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DVD 1

How to stop moving targets? If the target is moving towards you (always smiling) never wait too long to the point where she is almost on your side cuz its a bad approach and the girl won't even stop or if she does she will feel uncomfortable as she can get a bad impression of you. Good stop of moving target is when she is walking towards you and while smiling and open body language you step in front of her saying "Excuse me for stoping you like this" but if a hot target sometimes won't stop and put a mean look on her face,then you just have to walk backwards till she stops or softly touch her with open arms to stop. Approaching like a policeman is a bad approach. Approaching two walking targets Never stop or approach one of the moving girls since the other one will be an obstacle and will try to get the target away from you. 1.While smiling stop them both by getting in front of them (with open arms so that they won't run away). 2.Use an opening line ("I know this is weird but in my horoscope today it was written that I should meet new people") 3.Engage your target by asking a question or saying something,then do the same thing with the target's friend and right after 4.Engage more your target 5.While talking to your target turn to her friend by giving her a compliment (Be polite to her, ask her where did she buy the thing you complimented her on or whatever) Sometimes girls won't be friendly on the street because of personal reasons or because in the beginning they are scared since they don't know what kind of person you are and what's on your head,so your goal is to get them feel enough comfortable to open up to you. The first minutes are crucial so try to get to establish as good rapport as you can. Don't surrender! Find as many topics as possible and keep talking to get them interested. If they aren't at least slightly interested they will walk away. If they say that they're going shopping or somewhere (place you could possibly go to) tell them: (smiling) "You girls are so interesting (just like me) I will join you" and take them with you going where they were headed to. Never ask if you can join them! Just do it! The phase of street approaching: 1. Stopping 2. Opening 3. Transition (you will join them) 4. Date (or something else like shopping and then a date) Make it obvious that you like them,make obvious your intentions. (Make obvious your intentions...which doesn't mean you tell them you want to have sex :P) Opening lines: "I have a friend who is your age,but not so cute (or different compliment),would you please advise me what to buy for her birthday..." Approaching a seating alone target "Excuse me,but there's this cute girl that I want to get to know better and it would be cool if you could give me an advice what to say to her (how to approach her,how to start a

conversation with her)" if she says she doesn't know just ask her "Well, what could be a good way for a guy to approach you (start conversation with you)? Don't ask questions too many ! Tell cool stories about yourself! Approaching to seating girls: Target + her friend (sometimes ugly) Approach the same way just: Be prepared to handle interest from your target's friend. The target has men lined up,so if you come in polite but average she will forward you. Don't ignore your target's friend. Approaching two (or more) girls with a guy in a club If the guy has no chance with them, go talk directly to the girl. Otherwise make friends with the guy first and then "embarrace" ("destroy") him in front of the women only when needed and if he is a threat to you or just transition to the girls. Next you open the women. 1. Ask the guy just a typical male question (ex. you can ask them about where you can find good clubs in the city you are or typical ) 2. Then ask him how he gets to hang out with such beautiful women? 3. Since you are now "friends", he will probably respond with stupid male jokes. 4. Make sure he likes you, but also get the information you need. Don't talk to him for too long since you will look like a loser to the girls and they will probably never like you 5. Transition to the girls using the information you have gathered while embarracing the guy in the process in a funny way. He will like you because you are only joking. When the girls start laughing you have the advantage. And you engage the girls then. When you do this don't be offensive to the guy since sometimes you can get your ass beat. Approaching women and taking them on a date then and there 1. Approach them 2. Talk (opening lines) and compliment them (Outfit compliments usually border on masking your intentions and excuses,let them know they are beautiful, seem friendly so you had to approach them, have beautiful smile, eyes etc) You can say to her "Tell me something about yourself" if she asks what do you want to know then tell her "What kind of hobbies do you have? When I ask some people,what kind of hobbies they have,they say that have no time so actually don't have any hobbies (smiling)..." 3. Walk or go shopping with them (don't get lost in women's topics and don't be boring) 4. Suggest to go for a coffee or drink ("I had a great time, join me for a drink" and take them) During this process if they hesitate to go for a coffee or shopping with you just continue with the conversation to establish enough connection. Make them feel relaxed so that they will feel comfortable and create a deeper bond by talking about different (not boring) topics like travelling, how are people in the countries they visit etc. NEVER ASK TOO MANY QUESTIONS, NEVER SUCK TOO MUCH INFORMATION! Only eject if the girls walk away, otherwise stay and create rapport. When you created enough raport tell them "Come on girls don't play with me". You have to be kind of enthusiastic to show them that you are interested. After a street approach always say your invitation while pushing them along with you. Inviting them always say your intentions like "I would like to get to know you better" or something else. If they reject you, always leave after the girls...cuz if they don't you can keep going on with the conversation.

If they make fun of you during the conversation be persistent and don't make fun of yourself but turn it around being funny and a lil cocky. It shows high value and that you are not insecure.

DVD 2
Making bad approaches erases your fears of approaching and talking to girls and IT IS REALLY FUN! Good Approaches For the first time on the street you can use anything. Then with time you will get better and become successful. When you get confidence, have fun. But remember to be nice. Women have feelings! You must achieve a positive reaction on the stop! Don't use stupid boring routines while talking to them cuz the girls want you to be intersted in them and talk about them since that's the reason you approach them (to get to know them better) and not talking about how your friend's girlfriend cheated on him and stupid shit like that! It's all about keeping the conversation focused on her. That way, you learn more about her and reduce your chances of saying something you'll regret later. But that doesn't mean you should be a mime. Let the talking flow naturally, and you just might have the most memorable first date in history. Don't talk too much about yourself! If she is older and Asks about your age just have fun by asnwering "I am 78 but I feel a lot younger today :)" If she says she's got a boyfriend don't give up! In this case you can say something like: "oh come on,don't play with me" Even if they are happy she may still make "new friends". If she likes you (or doesn't like you but thinks you're nice) she will set you up with her friends. If she seems disinterested, try to change topic and be funny. Always stay and resist the common urge to run away. When she is by herself waiting for a friend or "boyfriend" and the conversation goes not bad and her friend comes later, you should introduce yourself right away totargets friend.

DVD 3
What to talk abut with girls Always try to have deeper conversations. If she says she likes to travel. Ask her what kind of countries would she like to travel more (or less) and why? Ask her to tell you something that wouldmake you wanna visit that country! If she say she likes the people you can talk about people and ask her what kind of people does she like? She gives you the characteristics and what kind of feelings they create in her etc. From this point you can come to emotion..."Tell me what kind of guys do you like" Girls like to talk about emotions and experiences. Childhood is a great topic ti talk about and this make the difference between you and the other guys since most people forget to talk about their childhood. You can ask her what kind of fantasies (dreams) she had when she was a kid? Remember to always ask her "What kind of kid were you?" You can talk about her future plans,what does she want to do in her future and why, what

kind of guy would she like to meet and what she expects from him etc. 3 main things you can create topics around: 1. Past 2. Present 3. Future Find as many topics as possible and practice practice and practice to become good at conversation.

DVD 4
Time to approach!!! Get off the fucking chair or couch!!! Only when you start doing things you will understand! Opener: "I have a sister back at home who looks like you but not so hot. She has her birthday coming soon and I would like to buy her a present, could you please advise me (since you look like a girl who got style)?" When you start approaching the right way your confidence start growing up. Be confident while talking to them. When you approach a set of girls and one is interested in you, but her girlfriends try to pull her back, go there. (You can tell her "You seem really cool" and ask her to tell you something about herself. Then if she hesitates to walk with you pull her and invite tell her "Let's get something to drink...just talk i'm listening!" while walking with her on your side :D ) If you ask her what kind of bars or clubs she likes ask her if she wants to meet new people and how are they. Then you can tell her that lots of girls are cool but you really don't like the hip-hop guys in the club cuz they go around like this (ec si kurrizo ne menyre qesharake per ti treguar asaj se si jane ata) and the go like (duke e thene me nje ze pak si te trashe e te ngjirur ne menyre qesharake) "Hey baby, I and have a car waiting outside, lets go to my place" if she doesn't like them either then tell her "Then I am glad I don't look like a Hip-Hop guy" When she says you look normal or whatever tell her "Yesterday I asked a girl about her first immpression of me and she said that I look 75% of a playboy and the rest I look like a mama's boy" Just keep the conversation naturally flowing and before the interaction comes to an end make sure to get her phone and that she gets yours. When you start handling your fear of women, you will realize that fear of success in life is also imposed by society and you will start to improve in that are as well. Questions you can ask in a club or while having a conversation "If you could be an animal,what animal would you be" or "I don't bite unless you ask me to" If she says that they are going to meet friends tell her "Oh cool,introduce me to them" and go with them. If she says she has a boyfriend you can say "I don't think that your boyfriend deserves you. If he deserved you he would be here, right where I'm standing right now". Sometimes the target will agree :D and that's what you want!

DVD 5
Take care of your body and keep it clean. Have always a good body language when talking

to girls. They check out your nails,your teeth,the way you dress,your shoes...so keep them nice taken care of ;) When you say the opening line and the girl stops don't wait for her to throw herself to your arms but introduce yourself or keep talking. Don't just compliment her and get stuck! Direct game can be really effective since nobody in the world approaches women like this anymore! Don't try to impress her. Its better when she tries to impress you by qualifying herself to you. Ask her if she's a good cook and if she says yes ask her if she can cook sushi,when she says she cannot, you tell her that then she's not a good cook. After she likes you and you have normal conversation, when you ask her questions disqualify her in a funny way like that is not enough for you or good enough. Don't overdo it since she might think you're a mean asshole. The stories you tell must have a point and a purpose. Traits you can tell stories about: Persistance Confidence Confusion Dominance Congruency Sexual Arousal Passion Being Playful Being Charming Funny Outgoing Feeling Lost Somewhere

If a girl is not engaged in a conversation you can tell something like an emotional story so that she will tell her story. If you open up, they will open up! If you travel a lot and have an interesting life, you have interesting stories to tell. An active lifestyle is really important for being successful, and not only with women but in general. Traveling is essential because it frees the mind from old reinforced mind patterns that you subconciously associate with your hometown. Traveling helps you on a deeper level because it exposes you to new experiences which develop you as a person. That is what makes you stronger and more adventurous which of course helps with girls. You have to pursue your passions and interests instead of ex. sitting around or watching TV. Maybe you have a talent or a passion...PURSUE IT! Always try to explore things you haven't done before. Explore and check out new things. Being open minded is a big step forward for you success or achieving your "impposible" dreams, but also being successful with women. Teach the girl something interesting that she doesn't know about or has never tried it before. Just tell her that she's gonna have a great experience and that will love it. She will join you. When asking her questions listen carefully to how she responds and what she says and find the key words that express an emotion or something that she likes. With your story communicate that emotion to her. Enthusiasm is crucial when approaching - you must be enthusiastic and she must see it.

When you talk to girls don't stay at the same level,always keep escalating.

DVD 6
In the mall when you use the shopping opening line (that you want to buy a present for your sister or girl-friend) as a way to start talking to the woman. Shopping is not important! She is important! If she carries bags tell her "Let me help you with the bags" and take them. If she refuses or not continue with "Don't worry I am not gonna run away with them (smile)" Then keep asking personal questions and make her interested in you while showing your interest in her. When you ask her where is she from and she tells you say "It's a beautiful place" if she asks, have you been there or how do you know or whatever "I think that it can be a beautiful place because of how beauiful you look (smile)" That is a great compliment. It is extremely weird how men can learn much more difficult things in their life and probably master those things,but when it comes to approaching women they find it so hard...JUST APPROACH THEM CUZ IN THE END THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN IS THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!!! If they ask "What's wrong with you?" just tell them "No,nothing is wrong with you (smile)" TO MAKE IT CLEAR:

ASKING THE GIRLS FOR AN ADVICE FOR BUYING A PRESENT FOR SOMEONE ELSE, USE IT FOR PRACTICE. IF YOU WANT TO GET THE JOB FINISHED BE DIRECT ASK PERSONAL QUESTIONS BUT NOT TOO MANY, THIS WAY YOU SHOW INTEREST AND STILL KEEPING COOL AND BEING FUNNY KEEP THE CONVERSATION FLOW AND NEVER RUN OUT OF WORDS TO SAY!!!

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