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Tuesday, September 10, 2013

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Husband may fear what doctor will say

Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

HI AND LOIS

Dear Annie: I am a ago, my husband and I 34-year-old wife and mother bought a condo so we could of four. My husband is 44 spend our winters in a warm and drinks on a daily basis. climate. We have family I dont mind a few cans of members who are now inbeer when he gets home. viting themselves to visit, However, he drinks at least which means they are vacaa six-pack, usually more, ev- tioning while we do all the ery day after work. Im tired work. We enjoy these relaof arguing with him about tives, but for a shorter time his drinking. He always re- period. And having their own sponds, At least I drink at accommodations would be home and not at the bar. ideal. My husband also refuses How would you suggest to get an annual physical we handle this? We dont exam. He never sees a doc- want to hurt anyones feeltor or a dentist, ings, but we are not even if he is sick. very excited about Im really worried these yearly winter about his health. I visitors, and I feel want him to live used. N. in Arilong enough for zona our children to Dear N.: Unreach adulthood. less you tell these I have asked people they cannot my husband stay with you, they whether he will let will continue to imme take him for pose. Simply say, a physical. If the It would be wondoctor says he is Annies Mailbox derful to see you. healthy, my heart Unfortunately, we will be at peace. I think he is arent up to hosting guests. being selfish, only thinking Here are the names of local of himself. He talks so much hotels. Let us know when of pride. But he doesnt con- you get settled. If anyone sider what would happen to ends up at your condo, dont his family if anything were be reluctant to ask them to to happen to him. My young- pitch in with the groceries, est child is only 4. How do cooking and cleaning. You I get him to cut back on his did not, after all, invite them. drinking and see a doctor? Perhaps they will decide it Worried Wife isnt quite so appealing as a Dear Worried: We dont vacation spot. At the very think your husband is be- least, you wont be doing all ing intentionally selfish. We of the work. think he is afraid. People Dear Annie: I read the who avoid doctors and den- response from Fran, who tists often do so because they took exception to your refear what the doctor will sponse to Perplexed, sayfind. Those with a drinking ing that kids shouldnt have problem may be concerned to call their parents every that the doctor will discover day, even if it only takes five damage from the drink- minutes. ing, but they are unwilling I am a 61-year-old male. to stop. If your husbands My grandmother used to live drinking has increased, he a block away. When I was a may also be depressed and child, my mother would go self-medicating. see her every evening even if You can try talking to it was only for five minutes. him about these possibilities. One evening, I asked my Unfortunately, he may not be mother why she went every willing to admit any of this single evening to see Grandor change his behavior, in ma. She simply looked at me which case, the best you can and said, Because tomordo is protect yourself. Make row I may never get to talk sure he has a valid will and to her again. I understood his affairs are in order. And exactly what she meant. P.S.: contact Al-Anon (al-anon. Grandma passed away five alateen.org) for support. years later. Loving Dad in Dear Annie: Two years Pennsylvania

WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 11, 2013 Communication will be the key to meeting new acquaintances and learning new skills in the coming months. Dont let a personal matter stand between you and your goals. Dont limit what you can do or stop short of success. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- A break will do you good and help you rethink your approach to life. Altering your living arrangements will be emotional but ultimately beneficial. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Avoid high-pressure situations today. Appeal to the emotional side of anyone making unreasonable demands. Review your relationships and make adjustments to the connections that are standing in the way of your progress. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Make your home more efficient and compatible with your lifestyle. A change of plans can be used to your advantage, but you must be prepared to roll with the punches. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Use your energy wisely. Take advantage of any chance you get to increase your worth. You can cut corners at home by setting a strict budget. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Love, romance and adventure should be included on your to-do list. Broaden your outlook, explore new places and indulge in events or activities that you find motivational. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Let your emotions take over when it comes to dealing with a domestic situation. Dont be stingy with your take on matters. A new source of income encourage you. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Get out and get involved today. Meeting with people interested in unusual activities or hobbies will enrich your life. Romance should highlight your day. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Theres no need to act with undue haste. You have more options than you realize, so take a moment to examine the pros and cons before taking action. Moderation should be a factor in your decision. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Aggressive action will get the job done but also create opposition. It might be a good idea to work secretively until you have everything in place. It may take longer, but you will avoid discord. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Call in favors and you will get a job done quickly, enabling you to do something enjoyable later on. If you let those who helped you in on the fun, youll develop a powerful support network. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Strive for excellence in whatever you pursue. If you get outside your comfort zone, you could learn some valuable information. Question what isnt working in your life and prepare to make changes. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Dont leave anything to chance. Make moves that are unusual and unexpected, yet shrewd. Using the element of surprise in a competitive situation will give you the advantage. COPYRIGHT 2013 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.

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