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Sexy Bad Boys vs. Nice Guys -- By David DeAngelo

author:

"David DeAngelo"

date:

Fri, 21 Aug 2003 14:17 GMT

website: www.doubleyourdating.com

subject:

good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense

Sexy Bad Boys vs. Nice Guys

This

notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating

It seems great minds think alike. Last week I wrote about how I think most women will get into Long Term Relationships with guys who are "safe," but fool around with guys who stir passion within them. And low and behold, David DeAngelo, Author of Double Your Dating, releases a newsletter the next day about roughly the same subject entitled "Nice Guys and SEXY Bad Boys." I found the newsletter (which was NOT a mailbag, thank god) to be really good. I always like David D's little essays on technique, so I thought I'd repost it here for everyone to check out.

Nice Guys And SEXY Bad Boys

This week I'm going to do something a little bit unusual

First I'm going to ask you to consider something, then I'm going to give you a little bit of homework.

This week is all about ACTION!

Here's the thing I want you to consider first:

I was reading an article on AOL entitled "What's Wrong With Nice Guys?". Here's a little quote from the article:

.Do Women Date Naughty Guys but Marry Nice Ones?

This notion sounds an awful lot like the irritating good-girl/bad-girl distinction that men continue to make. Still, it does contain a nugget of sense. Since women truly are conditioned to be "good girls," sometimes we feel uncomfortable with or guilty about that pure burning "I must have him!" feeling. That's why we sometimes seek out a bad boy to serve as the object of these desires, says Cleveland psychotherapist Belleruth Naparstek, creator of the Health Journeys series of guided imagery tapes. "In order for the deliciousness of pure lust to be 'okay,' it has to be for the symbolic bad boy who has nothing to do with the rest of your life. With him, you can

crank up your animal impulses, worry-free," she says

."

Interesting, isn't it?

Now, I personally disagree with the idea that women "seek out" Bad Boys because they need

somewhere to project their guilty lust

"wrong" with the fact that women are attracted to Bad Boys

and I disagree with the idea that there's something

But the point is that the "mainstream" psychology and behavior world is starting to accept the idea that women are ATTRACTED to "Bad Boys". It will probably be another ten years before anyone with a degree puts two and two together and says "Hey, maybe women feel ATTRACTION for Bad Boys for natural, evolutionary reasons, and that's why Bad Boys are

considered "sexy"

."

Hell, maybe I should say it

Oh, I already did. Whatever.

Point is, there's something to the idea that woman don't feel that powerful GUT LEVEL

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