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Manliness in America
You know their names: John Wayne, James Bond, and The Terminator -
straight-faced fighting machines, answering every opponent with fist, gun or wit. They
can break down any obstacle and overcome any situation, no matter how dire or hopeless.
But what makes these men the heroes they are? The answer is the one trait they have in
common, their manliness. It is engraved both physically and mentally in every swing of
their fist, every escape from the most perfect trap, and every word of seduction out of
their mouths.
humankind still lived in caves. Roya Monajem identifies the beginning of the manly trait
in Masculine Psychology by stating, “in the first natural division of labor among human
beings, males' fundamental duty was to protect and help females in feeding and insuring
the survival of the next generation.”(par. 7) Though that may still be at its core, America
is facing a new age where many believe the trait of manliness is becoming obsolete. The
very definition itself is undergoing change, and many wonder what this is doing to our
specific criteria. The first is “confidence in a situation of risk, one that’s dangerous or one
that’s competitive” (Doolittle, Amy. par 5). Risk can mean a large number of things: a
fight, a race, or any sort of competition. Manly men will seek the challenges of difficult
men such as Martin Luther King and James Bond, as well as to some women, such as
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Margaret Thatcher. Mansfield’s second aspect of manliness is when men “’define turf and
fight for it - sometimes to defend precious liberties, sometimes for no good reason’ and it
is that spirit, the need to stand up for something, which propels people into public
life”(Beckham, David par 5). Mansfield states that men hold the idea of ownership as a
reason for fighting, or even dying. Whether dealing with ideals or something more
physical, the manly men will fight for what is theirs, or what they believe they deserve.
This desire to fight for their beliefs is what inspires men to the roles we often see only as
male, such as diplomats, lawyers, and police officers. As Walter Kirn states in Who’s the
man?, “we've known everything all along about how men are a mixture of pluck and
pride and a certain primordial selfish-unselfishness that would rather die than live unfree,
but which, if permitted to live free, isn't afraid to kill, if necessary -- especially to protect
Yet over the last thirty years, the manliness of our nation has been fading, and the
generation of men raised by women” (Newel, Walter R. par 9). Social engineering has
slowly blurred the line between man and woman gender roles. America, in its quest for
equality, has condemned the act of being manly and has made men apologize for being
men. Even the term “manliness” sounds outdated and cliché to the average person, and is
played a major role in this change. As Joseph R. Phelan states, “Where once the world
viewed the likes of Gary Cooper, Humphrey Bogart and Robert Mitchum as the celluloid
embodiments of an ideal of manhood, their persona have long since faded from the
popular memory” (par 1). He goes on to give examples of their replacements, people like
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“Alan Alda, Dustin Hoffman and Donald Sutherland“, all pacifists and vegetarians,
opposing the courage and risk-taking that define manliness (par 2). The post-Vietnam
political shifts also contributed to this fading of manliness. The empowering of feminists
Because manliness has been fading, there have been obvious changes in our
society. For within manliness lies certain traits that influence human society. Hand in
hand with aggressiveness comes a protectiveness of loved ones. Men chastised for their
pride also have pride for their wives and marriages, and have a tendency to be faithful.
Manliness also enables men to release their inner nature. While manliness has been
oppressed to hold back violence, it seems that “ ‘macho’ violence and stress between men
and women may well have increased. Recent crime statistics suggest as much in the
United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, the countries where the feminist social
experiment is stigmatizing manliness” (Newell par 5). Newell also exemplifies the fact
manliness plays a roll in the obligation that is marriage, “Boomers were told that we
shouldn’t be hung up about providing masculine role models for children and should do
whatever made us happiest, including escape an unsatisfying marriage. After all, to hold
things together for the sake of the children would restrict both men and women to old-
fashioned ‘patriarchal’ responsibilities” (par 6). The lack of male influence has also
enabled other emotions to permeate the times; compassion, empathy and generosity have
come forward, while on the other hand the past has been influenced by men manly traits
of risk-taking and property (Blacker, Terrence par 6). While America wouldn’t have been
formed if not for the manly pride in property, and the forefathers of America never would
have risen against England to fight for what they believed to be theirs if they weren’t full
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of pride, there is a different nation on the North American continent now, and in the
words of Kay S. Hymowitz, “There remains a rift between the mystery of our sexual
natures and the demands of our rational, bourgeois order. That being the case, the