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Breakers – Let’s hope we do this again in 2009 change the lives of parents for the better!
It’s official – we’ve broken records for The start of the year has been extremely
the amount of NCT media coverage. In busy, as we push for positive change on
the last six months of 2008 there was a a number of issues.
whopping 1,000 items of coverage on TV, We’ve been particularly prominent in
radio and in print – including 70 items in campaigning for a maternity services
the national newspapers. Mentions in the plan in Northern Ireland – England,
Mirror, Daily Mail, Independent and even Scotland and Wales have all devised
the Financial Times covered a wide range long-term strategies for the years ahead
of subjects such as home births, lack of NHS antenatal classes but a lack of focus at central governmental level has meant
and breastfeeding octuplets. Northern Ireland’s agenda has been neglected. The NCT urges
The early part of this year saw French Minister Rachida Dati its members to call for change both locally and nationally.
return to work only five days after having a caesarean birth. The Meanwhile, the Breastfeeding Manifesto Coalition is getting
move prompted a volley of press coverage, and Mary Newburn, ready to start a new campaign to give better support for mums
NCT’s Head of Research & Information was quoted in several to breastfeed their babies in public. Look out for news of the
papers saying: “It would be disappointing if mothers today felt campaign in your area and how you can get involved in making
pressurised into returning to work as soon as possible after your locality more breastfeeding friendly.
having children. We must value families and giving babies a NCT campaigners in England will also be pushing for
good start in life. Employers should also respect the rights of Maternity Matters to deliver on its promises, such as pregnant
parents to have a work and family life balance.” women having the option of a home, centre or hospital birth.
We’ve been working on several articles for magazines such as The Department of Health has promised to make this a reality
Take A Break and Real People. It’s this sort of publicity that raises by 2009 but there’s still a lot to be done. By joining NCT Active
awareness of our charity and the issues it supports. you can add your voice, ensuring the Government remains
Local branches have also been working tirelessly to promote committed on this.
regional activities and issues. A total of 88 stories made it Finally, I would like to say thank you for your continued
into the pages of local newspapers nationwide. And, on an passion for NCT campaigns and NCT Active. Remember, it is
international note, the NCT’s comments on induction rates in your help and enthusiasm that makes positive change happen.
Scotland even surfaced in Malaysia! If you haven’t had the chance to campaign yet, check out the
We’re keen to build on this success, here’s to the rest of 2009! department online at nct.org.uk/active.
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Raking it in
South Gloucestershire’s Alison
enjoyed a fundraising success
“We wanted to offer local parents a social event for all
the family. It was a really fun day and a great success
with around 50 families joining the fun. After the party,
we discovered that the money we raised made us one
of the top five fundraising branches.
“There was a rolling entertainment programme of
three performers: Hullabaloo Kids (sensory play and
singing), Talking Tots (language development play and
singing) and Music with Mummy (songs) along with
Barefoot Books doing some storytelling. We also had
Magical maze baby reflexology and a photographer positioned in
the hall with a ‘mini-studio’. We ran our own craft
Carol and Julie recently became co-chairs activity table, a tombola, face-painting for £2 a go,
and sold simple refreshments.
of the Wirral branch. They wanted an exciting “We had a lot of support from local businesses; we
party (pictured) to re-launch the branch charged each one for a stall and also offered them the
chance of providing flyers to give to people as they
and raise some money in the process entered (charging £10 per flyer). The rest was easy,
just a matter of taking bookings and selling tickets
“We wanted the party to have a good (£4 per family) in advance.
family vibe, our choice of venue – the “I’d advise keeping your party simple and try to
Maize Maze – was perfect as it was not make sure there’s a big open area (inside or out) for
only outdoorsy and packed with things to children to run around in. Also, don’t underestimate
do, but also very accessible as it was close what local businesses such as supermarkets will offer
to the motorway junction. We created a if you approach them (either vouchers to spend on
village fete feel by putting up bunting refreshments that you can then sell, or actual food
around the refreshments kiosk and the reading tent. It looked great in and drink). Be brave – if you don’t ask, you don’t get!”
the barn with all the hay bales around. The weather was also a bonus as it
turned out to be such a fantastic day.
“We decided not to charge an entrance fee but to have a good mix of Great goodbye
paid and free activities. We charged £1 for activities such as the bouncy
castles, face painting, tombola and the Maize Maze, and had plenty of
free stuff like a colouring/craft area, Sing & Sign and Dancing Tots
Caroline of the Malvern Hills
sessions. We wanted people to come away feeling they’d had a great branch ran her party as a
time, not that they’d been fleeced. Having said that we wish we’d put a parting gift to the NCT
bucket for donations in the car park – people were offering to pay and it
would have raised some extra funds. “After being membership secretary for three years, I
“Most of the takings on the day were from refreshments, bouncy decided to step down from my post in 2008. I chose to
castles and the maze. We sold raffle tickets before and during the event, organise our annual summer event under the umbrella
which was also successful as we had some very good prizes donated. of a Cheeky Monkeys Tea Party. It was a thank you for
The cost of hiring the venue was paid for by selling tables to local the fun and support that my son Oscar and I have
businesses so we had a mini baby fair inside the barn, and produced received since relocating to the Malvern Hills.
a souvenir brochure (paid for by advertisers) that we gave out free to “We advertised the party by putting posters in shops,
every family attending. leisure centres, schools and nurseries. Press releases
“We advertised the event online with the local Netmums site and our featured in the local newspaper as well as our branch
website. We also gave out flyers at our Nearly New Sale and at a baby newsletter. We also relied on trusty word of mouth.
fair. The week before, we put up banners and posters on local roads. “The event was held in my local village hall. It looked
“We have had some fantastic feedback from people who attended, great decorated with brightly coloured balloons and
not just families, but also from the local businesses that came along. signage. I was amazed my how many local companies
We enjoyed it too. Next time, we’d start planning a bit earlier as things wanted to help; Five Bridges Osteopath practice, Little
got very hectic in the last few weeks. The party has got more people Dolphins swim school and Usborne books were more
excited by the branch and we’ve established some very useful contacts. that happy to donate the room hire charge.
I think next time will be easier.” “The party went without a hitch and I was elated by
the attendance and people’s goodwill.”
Bumpy ride
NCT Member lucinda van der hart, describes the trials and tribulations
of a pregnant woman’s daily commute on the London underground
gOINg uNdERgROuNd
Lucinda is not alone; many
pregnant women feel overlooked
on their commute, as one
interesting survey revealed
A recent survey
carried out by
London
underground
highlighted a
number of issues
facing pregnant women travelling in the
Capital. The Mind the Bump report
discovered that more than two thirds of
pregnant women questioned cited rude
and discourteous behaviour as a source
WHEN, AT 24 WEEKS AND THREE DAYS I never suspected that being pregnant of anxiety and stress during pregnancy.
pregnant, I was finally offered a seat on the could make me such a grumpy traveller. one in three felt they had to avoid public
Tube I was absolutely delighted. It was as if Every time someone buries their head transport for fear of having to stand for
the day I had been waiting for throughout further into a newspaper – while I stand the duration of the journey, and one in
my pregnancy had actually arrived. I know next to them, out of breath and buckling five spent more than £100 on taxis and
this sounds dramatic but after struggling to under the weight of my baby and handbag private vehicles during their pregnancy
and from work in an ever-advancing state – I can’t help thinking what a selfish, to avoid standing on the Tube.
of pregnancy, with no recognition from my seat-hogger they are. it was in response to this that London
fellow travellers, I was overjoyed when Then there’s the ‘Baby on Board’ underground launched ‘Baby on Board’
someone showed me some kindness. badge! I found out about these potentially badges designed ‘to help women at all
As a regular London commuter I know pride-saving labels in a less-than-desirable stages of pregnancy feel more confident
that Tube etiquette and pregnancy is a way. When offered a seat, that I gratefully in using the Tube and to make journeys
potential minefield. I’m aware what it’s like accepted, a woman sitting next to me less awkward for pregnant women and
from the perspective of a non-pregnant inexplicably asked if I was pregnant. ‘I am’, I fellow passengers’.
person. When you’re sitting on the Tube replied, wondering if it wasn’t fairly obvious The badges are available from
bleary-eyed, at some ungodly hour, or as I had reached almost 26 weeks. ‘Well, Transport for London’s Customer Service
shattered after a long day in the office I you shouldn’t expect to get a seat unless Centre, or by calling 0845 330 9880 or
understand that the last thing on your you have a badge telling people you’re emailing babyonboard@tfl.gov.uk
mind is whether there is a pregnant pregnant,’ she exclaimed, adding, ‘You’re
passenger standing nearby. very small, you know.’ ffeeling rather
on the rare occasion that she is there, incensed by the impromptu lecture, I WHAT’S YOuR STORY?
trying not to topple over, nobody wants to resolved never to buy a badge! What is your experience of commuting
be the one to offer her their seat. It’s not Although I am deeply grateful for equal while pregnant? Did you encounter
because most commuters are mean, but rights for women, I wish we could go back any hostility from your fellow
the nightmare scenario of someone to the days when men were chivalrous. passengers? We would love to hear
asking a woman if she would like to sit That way we could save a lot of aching your story wherever you are.
down, only to discover that she was not backs and swollen ankles – and maybe Email us your account at
pregnant at all, just a bit overweight, is too even see a seated pregnant woman smile yoursay@nct.org.uk
embarrassing to contemplate. on the Tube from time to time.
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Photography: Lucy Johnston
Loud
clear
and
Mother, writer and founder of Deaf Parenting UK, Sabina Iqbal, on how the only
barrier for a deaf parent in bringing up two hearing children is the attitudes of others
A I was
t the moment life is a Language (BSL) interpreter present at
rollercoaster ride for my all my antenatal appointments as well
partner Asif and I. We’re both
deaf parents to two hearing very as my birth.
www.quinny.com
Experiences
Baby steps
After the shock of becoming pregnant at just 16 years old, young mum
Chloe Morton is adjusting to her new life with the help of an NCT initiative
Emotional rollercoaster
Chloe disproves the theory that teenage
mums are irresponsible – her pregnancy
came as a huge shock as she had been on
the pill. It was a rude awakening for the
16-year-old. “I was totally unprepared,”
says Chloe. “I never imagined I’d be in the I’ve met some really
situation I am now – living on my own, with
a child and no support from the father.”
good friends who’ve
After giving birth to a healthy boy, Amari
Kye (which means ‘eternal beauty’), Chloe
provided me
briefly moved in with her father but, as time with support
went on, she realised that she and Amari
needed their own space. With no previous
experience of motherhood and still a child my own about once a month. I don’t have that these young mums, many of whom are
herself, Chloe and her baby moved into much money to get by on – it’s tough,” single, have a place to go and meet like-
their own home – something she cites as minded people. It can be a very isolating
“the greatest challenge of her life”. Support network experience so to be able to get out and
Becoming a parent brings enormous Shortly after giving birth, Chloe was learn about cooking, weaning and childcare
changes – physically, emotionally and introduced to Choices and has found the while enjoying themselves is vital.”
socially. These changes are difficult sessions to be very valuable: “I’ve met some Although Chloe’s situation is not ideal,
enough for people who’ve benefited from really good friends who’ve provided me with she has remained positive and her outlook
the support of their partner and years of life a support network that I can rely on. We’re provides great hope for the future: “If my
experience, Chole had to deal with this all in a similar situation so to be able to meet child is happy then I’m happy.”
alone at the age of 16. She is honest about every week, share experiences and offer
the reality of being a teenage mum: “It’s each other advice, has been brilliant,” she What’s your story?
been an emotional rollercoaster. I would says. “If I’m worried about anything, I always Whether you are a younger or older
often dream about what it was going to be know I can discuss it at the meetings.” parent, the NCT aims to support you.
like when Amari was born, but nothing There is also a social side to the initiative If you’d like to share your experience
could prepare me. I just had to focus on and the young mums are encouraged to go with other members, then we would
dealing with the situation. out and have fun such as enjoying ten-pin love to hear your story.
“I lost most of my friends and I don’t get bowling or swimming trips together. Email us your account at
much help. Nearly all of my time is spent Alison Porges, who runs Choices in yoursay@nct.org.uk
with my baby and I only get to go out on Brighton and Hove, says “It’s so important
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Breastfeeding
mother
Watch with
NCT staff were among those on NCT Chief Executive, Belinda Phipps, experienced breastfeeding counsellors
the ‘red carpet’ for the eagerly was very enthusiastic about the film’s helped to produce the DVD and are always
anticipated premier of From Bump launch: “The NCT is delighted to have available to provide parents with support,
to Breastfeeding – a 30-minute DVD, been involved in the production of this so that they can have a positive experience
which every pregnant woman in the fantastic new resource for expectant of breastfeeding. We are thrilled that every
UK will receive for free, during their parents. From Bump to Breastfeeding expectant mother will get a copy.”
antenatal period. delivers all the helpful tips and information NCT Breastfeeding tutor Patricia Wise
As the title suggests, the film tells that parents need. Indeed, it brilliantly also reviewed the DVD. She enthused:
the story of the beginnings of pregnancy summarises a lot of what we have been “Over the past 50 years NCT workers have
to the vital stage of breastfeeding. providing to parents for many years. Our encouraged and supported women to
Photo: Courtesy of From Bumps to Breastfeeding
The film was created by the charity breastfeed their babies – this DVD is a very
Best Beginnings, who received funding exciting development.”
from a number of health departments
– including the NHS and Department Informative and realistic
of Health – and guidance from the NCT The film is already proving to be very
throughout production. popular with mums. Sarah Rollings, who
The DVD will be distributed by is mum to Rosie (six months), responded
health departments and is available very positively saying: “I thought the
to health professionals through the film was informative and realistic about
usual channels. Mums on film breastfeeding. It included real women’s
Star qualities
The NCT believe in midwife-led care before, during and after the birth of your
child, and we want to make sure that, in the future, this high-level of treatment is
available, as standard, nationwide. So, what do parents need from their midwife?
Empathy and
understanding Empowering
“It would be great if, in the future, a
“Today’s family usually only has two “Midwives need to be able to put midwife would stay with the mother
or three children so people are not across evidence-based information throughout the labour. We built-up
brought up surrounded by babies. in a way that parents can understand such a level of trust with our ‘first’
Therefore the perfect midwife would and use to make their decisions.” BP midwife during my wife’s labour,
understand that, although it may only for her to leave when my wife
be the 10,000th baby that she’s only had an hour to go! This was, at
delivered, it could well be the first one “A midwife should help women to best, odd. We have friends who had
that the mother has ever held, let identify their options and empower an independent midwife with them
alone looked after.” Susan Dinmore, them to achieve the birth they want. throughout the whole process – we’ll
Byfleet & District. (SD) She should talk about safety not risk do this for any future children we
and treat all women as the individuals have.” Tom Berwick, Colchester.
they are.” Michelle Barnes, Sheffield,
“A midwife is someone who is able sheffieldbirthdoula.com. (MB)
to build relationships quickly and Action wife
engender trust. Someone who
understands how to work in a way “I got quite big during my second “A midwife should be passionate
that suits their clients, so that those pregnancy – our daughter weighed- about her work and always willing to
who have disadvantages – be they in at 12lbs – and lots of people were go the extra mile.” MB
young, poor, disabled, with limited urging me to have a caesarean, which
education or in an unusual situation I really didn’t want to do. My midwife
– feel able to make use of their help. supported me in my decision to have “A midwife should be able to
A good midwife will listen to a mother the birth that I wanted. I wish all mums orchestrate other public services
and understand her worries and could have that valuable backing.” to meet the needs of the families
darkest fears, helping her find a way Emma Timpson, Cumbria. they are supporting. She should be
to overcome them. She will inspire proactive and skilled enough to know
confidence in women to give birth One to one when it’s time to call on the help of
and communicate with the baby’s others, be it a doctor, a social worker
dad too.” Belinda Phipps, NCT Chief “I’d like to see the Independent or the housing dept. She’s someone
Executive. (BP) Midwives Association (IMA) NHS who, within the NHS, can persuade
Community Midwifery Model of care their unit to have homely, suitable
implemented across the UK. This is rooms and policies that work for the
“I’d like the father’s feelings to be where the woman chooses her own users.” BP
taken into consideration. I was made midwife and that same midwife will
to feel ‘in the way’ at my son’s birth then support and care for her during
and got the strong impression that the pregnancy, birth and the postnatal “A good midwife is a proactive one.
midwife resented my presence. I’m period. This would give women the With my second child, I reacted really
not one of these men who wanted to continuity of care that is required to badly to the morphine tablets after my
be macho about being at the birth, but make birth a safer and more satisfying caesarean. After passing out for a third
I’ve been with my partner for 14 years experience.” MB time, the midwife badgered the doctor
and, as the only person who knew her, until he gave me some different
I wanted to be there for her. Gone are painkillers – within 30 minutes I was
the days when the bloke would stay “Midwives are teachers as well as up and about.” SD
at the pub or pace around outside the nurses. It can take a long time to learn
delivery room – as a caring partner certain things and surely children are
I’d have liked to have been able to the most complicated of all. One-on-
provide some useful support.” Ian one guidance with your midwife is a
Rankine, London. definite must.” SD
experiences
Coming up in newgen In our next issue we’ve got another photo competition,
illustration: greta dickman
an exclusive interview with World Champion swimmer Karen Pickering, who is pioneering
a scheme to get more babies in the water, a look at how pregnant women and babies are
represented through popular culture, plus stories about a working mum, parents with
autistic children and pregnancy while looking after teenagers.