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Early marriage can have both positive and negative effects. While it may help partners clarify life goals and provide moral and social benefits, contradicting life goals can lead to quick relationship breakdowns. Financial problems and lack of maturity can also contribute to high divorce rates among early marriages. However, early marriage may foster responsibility and force prioritization of family needs over work pressures. Marriage at an older age appears to be quite different, with older couples typically reporting greater happiness due to arguing less, taking pleasure in shared activities, and valuing friendship over erotic bonds.
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The Positive and Negative Effects of an Early Marriage vs Marriage in Old Age
Early marriage can have both positive and negative effects. While it may help partners clarify life goals and provide moral and social benefits, contradicting life goals can lead to quick relationship breakdowns. Financial problems and lack of maturity can also contribute to high divorce rates among early marriages. However, early marriage may foster responsibility and force prioritization of family needs over work pressures. Marriage at an older age appears to be quite different, with older couples typically reporting greater happiness due to arguing less, taking pleasure in shared activities, and valuing friendship over erotic bonds.
Early marriage can have both positive and negative effects. While it may help partners clarify life goals and provide moral and social benefits, contradicting life goals can lead to quick relationship breakdowns. Financial problems and lack of maturity can also contribute to high divorce rates among early marriages. However, early marriage may foster responsibility and force prioritization of family needs over work pressures. Marriage at an older age appears to be quite different, with older couples typically reporting greater happiness due to arguing less, taking pleasure in shared activities, and valuing friendship over erotic bonds.
The Positive and Negative Effects of An Early Marriage Vs
Marriage in Old Age
Let's define our terms first: I consider an early marriage one that takes place when both partners are under 30 years old and over 18 years old. And I consider an old marriage one that takes place when both partners are over 30 years old. Let me further describe a successful marriage as one in which each partner feels that the other party helps fulfill their life goals. This is of course a vague description but it describes best what I consider an important ingrediant to a successful marriage: achieving our life goals. Of course this is an arbitrary classification by age and life goals. I will admit that there are many young people in an early marriage, who because of their life experience are engaged in a successful marriage. But in an early marriage, partners very often have not clarified their life goals. There is an advantage and disadvantage to all that. Very often it will be possible to formulate your life goal in an early marriage and have your partner participate in reaching them. This is the positive side. But never forget that in an early marriage, when one partner's life goals contradict those of the partner, the marriage can quickly fall apart. Marriage is a moral safeguard as well as a social building block that covenant between two individuals, man and woman. Through marriage, families are established and the family is considered to be the fundamental unit of our society. Furthermore, marriage is the only valid or lawful way to indulge in intimacy between a man and a woman. Human heart is not a static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings can change with time and love may wither and fade away. The marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. So, happiness in marriage cannot be taken for granted, it must be continuous happiness that will requires constant giving from both sides. Therefore, to protect our heart from doing forbidden things such as fornication, it is better for teenagers especially students to marriage at the early age. People say that a marriage is a complete life of a person. A marriage would be the happiest moment of ones life as after lots of turbulence, both of the couples finally tie knot. Some also say that one plus one is equals to a family. This eventually is true because it will expand the number of family members. From a different point of view, there are positive and negative effects of an early marriage. The high divorce rate is one of the effects. Couples getting married tend to end their relationships earlier. The low
maturity level of a person accounts to the divorce rate. A quarrel between
the couple may end up when one suddenly suggested to divorce. Couples might also have financial problems if they get married early. Children can be a burden to the couple as bringing up a child is costly. Moreover, lack of time management between the husband and wife on who to take care of the kids would result in divorce. Couples who concentrate more on their career tends to neglect children that may result in a broken family. Early marriage also forced a person to be responsible. A person who is fresh graduate and just started their life in the working society is more responsible towards their family once they got married. He/she would also take care of a family more and be more caring towards their family. A family man would eventually have a good time management on the time spent at workplace and at home. They could also manage their work pressure better. For example, they would not bring incomplete work back to home. Couples will also tend to put aside their work pressure in order to give a warm family condition
to
kids.
In conclusion, there are positive and negative effects of an early marriage. It
could bring us happiness and also bitterness to a family. Therefore, it is how we look into the matter of an early marriage. Interestingly, marriage in old age, though understudied, appears to be quite different from the stereotypes noted above and more closely resembles the image conveyed in the Browning quotation that opens this chapter. On average, older couples are happier than younger couples. Even selfdescribed unhappily married older couples state they are happier than they were when they were younger. Older married couples say that they argue less and have fewer marital conflicts than their younger counterparts. Older married couples also take more pleasure in many areas of married life, citing adult children, conversation, and recreational activities as distinct sources of happiness. Old married couples do report that erotic bonds are less central in their lives; friendship instead appears to be the cardinal feature of their lives. Gendered roles subside