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by Paula Davis-Laack, JD, MAPP
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Want to have a lighter, happier year? You'll have to drop some baggage.
Published on January 7, 2015 by Paula Davis-Laack, J.D., M.A.P.P. in Pressure Proof
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Letting go of unwanted things in my life makes me feel lighter, happier and more productive. Here are
15 things to let go of in 2015:
1. Being a selfless giver. You might be wondering: Is it really
possible to give too much? The answer is yes. In his book Give
and Take, Adam Grant discusses the differences between
givers, takers, and "matchers." He has discovered a number of
different sub-sets of givers, two of which are selfless givers
and otherish givers. Selfless givers give their time and energy
without regard to their own needs (hey, its 3 pm and I havent
eaten yet today!). But selfless giving, in the absence of recovery,
becomes overwhelming and can drive burnout. The trick is to
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become more of an otherish giver. They find a way to balance
giving with their own self-interest and self-care.
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(we have similar values and objectives); (2) predictability (I can predict
your behavior); (3) consideration (you will take my needs into consideration
before you act); and (4) forewarning (you will tell me before you act in a
way that is not in my interests). According to researcher Jane Dutton, highquality relationships offer four things: respectful engagement, task
enabling, trust, and play. I have used both of these tests to start weeding
out the low-quality relationships in my life, and I already feel lighter
because of it.
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