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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

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Wife feels betrayed by husband of 40 years

Dear Annie: I feel be- do and say. Yes, we are trayed by my husband, and surprised that a fellow cat he doesnt seem to see the owner would seem so calproblem. lous. But this is essentially We have been married a difference of opinion for 40 years. Victor al- about how much money one ways had a wandering eye would spend on an animals and a problem being faith- treatment. If you think this ful. For whatever reason, I comment means your neighwas never enough for him. bor is an unkind, nasty perHe has no idea how much he son, you dont need to stay has hurt me over friends. But if he is the years. I put otherwise a good up with a lot, but guy and you miss now he has started his friendship, watching pornogplease forgive him. raphy when he Dear Annie: thinks Im asleep. Conflicted AdoptI know hes masee in Kansas turbating, but if was hurt that her I ask whether he biological mother wants to have sex, didnt want to tell he says no, and her other grown eventually, I fall children about her. asleep. Three years This makes Annies Mailbox ago, my 70-yearme feel as if hes old grandmother cheating on me in my own walked over to my mother, bed. Ive tried talking to handed her a piece of paVictor about it, but he thinks per and said, Well, youve Im the one with the prob- always wanted a sister. lem. What do you think? Grandma had given up a Betrayed baby girl when Grandpa was Dear Betrayed: You still married to his first wife. must ask yourself what you When she became pregnant want out of this marriage af- again (with my mother), ter 40 years. Can you make they finally wed. Victor stop having affairs At first we were shocked. and watching pornography? Grandma was ashamed and Not unless he understands embarrassed. My mother that it is a betrayal and de- was excited to get to know cides he doesnt want to her new sister, but they hurt you anymore. That discovered that they really would require effort on his dont care much for each part, and likely counseling other. In fact, no one in the to help him navigate a new family likes her, but we feel way to relate to you. If you obligated to be nice and pothink he would be willing, lite. please suggest it. You also Grandma refuses to talk can get counseling on your about it. The one thing she own and learn what you are had written in the adoption willing to tolerate for the records was that she didnt sake of remaining in the want anyone in her family to marriage if you choose to know. I completely understay. In the meantime, con- stand why some things are tact COSA (cosa-recovery. better left alone. Omaha, org), a 12-step program for Neb. those whose lives have been affected by another persons compulsive sexual behavior. Dear Annie: Ive been friendly with a neighbor for some time, as we are both cat owners. I recently let my cat outside briefly, and he came in limping as a result of a catfight. I immediately rushed him to my vet, who performed emergency surgery and presented me with a big bill. When telling my neighbor of the expenses, he said I was foolish to have been so concerned about a cat. Annie, I was shocked to hear this from a fellow cat owner and have ceased speaking to him. He has made overtures toward friendship, and Ive rebuffed him. Should I forgive and forget? Cat Lover Ed Dear Ed: No one expects you to agree with everything your friends think,

Tomorrows Horoscope
WEDNESDAY, MAY 22, 2013 Several secret ambitions youve been nurturing look like they could come to pass in the year ahead. Be prepared for things to happen suddenly and simultaneously. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -The sting can be taken out distasteful tasks if you use a little ingenuity. Your labor-saving devices might surprise even you. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -Be an attentive listener when friends gather to exchange the latest news. A chance remark could provide some information that will be of special significance. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Theres a strong chance that an unexpected disruption in your everyday routine could occur. Fortunately, it will of the welcome variety and will brighten your day considerably. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Even though you might be set on doing something a certain way, dont ignore a clever idea you get for a more efficient alternative. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- An unexpected source could provide something of a windfall. But act quickly -- this opportunity wont stick around for long. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -A group project is not being handled as efficiently as it could be. The endeavor would benefit immensely if you take over the operation. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Your imagination can be one of your greatest assets when you utilize it in a constructive manner. Once you visualize positive results, theyll begin to happen. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- You are presently in an extremely hopeful cycle, where your expectations have solid chances of being realized. Think and act like you are a winner, because you are. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Conditions that influence your status, reputation and finances are all trending in your favor. Strike while the iron is hot. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Unless youre able to do something out of the ordinary, youre likely to be extremely restless. Channel your energies into creative outlets, and life will be exciting. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- If you use your head and play your cards carefully, you could be extremely successful in your commercial dealings. Formulate your strategy and luck will be on your side. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- A number of unusual gains are possible through partnerships with friends. You might want to form several alliances, each for a different purpose. COPYRIGHT 2013 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.

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