Love Systems Insider

Date: December 2009

Are You Worried about Your Looks? No Woman Is out of

Your League!

Too Short? Too Old? Too Asian? Scars? Not Good Looking?

Okay, I was kind of joking about the “too Asian” part. There’s a stereotype that Asian guys
don’t get the girl, but if you’ve ever seen Asian Love Systems instructors Mr. M or Bonsai in
action, you know that’s not true.

But, it got us thinking about obstacles and how to get over them...

And here’s why it’s lucky that you are (I assume) a man. There’s not that much an ugly,
overweight, or too old woman can do to attract more than a small number of men. As a man, you
can almost always be attractive to women based on your personality.

You know by now that this doesn’t mean having a “nice” personality. It means being able to
take her on an emotional journey, create humor, imply pre-selection, and take advantage of all of
the other building blocks of attraction I talk about in my book, Magic Bullets.

The great thing about personality is that you can improve it. No woman is ever inherently “out
of your league.”

Oh, sure, she might be out of your league now. If you’re new to Love Systems and meet a
supermodel at a party, you might not hit a home run. This year. But, when you meet her again
next year, watch out.

At the same time, I’m not going to lie to you. OF COURSE looks matter. OF COURSE your age
matters. It all matters.

For instance, if there was a guy who had the same skills as I do but was also good looking... that
would be insane. They’d need to lock him up; he’d be that good.

But so what?
 Most people don’t have every possible advantage for every possible activity. I’m good at
basketball, but I’m kind of slow. With women I don’t have a deep voice or naturally good
looks. The only reason I got so good with women and dating was that I made the right changes
to my personality.

Most women are the same way. They dress to show off their ‘best’ assets and neutralize their
worst.

You can do the same. There are lots of obvious things you can do to neutralize what’s holding
you back, or (usually more accurately) what you THINK is holding you back. For example:

• Too short? Wear shoes that give you extra height. Like an inch or two.
• Stereotype? Look different. Both Mr. M and Bonsai have fashionable outfits and
haircuts that short-circuit the “boring Asian guy” stereotype before she even talks to
them.
• Weight? Dress to avoid, sure, but don’t explain or excuse. If you gained a lot of weight
during a stressful time in your life and you want to work it off, that’s great. You can
mention that in passing (when talking about goals) in the “Comfort phase.” Not before.

If you don’t know what the “Comfort phase” of a pickup is, you need to brush up on basic pick
up technology. Get the free download of the Love Systems Triad model.

And then there are specific routines you can use for different situations – to turn any obstacle
into a strength or to deflect it.

One of my best natural friends (yes, naturals use routines – it’s human nature to repeat what
works instead of reinventing the wheel) is 5’7. He loves tall women and has a great routine – it
works because he is funny, and comedic delivery is huge – on how much tall women love him
because there’s no risk they’d even be looking up at him and see nostril hair.

Physical obstacles go further than that. At the 2008 Love Systems Super Conference (every
October the world’s best pick up artists come to one of the hottest hotels in Las Vegas for a
weekend of fun, information sharing, and training), there was one guy who came in on
crutches. He went home with a beautiful woman the second night – prettier than most guys have
ever dated.

So, it should be no surprise that one of the best pick up artists in the world – Mr. M – admits that
he is: “Asian, short, and not really good-looking.” And yet he picks up Playboy Playmates.
So we got him, along with rising Love Systems star Keychain, to talk about picking up women
and physical obstacles. Keychain isn’t classically good-looking either:

It’s our newest interview and subscribers are already raving about it. Here’s a quote from an
email I just got this morning:

"I never thought I could turn my burn scars into an advantage. I’ve been too shy to even go out
for as long as I can remember. I heard Mr. M and Keychain on the last interview and I decided I
had nothing to lose by trying. Let me tell you, Savoy, I had the sexiest woman eating out of my
hand when I made her work so hard to get me to tell her my story. She spent the night and the
next morning she told me she thought my scars were sexy. I’m still thinking... WTF? But I’ll take
it!"

- J.B., New York, NY

Check it out for yourself – the first ten minutes play automatically.

Take care,

Savoy

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