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How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

A club can be a particularly frustrating place to meet someone, with all the noise, the crowd and the business of the participants. In fact, most women don't go to clubs to meet men. Yet, many men go to clubs to meet women. Here is a step-by-step guide on the best way to increase your chances of success. Steps 1. Arrive early. y midnight, most people have already coalesced into groups, ma!ing them

harder to approach. ". #tart conversations with people in the line-up. A good start is to as! someone if this is the event you are loo!ing for. $. After entering through the door, ma!e eye contact with the first woman there. Again, %is this the event&% is an opening that will wor!. #ince she's by the door, chances are she has 'ust arrived and is also loo!ing for someone to tal! to. (. )henever you meet someone, as! if she's there alone or with friends. *hen as! to meet her friends. +hances are she'll be happy to introduce. *hey tend to prefer the group dynamic in this setting. ,. -nce you get names, and a few minutes of chit chat, move on. *his shows them that you're not desperate and that you have things to do. You can come bac! to them later as someone they already !now. .. After moving away, you may need to write down the names you 'ust got for later reference. /. )hatever you do, 0-1'* 2 A )A3343-)25. 6uys who stand against the wall loo!ing

longingly at the women gets you pidgenonholed as a typical desperate guy they li!e to avoid. If you get stuc! in such a position, move from it to another vantage point every few minutes before you get another pro'ect going. 7. If you feel li!e resting, find a seat away from the crowd. 8. Have things to do9 ring a camera, e:plore the place, chec! out the bathroom, buy a drin!,

get a nap!in. Have a loo! of 0estination on your face. )hat does this loo! li!e& #imple9 ;ust ta!e a loo! at the busy-loo!ing women as they go from place to place on some seelingly crutial mission. 1<. If you see people you !now, go over to them. *hey may end up introducing you to more people. 11. *al! to bouncers and security people. *his ma!es you loo! important. *hese people are often bored and will be happy to tal! to you. 1". ring an entourage. It ma!es you attractive if you are part of a group.

1$. If possible, come with a %wing-woman.% A wing-woman is an attractive woman who is only a friend. *his ma!es you loo! attractive. 1(. 4ind someone to dance with. 4or this, an older or less attractive woman is ideal. *hey will be happy to dance with you and you will attract the attention of the young and pretty ones who are wondering why you chose this one as opposed to them. )hen the dance is over,

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compliment your partner and e:cuse yourself, then approach any one of the cute ones who will now be loo!ing at you. 1,. *al! to female wallflowers. *hey are open to meeting someone. 2ven if she is older or less attractive, engage them in conversation. *his will ma!e the cute ones wondering =same as >1"?. 1.. )al! around with a big cool loo!ing drin!. *his will get you attention. As! the bartender for a recommendation on this. 1/. 6o outside. *hey stamp your hand so you might as well use it. -utside there is less competition and a it's less crowded and you can occasionally find a lone woman ta!ing a brea! or a smo!e. 17. Instead of as!ing for a phone number, as! for a business card. If she says she doesn't have one, as! if she has email. 18. 0on't be satisfied with one email or phone number, even if you thin! she is the %woman of your dreams.% @ost women will not return a phone call from a guy she met at a club. "<. @a!e sure to circle around bac! to the women you met at the beginning. At this point, after missing you, they will be more open to tal!. "1. *he ne:t day, email all the women. 6ive them some sort of way for them to remember who you are, and give them your phone number and tell them when you will be available. Tips 1. If a woman insults you, 'ust say %whatever% and turn away. ". If a woman displays childish or otherwise condescending or inappropriate behavior, do not feel li!e you have to play into it9 #imply say9 %I thought you were interesting, but I see I was mista!en. 6ood evening,% and then turn to wal! away. If she's descent she'll apppologiAe and pull you bac!. $. If you see a couple who loo!s li!e they might be 'ust friends, try introducing yourself to the guy first. He'll introduce you to her if he's her %wing-man.% (. 0on't feel li!e you have to spend the whole evening tal!ing to one woman. #he's there to be with other people too. #o if things are going well, as! for an email. ,. +ome clean, groomed and wear a nice, pressed, e:pensive loo!ing dar! shirt. .. If a woman ma!es eye contact, go for it. /. If a woman avoids eye contact, you have 'ust been re'ected. @ove on. 7. If someone indicates that he or she would li!e to tal! to you, for e:ample, by ma!ing eye contact, tal! to him or her even if you are not interested. *his will ma!e you loo! as busy as anyone else, and ma!es it loo! as though you didn't come there to meet pic! up women. 8. 0on't dance too much by yourself. It ma!es you loo! alone. If there's one song you must dance to, do it where you're not too noticeable. 1<.4or pic!ing up women on the dance floor itself, see the wi!ihow on how to pic! up a woman on a dance floor. 11.If you find yourself with nothing to do, loo! busy and important9 +hec! your email, te:t your friends, call your mom, etc. If you don't !now what %busy and important% is supposed to loo! li!e, 'ust watch the busy and important women doing those things. 1".)hen choosing a woman to ta!e your picture, pic! one who has her own camera. *his way

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=a? she probably !nows what she's doing, and =b? after she ta!es yours, you can continue by offering to ta!e one of her. Warnings 1. 0on't try to pic! up the bartender. #he's busy. If you must pic! her up, only try it either very early or very late if she seems to have time. ". Beep in mind that most women at clubs are not there to meet new people but to have fun with people they already !now. $. 5ealiAe that Y-C )I33 62* 52;2+*20 as a matter of course by at least some of the women you approach. #ome women en'oy the power surge of re'ecting someone and get themselves all dolled up 'ust to attract their ne:t victim=s?. If you cannot handle this, you should find other places to pic! up women. (. eware of boyfriends. If you see a couple very close and lovey-dovey, give them space.

,. -ccasionally, a woman will be downright rude and insulting. 3earn to deal with this. .. 0on't wear cologne. It may attract women you don't want, and turn away others you do want. /. 0o not invest any emotion into any one individual, or the entire pro'ect in general. 5emember that women who go to clubs are probably too vapid and superficial for the long term anyway.

The article is Copyright 2007 by the original author & Learn The Skills Corp. Republished with permission from mASF Forum.

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