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Many things happen when women reach that high point of pleasure, and some of them are sorta
weird. Have you heard of 'Le Petit Mort'? If you know French you know that it means 'The Little
Death', but have you ever heard it associated with having an orgasm? Some women faint when they
orgasm and in some very rare cases, have had heart failure and even died. So the French nickname
isn't so far fetched and any girl who has had some really big ones can also understand I'm sure.
give equal attention to both breasts and nipples. When she is climaxing do not stop or change what you are
doing. Let her push you away when she is ready.
#4 Labor Orgasms
It has become apparent that some women experience an orgasm when giving birth.
Please leave that out of the birth story you tell your child.
Americas puritanical roots have influenced our cultures relatively sterile attitude toward childbirth and even
breast-feeding in comparison with other countries. That attitude has no doubt influenced whether these
experiences are pleasurable or aversive.
Pain
describe the heightened physical and emotional response during birth that is in line with pleasure, PascaliBonaro tells The Daily Beast. One of the purposes of the film is to broaden our vocabulary on birth with words
like bliss, ecstasy, joy, transformation. Its broad enough to also include women that actually do have an
orgasm, but that certainly shouldnt be a performance standard!
Despite its suggestive title, the documentary doesnt just feature mothers who experienced orgasm during birth
it also explores the many ways that the process can be a source of physical pleasure, seeking to dispel the
myth that childbirth is invariably a painful and traumatic experience.
Imagine that you are trying to stop passing gas. Squeeze the muscles you would use. If you sense a "pulling"
feeling, you are squeezing the right muscles for pelvic exercises.
Imagine that you are sitting on a marble and want to pick up the marble with your vagina. Imagine "sucking"
the marble into your vagina.
Lie down and put your finger inside your vagina. Squeeze as if you were trying to stop urine from coming
out. If you feel tightness on your finger, you are squeezing the right pelvic muscles.
Do your pelvic exercises at least three times a day. Every day, use three positions: lying down, sitting, and
standing. You can exercise while lying on the floor, sitting at a desk, or standing in the kitchen. Using all three
positions makes the muscles strongest.
Don't give up. It's just 5 minutes, three times a day. You may not feel your bladder control improve until after 3
to 6 weeks. Still, most women do notice an improvement after a few weeks.
#6 Just Relax
Women with higher stress levels than normal tend to have lower level of physical
arousal. Just calm down and "woosah" for a minute.
Oxytocin is called the love and bonding chemical. The interesting thing about Oxytocin is that when Adrenaline
is released by the brain Oxytocin cant be released. Its literally as if stress keeps us from pleasure. When
Adrenaline is high we arent relaxed and relaxation is key to orgasm, especially in the female body.
Women and men have a hard time turning it all off and making time for FUN or for some intimacy when were
stressed. So, when we are super stressed, we can try and try but what normally works to help us climax may
not work when we are over stressed.
The kicker here is that an orgasm is a FAB stress reliever for both sexes.
Here are some tips to help you and your partner get relaxed and to turn off your thinking brain so that you can
orgasm to your hearts content and bond deeply with your lover while you are at it.
Tip #1 - As pleasure heightens get non-verbal. Language stimulates the thinking brain. Imagine that you are
making love, you are getting close to orgasm and suddenly your partner looks at you and says What would you
like for dinner tomorrow night? Yes, it would pretty much shut down your pleasure and put you right into your
thinking brain.
Tip #2 - Make love in the dark. Darkness helps to release Melatonin which slows down the thinking brain and
can decrease Adrenaline. Bright light on the other hand can have a detrimental affect on your ability to
surrender and get into your body.
Tip #3 - Create Safety. If you feel unsafe your body produces adrenaline and your thinking brain starts going
crazy with problem solving. If you feel in danger there is no way that you are going to be able to surrender into
deep orgasm.
Tip #4 - Make sure your partner is relaxed. Adrenaline is contagious. If one of you is full of anxiety then the
other one of you will pick up on that and also get anxious. If you need help calming down try something
repetitive like breathing in a pattern or rocking each other.
Along with stress, a lack of sleep, Antihistamines (allergy meds), Anti-depressants, too much caffeine and too
much alcohol can make it difficult for women to orgasm.
The orgasm is not only physically powerful for women, but also psychologically powerful for men,
which is not surprising.
Here is what we know about men when it comes to issues in the bedroom. A man will feel more like
a man if he knows he can satisfy a womans sexual needs. Of course, women know this, and realize
the importance of boosting a mans confidence in the field of lovemaking. Orgasm equals sexual
satisfaction equals an enhanced relationship. Hence, women often act out fake orgasms.
Here are ten (10) understandable and common reasons why women fake the Big O.
1. Women want to please their partner. You know how a guy will often say that if he can bring a woman to
orgasm, it not only turns him on to watch the pleasure he brings his
partner, but also brings him closer to his own climax as well. Since a
woman is always looking to please her man, faking an orgasm will put
a smile on his face, and boost his ego at the same time!
2. Everyone loves a challenge
Women get a little thrill from being able to control a guys gradual
climb to a climax. It is a feeling of power. The challenge comes in
seeing how excited you can get your guy, and how long you can
prolong his orgasm. The fact that a woman can get her guy off with a
fake orgasm, whenever she feels like it, can be very satisfying.
Sad but true; sometimes women really are not in the mood and just
want to get it over with. Again, so as not to bruise her mans ego, the
woman will simply act out a fake orgasm in order to give her partner
pleasure.
Although some people get aroused when there is some level of pain
during sex, not all pain is good pain. If a woman is experiencing pain
or discomfort during intercourse, it could be an indication that
something is medically wrong. Nevertheless, she may simply fake it to
bring things to an end more quickly rather than say something and
spoil her mates enthusiasm.
One piece of advice for all couples is that you should not go to bed
angry. Well, sometimes, it happens regardless. In order to avoid an
argument, females will often swallow their disappointment, and go
through the necessary bedroom motions while pretending to enjoy
it.
7. Lack of technique!
Although sex encounters for men are typically great, most women
will reach orgasm more easily with someone they feel a connection
with. If a certain level of trust has been established, a woman will feel
relaxed in the arms of her partner, resulting in enjoyable and
satisfying sex. Nonetheless, keep in mind that women can still enjoy
sex without having an orgasm.
10. Not like that - it is not going to Not all women can achieve orgasm through intercourse, some can
happen!
only reach it through clitoral stimulation; in most cases, oral sex is the
best bet.
This list was given in any particular order of relevance. Some men have commented that they
don't care, and to them I say they should or why are with them?
Yogasm Move
Lie on your belly and place the palms of your hands on the mat, just outside your chest (1). As you inhale, use
your arms to lift your chest, leaving your pubic bone on the floor (2). Keep your legs strong and engage your
butt muscles. Hold the pose for seven to 10 breaths. Do three reps. Source: Kay Clivio, Pure Yoga lead
teacher/trainer.