The woman in your life

. Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are, who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents brothers much as you do for !"#!$ years of her life; sisters, almost as

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name One, who is somehow e%pected to be a master#chef from day &', while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is e%pected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever e%pected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back#burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; (es, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply ).*ecause you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house # your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly # your understanding, or love, if you may call it. *ut not many guys understand this......

The One +law ,n -omen

. *y the time the .ord made woman, He was into his si%th day of working overtime. /n angel appeared and said, '-hy are you spending so much time on this one0' /nd the .ord answered, 'Have you seen my spec sheet on her0 1he has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over !"" movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart#and she will do everything with only two hands.' The angel was astounded at the re2uirements. 'Only two hands30 4o way3 /nd that's just on the standard model0 That's too much work for one day. -ait until tomorrow to finish.' '*ut , won't, ' the .ord protested. ', am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. 1he already heals herself when she is sick /45 can work '6 hour days.' The angel moved closer and touched the woman. '*ut you have made her so soft, .ord.' '1he is soft,' the .ord agreed, ' but , have also made her tough. (ou have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.' '-ill she be able to think0 ', asked the angel. The .ord replied, '4ot only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate.' The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek. 'Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. , told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.'

'That's not a leak,' the .ord corrected, ' that's a tear3' '-hat's the tear for0' the angel asked. The .ord said, 'The tear is her way of e%pressing her joy , her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride.' The angel was impressed. '(ou are a genius, .ord. (ou thought of everything3 -oman is truly ama7ing.' /nd she is3 -omen have strengths that ama7e men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don't take 'no' for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children e%cel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. -omen come in all shapes, si7es and colors. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e#mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning . They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. -omen have vital things to say and everything to give HO-898:, ,+ TH8:8 ,1 O48 T,4( +./- ,4 -O;84, ,T ,1 TH/T TH8( +O:<8T TH8,: -O:TH.