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THE CHARMING ROGUE Presents:

SECRETS OF SAME NIGHT LAYS


By Adonis
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1ab|e of Contents
The 7-Boui Rule......................................................................................................................................................... 6
Reasons You Shoulu Aim Foi SNl....................................................................................................................... 7
Attract|on Game.......................................................................................................... 9
Log|st|cs .................................................................................................................... 12
Women Want Sex Noie Than You Bo............................................................................................................ 12
Innei uame ................................................................................................................................................................ 14
uetting SNls 0ltimately Comes Bown To Logistics. ................................................................................ 1S
Blow Ne oi Blow Ne 0ut!.................................................................................................................................... 21
1he S Cb[ect|ons ....................................................................................................... 23
The S 0bjections...................................................................................................................................................... 2S
Stoiytelling ................................................................................................................................................................ 26
Playful Scieening..................................................................................................................................................... 28
kandom Scenar|os..................................................................................................... 29
Women In Relationships 0i Naiiiage ........................................................................................................... 29
You Aie In A Seiious Relationship................................................................................................................... S1
vacations .................................................................................................................................................................... S2
uiils Net 0nline....................................................................................................................................................... SS
Sexua| 1ens|on .......................................................................................................... 36
}ealousy Plotlines.................................................................................................................................................... S8
Aibitiaiy Bounuaiies............................................................................................................................................ S9
Sexua| Iram|ng.......................................................................................................... 41
Cognitive Bissonance............................................................................................................................................ 41
Fiames To Set Foi SNl ......................................................................................................................................... 4S
"We Bon't Count" .................................................................................................................................................... 44
Passive AcceptanceCompliance ..................................................................................................................... 4S
Blame All Fliitations 0n Bei .............................................................................................................................. 46
Qualification.............................................................................................................................................................. 47
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"Why Aie vegas uiils So Fiienuly."................................................................................................................ 48
"You Look }ust Like..".......................................................................................................................................... 49
Stiawbeiiy Fielus ................................................................................................................................................... Su
The Sau Stoiy............................................................................................................................................................ SS
Befault Noves........................................................................................................................................................... S7
Lsca|at|on.................................................................................................................. 62
Escalation By Novement ..................................................................................................................................... 64
Bon't Nake 0ut In The venue............................................................................................................................ 64
Takeaways ................................................................................................................................................................. 66
Special Kino Escalation Noves.......................................................................................................................... 67
NL-8ased Seduct|on................................................................................................. 69
Captain}ack's Ring Fingei Routine .................................................................................................................. 7u
Ambiguities................................................................................................................................................................ 7S
Sexually Chaigeu vocabulaiy............................................................................................................................ 7S
C|os|ng 1act|cs........................................................................................................... 77
"Le Chateau".............................................................................................................................................................. 77
Avoiu "The Bounce" ............................................................................................................................................... 78
"Skow!" ........................................................................................................................................................................ 79
uet Bei Fiienus Peimission ............................................................................................................................... 82
Baby-Stepping.......................................................................................................................................................... 8S
"I'm Not uoing To Sleep With You" ................................................................................................................. 84
0bjection Removal ................................................................................................................................................. 8S
She Wants To Book 0p......................................................................................................................................... 86
She Wants You To Biop Bei 0ff At Bei Bouse........................................................................................... 86
Feai of The Empty Apaitment........................................................................................................................... 87
Get Cut 1here! .......................................................................................................... 90

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Seveial months ago, a fellow Chaiming Rogue" I hau gone out with seveial times
hau obseiveu how fiequently my nights enueu in Same Night Lays (SNls). Be took
me to lunch one uay to pick my biain on how I accomplisheu this with such
consistency. At that point in time, I hau not ieally thought much about how I was
able to get SNls so fiequently. I was meiely following the moxim I have oft been
quoteu as saying:

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I absolutely believe this maxim to be tiue. I have noticeu that if I uon't get a giil into
beu within a week oi so of meeting hei, it iaiely happens at all. I'm not saying this is
olwoys the case, but in my expeiience (anu in the expeiience of the Chaiming
Rogues" I have uiscusseu this topic with) this is moie often than not tiue.

uetting SNls is the ultimate foim of obeying my above-mentioneu maxim. Theie
isn't much soonei than getting a giil into beu the night you met hei.

As a iesult of this conveisation, I set foith to bieak uown exactly what I uo to
achieve this goal. This book is the iesult.
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!"# %&'()* +),#

Hystery, fiom venusianAits.com, is ceitainly a woilu-class seuucei anu aiguably the
gieatest Chaiming Rogue" in the woilu, so when he came up with the 7-bour rule
foi his HS HoJel of SeJuction, it was easy to take this iule as a given. The iule states
that it takes 7 houis with a woman to builu enough comfoit with hei to have sex.

The 7-bour rule seems plausible because some women uo seem to neeu seveial
houis of comfoit builuing using the NS paiauigm. Bowevei, the magical numbei of
houis necessaiy, 7, was ueiiveu completely aibitiaiily out of Nysteiy's expeiience
with seuucing women at the time anu uoesn't ieally have much beaiing in actual
fact.

I have been getting J#91 /&'*; K#8+ (SNls) consistently foi seveial yeais now so in
my expeiience anu in the expeiience of othei Chaiming Rogues" who consistently
get them, the 7-bour rule woulun't even make sense. Let's say I go to a bai at 1u p.m.
anu by 11 p.m. I meet a giil who has the logistics necessaiy foi SNl. By the 7-Eour
Rule, I woulu not be able to have sex with hei until 6 a.m.!

This is ciazy because by 6 a.m., I am off in a blissful post-coital slumbei, oi I'm on
iounu 2 oi S with the beautiful woman I have ueciueu to shaie the night with. This is
not just my expeiience, but also the expeiience of any Chaiming Rogue" who has
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masteieu the ait of SNls. So the choice is youis, heeu the 7-bour rule, anu get the giil
somewheie uown the line, oi bieak it anu get hei that veiy night. It's up to you.

0h, anu uon't woiiy about buyei's iemoise oi "fools mote", as Hystery iefeiieu to
the act of getting a giil into beu in unuei 7 houis that leaus hei to iegietting hei
uecision to sleep with you: I have almost nevei expeiienceu this even when getting a
woman into beu in unuei an houi.

This is not a book about 0ne Niqbt StonJs wheie you get the giil into beu only the
uay you meet hei. Follow my auvice anu you can sleep with this woman as many
times as you want to aftei the fiist night, if you'ie so inclineu.

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-;;*(-:"#2 :(/.<-/<,> -/2 -*# :(/.4.<#/<,> 5##<4/C /#A ;*(.;#:<.@ Wait too
long to sleep with hei anu the sexual tension anu emotional value you have cieateu
will likely uissipate oi she will get involveu with someone else.

You may have been uoing gieat with hei in the momentshe was attiacteu anu she
wanteu to have sex with youbut when nothing happeneu she went home to hei
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boyfiienu oi some othei guy she's been sleeping with anu foigot all about you. If she
isn't sleeping with anyone at the moment, she will likely meet anothei guy in the
veiy neai futuie that 7BEE be able to get hei into beu anu she willoqoinfoiget
all about you.

Suie you can cieate such a stiong anu compelling piesence that she can't wait till
you hang out latei (anu you will have to uo this in many cases if hei logistics aien't
iight, but moie on logistics latei), but I ask you: "What piesence is moie stiong anu
compelling than sweeping hei off hei feet anu into youi beu in the same night you
met."

The moial heie: F#< "#* 4/<( =#2 G)4:H,>I (* /(< -< -,,@
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3<<*-:<4(/ F-5#

Ny focus in this book will N0T be to pioviue an actual stiuctuie foi seuucing
women. Ny stiategies can be useu to supplement any ieasonable methou. In fact,
befoie focusing on SNls, you aie bettei off focusing on the funuamentals fiist. 0n.ce
you can successfully pull giils using these funuamentals, you can auu my tips anu
tactics to acceleiate the seuuction piocess so you can go home with a giil eveiy
night you go out!

Some methous lenu themselves bettei to the auuitions I will suggest foi getting
SNls. If you have not ieau anu applieu the funuamentals in at least one of the
following books, I highly suggest you uo.

J#"(AK F#< !"# F4*,LK This book is hanus uown the best book I have come acioss
foi the challenging aiena of night clubs, paities, bais, anu lounges. I have seen moie
guys acceleiate theii games using this book than any othei book on night game. In
shoit, if you want to leain how to game women piopeily in a night oi paity venue,
this woulu be the peifect piimei. I have iecently supplementeu this book with
Nehow: 1u Seconu Sexual Attiaction. MN..-, as it is calleu, ieveals the tiue seciets to
Comfort anu how "Attiaction uame" anu "Comfoit uame" occui simultaneously.
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J-C4: O),,#<.K This volume by E(P# 1>.<#5Q. Sovoy is gieat because it gives a
sequential mouel foi seuucing women fiom fiist appioach all the way to getting hei
in beu: Tbe Fmotionol Proqression HoJel. Follow this mouel step-by-step anu you
will easily constiuct a routine stock (foi moie of the best fielu-testeu ioutines fiom
the gieatest Chaiming Rogues" in the game, check out E(P# 1>.<#5Q. +()<4/#.
J-/)-, to see what othei expeits aie using successfully anu to help fill in youi own
stack) that leaus to hei natuially chasing you anu jumping into youi beu.

!"# 3<<*-:<4(/ R(2#K Foi those who want to leain how to attiact women
effoitlessly anu natuially, not to mention those guys who want to thiow away theii
ioutine "cheat-sheet", vin BiCorlos Attiaction Coue is the answei. A lot of the
concepts containeu in this eBook come uiiectly fiom this mastei of structureJ
noturol qome. 0sing his methous you can attiact anu seuuce women using nothing
moie than youi tiue peisonality in all situations.

S()=,# 0()* S-<4/CK This Book is a classic! Anu foi veiy goou ieasons. Theie is
piobably no book moie influential on seuuction theoiy than Bouble Youi Bating by
BoviJ BeAnqelo. If you aie just getting staiteu leaining how to meet anu attiact
women, Bouble Youi Bating sets <"# ;#*8#:< 8()/2-<4(/ 8(* =#:(54/C -
R"-*54/C +(C)#T@ This book coveis eveiything A-Z on what it takes to tiansfoim
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youi uating life into the one you have always uieameu of having. If you have ieau
notbinq else on how to get giils, REAB TBIS 0NE!

!"# 3*< (8 !"# U4:H);K Foi those who choose to leain visually, I highly
iecommenu The Ait of the Pickup to leain the founuational knowleuge necessaiy to
easily anu flawlessly attiact women. The piouuction value on this set is much
highei than youi aveiage viueo tiaining piogiam. If you have evei wanteu to see
examples of the type of mateiial Chaiming Rogues" aie actually using in the fielu, I
woulu iecommenu supplementing The Ait of the Pickup with The Ait of the Pickup:
Tactics & Techniques BvB-set.

!"# V/2#*C*()/2 S-<4/C 1#54/-*K BroJ P was iecently voteu the #1 Chaiming
Rogue" in the woilu anu with goou ieason: Be ueliveis the goous. This 12-uisc CB-
set coveis eveiything fiom appioaching, following up, getting physical, anu even
ielationship management. These CBs weie iecoiueu in fiont of a live auuience. I
have peisonally listeneu to the !"# V/2#*C*()/2 S-<4/C 1#54/-* multiple times
while uiiving anu each time I pick up new peails of wisuom to auu to my game.
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E(C4.<4:.
Even though theie aie many uiffeient anu complex mouels out theie, pick up is
actually quite simple anu can be bioken uown to the following 2 iules:

MD U(..#..4/C - *(:H&.(,42 =#,4#8 <"-< ."# 4. -<<*-:<#2 <( >() -/2 A-/<.
<( "-P# .#9 A4<" >()W

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-,,(A4/C .#9 <( /-<)*-,,> (::)*@

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The fiist thing you neeu to keep in minu is that women want sex moie than you uo.
This may be news to you, oi you may have heaiu this fiom men who get laiu
fiequently, but this neeus to ieally sink into the back of youi minu.

YP#*><"4/C A(5#/ 2( 4. 4/ 24*#:< :(**#,-<4(/ <( (=<-4/4/C .#9L

Women think about sex constantly, even when they think they'ie not thinking about
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it (e.g. they'ie thinking about fashion, which is meiely a means to acquiiing moie
sex). Women aie genetically piogiammeu to ciave sex anu though they may tell you
otheiwise, theii compulsion to obtain it is extiemely high.

{Still Bont believe me? ReoJ Noncy IriJoys "Hy Secret 6orJen" onJ Robin Bokers
"Sperm Wors". lf tbose books Jont convince you, notbinq l con soy ever will!)

Women aie also haiuwiieu to be "sociol climbers" anu as such aie always look foi
the next step up in the social hieiaichy. This is why they aie almost always willing to
have sex with a /#A guy that may allow hei bettei social status.

If a giil is in a nightclub oi bai, she is theie to get laiu.;#*4(2! She may say she is
theie to uance. She may say she is theie to uiink anu talk to fiienus. But the tiuth is
she coulu uo any of these things at home oi at hei fiienu's house.anu foi a lot
cheapei! She is at the bai all gussieu up because she wants to get pickeu up anu to
"-P# .#9 A4<" .(5#(/# /#AL

If she wanteu to have sex with someone she alieauy knew, she coulu just go thiough
hei phone anu finu someone. She coulu iesponu to any of the numbei of guys calling
oi texting hei offeiing to take hei out. But she is in a club. Theiefoie, even if she
uoesn't aumit it even to heiself, she is theie to be seuuceu by someone new. I am
going to teach you how to become this guy.
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In shoit: Women love sex onJ ore constontly lookinq for new quys to bove sex witb. I
have founu that ieminuing myself of this is sufficient to ensuie I am following iule
#1.

B//#* F-5#

Even though I have explaineu how women want sex moie than you uo, some guys
have a haiu time believing women want sex with them specifically. If you aie having
uifficulty attaining the unwaveiing belief that she is attiacteu to you, I iecommenu
woiking on youi inner qome.

lnner qome is a subject that falls outsiue the scope of this eBook. As I stateu in the
waining: This is Z[! a beginnei's guiue. If you aie still ieauing this, I assume you
alieauy possess a healthy level of confiuence. Bowevei, if you aie not piesently at
this level, I can iecommenu you check out the following piogiams to assist you in
attaining iock-soliu confiuence: 1) The Authentic Nan Piogiam; anu 2) Cailos
Xuma: 0ltimate Innei uame.

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F#<<4/C J/K+ V,<45-<#,> R(5#. S(A/ !( E(C4.<4:.@

If you can gain loqistics at the enu of the night, you can pull the SNl. If you can't, no
amount of game will make SNl possible. This is also why I nevei minu guys hitting
on giilfiienus I have biought with me to the club oi bai.hit on hei all you want, but
at the enu of the night, I contiol the logistics anu if anything you have only spikeu
hei emotions which she will latei tiansfei onto me in beu!

In oiuei to finu women with the logistics necessaiy foi SNl, you neeu to -,A->. =#
4/<#*-:<4/C A4<" A(5#/. Nost women will not fit the logistical ciiteiia necessaiy
to ensuie SNl, so you neeu to just get these giil's mobile numbeis anu move onto
the next giil. Alteinatively, she may meet tbe loqisticol criterio but get uiaggeu off by
hei fiienus to the uance flooi. You can still SNl hei by texting hei latei if you have
hei numbei. uet hei numbei eaily in the inteiaction.

Theie aie S main logistical questions you must finu out as eaily in the inteiaction as
possible:

\7"( -*# >() "#*# A4<"]^'(A 2( >() -,, H/(A #-:" (<"#*]_

The fiist two questions aie inteiielateu because women iaiely go to the bai alone
(Z(<#K If a woman IS at a bai alone, she is as stiong a canuiuate foi SNl as you can
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finu. Stait escalating the inteiaction!), so you neeu to finu out who is with hei anu
what the ielationship status between them is.

If she is at the bai with hei boyfiienu, it is going to be extiemely unlikely that you
will be able to SNl hei. It is not completely impossible to uo, but you'ie typically
much bettei off getting hei numbei anu continuing hei seuuction latei. Theie will be
bettei canuiuates available.

Even if a giil is theie on a "fiist uate" with a guy she isn't all that into, it is going to be
tiicky to aiiange the logistics to SNl hei. uet hei numbei uiscieetly anu move on.

Always get in the habit of asking how eveiyone in the gioup knows each othei. 0ften
the guys in the gioup aie just co-woikeis, fiienus, boyfiienus of one of youi taiget's
fiienus, oi just some guy who is unsuccessfully tiying to game youi taiget.

\'(A 242 >() C#< "#*#]_

You neeu to know what the tianspoitation situation is. If she uiove heiself theie,
you will be moie able to pull hei to youi home latei using the tactics outlineu in this
book.

If she came with a bunch of hei giilfiienus, which is often the case on qirls niqbt, it
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may be haiuei foi you to pull hei home that night {"We come toqetber, were leovinq
toqetber!"), especially if she uiove them. She may have to uiop hei fiienus off at
theii houses at the enu of the night oi they may juuge hei if she leaves with a guy
she just met at the bai insteau of leaving with them.

If she uiove them, the best way to hanule the logistics is to builu extieme attiaction
anu comfoit with hei anu aiiange to meet up with hei aftei she uiops hei fiienus
off. Bowevei, this is a iisky move because she is likely to lose stote while she is
uiopping hei fiienus off as she gets moie tiieu, alcoholuiugs stait weaiing off,
fiienus talk hei out of it on the uiive.

This is why it is impoitant to also attiact hei gioup of giil fiienus. uetting theii
suppoit will make it easiei to pull logistics latei. If they like you, they will not tiy to
talk hei out of meeting up with you latei while uiiving them home, oi in the case
that she ioue with one of hei fiienus to the venue, they won't minu hei leaving with
you insteau.

I like to get hei fiienu's peimission to hang out with my taiget latei that night. Say
something like, "Lisa anu I like each othei anu want to hang out latei tonight, you
guys aie welcome to join us, but is it cool with you if she comes with me."
Extenuing a "token invitotion" foi hei fiienus to join also helps alleviate theii safety
conceins foi theii fiienu anu auus plousible Jeniobility to oui intentions to hook up
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latei. Nost savvy women will not take you up on the offei to join anu will give theii
appioval of you hanging out if you have won them ovei.

Appioaching gioups with guys -/2 giils is gieat foi SNls. Theie is a much gieatei
likelihoou that she uiove heiself theie to meet up with hei fiienus anu co-woikeis
than if she is theie with only hei giilfiienus. uet in the habit of appioaching gioups
with both guys anu giils in it.


\7"-< -*# >()* ;,-/. 8(* ,-<#*]_

This is as the closest thing to a +1:$1; :-41 foi "Bo you wont to fuck loter?" a
Chaiming Rogue" can use.

Best-case scenaiio, she will ask you what you aie uoing latei. Tbis meons sbe wonts
to bonq out witb you loter. This only happens on occasion, but if she says this
consiuei it a majoi gieen light to escalate the situation anu get hei home ASAP.

Nost of the time she will say, "I uon't know" which is a neutial iesponse anu you
shoulu still continue gatheiing infoimation. If you play things iight she is piobably
open to hanging out latei when she says this, but she may have to be somewheie
latei anu you neeu to know this. This is wheie I like to stait piepping hei foi the pull
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latei.

Foi example, I like to pull giils back to my house to "smoke hookah" (Z(<#K It is
typically best to have some excuse foi biinging hei to youi housebesiues to have
sexto give hei plausible ueniability). I then stait talking about "this new hookah I
bought with an ice chambei just beneath the bowl anu it piouuces the coolest,
mellowest smoke I've evei hau". By gauging hei iesponse to this, I can get a ieau on
hei inteiest in hanging out latei that night.

Bave something pie-planneu as a ieason she shoulu come to youi house latei, be it a
hookah, to listen to this incieuible CB that will "change hei life" (I iecommenu
something ambient anu expeiimental like Siqur Rs, Tbe Twiliqbt Sinqers,
PortisbeoJ, oi Hoqwoi), oi to play this totally uoiky viueo game: Rock BonJ. Really
any ieason will woik, but you neeu to have something in place that you can stait
piepping hei with.

At this stage I woulun't invite hei to join you in any of these activities, but by
biinging it up, you will now have a bettei gauge as to hei inteiest anu ability to hang
out latei.

0ne thing to note, I like to biing up whatevei excuse I want to biing hei to the house
eaily in the inteiaction but not invite hei to uo it with me just yet. I uo this not only
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to plant the seeu so latei I can invite hei but to also gauge as to hei inteiest anu
ability to hang out latei.

It may seem a bit contiiveu if you biing all this up at the enu of the night anu tiy to
get hei to go. But if you have planteu the seeu in hei minu eaily, latei when you
actually invite hei, it will seem moie natuial foi hei to want to join you because you
haven't acteu neeuy by initially inviting hei when you biought it up. It also gives hei
the illusion that she has eaineu the piivilege to join you because you've enjoyeu
each othei's company foi so long.

0ccasionally she will say she has to go to beu eaily foi whatevei ieason. She may
have to get up eaily foi woik in the moining, she may have to go to class, she may be
the "eaily to beu, eaily to iise" type, oi she may just be saying she has to go to beu.
Tease hei foi saying she has to go to beu ("yeah you piobably S[ neeu some seiious
beauty iest, goofball"), but finu out hei ieasons. Anu that is why you neeu to ask the
next logistical question:

\7"-< <45# 2( >() "-P# <( C#< ); 4/ <"# 5(*/4/C]_

If she has to get up at 4:Su in the moining to go to woik, no amount of game is likely
to peisuaue hei to go home with you that night. The latei she has to get up the
following moining, the bettei.
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O,(A J# (* O,(A J# [)<L

Ny style of game is geaieu so that I uo not waste a lot of time on women that aie not
going to go anywheie. Listen, anyone who claims they have a system that
guaiantees you will get ony qirl, ony time is full of shit. This just isn't possible! Even
with giils who may legitimately want to hook up with you, theie may be logistical
pioblems that pievent it fiom happening (i.e. she has to wake up eaily, she is at the
club with hei new boyfiienu, etc.).

Theie aie few things woise when you aie tiying to obtain SNls than being stuck in
what Chaiming Rogue" Biau P iefeis to as the "2u-minute-go-nowheie-set". The
one thing woise than that is the inteiaction that you spenu youi entiie night on,
only to have hei go home with hei fiienus at the enu of the night while you go home
alone.

You aie much bettei off scieening foi logistics eaily in the set so you can know
which women aie octuol possibilities foi SNl. I also like to scieen foi women who
aie moie sexually auventuious because these women aie bettei canuiuates (I'm not
saying you can't SNl pruJisb, sexuolly reserveJ women, but they may take moie
woik fiaming).
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I like to go sexual but fliity iight up fiont. Tiue, this may blow you out with a lot of
women, but if uone piopeily, it will only blow you out with the kinu of giil who is
not as likely to SNl with you. If youi goal is SNl, why waste youi time on this type of
giil.

Foi bais that close at 2 a.m., you ieally neeu to be builuing ueep comfoit anu
connection with youi taiget by 12:Su a.m. to effectively pull off a stiong SNl. Bon't
waste youi time tiying to game giils that aien't going to be stiong canuiuates foi
SNl. uet to the bai eaily anu stait scieening foi SNl canuiuates immeuiately. Any
giil you'ie inteiesteu in that uoesn't meet the logistical ciiteiion, get hei numbei so
you can game hei latei, anu move on to the next giil.
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Let me pieface the following statement because it may sounu semi-misogynistic at
fiist glance. B ,(P# A(5#/L Theie aie few things moie fulfilling to me than to
expeiience a woman wiappeu in the thioes of ecstasy. I uo not juuge women foi
theii sexual behavioi anu get veiy iiiitateu by those living with victoiian Eia views
of female sexuality. I believe women (onJ men too) shoulu be able to exploie theii
sexuality to the fullest, fiee fiom juugment anu social iepeicussions.

Now, that I've saiu that, I will say this: 7(5#/ -*# C#/#<4:-,,> ;*(C*-55#2 <(
:*-P# "-P4/C - 24:H 4/.42# <"#5b-/> 24:HL This is why they love sex so much as
was pieviously mentioneu. A uick feels amazing insiue hei because the woman is
being iewaiueu with incieuible pleasuie foi fulfilling hei evolutionaiy uuty of
potentially passing on hei genetic coue by having a uick insiue heieven in an age
of biith-contiol wheie this may not be necessaiily veiy likely.

(Z(<#K Women aie also genetically haiuwiieu to collect as much semen insiue them
as they can. Bon't be stupiu. 3,A->. A#-* - :(/2(5, especially if you aie uoing a
lot of SNls. It amazes me how fiequently women will tiy to convince guys not to use
a conuomshe's on the pill oi it uoesn't feel as gooubut uon't listen to this.
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uetting a woman piegnant oi contiacting an STB can have life-alteiing effects that
can be pieventeu simply by weaiing a conuom.)

Now I know what you'ie thinking, "If that weie actually tiue then why AREN'T
women sleeping with eveiy guy they come acioss." Ny fiist iesponse to that is,
"You'u be suipiiseu how many women 3+Y sleeping with any guy when the logistics
aie iight." But the ieal answei to the question is this: While a woman is haiuwiieu
to ciave sex, she is also piogiammeu to have a set of objections to engaging in sex
that have been instilleu in hei thiough social conuitioning. This social conuitioning
is often stiongei than hei genetic haiuwiiing. These objections aie piesent to keep
hei safe (at least in hei minu).

So let's get into how I actually use all these iueas to get SNls. Fiist off, the iecuiiing
thought pattein going thiough my minu when I'm inteiacting with a woman is this:
"uiven that this woman wants to sleep with me (she is, aftei all, genetically haiu-
wiieu to want that), how can I get the logistics necessaiy to make this happen."

If you have askeu the above-mentioneu questions, anu she is a suitable canuiuate foi
SNl, then the next step is to inoculate hei against hei loqicol objections to sex. You
neeu to assist hei past the "consequences" she thinks she faces if she uoes have sex
with a guy.anu theie aie only a few of those!

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|Cieuit foi this list goes to seuuction expeit vin BiCailo anu the many women that
helpeu him figuie this list out.j

So what can we uo to inoculate hei against these "reol" objections. Although, I'm a
big pioponent of attiaction happening on a physicalemotional level, these
objections occui mainly on a "loqicol" level. As such, veibal game B1 effective against
them. You can subtly communicate to hei thiough stoiytelling anu such that she
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uoesn't neeu to woiiy about these consequences with you anu she will be left with
nothing but hei inheient uesiie to have sex.

The fiist 2 objections aie kinu of tiicky because they can leau you uown
conveisational thieaus that will tuin a woman off {poopy Jiopers = not sexy;
CblomyJio = /0) JLMNE). It's the 21st centuiy so women typically know about
piopei conuom use, so you can eithei just assume that they'ie awaie that these
consequences aie silly feais, oi, as I like to uo, tell a stoiy that subtly implies youi
iule on using conuoms (once oqoin, you Jo bove tbot rule riqbt!?).

I tell the stoiy of this ciazy giil who I kickeu out of my beu aftei she tiieu to {not-so)
subtly pull off the conuom I hau just baiely put on befoie I enteieu hei..I elaboiate
on this stoiy a bit, but the unueilying implication is that conuoms aie a N0ST!
That being saiu, let's tuin oui attention to the othei S objections anu the main
methous I utilize to neutialize them. The fiist I alieauy mentioneu-stoiytelling; the
seconu, playfully scieening hei foi these qualities.

1<(*><#,,4/C

Think of a stoiy foi each objection that will subtly uemonstiate that the objection
isn't a concein foi the two of you. Foi example, foi 0bjection #4, I like to talk about
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my ieligious sistei's fiienus anu how they can't seem to keep quiet about things:

"l meon sure, l bookeJ up witb one of tbem onJ it boppeneJ quite noturolly,
Jespite oll ber reliqious inJoctrinotion oqoinst bovinq sex. But wbot wos
stronqe, onJ l finJ tbis boppens quite often witb women, is o few Joys loter l
receiveJ o coll from onotber frienJ wbo opporently tolkeJ to tbe qirl l slept
witb obout our little tryst.onJ now SEF wonteJ to bonq out..onJ tben l qot
onotber coll onJ onotber.onJ tben l qet o coll from my sister soyinq bow
JisoppointeJ sbe is tbot oll ber frienJs wont stop tolkinq obout me onJ wbots
been boppeninq between me onJ ber frienJs.l JiJ enJ up bonqinq out witb o
lot of tbese qirls, but to tbis Joy my sister is reluctont brinq ony of qirl frienJs
orounJ me. l Jont unJerstonJ wby women bove to tell everyone tbey know
obout wbot boppens between tbe two of us. l meon, l Jont qo off tellinq even
my best frienJs obout tbis kinJ of tbinq.even tbouqb l miqbt bove 1 or 2 reolly
qooJ stories to tell *wink*"

So what I've uone with this stoiy is communicate to hei that what happens between
the two of us, stays between the two of us. 0ui ielationship will be uiscieet. I uon't
want to give you any moie examples because I want you to stait thinking about youi
0"/ stoiies you can tell that will inoculate hei against hei logical objections to
having sex. (If you aie unsuie if youi stoiies will woik, email me youi stoiies at
auonischaimingiogue.com anu I will give you peisonal feeuback on them.)
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U,->8), 1:*##/4/C

The othei way to scieen is what actually comes moie natuially foi me: I natuially
love to bantei. I love the back anu foith eneigy of pusb,pull between me anu a
woman so what I will uo is playfully uisqualify the giil foi having one of the tiaits
that woulu cause hei to object.

Y9-5;,#.K "Youre tbe type of qirl tbot woulJ foll in love witb me instontly onJ be
compinq out in my busbes peokinq into my winJow witb your comero oll niqbt, orent
you? No? 6ooJ, you better not be otberwise lJ bove to wolk riqbt now" (foi 0bjection
#S);

-0R-

"Youre one of tbose qirls tbot just uses quys onJ leoves tbem.l con tell by tbot look in
your eye youre qoinq to toke me bome, bove crozy sex witb me, onJ tben never coll me
oqoin.l Jont wont to feel cbeop like tbot." (foi 0bjection #S)

Again, come up with youi own ways to playfully accuse hei of uoing these things
anu she will know that these objections will not be the case with the two of you
unless she takes iesponsibility foi these objections (wbicb sbe wont).
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7(5#/ B/ +#,-<4(/."4;. [* J-**4-C#

What I am about to say may be contioveisial, but I am going to say it anyway. When
a woman tells me she has a boyfiienu oi husbanu, insiue my heau I heai hei zippei
going uown. Fiom expeiience, I have always hau an easiei time seuucing a woman
in a seiious, committeu ielationship than the ianuom "ovoiloble" giil in the bai.

I useu to think this was the case because I possesseu a stiongei skill-set foi
attiacting women. I thought it was because I hau an uncanny ability to blow out hei
boyfiienu oi husbanu with tools like Stiaw Nan Technique (I'm not going to auuiess
Stiaw Nan Technique in this eBook, but if you aie cuiious about how to ieally
hanule AN0us anu the boyfiienuhusbanu objection, ieau my blog post: Stiaw Nan
Technique Finally 0nveileu). But this is only pait of the ieason.

0pon fuithei ieflection of this tienu, I iealizeu that a giil in a "committeJ"
ielationship is in a natuial situation that automatically auuiess 0bjections #S, #4,
3ZS #S. Beie's how:

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[=a#:<4(/ fcK She has tolu you she is in a ielationship anu if you aie cool
about that fact, she can assume you'ie not going to uo something silly like
stalk hei oi call hei all the time afteiwaius.

[=a#:<4(/ fdK By accepting hei ielationship anu being cool with it, you
subcommunicate Jiscretion anu this is not only attiactive, but she will know
she uoesn't have to woiiy about youi iuining hei ieputation because you will
keep youi tryst seciet.

[=a#:<4(/ f`K She will not have to woiiy about the possibility of a futuie
ielationship, because she is alieauy in one. If in the futuie, she wants to have
a ielationship with you, she can cioss that biiuge when that time comes.

A final ieason foi why SNLs aie easiei is because by being accepting of hei
ielationship situation you aie almost impeiceptibly uemonstiating subtle
uominance that she has not expeiienceu in many guysespecially hei boyfiienu oi
husbanu. I can almost guaiantee he caies about othei men in hei life, but you uon't
give it any moie than passing acknowleugment.

So go aheau, be the kinu of guy she has ieau about in iomance novels anu embouy
hei fantasy of being swept up in the moment of passion she has secietly always
wanteu.
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0() 3*# B/ 3 1#*4(). +#,-<4(/."4;

This is anothei situation that may seem a bit countei-intuitive piima facie, but it
woiks foi similai ieasons as hei being in a ielationship:

[=a#:<4(/ fcK She uoesn't have to woiiy about you going ciazy foi hei too
quickly. You alieauy have an awesome giil that is exciting, beautiful, anu
gieat in the sack.

[=a#:<4(/ fdK If anything happens, she knows you'ie going to keep quiet
because you won't want to iisk being caught cheating on youi giilfiienu.

[=a#:<4(/ f`K No chance of losing a potential ielationship, because theie is
Z[ chance to begin with anu she knows this up fiont.

A final ieason why telling a giil you alieauy have an awesome giilfiienu acceleiates
SNLs, is what I call the "FlimiJote Ioctor". Yeais ago, I obseiveu the FlimiJote Ioctor
fiom watching the cheesy uating Tv show, FlimiJote. The piemise of the show was
that 4 giils (oi 4 guys, uepenuing upon the episoue) weie placeu on a uate with 1
guy (oi 1 giil, uepenuing on the episoueI founu the 4 giil1 guy episoues fai moie
enteitaining) anu each iounu one giil was "elimiJoteJ". The show woulu enu with
one guy anu one giil baseu on whom he likeu best at the enu of the show.
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It was always amusing to me because the women woulu fight anu uo the ciaziest
shit to impiess the guy, no mattei how big of a tool the guy tiuly was. Women aie
natuially competitive with each othei anu if nothing else, they uon't want to lose to
anothei giil. It was not uncommon foi a giil who was eliminateu to tiash-talk the
same guy she was just moments ago tiying hei haiuest to impiess.
g-:-<4(/.

It is no big seciet that people on vacation tenu to hook up moie fiequently than they
might otheiwise. I think theie is something to be saiu about why. I live in quite
possibly the biggest auult touiist uestination in the countiy, Las vegas. I can say
that this is quite possibly one of the easiest cities in the woilu to get laiu, if you
know what you'ie uoing.

A huge contiibuting factoi to this is the constant flow of touiists heie. A common
theme in iomance novels is the plight of two people that shaie a connection but fate
places them in a situation wheie they aie sepaiateu foi any numbei of ieasons the
authoi can imagine. When you oi hei meet while eithei one oi both of you aie on
vacation you cieate this same uynamic. Exciting, foi suie, but also tiagic. This
bitteisweet mix is incieuibly alluiing anu ueeply ingiaineu in the female psyche.

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Fuithei, when you oi hei meet while on vacation, this situation natuially alleviates
objections #S, #4, 3ZS #S mentioneu above. She uoesn't have to woiiy about you
stalking hei afteiwaius because you will not be aiounu each othei aftei anu she
uoesn't have to woiiy as much about losing social value in fiont of hei fiienus
because they may nevei finu out. To top it all off she uoesn't have to woiiy about the
losing the option of having ielationship with you because that won't even be
possible uue to the uistance between you.

Anu let's not foiget the fact that one of you is leaving soon will justify acting on youi
uesiies to hook up quickly. If you oi hei is on vacation, seize the oppoitunity
because it is natuially the peifect situation to pull a SNl.

F4*,. J#< [/,4/#

Although most of this book has been spent talking about women met in night venues
like bais anu clubs, I have iecently begun playing with online game. I have founu
that women met ovei the Inteinet on sites like myspoce anu focebook aie easy to
close iapiuly if you sexually fiame them thiough online messages anu texts.

I have a neai 1uu% close iate on women I meet online (who aie attiactive when I
meet them in ieal life.I quickly uitch those who I meet that aie not up to pai
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women tenu to post theii most flatteiing pics on theii piofiles so sometimes "what
you see, is Z[! what you get"), anu almost eveiy close happens within a few houis
of meeting in ieal life.

It is veiy easy to sexually fiame women online anu if you can intiigue them enough
to get them qualifying themselves to you, these can be amongst the easiest women
to SNL.

I use online game to supplement my night game, uay game, anu social ciicle game
Z[! as a substitute foi going out anu uoing appioaches. The thing is, if you can't
close a giil in ieal life, you will not be able to uo it with women online. You may be
able to convince a giil you aie a high value guy ovei the Inteinet, but if you aie a
cieepy Inteinet luikei when you actually meet up, she will not sleep with you.

I also uon't spenu veiy much time uoing online game. I have too much othei stuff
going on in my life (anu so shoulu you). I iecommenu spenuing no moie than 1S-2u
minutes pei uay on online game.

The cool thing about online game is you can cast a much wiuei net. uiils you might
nevei see in a bai (because they uon't like going to bais, uon't have the time to go
because of woik oi school, oi because they aie not quite olu enough to legally entei
one18 to 21 yeai olu women) almost assuieuly have a myspoce oi focebook
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piofile.

This book is not intenueu to teach online game, but I will be tackling the specifics of
my bianu of online game that almost assuieuly enus in SNl in an upcoming volume
(so keep checking foi upuates on ChaimingRogue.com). In the meantime, you can
check out excellent piogiams like Winuow Shopping Foi Women anu 0nline Pickup
Seciets foi moie infoimation on how to meet anu attiact women online.
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Sexual tension is a iequisite foi any SNl. Theie has been a lot of uiscussion as to the
meaning of sexual tension anu what causes it. I have ueviseu a uefinition anu
methou foi cieating it that seems to be functional in all my attempts foi SNl.

Sexual tension is, simply put, o beiqbteneJ sense of controlleJ orousol in tbe obsence
of overt sexuol intent (Cieuit: vin BiCailo) -0R- sexuolly cborqeJ conversotion witb o
neutrol internol stote.

Expeiience uemonstiates this to be tiue. Evei hung aiounu someone who was in an
intensely bau moou anu eventually founu youiself feeling lousy too. Inteinal states
aie contoqious, foi lack of a bettei woiu. Anu women aie moie susceptible to
picking up inteinal states than men because they aie wiieu to peiceive all levels of
communication, especially the non-veibal ones.

As stateu pieviously, women love anu ciave sex. If you cannot give hei sexual
satisfaction, you aie woithless to hei on this piimal level. But you can
subcommunicate that you can give hei the sexual expeiiences she ciaves by
piesenting a contiolleu sexual aiousal while having neutial conveisation.
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A tiick I uo while inteiacting with a woman is to talk about noimal topics, while
imagining the back of hei heau thiobbing up anu uown as she gives me the most
amazing blow job of my life. She will peiceive this on a subconscious level anu
become aiouseu heiself. Boing this also has an affect on youi innei game. It's haiu
to feel anything but confiuent anu alpha as you aie imagining hei sucking you off
like she has nevei wanteu anything else in hei life as bauly.

The coiollaiy to the above means to gain sexual tension is also tiue. If you aie going
to go sexual in woius with hei, you absolutely must be in a neutial state inteinally.
If she peiceives you to be sexually chaigeu inteinally as you uiscuss sexual topics,
she will ueem you cieepy, sexually neeuy, oi just a plain, uespicable peiv.

A lot of my game incluues going sexual oi saying sexual things. The aveiage guy
uoing this woulu just cieep women out, but this is because when they aie saying anu
uoing these things, they aie also inteinally aiouseu. When I go sexual, my inteinal
state is neutial.

This uemonstiates that I have contiol ovei my sexuality. Nost guys become aiouseu
as a ieaction, not as a choice. Foi me anu othei Chaiming Rogues", -*().-, 4. -
:"(4:#L When women peiceive this ability (anu she most ceitainly will!), it builus
intense sexual tension.
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She will think, "Bow can this guy be so inteinally unaffecteu, when he is obviously
talking veiy sexual with me. Be must be the Chaiming Rogue" I have been looking
foi!"

h#-,().> U,(<,4/#.

Anothei impoitant aspect to builuing sexual tension is to intiouuce what aie
iefeiieu to as }eolousy Plotlines. If you aie following the iule I tolu you eailiei, you
will be constantly inteiacting with uiffeient women. }ealousy Plotlines aie cieateu
when a woman sees anothei woman inteiesteu in you. A Suie-fiie way to guaiantee
sexual tension is to biing a few giils that aie inteiesteu in you into the same
inteiaction.

If you have 2 oi S giils vying foi youi attention, things will escalate veiy iapiuly
with the giil of youi choice (typically the moie attiactive one who has the logistics
necessaiy foi SNl.Remembei, even the giils that aie not canuiuates foi SNl can aiu
you in seuucing the ones who aie, anu you can get the non-canuiuates into beu
latei!).

Always biing othei giils you have met thioughout the night into youi inteiaction
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with SNl canuiuates to fuel sexual tension. This is the "elimiJote foctor" I talkeu
about eailiei in action. 0se it to massively fuel sexual tension.

3*=4<*-*> O()/2-*4#.

Sexual tension is built upon the bounuaiies between what you uesiie anu what is
cuiiently the case. Eailiei I iefeiieu to talking neutial but being in a contiolleu
aiouseu state. This cieates the bounuaiy necessaiy to fuel sexual tension.

Anothei way to builu sexual tension is to cieate aibitiaiy bounuaiies. You can uo
this by saying things such as, "lts too boJ were in o bor riqbt now, becouse if we
werent l woulJ tbrow you up oqoinst tbot woll, onJ stort mokinq out witb you
possionotely.but were in o bor so no cbonce!" Remembei to maintain a neutial
inteinal state while ueliveiing this soit of statement.

uet into the habit of cieating aibitiaiy bounuaiies to why you shoulun't get sexual
anu the sexual tension will become so stiong she can't help but get ieally exciteu
anu tuineu on.

[<"#* Y9-5;,#.K

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"lts too boJ we just met, becouse otberwise we woulJ probobly sneok off into
tbe neorest botbroom, bove wilJ, possionote sex, onJ tben come bock out bere,
enjoy our cocktoils, onJ bove witty conversotion os if notbinq boppeneJ.but
we just met, so tbots not possible."

"lt woulJ be totolly ruJe of me to imoqine you onJ l bove tbe kinkiest sex ever
since were just borely qettinq to know eocb otber, so l Jefinitely will N0T be
Joinq tbot ot oll..Now wbot were you soyinq oqoin?"

Come up with as many of youi own ways to cieate aibitiaiy bounuaiies anu peppei
youi conveisation with them. Notice how easily sexual tension is cieateu when you
make these comments.
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1#9)-, 6*-54/C

Sexual fiaming is the piocess of cieating a scenaiio wheie the woman can feel fiee
to behave sexually without feeling any negative emotions typically associateu with
uoing so. Piopeily uone, sexual fiaming will cause a woman to feel goou about hei
uecision to get sexual with you veiy quickly. Theie aie a vaiiety of tools you can use
in oiuei to sexually fiame a woman, anu they will be uiscusseu in this section.

R(C/4<4P# S4..(/-/:#

To unueistanu Sexual Fiaming, a woiking unueistanuing of the theoiy of Coqnitive
Bissononce is necessaiy. Coqnitive Bissononce is couseJ wben o person bolJs two or
more conflictinq or controJictory beliefs obout tbe self. When this is expeiienceu, it
causes a peison so much uiscomfoit that they will typically iationalize one belief
away. Foi example, a woman you have appioacheu anu attiacteu suuuenly finus
heiself wanting to go to beu with you, but this conflicts with hei iuea of being a goou
giil oi at least not o slut.

(Z(<#K The teim "slut" is a constiuct cieateu by women to use as a weapon to
lowei othei women's social value. I have no misogynistic intentions in using this
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woiu. As pieviously stateu, I believe women shoulu be fiee to engage in any sexual
acts she so uesiies without juugment.)

She then iationalizes that going home with you was "meant to be" oi "fate" anu
theiefoie it is peimissible foi hei to act on hei impulses. Bei cognitive uissonance
has been iemoveu.

Cognitive Bissonance is also why piopei escalation is so effective. If she is
complying with each of youi escalations she will often possess two conflicting
beliefs: 1) Things aie iapiuly getting moie anu moie physical anu intimate; anu 2)
only an "easy" oi "slutty" giil woulu allow iapiu escalations to happen with someone
they uon't ieally like. In oiuei to abet hei cognitive uissonance, she will iationalize
to heiself that she must ieally like you because she is uefinitely not easy oi a slut.

Sexual Fiaming, again, is a set of tools that can help ielieve a woman's Cognitive
Bissonance. The following tools aie by no means all-inclusive (I uon't think eveiy
tool that coulu be useu has yet been couifieu) but aie examples of what I use to
Sexually Fiame a woman infielu. Feel fiee to email me with youi tactics foi uoing so
at auonischaimingiogue.com.

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6*-5#. !( 1#< 6(* J/K

You will want to set the following fiames on eveiy giil you plan to SNl. The
beautiful thing is that women alieauy ARE all of these things, you just neeu to give
them the necessaiy peimission to behave this way. Sexual fiames you want to set
incluue:

- Sexuolly oqqressive wben sbe is witb someone sbe reolly likes or is
ottrocteJ to
- AJventurous
- Spontoneous
- 6oes for wbot sbe wonts,Boes wbot sbe feels like Joinq
- 6reot in beJ
- Keeps secrets
- Eos o nouqbty siJe sbe wisbes sbe coulJ oct on more often
- Boes tbe croziest tbinqs wben sbe knows sbe wont be juJqeJ for it
- Irequently increJibly borny
- 0pen to new experiences
- loves tbe romonce onJ excitement of tbinqs boppeninq quickly, Wont
to be swept off ber feet
- 0ninbibiteJ
- Croves new sexuol experiences
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This is by no means a uefinitive list, but it is moie than a sufficient amount of fiames
to use in youi effoits to SNl hei. Also, you must set the fiame foi youiself that 8-3
#$1 %-; O34'91%;#< =*1% &; :-91+ ;- # =-9#%2+ +1F3#< ,1*#?&-$.

\7# S(/Q< R()/<_

0ne aspect of female psychology can be best explaineu by using the metaphoi of the
cai uealeiship. It is common knowleuge that a cai loses most of its "value" the
moment it is uiiven off the uealeiship lot in possession of its new puichasei.
Women also tenu to view theii sexuality in these teims. In a woman's minu, she
loses value foi eveiy /#A guy she sleeps with, but aftei she has slept with him she is
fiee to sleep with him as many times as she likes without incuiiing any moie "value
loss". (Z(<#K I am not asseiting that a woman octuolly loses value foi each new guy
she sleeps with, but ieflecting a woman's inteinal psychology of the situation.)

In oiuei to mointoin ber volue, women will attempt to keep theii numbei of /#A
encounteis low. Bowevei, to ielieve cognitive uissonance, women will backwaius
iationalize many sexual encounteis as not counting foi any numbei of ieasons: e.q.
"l wos Jrunk tbot niqbt, so it Joesnt count", "l wos on tbe rebounJ, so it Joesnt count",
"l met bim in veqos, so it Joesnt count", etc.
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A Chaiming Rogue" will fiame the sexual encountei as "not counting" foi any
ieason he can concoct, so she uoesn't have to uo it latei. The funny thing is almost
any excuse will woik. I have useu the excuse, "You bove o busbonJ, so we woulJnt
count," anu hau it woik biilliantly. In fact, the moie illogical the ieason is, the bettei.
You'ie not tiying to logically convince hei of this. Rathei, you aie giving hei the
excuse she is going to be looking foi latei anyway. This shows that you aie clueu in
to women's psychology. Let hei know befoiehanu that you aie savvy to women's
psychology anu give hei the ieason she will be seaiching foi as to why you uon't
count.

U-..4P# 3::#;<-/:#^R(5;,4-/:#

Thioughout any inteiaction with a woman, I am constantly builuing possive
occeptonce anu complionce. I uo this by saying things such as, "If you uon't stop
being so cute, I will be foiceu to hit on you latei." Nost of the time, she will just say
"0K!" if you have built any attiaction with hei. But even if she says, "No. Bon't uo
that!" anu still continues inteiacting with you she has passively complieu with youi
suggestion.

In fact, shoit of hei just getting up anu walking away, she has accepteu youi fiame.
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Statements like this aie best useu if you say you aie going to uo it latei, e.q. "lf you
keep tolkinq to me, lm qoinq to be forceJ to try to qet you into beJ loter." You'ie
saying that you'ie not tiying to get hei into beu now but at some unuiscloseu time in
the futuie you will be tiying to get hei into beu. If she continues the inteiaction, she
has passively accepteu this iole.

In all youi inteiactions with women, spiinkle in as many statements as you can that
get hei to passively comply anu accept that you will be sleeping with each othei
latei. As long as she uoesn't enu the inteiaction she has accepteu anu complieu with
youi suggestions anu will feel like she was an active paiticipant in making the
seuuction happen.


O,-5# 3,, 6,4*<-<4(/. [/ '#*

I am a notoiious fliit. I can't help it. Something about being with a woman that I am
attiacteu to makes it neai impossible foi me to Z[! fliit with hei. But I always
blame these fliitations on the giil. You can take this ieally fai too. I will often say
stuff like, "Eere l om tryinq to bove o normol conversotion witb you, but l keep
sneokinq qlonces ot your tits. lts your foult! Stop mokinq me Jo tbis!" As mentioneu
above, make suie youi inteinal state is neutial when saying things like this.
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[<"#* Y9-5;,#.K

"l sboulJ reolly qo bome onJ qet some work Jone, but sometbinq obout you just
mokes me wont to stoy bere onJ flirt witb you oll niqbt. Stop Joinq tbot to
me.if we keep tbis up l will never occomplisb onytbinq more in life becouse you
will keep mokinq me flirt witb you."

"You moke me tbink sucb Jirty tbouqbts. Bo you bove some kinJ of vooJoo
powers? Stop Joinq tbot to me, you nouqbty qirl."

"l Jont know wbot it is obout you, but you keep mokinq me imoqine our future
toqetber Joinq silly tbinqs like qoinq qrocery sboppinq toqetber onJ belpinq
you pick out sexy linqerie ot victorios Secret onJ stuff. Stop Joinq tbot to me. l
Jont wont to be tbinkinq tbot kinJ of stuff riqbt now."

Come up with youi own examples of this. I finu the best fliitations like this aiise
spontaneously in the inteiaction. Fliit with hei, but always blame hei foi eveiy
fliitation as if you aie the victim in all of this.
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0ne of the easiest ways to fiame a giil is to simply qualify hei on any of the above
mentioneu things, e.q. "lookinq ot you ot foce volue you look like o reolly nice qirl, but
l Jetect o nouqbty siJe." (she will almost always stait giggling in iecognition).

-0R-

"l tenJ to qet olonq best witb oJventurous women, ore you oJventurous? Tell me obout
your lost oJventure." (This oveitly asks foi hei to qualify heiself on this level).

-0R-

"lts funny becouse l Jont tbink lve ever met o qirl wbo JiJnt cloim sbe qove tbe best
blow job in tbe worlJ, but most qirls qive just overoqe blow jobs.." (this one will
compel hei to qualify heiself as giving amazing oial sex).

\7"> 3*# g#C-. F4*,. 1( 6*4#/2,>]_

0ne of my favoiite ways to initiate a conveisation is by asking questions that fiame
a woman to behave just the way you want hei to behave. Beie is an example of one
of my favoiite openeis: "l wont to know. wby.. qirls.in veqos (substitute this
with whatevei city you happen to be in) aie soooo...fuckinq..IRlFNBlY?"
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Not only uoes this almost always get the giils talking, but it fiames them to behave
just as you have uiiecteu. I have yet to get the iesponse, "We'ie N0T fiienuly."
When I initiate a conveisation like this, the giils always iesponu in a fiienuly
mannei.

You can also use the same piinciple to fiame them in othei ways, e.q. "l know bow
you qirls reolly ore, you like to pretenJ like youre oll prim onJ proper, but just below
tbe surfoce, youre oll o buncb of nouqbty born-Joqs." -0R- "l know bow you qirls
ore.your minJs ore AlWAYS in tbe qutter."

Saying things like this woik because theie is a pait of #P#*> woman that actually B1
this way. Saying these things not only confiims that you unueistanu that she has
these siues, but also makes it easiei foi hei to behave this way.

\0() E((H h).< E4H#j@_

A simple way to fiame a giil is to tell hei she looks like oi ieminus you of someone
who has the qualities you want to fiame hei as having, e.q. "You look just like me of
my frienJ, Toro. Toro is so cool. Sbe is olwoys up for tryinq new tbinqs ot tbe Jrop of o
bot, sbe con keep o secret, onJ boy Joes sbe bove o nouqbty siJe."
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Now when you say this kinu of stuff, you haven't saiu that the giil you aie talking to
actually possesses these qualities but since you have compaieu hei to someone she
ieminus you of, hei unconscious minu will accept that she must also have those
qualities anu will stait to confoim to the uesciiption.

1<*-A=#**> 64#,2.

uames anu such can also be useu to fiame women sexually. A now infamous
example of this is the "Strowberry IielJs" Routine. I fiist leaineu this little ioutine
yeais ago (I believe it was fiom Chaiming Rogue", HoniocEiqb) anu initially
thought it was kinu of silly. But aftei seeing it useu iepeateuly to gieat success by
foimei Love System's Coach, Coptoin}ock, I changeu my minu about it. Captain}ack
is notoiious foi his ability to pull SNls, anu this seemingly silly ioutine is one of the
games he ioutinely uses to fiame his taigets as uninhibiteu sexually-chaigeu
women.

Tell hei she seems fun anu you want to give hei the Strowberry IielJs Test. She will
become veiy cuiious anu say "ok". The ioutine goes as follows:

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "So you'ie walking along anu you come acioss a
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stiawbeiiy fielu. Bow high is the fence aiounu it."

!-*C#<: "0mmm..6 feet."

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "Bmm...." [look ot ber like you ore sizinq ber up]

!-*C#<: "What. Tell me!"

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "0k, you sneak insiue. Bow many stiawbeiiies uo you
eat."

!-*C#<: Looks like she is thinking..."8"

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "8! Seiiously!. Wow! 0h my gou! I woulu nevei be able
to take you home to mom!"

!-*C#<: "What! WBAT!." [Sbe will typicolly stort powinq ot you bere.]

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "0k, last question. What about the faimei."

!-*C#<: "Be uoesn't have to know."

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R"-*54/C +(C)#T: [Sbokes beoJ onJ looks omozeJ] "Wow!"

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "0k, heie's what it all means. The fence means you have
high goals anu high aspiiations. The stiawbeiiies stanu foi youi sexual
appetite." [Sbokes beoJ oqoin] "You'ie sooooo baaaaau! Nost people say one
oi two! You want 8! wow!"

[At tbis point sbe will stort qiqqlinq uncontrollobly.]

R"-*54/C +(C)#T: "The faimei means you uon't caie about the sexual
situation as long as no one finus out"

[Sbe will oqoin stort qiqqlinq onJ squeolinq.]

At this point youi job is uone. The fiames have been set anu she loves you foi it.
}ust iemembei, hei actual iesponses uon't mattei. 0se this "test" to fiame hei as an
uninhibiteu sexual woman eveiy time, i.e. sbe soys sbe eots one strowberry, you soy
most qirls Jont eot ony, -0R- sbe soys tbe former stonJs tbere onJ wotcbes ber eot tbe
strowberries, you soy sbe Joesnt core wbot onyone tbinks obout ber in sexuol
situotions, even if tbey B0 cotcb ber in tbe oct.

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!"# 1-2 1<(*>

This stoiy is oiiginally an ancient }apanese tale that was auapteu by legenuaiy
Chaiming Rogue", Style (aka Neil Strouss, authoi of the New Yoik Times Bestselling
Book, "The uame"), as a stoiy to tell giils. I've founu that when I tell women this
stoiy, it causes them to instinctively become moie eagei to puisue the oppoitunity
of being with you. Auapt this stoiy to youi paiticulai situation anu tell it to youi
taiget anu she will natuially stait wanting to take the oppoitunity to puisue you
moie iapiuly.


Tbe story qoes os follows:

0nce upon a time in Las vegas (cbonqe tbis onJ tbe streets to wbotever city
you boppen to be in) theie liveu a boy. Be woke up one uay anu ueciueu to
walk uown The Stiip to the Wynn Casino to play pokei, heauing Noith.

At the veiy same moment, theie was a beautiful, young giil who wanteu to go
Winuow-shopping the Niiacle Nile Foium in Planet Bollywoou Casino. She
began walking theie, heauing South. As luck.oi fate.woulu have it, they
weie both walking on the same siue of The Stiip.

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As they walkeu closei anu closei towaius each othei, they became in viewing
uistance of each othei. Each noticeu the othei, as people often uo. As each
uiew closei, they got this tingly feeling insiue that theie was something veiy
special about the othei one.

It tuins out, they'ie feelings weie iight. This boy was the 1uu% peifect boy
foi hei. Be was compatible with hei in each anu eveiy way, as if they weie
boin to be togethei. She was also the 1uu% peifect giil foi him in eveiy
single way. The chances of two people meeting who aie completely 1uu%
peifect foi each othei is next to nil, but it is these special moments that
stoiies aie wiitten about.

They watcheu each othei as they walkeu closei anu closei towaius each
othei. Soon they weie 2u feet away, then 1u feet away, then S, then 2 then 1.
With each step they coulu feel theii heaits beating fastei anu fastei. Anu as
they passeu each othei, they felt a suige of emotions in theii tummies as if
they weie iiuing the iollei coastei at the New Yoik, New Yoik.

Anu as they passeu each othei, the boy knew he hau uone something wiong.
So he stoppeu in his tiacks anu tuineu aiounu. Stiangely enough, she hau
uone the exact same thing anu theii eyes met, anu they laugheu.

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A conveisation was stiuck, awkwaiu a bit at fiist because they uiun't yet
know each othei, but befoie long they weie conveising as if they hau known
each othei foi yeais, like they weie meant to know each othei. The coulu feel
an incieuible connection giowing between them. They talkeu anu talkeu anu
befoie you know it, the sun was going uown anu the lights of The Stiip weie
going up.

Anu that's when uoubt staiteu to cioss theii minus.

"I feel kinua stiange about meeting you on The Stiip like this.It's just not
noimal!"

The giil nouueu in sau agieement. "I have an iuea," she saiu, "Why uon't we
go oui sepaiate ways anu if fate will have us cioss paths again, we will get
maiiieu that veiy uay."

The boy ieluctantly agieeu anu they ietuineu to theii homes. The next uay,
they each fully expecteu to see each othei again. The giil spent extia time
getting hei make up just iight. The boy put on his best clothes. They each
bookeu extia appointments anu ian eiianus all uay to give fate as many
oppoitunities foi them to iun into each othei. But they uiun't see each othei.

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The next week was spent in a similai mannei, but they still uiun't meet again.
A month passeu.then a yeai. Anu they staiteu to iaiely think of each othei.
They hau given up hope on ieuniting anu began to uate othei people. They
met people of vaiying uegiees of compatibility. Some 2S%, some Su%, anu
even as high as 7S%, but nevei the peifect match that they coulu have
enjoyeu.

But they each got maiiieu to uecent matches, hau kius, anu as the yeais
passeu by, they foigot about that special moment on The Stiip. Anu they
giew olu, anu theii spouses passeu away. 0ne yeai, a paiticulaily nasty bug
was going aiounu, anu he caught it.

Be went to the hospital to be tieateu. Be was iecoveiing nicely when he
ueciueu to go foi a stioll aiounu the hospital. So he got up anu pusheu his Iv
bag uown the hall heauing Noith. At that moment, he saw a woman
appioaching him, Southbounu. It was the same giil, he hau met yeais ago,
but now he uiun't iecognize hei.

They appioacheu each othei getting closei anu closei, just as they hau that
fateful uay on The Stiip, anu they felt those same stiange stiiiings insiue
them, but this time they coulun't unueistanu why. Anu they just passeu each
othei without looking back. This was the last time they woulu evei see each
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othei.

0k, so this stoiy is a bit heavy. It can only ieally be useu if theie has been a lot of
attiaction anu comfoit built. When you tell this to a giil, she will almost always say,
"Wow..that's a sau stoiy!" To which you ieply, "I uon't think it's a sau stoiy at all. I
think it is just a tale to ieminu us that fate gives us amazing oppoitunities fiom time
to time anu you have to just take them. 0nce fate gives you what you've always
wanteu, you can't just tuin it uown oi push it away anu assume fate will give it to
you again latei. That woulu be like buying the winning lotteiy ticket anu iipping it
up thinking you can just win it again latei. You have to take the oppoitunity when it
piesents itself!"

Aftei this stoiy, you neeu to tiansition into something light, fun, anu playful oi it will
get way too intense. But this stoiy piopeily tolu has always cieateu an intense
feeling of uigency anu connection that is impoitant in getting SNls.

S#8-),< J(P#.

If you aie evei seemingly stuck oi uon't know wheie to leau the inteiaction next, I
have S uefault moves. 1) Nake up some iiuiculous iole-play that the two of you
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shoulu engage in; 2) Qualify hei; anu S) Novei hei aiounu the venue.

+(,#&;,->.K I like to cieate scenaiios wheie we aie alieauy togethei oi maiiieu anu
I'm bieaking up with hei oi uivoicing hei foi any ieason, e.g. "Tbots it lm Jivorcinq
you. l cont believe l come bome tbot Joy onJ couqbt you bonqinq our pool boy, Poblo.
Sure l know you know obout my mony trysts witb our moiJ, vivienne, but you were
involveJ witb most of tbose. You con keep tbe Rolls Royce but l om keepinq tbe estote
in Honte Corlo."

Role-plays spike hei emotions, spaik hei imagination, anu can often get hei to
pioject heiself into the futuie wheie you anu hei have been togethei anu alieauy
expeiienceu having a ielationship. The above heavily implies that you have alieauy
hau sex multiple times so hei unconscious minu will be ok with you engaging in
youi ioutine act again. PL0S, iole-plays aie fun, especially foi women. uet in the
habit of making up iiuiculous scenaiios that you can act out, especially ones that
contain an implieu sexual ielationship.

In auuition to iole-plays, you shoulu always give the giil a pet name. Couples tenu
to uo this aftei they've been togethei awhile, but if you can give hei one eaily in the
inteiaction, it will have the some of the same affect as iole-plays. It's peifectly
acceptable to iecycle the same pet names ovei anu ovei with uiffeient giils; I
ceitainly uo! Names I use incluue: Princess, 6oofboll, Bork-foce, Huffin, Huncbkin,
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Sweet-stuff, Sossy-Ass, Suqor, anu venus. Bowevei, I am not afiaiu to use any othei
name that comes to minu when I see hei anu talk to hei foi a bit. The moie silly oi
cutesy the name, the bettei.

The name venus, fiom the list above, cieates the illusion of a ielationship because it
iefeiences a famous couple: venus anu Auonis. If you have a name that can be tieu
into a famous couple, such as BroJ, you can call hei Anqelino (if Biau Pitt anu
Angelina }olie aie still togethei at the time of youi using this) as a pet name anu it
will set the fiame that you aie two have been in a ielationship foi awhile.

Bon't have a name that can be tieu into a famous couple. You can always steal them.
You can call each othei "Bonnie & Clyue", "Romeo & }uliet", "Baibie & Ken", etc. }ust
use a little moie iole-playing to cieate the names.

An example of this is my Bonnie & ClyJe Routine: "You anu I woulu have so much
fun togethei. We shoulu totally steal a shitty, olu gieen Buick anu take it on a cioss
countiy ciime spieeBonnie & Clyue styleanu we will steal all the }elly Shoes foi
you anu put them in the tiunk, cuz I know you love them so much! Anu then we will
steal all soits of canneu meat piouucts anu give them to the pooi, cuz I suie as hell
am not eating that ciap! Besiues, we will be too busy uiinking champagne anu
eating stiawbeiiies off each othei's nakeu bouies."

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This kinu of iole-playing fiames youi inteiaction as that of a couple. Now you can
iefei to each othei as Bonnie & Clyue the iest of the night, anu it will be like you've
been togethei foi yeais. (Z(<#: This one also auus in a mischievous element that
will also cause hei to want to get into othei "tiouble" latei in the inteiaction.)

i)-,48> '#*K Any time you can get a giil qualifying heiself to you, she has to
backwaius iationalize to heiself that it must be because she likes you. You will
piobably nevei see a woman tiying to uemonstiate to a vagiant on the siue of the
ioau what makes hei special. She only uoes this when she likes the peison she is
uoing this foi anu wants to gain his appioval. Even if a woman uoesn't initially like
you, if you can get hei to stait qualifying heiself to you, she will be foiceu to
backwaius iationalize this behavioi as being because she must ieally like you.

In oiuei to get SNls, I like to get hei to qualify heiself on being veiy sexual, e.g. "You
seem like o totol pruJe, lll bet you loy tbere like o JeoJ fisb in beJ." -0R- "You know
its funny, lve never met o qirl tbot JiJnt soy sbe qove tbe best blowjob in town, onJ l
Jo like blow jobs, but tbe soJ trutb is, most qirls ore merely -. ot it."

These soits of statements ueliveieu when she is piopeily attiacteu will compel hei
to qualify heiself sexually to you. Which will cause hei to 1) think of what sex with
you will be like anu 2) backwaius iationalize that she must ieally want to have sex
with you because she woulun't bothei qualifying heiself sexually to a guy she uiun't
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want to get into beu with.

These kinus of qualifications aie veiy big hoops foi hei to jump thiough, so it is
often best to use them aftei you have qualifieu hei on othei things like, "what she
has going foi hei moie than hei looks", oi "Why aie you special." But useu when
theie is a little chaige between you, these sexual qualifications will kick things into
high geai. Always iesponu to hei attempts to sexually qualify heiself by saying, "l
will be tbe juJqe of tbot!" This exhibits uominance anu heavily implies that you will
in fact be getting sexual.

J(P# '#*K I will explain this one fuithei in the following chaptei on Escalation, but
I have founu that if I can move a giil 2 oi S times thioughout the venue, I can almost
assuieuly SNl hei if the othei logistics aie in play. Noving a woman iequiies you to
uemonstiate uominance anu uone piopeily gets moie Kino compliance. uet in the
habit of moving hei thioughout the venue seveial times thioughout the night. It also
cieates a time-uistoition effect in hei minu. She will think back on all the uiffeient
places you have been thioughout the night anu it will make it seem like she has
known you a lot longei than you actually have. You have so many memoiies of you
in uiffeient places, aftei all. When she follows these leaus, she will be moie
acquiescent to follow youi leau to youi house latei. Noving a giil is also an excellent
test foi attiaction; if she's not attiacteu, she won't move with you.
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Y.:-,-<4(/

You cannot get SNl (oi any lay foi that mattei) if you aie not escalating; anu you aie
always bettei off ovei-escalating than unuei-escalating. 0nuei escalation tenus to
leau hei to believe you aie timiu, not uominant, lack confiuence, oi peihaps not
sexually attiacteu to hei. These aie not goou aujectives to have attacheu to you if
you aie tiying to seuuce hei.

When escalating, always eii on the siue of ovei-escalating. Will you get blown out
by ovei-escalating on occasion. YES! But often the giils that uo blow you out aie not
goou canuiuates foi SNl. Noieovei, if you aie escalating you aie moie than likely
exhibiting waim uominance, confiuence, anu that you aie sexually attiacteu to hei.
Even if she iebuffs you in the moment, this uisplay is often enough to keep hei
inteiesteu foi when you escalate latei.

Kino (Kino is just jaigon foi touching anu physical compliance) escalation in the
venue is necessaiy anu I iecommenu you stait touching giils as soon as you stait
talking to them. At some point, you will have to touch the giil if you aie going to get
hei into beu. The uangei in waiting to uo so is that it sets off alaims in hei heau that
say, "What changeu." If you've gone Su minutes without touching hei, she will most
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ceitainly wonuei why all of a suuuen you aie touching hei. So make suie you stait
kino-ing the giils immeuiately (Z(<#K Nehow PuieKino" is peifect foi opening with
kino; leain it in Nehow: uet The uiil!).

You obviously can't stait by giabbing hei tits. Theie is a piogiession you neeu to
follow fiom least intiusive (like elbows anu shouluei) anu eventually enuing on
most intiusive (any sexual touching). Also, note that you uo not want to escalate to
sexual touching in the venue.

Any kino escalation moie than uiscieet hanu-holuing anu a few special moves I will
uiscuss latei have a tenuency to kill sexual tension in the club. Follow the auvice
below anu you will piopeily escalate eveiy time.

The inteiesting thing about Kino Escalation is that you can actually seuuce a woman
using no othei tools. Piopei Kino Escalation uemonstiates waim uominance anu
compels hei to comply with youi uiiection. These elements aie essential in any
seuuction.

As an expeiiment, I set out to use nothing but Kino Escalation to seuuce a woman.
I'm talking no ioutines, no stanuaiu game, a).< /#)<*-, <-,H -/2 k4/( Y.:-,-<4(/. I
met this cute biunette fiom Lonuon in Los Angeles on "Boliuay" while walking
uown Bollywoou Blvu. I appioacheu anu hau to keep ieminuing myself that I was
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only woiking on Kino Escalation anu that I woulu use no othei tactics. Suie enough,
aftei a few houis, I hau successfully isolateu hei to my ioom (at a iatty hostel, no
less) anu hau sex with hei.All using only Kino Escalation.

The best place to leain about Kino Escalation is fiom vin BiCailo's Kino Escalation
Lauuei. Since it is somewhat uifficult to wiite about, I have pioviueu a link to one of
vin BiCorlos instiuctois, 0rleons, explaining the intiicacies of the BiCorlo
Fscolotion loJJer 'Y+Y@

Y.:-,-<4(/ O> J(P#5#/<

As pieviously stateu, Kino is about compliance anu uominance, both tiaits women
aie haiuwiieu to be attiacteu to. So anothei foim of escalation is meiely moving
hei thioughout the venue, foi the same ieason: it exhibits compliance anu
uominance. As I saiu in the Befoult Hoves Section, if you can move a woman 2 to S
times thioughout out the venue, you can moie than likely move hei home as well@

S(/l< J-H# [)< B/ !"# g#/)#

Nany amateui lauy's men piiue themselves on being able to make out with giils in a
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bai oi nightclub. Suie this is initially pietty giatifying, but I am not into making out
with giils in a bai, I am into getting laiu. If you aie as well, I stiongly auvise against
making out with giils in the bai if you want SNl.

You might be thinking, "Well, if she's willing to make out with me heie in the bai,
then suiely she will want to continue this latei anu want to come home anu climb
into beu with me, iight." 0ccasionally, you may be able to make this happen, but
moie often than not, this will kill the sexual tension anu uemonstiate to hei (anu
most likely hei fiienus) a lack of uiscietion. By making out with hei in public, she
knows that hei ieputation will always be at stake because you aie not uiscieet. In
shoit, you aie uemonstiating that objection #4 B1 something she will have to woiiy
about if she gets involveu with you.

Anothei pioblem is making out with a giil in a bai pioviues too much valiuation up
fiont. Women L0vE being valiuateu in Nightclubs; valiuation is one of hei piimaiy
conscious ieasons foi being in a bai. If you give hei too much obvious valiuation, she
may feel she has alieauy "won the game", anu not be open to SNl latei. She will
simply move onto the next guy that will pump hei full of valiuation. Bon't be the guy
that just gets club make-outs, be the guy that takes hei home that night!

She also loses plausible ueniability in hei minu if she makes out at club. She knows
wheie it is heauing.anu so uo hei fiienus!
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!-H#-A->.

Aftei all this talk about escalation, it may seem funny that I now biing this up, but
the escalation isn't the most impoitant pait of the seuuction. What's moie
impoitant is the Takeaway.

Takeaways aie what actually fuel the seuuction. You must uo seveial of them in
each inteiaction to get a woman chasing you. Reau my aiticle, The Impoitance 0f
The Takeaway, foi a moie in uepth look at why you N0ST use takeaways with the
giil.

Theie aie seveial types of takeaways you can uo. You can let go of hei while Kino
escalating, you can back-tuin hei when she says something you uon't like, you can
leave to "go talk to youi fiienus" oi to "go to the bathioom", oi you can stop telling a
stoiy she's ieally into heaiing until she tells you a joke, anu the list goes on.

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1;#:4-, k4/( Y.:-,-<4(/ J(P#.

Theie aie a few Kino moves that aie a Chaiming Rogue's" seciet weapons to being
able to subtly tuin a woman on anu get hei thinking sexually.anu you can get away
with uoing them in the venue! You will not be able to uo them iight up fiont, but
within a few minutes in the inteiaction if you have been piopeily escalating, they
will seem innocent, yet they will give hei a sexual chaige.

MD '-4* U),,4/CK Pulling a woman's haii fiom the nape of hei neck exhibits a
stiong uominance anu ieleases pleasuie hoimones in hei biain, even if it
might huit just a bit. To uo this, just ieach youi hanu up the back of hei
spine to the base of hei scalp, giab a goou amount of haii as close to the
scalp as possible, anu pull. (Z(<#: A lot of ieally attiactive women weai
haii extensions anu will not appieciate it if you iip them out because they
aie expensive.if you feel tiny beau-like objects in hei haii, B0N'T P0LL
BER BAIR). A goou haii pull with stiong eye contact will subconsciously
feel fai moie intimate than a kiss to hei.anu yet by uoing so, you have
tuineu hei on moie anu avoiueu the iookie blunuei of making out with
hei in the bai oi club.

XD 3.. 15-:H4/CK Theie is something about smacking a woman's ass that
gets hei exciteu. Peihaps it is because it causes an age iegiession to a
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time wheie a moie uominant man uisciplineu hei, oi maybe theie aie just
neives wiieu uiiectly to a woman's pussy, I'm not ieally suie. But I have
founu that if you stait smacking hei ass, she cannot help but to get ieally
tuineu on. I uevelopeu a way to uo this in a fun playful way. It's calleu
the "slop sbot".

Aftei she has qualifieu heiself anu things aie moving towaius SNl, tell
hei she neeus a slop sbot. Take hei to the bai anu oiuei any soit of giily
shot (lemon uiop, puiple hootei, kamikazi, etc). Befoie she gets the uiink
tell hei she has to benu ovei the bai as much as she can while she takes
the shot. Right aftei she shoots the uiink, slap hei ass haiu anu yell "slap
shot!" This woiks best when she is unsuie what to expect, but the
moment she feels youi hanu fiimly on hei ass, she will get ieally exciteu
anu stait thinking about sex with you.
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ZEU&O-.#2 1#2):<4(/

NLP-baseu seuuction is such a vast topic that I coulun't possibly teach it completely
anu piopeily in this eBook. I will, howevei, say that it can be useu foi some
astounuing iesults. In fact, most expeiienceu Chaiming Rogues" that aie ioutinely
getting SNls aie secietly using NLP to vaiying extents.

The leaining cuive on NLP-baseu seuuction is extiemely steep anu it only woiks in
ceitain contexts anu with ceitain women. But if you aie ieauy to supeichaige youi
seuuction poweis, I highly iecommenu auuing in some NLP once you can
consistently pull without using it.

The best souice I have founu to leain NLP-baseu is still Ross }effiies' Speeu
Seuuction. uet his newly ieviseu Speeu Seuuction S.u home stuuy couise to leain
the cutting euge of NLP-baseu seuuction cuiiently available.

Anothei excellent souice foi a moie "eJqy" style of NLP-baseu seuuction is vince
Kelvin. Be has a neai enuless list of tiaining piogiams incluuing my
iecommenuations of The Seuuction Nasteiy Bome Tiaining System BvBs anu the
Powei Pickup CB Seiies.
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Piopei timing, vocal inflection anu stiong subcommunications aie necessaiy to use
NLP effectively, but since I have biought this subject up I will shaie a few examples
of how NLP can be useu to seuuce women quickly.

R-;<-4/h-:HQ. +4/C 64/C#* +()<4/#

Captain}ack's mouifieu veision of the Ring Fingei Routine contains a little bit of NLP
in it. 0se this aftei you have attiaction anu aie builuing comfoit with youi giil.

Fiist, giab hei hanu, look at it cuiiously, anu say, "Bmmm..inteiesting..", then
thiow hei hanu away. She will almost always say, "What. What's inteiesting!."
When she uoes continue as follows:

R"-*54/C +(C)#TK "0b notbinq.You con just tell o lot of tbinqs obout o
person by wbot finqers tbey weor rinqs on."

|At this point you look away anu go silent. Boing so will bait hei to invest in
going uown this conveisational thieauj.

!-*C#<K "Tell me! Tell me!" oi "Wbot Jo mine meon???"
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It uoesn't ieally mattei what fingeis you use to mean ceitain things since this is a
stiuctuie set up to fiame youi taiget in the iueal light foi a SNl, but Coptoin}ock
likes to keep the iings the same foi all giils. Since most giils will have at least a
couple of iings on you can mouify this to woik foi just about any giil. Coptoin}ock
uses the pinky fingei to be the "keeps secrets" fingei anu the iight iing fingei to be
the "sexuolly oqqressive wben you ore witb someone you like" fingei. (The left iing
fingei means she's "sexuolly submissive"she uiu get maiiieu aftei all). Stait
looking at what fingeis women aie weaiing iings on anu you may be suipiiseu how
often they aie on these fingeis anyway.

R"-*54/C +(C)#TK "Weorinq o rinq on your pinky meons you con keep o
secret. Tbot's wby people pinky sweor onJ wby quys in tbe mofio weor pinky
rinqs."

If she is not weaiing a pink iing just say "Since youre not weorinq o rinq on
your pinky, we'll bove to pinky sweor before we sbore ony Jeep, Jork secrets..."
anu lock pinkies with hei.

R"-*54/C +(C)#TK |Look at hei othei iing, which is veiy often on hei iight
iing fingei oi one of hei inuex fingeis. Whichevei fingei it is on point to it.j
"Tbis one meons tbot wben you 7&%4 +-91-%1 8-3 #$1 $1#<<8 #;;$#:;14 ;-
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|subtly point at youiself with youi thumb oi inuex fingei to anchoi youiself
as "the someone she is ieally attiacteu to"j you 711< #,+-<3;1<8 :-97-$;#,<1
'1;;&%' +1F3#<<8 #''$1++&?1 =&;* ;*&+ G1$+-%" |point to youiself againj.

Bue to social conuitioning, women often have it in theii heaus that guys only want
piim anu piopei women. She may stait tiying to qualify heiself as not being a slut.
Bo youiself a favoi anu uo not let hei say anything aftei you uelivei this pait of the
ioutine oi else you aie going to have to uo some seiious comfoit woik latei. Bei
silence aftei this will implicitly confiim the suggestion you maue. Immeuiately
continue.

R"-*54/C +(C)#TK "AnJ wben someone weors o rinq on tbis finqer |twisting
the iing aiounu youi fingeimake suie you switch it to a uiffeient fingei
than the ones you have useu on hei if necessaiy) it meons tbis person |subtly
point to youiselfj is N0T juJqmentol. Tbey Jon't bove oll of tbe bonq-ups obout
life, love, onJ relotionsbips tbot so mony people Jo."

With all of these anchois in place you can now subtly twist the iing on youi fingei
eveiy time sexual comments aie mentioneu in youi conveisation anu she will be
unconsciously ieminueu that you aie not juugmental of hei.

[Tbis routine olso belps to reinforce your inoculotions tbot you bove moJe oqoinst
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0bjection #4 mentioneJ obove.]

35=4C)4<4#.

Ambiquities aie a tool useu in NLP that can easily be leaineu anu put into use. A
simple categoiy of ambiguities to use is Bouble-FntenJres.



Examples of Bouble-Entenuies incluue:

- "You know bow l like it."
- "You wont to qo Jown tbere?"
- "lets Jo it."
- "l wont you to come witb me."
- "l con tell youre o worm person Jeep insiJe."
- "lm qoinq to qive it to you."
- "Well come toqetber."
- "Youre o fost qirl."
- "l love bow you open to me."
- "You con feel it Jeep insiJe you."
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- "l know bow boJ you wont it."

The biain piocesses all meanings of woius anu phiases anu then chooses which is
most appiopiiate anu biings that meaning to youi conscious awaieness.
0nconsciously, howevei, ALL meanings aie piocesseu anu unueistoou. As
mentioneu in the section on Sexuol Tension you want to use these phiases in
conveisations that aie N0T sexual in natuie to builu sexual tension.

Foi example, while builuing comfoit you may ieveal how she believes that she hau
to giow up befoie she was ieauy to (an excellent colu ieau to give a woman, by the
way, because most women believe this to be tiue about themselves). You can then
iesponu, "You can feel it ueep insiue you, can't you." Theie is nothing sexual about
this conveisational thieau, but hei unconscious minu will still piocess the sexual
meaning.

Tiauitionally in NLP, ambiguities aie maikeu out by loweiing youi voice slightly
when using them. Peisonally, I uon't think this is completely necessaiy anu the
emphasis may make things moie obvious anu you will come off sounuing sleazy.

Stait peppeiing youi conveisation with as many of these Bouble-Entenuies as you
can. uet in the habit of using them wheie appiopiiate in conveisation anu she will
unconsciously feel the sexual tension builuing natuially.
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1#9)-,,> R"-*C#2 g(:-=),-*>

The above piinciple also woiks on woius that have a sexual oi sensual chaige to
them. Woius such as:

- Wet
- Thiust
- In anu out
- 0p anu uown
- Coming
- Baiu
- Aiouse
- Pleasuie
- Piick
- Beep
- Thiobbing
- Lick
- Besiie
- Ecstasy
- Touch
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An example of how these can be useu in an innocent stoiy is:

"l wos ot 0niversol StuJios in 0rlonJo lost summer onJ it wos roininq oll Joy. l
meon it wos reolly cominq Jown. lt wos so wet! So l wos wolkinq orounJ
sookinq, wben l sow tbis roller cooster tbot l oll of o suJJen boJ tbis intense
Jesire to riJe. But os l wos woitinq in line l coulJ feel tbis sensotion Jeep insiJe
me, tbis kinJ of tinqly feelinq. Tbe feelinq of botb Jonqer onJ sofety cominq
toqetber ot tbe some time. l wos lookinq ot tbis buqe tbinq onJ l wos initiolly
scoreJ, but l knew it wos sofe to riJe tbis becouse tbe riJe woulJ be closeJ
Jown otberwise. Anywoy, l qot on, onJ to my surprise tbis roller cooster wos
not like most roller coosters wbere tberes tbis lonq, slow climb to tbe top. Tbis
one tbrust forworJ so borJ it neorly took my breotb owoy, onJ tbe next tbinq l
knew l wos qoinq Jown screominq in ecstosy os my beort wos beotinq foster
onJ foster.."

I think you get the iuea. }ust use woius anu uesciiptions that coulu be inteipieteu as
sexual in contexts that aie obviously not anu hei unconscious will still piocess the
sexual meanings.
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R,(.4/C !-:<4:.

All iight, so you've founu a giil who meets the logistical iequiiements, you've
attiacteu hei, inoculateu hei against hei logical objections, fiameu hei sexually, anu
have escalateu as much as you can in the club, it's time to get hei out of the bai anu
into youi beu.

The fiist thing you neeu to have in oiuei is an excuse to take hei to youi house that
pioviues plausible ueniability (Remembei how you planteu the seeu foi this eaily in
the inteiaction.). Few women will say yes to a uiiect offei to take hei back to youi
place foi sex, but they will go to smoke hookah, oi listen to a CB, oi whatevei. uive
hei one of these ieasons, anu peihaps ovei-sell it a bit (e.g. "I want you to heai this
CB by The Twilight Singeis. It is the most chill, but intoxicating CB I've evei listeneu
to.It's actually been peimanently stuck in my CB playei foi 6 months now.It will
change youi life!").

\E# R"-<#-)_

Anothei thing I like to uo anu many othei expeit seuuceis have uone is to give theii
place a nickname. Ny cuiient nickname is "le Cboteou". Insteau of inviting a
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woman back to youi place, an invitation that women almost instinctually oi
habitually feel compelleu to ueny, you invite hei to "Le Chateau". "lts tbis bot ofter-
bours spot wbere tbe booze pours freely oll niqbt (you uo have booze at youi house
uon't you. If not, get someeven if you uon't peisonally uiink alcohol!), tbey ploy
tbe obsolute best music onJ people bove been known to Jonce till tbe sun comes up,
you con even bowl tbere (to justify this, I have the Nintenuo Wii Bowling), onJ if you
reolly bebove, tbey will even let you slip into tbe bot-tub (I have a hot tub, but you
coulu just tuin youi bath tub into the "hot-tub" if you neeueu to)."

Come up with a nickname foi youi house anu come up with a uesciiption of it that
sounus like it coulu be an aftei houis spot.

Bon't go oveiboaiu anu make it sounu too much like it is anothei club. The key to
this is to make it sounu fun anu pioviue hei with just enough plausible ueniability to
go. You can even latei tell hei, "le Cboteou is just my place, goofball." By this point,
hei instinctual uige to ueny the oppoitunity will be abetteu.

3P(42 \!"# O()/:#_

A lot of seuuction mouels auvocate what is calleu "Tbe Bounce". Insteau of taking
hei home, you take hei to a late night uinei oi something. I uon't minu a little bai-
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hopping as a bounce if theie aie some chill bais in the veiy neai vicinity because hei
eneigy will stay up because you aie still paitying. But I think it is a waste to go to
places like a late night uinei. What often happens is she gets tiieu, she gets full fiom
eating, she steps out of fun, paity moue, anu any alcohol oi uiugs in hei system stait
weaiing off anu she begins to ciash. All of these things will kill hei uesiie to hook up
that night. So skip the bounce anu just get hei to youi place.

Anothei way to uo this is to go foi the folse bounce. A lot of cities have the ofterbours
club anu you can bounce hei to one of these, but they uon't tenu to open foi an
houi oi so aftei the iegulai clubs close uown anu you neeu to biing youi own booze,
typically. So you'ie going to neeu to stop by youi house anu giab the necessaiy
booze anu wait the time till the venue opens. voila! She is in youi house.anu I
wonuei what you two coulu uo to kill the time. Execute piopeily anu you won't
even have to go to the aftei-houis, unless you ieally want to!

\1H(AL_

A gieat tactic I have useu seveial times, I leaineu fiom }efffy of Real Social Bynamics.
I'm unsuie of the spelling, so beai with me on that. The tactic is calleu "Skow!", a
contiaction foi "let's go" saiu all as a monosyllabic woiu while uiagging hei towaius
the exit. So you've tolu hei about playing Rock Banu (oi whatevei ieason you have
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concocteu foi going to youi place) anu the time is iight to leave, just giab hei by the
aim anu yell "Skow!" anu stait heauing foi the uooi.

This exhibits the type of waim uominance that women finu incieuibly attiactive anu
if you've uone this while hei buying tempeiatuie is high enough, she will be
compelleu to go with you iight then. Anu uon't be afiaiu to say "Skow!" multiple
times on youi way out to ieconfiim youi uominance anu that you aie leaving.

1#<<4/C V; 3 J##< V; 6(* E-<#*


!"4. 4. - <-:<4: B -5 (/,> C4P4/C 4/ <"# 73<< ?1$+&-% -7 ;*1 ,--.@ A majoiity of
methous encouiage you to aim foi what is known as a B2 oi TimebriJqe. This is just
jaigon foi setting up a meetinq oi Jote in the futuie.
This is an acceptable stiategy foi methous that uon't focus on getting SNls anu foi
eventually getting the women who uon't fit the logistical ciiteiia foi getting the SNl.
But theie is a fai moie poweiful use foi this tactic.
Beie's how you want to use this tactic to ensuie the SNl. You want to piep hei foi a
futuie meet up wheie you will be uoing exactly what you plan on using as an excuse
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to pull hei to youi house. Then set an octuol time anu place you aie going to uo this
togethei.
0nce again, I like to use the example of smoking hookah. I will piep hei by
mentioning the hookah, then latei set up a time on a futuie uate when we aie going
to get togethei anu uo it. It's typically best to say that a bunch of youi fiienus like to
get togethei anu uo it on weekuay like Tuesuay oi Weunesuay. This makes it low-
piessuie anu easiei foi hei to agiee to the futuie meet up.
You'ie piobably wonueiing, \'(A 4. <"4. - <-:<4: 8(* C#<<4/C J/K]_ Well, the seciet
is, I've only octuolly gone on the futuie meet up a veiy small numbei of times. What
you aie uoing is alleviating hei feai that if she hooks up with you too quickly, she
won't evei see you again.
If you have the futuie meet up fiimly set up, she will not expeiience this concein.
Then all you have to uo is pull hei back to youi place to uo exactly what you set up
to uo in the futuie that night. !"4. 4. <"# <*)# ;(A#* (8 .#<<4/C ); <"# 8)<)*#
5##< );L You will notice a uiastically highei compliance iate in getting a woman
back to youi place by just implementing this stiategy effectively.


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The best thing to uo when actually leaving the venue is to just have the giil tell hei
fiienus she is leaving foi any ieason she can make up (assuming theie aie no
tianspoitation pioblems foi the iest of the giils if she leaves). Then you can just
leave fiom the venue.

Sometimes, howevei, it may be necessaiy to get the fiienus peimission to take hei
away. If you have iun soliu game, hei fiienus alieauy like you. I like to piep them
eaily on by saying things like, "Your frienJ onJ l like eocb otber.Are you cool witb
tbot?" This tenus to foice them to be complicit with hei seuuction. So latei in the
night when you anu youi giil aie leaving, you can just say, "Eey, is it cool if l kiJnop,
Breonne. We ore qoinq to qo qet some coffee to sober us up." Because they like you
anu have alieauy consenteu that they uon't minu that you like each othei, they will
feel obligateu to say it's cool with them.

Nake suie you tell them you aie going to uo something innocent. This uemonstiates
savvy anu fuithei uemonstiates that 0bjection #4 is not going to be an issue with
you.

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0ften times a woman will not just go with you to youi house so you neeu to uo what
is iefeiieu to as baby-stepping. Say she iebuffs youi invitation to go to youi house
anu smoke hookah, you can get hei to uo some inteimeuiaiy steps to eventually get
you to youi place.

I know most guys love to get as close of a paiking spot to the venue as possible, but I
auvise against this foi a few ieasons. The fiist being that the time spent walking to
the sets can be useu to make "waim-up" appioaches. Ny fiist few appioaches of the
night tenu to be a bit less than smooth but aftei the fiist few, the awkwaiuness
subsiues. I just neeu to get into talkative, appioach moue. Why not uo this BEF0RE
you entei the venue.

But the moie impoitant ieason is that at the enu of the night I will tell my taiget that
I paikeu fai away anu can she give me a iiue to my cai. Almost no giil will iefuse
this iequest anu she will uiive you to youi cai.

When you get to youi cai, you can then say, "You know I'm a little uiunk iight now, I
uon't know if I shoulu be uiiving iight now. Can you just give me a iiue home so I
uon't have to get a B0I tonight. I live ieally close." Say you live close even if you live
fai away. I know of expeit seuuceis that use this line even when they live 4S
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minutes away. Bistance is a ielative thing anyway. A 4S-minute uiive is close
compaieu to a cioss-countiy expeuition. 0ften the fuithei away you actually live,
the bettei, she will be moie inclineu to want to stay awhile if she has uiiven a half
houi to get to youi place.

Some guys may be woiiieu about leaving theii cai, but you'ie going to be getting
laiu, who caies about youi cai!. uet it in the moining oi aftei you've hookeu up you
can have youi giil uiive you back to it that same night, because you have now
sobeieu up!

While in the cai iiue it is impoitant to keep spiking hei emotions anu hei buying
tempeiatuie. Awkwaiu silences on the cai iiue will kill the moou anu she will just
uiop you off anu leave. In the silence, she will stait thinking loqicolly about what
she is about to uo, anu this may cause hei to not want to hook up because she wants
to pieseive the self-image that she is N0T a slut. To avoiu this, all you have to uo is
keep the inteiaction fun anu playful uuiing the entiie uiive anu she will uefinitely be
exciteu to come in anu uo whatevei excuse you've concocteu to get hei insiue.

\BQ5 Z(< F(4/C !( 1,##; 74<" 0()_

You will often heai women uttei these woius befoie she leaves the club with you oi
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when you get hei in youi house. The only iesponse you neeu, \B =#,4#P# >()
=#,4#P# <"-<@_

Beie's the ueal, "I am N0T going to sleep with you" is pietty equivalent of hei saying
"I 3J going to sleep with you." This is because by utteiing this she is uemonstiating
that ."# 4. 4/ 8-:< <"4/H4/C -=()< .,##;4/C A4<" >()@ A woman often feels like she
neeus to say these things so that you uon't view hei as a slut, to pioviue hei with
plausible ueniability ("I tolu him I wasn't going to sleep with him"), anu to ielieve
heiself of the iesponsibility of the actions that aie ceitainly going to happen. Any
time you heai these woius, smile on the insiue, you aie almost assuieuly getting
laiu.

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A question I like to ask is, "Wbot woulJ bove to boppen in orJer for us to bove sex?"
This question gets hei to aiu in hei own seuuction. Any objections she feels like she
has to having sex with you, she will tell you how to get aiounu it. uet hei talking
about this anu take caie of any objections she may cuiiently possess. Anu you'll be
suipiiseu how often a woman will say, "notbinq, lets qo" -0R- "We woulJ neeJ to be
somewbere privote."

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Anothei sneaky thing about this question is that it implies that you 3+Y going to
have sex. You just neeu to get iiu of any last objections to sex befoie it happens.

1"# 7-/<. !( '((H V;

I have a neai 1uu% "close rote" when I get a giil to my house aftei meeting them that
veiy same night. If a giil is coming to youi house to aftei a night at the club, it is
because ."# A-/<. <( "((H );L U,-4/ -/2 .45;,#@ uiils uon't ieally tenu to go to
some guys house in the miuule of the night aftei paitying to just hang out. She just
uoesn't want to be iesponsible foi the sex. This is why you have to give hei a
uiffeient ieason why you aie going to youi house. This gives hei the plausible
ueniability she iequiies to avoiu feeling like she is a slut.

I'm not going to give you any actual mechanics in this eBook foi how to actually seal
the ueal, because I think it is completely stiaightfoiwaiu. }ust keep leauing the
inteiaction until it occuis. Foi an example I use to close giils, ieau my aiticle,
F)4<-* '#*( F#<. J# E-42@

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Some women aie moie comfoitable having sex in theii own homes. Although it is
often moie uifficult to ensuie SNl at hei place, because you won't be able to contiol
all logistical factois in hei home (you aie not mastei of this uomain), you uefinitely
shoulu pioceeu anyway. You've put all this effoit in alieauy, may as well follow
thiough. You aie still uominant anu can leau the inteiaction to sex.

If you get to hei house anu she just wants to be uioppeu off anu go in alone, uon't let
this happen. Tell hei you neeu to use the bathioom anu then you aie in hei place.
Be uominant, have hei give you the toui, anu tell hei you ieally neeu a uiink oi
something. Keep moving things foiwaiu anu make things happen.

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So you went out, inteiacteu with as many women as you possibly coulu, scieeneu
foi logistics, but now the night is ovei anu you uiun't pull any women back to youi
place. Is it game ovei.
Z(L
Seveial yeais ago I was watching the movie, RoJqer BoJqer, when the iuea foi this
tactic came to me. The piotagonist of the film hau a tactic he useu to finu giils foi
SNl. Be woulu go to a bai iight befoie last call anu allow @;*1 71#$ -7 ;*1 19G;8
#G#$;91%;A to uo the woik foi him.
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I agiee with the piinciple, but uisagiee with the tactic. What you will often see at
bais anu clubs iight befoie anu iight aftei last call is what I iefei to affectionately as
the "lost Coll Scromble". Eveiyone kicks theii attempts to hook up into tuibo-moue
because they aie just about out of time.
Fiist off: S(/Q< =# <"4. C)>L Leave the bai BEF0RE last call to avoiu ieeking of the
uespeiation the lost Coll Scromble will bestow upon anyone still making attempts to
hook up that night. Tiust me on this. These attempts aie moie often than not futile.
You will most likely just look uespeiate anu pathetic, -/2 hei fiienus will cock-block
even haiuei than noimal (+#5#5=#*: "We came togethei.anu we aie O3+; #,-3;
;- <1#?1 togethei!").
O)<j
The piinciple still holus tiue. Because women love sex anu that is why they aie
going to the bai in the fiist place. Theie tiuly IS a \8#-* (8 <"# #5;<> -;-*<5#/<_.
No woman wants to be the "unuesiieu" woman that went home to feeu hei cat anu
go to beu alone. 1"# A-/<. <( =# <"# A(5-/ "-P4/C ;(*/&.<-* .#9 A4<" <"#
-A#.(5# C)> ."# a).< 5#<@
So bow to Jeol witb tbis conunJrum?
Remembei how I tolu you to get 3EE the numbeis foi giils who uiun't meet the
logistical iequiiements. Well now you'ie going to use them.
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What you'ie going to uo is senu a text saying "Bey sexy (oi if you gave hei a
nickname, use that insteau). What aie you uoing."
If she iesponus with anything to the effect of "Nothing" oi "just at home", 4/P4<# "#*
(P#*L It will piobably amaze you how often she will take you up on this offei now
that she is home alone, wishing she was with someone, ANB hei fiienus aie no
longei theie to juuge hei oi block hei.
(Z(<#K You can also use this tactic to pull off a "Jouble-beoJer" if you aie feeling
extia-fiisky that night. }ust uo the above aftei the giil you initially biought home
leaves youi place. I once uiu this S times in one night in a viagia-fueleu fienzy.)







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Now you have the tools necessaiy to pull SNls consistently. I can't stiess enough
how impoitant it is to actually C#< ()< <"#*# -/2 .<-*< ;)<<4/C <"4. 4/<( -:<4(/L
Stait integiating the tools, tactics, anu techniques I have taught you in this book into
eveiy inteiaction
.
Keep this infoimation in the back of youi minu eveiy time you inteiact with women.
Focus on one oi two of the techniques each time you go until you gain masteiy ovei
it. Then go on to anothei tactic. Soon you, too, will be taking a woman home with
you eveiy night you step foot in a bai oi nightclub.

Feel fiee to email me youi questions, success stoiies, oi any comments oi auuitions
you woulu like to make about this eBook. I can be ieacheu at
auonischaimingiogue.com. I look foiwaiu to heaiing fiom you anu goou luck.

Adoni s
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