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Theres a scene in one of the Harry Potter books when after Hermione tried to explain the actions of Harrys distraught date, Ron exclaimed, You should write a book translating the mad things girls do so boys can understand them. Its hard enough to decipher what women mean when they say somethingsuch as when they say theyre fine but they really arentbut in order to understand women body language is the key. If you want to succeed in reading women body language must mean more to you than just simple postures and gestures.
She maintains steady eye contact with you (without glaring) She leans towards you She keeps on licking her lips Her nostrils are flaring Her nipples are visibly hard
Be warned, however. Just because you may be seeing all these signs of approval doesnt mean that you can just lean over for a kiss or go for an intimate caress. The woman in these situations often likes to give clear and express indications that she would like intimate contact with you, and any action on your part to this effect can immediately reverse her attraction to you. Wait for her to clearly say that she wants to kiss you, and from a legal point of view this may be the right course of action as well. When it comes to women body language attraction signals arent always clear cut, unless she pulled you into an empty room and then started tearing your clothes off.
The signs that shes not quite sure if she is attracted to you (or if she should be attracted to you) may include the following:
She may lean in, and then lean away repeatedly; She may hold some eye contact, and then turn away abruptly.
Generally, she may use some body language that means shes interested, and at the same time also exhibit body language that shows that shes disinterested. These types of mixed signals may indicate a conflict on her part.
It may also mean that shes just shy. With shy women body language signs are often conflicted because she doesnt quite know how to react to her attraction to you. If this is the case, you can wreck a potential relationship by acting too abruptly or forceful. The best way to react is by being gentle and gradual when you try to speed things along. Be understanding if she stutters and act as if shes speaking and acting normally. You can also attract women with body language if shes shy. Show her body language signs that youre interested in her, but make these signs more subtle so that she isnt alarmed and frightened. Be gentle, and give her time to adjust to your presence. You already know shes interested in you, and now your focus is helping her to deal with these feelings of attraction without calling attention to her shyness.
She narrows her eyes at you. Her lips are a very thin line. Her fists are closed or tightly clenched.
The best way to react to these omens is to gracefully and quickly disengagein other words, retreat. It may not even be your fault that shes irate. Wait for her anger to dissipate over time while she talks to other people, and then reengage her with a subtle apology. If that doesnt work, then it may be wise to turn your attention elsewhere. In the end, if you want to excel in understanding women body language meanings must be immediately understood so that you can respond appropriately. You can then use your expertise in deciphering body language to attract women wherever you go.