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Husband may fear what doctor will say

Dear Annie: I am a 34-year-old wife and mother of four. My husband is 44

and drinks on a daily basis.

I don’t mind a few cans of

beer when he gets home. However, he drinks at least

a six-pack, usually more, ev-

ery day after work. I’m tired of arguing with him about his drinking. He always re- sponds, “At least I drink at home and not at the bar.” My husband also refuses to get an annual physical exam. He never sees a doc-

tor or a dentist, even if he is sick. I’m really worried about his health. I want him to live long enough for our children to reach adulthood. I have asked my husband

whether he will let me take him for

a physical. If the

doctor says he is healthy, my heart

will be at peace. I think he is being selfish, only thinking of himself. He talks so much of pride. But he doesn’t con- sider what would happen to his family if anything were to happen to him. My young- est child is only 4. How do

I get him to cut back on his

drinking and see a doctor? — Worried Wife Dear Worried: We don’t think your husband is be- ing intentionally selfish. We think he is afraid. People who avoid doctors and den- tists often do so because they fear what the doctor will find. Those with a drinking problem may be concerned that the doctor will discover damage from the drink- ing, but they are unwilling to stop. If your husband’s drinking has increased, he may also be depressed and self-medicating. You can try talking to him about these possibilities. Unfortunately, he may not be willing to admit any of this or change his behavior, in which case, the best you can do is protect yourself. Make sure he has a valid will and his affairs are in order. And contact Al-Anon (al-anon. alateen.org) for support. Dear Annie: Two years

ago, my husband and I bought a condo so we could spend our winters in a warm climate. We have family

members who are now in- viting themselves to “visit,” which means they are vaca-

tioning while we do all the work. We enjoy these rela- tives, but for a shorter time period. And having their own accommodations would be ideal. How would you suggest we handle this? We don’t want to hurt anyone’s feel-

ings, but we are not very excited about these yearly winter visitors, and I feel used. — N. in Ari- zona Dear N.: Un- less you tell these people they cannot stay with you, they will continue to im- pose. Simply say, “It would be won-

derful to see you. Unfortunately, we aren’t up to hosting guests. Here are the names of local hotels. Let us know when you get settled.” If anyone ends up at your condo, don’t be reluctant to ask them to pitch in with the groceries, cooking and cleaning. You

did not, after all, invite them. Perhaps they will decide it isn’t quite so appealing as a

“vacation” spot. At the very least, you won’t be doing all of the work. Dear Annie: I read the response from “Fran,” who took exception to your re- sponse to “Perplexed,” say- ing that kids shouldn’t have to call their parents every

day, even if it only takes five minutes. I am a 61-year-old male. My grandmother used to live

a block away. When I was a

child, my mother would go

see her every evening even if

it was only for five minutes.

One evening, I asked my mother why she went every single evening to see Grand- ma. She simply looked at me and said, “Because tomor- row I may never get to talk to her again.” I understood exactly what she meant. P.S.:

Grandma passed away five years later. — Loving Dad in Pennsylvania

passed away five years later. — Loving Dad in Pennsylvania Annie’s Mailbox Tomorrow’s Horoscope By Bernice

Annie’s Mailbox

Tomorrow’s

Horoscope

By Bernice Bede Osol

Mailbox Tomorrow’s Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 11, 2013 Communication will be the key

WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 11, 2013 Communication will be the key to meeting new acquaintances and learning new skills in the coming months. Don’t let a personal matter stand between you and your goals. Don’t limit what you can do or stop short of success. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- A break will do you good and help you rethink your approach to life. Altering your living arrangements will be emotional but ultimately beneficial. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Avoid high-pressure situations today. Appeal to the emotional side of anyone making unreasonable demands. Review your relationships and make adjustments to the connections that are standing in the way of your progress. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Make your home more efficient and compatible with your lifestyle. A change of plans can be used to your advantage, but you must be prepared to roll with the punches. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Use your energy wisely. Take advantage of any chance you get to increase your worth. You can cut corners at home by setting a strict budget. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)

-- Love, romance and adventure should be included on your to-do list. Broaden your outlook, explore new places and indulge in events or activities that you find motivational. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Let your emotions take over when it comes to dealing with a domestic situation. Don’t be stingy with your take on matters. A new source of income encourage you. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Get out and get involved today. Meeting with people interested in unusual activities or hobbies will enrich your life. Romance should highlight your day. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- There’s no need to act with undue haste. You have more options than you realize, so take a moment to examine the pros and cons before taking action. Moderation should be a factor in your decision. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Aggressive action will get the job done

but also create opposition. It might be a good idea to work secretively until you have everything in place. It may take longer, but you will avoid discord. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Call in favors and you will get a job done

quickly, enabling you to do something

enjoyable later on. If you let those who helped you in on the fun, you’ll develop

a powerful support network.

CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Strive for excellence in whatever you pursue. If you get outside your comfort zone, you could learn some valuable information. Question what isn’t working in your life and prepare to make changes. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Don’t leave anything to chance. Make moves that are unusual and unexpected, yet shrewd. Using the element of surprise in a competitive situation will give you the advantage.

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