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Discussion Questions
1. List the various reasons why children misbehave and a related solution(s)
Reason for Misbehaviour
Solution to Misbehaviour
Children are unsure of the rules and how to follow Check that the rules are clear, age-appropriate and
them
provide guidance for alternate, acceptable
behaviours
Children can't figure out which actions to
substitute for unacceptable ones
Children have a mistaken perception about how to Recognize and acknowledge the misconceptions
gain status or power (power seeking children,
Help children learn alternate methods for
attention seeking children, and hopeless children) establishing self-worth
There are contradictory rules
Children do not respect rules that they find silly or Explain the reasoning for rules
unnecessary
Involve children in discussions about the
problems that could arise if a rule is not following
and brainstorm possible solutions
Child receives mixed messages about a rule
(Caregiver fails to reward compliance/ignores
noncompliance)
2. Explain the mistaken perceptions that may prompt children's misbehaviour and describe
strategies to alter those perceptions.
Mistaken
Perceptio
n
Description
Disordered Beliefs
Solutions
Power
seekers
Inhibiting Consequences
-follow a rule
infraction
Punishment
4. Positive, natural, logical and unrelated consequences for the following rules
Rule
Positive
Natural
Logical
I like how
carefully you're
throwing the ball
to Mary
Judy practices
throwing the call
ten times to the
teacher
Unrelated
Judy practices
Judy misses the
using her own
next three gym
gym towel by
classes
showing the
teacher she's
brought it with her
Handle the
computer
keyboard gently
Wall on the
sidewalk, not in
the flower bed
You remembered
that the sidewalk
is for people to
walk on
Judy is given
detentions
Tell someone
when you need
help
Teacher
demonstrates
appropriate
methods for
asking for help at
circle time
Call people by
their real names,
don't mock
people's names
You've worked
hard to learn how
to pronounce __'s
name Judy. I bet
he feels good to be
called by the right
name.
Judy makes an
Judy is given a ten
apology card for
minute time-out
_____ (only a
logical
consequence if she
is genuinely
contrite)
5. Discuss the importance of following through on consequences as well as the results of not doing
so.
Children naturally want to test boundaries in order to derive a sense of security about the consistency
and reliability of their caregivers. Caregivers who inconsistently apply consequences make children
feel insecure in their setting. These children are more likely to ignore rules or consistently test and
retest in an attempt to establish wavering boundaries. If rules are applied inconsistently, children are
also less likely to understand the connections between their behaviours and consequences and,
therefore, will be slower to attain higher levels of self-control. Finally, children who experience
inconsistent rule enforcement (or long delays between rule infractions and enforcement) are more
likely to view their caregivers as vengeful.
6. Referring to the NAEYC Code of Ethical Conduct in Appendix A, identify the principles or
ideals that will help you determine an ethical course of action in the following situations:
Summary
NAEYC Principles
7. How would you respond to another helping professional who said: the skill sequence takes
too long. Besides, children can't respond to so much talking. Just tell them what's not allowed and be
done with it.
Skill Sequence personal message
teacher uses proximity (comes close to the child) and using their name, reminds them of
the rule being broken
-pause
teacher uses a pause to see if the child will alter their behaviour
-warning
teacher tells the child what the consequence will be if they fail to alter their behaviour
-pause
child is given the opportunity to digest and comply
-follow-through
teacher immediately follows through on promised consequence
The use of the skill sequence is important for a teacher to be consistent in their dealings of rule
infractions. It provides them with a script to follow in all situations. This is particularly useful when a
teacher is emotionally charged (angry, disappointed) by the situation. The script provides the child
with the information they need (and does not bog them down with unnecessary information).
A child is better able to develop self-management of their behaviour because it treats the child with
respect and he/she is given the opportunity to comply at each stage of the process. It provides clear
differentiation between the behaviour and child. While a child will typically test boundaries when the
sequence is first introduced, they will quickly learn to comply at the earliest stages of the sequence.
Through this process they move from being externally controlled (by the teacher) to being internally
regulating with the assistance of behaviour cues.
9/10. - What is the process of time-outs, when should they be used and when should they not be
used?
A time-out is a short-term removal of a child from a highly charged situation in order to help them calm
down. It should not be used except in when the child is engaged in a temper tantrum or habituation
anti-social behaviours. A time-out should be conducted in a place that is safe, with minimal
distractions and a supervising adult. A time out should never be extended beyond the time that it takes
for a child to calm down. A time-out is not intended to be used as a punishment, but as an opportunity
for a child to disengage from an upsetting situation and recover control over their emotions. In this
way, children who recognize their own emotions spiralling and chose to take a time out ought to be
praised and encouraged for doing so.
Time-out should not be used to humiliate, punish, threaten or as an alternative for instructing
alternatives for problem behaviours. Children who are disturbing or harming others may be expected
to sit apart from her/his peers but this should be considered separate from a time-out. A time-out
should only be used for intense emotional fits.