A strong mind is a mind that does not suffer from boredom,
frustration, depression, or unhappiness. It has learned to drop
what it doesn't want. Meditation practice has given it the necessary muscles. AYYA KHMA ~ Kamal Sarma If your mind is strong, all difficult things will become easy! if your mind is wea", all easy things will become difficult. ~ Chinese Proverb When mind is Weak, situation is Problem. When mind is balanced, situation is Challenge. But, when mind is Strong, situation becomes Opportunity.
If we can strengthen our mind , we can sole many a so
called problems or tough situations and oercome stress. ! "uestion we all need to contemplate is how to cultiate and deelop a balanced and a strong mind #. in today$s fast moing times ..%editation could be a starting step # To Strengthen Your Mind, Empower Your Body
#atch your thoughts, change your mind. Heard of it$ %ognitive&'ehaviour (herapy )%'(*, the most applied theoretical model in the mental health industry, teaches clients to change by staying alert to negative thought patterns, using focused attention to challenge and combat them. Many clients introduced to %'(, however, are li"ely to receive directions, homewor", wor"sheets and techni+ues that are particularly demanding, both mentally and emotionally. I have personally found, in my own practice, that the nature of the cognitive tas"s involved creates )in addition to homewor" non&compliance and other difficulties* a further draining effect upon already&saturated and emotionally overwhelmed minds. In real life, most emotional reactions ta"e place far too +uic"ly to respond intentionally, even when we are taught or trained to ,brea" it down- and search ahead of time for the trigger. .bservation and intentional control of thoughts can be hard to apply in the practical sense. Automatic thoughts are particularly hard to stop, catch and identify. 'asically, because most emotional outbursts are deeply anchored in a raw body/pain reaction, I believe that real change can only happen on an experiential)physical and emotional* level, not on a mental level. #ith that said, my goal is not to demean the value of %'(! I ac"nowledge and value its true potential in raising awareness of destructive behaviours. .ne can learn a great deal about specific triggers, irrational core beliefs and the vicious cycle involved in dysfunctional behaviours. However, ,cognitive education- does not guarantee effective suppression of unwanted behaviours, and has even less power to change actual core beliefs. I believe there is a more efcient way to raise self-awareness that is less mentally demanding and creates real change. To control and strengthen the mind, one must empower the body. (he focus must shift from the mind to the body. You don-t need to fight, change, or e0amine your mind to improve the +uality of its content! rather, you need to attend to your body, and be present within. If you neglect your body on a daily basis and practice bad life hygiene, you can forget about gaining mental strength, achieving your goals, e0celling, or staying strong. verything will catch up with you eventually. verything. (he boss is not the mind! it is the body, and you need to listen to it. #hen you empower your body by responding to its needs, the bullying mind loses its power, and finally listens to Y.1. #hen you empower your body, Y.1 gain full power and control. How Can I Empower My Body? 2irst, ma"e your body-s well&being your number&one, non&negotiable life priority. 'ecause real mental strength comes from a healthy body, you must empower it with what it needs. 3isten to your body, and give it what it truly re+uires. Here are the basics )too often dismissed, yet absolutely crucial*4 Air. Your body needs air5as in oxygen. 6o you thin" because you breathe daily, that is sufficient$ It isn-t. Most of the time, your natural breaths are shallow and incomplete. (hey o0ygenate only a very small part of your body5not your entire self. (he natural breathing of a typical #esterner is nothing more than puffing air4 ,spitting- air out, and catching the breath right bac". (he o0ygen is not going lower than your upper chest. %orrect breathing involves going through your nose, past your chest and diaphragm, all way down to your stomach )filling it as much as possible* and all the way up through your mouth, evacuating all of the air li"e a self&deflating balloon. Your body desperately needs clean air. Your internal organs do not normally receive the necessary o0ygen to release their ma0imum potential. (hey are 7ust surviving5in agony. 8ic"ness is often )if not always* caused by bloc"ed energy somewhere in your body. 8ooner or later, you-ll pay the price of mental or physical illness from a lac" of proper o0ygenation. You must ta"e regular, deep, controlledand unforced breaths, releasing internal tension, bloc"ed energy, and to0icity. Massage your internal organs with incoming o0ygen, and rela0 them with e0halation. Keep trac" of every stage of your breathing. 0haling eliminates used, dirty air. Inhaling brings in vital life force. You breathe in 3I2, and breathe out 6A(H. Most of the time, you do not fully exhale what is killing you inside, and therefore cannot give yourself what you need to stay alive. In Sanskrit, breath (prna) means life. Without breath, there is NO LIFE; and without conscious breathing, you have no conscious life. 9isualise your inhalations as healing forces, and your e0halations as letting go of what you no longer need or want in your mind and body. (his, in reality, is the biological function of breathing4 inhaling what you need )o0ygen* and e0haling what you don-t )%.:*. You can use your breath for psychological purposes, as well. 'reathe in the strength you need, and breathe out what-s causing tension, grief and fear. Absorb what is necessary! discard what it isn-t. Ma"e it a lifestyle rather than an occasional practice )yoga class, for e0ample*. 2rom personal e0perience and my yoga studies, I urge you to do this4 #henever you feel sic", in great pain or about to faint5';A(H. 6<3Y A=6 83.#3Y. All your internal organs need is o0ygen5nothing else. Your body is already a cutting&edge technology that has everything it needs to survive. You have evolved into a masterpiece, able to regulate yourself and ad7ust under the most e0treme conditions. Your body is capable of ama>ing recovery in almost all types of physically and mentally stressful situations, so 7ust give it what it really needs4 calm, focused and controlled o0ygenation. 8pea"ing from personal e0perience, I have come instantly bac" to my senses in critical circumstances, 7ust by applying complete and conscious breathing. (hat-s how miraculous and effective this practice is. If you have a more serious or chronic physical condition, breathe through the pain. 3ocate the pain and o0ygenate it. 6o not resist, battle against or tense up around your pain area. I "now you may not be used to or comfortable with this, because you may have unconsciously pic"ed up the habit of tensing in an attempt to control and isolate the pain from spreading further in your body. (his automatic refle0, however, is unhelpful to your body, as the pain cannot heal in muscular tension or without receiving much&needed o0ygen. Your organs must be rela0ed and o0ygenated to mobilise themselves for healing. (herefore, wor" always with your body5never against it. Water. Your body needs water. 3ots of it. Much more then you-re giving it. Your brain is composed of ?@A of water! your body ?BA. If you don-t fuel the machine, how can you e0pect to drive it$ (hree litres per day is the ideal target amount. Heathy !ood". 0clude from your diet 7un"s foods and anything that is not organic and fresh. =ot preferablyCimperativelyD 0clude processed foods, and anything that was originally plastic&wrapped. If you eat the same thing every day, e0pect nothing but deficiencies, starvation from lac" of vital nutrients, and a slowing&down your physical functions )at best* or sic"ness )at worse*. 9ariety and balance are "ey. How you eat is 7ust as important as ingredients. ating fast is a big downer, even if you eat in a perfectly healthy way. Your metabolism must have time to assimilate. ating slowly also allows you to appreciate the value of food, to notice the effect it has on your body )if it-s good for you or not* and to awa"en your senses. ating must be a religiously mindful practice! an act filled with respect and gratitude. 8top eating when you feel full. Know when this happens )you would be surprised how many people can-t read their body limits*. Eating slowly also prevents unintended weight gain at only when you are hungry, and don-t diet57ust listen to your body. It will self®ulate, and bring you naturally to your normal weight, even if you have slipped outside your biological set&point. (hree positive or negative point fluctuations within your healthy weight range are, however, normal. 8tart valuing your food, and be very cautious about what you put into your body. Euit to0ic substances )alcohol, cigarettes, medications and other drugs* and empower your body to become independent of doctors and prescribed medication. ***Natural Foods are Your Best Medicine*** Seep" and augh"# ,A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures for anything-. )Irish proverb* 8leep is a crucial part of your basic functioning. Avoid sacrificing your sleep to achieve things that won-t buy your health bac" once you-ve attained them. 6rugging yourself on coffee and high&caffeine ,energy- drin"s is not empowering your health, it-s ruining it. 'oth are diuretics capable of seriously dehydrating your body. (he more time you spend outdoors, in the fresh air and away from the radiation of electronic devices )computers, smartphones, (9* the better your sleep +uality will be. You mind needs to wind down without e0posure to electronics at least a couple of hours before sleep time. Fo for a wal" after wor"5with your "ids, your dog, your friends, or 7ust alone. 'reathe deeply and slowly in your bed, repetitively, riding and counting your breaths. (a"e refuge inside your body and listen to the melody of the breath. !f you stay long enough inside your body, cleaning it persistently with your breath, the space of this sacred inner place will ma"e you fall asleep $hy"i%a e&er%i"e. Your body is built to be active and to move. It-s a no brainer. #hen you e0ercise, you cause your body to move the energy from your mind down to other areas, vitali>ing and empowering your body as a whole. You are strictly not a sedentary creature. You must implement daily, for GB minutes at the very least, some form of e0ercise such as running, swimming, dancing or stretching5whatever. Moving and e0ercising also allows you to eliminate to0ins and unloc" the energy stuc" in "ey parts of your body. #al"ing bac" and forth in your office does not count as e0ercise. <hysical e0ercise must reach the stage where your mental activity dissolves completely and your body awa"ens. If you feel more present in your body than in your mind, you are doing it right. 2or hyperactive or compulsive over&thin"ers, intense, sweat& producing e0ercise is a daily must. %onsider these simple 'ody empowerment prin%ipe" as vital! not only to cleanse your body to the fullest, but also to clean your mind. As you become increasingly clean within, you become able to notice much more easily, and much earlier, the number&one troublema"ers and an0iety& provo"ing factors4 your automatic thoughts. (hese are your main fear and illness generators. 2ast identification of negative automatic thoughts enables more effective control. After e0ercise, you will observe the effects of these intruders on your general health as soon as they want to snea" bac" in. You will then realise how they disrupt your well&being and your inner peace. You will notice it in your body. Unsupervised Minds and Bodies Lead to Insanity (he wandering mind produces thoughts that first lead you into a general state of body tension, then eventually compel you to act either unhelpfully )with diminished performance or fear&based reactions* or chaotically )you-re completely out of control, causing irretrievable or regrettable actions*. (houghts have powerful potential, and can even be dangerous for yourself and others! but they are powerless without your reaction. If intrusive thoughts disrupt the inner balance you have reached through basic body empowerment principles, then you need to let them go. 8hut them out before they ta"e full control of you. (houghts are mental phantoms. (hey are not real, but they generate fear, and if you feed them )and therefore the fear*, they can actually create the imagined scenarios, basically sabotaging your best intentions. 8imply move away from negative thoughts, people or situations. 'ase all of your 7udgements on your body-s reactions, not the responses of your mind. If it feels wrong, don-t do it. If it feels right and good, then go for itD You are capable of shifting the power. 2ire your mental mind. Hire your gut&mind )your gut&brain* as the main e0ecutive. It "nows far best. Dont start fghting, arguing or debating with your mind, or get into its analysing games. Youll lose every time, or youll end up just going in circles. <ut the power where it really belongs4 in your body. 1se awareness of your inner body during anyactivity, and try cultivating this awareness throughout your entire body. Always stay attuned to your physical self. =ever let your gut&mind down, whether ma"ing a decision, communicating with others, spea"ing to someone, or performing a tas". 3ive and spea" from within. Align your gut&brain with your mental mind, no matter what you do or say. #he gut$brain is commonly called the %second brain& in medicine' !&d say it&s actually the first 2ind your authentic voice by harmoni>ing your mind, heart and gut&brain voices. 8ource your voice and actions from your gut, and connect it with your thoughts at all times. Instead of watching your thoughts all the time, I suggest you watch your body. %hec" in with it, feel what it needs, and satisfy it. 'e alert to any discomfort4 body uneasiness is generally caused by physical neglect, unconscious/automatic thoughts, or body&pain )early trauma activation*. (hese factors can e0acerbate your emotions in many situations. (hey can even do so constantly, if you are living in permanent an0iety. mpower your body appropriately, and you will overcome all of these challenges.