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Severalyearsago,IstumbledacrossadocumentcalledTheShamingTacticsCatalog.
Thisisalistof16logicalfallaciescommonlyusedbyideologicalfeministstoshamemen
andsilencedissentingopinion.TheFemaleMasculinistgavethesetacticsathorough
fisking,andacopyoftheshamingtacticscatalogsitsonmylaptopsdesktop,and
remainsaninvaluabletoolwhenparsingtheliesandabuseallMRAsmustdealwith
whenarguingforthehumanrightsofmen.
Sincethatdocumentscreation,theMensRightsMovement(MRM)hasmovedintoa
newphase.Specifically,themainstreamopponentsofmalehumanrightsarenolonger
abletopretendwedontexist,andhavebeguntoattack.Troublesomeasthiscanbeata
personallevel,itsignalsthegrowingsuccessandeffectivenessoftheMRM.However,
asgoodasthatdevelopmentis,itrequiresadoptionofafewnewtacticsbyindividual
men.
Wearentsimplyaprotestmovementanymore,weregoingtohavetoshifttoaactivist
mentality.
Apreviousversionofthispagemadefrequentuseofthewordwar,andsomecritics
claimedthatthiswaspointlesslyinflammatory.Manyofthetacticsofactivismbeing
developedandpursuedbyMRAsaredonewithintheframeofmindofguerrilla
activism(nottobeconfusedwithguerrillawarfare)butwithaclearintentionof
disruptingestablishedsocialconventionsandmemesinwhichmaledisposability,
humandamageandmarginalizationisacceptedwithoutthought.
IfyourenewtotheMensRightsMovement,oryoureafeminist,orjuststupid,you
mightneedabitofbackgroundtoappreciatetheneedforthisarticlescontent.A
summarizedbackgroundisprovidedforyouhere.
Thisisawarwagedagainsthumanrights,andthoseofuswhoidentifyasMRAsarea
tinyminorityfightinganestablishmainstream.Thepastandpresentattemptsto
personallysmearanddestroyindividualmenseensofararejustthebeginningofa
fight,which,examiningtherampingupofoppositionalrhetoricandbehaviouris
becomingugly.Whilewemustanddocontinuetoadheretostrictlytruthfulrhetoric
andethicaltactics,ouropponentsapparentlydonot,andweshouldnotexpectthemto.
Thereismoneytobemade,andpoliticalpowertobegraspedindenigrating
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masculinity.Themensrightsmovementdirectlythreatenstheincomeofwar
profiteers.However,thewarinquestionisnotasimplewarofsexesrather,itsa
longerprogram,erodingthehumanrightsofeverybody,althoughdetailedexploration
ofthisisbeyondthescopeofthisdiscussion
Itoccursthatadocumenttocomplimenttheshamingtacticscatalogisneeded.Alogical
nameforthismightbePersonalDefamationDefenceTactics.Itmustbenotedatthis
pointthatadiscussionofdefensivetacticsdoesnotsuggestadoptionofawholly
defensivestrategy.Infact,forthcomingdiscussiononthissiteandelsewherewillbe
focusingincreasingonanoffensivefooting.Thedefencediscussedinthislettershould
betreatedasbasicprotectivemeasuresofanyoneinadangerousenvironment.As
mattersstandpresently,weareasocietyofmenbeingassaultedonallsides,butweve
beensocializedtowalkaroundnakedwhileouropponentsflayus.Sucheasy
cooperationwiththosewhowouldharmushastostop.
Iwillattemptintheremainderofthisarticletoprovideafoundationforsucha
defensivehandbook,althoughIhavenoillusionthatwhatIsuggesthereis
comprehensive.Itisastart.AcompletePersonalDefamationDefenceTactics
documentmaybeimpossible,andcertainlyanyusefulversionofthisproposedguide
willbealargerandmuchmorecomplexworkthantheshamingtacticscatalog.
Additionstothisdocumentarewelcome,andshouldbesubmittedascommentstothis
article.
JustBecauseYoureParanoid,DoesntMeanPeopleArentOuttoGetYou.
Asaman,youstillhavesomelegalrightsonpaper.Sadly,inpracticeyouhavealmost
none.Youareatthemercyandwhimofwomenandofaprofitdrivenlegalsystem
whichviewsyouasguiltybyyoursex,andwhichwillfabricateexcusestoforanycrime
againstyoubyawoman.Doesthissoundlikehyperbole?Ifso,thenyouhaventbeen
readingthenews.Ifyoureanadult,wakethefuckupandtakeafewmeasuresto
protectyourself,becausethelawwillnotdoso.
Find Out When Your Enemies Are
Smearing You
Whentousethis:[allthetime]
GoogleAlerts
http://www.google.com/alerts
ThisisamonitoringtoolprovidedbyGooglewhichallowsyoutoreceiveemail
notificationwhennewcontentmatchingaspecifiedkeyphraseiscrawledbygoogles
indexer.
Asaminimum,yournameandyouronlineusernameshouldbewatchedforsothat
youwillknowwhoislyingaboutyou,andwhentheydoit.
Record Selected Phone Calls
Whentousethis[beforesex,aftersex,priortoabreakup,duringabreakup]
Whereitislegaltodoso,youcanrecordcallsonyourcellphoneusinganumberoffree
applications.
TheAndroidplatformmakesthispossiblewithanapplicationcalledsanityfrom
CristianoTagliamonte.
ADDENDUM:in2012manyofthecurrentgenerationofsmartphonesarelimitedby
hardwaredesignwhichseparatesincomingaudiofrommicrophoneaudio.This
hardwaredesignusesbatterypowermoreefficiently,butmakesdevelopmentofvoice
recordingsoftwaredifficult(andsometimesimpossible).
Formanycellphones,recordingcallscanonlybeaccomplishedwiththephonein
speakermode.
handlethisoneright.
Activism
SLUTWALK HAMILTON IS
PORN SALES
June30th,2013
MEN'S HUMAN RIGHTS
AUSTRALIA: BARRY
WILLIAMS
June26th,2013
FACEBOOK CONTINUES
POLITICAL CENSORSHIP
June5th,2013
Misandry
SELECTIVE SILENCE:
SPORTS MEDIA MUM ON
VIOLENT WOMEN
July22nd,2013
THE FRAUD OF FEMINISM
PART TWO
July20th,2013
NAOMI'S SWEET HONEY-
HOLE
July16th,2013
Men's Rights
SELECTIVE SILENCE:
SPORTS MEDIA MUM ON
VIOLENT WOMEN
July22nd,2013
DON'T BE THAT ANTI-RAPE
CAMPAIGN
July21st,2013
ZIMMERMAN CASE: DON'T BE
THAT BIGOT
July18th,2013
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speakermode.
Ifyourmodelcannotrecordcallsduetohardwarelimitations,callscanalsobe
recordedbyplacingthephoneinspeakermodenexttoalaptopwithsoundrecording
softwarerunning.OrbymakingcallsusingSkype,withasoftwareplugintorecordcalls.
http://www.appbrain.com/app/sanity/cri.sanity
Oneapplicationofthisisanytimeyouvehadsexforthefirsttimeinanew
relationship.Phoneherafterwards,infact,doitimmediatelyasyouleaveafterwards.
Allowyourselfnopossibilitythatshewontanswer.Makesmalltalk,askherhowmuch
shelikedgettingshagged,besweet.Anddontforget:RECORDTHECALL,becausethis
callisrecordedforqualityassuranceandtrainingpurposes,andtokeepyououtofjail.
If,lateronshedecidesforwhateverreasontothrowarapeaccusationatyou,youve
gottherecordingtosaveyourass.
Where Legal, Use a Voice
Recorder
Anumberoffreevoicerecordingapplicationsforcellphonescanbedownloadedbut
cellphonesaregenerallykeptinapocketmufflingvoicesandrenderingrecorded
conversationsofminimaluse.Anexternalmicsuchasaheadsetcansignificantlyreduce
thisproblem.
Carry a camera
AsMRAscomeunderincreasingattackinthemediasomeofthathostilitycanspill
intotherealworldaswell.Thiswasmadeglaringlyobviousinthesummerof2012as
MRMpostingcampaignsbecameactiveinanumberofCanadiancities.Cellphone
camerasarenearlyuniversallyavailableandcapturingvideoofharassmentor
interferencecanturnanincidentofpossibleviolencebyopponentsofmalehuman
rightsintoapublicrelationswin.However,
acellphonecameraislessthanidealforseveralreasons.Almostallcellphonecameras
requiremultiplebuttonpushesonatouchscreentouse.Thisisfarfromreliablein
brightsunlight,orwhenadrenalinispumpinginastressfulsituation.
Atpresent,theverybestcameraforselfprotectivevideorecordingiscalledtheGoPro
hero.Thisisabodyworncameradesignedforextremesportsenthusiasts.Itis$200
to$300,dependingonaccessories,andcomeswithadurableplasticcasingwhich
includesmountpointsandstrapopenings.ThisisthecameraAVfMrecommendsfor
activistMRAs.
http://gopro.com
Keep a Journal
Wheretousethis:[before,duringandafterarelationship]
Thisisparticularlyusefulinsituationsofdivorce,spousalseparationanddomestic
turbulence.
Ifyoufindyourselfatwarwithyourwifeorgirlfriendalowtechhandwrittenjournal
cansaveyourlife,andkeepyououtofjail.Ahistoryofnormaljournalentriesprior
toissuesofconflictwillbeusefulinestablishingthestressandpaincreatedbyattacks
againstyoubyyourexwifeorgirlfriend.Useanotebookwithatraditionalbinding
notaspiralboundora3ringstylebinder.Also,nevertearpagesoutofyourjournal,as
thatwillbeusedtopresentacaseagainstyouoffabricatingafalsehistory.
Back up your records on
removable media
Feminism
SELECTIVE SILENCE:
SPORTS MEDIA MUM ON
VIOLENT WOMEN
July22nd,2013
DON'T BE THAT ANTI-RAPE
CAMPAIGN
July21st,2013
THE FRAUD OF FEMINISM
PART TWO
July20th,2013
Sexual Politics
THE PAST AIN'T THROUGH
WITH US
July23rd,2013
MEN NOT MARRYING
July22nd,2013
WHY ARE MEN OPTING OUT
OF RELATIONSHIPS?
July22nd,2013
Men
SHAME ON ME
July21st,2013
CANCER, PROSTATES, AND
HEROES
July19th,2013
HOW TO HELP A MAN DIE
WELL
July17th,2013
Women
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Whentousethis:[allthetime]
Ifyoucoveryourassbykeepingemails,textmessages,andrecordedconversations
butyoulooseaccesstothosefilesbecauseyourlaptopisstolenorseizedthenyoure
screwedarentyou.
Backthosefilesuponremovablemediaandstorethebackupdeviceinaseparate
location.
Atwoterabyteexternalharddrivecostsaboutahundreddollars.
Dont share accounts with anyone,
ever
Whentousethis:[allthetime]
Thisisamistakemadebyseeminglyintelligentpeopleanditseasytoavoidby
understandingthenatureofdigitalaccounts.Bydigitalaccounts,Imeanemail,instant
message,onlineidentities,bankaccounts,creditcards,googleaccounts,andmore.
Adigitalaccountwithausernameandpasswordisanidentity,ifitsyourusernameand
password,thenitsYOURidentity.Yourwifedoesntgoinpersontothebankwearinga
disguisedressedasyouthatwouldbeacriminalact,evenifshediditwithyour
blessing.Ifyoushareyourusernamesandpasswords,youreencouragingyourspouse
tomasqueradeasyou.Eveninahealthyrelationship,thisisabadidea.Yourdigital
identityisyouridentity.
Failuretounderstandthiswillleadyoutojail,orwillcauseyourmoney,yourhouse,
yourpossessions,andyourcreditratingtodisappear.
Dontshareyourcomputer.Thisisatoughoneforthetechnicallychallenged.Many
couplesshareaccommodationsinascenarioinwhichthereisonlyonecomputer.The
answertothisisseparateaccounts.IfyouownthemachineDONOTgiveanyoneelse
anaccountwithadministrativeaccess,abasicuseraccountisplentyandIllnote,
moreaccessthananyoneelsegetsonmypersonalcomputers.
Andifyoudoshareacomputerwithseparateuseraccounts,logoutwhenyoureaway
fromthemachine,anddonotshareyourpassword.
Ifyouthinkthisisexcessiveconsiderthisscenario:Yourgirlfriendisangrywithyou,
orshesdumpingyou,oryouredumpingherandthatmakesherangryandvengeful.
Shevisitsapornsiteandfillsyourbrowsercachewithquestionable,orillegalporn.
Thenshecallsthepoliceandaccusesyouofstrikingher.Whilethepoliceareattending,
sheaccidentallymentionsyournastypornhabit.
Nowyouhavenojob,andayoureonthesexoffenderregistry,becausepriortobreak
upyouboughtintothatrelationshipsarebuiltontrust.Intruth,relationshipsARE
builtontrust,butifyouconflatethatinyourmindwithsharinguseraccounts,well,
youllbecooked.
Doyoustillthinksharingpasswordsisnobigdeal?
Relationship Hazards and Red
Flags
Inromanticrelationships,womenenjoyalmostsupremepower.Everymanina
romanticrelationshipoweshisfreedomfromprison,hiscontinuedemployment,and
continuedownershipofhispossessions,includinghome,tothewhimofhiswifeor
girlfriend.Figurativelyspeaking,ahusbandorboyfriendisamanwalkingthroughlife
withaninvisible,loadedpistolpointedathim.HiswifeofGFhasherfingeronthe
figurativetrigger.
Asaman,youwontbesocially,legally,orfinanciallydestroyedinadivorceifyounever
enterintothelegalentanglementofmarriage.Butsincehumansaresocialanimals,
menwillcontinuetoformromanticrelationshipswithwomen.Whattheycandois
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ELLEN GORMAN:
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July14th,2013
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menwillcontinuetoformromanticrelationshipswithwomen.Whattheycandois
reducethehazardsthroughabitofawareness,andafewrulesofthumb.
Thesesuggestionscanbe,andhavebeenreadasdehumanizingtowomen,which
althoughnotintendedinthewriting,maybetheimpressionifreadingfromaparticular
pointofview.Thesuggestionshere,howeverinsultingtheymaybetosomereaders
cannotbeomittedifacommitmenttopreventingharmandtovaluinghonesty
continuestoinformthesiteseditorialpolicy.
Do not get involved with single
mothers.
Thereareanumberofreasonstoraiseachildwithoutafather,andmanyofthemare
reasonableandlegitimate.Romanticrelationships,includingmarriagescanfailfora
varietyofreasons.
However,itisalsotruethatsomesinglemothershavechosentodiscardortoejecta
fatherfromthelifeofhischildren,countingonthereliableapparatusofthestateto
financethisdecision.
Awomanwhochosetohave,ortoraiseachildwithoutafather,deeminghim
unnecessary,inconvenientorsimplyofinsufficientutilitydemonstratesterrible,selfish
values.Insuchcases,singlemotherhooddemonstratestheconceptionofmenassperm
donorsandchildsupportpayers,NOThusbands&fathers.
Beawarethatifyougetinvolvedwiththistypeofsinglemother,youarenothingexcept
thenexthumancashdispenser,forsomebodyelseskid.
Inaddition,unlessshesmentallyunwell,herchildwillalwaystakepriorityoveryou.
Thisisjustfineaslongasyoubuyintotheideaofmenasexploitableutilitiesand
yourselfasadisposableappliance.Ifthisisyou,stopwastingthebandwidthofthissite,
moron.
Thekid,bytheway,hasnothinginvestedinyou,butmaydecideagoodpathto
personalcelebrityvictimhoodisaccusingyouofmolestation.Therewardtothechildis
huge,andthepenaltytothechildminimal,evenintheeventofdiscovery.
Do not involve yourself with
strippers.
Becauseallstrippersaresociopathicmonsters?No,itsjustajobsomewomendo,
manyofwhomarereasonablepeoplemakingaliving.However,anyjobanyonedoes
occurswithinacultureinwhichmaleutilityisvaluedovermalehumanity.
Thesolepurposeofastripclubistoexploitthesexualdesires,frusrationsand
lonlinessofmenforfinancialgain.Thisappliestothestrippersaswellasthe
management.
Strippersmaketheirlivinginanenvironmentwheretheyareworshippedbasedon
ownershipoffemalereproductiveorgansandbreasts.Strippersarebusinesspeople
whosebusinessisshakingdownmalepuntersfortips.Ifyoudateastripper,youare
dealingwithawomanwhoseemploymenthastrainedhertoregardsyouasacash
dispensingappliance.
Ofcourse,notallstrippersarelikethat,andifyoureastripperreadingthis,obviously,
itsnotyou,itssomebodyelseweredescribing.
Butformenwhowantasignificantlyincreasedchanceofyourgirlfriendstealingyour
possessions,attractingdrugsandcriminalsintoyourlife,andgenerallyfuckingyour
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Picturethreeoutlaws.
Bandits.Ner'do'wells,eager
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Feminists,eagerforarape
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5,000,000 thank yous
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Althoughthereareracial
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Movie about false
allegations?
"TheHunt"certainlylooks
promising,althoughwe'll
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handlethisoneright.
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