such worst acts of such perverted children who are below legal
marriage age and before marriage indulging in sex.
As such government must enact law for making pre martial sex below
the age of 21 as criminal offence. Also no minors should be eligible to either
have sex or indulge in sexual activities or misused for sexual activities. Only
when the male or female is not dependent on the earnings of their parents,
they may indulge in pre martial sex, either by way of legalised live in
relation, or in case prostitution is legalised then may visit prostitution. In no
other way a male and female under 21 years of age, or who depended on
their parents, guardians for livelihood should be eligible for pre martial sex.
It should be made that if any child found indulging in such acts, both the
male and female should be debarred from education, name and shame, for
some time, then life imprisonment with physical castration should be made
for the male and life imprisonment for the female should be done. This is in
addition to punishment for both parents of the male and female. This
measure will certainly make parents alert towards their Childs behaviour and
constantly observe their activities and also infuse good values and morals in
their children. this is in no way curtailing the freedom of the child, but only
to make sure the child wont become perverted. The SEX acts may be in any
form whether straight, gay/ lesbian, any kind of act should be punishable.
The fear for punishment will certainly make the child to behave properly.
This measure will certainly make the INDIA most talented country, as youth
of the country will concentrate their energies on education/ innovation
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rather than dreaming of sex. The more talent youth, more productivity,
means more development, means better living conditions of people.
84)
COMPLETE BAN PORNOGRAPHY, SURFING PORNOGRAPHY IS
CRIME; ETHICAL HACKING FOR MONITORING CHILD BEHAVIOUR
TO KNOW THEIR WEB BROWSING CONTENT, SOCIAL MEDIA
VISITS, MOBILE INTERNET PERIODICALLY AND REPORTING TO
THE PARENTS FOR ENSURING ADHERING TO MORAL BEHAVIOUR
BY THE CHILDREN; ISSUE OF SMART CARDS FOR STUDENTS,
RECORD ATTENDANCE PERIOD BY PERIOD AND TIME IN AND
TIME OUT OF SCHOOL/ COLLAGE SHOULD BE REPORTED TO
PARENTS. PERIODIC SURPRISE HEALTH CHECK UP FOR STUDENTS
FOR IDENTIFYING HABITS OF SMOKING, CONSUMPTION OF
ALCOHOL, DRUGS ETC, REWARDS FOR FELLOW STUDENTS FOR
REVEALING WITH PROOF, IF ANY FRIEND/FELLOW STUDENTS
INDULGE IN SUCH ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES, PUNISHMENT FOR
FRIENDS WHO WITNESSED SUCH ACTS , NOT REPORTING TO
AUTHORITIES.
It is a fact now days even a three year old child is learning use computer,
and by 6 years the child starts surfing the internet on the systems/ laptops/
mobile. It is very said that government did not ban pornography on the
internet like the other countries did like arab countries, china did. It is sad
that even in social media, the advertisements of pornography are popping
up just like that, some directly, some indirectly, with message of HOT
GIRLS/ HOT CHAT of similar meaning etc, completely distracting the young
minds? The intention of the advertisers may not be to attract children, but
by default children are watching these advertisements. Soon they click these
so called HOT GIRLS/ CHAT links it will lead to semi nude, nude/ rising
curiosity pictures and further going leads to complete pornography. Once
child stars watching pornography, he/she cannot be stopped from indulging
in pre matrimonial sex? As such government must ban pornography sites
completely, in addition it should be a crime to watch pornography either on
internet or recorded or by video, or recording even personal pornography by
even legal married couple or live in relations couple; by accident if anybody
presses any link, if pornography come, then the moral should prevail in
them to shut that site and do his/her work. Otherwise, the IP addresses in
the ethical hacking can reveal the time period that site was run? And on
investigation found that anyone watching pornography intentionally he/she
should be punished treating it as crime. This measure is necessary, that
even though government ban most of the sites airing pornography, they will
go in some or other name through proxy servers, so it is a continuous &
constant process for government authorities to monitor the pornography
sites and ban them.
Also it should be very need of the hour that government must start a unit
in the IT ministry for ethical hacking of the data/ mails/ texts, for those
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who wish to get hacking done, other than mandatory hacking of all children
under 21 years of age. This measure is necessary, as most of the children
and budding youngsters has access to internet and mobile phone internet,
and they are surfing the pornographic sites and get excited to replicate the
acts, as such the pre martial sex at very tender age is happening, in very
traditional, otherwise moderately conservative INDIA. The ethical hacking is
a best solution to this issue, even though in case pornography is banned,
such sites pop up on and off, the children who are barred from surfing the
internet for pornography, nudity or any vulgar, obscene material still can
search/ identify those proxy sites and may watch pornography.
In order to track the children, it should be made mandatory that the
parents of the children in schools and collages/ universities up to Degree
should mandatorily submit their mobile phone numbers of both parents and
also mobile phone number of the child if any, in addition the details of
internet connection (broad band or wireless), social media contacts of the
children & parents should be submitted in an affidavit, and also by default
all parents should accept for ethical hacking of their childrens surfing of
internet, SMS, MMS, e mails, chatting, web surfing, etc and a weekly,
monthly report should be sent to the parents both in e mail form and also
via SMS and voice call when the children are in School in a working day. For
this government collect appropriate fees from every parent of the children.
Also it should be made mandatory that all schools/ collages/ universities
must mandatory provide smart cards for children and every school/ collage/
university should have single entry/ single exit pint and entry/ exit from the
school/ collage/ university should be by swiping the smart card, in case the
compound wall provision do not exist then they should have hand held
smart card readers for every class room and every period the smart card
should be swiped. By both children and teachers, all the smart card swiping
should have centralised data at the school and it should be mandatory that
every day attendance as well as time when the child left the school/ college/
university should be sent as an SMS to both the parents for information.
Also it should be mandatory that each children should have medical
check up periodically by the school/ college/ university to check up by the
doctors for not only identifying any illness, but also for identifying whether
the child is indulging in smoking/ alcoholic / drug addicted or addicted to
any wises etc. The details should be sent to parents.
Also it should be ideal to make children/ students behave responsibility,
they can be best monitored by their fellow students/ friends. So the children
should be reward if any of their classmate or any student for that matter
indulged in smoking, consumption of alcohol,(consumption of alcohol below
21 years in most states and in some states below 25 years a crime), or
consumption of drugs or watching pornography or indulging in sex (oral,
intercourse), they should immediately inform the school authorities or if
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they can take a photograph, or video of such (not the sex picture or acts but
remaining all acts can be video graphed or photographed) and sent to a
common social media site of education department. They will forward to the
concerned school/ college for necessary action.
The punishment for smoking should be suspension for that year from
studying, consumption of alcohol / drugs should be debarred from
education. Indulging in sex should go to imprisonment for lifelong along with
physical castration for male. Also the punishment is applicable not only for
those who done such crime, but who are present along with them, as a
spectator watched such crime and not reported. Also the identity of such
students, public should be kept confidential. This measure will certainly
create fear among the budding minds; they will never indulge in smoking,
consumption of alcohol, consumption of drugs, indulging in sex. More over
children will utilise their energies for studies or games. This measure will
lead to over all development of the country
Also it should be ideal that there should be log book maintained by
parents (on the system/computer or on paper) that whenever they surf the
internet they should note the time of surfing, and maintaining the history of
the surfing remain in the computer, and there should be programmes
instated in it that by default that history cannot be deleted. it should not be
able to delete the history.
Also every parent who wish to track their children, who are un married,
other than students, (minor children) they can a nominal fee of 100 rupees
per month, so that once in month the ethical hackers track the internet IP
address of the individual internet connection/ mobile connection with
internet or SMS/MMS and sends the report to the parents via e mail or
mobile sms whether the child surfed the net for sites, alternatively when
ever any pornography sites are surfed, an sms alert should go the parents/
guardians, so that then can catch the child red handed. Also all the parents
must be thought of basic survive lance of the children, how to identify the
perverted behaviour of the children, etc this training should happen in
parents meet once in three months in the schools itself. This measure will
certainly reduce to a great extent happing of children getting perverted /
sex maniac at very tender age also reduce the pre martial sex to a great
extent. Also ethical hacking can be done for identifying the adultery, extra
matrimonial relations, if given in writing for ethical hacking by any one of
the married couple. This ethical hacking also provides millions of jobs for
youngsters in future.

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85)
MANDATORY TEACHING OF RELIGION (THE RESPECTIVE
RELIGION FOLLOWED BY CHILD, STRICTLY NO COMMON
RELIGIOUS
TEACHINGS/
PRACTICES,
RESPECTING
EVERY
RELIGIOUS SENTIMENTS/NORMS) AS CURRICULUM FOR SCHOOL
CHILDREN FOR INFUSING GOOD BEHAVIOUR; NEED FOR
MANDATORY SPIRITUAL EDUCATION/ MEDITATION FOR ALL
SCHOOLS, COLLAGES, OFFICE ESTABLISHMENTS
Also it should be mandatory that from child hood onwards spirituality and
religious faith should be infused in the very tender age from the
kindergarten schools, for this there should be all religious teachers/ faiths
should be recruited in the schools, every child should be thought of his/her
parents religion whether it is Hindu, Muslim, christen, Buddhist, Jain etc and
there should be one complete period of 45 min/ one hour of religious
teachings/ prayers and the teaching the essence of religion, good behaviour,
humanity, compassion and communal harmony should be thought as per the
religion of the child; In addition
yoga & meditation to all children
irrespective of religious faith of the children, and there should not be any
particular religion prayer before starting of the yoga/ meditation. In case the
number of students of any particular religion is very low, for such students
the religious prayers, thought about religion should be through television
screen they can make them understand within the school premises, when
other students are performing their respective religious prayers.
Also there should be curriculum designed by government education
departments in uniform manner for each religion, what to teach, how to
teach/ preach, how to conduct tests to know how far the young students
understood, etc and no religion should criticize other religion directly or
indirectly and no religion can say they are number one (like present day
national media cleaning that they are number one, if any one watches all
channels on any single day, each national channel says that they are
number one???), Also no religion should promote a particular sect, caste in
that religion that they are extra blessed by god and remaining are just born
to listen to them,? Also all religious teachings should be limited only to the
essence of righteousness, not any other thing that promotes violence, and
also must for induce communal harmony, religion of humanity, compassion
in them while teaching religion in schools, collages. Also the religious
teachings should not be superficial, or should not create fear psychosis in
the budding minds, religious teachings should promote only positive
thinking, confidence in self, and never aim at creating fear among young
minds for promoting religion and rituals in the name of the god in order to
benefit few sections of popluation; Also it should be open to all castes, sects
in each religion to become priests if one chose to take up full time priestly
profession, and priestly-ness should not be limited to a particular caste/ sect
in any religion; Also every religion should mandatorily teach social equality,
social justice and supremacy of legitimacy as the ethos of the very religion,
All these curriculums must be prepared after due approval of their
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respective religious organisations individually and mutually for the content,

process in that curriculum. This measure will certainly induce the good
Samaritan behaviour in the child and by and large the child will not indulge
in any wrong acts in his life time.
Only spiritual meditate minds have full control over senses all the time,
and they are alert always, even if they encounter any seans of pornography,
they will not be able to get their mind diverted to the urges of SEX and will
remain under the full control of the brain, as such meditative mind should
be cultivated; in order to cultivate such meditative mind from 5 th standard
onwards the techniques of mediation should be thought in the school as a
part of curriculum and one period daily (at least 15 min), all the children, in
the schools, collages, office establishments should be made mandatory to do
meditation for at least 15 minutes daily.; Also all office establishments must
get make sure they have Audio visuals for infusion of spiritual beliefs of
different religions in different timings every day, in their office premises and
making it mandatory that employees belonging to each religion should
attended to the religious AV preaching mandatorily every day. It should be
for not less than 20 min time. By this measure also productivity will also go
up, also as per work study of ILO if their exits a gap of 10 to 15 min break
between continuous work, the workers fatigue is going to get reduced as a
result the production is going to improve. This measure will not only makes
the children, youngsters, employees irrespective of gender will improve their
consciousness, thus the thought process (which will activate the memory
and the repercussions of any wrong doing etc), it reduces the stress in their
mind, it calm down the nervous system, it will give strength to their
thought, improves courage in them, makes them good human beings,
leading a righteous legitimate relationships, leading to sound mind and
sound body, leading to improved productivity leading to more development
and better live for all sections in the country.
86)

CONCLUSION

It is fact that marriage is the first step of formation of next generation,

and any countries socio- economic development largely depend up on the
success of married life of married couple, as it is a fact that happy marred
life leads to stability of mind, with stability of mind at work place leads to
improved productivity, which will lead to progressive economy, which means
more development activity , which means life of the citizens made more
ease; Also healthy marriage life leads to healthy children, and more care for
the children and their education, all leads to talented , youth more intellect,
which leads to more innovations to make living more simple, easy, effective,
stress free; So happy married life has numerous advantages; Since India
has large young population in the country and also in the World, it is
necessary to streamline the institution of marriage, and marriage life more
meaningful, without any scope for dilution of principles of traditions and
customs of the country; for this there is acute need for bring reforms in
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marriage related laws, that either directly or indirectly useful for

strengthening of the institution of marriage; the suggestions mentioned in
the document like centralised data bank of married couple, along with many
mandatory pre marriage registration unique ID number , granting in
principle approval of the marriage between prospective bride and groom,
with certain mandatory details to make their life more healthier and happier
by making mandatory to get clearance for STD/HIV test, potency test,
revealing of previous affairs etc all to make sure that youth will behave
themselves with honesty and legitimacy till they are married and cross the
age of 21, only concentrate on study and no deviation of energies towards
sexual activity, also banning love letters and banning pre martial sex will
certainly ensure all youth will put their energy in acquiring knowledge,
develop intellect, do innovation, skill development for lively hood, also
divorced couple, provides complete idea of families living in INDIA, where as
the legalising the live in relationship is only to monitor/ regulate the live in
relationship and restrict that live in relationship to be restricted to un
married single persons, thus protecting the married women from
humiliation, for getting her husband entering live in relation, cheating her
married life, also the centralised data hub of divorced couple is to make sure
that it makes many people to go for divorce for getting their married life
public, so they will try to resolve the issues among the spouse, in case of
not able to solve, they can get professional help though 24/7 help line to
share their views to get tips to resolve the issues, also the personal
counselling centres to further resolve the issues, as a last resort they can
approach court, also making court to have fixed number of hearings in
divorce cases, for reducing the metal agony among the divorcing couple,
also making the list of relatives / invitees to the marriage, details of
neighbours to ensure bride and groom are truthful from the very beginning
of their life, by sharing the details declared by the bride and groom,
mandatory expenditure statement by the bride and groom to ensure that no
happing of dowry, also limiting the expenditure in marriages as per income
group is to reduce the burden for millions of parents, and mandatory joint
bank account of un married employed child with parents to make the child
behave more responsibly, similarly thee joint bank account and joint assets
by married couple ensure inclusive decision making and also financial
freedom to wifes, also monitoring of each other expenses is like conducting
audit among each other soon the married couple starts living for healthy
financial discipline among the couple, with mandatory sharing of work load
at home will lead to full-fledged equality among the wife and husband,
mandatory maintenance of health care records of both spouse, children is to
ensure that family is healthy all the times, also mandatory heath care for
parents is to create the responsibility and gratitude towards parents, and
also inculcating social responsibility in public by making public, neighbours ,
relatives and friends responsible in case of any devotions/ wrong done/
doing by any married couple or children to inform to the authorities or face
criminal charges, making them to ensure that will report to the authorities,
all this only to make sure that every individual adhere to legitimate living,
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also government extending concessions for traditional marriages to ensure

traditions and customs of all religions and regions are intact and carried
forward for generations to come, also extending help for marriages to BPL,
the farmers, the priestly artisans, solders, is only to ensure that these
sections carry their hereditary profession in the larger interest of all
sections, also making religious education, spiritual education, meditation
mandatory in schools is to ensure that they grow in the environment of
morals, values, ethics as ethos in the young minds to make them carry
forward our traditions forever, valuing and following of institution of
marriage, which is the foundation of future generations.
The views, suggestions for expressed in Reforms in Marriage related
Laws, need wider discussions and deliberations, before enactment, the spirit
expressed in the document is the need of the hour reforms in the larger
interest of people of the country, especially children, youth, women, men,
and the nation as a whole; the sooner enactment, the better the results;
the views, suggestions of this document are not a misogynist or feminist or
moral policing or hypothetical, but all are realities of life, with aim to
inducement of values, morals and ethical behaviour and responsibility of
every section of the people for upholding the supremacy of legitimacy, for
healthy individuals, healthy family, healthy economy of the nation; if any
sections hurt due the views expressed in the document, I expresses my
sincere regrets, pray almighty to give strength for those who are otherwise
hurt if at all due to the mentions in the document, which are otherwise gross
realities and not intended to degrade any sections of society, the spirit of
the solutions suggested therein on implementation, by and large yield
desired results not only in INDIA but the entire world, it is like a seed
producing forest over a period.
Also it is a fact and true which was depicted in the TIMELESS
LEADERSHIP SUTRAS FROM BHAGAVAD GITA that sight dissects the world
into parts, the insight integrates the parts into whole, insight comes from
the underlying source of thoughts which is consciousness, and
consciousness comes not from neural noise, but from stillness of mind, and
stillness of mind is nothing but mediation, keep on practicing medication
creates accumulation of unknown consciousness, power within, which will
act in the form of insight in fraction of second like a flash light, altering the
individual, whenever required on whatever situation may be, it gives moral
strength to act positive; will power diminishes its intensity when it is
employed to achieve a personal goal, on the contrary, the same will power
is magnified manifold when it is invested in achieving a purpose beyond
ones narrow interest, ; when will of the human (self) unites with the will
of god (larger interest), the result is success.
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Ref: My earlier documents 1) Measures for Safety and Security of girls& women..... 2) Religious
Reforms..... From blog, pradeepkunche.blogspot.in or in Scribd, www.scribd.com/pradeep_kunche

JAI HIND
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