Sexual Mastery Seminars Neo (& David Wygant) Seminar 1 3/19 Opening & Kino 00m:00s Principles behind

ind giving a woman many orgasms 6m:40s Intro 10m:00s Opening a woman and dating her 20m:20s The first kiss 21m:20s Dont wait for mastery before actually approaching women 24m:10s Women are very curious 24m:45s Picture her in a state of sexual ecstasy over you 28m:00s Women love sex 29m:14s Touching her (Kino) 30m:21s Be touching her a lot 31m:40s Foreplay thorough the day 34m:11s Female masturbation 35m:30s Practise touch 36m:15s Women respond like a Dimmer switch 37m:00s System for gauging her comfort level via touch 37m:45s Touch her for 1,2,5 then 10 seconds 38m:15s She has to be able to open up to you first to have mind-blowing sex 40m:45s Finding the G-Spot together with her 42m:20s Performance anxiety 43m:57s Turning her on 47m:00 MARKETING FLUFF 50m:20s Sexual mastery and self-confidence 52m:15s Deepen your connection 54m:00s MARKETING FLUFF 56m:47s LISTENER QUESTION : David Shades techniques 59m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : Importance of money to Woman 66m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Female Ejaculation Comfort & Acceptance 68m:20s Accept her 70m:00s Farting 73m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Getting her to Masturbate 75m:18s Claim her. Love her 76m:45s Lead her into touching herself 78m:25 Ultimately its all about Male Primal energy 81m:00s MARKETING FLUFF Seminar 2 3/26 Kino to Kissing 0m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : nonsense 3m:25s LISTENER QUESTION : nonsense 8m:40s LISTENER QUESTION : How to meet women so you can practise this! 12m:40s Introduction 13m:40s Weekly assignment to practise meeting women 17m:15s Touching guidelines : Leading her via touch 19m:30s Thirteen escalation steps : From first touch to the kiss 20m:00s (1) Touch her for 1 second 20m:23s Calibration 23m:01s (2) Touch her for 2 seconds 24m:44s (3) Touch her for 3 seconds 26m:13s (4) Touch her for 5 seconds 27m:12s Practise touch 28m:20s Use more than just your hands to touch her 29m:55s Grow your male primal energy 32m:40s (5) Touch her for 10 seconds 33m:51s (6) Leave your hand on her 35m:34s (7) Move your hand to her shoulders and massage her 36m:05s Massage her shoulders 40m:27s (8) Massage her neck

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42m:15s Go back to her shoulders 42m:25s (9) Move down and massage her hand 44m:25s (10) Hold her hand 45m:15s Review 46m:14s Pull her closer to you 46m:30s The principle of Fractionation 46m:34s Massage her shoulders again 47m:50s (11) Caress her head and hair 48m:50s (12) Caress her face and ears 49m:35s (13) Kiss her 50m:20s Review 51m:10s FLUFF 52m:50s How to get lots of sex quickly 54m:25s Every woman is different 56m:27s (13) Kiss her 57m:45s Go in 90% of the way 58m:30s The kiss is so important for women 59m:23s How to discover her dream kiss. Model her kiss 60m:50s Aim to merge into each other. Become synchronised 61m:25s Start slowly and softly, then gradually lead her more 62m:25s Incorporate touch into kissing her 63m:15s Lead her gently into the French kiss 65m:15s Touch : the difference that makes the difference 65m:30s Kiss her elsewhere, then go back to her lips 66m:08s Nuzzle her. 66m:30s How can I merge with her? 67m:04s Shell judge your kissing 67m:32s Push -pull 67m:55s Hold the back of her head 69m:20s Switch between masculine and feminine energy 69m:45s Distinctions of touch 70m:50s Use different parts of your body 73m:15s Various types of stroke 74m:10s Master the small steps first 76m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : How to mirror her kiss 79m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Being creepy & calibration 93m:00s Review Seminar 3 4/02 - Foreplay 00m:00s Massage Oil 02m:30s Foreplay 04m:20s Her pleasure is your pleasure 06m:11s Romance novels 09m:00s Orgasm and Arousal 09m:45s Four primal drivers 13m:00s Foreplay structure introduction 14m:55s Build comfort 16m:40s Dont be mechanical 17m:00s Emotional connection is the difference 17m:30s Foreplay structure 18m:52s Use these steps in conjunction with kissing 19m:32s Incorporate previous areas as well 20m:18s (1) Back 21m:45s (2) Shoulders 22m:40s (3) Head 23m:45s (4) Neck 24m:30s One big sensual exploration 25m:23s Tune into her 26m:56s (5) Hair

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28m:35s (6) Ears 29m:20s Explore each area 30m:20s Importance of the little things 31m:46s (7) Lower Back 34m:35s Massage oil 37m:12s (8) Stomach 39m:05s Incorporate all of the areas 39m:30s (8) Stomach 41m:20s Davids nurturing the stomach method 42m:56s Foreplay everywhere 44m:50s (9) Legs 47m:36s Each woman is a universe unto herself 49m:25s (10) Inner thighs 50m:30s Go through all the zones in order of escalation 52m:00s Create a Connection & Intimacy 53m:00s (11) Butt 54m:19s Include all regions in one gliding stroke 56m:21s Butt 56m:50s Take time to explore all the little intimate places 57m:52s (12) Breasts 58m:03s Method 1 of approaching her breasts 59m:19s Method 2 of approaching her breasts 60m:00s Brush past the nipple 61m:05s Gently lead her into areas of deeper comfort & opening 62m:00s The side of her breasts 62m:45s Shell just grab you 64m:11s Fake boobs respond differently 64m:48 Always build up, start off softly & slowly 66m:25s Ask her 68m:12s Drop your ego 70m:20s (12) Breasts and Nipples 72m:05s Underneath her shirt, but still over her bra 73m:15s Taking her bra off (13) Yoni (Vagina) 75m:55s Kiss her breasts 77m:10s Review of all the body regions and principles 79m:50s LISTENER QUESTION : Hair and Neck 81m:40s LISTENER QUESTION : Calibration Seminar 4 4/09 Clitoral & Vaginal stimulation 00m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : Nonsense 06m:05s LISTENER QUESTION : Your Energy & Intention behind your Kino 09m:00s Everything before Intercourse 09m:40s Your energy behind your Applied Sensuality 12m:30s The quality of her orgasms is tied to your emotional connection 14m:07s Physically demonstrate your care for her 14m:50s Clitoral stimulation with your fingers 16m:17s Every woman is different 17m:00s Practise with her 18m:53s Clitoral quadrants 21m:52s Different directions of approach to her clitoris 22m:25s Different strokes 22m:45s Pay close attention to her reactions 23m:44s It will feel very technical at first 25m:26s Signs of her response to look for 27m:12s Shifts in the colour & size of her labia & clitoris 28m:00s The tempo of her breathing 28m:30s Merging with her 30m:30s Stimulate over her clitoral hood first

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30m:41s Slow down, pay attention to the energy of the moment 32m:01s Practise with the rest of your fingers as well 32m:47s Stimulate her clitoris with your fingers during intercourse as well 34m:15s Your finger is always hard 35m:07s Give her 2-3 orgasms firstly with your fingers 35m:46s Mastery has great spin-offs 37m:27s Vaginal stimulation with your fingers 40m:00s Worship the pussy 40m:51s Fractionation 41m:42s Contrast 42m:26s G-Spot stimulation 43m:42s Use heavier stimulation unlike clitoral stimulation 44m:45s Tease & massage her labia 45m:47s Incorporate all the foreplay techniques 46m:30s Enter gently 47m:10s Have that primal energy but also cherish her 48m:44s Dip into her slightly 49m:07s Explore all directions 49m:50s Give some attention to the G-Spot 50m:21s Use verbal communication & touch to add to the level of connection 51m:26s Use a come-here motion 52m:00s Might take longer for her to G-Spot orgasm than you expect 53m:30s You might get tired 54m:30s Different motions 54m:52s Location of G-Spot 55m:17s Combine G-Spot with clitoral stimulation 56m:23s Use a rocking motion and double pressure on her G-Spot 57m:37s Give her 15minutes of your time 59m:03s Anal & G-Spot stimulation 59m:24s Deep Spot stimulation & location 61m:03s Fornix side channels 62m:23s Deep Spot & Side channels 63m:54s Female Ejaculation 65m:30s Requires having a deep trust & connection 66m:55s She must feel safe enough and know that you fully accept her 67m:32s Escalate your stimulation of her G-Spot when you feel sloshiness 68m:32s Dont make her ejaculatory orgasm your goal 69m:59s Use towels 73m:00s She needs to feel fully accepted by you 74m:22s Be present with her 75m:02s Oral stimulation 75m:47s Kiss her labia just like you would her lips 76m:18s Apply the finger stimulation of her clitoris framework 77m:00s Different oral techniques 77m:30s Gauge her response 78m:27s Merge all the techniques & Practise 78m:55s Isolated practise 80m:04s Flow practise 84m:30s How to transition from her fully clothed to stimulating her with your finger and mouth 85m:51s Little things & Combinations 88m:30s Deep Spot 89m:15s Experiment and Observe her response 90m:55s Review Seminar 5 4/16 Stamina & Positions 01m:20s LISTENER QUESTION : Male primal energy 03m:00s Escalate immediately. Be alpha first then build the connection 04m:41s The Fire energy that you want to project 06m:45s Passion tempered with Refinement will make you an incredible lover

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07m:50s The Art of making Love 10m:10s Stamina 12m:55s Awareness scale 14m:00s Awareness scale solo practise 15m:10s Dont always have to be inside her during your refraction period 16m:00s 60% baseline, then 70% and 80% baseline 17m:50s Practise with a partner 19m:12s Kegel exercises 20m:20s Practise while peeing 22m:35s Perineum stop 23m:45s Loaded gun 25m:50s Pull out / stop thrusting 26m:58s Clitoral stimulation during intercourse 28m:40s Access her clitoris from any position 30m:20s (1) Man on top position 32m:25s (2) Woman on top position 34m:55s (3) From behind position 35m:55s Contrast fucking her with feather light touches on her clitoris 36m:20s Positions 36m:50s Love her back into her body 38m:43s Dont avoid emotional connection for one night stands 40m:04s Iceberg metaphor for sexuality 41m:09s Fundamentals of sexual positioning variations 41m:11s Three Major categories of positions 41m:27s Six Body variations 41m:44s Six Directional variations 41m:20s Six Leg positions 42m:09s Deriving sexual positions from the above fundamentals 44m:00s The difference that makes the difference 45m:34s A great way to access her clitoris 46m:25s Discover her secret favourite position 47m:53s Neos favourite positions & variations 47m:56s (1) Missionary & Deep penetration 50m:00s (1) Missionary & the Deep Spot & Cervix 52m:15s (2) Woman on top 54m:15s (3) From behind 56m:56s Primal energy 58m:40s How to add to Great Sex 58m:58s Energy components thatll make the difference 60m:25s Yab Yum 61m:40s Dirty talk 63m:25s Every person wants to be loved at their lowest 65m:50s Dirty talk brings you closer. Requires a confident secure man 67m:11s Compliments 68m:23s Appreciation 69m:49s Sexual amplification 70m:55s Fantasies 73m:50s Female ejaculatory orgasms 76m:00s Anal stimulation 76m:55s Accepting and sharing each others taboo fantasies 78m:27s Different kinds of penetration strokes 80m:17s Transcend the techniques 81m:55s Spinal Energy technique 83m:05s Bringing sexual ecstasy into every day life

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SEXUAL MASTERY SEMINARS NEO (& DAVID WYGANT)

Neo Young of Complete Lover fame lover@thecompletelover.com

Seminar 1 3/19 Opening & Kino 00m:00s Principles behind giving a woman many orgasms
On a technical level o Stimulate her clitoris at least 25% of the time o Last longer in bed In order for her to have an orgasm with you, she must be able to let go with and feel safe with you. o She must know that you adore her (even with a woman youve just met, she should inspire and move you, you should be able to feel the possibility that one day youd be willing to die for her) and that she can trust you. o She mustnt be worrying about whether youre going to be good to her, that youre going to dump her in the morning, that shes going to regret it in the morning o The way you touch & caress her, the way you behave with integrity with her, the way that you be with her and be fully present with her all contribute to her ability to orgasm with you Great lovers are made not born. They learn through experience Guys are too mechanical and orgasm focused. Orgasm are made together, theyre not something you make her do Its not about the quantity but the quality of the orgasms you give her and the deep emotional connection you create through the shared intimacy. Some women are naturally highly orgasmic and can have many orgasms without feeling connected to you. However you can make woman who isnt naturally very orgasmic become really orgasmic by the way you open her and trustful you can be with her, by the way she feels she can be open with you

6m:40s Intro
BLAH BLAH

10m:00s Opening a woman and dating her

Some women are naturally highly orgasmic. However you can make woman who isnt naturally very orgasmic become really orgasmic by the way you open her and trustful you are be with her, by the way she can naturally open to you because she feels that level of intimacy with you Physical techniques only cover 25% of giving her orgasms You can open a women emotionally very quickly and have fantastic sex the same night you meet. The emotional connection doesnt have to build over weeks Dont play it safe, be bold Before you talk to her for the first time, feel her energy, observe her, the way she walks and her essence Dont be afraid to go deep right from the get go and build a deeper connection. Explore her and if you find her attractive, dont play safe from there, be honest. Tell her how youre attracted to her, how you feel about her and what you want to do to her Know yourself, know what gifts you can give her. Women can sense who are you, they can sense your energy (your fear or attraction for her) from your body language and vibe as you approach them. Dont hold back who you are, if youre not right for each other then you probably shouldnt be together Sensual & sexual rejection hurts hard for men, but if you try to avoid it then you miss out on the potential sexual intimacy you want Women will be thinking about sex as soon as you approach them if you approach her with a sexual posture. Approach her like a strong, confident, powerful man and claim her. Dont stare at her or hover around her for a while before you approach her.

 Observe her, get into her head and then start a conversation based on what youve observed with a strong, confident voice tone. Own your words., face her directly and have direct eye-contact with her. Let her know youre there to get to know her Practise by videotaping yourself, observe your body language, conviction, voice tone and the way you touch. Would you be attracted to you? 20m:20s The first kiss Your sexual skills start from the way you first approach her and the way you first kiss her Tease her with big, strong lips. Dont stick your tongue in like a lizard Give her a little kiss, let her feel your lips Touch her face and her hair Pull her close, push her back. Push-pull

21m:20s Dont wait for mastery before actually approaching women You need to be strong, lead her, know and claim her, but you wont be able to fully express these qualities in the beginning Your movements should be deliberate and powerful. A great mindset is to pretend that you actually own the place where youre approaching women. How would you breathe, carry yourself, walk and interact with people if you owned the venue? Choose an actor that epitomises powerful male sexuality and pretend to be them, to get a feel for how they might walk & talk 24m:10s Women are very curious 24m:45s Picture her in a state of sexual ecstasy over you Close your eyes and visualise a beautiful women that you saw today at the supermarket. Picture the way she walked, the way you looked at her Now picture her in an hour getting into a bubble-bath, shes getting all warm and wet, her skin is saturated with body oil Now shes laying down in bed and picturing herself having sex with you. Now she takes out her little vibrator and shes playing with herself. Shes cumming like a maniac and screaming your name at the top of her lungs, thinking about this great guy she saw today at the supermarket If you see a woman you want to claim sexually, you need to picture her masturbating, playing with herself and having sexual fantasies about you You can learn a lot by watching a woman masturbate in front of you Every time you get nervous approaching and talking to a woman, picture her little hand massaging her clit, fondling her breasts and yelling your name out in orgasm Youll get a dastardly look on your face thatll enhance your sexual aura If a man walks over with a smile, attitude and confidence, women start thinking about sex within seconds, because they can sense your energy

28m:00s Women love sex Women love sex but theres a fine line between a man whos very confident he can give her incredible pleasure and a man whos lascivious and needy that women dont find dig Women want sex, they just need a man whos confident enough in himself, knows what hes doing and can be playful with her so that her life gets enlivened through it You need to combine the energy of taking her in a primal way and the energy of softly, tenderly, caressing and adoring her. Thats what makes a woman melt. Finding the really deep, raw and primal masculine energy combined with some refinement of feminine energy that can connect with her

29m:14s Touching her (Kino)

Many guys dont touch women enough, especially in relationships. Should be touching her at least 20% of the time. Lot of guys only really consistently touch her in bed. Let her know through your touch how good a lover you can be. The way you stroke her hair, the way you run your finger down her back and just hold her lower back, shows the level of awareness you can have on top of claiming her You need to have that balance of masculine and female energy to draw the full sexual potential out of a woman. Most women want to be taken. Once she feels you can take her, she wants to be adored and have that tenderness, have you ride that wave up and down. 30m:21s Be touching her a lot David touches his woman 70% of the time. He is very selective with his women because he wants those long sessions of making out, making love and touching her, grabbing her hair. He likes to claim her by touching her in public by grabbing her hand, whispering in her ear how he loves her, that he wants her etc, how amazing last night was. 31m:40s Foreplay thorough the day Foreplay starts from the second you wake up in bed. Wake up next to her, spoon her, tell her how great last night felt. Connect with her, press up against her body, hold her really tight because those feelings she has, will last the whole day. Connect with your lover throughout the whole day via text messaging or email, keeping her hot for you, like last night was great, I can still smell you all over me or I cant wait to get my hands all over you again or I can still taste you. Then when you finally see her you still might not have sex for a couple hours, just watching TV together or making dinner, pressed up against her. The more you touch her, the more you feel into her, the more of your essence is all over her, the greater the sex is going to be. If youve been stimulating / teasing her the whole day, by 10 o clock at night shell be pleading with you to make love to her 34m:11s Female masturbation Women do not get turned on as soon as you touch her vagina, they dont cum in a few minutes. They are not dick conscious like men Watch how your lover masturbates. Its long and drawn out, shell tease you, shell lick her fingers and caress her fingers all over her body. Shes showing you what she wants from you and how to touch her, be intimate with her Have her hold your hand and feel how she masturbates, learn from it. She may go counter-clockwise where as youve been going clockwise, she might go light then heavy. 35m:30s Practise touch If youre not dating, caress a piece of cloth or stroke your pet such that they surrender to your touch 36m:15s Women respond like a Dimmer switch If youre out on a date say to dinner, by desert be sitting beside her so you can gently stroke her Most guys dont touch a woman till the end of a date and youre suddenly supposed to kiss or youre suddenly reaching for her breast Women are like dimmer switches, you need to start from zero and go through all the imperceptible intervening levels of stimulation to build comfort with her, to get her fully aroused

37m:00s System for gauging her comfort level via touch Neo has a system of 13 steps to touching her, that help you gauge how to go from form first saying hello to holding her hand eventually kissing her. Each step in between is imperceptible to the next and it feels natural If youre not touching her at all, touch her for a second then take your hand off and see if shes comfortable with that. If her body fully relaxes into yours and she smiles at you then you know shes comfortable with that level of intimacy with you. Touch is one of the best ways of gauging your level of intimacy with her. Is she backs away or gets tense or crossing her arms or legs or frowns, then you know you touched her inappropriately, too rough too fast too hard and then you adjust 37m:45s Touch her for 1,2,5 then 10 seconds Then you touch her for 2 seconds, then for 3, then for 5 and then 10 seconds Use these progressive levels of touching in various areas that are easy for her to get comfortable with, like her shoulders or back, to get her comfortable with you leaving your hand there

38m:15s She has to be able to open up to you first to have mind-blowing sex
This kind of progressive touching is heavily tied in to mind-blowing sex. She needs to be able to stepby-step open up to you and trust you. Even in long-term relationships there are levels of her opening up to you that are required Neos own girlfriend took months before she was able to have female ejaculatory orgasms with him, because she had to fully open up to him first. Although Neo knew technically what to do to elicit female ejaculatory orgasms from her, it still took 3-4 months for her to trust him enough for those kind of deep orgasms. Sexuality isnt just about techniques. Its about building a foundation where youre worshipping her, melting each other, having so much fun together. Choose a woman who you can naturally do that with, not be faking yet. From that foundation then, will the distinctions of technique, the way you touch her and talk to her , add to the symphony of sexual pleasure you can co-create with her Sex gets better with somebody the more you get to know them

40m:45s Finding the G-Spot together with her

Probe her pussy, combining your fingers with hers BLAH BLAH

42m:20s Performance anxiety

Women tell David that most men are minute men. He can last for hours and he likes them to beg him to cum inside them However Neo says initially guys shouldnt be too concerned with lasting a long time because your fingers are always hard. You can still give her pleasure, especially your first time you should give her 13 orgasms before they even see your cock. You want to really tease them. Dont initially make lasting a long time your focus and goal. It should be about building that energy together, connecting with her and amplifying all your techniques through the emotional connection EVERY WOMAN has a Madonna-Whore complex and want to let go into their wild side

43m:57s Turning her on

Lots of guys want to have their cocks sucked. The only question is how you can be comfortable enough with each other, that you get your cock sucked 2-3 times a day, because thats what you want. She adores doing that for you and wants to do that for you because you adore her. Because you tease during the day, you touch her in the way that she desires to be touched, you pleasure her just with your fingers and tongue that no other man does.

 It becomes a powerful virtuous circle where the two of you get to play and worship with each other, because thats where the juice and real pleasure lies You should not be trying to get her to suck your cock and pleading / negotiating for it. If you arent getting your dick sucked often, its because o youre not turning her on o you dont know how to make love to her o you dont know how to kiss her and hold her o you dont know how to talk dirty to her or seduce her using text-messaging o you dont know how to touch her and kiss her o she doesnt respect you as a powerful man o you dont walk over and claim her Every woman wants to date a powerful man and not in financial sense. If they sense that power in you theyll beg to suck your dick. Women want to unlock their inner-naughty girl on you, but the problem is most guys dont know the inner combination.

47m:00 MARKETING FLUFF 50m:20s Sexual mastery and self-confidence

When youve developed yourself into an incredible lover, when you naturally know you can open any woman and give her pleasure most men havent taken the time to learn, your initial approach to a strange attractive woman will show that It makes a huge difference to how you approach her and talk to her, when you know that whichever woman you choose to claim is going to have the most mind-blowing sex shes ever experienced. It makes a massive difference to your confidence knowing that you have something tooffer The tables will be turned because knowing how much you have to offer her, itll be her loss if she rejects your approach. You should be qualifying her, is she intelligent enough to make you want to play with her When you can truly make love to a woman that youre truly hot for and you know she is also hot for you, she tells you how much she loves you and sucks your cock for you, that is an external reflection of the internal depth of connection youve made

52m:15s Deepen your connection

Ask her powerful questions to deepen that connection. Once youre sharing your dreams, about what shes passionate about, her dreams, what inspires her , what satisfies her, what she wants to do in the world, ties you together The deep connection leads to the bedroom. There are so many intricacies that make the difference between okay sex and earth shattering sex that youll remember for the rest of your life. They are learnable though

54m:00s MARKETING FLUFF 56m:47s LISTENER QUESTION : David Shades techniques

David Shade focuses on dirty talk and the Deep Spot Learn from as many people as possible. Each piece of information is only a part of the bigger picture

59m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : Importance of money to Woman

Women are attracted to (from evolutionary psychology cave man times) Resources i.e. money. But the first two characteristics women filter for are o Are you the Tribal chief aka bad boy?

o And whether you have an Emotional connection with her? I.e. will you stick around if she has a baby. (adore her, love her, be with her) The tribal chief is attractive because hell kill off someone who has more resources or is better looking However women also need to check whether youre going to stick around because one bad decision on her part could end up with her being pregnant. This is true today even if we have methods of contraception Resources are quite low on the list. Its more about you how comfortable you are with having less resources. If youre confident about what you have to offer women then that is attractive to them Men and women want to loved for themselves, despite all their shortcomings and hang-ups. Find a woman you can be fully comfortable with knowing that shell love you, whatever your circumstances are o Neo was dating a Budweiser model. Despite the fact that he didnt have much money then she told him, youre the only person that I would follow around the world without question. o That wasnt because of his money. It was because of the way he adored her, the way hed be with her and love her A woman wants to feel taken care of and protected, it doesnt take a lot of money to create that feeling in her. Its more about how you be with her. How much are you attracted to her, that you want to create these kinds of experiences for her. A picnic youve planned can feel as special to her as a holiday in Hawaii. Take the lead, be the man Find only women that you feel an insane attraction to. Shoot for the stars.

66m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Female Ejaculation Comfort & Acceptance

Essentially women are very sensitive about being judged. You need to adore her so much that she can relax and female ejaculate and enjoy it without feeling embarrassed. You can demonstrate your adoration for her o by maybe licking up her juices o or holding her close and saying wow that was amazing and kissing and nibbling on her ear for 5 minutes o or kissing her on the cheek whilst gently stroking her stomach and saying to her, wow that was absolutely incredible, I felt the power of that Hold her and talk to her. Share your experience of that moment with her Be a big enough man to make her feel safe 68m:20s Accept her You want to create an energy between the two of you such that she can feel comfortable enough with you, that she can do the most lewd, weird crude thing like farting and shell still know that you love and adore her This works both ways. What if youre unable to get hard one day and shes lying naked spread open in front of you. What if you had to lose all your money? How would you want her to react? The foundation underlying incredible sexual pleasure is that you two are able to love each other for all your imperfections Those times that something supposedly considered weird or taboo by society happens, are opportunities for you to show her how grounded and solid you can be for her 70m:00s Farting You will get to a point in your relationship that the both of you have to fart and that is a bonding experience, because that is when you are totally open and imperfect, when you are most human As a man you need to take the lead for that. If you can make her feel comfortable when shes supposed to feel embarrassed, shell worship you for that. That is a key moment for you to demonstrate it. You

will have passed a big test by being the man whos solid enough for her, unlike most other men out there that she knows. The intimacy and sexual pleasures will amplify from there

73m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Getting her to Masturbate

Basically say to her, baby I am learning a lot of amazing things about sensuality and sexuality. I want to pleasure you even better than I am right now, so I am wondering if youd show me how you masturbate so I will know how to get you off even better. She will think shes won the lottery. If you say to her, baby can I just pleasure your clit for half an hour. All guys should set down isolated practise periods so they can learn the intricacies of how she responds, so that when theyre making love with her it flows more naturally o How the shape and colour of her labia changes o Does she respond better to an upstroke or stroking under the hood Just ask her, I want to pleasure you better. I want you to hold my hand while you do it or can I just watch you do it? 75m:18s Claim her. Love her Women can feel embarrassed by this so you have to be certain enough in your desire to claim and pleasure her so that her embarrassment melts away. This is true with any emotion o When a woman is angry she just wants to be loved o When a woman is embarrassed she wants to be loved through her embarrassment So you just have to man enough to filter through that and lead her powerfully using your conviction, adoration & worship of her so that her negative emotions dissolve like fog before the sun. This is the same powerful energy that women respond to when you first approach them, it applies ion the bedroom as well o There is nothing that my woman can express thats too much for me to handle, because I see through to the core of it o If she can sense this in you, shell open up to you and youll see the difference in the way she makes love to you, the way she sucks you, the way she bes with you, the way she surrenders to you 76m:45s Lead her into touching herself It comes down to the way you lead her. If you ask her nervously, she nervously wont do it When hes on top of her, David likes to raise himself up on his arms, look her deep in her eyes, grab her hand, suck on her fingers slowly and whilst looking in her eyes lead her hand down to her clit. Again while looking directly in her eyes, hell say to her Touch yourself, I want to feel us together. Dont ask, Lead her in the bedroom Use a strong voice tone with attitude After shes touched herself down there for a 1/2 minute or so, David will lick her juices off her fingers, then lead her hand down again and let her touch herself for 40 seconds before pulling her hand back out. Then hell let her lick her juices and then hell kiss her and theyll lick her juices together

78m:25 Ultimately its all about Male Primal energy

A woman will be comfortable to the degree that youre comfortable with it Sexual mastery is really about transforming yourself as a man, that is the underlying energy that fuels the whole sexual experience You will grow into a man who embodies so much solid primal energy that she cant help herself as you lead into fantasies that shes always wanted to play with. If you make it okay because you dont judge her for it its going to get really hot Woman are begging for this, they will be drawn to you if you can embody this energy, theyll be fighting over you

 At one time Neo was dating four women that all knew about each other and they were very happy with it You want to develop your male energy to a point where on the street women will think wow whats different about this guy? Your knowledge of all the sexual techniques and sensuality, how to touch a women and carry yourself will all translate into the way you walk and approach her and the energy you bring in to the bedroom

81m:00s MARKETING FLUFF

Seminar 2 3/26 Kino to Kissing 0m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : nonsense 3m:25s LISTENER QUESTION : nonsense 8m:40s LISTENER QUESTION : How to meet women so you can practise this!
You have to get out there, put it on your calendar to simply make eye contact with at least 10 women a day, 3 days a week at the very least. Say hello to them as make eye contact. Start a conversation with 3 of them, with 1 of them start a longer conversation. Even if youre working late, make a plan, make it happen. This aspect of just doing it, will get you there When Neo was picking up women, he would approach 70+ women a week as a practise. You will more confidence because youre going to have a perspective that most men dont have on how to lead a woman. Even if youre shy, anything that you practise, you become more confident in. True practise comes in when you get dates So just mark in your calendar, say hi to at least 10 women a day, 3 days a week at the very least. Whatever time it is, just get it done, at the mall or wherever.. Start a short conversation with 3 of them, and with 1 of them start a longer conversation and ask for her number. So youll be in touch with at least 30 women a week. You have to do this assignment 12m:40s Introduction Going to be covering the fine art of touch and kissing, which is a very important foundation for all men. Escalating in a smooth manner from the first touch to the kiss, is something most men havent broken down into steps, which is easier for many men to learn this way However know that this is just a reference point, a structure to learn so you can transcend it. Its a structure to memorise so when youre on the date it becomes part of the flow and youre not hurrying from point A to point B. So you know that oh shes comfortable with me touching her this way, so now I can go further. 13m:40s Weekly assignment to practise meeting women All those guys who are working long hours or just shy, you absolutely have to assign to yourself, I will approach 30 women this week. You have to do this if youre not going out on dates. There are many techniques on how to approach women and pick up lines etc., but if you just do this assignment, you will get it through experience. If youre not getting out there and just doing it, youre not passing the first hurdle to practising all the stuff Neo is going to teach Go out and say hello to at least 10 women a day, at least 3 times a week. Do double that if you can. Start a conversation with 3/10 of them. If youre in a bookstore ask her what is her favourite book, why shes there, use anything that is around you, ask her opinion. Out of those 3 women, have a longer conversation with 1 of them and get her number if youre interested So get 3 numbers a week if youre not dating. Initially its about asking for the number, not getting it

17m:15s Touching guidelines : Leading her via touch

Presented in the context of escalating on a date Touch is one of the most important skills to learn You need to be touching a woman regularly on a date Practise touch, even on piece of velour whilst youre driving! Variations of touch : o speed, o pressure, o and location

 You want to be man who knows how to touch women better than 90% of men out there. Most men dont touch women till theyre having sex, in a way thats really loving and adoring. Women hunger for this. When you get good at touching women, theyll be able to read it from your body language If you get can get really good at touching / pleasuring her with the forefinger of your right hand you need to get as good pleasuring her with the pinkie of your left hand 19m:30s Thirteen escalation steps : From first touch to the kiss Purely a guideline Women are like dimmer switches, they like to be lead almost imperceptibly from one level to another 20m:00s (1) Touch her for 1 second When youre on a date, touch her for 1 second, as soon as you possibly can It may be on her hand or shoulder or wherever It may be because she says something funny, or shes happy about something or maybe just because shes looking at you in a really sexy way 20m:23s Calibration Throughout all of this you have to be very sensitive in calibrating her because if you touch her in a way she doesnt like or in a place that is too sensitive or too roughly, shell let you know through her body language Touch is a language of the body, youre communicating directly through her body and it will communicate directly back to you She might not even be comfortable with you touching her 1 second. Read for that through her body language : o is she comfortable and relaxed, o does she smile and laugh, o do her eyes open, o does she touch and twirl her hair o or does she tighten up and pull back o or frown? Be good at reading a womans body language because every step of the way though sexual & sensual mastery her body will tell you what shes comfortable and uncomfortable with. That is hugely powerful because you dont have to guess whether she likes you. Her body will tell you in terms of intimacy or touch o For example itll help you know whether to kiss her at the end of a date. Although women want to play & flirt so itll work if you suddenly escalate to a kiss at the end of the date, but its very abrupt It is key that you lead your women almost imperceptibly, in a way she doesnt even know youre leading her. Where its so part of the flow that its easy for her to just follow your lead 23m:01s (2) Touch her for 2 seconds After touching her 1 second touch her for 2 seconds Even this small escalation can be huge for a lot of women, so really use your calibration and senses whilst interacting with her In the beginning it can seem like youre multi-tasking because youre having a conversation with her and wondering when to escalate touch as well There might be a hour gap in between the 1s and 2 s touch before shes comfortable with it

24m:44s (3) Touch her for 3 seconds Next touch her for 3 seconds

 Count in your head From 1s to 3s it doesnt matter where you touch her, it can be on her knees or just her forearm, however always start off touching lighter and softer first, almost like a feather touch. Or just touch her and look her in her eyes whilst talking with her and laugh 3s is actually long time to be touching her. Its intentional and shell feel that sexual tension. Anytime youre touching a woman there is already sexual tension. Whether youre a woman or a guy, sex is always on our minds. Women want a man who can lead them into sex, where it doesnt seem like theyre the ones leading, because if women lead then they can be called a whore. You want to alleviate as much of that pressure from them as possible, its all your lead If youre moving too fast you dont have to apologise. Just back off and laugh and be with her 26m:13s (4) Touch her for 5 seconds Now touch her for 5 seconds Again it might take 10 or 15 minutes while you bridge that gap from 3s to 5s while youre hanging out together. Its not how good you are at escalating quickly its about how comfortable she is. This is an underlying theme with sexual mastery, its about the woman 27m:12s Practise touch Knowing these techniques and practising them in a structured manner, will improve your mastery to a level most men havent dedicated themselves to Its not about how many moves you know but how well you can execute a few moves and do it smoothly If youre not with a woman practise stroking your cat, your dog, a piece of fabric etc 28m:20s Use more than just your hands to touch her You dont just have to use your hands. You can brush by her, lean into her or be just be playful. If she says something funny, you can touch her for a second, or you can roll your knee against hers if youre sitting next to each other 29m:55s Grow your male primal energy Be confident in your own masculinity to master touch Continually hone and grow your primal, raw alpha bad-boy masculine energy because thats the energy that will help her appreciate your soft touch and blow her mind. If you dont give her the context of strength and youre being overly soft, she wont be turned on. Be dominant and lead her Get into an exercise program, continuously develop your physical energy You need to be able to touch her powerfully yet at the same time be so soft and smooth as you ever so gently caress her cheeks You need to feel your primal energy such that if your woman is in danger you dont hesitate for a second to protect her, put your life on the line and kick some ass. This is the energy behind your touch 32m:40s (5) Touch her for 10 seconds Touch her for 10s Every step of the way youre gauging her By touching her for 10s youve reached a pretty intimate level where her body feels safe with you, trusts you Even if youve been going out for a while, touch her a lot more. Youll transition quicker between each level, but still using that smooth dimmer switch approach

33m:51s (6) Leave your hand on her After 10s you want to be able to leave your hand on her, whether that be : o on the back of her hand, o knee, o thigh, o shoulder etc. Touching your knee against hers would be the same, so long as she isnt moving her knee away Read her body Practise this structure and gauge her reaction. You dont jump to leaving your hand on her without touching her for 3s first and making her feel comfortable Having this structure to guide yourself is going to make yourself a lot more comfortable because you dont have to guess. Her body will tell you if shes feeling uncomfortable at that moment, if she backs up. No problem, it was just too intense for her at that moment. No women will slap you for putting your hand on her shoulder for 2s.

35m:34s (7) Move your hand to her shoulders and massage her After leaving your hand on her (forearm for example) transfer your hand to her shoulder. Shell be comfortable with this if she was ok with your hand on her arm. Again be perceptive and calibrate to her body language. This whole time you may just be talking, having dinner or watching a movie, just touch her a little bit 36m:05s Massage her shoulders Once your hand is on her shoulders, start to very gently and very slowly massage her shoulders If its your first date and youre sitting across from her, get next to her if you cant reach her shoulders. By dessert if its possible just say to her, you know what I feel very close with you and I want to sit next to you/come sit next to me while we have some dessert. Take the initiative, if you lead her that confidently most women will not say no unless you have really bad rapport Once youve established touch rapport, thats almost deeper than any conversational rapport. So practising this touch is very important Dont give her a heavy hard massage like most men would do. Shell interpret your massage into how good you are in bed At the very least get a massage book to learn the various strokes. If not get certified in Swedish Massage, tons of hot women in those classes! If youre not comfortable just starting to massage her shoulders just ask her, hey would you like a shoulder massage? Most women would not turn that down or youve no created enough trust & intimacy and youre coming across as lusty and just wanting to get her into bed Have the mentality when youre touching her that youre just enjoying the interaction, theres no goal of getting her into bed. Create trust with her body, therell be enough sexual tension later When massaging her shoulders, go slower & lighter at first. You should move as slowly as 1cm per second. Always go lighter with the pressure initially, you can go harder later It should be like youre touching and caressing the most amazing piece of art in the world Whilst massaging her shoulders, use both your hands, your fingers, your thumb and the palm of your hand. Practise Once youve gone on a date say to her I love giving you a massage, you feel so good when I can just give to you and relax you. Can I give you another massage? Most women would be crazy to say no if you approach it that way. So you can ask her or just lead her into it, which on some level is better as its a little bit more alpha Once shes really comfortable i.e. shes sighing and moaning, closing her eyes, relaxing into your touch then you can pull her into you. Her back is close to your chest, the more body parts touching the better, the more comfortable shell be with you

40m:27s (8) Massage her neck From the shoulders move up to the upper part of the back of her neck, the nape of her neck. This is an erogenous zone. Remember all these transitions are separated out so they can be learned, but they are so close to one another that the escalation will seem to woman like a dimmer switch being turned up rather than a big leap. This will help you come across as being smooth and knowing what youre doing, being sensitive to her. Use your thumb opposed to your fingers to squeeze lightly and slowly on the nape of her neck. The lighter and slower the better. This slow speed will turn her on hugely and youll feel it. Youre creating such rapid intimacy through touch. Youre doing really well if you can get to stroking her neck. By this point most women can be kissed, but most men dont even take the time to get here before kissing her. However there are another 5 levels to this flow before the kiss 42m:15s Go back to her shoulders From the neck go back to her shoulders i.e. incorporate every aspect from before the current level 42m:25s (9) Move down and massage her hand Give her a slight arm massage or even better just slowly and lightly squeeze her biceps as you move down from her shoulders. Then move down another inch and squeeze her again. At her forearm squeeze her again. Squeeze and rub her arm Women love their arm being massaged. It shows affection and adoration which theyll read everything into. Do this as much as you can even in a relationship, be touching her 75% of the time like David & Neo do. o It will build up the energy thatll lead to her screaming orgasms later. Everything you do right now is tied to the level that shell open up to you and surrender to you From her forearm massage her hand. Massage each one of her fingers, squeeze them and take your time. Shes not going to complain that youre massaging her too much. Read her body, shell be relaxing into you and smiling if shes comfortable, so keep on going 44m:25s (10) Hold her hand Youre already massaging her hand so just stop and hold her hand This is a natural transition. Is a good way for shy guys to hold her hand because youre not just grabbing it Once youve mastered this flow, bridge the transitions even faster which will increase the tension even more Itll register with her that youre holding hands, so subconsciously shell think Im comfortable with it so I must like him 45m:15s Review 1s 2s 3s 5s 10s Leave your hand on her Massage her shoulders Massage her neck Move down and massage her hand

 Hold her hand Now youre holding hands cherish the moment Again, youre not in a hurry to move through this flow, youre just kicking it with her From the first step to the tenth step it might take 5 hrs, it might take until the 2nd date or might take only a minute. Just read your woman. Having this level of smoothness of transitioning is going to serve you very well as youre leading her whilst honouring and respecting where shes at because her body is giving feedback every step of the way 46m:14s Pull her closer to you Pull her closer to you and maybe switch hands so that you can pull her in closer to you whilst massaging her shoulders and neck with the other hand 46m:30s The principle of Fractionation Using the principle of Fractionation (from Hypnosis), let her hand go sometimes Youre not attached to holding her hand. So by letting go and then later holding her hand again, it makes the connection deeper because youre not being needy or clingy. Youre not feeling the pressure to escalate, youre just hanging out. So just pick her hand up again. Youre trying to create the same energy as you would have with a regular girlfriend when youre just naturally holding hands together So with a girlfriend youve been seeing for a while, hold her hand and massage her hand more often. One way to separate yourself from a lot of other men 46m:34s Massage her shoulders again From holding her hand go back up and massage her shoulders & neck again 47m:50s (11) Caress her head and hair Caressing her head and hair is now the next level, because like holding hands this is very intimate. She has to be very comfortable with you to do this, stroking her hair is almost reserved for the bedroom So youre holding her hand and massaging it anyway so just go ahead and massage her head first. Use a kind of octopus tentacle motion, reaching out then drawing back in again. Once again slow & lighter than you think Go back to stroking her hand and watch her melt! Shell be putty in your hand, shell be sighing and moaning. Confidently lead her knowing that youre giving her pleasure and serving her through your touch

48m:50s (12) Caress her face and ears The next level is to caress her face and ears This is very tender, most women fantasise about having their face stroked with just the tips of your fingers. Hold her cheeks and stroke her earlobe and trace the outer parts of her ear Youre already stroking her head & hair so its natural to progress to her face This is super erotic. Trace her inner ears If youre having dessert by now you should be feeding her whilst striking her ears and face 49m:35s (13) Kiss her Once a woman is comfortable with you stroking her head, hair, face and ears she is ready for you to kiss her Youre stroking her face already so look in her eyes, stroke her face and move her face ever so gently in towards you. Go 90% of the way in, let her meet you the rest of the 10% so shes participating as well, adds an amazing dynamic to the kiss

50m:20s Review 1s 2s 3s 5s 10s Leave your hand on her Massage her shoulders Massage her neck Move down and massage her hand Hold her hand o (then go back up to massaging her shoulders and neck) Caress her head and hair Caress her face and ears Kiss her 51m:10s FLUFF 52m:50s How to get lots of sex quickly Its okay to have sex on your mind but youll get the sex quicker if you honour her, love and adore women As well as practising touch, you have to transform yourself as a man as well. Start enjoying touching, serving women and pleasuring them for hours. Guaranteed when you know that you can give more pleasure, more touch and more loving than any other man out there, women will pick up on this 54m:25s Every woman is different Every woman is a universe unto herself so treat her as such. There is no point when you stop discovering an erogenous zone on her. It might just be that shes finally reached a point where she can trust you more because youve shown up more as a man and so shes opened up such that theres a previously undiscovered area on her body thats opened up Use this touch grid as a means to really discover your woman. Next time youre on a date, touch her as much as you can, stroke her hair, her face and tell her amazing she looks There is no definitive most gorgeous woman but go out with a woman whos an 8 or 10 for you. You wont have to fake it, youll have natural enthusiasm for her, youll feel like you just want to play with her, touch her and give her pleasure, serve her, draw out the most luscious juicy pleasures from her. You will have this fire driving your body that you cant fake. Having started mastering this stuff you deserve to have that kind of woman Every man deserves a woman hes naturally into and vice versa for women. You should both naturally want to give each other the pleasure you deserve, so it becomes a reinforcing feedback cycle of giving each other pleasure

56m:27s (13) Kiss her Once a woman is really comfortable with you stroking her face and ears you can kiss her. Take the lead, as soon as you lock eye4s and shes got that glint and theres a pause, move her face with your fingers since youre already touching her face. If she resists you just havent created enough intimacy yet, its not because she doesnt like you. Women love a man who really takes care of himself, the details and can really take her primally. Again continuously covet and hone your masculine and feminine aspect

57m:45s Go in 90% of the way As you move her face towards you, 90% of the way and allow her to come in to you the remaining 10%. If she doesnt come in, just let your lips hang there for a second or two and feel the tension there, shell come in If she doesnt come in, that tension will make the first connection of your lips when they do come together that much more juicy By letting her join in that last 10% she is choosing you on a bodily level. This is a very powerful dynamic

58m:30s The kiss is so important for women Most women have had detailed fantasises about their dream kiss since they were little girls so it could be a make or break event for you By using the following tip youll be giving women really incredible kisses that most guys wont have the sensitivity to give her 59m:23s How to discover her dream kiss. Model her kiss Every woman has in her mind how she wants to be kissed, and since youre already touching her mouth with yours by now, you want to model how she kisses you You do this because absolutely no woman considers herself a bad kisser. So shes going to kiss you in the way that she thinks a good kisser kisses So take the first 5, 10 or 30 seconds to kiss her exactly the way shes kissing you, shes going to think that youre a great kisser So observe o how her lips are positioned o how much pressure shes putting onto your lips o the angle shes positioning her face o and everything in between. If she licks her lips before kissing you, then do the same o if she switches her lip positions every few seconds, do the same

60m:50s Aim to merge into each other. Become synchronised So in the beginning of the kiss youre not leading her, youre mirroring her so that it feels like youre kissing with one mouth This is consistent with the idea of sexual union and energy. So by modelling her kiss youre already starting to build that energy of synchronicity where youre feel, oh my god we are just one mirroring the other and we dont even know where one ends and the other begins. This is the level where woman melt 61m:25s Start slowly and softly, then gradually lead her more Dont make the mistake of leading the kiss too strongly, thrusting your tongue down her throat. Yes its passionate but as with touch you can always go harder and faster later. Start slower and lighter, follow her lead and make her comfortable After 30 seconds, or a few minutes of making out, then lead her Explore some aspects of how you position your mouth 62m:25s Incorporate touch into kissing her Everything thats been emphasised before about touch, incorporate into foreplay as well. So o Hold the back of her head whilst youre kissing her so that feels held and protected o Caress her hair o Massage her earlobes o Circle her lower back

o Stroke her stomach o Stroke her arm o Hold her closer to you o Stroke her face Kiss and touch is the foundation for everything else. Be smoothly flowing 63m:15s Lead her gently into the French kiss When you feel youre ready to lead her into a more passionate open-mouthed kiss with your tongue, go really gently Youve been making out for a while now and maybe shes been sucking on your tongue and upper lip a little bit. You want to move at this gentle intensity as well. Dont intrusively thrust into her mouth. Add that sensation by perhaps tracing her lower or upper lip with your tongue. When shes ready her tongue will come out to meet yours. Its a dance, although youre leading her, youre Even with the French kiss, approach ever so gently. Pretend her tongue is the softest flower in the world and youre gently exploring her. If her mouth opens ever so gently after youve traced her lips then venture a tiny bit forward to touch her tongue and see if she meets you there Some women like sloppy kisses but many dont, so once again model her kiss To really turn it up do the French kiss, but just really enjoy the regular kiss 65m:15s Touch : the difference that makes the difference Incorporate touch whilst kissing her. Use touch to really bring her in and hold her close to you. Slide the tip of your finger down her neck whilst kissing her. 65m:30s Kiss her elsewhere, then go back to her lips Then stop kissing her lips a little bit and explore kissing her on her cheek, nibble on her earlobe a bit or perhaps use your tongue to lick it a tiny bit. Then come back and kiss her lips a little bit. Then go down and kiss the nape of her neck then go back to her lips again The (push-pull) dynamic of moving away and then back in again will generate an incredible level of intimacy thatll blow her mind 66m:08s Nuzzle her. At this point youre incorporating touch, so now touch her with your face, nuzzle her Use your nose and side of your face to caress her face, neck and ears. 66m:30s How can I merge with her? This energy where youre melting into her body will turn any woman on big-time. Always focus on how you can merge more with her and connect deeper. This connection is always strongly related to her pleasure and orgasms later 67m:04s Shell judge your kissing In effect shell judge your kissing on how well you match (model) her kissing style. So even if shes a poor kisser match her style in the beginning. If you do something different shell think youre a shitty kisser 67m:32s Push-pull Go in and kiss her lips. Pull back a little, smile, look at her. Touching her face which creates a very intimate moment 67m:55s Hold the back of her head

always honouring her and seeing where she wants to be led

 This is very primal. Its very soothing to her, it makes her feel safe, like nothing bad can happen to her Stop trying to get what you want and focus on giving her what she wants. This will take the intimacy off the charts So once youre kissing very passionately, reach for the roots of her hair at the back of her head and grab it very lightly 69m:20s Switch between masculine and feminine energy Youre always moving in and out of masculine, dominant leading and feminine, sensitive, flowing energy which will make it amazing for her 69m:45s Distinctions of touch Pay attention to the following (also whilst youre kissing her with your face and rest of your body) o experiment with Speed o Pressure. Always go lighter and slower in the beginning o & Location 70m:50s Use different parts of your body Use different parts of your body. Make sure each of your fingers is as dexterous as the next finger in touching her. Practise on a cloth or on a date. A woman might prefer your pinkie tracing the outside of your ear versus your thumb. Find the magic combination of her erogenous opening Use the base of your palm a lot to apply a broader type of pressure when touching, massaging her or pulling her closer Use the top part of your forearm to explore her shoulder blades and back. Contrast this type of touch with you then coming from behind and stroking her face with your finger, to create a different kind of touch intimacy Use your face for a different type of touch. Be intimate by just putting your forehead against hers. Kiss her with your forehead, the side of your face and move it against her body Use your chest to bring her in and glide her past your chest Use your thighs to bring her in and squeeze her Practise and play with this 73m:15s Various types of stroke Short strokes vs. Long strokes Broad strokes vs. Narrow strokes Horizontal vs. Vertical Linear vs. Circular Trace patterns on her What curve on her body do you want to bring your and her attention to with your fingers? The outer part of her thighs? Its a process of discovery. Use Neos foundation

74m:10s Master the small steps first

Dont rush the process. This will make you an incredible lover Even if her kissing style is bad, model it at least in the beginning. Then tell her you want to play a game. Youre going to show her how you like to be kissed and shes going to do the same. Thisll will really turn her on as youre letting her in on your secrets

76m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : How to mirror her kiss

If shes French kissing you in the beginning, just go for it. If shes thrusting her tongue down your throat because shes so turned on or because shes just a very passionate person, then mirror that

 Every womans kiss is different. Later you can lead her and show her variations on how you place your lips o You can put both lips on her top lip o Or both lips on just her bottom lip o Kiss her sideways Its really about the energy, the passion that woman feel. If you can draw her into you and kiss her with so much passion but just gently on her lips, thats very potent. Passion doesnt have to be big sloppy French kisses

79m:30s LISTENER QUESTION : Being creepy & calibration

How do you get comfortable with touching her on a date? How do to become natural at it? o Its the same as learning how to drive a bicycle, it also felt very unnatural in the beginning but once you got it, you had it and never thought about it anymore, you werent self-conscious about it anymore o Do not be overly conscious on a date of Neos structure for touching. Your priority should be to enjoy the moment and have fun o Use Neos touch structure to make sure you progress / escalate. If you dont progress your touch i.e. only touching her for 2seconds, youre not leading her in terms of intimacy, youre not creating a more intense level of sexual tension in her, shes not feeling that burn when you leave your hand on her o Neos structure is a smoother way of transitioning touch and physically leading her to more intimacy o Dont worry that shell reject your touch escalation because you made too strong a move. Neos touch guidelines are designed to make the jump between each level almost imperceptible. The difference between a 2s touch and 3s is virtually undetectable to her. So if shes comfortable with you touching her for 2s, then shes most likely okay with a 3s touch. Its only when you grab her roughly or jump past several levels that you may risk losing her. Be reading her body language all the time. Once you can go from touching her for 5s to 10s you can most likely leave your hand on her o Hold her hands more. Claim her. She follows your comfort, thats how most women work. If youre uncomfortable anywhere then shell become uncomfortable. It can be a very awkward situation, but if youre comfortable and are giving her sly smile, shes going to want you to lead her into that level of experience where she can trust you o Be sitting beside her as much as you can on a date. Be stroking her hand, her neck. Touch her as much as possible whilst kissing her. Keep progressing like a dimmer switch, shell feel the intimacy increase and youre going to feel her level of comfort increase exponentially because theres nothing like her being comfortable with your touch that opens her up to being comfortable with you sexually and sensually How do you avoid coming across as creepy? o If shes not comfortable with you touching her for 5s i.e. she may make the slightest pull away or slightest frown or slightest tensing up, you have to read that. Its only when guys dont see her signals and carry on, that they get the verbal rejection, because her body already told them o Part of touch mastery is being able to read her body and make the bridges very small. Usually when a woman is saying dont touch me that much, its because a guy went from holding her hand to touching her breast etc. o You only go from one level to the next when she is fully comfortable and relaxed into you and wants more from you. When shes super relaxed and smiling at you then she wants more o Read her body o Dont make sex the priority goal on a date. Make your goal, how much you can draw out the most juicy connection and pleasure from her. Youll get the sex quicker anyway, because she

wont be defensive. Give her the most incredible, sensual pleasure you can. Give, dont be a taker o Touch is one of the most important and potent skills as a lover

93m:00s Review
Review : o Touch her for 1s then o 2s o 3s o 5s o 10s o Leave your hand on her o Massage her shoulders o Massage her neck o Move down and massage her hand o Hold her hand (then go back up to massaging her shoulders and neck) o Caress her head and hair o Caress her face and ears o Moving her face to 90% and kissing her Model her kiss

Seminar 3 4/02 - Foreplay 00m:00s Massage Oil

Jimmyjane.com has an amazing massage oil. It comes as a candle that you start burning, then you pour the wax on each other the wax isnt very hot. The wax then turns into a great massage oil! David has been practising sexual control so he can have sex for hours and have multiple orgasms without climaxing

02m:30s Foreplay
You want to be so in the moment, lost in each other, exploring each other so that it becomes an extraordinary experience. Dont rush through the foreplay to the goal of sex. Take your time Once you have satiated your basic sexuality, then start experimenting with positions, hot wax, the ambience and your surroundings etc David is all about foreplay. He can go down on a woman for hours, he loves having that power over her, being able to eat her from head to toe without thinking about his own ejaculation. His own ejaculation is kinda anti-climactic. Except for sex in the morning, when youve been lying next to each other the whole night long and youre feeling so raw, youre just pounding away

04m:20s Her pleasure is your pleasure

He isnt satisfied if he doesnt get his lover off 3-4 times, its boring for him Giving the woman pleasure is your pleasure. Experiencing her, hearing her have an amazing reaction, hearing that wild unstoppable moan that escapes from her lips A lot of guys education came from porn i.e. bigger faster stronger and sport fucking which is considered bad sex like a lot of women How do you have that primal energy tempered by the timeliness of just exploring each other? David doesnt watch porn or even enjoy sex in movies. He knows how to have great sex, why would he watch others doing it?

06m:11s Romance novels

David learned sex through reading his moms romance novels! To David, foreplay is a way to connect on such an intense way. Romance novels outsell all other book sales. That is how much women desire that level of romance and timeliness, of being taken in a way that adores them, so that they lose themselves, totally surrendering past whatever challenges they think are there It is porn for women and its a billion dollar industry The more foreplay, the more they get off later Women want to hear how you feel, what you think of them. If you feel it, say it. Youre not signing a lifetime contract, youre just being present in the moment.

09m:00s Orgasm and Arousal

Biologically women retain more sperm when they have an orgasm, which means that when shes willing to have a guys baby (which is pretty significant) she is willing to have deeper better orgasms, because on a biological level shes wants to be receptive. This is where the intimacy comes in. When a woman can trust a man, be that intimate, have that depth of connection that she wants to have his child, is when the true opening and truly explosive orgasms happen

09m:45s Four primal drivers

Knowing the four primal drivers that women look for are very useful in pickup or sexual mastery These four factors (in order) have been passed down through our DNA since cavemen times o Alpha male. The leader, the bad boy

o Resources. Men who can provide for them o Looks. Healthy genes o Connection. So that if she has sex with a guy and falls pregnant, she isnt left to fend for herself So intimacy is tied in a very deep biological way to her survival instinct, so thats why its so important to her pleasure and orgasm Alpha male is very important because he can kill someone who is better looking than him or who has more resources and more connection. So you have to continually work on and amplify your alpha male qualities, to really fire up your passion with a woman The next most important factor with a woman is your level of intimacy and connection with her. On a biological level, her willingness to have sex with you means that she is willing to have a child, That deep biological driver is still there, which is why women can be so emotional during sex. She needs her emotional antennae to find out if this guy loves and adores her enough to stay and take care of her kid. That is the deeper psychological aspect of why its so important in sex, because when she has that level of trust that she can totally let go and relax, that she could actually (feel like in the moment) have your child, that is when the explosive orgasm opens up Foreplay is a huge part of this, because a man who really takes his time exploring all the intricacies and subtleties of a woman is much more likely to care about her and want to stick around with her. This contributes more that most men know to womens level of sexual satisfaction

13m:00s Foreplay structure introduction

This is a framework for how to approach foreplay As with the touch framework, ultimately once you are familiar with the foreplay framework, you want to transcend it. It is a reference point, so you can consciously practise the various aspects of foreplay, but again in the end you want to transcend it, to make it into the art and sensual flow of foreplay Neo presents the foreplay framework as if a guy had no clue, as if the guy is on a first date and needed to start touching his woman in foreplay to create that important level of intimacy i.e. how to go from stroking her back to gently stroking her vaginal area There are 12 steps that enable you to gauge her, respect and honour and love her each step of the way Her body will communicate her level of comfort. She wants to be led This structure will enable you to lead her a lot easier and have your interaction be a lot smoother and you can let go a little bit, shes comfortable here, now I can move on

14m:55s Build comfort

Guys fear theyre moving too fast and that the woman will slap them if they just grab her breasts. The woman should get mad because the guy isnt calibrating, paying attention to her level of comfort This framework will help the guy to lovingly & pleasurably stroke her breasts in a way thatll make her comfortable. The guy will also feel comfortable knowing that hes not crossed any boundaries because every step before that has been a checkpoint where her body will communicate her level of comfort Woman are like a dimmer switch. If you make each progressive move almost imperceptible form the previous level, here level of comfort will build and grow

16m:40s Dont be mechanical

This framework is only a reference point to how to lead a woman. Dont make touch and foreplay a mechanical process

17m:00s Emotional connection is the difference

More important is the connection. Once you know what the structural points are, focus on how you can love your woman more, choose her more deeply, how you can share things more with her so you can create that level of connection and comfort with her, thatll lead to so much pleasure afterwards. The difference is like night & day when you have this kind of connection with her

17m:30s Foreplay structure

This framework is one way to do it, its not set in stone however. Women are like the universe, its always up to the guy to really explore the intricacies of a woman. Use it as a reference not as gospel 95% of the time itll work, however there is no the way with women. Woman can change through one slight emotion such that what used to be an erogenous zone can actually now turn her off if your level of connection is off Its a dance. Its useful to learn isolated dance steps so you can then turn it into a flowing organic experience 18m:52s Use these steps in conjunction with kissing Previously in the touching framework, went from touching her for 1s, to holding her hand and kissing her. Every step through foreplay you want to incorporate the kiss i.e. if when stroking her back and pulling her closer to you with your massage, you should also be co-creating a juicy kiss with her 19m:32s Incorporate previous areas as well As you progress to the next level you should also include all the previous levels of foreplay techniques & areas, together with the new area. Itll feel amazing to a woman if you very gently foray into an area that she wasnt fully comfortable with previously 20m:18s (1) Back Woman hold a lot of tension in their trapezius muscles. Giving her a slight massage will relax her. Anything that relaxes her, opens and decreases her tension, increases her ability to experience sexual & sensual pleasure with you. Keep this in mind during foreplay as you touch, kiss, stroke and lick her have her so into the experience that she just melts into what youre doing The back is a very neutral area, so if youre already comfortable kissing her then stroking her back is very easy. Its not threatening, its a very loving tender place to stroke her Take your time. As a rule always go slower & lighter at first. Can always increase the pace and pressure later Whilst stroking her back, transition down to her lower back and then come back up

21m:45s (2) Shoulders Its not a big leap if youre already gently tracing a pattern or holding her upper back close to you, to be massaging her shoulders So transitioning from the back to the shoulders is all part of the same smooth movement. Do it whilst kissing her. Ask yourself, how can your touch, kiss and caress bring you even closer to her? Theres a communication to your physical touch that is part of the foreplay 22m:40s (3) Head Woman love to have their head explored Use that tentacle, jellyfish octopus like finger motion to stroke her gently over her scalp Take your time to very slowly move your fingers just over her scalp Again incorporate kissing with this. You could be kissing her and take a slight pause to just look into each others eyes and then you reach underneath her hair and just stroke her scalp a little bit, pull her into you as you kiss her more deeply Move to her back again, hold her close to you and then move to her shoulders 23m:45s (4) Neck Once again all these areas are tied together. You could be using one smooth stroke, from her back to her shoulders to her head to her neck

 The neck is an erogenous zone. Take 5 or even 10 minutes to just explore her neck Use your thumb and opposing fingers to squeeze the neck area. Or use one finger to trace from the back of her neck to the front of her neck and trace her cheeks and jawbones. Continue to kiss her 24m:30s One big sensual exploration The whole concept of this foreplay framework is that you going through one big sensual exploration. You are in timeless bubble with her, where nothing else matters. You could be in a restaurant and do this. Foreplay starts from the moment youre with her. It doesnt start just before sex. You could be just walking with her and youre tracing the top of her finger with your finger. When youre at a restaurant and youre holding her close to you, thats foreplay. Having a conversation, sharing and creating intimacy, thats foreplay 25m:23s Tune into her Take your time to explore her neck Tune into her. Does her breath quicken when you use your thumb versus your pinkie versus coming across the front of her neck? What type of stimulation that draws the most exquisite pleasure out of your woman? No two women are exactly the same She might love it when you just get near her neck (youre already kissing her) and smell her neck. Women love it, smell is very primal. So nuzzle in there, take a deep breath of her essence and say, you smell so good then kiss her gently at the nape of her neck So far weve done back, shoulder, head & neck Use your lips on all parts of her neck, women love to have the sides of their neck kissed and nibbled on. Move back up to her lips. Take all the time in the world

26m:56s (5) Hair This is part of the head but women love having just their hair very slowly, lovingly and tenderly stroked You could be just having a conversation with her, could be sitting next to each other in the car. Run your finger just lightly though her hair. Mostly theyll just sigh and relax, letting go of the tension in their bodies Again incorporate all the previous parts: back, shoulder, head, neck & hair Experiment lightly stroking her hair all the way to the end Try running your fingers over her scalp and just slightly grip the very bottom, the roots of hair. Women love this because its so primal, its like youre taking her You can kiss her neck whilst stroking her hair or stroke her cheeks whilst looking into her eyes. Create a beautiful dance with her 28m:35s (6) Ears Ears are another erogenous zone If youve created enough comfort by now, you can actually nibble on her earlobes or just trace the top of her ears with say the tip of your middle finger ever so slowly as you come into the inner part of her earlobe Maybe even kissing or licking her right behind the ear as you come down to kiss her neck and lips 29m:20s Explore each area Explore each of these body areas in the framework and focus time on them. If you dont explore her ears that much then when youre watching a movie together explore her ears for as long as the movie lasts. Experience the intricacies that you discover just in her ears

 Women will think youre the most amazing lover because so few men explore these regions with so much attention 30m:20s Importance of the little things These little things that so many guys forget, can be very intense. Handholding, playing with fingers for an hour is an intense feeling Knowing the various levels of this foreplay framework can give a guy a lot of confidence, because he now knows that just exploring her ears, neck or even hair can give her tremendous pleasure 31m:46s (7) Lower Back So many women enjoy having a hand on their lower back. Even kissing their lower back is an orgasmspot for many women When youre together i.e. in a restaurant or at a movie, just place your hand there and hold her. Shell feel more grounded and safer. From a chakra point of view youre grounding her energetically Shell relax into, it may be very subtle, even before you start moving your fingers. Its a physical communication that says Ill support you. This is huge because many men do not make that claim. Many women in our modern society have had to grow their masculine energies and be directive. SO they long for an opportunity to just relax into their femininity, where everything is being taken care of and they can relax By just putting your hand on their lower back, youre subtly saying to her she doesnt have to use her own spine to support yourself, you will be a rock for her. Many guys dont make this depth communication through touch or otherwise, so this is a huge step in opening up her sexuality and sensuality when you can hold her and she can relax into you Begin to circle her lower back ever so slowly and lightly it turns so many women it. Its practically orgasmic for them. Like with ears, explore just her lower back for a hour

34m:35s Massage oil David loves to heat up massage oil, pour it over her back and give her a massage. Then he takes his lips and slides them all over her lower back and find the spot where shes wriggling the most and stay there till she cant take it anymore. Then move his mouth all over her body, sliding on the oil. This is a highly erotic moment for the both You could be standing in line and lift her shirt up a little bit and kiss her there. Itll drive her nuts. Foreplay is always building that sensual and sexual pleasure with her, where you naturally adore her so much because you feel so amazing being with her, that you want to do these things for her If you dont have oil, you can still use your lips on her lower back. Gently circle your lips and create that sliding sensation The lower back is an erogenous zone worth exploring in depth and seeing their reactions 37m:12s (8) Stomach A womans stomach is her creative region, its where she gives birth. So many women have image issues about their stomach because of advertising. So if she can be comfortable with you tenderly stroking her stomach ... Neo doesnt care if theres fat there, he loves some softness there. Many women feel a man will reject her if her body isnt up to scratch, so if can she can fully relax into you just holding and stroking her stomach you willve reached another level of intimacy with her, because she now feels accepted by you. Just by the way you tenderly and lovingly hold your hand there and tell her, I love the way your stomach feels. Her belly button is a hugely erotic spot. Shell interpret the way you touch her belly button into how youre going to pleasure her clitoris and vaginal channels. So youre giving her a preview of the amazing lover you are

39m:05s Incorporate all of the areas Again make sure you incorporate all previous areas : back, shoulders, neck, head, hair, ears, lower back and stomach Throughout this whole process youre kissing her, youre making out with her, youre nuzzling her with your face. Youre kissing her across the top of her chest, across to her shoulders. Kissing her on her lower back 39m:30s (8) Stomach If you can kiss her tenderly whilst stroking her stomach, its going to drive her wild Tenderly kiss her around her belly button and smoothly put the side of your face to it and gently kiss her belly button again, lick around it a little bit, then back out again and make out with her some more. Kiss her lips whilst holding and circling her lower back Each of these regions in her body is like an additional colour on your palette, that can give further definition to the moment youre creating with her, with your sensual exploration In the beginning when youre transitioning from her lower back to her stomach, just hold your hand there. If she tense up, lighten your touch or even lift your hand up. Be calibrated and sensitive to her. Eventually shell relax with your hand there. At that point on a bodily level shell feel that you fully accept her, that you accept her for her stomach and love and adore her Then you can start stroking her ever so gently. This is a most tender and nurturing experience for so many women Foreplay is a gift for you and her. Learn to develop a loving of it

41m:20s Davids nurturing the stomach method David likes to lay his woman down flat and use oil on her. Then kiss her stomach, circling all around her stomach just above her pubic bone. He wont actually go down to her clit. When hes really into somebody, at the same time hell communicate what hes thinking & feeling, how hes tasting and loving every inch of her body and her. So communicate through your actions and words what youre feeling & thinking. Let her know every time youre kissing her belly that youre loving it 42m:56s Foreplay everywhere Foreplay starts as soon as youre with her, so you even when youre out on date you can tenderly stroke her stomach, fully clothed Even if youre in public all these body areas of the foreplay framework can be explored. You become an anchor for her so that every time shes with you she experiences some of the best sensual pleasures shes ever had. You could be driving and engage in foreplay. So few women get that from men, shell treasure you and worship you for it Many men rush into the sexual techniques without paying attention to the foundations, such that the sensuality and sexuality doesnt get as potent 44m:50s (9) Legs From the stomach transition to her legs (ignoring the inner thighs for now) An amazing erotic technique is to use the suggestion of going towards her pubic area as you explore her stomach. Tease women as much as you can. Take the most circuitous route you can as often as you can. Glide right above her pubic hair and then go back up to her stomach Same technique applies to her legs. As you first explore her legs, glide along the outside and maybe her knees, even glide down to her calves and the inside of her knees, before exploring her inner thighs. Come just to the bikini area and then come back out. Then make out with her some more and play with her hair again. The suggestion of you venturing towards the taboo area creates the desire for her to be touched there.

 Stroke her just right on her outer legs and squeeze her ever so gently on her legs, then just leave your hand there and have a conversation. Then kiss her some more and now stroke more of her inner thighs then come back out, without ever getting too close. The suggestion will make her year for your touch there. This building of anticipation creates all the right dynamics So far the areas weve done : back, shoulders, head, neck, hair, ears, lower back, stomach & legs David really likes to take his time with her legs. He also likes to stimulate her with different sensations on each of her legs simultaneously i.e. kiss, lick and taste on one leg, but on the other leg move his fingers gently, so she gets two different sensations 47m:36s Each woman is a universe unto herself Your woman might be able to have an orgasm just by you licking her inner knee area because its so sensitive or so rarely explored. Its up to you to find out just what kind of strokes up her inner calves turn her on the most. Is it circling or just gliding your forefinger and middle finger ever so slightly in a straight line? Is it gently squeezing that makes her go crazy or Davids mirroring technique? Is it gently kissing one inner thigh whilst gently stroking the other thigh with the side of your finger? Take time to explore these. Take an hour to explore each of her neck, her ears and her inner thighs. Assume you have an infinity of time with her, theres nowhere to go, youre just enjoying each other If youve been having a conversation whilst stroking her thigh for an hour, guaranteed shes been thinking about jumping you the whole conversation. Youre building that level of fire & tension inside her so that when you actually both want to explore that region it becomes very hot & juicy 49m:25s (10) Inner thighs On the sofa, David likes to stroke her legs very gently. Hell stroke her inner thighs for the whole 2 hours of a movie. Its about non-stop foreplay. If you stroke her inner thighs for the whole 2 hours of a movie, the last hour shes very conscious of how wet & turned on she is, shell be aching for you the entire movie Women relate very well to the man who pays attention to the details. It shows youre different to most other guys who are crotch grabbers and want to fuck after the movie. You can be doing two things at once and set yourself up for some amazing sex later that night 50m:30s Go through all the zones in order of escalation Inner thighs is actually 10th on the list, but a lot of guys will go straight for that erogenous zone. However stick to the order. If shes not fully comfortable with you stroking her head, neck and ears, she wont be as comfortable with you exploring her thighs. However once she can melt into you exploring for example her neck, ears & stomach, then transitioning to her legs and inner thighs will seem much more natural On a bodily level going straight for her inner thighs might feel like too big a jump for her. Its all about how you can lead her in the most powerful directed way possible whilst having her feel utterly comfortable the entire time She might not feel comfortable with you stroking her inner thighs or her stomach to begin with. So start with her back and shoulders. Work that level of physical comfort with you so you can powerfully lead her like its the most natural thing in the world, like she actually wants you and trusts your lead because youre reading and honouring her body the whole time 52m:00s Create a Connection & Intimacy Any time shes tensing up .. say youre stroking her leg and her eyes bug out, she has a little frown and she retracts a little bit its because you havent created the level of intimacy & connection that warms her to trust you touching her there. Nothing about you or anything else other than you mightve been thinking too much about fucking her and come across as too crotch centred and penis focused. From that she basically didnt trust your touch. Her body will tell you the entire time. You have to read

her reaction all the way, to be able to really lead her powerfully & smoothly, respecting and adoring her the whole time 53m:00s (11) Butt Once youve explored her lower back and inner thighs you glide from her lower back to her legs, to her inner thighs and up to her lower back again while progressively inching a little lower on her lower back so youre just grazing just the top part of her buttocks area Its all about incrementally escalating both of your levels in exploring each other, in really opening into allowing each other into the intimacy of exploring each others bodies So incrementally go from her outer thighs to just the middle part of her buttocks and then up to her lower back again. This is a very smooth transition, whether from her lower back, just brushing past her buttocks to her outer thighs to her calves; or from the outer/inner thighs through her buttocks up to her lower back 54m:19s Include all regions in one gliding stroke Alternate, dont stay in one area because shell become numb there. Your lips can be kissing her ass and at the same time your hands can be stroking her inner thighs or her lower back; or maybe kissing the back of her thighs and touching her lower back at the same time Once youve covered an area its good to keep those sensations going in that area and doing things at the same time in new areas Its good to glide past, youre never really just on one region when youre gliding past. Link say he calves to her outer thighs to her inner thighs to her lower back; to stroking up the back of her back to her shoulders to her neck to her head & hair in one stroke, youve reached all the regions but it feels like one smooth stroke So the mentality to have is, is to blend all the areas into one another and focus on your level of connection & adoration with her Some guys are ass guys and just want to grab that ass, which you can do a little later, because its all about that smooth transition you create with a woman thatll get you to the places that you want to take her

56m:21s Butt If you can get her comfortable with you stroking her stomach, then after brushing past her butt a couple of times you can just leave your hand there and compliment her on how incredible it feels Then take your hand off and make out with her some more whilst stroking her ears with your fingers 56m:50s Take time to explore all the little intimate places Were now getting into much more erotic play-zones so you have to become more attentive to her reactions as you explore these regions Most guys dont take the time to explore all the little intimate places on her body that will make you stand out as an incredible lover, apart from other men. If on a date you have spent more time on her neck and ears than other guys, then shell know that youll probably be different in bed because you had the patience & you were able to take pleasure from just stroking her ears and stomach 57m:52s (12) Breasts Explore her breasts very circuitously. You can approach them in 2 ways 58m:03s Method 1 of approaching her breasts Firstly you can approach this region from the stomach, as youre stroking her stomach you can just lightly just brush up against the bottom of her breasts with the back of your hand and then come back down again

 Its very important to gauge her reactions at this time. Shell know that you just brushed the bottom of her breasts, but you didnt violate any boundaries & shell have time to respond. Youre asking her body, do you feel comfortable with me stroking you here? Do you want me to lead you further into this sensual and sexual exploration? Youre asking her body, shell either tense up or sigh / moan and look into your eyes and have that sly smile that says come here and take me. Her body will tell you everything 59m:19s Method 2 of approaching her breasts You lovingly brush your hand and perhaps circling the centre of her chest where her heart is. Put your hand on the top of her chest and contacting just the top of her breasts and stroking her across the top of her chest (not touching her nipple) before going back to the neck again As mentioned before go back to other regions. You could go back to her ears in one stroke before going to her neck then coming across and stroking the top of her chest again. 60m:00s Brush past the nipple Only after a couple of brushes past the top or bottom of her breasts and shes totally relaxed into you, wanting more from you. Then you can venture into just brushing ever so slightly past her nipple with the back of your hand, almost accidentally If shes gasping and moaning into it, she wants more but dont go back right away. Go back to kissing and adoring her, massaging her scalp and stroking her stomach. 5 or 10 minutes later brush past her nipple again with the back of your hand Then you can maybe venture with the front of your hand, with your fingers stroke over her nipples underneath her bra (no bra off at this time) 61m:05s Gently lead her into areas of deeper comfort & opening The mentality it so ever so gently & lightly lead her into regions of more opening, where she is fully comfortable from the foundations youve built from before, to then explore the next region Men to emphasise the slowness and patience of their exploration because theyll distinguish themselves even more from other guys shes been with. Most guys are tit grabbers, ass grabbers and pussy grabbers . gotta grab the pussy, touch the pussy, lick the pussy, eat the pussy right now 62m:00s The side of her breasts David loves to spend a lot of time on the side of her breasts because theyre very sensitive. Shell thrust her nipple into her mouth, if you kiss the side of her breasts and lick her body Shell tell you exactly what she wants you to do. There is no guessing when you look at a womans body like a roadmap. Using this framework youre allowing things to unfold naturally and youre naturally creating desire 62m:45s Shell just grab you A lot of times when Davids done these things, shell grab his dick before he goes anywhere near her vagina Breasts are #12 on the list, so by now youve fully explored so many of her erogenous zones that if youve done it right, shell be so aroused she will just grab you Guys worry about if theyre moving too fast and whether shell want it. However if you follow this shell tell you every step of the way, she will lean her breasts into you. Get her comfortable with you just touching her with the back of your hand versus the front of your hand, before you venture into kissing her breasts, because that is very intimate. So you still have this level of gauging her reaction, because the back of your hand is much less threatening. The bottom, side and top of her breasts are much less intimate a region than the centre of her breasts and nipples.

 Always take the circuitous route, go around the edges, tease her as much as you can. When she cant take the teasing anymore shell pull you into her 64m:11s Fake boobs respond differently FYI a lot of times women whove had boob jobs, their nipples are not as sensitive as they used to be, but the side of their boobs are even more sensitive. So these women like to have their boobs massaged a little harder 64m:48 Always build up, start off softly & slowly However you can find out what she likes just by the way you touch her, but at first err on the side of lighter and softer. You can always go harder later on, but someone will get turned off if you go too hard and first from the get go Build it up so when she says oh I love you grabbing my breast then you know she wants you to grab her breast to feel you more Contrast your stimulation, so maybe go from grabbing her breast to ever so lightly brushing past her nipples to maybe grabbing her breasts again. Everything you want to go from light to heavy and then back again. Unless she prefers all light or heavy stimulation. Women love contrast and variation 66m:25s Ask her When you ask them what do you like? look them in their eyes. Itll turn them on incredibly David also likes to put their hand on top of his hand then look at them and say, just press your hand down on top of my hand and let me know what pressure you like? This is also very sensual thing to do Asking her, makes her feel that you care and adds so much to the intimacy. Few guys have the balls or are humble enough to ask for feedback. Every women is a universe unto herself and shes just waiting for you as the adventurer to discover the wilderness that is her. Have her show you how she masturbates because you will learn so much just from that experience and both of youll will have increased pleasure from that 68m:12s Drop your ego Guys dont ask because of their ego. Their ego is so big they feel they should know everything that they dont know and theyre afraid to ask A lot of guys egos ruin their sexual experience for them The more you grow yourself the more youll know that there is still to learn. Be open-minded Neo knows hell be a student of sensuality & sexuality for the rest of his life and therefore new insights will come to him, which wouldnt have happened if hed thought he knew everything and therefore hit a ceiling Even a superstar like Michael Jordan probably found even more and slighter distinctions that gave him the edge that other people didnt see There is no stopping point, its a lifelong pursuit When youve established the necessary intimacy and you ask her what she likes, she will tell you

70m:20s (12) Breasts and Nipples Again, first off explore either the bottom, side or tops of her breasts, just with the back of your hand at first then the front of your hand. Then brushing ever so gently past her nipples. Then once shes really comfortable with you brushing past her nipples, over her bra, you can now explore her nipples directly, over her bra or shirt even Dont stay too focused on it. Use the principle of Fractionation where the effect is even more powerful, when youve breached into an even more erotic region, to just let go of that area. Go back to making out with her, hold her close to you, stroke her cheeks and nibble on her neck & ears. Dont go to

her breasts for another 5 minutes or 10. Then grab her breasts again. Shell anticipate it and shell be thinking why is this guy not staying on my breasts like every other guy, once hes got there. Every other guy has just tried to take my bra off, yet hes just making out with me This will melt a woman, your ability to have patience, to be able to feel the most raging passion and yet hold off and tease her is going to blow her mind 72m:05s Underneath her shirt, but still over her bra So as youre exploring her breasts and nipples over her shirt, the next level is to go under her shirt but still over her bra Then the next level is under her bra but still keeping her bra on These are levels to keep in mind, theyre not set in stone, theyre just structural points thatll make your exploration with your woman that much smoother For example when you can make smaller, more gradual transitions between levels, like you havent even touched her breasts yet youre reaching under her shirt to grab her breast might seem too sudden versus; o brushing past the bottom (top or side) of her breasts with the back of your hand and then transition to brush past her nipple and then escalate to over her shirt and then transition to underneath her shirt over her bra and then underneath her bra. These are the tiny layers transitions that will make a women comfortable in your lead, knowing that youre a sensitive enough guy to have this many layers to exploring her breasts 73m:15s Taking her bra off Once youre at unhooking her bra there are 2 levels. At first, stay away from unhooking her bra because to some women (not all women, again you have to find out for yourself) this means shes deciding to have sex with you. This may be too big a jump for right then. If youre exploring her breasts underneath her bra, women will be comfortable with that because shes not taking her clothes off yet officially (13) Yoni (Vagina) So you might want to touch her pussy and vagina over her clothing before unhooking her bra, but it depends on the individual woman. Neo usually doesnt unhook a womans bra until after shes fully comfortable with him exploring her vaginal region. To unhook her bra, incorporate everything learnt up until now. Go from her upper back to her lower back to her stomach and inner thighs. Get just the slightest bit closer to her bikini line without touching her there. Then just slide your fingers right over her bikini line and then stroke her stomach again. As youre making out with her and approaching her beautiful ass you can approach ever so slowly to the bottom curves of her ass as you get closer to it. So as you get closer to her pussy with that much adoration for her it takes on a totally different energy and shell feel that. Some women will thrust their yoni (Tantric term for vagina meaning Divine Passage or Sacred Temple, which gives a totally new mentality to it) into you. Glide ever so gently into her inner thighs and then glide out. Shell be anticipating you touching her pussy, read her body. After youve done this a couple times and youre getting so close, shell be wanting you to get touch her yoni. So one time ever so slightly glide past her yoni with the back of your hand for a second, almost accidentally 75m:55s Kiss her breasts Then explore her breasts some more. Now that youve explored her breasts enough with your hands underneath her bra, you can maybe start kissing the tops and side of her breasts. Perhaps just playing with the tip of your tongue on her nipples before you glide ever so slightly past her yoni again, from the front or back. Its this incremental transitioning to more erotic levels thats really going to turn her on, tease her and arouse her

 You can now transition from the back of your hand to the front of your hand into applying slightly more pressure to her yoni, perhaps even holding your hand there. Now that youve got to here, weve got to the sexual exploration part that will be discussed in more detail in the next seminar

77m:10s Review of all the body regions and principles

Order of Foreplay o Back o Shoulders o Head o Neck o Hair o Ears o Lower back o Stomach o Legs o Inner thighs o Butt o Breasts o Yoni (Vagina) Transition incrementally in this way through this progression, always keeping in mind to take your time and always go the circuitous, less direct route. Take as much time as possible to melt into her experience of you, and you will create the most incredible levels of foreplay

79m:50s LISTENER QUESTION : Hair and Neck

Use your creativity in exploring her hair & neck. Squeeze the back of her neck with your hand. Try each one of your fingers i.e. just your forefinger to trace the back of her neck up to her ears, back down her ears and then across the front of her neck. Use your lips to explore all aspects of her neck, the back of her neck, more to her shoulders and the nape of her neck You can be kissing the nape of her neck whilst exploring her hair and stroking her hair with your fingers Now that you have in mind all 13 regions to focus on and some regions you havent paid particular attention to, take an hour to explore each of those areas youre not used to Some women are very sensitive so pay attention i.e. she may have hair extensions and therefore feel uncomfortable with you exploring their hair for long! These regions are simply guidelines, listen to her bodys reactions

81m:40s LISTENER QUESTION : Calibration

Calibration means you do something and pay attention to her reaction. If you touch her hair and she leans back and frowns , it means your touch didnt create such good feelings for her Pay attention If youre massaging her shoulders and manhandling her like some guys do and she says ow then her body is telling you youre being way too rough and her body wont be able to trust you if you carry on like this Go lighter & slower at first Everything you do, look and feel into her reaction. If she likes it, shell tell you, her eyes may roll back or she may moan or sigh or lean into you. Now that you know youre doing the right thing, do more of it Every region you explore, pay attention to how shes reacting to it. If she doesnt like her hair being stroked then dont stroke it, although this is rare amongst women Every woman is a universe unto herself. If she doesnt tell you verbally, her body will be the first to tell you every single time, how she feels about what youre doing. Its a subconscious reaction,

more reliable. Even though she may not want to upset your ego, her body will always have a reaction of whether she likes it or not As you grow as an amazing lover you have to get really good at reading her body

Seminar 4 4/09 Clitoral & Vaginal stimulation 00m:00s LISTENER QUESTION : Nonsense 06m:05s LISTENER QUESTION : Your Energy & Intention behind your Kino
Theres a difference between staring and if you lean back, smile and just take them in. Very few people will think youre rude, because its the energy that youre doing it from. Thats true for almost anything Theres so many layers to touch, you can touch her & grab her, you can touch her to tease her, you can touch a woman by really slowly gliding against the bottom of her calves. Are you doing it from a place of teasing, a place of fun, of love? In order to reach the upper echelon of being an incredible lover you have to really pay attention to the energy youre giving off In terms of energy, whatever youre comfortable with, becomes comfortable for the group youre interacting with. This in a way almost gives permission for the rest of the room to feel comfortable doing the same. In groups, people check with the dominant (alpha) person to see if theyre okay with it

09m:00s Everything before Intercourse

This seminar talks about everything up to, but not including sexual intercourse Guys find it a lot easier to relate to technical aspects and the structures behind sexual techniques

09m:40s Your energy behind your Applied Sensuality

Remember that the energy that you approach sensuality & sexuality with is of the utmost importance Technique is only 25% (maybe 50% if youre a technical expert) responsible for the quality of a womans total pleasure. Applying the energy & fuel behind the techniques that makes it a complete artwork So work on your technique ability but also constantly on your ability to connect with your woman, to really claim her, to love her to the degree that she trusts you so much that she opens to you completely. Where on some level you would choose to die for her, although this may or may not seem appropriate at the beginning of a relationship. If you get to a 7 or 8 on the scale where youre prepared to die for your woman, to make that leap of a claim, its going to be some of the best sex shes ever had. Nowadays weve been trained to have a lot of psychological protections, where people believe if they open too much theyll get hurt which is true. The deeper you love the more the possibility is youll get hurt. However the courageous will claim and love that deeply anyway Go for a woman who really inspires you, such that when you wake up next to her you think I cant believe I had the pleasure of making love to this goddess. I love her on all levels and its just such a rush to be with this person. Wouldnt it be amazing if you were such an amazing man that she felt the same way about you? 12m:30s The quality of her orgasms is tied to your emotional connection This is perfectly on topic with sexuality because the depth and degree to which you can emotionally connect with a woman is tied to her capability to have incredible orgasms. You can ask almost any woman that Neo likes to be very specific with things that students can work on so they can gauge their progress whereas energy & emotional connection isnt as measurable You can measure that by asking the question can I trust my life or all my money with my woman? If not, try to increase that by a point on a scale of 1-10, because that will make the difference in your sex Dont give this trust blindly, but pick someone who you can and try to play the game at this level. When you shift the energy just one little point like that, the pleasure thatll course through both your bodies will be exponential So its massively important to really connect with your woman

14m:07s Physically demonstrate your care for her Besides the emotional/energetic things you can do, you can also do physical things that show you care by looking deeply into her eyes, by the way you stroke and touch her, the slowness and way you take your time Every aspect of how you caress, touch and adore your woman is building upon her potential orgasmic juices

14m:50s Clitoral stimulation with your fingers

There are more nerve ending on the tip of the clitoris than your entire penis, it is thats sensitive Neos familiarity with the clitoris comes from attending an institute in San Francisco, where he attended 2 timed practise sessions every morning at 7am, with different women, where hed practise his skills in eliciting the most exquisite pleasure from just their clitoris. The womans task was to become more and more sensitive so they could have deeper orgasms Some of the distinctions that Neo discusses came from this practise. It was very awkward in the beginning because it was mostly technical and Neo was used to connecting from the heart, but Neo did learn a lot technically and got much feedback from different kinds of women of all ages and sizes 16m:17s Every woman is different It was through the above practise sessions Neo really got that every woman is different. You have to treat every woman as an entirely different universe. Dont assume anything, if you want her feedback, ask her If youre in a relationship ask your woman, would you like me to just pleasure your clitoris, just give you all of my attention on how I can draw out the most incredible pleasures just by touching your clitoris differently and for you to let me know what works really well. No woman will turn you down 17m:00s Practise with her Have practise sessions, 2-3 at least, starting with 15 minutes. Say to her, this is just time for me to increase my ability to pleasure and adore you. Today maybe we can just play with the clitoris. This is very important. A lot of guys dont take this approach to sensuality & sexuality, so their ability to gauge their progress is limited. Put in the time and practise to get you to be an amazing lover If youre in a relationship, request I, hey baby I would just lover to explore your G-spot for 15 minutes to an hour for today. Most women will not turn it down, since most dont get that level of attention from their man Sometimes you dont even have to ask. Just set it in your mind that today youre going to find out things you never knew before about your womans cervix area, youre just going to explore that pleasure with her whilst really loving, connecting and adoring her 18m:53s Clitoral quadrants The clitoris can be divided into quadrants, and if imagined as a clock face, it has been found that with 80% of women, the 1 oclock area has been found to be more sensitive. Try it even though the clitoris is so small There is no definitive way to pleasure any woman. Even a woman youve known for a long time can shift because the level of depth you created with her has also shifted. Somehow you became trustworthy enough that she opened to a whole new level, as a consequence of that her clitoris alone might become super sensitive One woman that Neo was practising with, the friction from the lube when he lifted his finger away from her clitoris was enough pressure for her. If he applied heavy pressure then it was not pleasurable for her. For some women as they approach climax they need more pressure on their clitoris, but again every woman is different

 When approaching her clitoris always go slower & lighter as first. Think of how sensitive the head of your penis is and how uncomfortable it feels if a woman rubs it wrong. Its the same thing for a clitoris Most womanlike enough lubrication whether from her own juices or other lube and feather light touches at first. Most men err on the side of going too fast, too rough and too much pressure So start off lighter and slower, you can always go faster later, most women like that build-up anyway Pay attention to the quadrants and experiment. On a clock face is she more sensitive at 12 o clock, 3 o clock, 6 o clock or 9 o clock? Can she take direct stimulation on her clitoris if you lift the hood, right away? Or does she like it that go over the hood first and then as her pleasure increases, that you pull the hood back 21m:52s Different directions of approach to her clitoris Play with the direction of approach. You can go from above, straight in, below or the side Neos found that a lot of women love to have the underside of the clitoris stimulated, and hooked under. But this is not a rule, these are only guidelines to explore your woman and find her secret spots 22m:25s Different strokes Play with the direction that you caressing her clitoris. You can press it, up & down (the main way), circular clockwise, circular counter-clockwise and also side to side 22m:45s Pay close attention to her reactions Each of these different strokes come with their own properties of contact feeling for a woman so you really have to pay attention. As you go through all these techniques, notice the small things. Her response to your stimulation can get that fine, that the tone of her moan shifts as you vary your technique. The things that most men wont take the time to really pay attention to are the things that you as a man who is studying this, can. If you can notice just a note higher tone shift when she likes that stroke then you can apply that stroke more, whereas a man whos not listening for that, might shift something when she actually wanted more pressure applied to a certain spot, like say 3 oclock underneath her clit 23m:44s It will feel very technical at first At first it will seem very technical but like learning to ride a bicycle it will eventually become subconscious If you can practise 2 x 15minute sessions a week, then in a moth youll be further ahead than most men So be the man who takes time to practise, but know that ultimately the goal is to transcend the techniques into pure flow. Once youre familiar with the techniques and calibrating her level of pleasure and where to lead her, then you focus all your attention on how to love her, connect with her and open her. On smoothing her through a spot that her body cant release through yet, its all these subtle things on energy & heart connection level that are really going to take your woman to the next level With technical aspects as the foundation, you want to build a mansion of her incredible, rapturous, ecstatic pleasure from the energetic heart connection

25m:26s Signs of her response to look for So pay attention to the tones of her moans and even her involuntary muscle twitches. A lot of times thighs therell be a slight pulse on her inner thigh. Sometimes therell be pulses where her labia open slightly. These are the slight things youll notice as you experiment with various strokes, location, speed, pressure & quadrants You are like an explorer discovering her most incredible way to explode into pure ecstasy and orgasm, to where she no longer has to be in control of everything to be able to survive in this crazy world. Where

you become the catalyst for her to let go of everything and just be in the pure ecstasy energy of the moment. If you can do that, youre really going to enjoy yourself. It really isnt that hard, anything that Neo has done, any man can do if they apply themselves and learn from Neos shortcuts and experience. Live up to your fullest potential as a lover 27m:12s Shifts in the colour & size of her labia & clitoris So notice muscle twitches and also colour shifts in her labia & clitoris as more blood rushes to there. When it shifts colour notice what stroke you were doing on her clitoris. Was it clockwise, side to side, coming from above or below? Was it because you were kissing her and then you went back down? Also pay attention to size changes in her clitoris 28m:00s The tempo of her breathing Observe how the pace of her breathing changes. A lot of times you can actually stroke her to the tempo of her moans and that gets her more in sync with her body which allows her to have a bigger smoother orgasm. A lot of men will go at their own rhythm and be arrhythmic to his womans tempo 28m:30s Merging with her On a deeper level youre becoming one with her. There are moments when Neo is pleasuring his lover and hell know when her orgasm is coming because he feels it, because its like his own orgasm. The whole point is that you delve into each other so deeply in your sensual & sexual practise that her orgasm becomes your orgasm. The way you touch her becomes the way you feel the pleasure from her and vice versa So at some level youre one person having incredible orgasmic experiences. When you get to this level its actually very easy to lead her pleasurably because you feel into where to lead her and the tempo is very important for that All the minute things like the way her heartbeat is pulsing, youre naturally in sync with your stroke (just talking about your finger for now) will create a much more incredible union, merging and connection between the two of you and will allow that level of pleasure to expand out Listen with your whole body, when youre practising stroking on her clitoris and noticing what brings her the most pleasure. Listen with your arms as they lay on top of her. Listen with your face as you nuzzle next her. Listen as youre down there, with your breath. Paying attention to these fine things is whats going to take you to the next level 30m:30s Stimulate over her clitoral hood first As a general rule (there are no absolute rules) start pleasuring the clitoris over the hood first, so she has time to get used to you 30m:41s Slow down, pay attention to the energy of the moment A lot of guys are in a big rush because they want to elicit the greatest response from her in the fastest time possible, because theyre so used to imitating porn and bigger, faster, stronger. They dont realise porn is made for men to get men off, not women. If you ask women, most arent turned on by sport fucking porn per se Men should rather take the time to look into female porn i.e. romance novels. The level of build-up, passion, intrigue and the level of taking that a man does. Once again the energy aspect of the sexual experience is so important. The technical aspect adds to the palette but is not the main dish 32m:01s Practise with the rest of your fingers as well So once again create separate practise sessions and become really sensitive with your fingers to what she likes

 Once you become really good at say pleasuring her with the forefinger of your right hand or the forefinger and middle finger together, you want to play with the other fingers You want to increase your dexterity & distinction with your other fingers so that you can have that same level of ability as with your best finger. This is because in your lovemaking, although it can be a little awkward, Neo encourages you to stimulate her clitoris (in all the different sex positions) at least 25% of the time. Her clitoris is still her main sexual organ 32m:47s Stimulate her clitoris with your fingers during intercourse as well Studies show that less than 30% of women can have an orgasm through intercourse because some women vaginal channels are not shaped so that she can have a G-Spot orgasm during intercourse. However almost every woman can have a clitoral orgasm, so if you give her that added sensation youre going to double her potential of receiving pleasure from her In the isolated practises where you can really fine tune how to touch her at the speed, location and pressure that you can touch her, then you can access her from any awkward position you like. In isolated practise, use your thumb, ring finger and pinkie on your right hand and the fingers on your left hand as well You might notice that your pinkie on the left hand might not be as dexterous as your forefinger of your right hand so have isolated practise with your left pinkie. When you get this good, that you can listen with all of your fingers to the way that her clit wants to be lead, then youve reached a technical level of mastery that will separate yourself from most men, who dont take the time to attain this level of skill

34m:15s Your finger is always hard

We havent even gone over making love yet, just covered pleasuring her with your fingers. Know that your finger is always hard. Many guys are afraid they wont last long enough in bed, thats the only way they can satisfy her. However there are ways that your fingers can stimulate her G-Spot that your penis cant and maybe even give her a bigger, better orgasm! A lot of guys egos are tied to their penis and yes it is good to be strong in all areas, which is covered in next seminar, like lasting longer

35m:07s Give her 2-3 orgasms firstly with your fingers

If its your first date give her 2-3 orgasms before she even sees your penis. Give her so much pleasure that she cant imagine anything else but oh my God how amazing is it when I actually get to make love with this guy Most guys are trying to get women into bed rather than being so in the moment that she loses all control & senses of reality because there so much pleasure coursing through her body

35m:46s Mastery has great spin-offs

When you know that you can give women this kind of incredible gift, the whole relationship game becomes different because you have a level of understanding / knowing; the level that you can appreciate, adore and open a woman past her busy day and past her life, will be greater than most men out there Knowing that you are this gift, choose a woman worthy of receiving it. Where the two of you are supporting and loving each other to the degree that you both dream of Getting laid feels really good, but most guys who can do this regularly, there will come a point when they want to sleep with a woman that they absolutely adore and love and she in turn worships them for the man that they truly are and also returns the same level of respect and love to you

37m:27s Vaginal stimulation with your fingers

Neo prefers using yoni instead of vagina. Its a Tantric term that means Sacred Passage and gives it a whole new connotation that he likes

 Were still just using our fingers on her. If you can give her 1 or 2 clitoral orgasms and 1 or 2 G-Spot orgasms with your fingers, shes going to be yours. Shell be putty in your hands, itll almost be like you can do no wrong at that point. Love making then becomes a natural progression to increase your intimacy & pleasure, rather than the feeling that you need to get laid now, which the woman will sense Neo has a lot of beautiful female friends who dont know if the guy likes them for them or their looks. These kind of women want to know that you are interacting with them as a person, they want to be seen for who they really are. So how can you give that to her so she can really open up, that is the gift from both sides. Keep this in mind The energy is so important, once you have gone past the basic technical aspects, focus on the energy of how you can claim her, love her and adore her even deeper 40m:00s Worship the pussy Worship the pussy Sometimes the energy behind sex just needs to be lightened a bit as sex can get so serious. Even though we do have modern methods of contraception, it is serious & intense on a deep biological level where the woman is choosing a man to father her baby 40m:51s Fractionation Again the principle of Fractionation applies. Take light breaks as youre pleasuring each other, crack a joke or tease her, kiss her tenderly, just to break up the energy a little bit, before resuming. Fractionation comes from hypnosis, where you take someone deep into trance and then take them out of trance. Then the next time you take them into trance, they go even deeper into trance The same applies to sensuality, when you go really deep and then break the moment by laughing and having a conversation, then when you go deep again she has a greater trust of that energy because youre not being needy, youre not needing to hold onto that deep level of connection or intensity 41m:42s Contrast It creates a contrast so that when you next apply the same level of pressure as before it can be felt deeper by her. Alternate between light and heavy, fast vs. slow and even stop altogether This can be really potent in your lovemaking where you temper the depth of your connection with fun and laughter, the fractionation will really help your pleasure 42m:26s G-Spot stimulation The Grafenberg spot is usually located 2-3 inches inside on the roof of her vagina. For some women itll feel like a rough spot. Some women the spot will actually fill with fluid and bulge out a little, once youve given her 2 or 3 orgasms The G-Spot is the spot that can help elicit a G-Spot orgasm from her and when she trusts you enough and there is enough fluid build-up, an ejaculatory orgasm (discussed later) For most women the G-Spot is very very pleasurable. Some women can have G-Spot orgasms when stimulated correctly 43m:42s Use heavier stimulation unlike clitoral stimulation When stimulating the clitoris, always go lighter at first especially. For a lot of women, the clitoris can only take so much pleasure before it becomes too much (some women can take a lot of pressure on it however). Itll begin to feel too rough for her if youre applying too much pressure or going too fast on the clitoris, especially without lubrication or if you go too hard in the beginning However in order to elicit a G-Spot orgasm you actually have to apply deeper pressure and go a little faster than you might think. Not to say that you should do that right from the beginning. The analogy of the dimmer switch applies here as well. With woman you always want to approach really gently, especially when first entering her yoni

44m:45s Tease & massage her labia Resist the temptation to go into her like a bull in a china shop. Tease just the side of her labia. So many women love having their labia massaged. Take some time to take one side of her labia and massage it between your thumb & forefinger/middle finger slowly down the length of it. Its almost like foreplay before you enter her yoni, give her that level of attention Tease her. Maybe just dip your pinkie 1cm into her before coming back out and playing with her clitoris some more and then just kiss her 45m:47s Incorporate all the foreplay techniques Like stroking her stomach, circling and teasing just the bottom of her breasts, kissing the nape of her neck while youre exploring her yoni and learning all of its unique distinctions 46m:30s Enter gently As you stroke you may just enter her slightly and have her juices come out to meet your finger. For most women if you just hold still, her juices will come out whereas most men want to make it come out and go in too hard or fast, making it uncomfortable for her If a woman likes you enough shell protect your ego by not saying anything, especially in bed 47m:10s Have that primal energy but also cherish her Cherish her like shes the petal of a rose. Pretend that shes fragile and can be broken very easily. Then once youve passed that edge, where trust has been established Where shes so turned on and flowing with her juices by the way you touch and adore her, then you can really take her and fuck her hard as you want and shell really like it. Women want to be taken and have their hair grabbed by the roots and pulled back, once they can trust you Otherwise theyre resisting it and will tense up rather than thinking oh my God heres a man whos so dominant who can take me so hard and also so sensitive that he knows and honours my edges, so he pushes the wildest & primal edge he can and I trust him completely because hes so sensitive to my needs. Thats the level of trust you need So as you approach the yoni, take the same kind of care thats been emphasised throughout the seminars. Be really sensitive, honour, adore and love her. Take breaks and kiss her, explore foreplay throughout. Play with her breasts and really enjoy the moment

48m:44s Dip into her slightly Starting with your forefinger, middle finger or pinkie first, dip slightly into her yoni and allow her juices to come out. Then pull out and let her gasp and want to feel that fullness inside of her again, before going ever so slightly in again 49m:07s Explore all directions Use your fingers to explore all the major directions inside of her o Forward and back o Up and down o Left and right Your woman may be more sensitive opposite the G-Spot, on the floor of her yoni. That may be her secret spot. Neos been able to give his girlfriend various vaginal orgasms in different parts of her vaginal walls. Once again you have to be an explorer 49m:50s Give some attention to the G-Spot After you really carefully explored all around give some attention & pressure to her G-Spot and see how she responds. Once again everything is still tied to her emotional connection to you. So if shes not turned on enough because the intimacy youve created is still not up to the point where she can fully

open to you, the same exact pressure, speed & touch might feel bad to her in the moment. Yet with time it might feel so good to her once she feels more connected to you and trusts you more! 50m:21s Use verbal communication & touch to add to the level of connection So once again, a technical framework is being given to explore these things so you can up your sensitivity and ability to calibrate where your woman is. If in doubt, look into her eyes and kiss her and connect and talk. Even while youre stroking her yoni, tell her how amazing she feels in your hand, I cant believe I have the pleasure of touching you here like this. Most women will melt at this. Use verbal communication to add to the level of connection. Use your touch and the way you look at her. Use everything you can to really connect with her. Put your hand under her lower back and support her, lift her up as you explore different angles in her vaginal channel 51m:26s Use a come-here motion With the G-spot you usually want to use a come-here, hooking type motion to stimulate it Once again practise with just your forefinger, just you middle finger, thumb or pinkie then practise with 2 fingers together perhaps the middle and fore finger or middle and ring finger See what elicits the best response from her, her response is what you want to go by and amplify 52m:00s Might take longer for her to G-Spot orgasm than you expect It might take 15+ minutes which is not really that long! However guys want instant gratification as in porn where she has one screaming orgasm after another, squirting all over. Men are very visual creatures and porn is made for the benefit of men, so men get their affirmation from a womans physical response where they hear her moaning and feel her body shaking However as a man you should be getting into the art of being in the pleasure of the moment. Even if nothing happens (which is unlikely if you do all the things taught in these seminars), yet youre enjoying the moment and she has a slight smile and sparkle in her eye, then if you can get to that level that this also fills you with pleasure, she is going to naturally have the level of measurably outwardly explosive orgasms that you want 53m:30s You might get tired So vary up the pace. If youre with a new woman it might take 10-15 minutes and you might be having to go very fast which tires your arm. Try switch hands There is no specific formula and a lot of guys will give up before she experiences her G-Spot orgasm, when all they needed was to go 5 minutes longer, because theyre tired and he wants to feel his penis inside her Be persistent but dont make her orgasm your goal. Make your goal to serve her in that moment and give her that gift 54m:30s Different motions You can use various motions o the come here motion o go back and forth o move sideways o rub in a circular motion Neo finds in his own experience that speed and pressure are very important when she is getting really close. You might actually feel a sloshiness as more of her juices fill her vaginal channels when shes about to have an orgasm there 54m:52s Location of G-Spot

 So explore and use your acuity to sense whether its clockwise, counter- clockwise, side to side, forward and back or how deep her G-Spot is. Womens G-Spots are located in all different places, which is why some women like anal sex, because the penetration actually hits her G-Spot from that direction 55m:17s Combine G-Spot with clitoral stimulation Play with the tiny rough spot that sometimes bulges out, 2-3 inches in on the roof of her vagina Combine it with stimulating her clitoris in all the ways mentioned previously. You almost have to be ambidextrous to do this and it might feel very difficult, because on the clit you might be going feather light and super slow yet super hard on her G-Spot, which might be the exact combination she needs Dont speed up on her clitoris just because youre going fast & hard on her G-Spot and vice versa. She might like fast strokes on her clitoris yet gentle strokes inside her yoni to get her off. Make this part of your exploration of what combination works best for her 56m:23s Use a rocking motion and double pressure on her G-Spot David uses what he calls the rocking motion, where you put your finger up on her G-Spot, you use 2 fingers. Then do what he calls penetrating the G-Spot i.e. moving your fingers in & out really hitting the G-Spot and at the same time putting the palm of your hand above her G-Spot on the outside of her body i.e. press down on her pubic bone. This creates an unbelievable pressure build up and they cant handle it and totally lose control, go bonkers in fact! Tell your woman you want to try something different, put your hand on top of her pubic bone, then curl your finger up by her G-Spot and ask her how it feels different. Shell say the same thing they always say, oh my God thats so intense, what is that? Youre getting double pressure on her G-Spot & your arm muscle will go bananas after 10 minutes 57m:37s Give her 15minutes of your time 15 minute is nothing, its only of a football game. If you cant give her 15 minutes of pleasure then you need to re-evaluate your personal life If you give her that 15 minutes then you will absolutely own her. Youre going to get the greatest blowjob in the world and the back massage you always crave To give her that kind of orgasm and spend that amount of time on her is being different than every other guy If you cant go that long then go to gym or make this your workout! Its absolutely incredible to serve your woman this way If you put your or her hand over the spot youre pleasuring, it has something to press against which makes it very intense 59m:03s Anal & G-Spot stimulation If you had a finger inside her anus and another pressing on her G-Spot it also creates an interesting pressure because its going through all these layers upwards. Play with it 59m:24s Deep Spot stimulation & location The Deep Spot gives a very different kind of orgasm The Deep Spot is basically near the location of where her cervix is. If you go deep enough with your fingers and gentle enough, you can very lightly stroke what is a rounded shape very deep inside her yoni You can almost curl your finger beside her cervix. When theres been enough build up, that shes already had 2-3 orgasms through stimulating her clitoris or yoni channel, shell open up enough & feel comfortable enough to derive pleasure from you stimulating her cervical area Women will go crazy over this when theyre open enough & feel comfortable enough to derive pleasure from you going this deep

 This is also a spot that you can hit really deeply when taking her from behind, that some women can have incredible orgasms from If you can stimulate this spot with your finger s and curl into it, using a fast back-and-forth motion or side-to-side motion, beginning of course with slight & slow almost cradling motion against the back of her cervix, its going to feel incredible for her Take your time to explore this Deep Spot near her cervix 61m:03s Fornix side channels The Fornix is what actually goes into the side channels past her cervix to either side Explore from the cervix all the way to the deep right and youll actually find a little nook you can hook your finger into and if you apply pressure there its almost like another G-Spot Neo has found in eliciting ejaculatory orgasms from his women, that once the fluids are being released from her G-Spot shell release fluids from her Deep Spot and Fornix, then its almost like acupressure where there are pressure points inside her yoni that hell tap and press and shell be squirting Even if she doesnt squirt these are places to explore that other guys dont, hook your finger all the way to her fornix all the way to the right side. 62m:23s Deep Spot & Side channels Also explore the left side Neo suggest when exploring the Deep Spot, to combine with exploring the Fornix - the deep side recess all the way to the back where her cervix splits Explore whether she likes direct tapping pressure on it, circular, sideways forward-and-back motion Also play around with speed Take time to explore 360 degrees along her whole vaginal channel and discover spots The G-Spot has gotten its fame but there are so many spots just inside the vaginal channel. Every woman can be different. Some of the orgasms from spots like the Deep Spot and Fornix can be even more intense than G-Spot. Its a totally different sensation Sometimes because the penis is slightly curved it cant reach into those recesses so you have an incredible opportunity with your fingers to explore that

63m:54s Female Ejaculation Ejaculatory orgasms do exist as per Neo and Davids experience Chemical analysis of Amrita (Tantric term for Nectar of the Gods female ejaculate) reveals it has a very high glucose content that pee wouldnt have and the main viscous content is very similar to semen. Its not pee although it still comes out of her urethra 65m:30s Requires having a deep trust & connection When a woman has this type of orgasmic response it is a very opening experience, women will actually curl up into the foetal position afterwards because they feel so vulnerable. It was only 3 months into Neos current relationship that he was able to give her an ejaculatory orgasm, because she could feel it coming but shed say no thats too deep and Neo would honour her request. You have to reach a level of trust and connection before she can open herself up to an ejaculatory orgasm Most women can experience this but you as a man have to create a safe space for her. Women are very self-conscious about their bodies and in the beginning it may feel like peeing to them because shell feel the pressure on her bladder. So shell tell you to stop or excuse herself when she isnt fully comfortable with you, in case she pees on you and you kick her out of bed! 66m:55s She must feel safe enough and know that you fully accept her Women are very sensitive to their bodily image so you as a man have to create the container of making her feel safe enough, so she can trust you with any and all aspects of what happens in bed like farting or

queefing! When she feels safe enough that youll still love her through that, thatll create enough level of trust & connection that will amplify your sexual connection 67m:32s Escalate your stimulation of her G-Spot when you feel sloshiness Once youve elicited 2-3 orgasms from her whether clitoral or G-Spot, you will feel a sloshing of liquids inside as you stimulate her G-Spot Then you can go a little faster & stronger now that shes used to you on her G-Spot like this, go super fast in a come-here motion pressing really upwards, until you feel the right juices gathering youll actually feel a bulge and shell have an ejaculatory orgasm It doesnt have to be a lot of ejaculate from her but itll wet her yoni. This orgasm will be totally different to her other orgasms because she is actually physically pushing out fluid 68m:32s Dont make her ejaculatory orgasm your goal This is a framework to play with all these amazing things thatll add to the awesome experience of how you both passionately love and adore each other Instead of asking yourself when is the ejaculatory orgasm coming? ask yourself how can I in this moment create the most incredible connection and pleasure with her? In the moment that might just be you taking time to just nibble on her earlobe. Feel into your body and the flow of her, have an amazing connected experience with her, rather instead of focusing on the goal you have to achieve of blowing her mind 69m:59s Use towels David says put some towels down otherwise youll have to buy a brand new mattress! Steve Piccus told David how he stimulated a woman so long and so hard that when she came she squirted all over the bed and walls, and it didnt stop. Although its an amazing experience to be part of, not all womens ejaculate smells the same. Some smell a bit muskier, some smell like spunk and some are sweet. It depends on their diet Get a mattress pad that has a rubber lining to it to go under your sheets and use some towels, because once the ejaculate penetrates your mattress, it is permanent and the your room will smell intensely like sex One of Davids women, came so hard when she masturbated for him she could hit him in the eye from across the room 73m:00s She needs to feel fully accepted by you Its because of problems like above that she needs to know you wont judge her because of the way her ejaculation comes out, women are very sensitive. Some will actually hold her ejaculatory orgasm back till she feels you wont judge her for that. Thats why the emotional connection is so important Use the mindset of loving each other through the hard spots. Although her ejaculatory orgasm isnt a tough time, there will come a time in your relationship when one of you just feels like theyre do down they cant get up anymore and thats when you want to know the other person will be there for you, to say hey even as this is happening I love you, I see the beauty behind this and I have faith in you that you will get up again. As youre showing your least glamorous side of you, I love you anyway.She needs to feel that kind of love from you and then the ejaculatory orgasm just becomes an external experience of her trust in you, because her body is showing that 74m:22s Be present with her Dont make her ejaculatory orgasm the goal. Just because she squirts bigger, faster, stronger, it doesnt necessarily mean she is getting more pleasure. Just be present with her. When you make something a goal it takes you further away from giving her your full attention, creating pleasure in the moment and being able to stroke her for 3 hours and talking, caressing each other

75m:02s Oral stimulation

Everything that was taught in the clitoral and vaginal framework can be applied to your tongue. Neo greatly encourages combining your fingers with your tongue; o stimulate her labia with your tongue whilst using your finger s on her clitoris or o stimulate her clitoris with your tongue whilst using your fingers inside on her G-Spot, this is a magic combination! Women will go crazy 75m:47s Kiss her labia just like you would her lips Many women love having their labia kissed. As mentioned before you can massage her labia. So you can also her kiss her labia as if you were kissing her real lips. Women absolutely adore it; o when you tease and pull on her labia as you would her real lips o lick her gently on the outside before slightly dipping into her, then coming back out to her clit 76m:18s Apply the finger stimulation of her clitoris framework Every aspect of technique mentioned previously in stimulating her clit with your fingers applies to using your tongue; o pay attention to the quadrants of her clit o the direction that youre approaching from above below or the side o over the hood or under the hood The tongue cant penetrate as deeply inside her yoni as your fingers, so there isnt as much internal distinction available, however along the periphery the tongue feels totally different. For some women your fingers may feel too rough no matter how much lube you have on her clitoris, yet the tongue somehow feels a lot better 77m:00s Different oral techniques So kiss her down there as you would her real lips Several different ways to stimulate her clitoris with your tongue o use your lips to create a suction pressure o or create a backdrop with your teeth so as you licking & stimulating her clitoris, your teeth apply pressure to it o can use a circular motion o use your whole mouth 77m:30s Gauge her response Once again gauge her response to your stimulation i.e. o how the tone or pace of her moans shift o the pace of her breathing o how her colour of her yoni shifts o how the size of her clitoris changes o the muscle twitches and heart pulses on her thighs Her body will communicate exactly where she wants to be led. If youre going counter-clockwise from when previously you were lifting her hood and stimulating just the left side of her clit and theres a shift of her bodily responses (per above list) then do it more or less, depending on her response

78m:27s Merge all the techniques & Practise

 Its really in taking all of her feedback in and the combination of everything that Neos mentioned in the seminars on the clitoris and vaginal channels and applying it with your mouth, thatll really take her over the edge. Its in smoothly melting all the techniques into one big flowing lovemaking thatll make you an incredible lover 78m:55s Isolated practise Neo has broken down the distinctions between Clitoris, Yoni, G-Spot, Deep Spot, Cervix, Fornix, Ejaculatory orgasm and Oral pleasure, so if youre less familiar with some of these, you can practise stimulating her clitoris or vaginal channels with your pinkie. Some women can actually get off more with the pinkie stimulate her G-Spot. With your pinkie you might be able to hit a spot on her vaginal walls that other fingers cant because its smaller and more precise and thus give her a totally different orgasm. Play with the it. Do your isolated practise of 15 minutes at least twice a week on say just that 80m:04s Flow practise Use the isolated practise so that you are able to incorporate seamlessly into your lovemaking the techniques so that you can be just driving the car that still learning the clutch and stick shift The whole concept is that everything youve learnt previously about foreplay you should combine into your practise sessions. For example; o you could be up kissing her whilst stimulating her clitoris or yoni with your finger whilst stroking her hair and massaging her neck, whilst stroking her breasts and tenderly taking a pause and stroking her stomach o or kissing her stomach and then kissing along her outer thighs and then coming back up and kissing her again, before going down and giving her oral pleasure But it is all one big, smooth flowing in the moment lovemaking. Once you get the technical aspect down you want to work on your flow practise, so that youre so connected to her, you are basically two bodies merged as one. If you practise like this one day you will get to a point where itll feel like you have one body and you will know exactly where to go and how hard, how fast, what direction to go to give her the next orgasm. Youll be so connected to her youll be feeling into her The technical practise will initially take you away from this state of flow, because youll be so in your head, thinking about what to do rather than just doing it So have your isolated practise and flow practise where you incorporate everything youve learnt and making into a natural part of how you make love

84m:30s How to transition from her fully clothed to stimulating her with your finger and mouth
Was covered slightly in the foreplay seminar. You make a woman comfortable by doing some of the previously mentioned techniques over her clothes, like stimulating her labia for example. Youre always setting up for what youre going to do when you eventually have skin to skin contact All the light strokes & massaging you can do on her yoni lips, you can do over her panties. Just stroke her labia with your thumb before going back and kissing her again The contrast in moving the stimulation from over her pants, to under her pants but over her panties, then under her panties, is so delicious to women, they love it so much Do your isolating practise into feeling into her o Is it just the bottom of her yoni thats super sensitive where she likes to be stroked first? o Is it her perineum (between her anus and the bottom of her yoni)? o Is it just the outside of her labia? Experiment with all of this either skin to skin or over her clothes You always go from surface to the centre i.e. periphery to centre and back out again. Its almost like an organic breathing. So as youre stimulating the clitoris, as a general rule you want to go from over the hood to under the hood because most woman if theyre not turned on enough, right away under the hood

is way too sensitive. Once you get to, under the hood and you apply more pressure that still might be too much pressure for her, so she still needs it when you change the pressure or speed that you go over her hood

85m:51s Little things & Combinations

These are the little things you just have to pay attention to and see where shes at. You really want to make all of this part of the art & flowing nature of it. Little things will surprise you. It might be that her clitoris becomes so much more sensitive when youre sucking on her left nipple. Some women are like this, they have an expanded response when youre holding these two particular keys together So play with it o Some women love to have the inside of their armpit gently licked while you have your fingers inside her and thats what makes her clitoral orgasms really explosive Its extremely important to emphasise that you master everything (covered before in the) before you incorporate it . You can take everything that has been covered in foreplay and mix it all together : o It might just be the nape of her neck while youre stroking just the tip of her nipple before you go down and give her oral pleasure. That might be the combination she loves and she feels like youre leading her in the smoothest way o She might really need you to grab her hard by the back of her head while stimulating her G-Spot for her to have the level of expanded orgasms she really wants Everything is a combination that you get to discover and as an incredible lover youre hitting spots that other men dont : o Women love to have their feet worshipped, so having her toes sucked whilst your fingers are inside her or stimulating her clit generates a whole new kind of opening and pleasure for her that drives her crazy Whatll really take her over the edge is adding the little things for example (from foreplay), like licking the inside of her knee and stroking her stomach to stimulating her by o pleasuring her orally o or with your fingers on her clitoris o or your fingers inside her vagina i.e. G-Spot Deep Spot Fornix

88m:30s Deep Spot

Do take the time to explore her Deep Spot. Very few women get their cervix stimulated so directly. Your fingers are very dexterous so you can actually hook behind the cervix almost a tiny bit and almost explore the little bud of a split thats there, that very few women have tenderly & very precisely stimulated. They will go crazy and gaga over the way youre exploring her cervix and Deep Spot and right around that slight circular rotation around that It might be the Fornix, the deep side channel that drives her crazy

89m:15s Experiment and Observe her response

Take everything taught in these seminars and try your own unique combinations. o Maybe she needs to have her hand held while you stroke the inside of her thighs whilst you give her oral pleasure, that takes her over the edge Elicit and see what her response is Its in the process of calibrating and really feeling into her body, noticing the subtle things like how her body shifts to meet your finger, how her breathe and moans change, how you dance to those changes that youre really going to blow her mind. When her body has a natural response and you amplify what drew that response out in the first place, her body will have an increased rhythmic response to that. Very few men are dancing with a womans bodily response because theyre too focused on their

own performance and in their own world. Even though their intention is to give her the most pleasure possible theyre being counter-effective because theyre not listening to what is actually giving her the most pleasure. Theyre just trying to draw out the biggest response from her body they can which might not be the most pleasurable response for her

90m:55s Review
Take all of this and practise each of the distinctions in your separate practise sessions at least 15 minutes twice per week. Incorporate different combinations, incorporate different aspects of flow and have lots of fun!

Seminar 5 4/16 Stamina & Positions 01m:20s LISTENER QUESTION : Male primal energy
Women really like to have that sexual energy be powerful and super strong and so if shes not feeling it, then trying to force the start of a relationship will not be as effective, than with a woman who feels that strong attraction for you right away Its important for your sexuality that you work on amplifying your male sexual energy If a guy hasnt made a move on her for a long time shell be wondering why is he only doing it now? Does he just want to get laid or want a friend with benefits 03m:00s Escalate immediately. Be alpha first then build the connection Time can work for you or against you. Women are every emotional creatures and many women wouldve wanted the guy to make his move right away because it shows he has that alpha dominant quality Neo suggests that guys practise this. If there is a woman youre interested in, dont wait, go right up to her and get her number and take her out right away Many guys focus on building comfort first, being friends with her, which is actually skipping over to the second stage of the connection. They shouldve gone primal first, taken her with passion and pure fire and then secondly built the connection 04m:41s The Fire energy that you want to project Even older women still want that alpha quality and passion. If you meet her in a community environment (dance classes say) its easier & convenient in the beginning for the situation to be a bit muddled, to be comfortable and friendly rather than saying to her hey I want you, lets go Although were talking about sexuality, you should be constantly amplifying your fire for women, the fire within yourself, claiming and taking what you want (also tempering that with refinement and gentleman like sensitivity) Guys who are naturally softer and more sensitive should work on being rougher, more rude and out there! This will come through when you grab her hair during sex, knowing that you adore and love her. These kind of guys need to work on their sexual edge, more like a bad boy. Although itll feel very out of character, because they have such a strong foundation of refinement, it wont be a problem, itll push the edge in all the right ways 06m:45s Passion tempered with Refinement will make you an incredible lover Neo constantly works on this. Be more brash, more rough, take more risks in staking your claim. Risk being rejected because youre going overboard and making too rough of a move. Itll be healthier and balance you out as a man

07m:50s The Art of making Love

Going to be covering lasting long in bed. The intricacies of what really makes lovemaking delicious including fantasies and talking to her during sex. How to turn regular lovemaking into really mindblowing sex You have to keep on reminding yourself that you as a complete lover, should be continuously growing your primal energy, always tempered by your continual refinement and learning of the distinctions around sensuality and sexuality. Continually amplifying your ability to be dexterous and hone in on the very fine details, like noticing pulses on her thighs and labia, size changes in her clitoris. All these things will guide you into being more in rhythm with your womans sexual rhythm, all of this tempered by your very strong fire and passion in taking her, is whats going to create a really incredible experience for your woman and you All of us in the end want to get lost in an experience thats so ecstatic, so rapturous, so amazing that we lose ourselves. We get so wrapped up in the motion of our daily lives, so many distractions and were so lost in our heads, that lovemaking is one of those times when we get to really let go and have that

experience and have this amazing divine merging. Creating this with a woman is the goal were all going for

10m:10s Stamina
Lasting longer in bed is the number one concern for many men. This is because many mens sex education comes from pornography where they see these acrobatic feats and crazy sport fucking sessions, so theyll benchmark their manhood and sexual performance against how strong and long they last in bed Stamina is important bit its not the main game. However since were trying to develop ourselves as completely as we can, well cover exercises that increase stamina Anybody can gain the ability to last longer. Neo himself was a 5 minute man in the beginning, which is natural because when guys learn to masturbate, theyre just trying to rub out a quick one. So theyve entrained that responses in their body, but with awareness and the exercises to follow, anybody can train themselves to last as long as they want. 90% of the time, Neo himself can go as long as his girlfriend desire to, until she asks him for his gift. That may be an hour, 1 hour or even 3 hours on a lazy Sunday afternoon Its an amazing feeling to know you can satiate your woman for as long as she desires, just be in that energy of that discovery, then choose or not choose to come. It comes down to practise. If you take the time to practise the following exercises, youll notice a huge improvement in a week or 3 12m:55s Awareness scale The thing about lasting long in bed is that you have to have awareness. Be aware of where you are in terms of a scale where 100 is the point of no return and 0 is where youre not even hard. If youre in a relationship you can practise this and or even by yourself while by masturbating Well approach it from the point of view where youre practising by yourself. Set aside an hour or hour. Even if youre in a relationship you can have this self-love masturbation practise as a training point to enhance your awareness of your arousal on the 0-100 scale. 14m:00s Awareness scale solo practise While youre pleasuring yourself start by noticing where 50 is i.e. halfway to orgasm; o Then pleasure yourself up to a level of 60% then come back down to 50% o Then arouse yourself up to 70% and then back down to 50% o Then move to 80% of the point of no return and then come back down to 50% o Then 90% and back down to 50% o Then 95% and back down to 50% o Then 99% and back down to 50% Once you can have the patience & discipline to go back down from 95 and 99% to 50%, youll have gained a certain level of mastery and control. For most of us during lovemaking its that point where youre so close but you cant quite hold it. Its that point during your self-love practise sessions thatll allow you to hold it, to glide past that point, to be able to shift. 15m:10s Dont always have to be inside her during your refraction period During lovemaking you dont have to always be inside your lover. We discussed previously how your finger is always hard. So any time youre going through your refraction period i.e. coming back down to 50, o you can be giving your woman incredible oral pleasure, o incredible orgasms by stimulating her clitoris with your fingers or her G-Spot o you can also be inside her just looking deeply into her eyes, kissing her and stroking her hair and cheeks, doing all the things we learnt in foreplay before this seminar 16m:00s 60% baseline, then 70% and 80% baseline

 Once youve practised using a baseline of 50 now youll shift the baseline up to 60 in your practise i.e. o 70 to 60 o 80 to 60 o 90 to 60 o 95 to 60 o 99 to 60 Then just keep moving the baseline up to 70 then 80. You can do a couple rounds like this. If youve been really patient then give yourself a treat, watch some really good porn or have a beer! Once you can repeat this cycle where you can take yourself up to 90-95 and then be able to hold that point, to have the ability to be aware of this point and then let the energy tail off before pleasuring yourself again. This awareness alone will give you an incredible control you may not have had before. If you just practise this awareness exercise even just 2-3 times per week, youll notice a huge difference in 2 weeks. Your body will become entrained just like before where it was entrained to rub out a quick one, to be in the pleasure of the experience of your self-pleasuring. So play with it, have fun 17m:50s Practise with a partner If youre with a partner, set aside time and share with her that youd love to practise this new exercise with her. Make love using the scale; go up to 70 and then as you come back down to 50, you may o stay inside her, not moving just making out o or you may do all the things mentioned before, giving her oral pleasure, using your fingers on her clitoris, G-Spot, Deep Spot or Fornix, or combining oral with your fingers Then when you do get back down to 50, enter her again. This difference between being inside her and then back out is going to create all the dynamics. Youre getting past most guys fears of needing to perform in order to satisfy a woman. When you get past that, just can be in the moment, shell be able to enjoy herself so much more. Therere so few guys not worried about themselves, where their ego and confidence are solid enough to have this kind of lovemaking experience with her 19m:12s Kegel exercises Kegel exercise trains a specific muscle so you can stop yourself from having an orgasm, can have more control. Even as you reach the edge where before you couldnt stop yourself from losing control, your muscle will now be strong enough to stop sperm from coming out. Male orgasm is actually a separate process from ejaculating. Neo is still practising this but hes had experiences where hes orgasmed without ejaculating, alter on hell share a manual method for doing this. 20m:20s Practise while peeing The Kegel muscle or pubococcygeal (PC) muscle for a guy is most easily found when peeing. If youre unfamiliar with this muscle, then for the first week or two, practise stopping your pee in midstream 7 times every time you pee. The same muscle that stops you peeing is the exact same muscle that can be used to stop your sperm from coming out when you want to prolong the lovemaking experience Even if you do this 1 or 2 times youll start to get familiar with which muscle it is Once youve tried the peeing exercise the actual Kegel training exercise is to 2-3 times a week, do a 100 quick squeezes with your PC muscle. You can do this anywhere, whilst driving, working or even watching a movie with your girl even. Its like going to gym , the more you exercise this muscle the stronger itll get, the more control youll have over it, the more youll be able to dictate when and how you cum So do a 100 quick squeezes, then do 10 long squeezes that last from 5-10 seconds. Hold it for 5 seconds and then let it go. Do this 2-3 times a week. After a week or so, youll notice a difference and after a month therell be huge difference in how you can control yourself in bed

 The combination of the awareness exercise and being able to clench your PC muscle, will create a huge improvement in 2-4 weeks in how long you can last 22m:35s Perineum stop Even with your practising your stamina, there is a manual method where even without having strengthened your PC muscle, you can have an orgasm without ejaculating. You press your fingers on your perineum. Your perineum is between your balls and anus, also called the million dollar point By pressing this point whilst having an orgasm, you can have a full orgasm without ejaculating. Play with this on your own, whilst masturbating, youll actually be able to retain a lot of your sperm, though some will be in your urethral ducts and will come out when peeing. 23m:45s Loaded gun If youre on your first few dates, youve got a loaded gun, theres too much energy and youre going to be having sex then do yourself a favour. Masturbate and hold your perineum so that you cum, but retain your sperm A lot of the passion, fire and build-up will actually be retained unlike how sometimes after sex when you get tired and want to sleep, so you still be able to really take her, but you wont be so horny that youll be thinking with your penis. Youll be able to take your time and honouring where to take her , as you go through each of the foreplay steps, really reading her body in terms of where she wants to go be lead If youre nervous about how long you can last, then do the awareness exercise, do the Kegel exercises, and play with pressing your perineum. A lot of times when having sex or masturbating, if you press that point, it might make it harder for you to cum, so you can hold back your sperm as well The purpose of all these exercises is to free you up so youre not over thinking about how long youre going to last. When you obsess and worry about your performance, then it is more likely that youre going to cum quickly, because all your attention and energy is going there, rather than just being relaxed and in the experience of it

25m:50s Pull out / stop thrusting As you get familiar with the awareness exercise of going up to 90% and then coming back down to 60% of the point of no return, take your time. Pull out or stay inside her and gently suck on her breast and nipple or just stop Women love the contrast of having no movement, looking her deeply in the eye then going to pure animalistic fucking her brains out. You want to have that range, be able to take her on both these levels. Even if youre not close to the point of no return you dont have to be pounding away the whole time, you can change it up

26m:58s Clitoral stimulation during intercourse

Many guys are so in the moment of having sex with a woman that they dont take the time to stimulate her clitoris. Studies have shown that less than 30% of women have orgasms during sex, because the clitoris is till the main sexual organ for women. So for a lot of women, depending on how their body is shaped, how their clitoris is positioned, purely having sex doesnt stimulate her clitoris enough to actually have an orgasm. So instead of complaining that your woman cant have a G-Spot orgasm (many women can) because she hasnt yet allowed herself to open enough to have a G-Spot orgasm, be patient . In the meanwhile stimulate her clitoris at least 25% of the time during lovemaking so you can have that dynamic energy of really penetrating her hard whilst (especially in the beginning) also touching her with feather light pressure on her clitoris (and lots of lube, whether from her juices or your saliva etc)

28m:40s Access her clitoris from any position You can access her clitoris from any of the major positions. Many guys get caught up in sexual positions. Again this usually comes from porn being their main training tool for sex. Guys are very visual so when they see something acrobatic they think itll turn a woman on. However in sexuality and love your ability to connect with her heart, adore her and love her, to get her to trust you and open up to you, is where the full potential for her orgasm lies. Its not in the size of your penis or how long you last, or acrobatic positions you use because they dont necessarily get at her clit or G-Spot as well as the traditional positions do However positions will be covered because in the context of amazing connection, awareness and techniques that have been covered, they can definitely add some amazing spice Remember in each of the sexual positions you can be accessing her clitoris The 3 main positions are :

30m:20s (1) Man on top position Man on top or Missionary. You can access her clit by putting your forefinger & middle finger between your tummies and rub her clitoris from there. Or you can wrap your hand around her thigh and access it from underneath, you can even lift her butt a little bit which gives her a different angle of penetration and access her clit at the same time, which can feel incredible for a lot of women Once again you have to gauge your woman, because every woman is a universe by herself. There is no hard and fast rule. There are the rare women who dont necessarily want their clitoris stimulated during lovemaking, but it might just be that youre touching her too roughly, too fast or without enough lube, a number of factors even. Once a woman is open to you she may want a lot of clitoral stimulation during lovemaking, and that can change and shift So your best bet is to be really present with your woman, give her all of your being, read that and feel into what her body is wanting. If her body is tightening and squirming when youre stimulating her clitoris because its too sensitive, maybe she just had an orgasm and youre still stimulating her clitoris as youre making love to her, then let go and be with her. Be in act of the lovemaking and just stop, stroke her face gently, kiss her and makeout with her. So be sensitive to her body language as youre making love too her 32m:25s (2) Woman on top position In this position you can access the clitoris with your thumb in front of her or if she is rising up and down on your penis you can have your fingers underneath her leg and access her clitoris that way The Woman on top positions is one of the great positions to be able to stimulate her clitoris without using your fingers. Basically have her clitoris rub against your body and have her have amazing multiple orgasms whilst shes on top of you A lot of woman will go up and down but that usually wont get at the clitoris. What Neo has found is that if you go forward and back with her and you push her hips down into you, so her clitoris has a chance to rub against your pubic bone. You help her to move in rhythm with you forward and back while pressing her clitoris into you an angle. A lot of women can have one orgasm after another this way Neos girlfriend enjoys this so much she may have 4-5 orgasms just from this, before Neo lies down, nibbles on her neck and kisses her, before they perhaps go at it some more or switch positions. Just know that its not about how much variety you have but the connection and energy youre creating with your woman. Let go of all the technical aspects that Neo has taught if her body is tensing up and something that has worked for you along the way and its not working now. Listen with your whole body and being to what her body is communicating to you 34m:55s (3) From behind position This is one of the best positions to be able to dexterously access her clitoris because you can just reach around her and have very clear access to her clitoris

35m:55s Contrast fucking her with feather light touches on her clitoris Usually with the clitoris you want to go lighter and slower than you think at first otherwise shes not going to enjoy it. Theres a tendency to go a little too hard and fast, because when youre making love too her, you may want to have that primal pumping and fucking her hard, really taking her like an animal which women do really enjoy. But at the same time if you can contrast that with feather light touches on her clitoris itll drive her absolutely out of her mind So if you can stimulate her clitoris at least 25% of the time during lovemaking. That may be too much or too little for your woman, so gauge with your woman what she prefers, whatll really engage and draw that energy out of her and go from there

36m:20s Positions
There are 100s of sexual positions but Neo has a structural outline for thinking about positions Its really about how in the moment you can create these slight variations that add just the right spice, just the right newness so you can continue to focus on the deliciousness youre creating with each other 36m:50s Love her back into her body Some women do get bored with sex because theres just pumping in and out and theres no emotional connection, just physical pleasure. Guys will sense this and try to switch up positions hoping to remedy her boredom, then guys start wondering do I need to fuck her harder? or is my cock not big enough? Usually its none of that, its because the guy is not taking the time to really connect with her, shes basically not feeling the love, her body feels like its been used as a play toy If anything, if a woman isnt expressing as much pleasure as youd like, rather than worrying about how it reflects on your manhood, take the time and know that you as a man can have such presence, such love and adoration for a woman that you can open any woman. She may have really had a bad day, her mind might still be at work. Instead of getting mad at her you love her through that veil and love her back into her body. Thats who you can be as an amazing lover; whatever stuff shes dealing with, whatever emotional outburst she has, you are so solid that you can just bring her back into her body, ground her, give her incredible amazing pleasure. Women will absolutely respond to you 38m:43s Dont avoid emotional connection for one night stands Take a moment and say hey baby I would just love to gaze into your eyes for three minutes. I would love to just be inside you, feel into you and look into your eyes for 3 minutes o So many people cant even do that because there is so much energy there. There is so much exchange there they dont want to look at it, they dont want to contain it. But you as a man really are developing yourself so you can contain any amount of energy between you. Not every relationship works, but one of the reasons you cant look into each others eyes is because you might just want to play with each other for a night and neither of you want to say it o However if you actually took the moment and just addressed the issue and said, you know what, I am not in the place for a relationship but I would love to adore you and love you, worship you with all of my being. She might have felt the same thing but you communicating that, the two of can have the most amazing one night stand anyones had if you can just be present with that energy 40m:04s Iceberg metaphor for sexuality Most people when they see something they dont want to see they run away from it. Although it may not seem related to sexuality but this is the most potent part of sexuality. Neo uses the metaphor of an iceberg. You see the tip of the iceberg above water, which is all the techniques, & lasting long in bed but its only a small part of the whole picture (20 - 25% of sexuality). Everything beneath the water is the emotional connection. So even as were talking about sexual positions know that its adding a hue to your palette, its not the main picture. Its more like youre finishing in the shadow and highlight of the

main picture that you already painted with the depth of intimacy and claiming of your woman youve already done. With that the sexual positioning is amazing and adds to it 41m:09s Fundamentals of sexual positioning variations 41m:11s Three Major categories of positions Man on top Woman on top From behind 41m:27s Six Body variations Shift her body o to the left o to the right, o can be standing up o or lying down o body can be straight o or bent (curved) 41m:44s Six Directional variations Relative to you, she can be o face up (i.e. head to head) o face down (her head down by your feet) o face left (her body is at 90 degrees to you) o face right(her body is at 90 degrees to you) o face towards you o or face away from you (from behind) 41m:20s Six Leg positions Her legs can be o together, o apart, o horizontal, o vertical (youre holding them up), o extended outwards o or flexed 42m:09s Deriving sexual positions from the above fundamentals From the 3 major categories of variations you can create all the 100s of positions, so rather than memorising positions, memorise the fact that you can turn your woman any direction and degree that you want and create a totally different sensation As an example, taking the Man on top position. So youre in Missionary, face to face with your woman, o if you turn her to the left or right, youre now spooning her. o you can actually also rotate her so that the two of you are at 90 degree angles and that reaches very interesting nooks and crannies where she might have incredible different sensations inside her vaginal channel o by playing with different leg positions, her legs might be together and both legs over one or the other of your shoulders. Her legs could be apart over both shoulders or just one leg is up o with all these different leg positions they could be extended, could be horizontal or even flexed All these little nuances will create small differences in sensation for your woman. Neo usually doesnt focus on going through multiple different positions although it can be fun to explore for one night (it might be one of her fantasies, which will be covered later).

44m:00s The difference that makes the difference What Neo has found to be the difference that makes the difference, is that sexual positioning is usually secondary to the energy that is being created, because you can give woman incredible orgasms and pleasure from just one position and most guys dont get that. There are some nights where he and his lover are just feeling the doggy-style position and going at it for an hour or 2 and shes having 10-15 orgasms just from that. It feels so good, why would you change that just for variation? Rather focus on finding out with your woman, what is the position that draws out her most incredible, wild, feminine self. Use the guidelines as mentioned before; o 3 Major categories of positions Man on top Woman on top From behind o 6 Body positions, where you can shift her body to the left to the right, she can be standing up or lying down her body can be straight or bent (curved) o 6 Directional variations Relative to you, she can be face up (i.e. head to head) face down (her head down by your feet) face left (her body is at 90 degrees to you) face right(her body is at 90 degrees to you) face towards you or face away from you (from behind) o 6 Leg positions Her legs can be together, apart, horizontal, vertical (youre holding them up), extended outwards or flexed 45m:34s A great way to access her clitoris From the Woman on top position, usually she is facing towards you. So she can be; o lying directly on top of you o or she can be at 90 degrees (i.e. sitting up on you) which is the way most people do it o she can be leaning away from you (i.e. still sitting on top of you) o and she can also turn away from you, (i.e. still sitting on top of you) where shes faced away from and when she leans back into you, you can access her clitoris very easily this way. Its an amazing way to give her pleasure while shes on top 46m:25s Discover her secret favourite position So use these variations, theres only 6 in each category, to discover what your woman secret favourite position is. Once you find it, really get into it. So how would you really delve into a position? Explore ways to access her G-Spot or her Deep Spot with your penis from a certain position. Well cover some

of Neos favourite ways and slight variations within it that hes found to be incredible with some of the women hes been with Again dont get too caught up in the sexual positions. Play with them as an addition to the fullness of the connection you have with her. So use all the variations mentioned before to discover little things you might not have been aware of before in that position, that might add that extra spark or maybe access a spot in her that gets her crazy and gives her crazy orgasms, just spewing her juices all over the place, just because of this one little variation. It might just be a slight turn to the left or right 47m:53s Neos favourite positions & variations 47m:56s (1) Missionary & Deep penetration From Missionary, Neo loves to have his hand underneath her butt area so that gets to lift her upwards. For some reason this allows him to penetrate her really deeply and hit spots within her yoni that are hard to reach otherwise so that when theyre in a regular missionary position itll still feel amazing to her but when he tilts her butt just a little bit up, that angle drives her crazy. Once again it might be the same or different for your woman but play with different angles that youre manipulating her body into as youre keeping in mind your depth of connection 48m:45s Connection The interesting thing is although were discussing a lot about positioning and moving her body, when you are connected to your woman youll actually feel into how her body wants to be moved and you then move her body into that position. There are times when Neo is going inside his woman and he can feel that its right there and sense when he is about to give her an orgasm and his lover will ask him how did he know, because he can feel the exact angle and variation to turn her and to be inside her. Essentially he is so connected with her body that he feels her orgasms. That is the degree of connection you want to get to and then all the pre-conceived notions about positions can fall away, because her and your body will tell you in the moment, where to turn each other next, for the most exquisite pleasure youve experienced 50m:00s (1) Missionary & the Deep Spot & Cervix So lifting her butt up is something Neo loves to do Something else that he likes to do, but not right away because its too deep of a penetration for her, is both her legs up over his shoulder. So rather just have one leg up and going in and out of her like this and then when shes comfortable enough and lubed up enough, you can throw both her legs over your shoulders and lean toward her. Basically this position allows Neo to really get at her Deep Spot and hit and touch her cervix in a way that drives his girlfriend crazy The Deep Spot for a lot of woman is a cervical orgasm, you can generate this with your finger or penis so that when shes aroused enough she can have an orgasm by you contacting her cervix. Get familiar with her cervix with your fingers first. As mentioned before, probing into her Fornix which is the side channel past the cervix and also playing with the cervix, which is a little circular knob. She has to be pretty open for her to gain pleasure out of this, but you can actually curl your fingers and get underneath and circle and caress her cervix. This alone when shes had 2-3 orgasms, can give her a very different orgasm. A cervical orgasm that feels very different from all the other orgasms So when you have both her feet over your shoulders and youre leaning forward, you can get at the Deep Spot a lot easier. Once again your woman might have to be open enough for this to happen 52m:15s (2) Woman on top When shes on top of you, you can reach under her leg. If shes going up and down on you, you can reach around her legs and stimulate her clitoris really well and it feels amazing because you can have pretty good access to her clitoris

 Hopefully youve been doing as Neo suggested previously, that youve been having 15-30 minute sessions, even just once a week, where your woman is showing you how she pleasures herself and youve been imitating how she does it; o it might be that she does it clockwise or counter clockwise o or fast up and down or fast side to side o or slow circular o and right when she needs to climax up and down So once you get familiar with how she most easily has the most incredible pleasure, all gets applied to when youre making love to her So once again if shes on top and facing away from you, i.e. youre facing her back, and she is leaning back, this is once again one of the easiest ways to access her clitoris. Essentially youre masturbating her while your penis is inside her, you have amazing dexterous access to her clitoris while thrusting inside her Woman on top position is also one of the positions where you can move her hips forward and back, and push them down at 45 degrees to your hipbone and be able to rub her clitoris that way. If you do it fast enough it will give her absolutely incredible orgasms. One of Neos favourites 54m:15s (3) From behind From behind, Neo loves to play with variations where her legs are inside both of his legs versus both of her legs outside his legs which really spreads her out. The angles when youre behind her make a huge difference in terms of how she feels. Once again every woman is different, if shes elevated at a 90 degree angle it creates a totally different feel versus when her head is hanging down versus when shes holding a pillow. The slight angle makes a huge difference depending on the stage of your lovemaking and whether you can be hitting her G-Spot or Deep Spot from behind Also from this behind position you can wrap your finger around and lean forward and really access her clitoris very easily Once again when youre combining rubbing her clitoris with making love to her, you can really pound her hard while giving her a feather touch on her clitoris. This contrast is going to drive her absolutely crazy From behind you can also play with very lightly and gently tracing patterns on her lower back. As mentioned in the foreplay section, womens lower back is an amazing erogenous zone. So when you lightly trace gentle patterns over her lower back while you are really taking her hard from behind, so many women will go crazy from that contrast A lot of women love to be taken once she trusts you enough, so when shes open enough you can actually grab her hair from behind, by the roots (this is not painful to her by the roots unlike grabbing the length of her hair) and squeeze slightly. Not necessarily pull her head but just hold her there to give it some pressure while taking her from behind. So many women love that energy, they just want to surrender to a man she knows just loves and adores her. If she has that man shed want him to dominate her as much as he can because she knows that energy shes opening herself up to, that he can love her with that force as well. She wants to feel that force of love, that force of you claiming her that much

56m:56s Primal energy

As mentioned before, in sexuality it doesnt end with sexuality. We began with attraction, so youll find as you become a better and better lover, the energy with which you take her in lovemaking is the same energy that you will exude in your dating game. Even as you develop yourself on a connection level, on your ability to create intimacy and connect with a woman, as you develop your ability to adore women, thatll translate into the sexuality part, which translates into the attraction part. The same thing with sexuality, in that the primal energy you develop in sexuality is the primal energy that you go out and be able to get dates, the same energy that will cause women will flock to you. Its the same with the energy of refinement, so that with that much power you have the refinement to stroke her with the same sensitivity as you would caress a rose

 So its that contrast that gets taken out into the circ le all over again. As you develop your ability to attract women that feeds into the sexuality. As you develop your ability to connect with women that also feeds into your sexuality and your attraction game. Its a virtuous circle and never-ending game, you can always be increasing your ability as a lover in these ways

58m:40s How to add to Great Sex

Have covered many technical points up until now, now were going to discuss how to turn sex into great sex using the energy components thatll really add to a womans pleasure 58m:58s Energy components thatll make the difference Make sure as youre making love to her to take time and just pause o get closer to her, be cheek to cheek to her, o rub her face with your cheek, o kiss her, o nuzzle with her, o lick her earlobes, lick her neck, o smell her, take her in, o stroke her hair, caress her face, caress her body, o feel into her body, o hold her as close to you as you can, o make eye contact with her, o just make out for as long as you want, even without moving, even while youre inside her, o use touch to amplify the sensations youre already creating. Some might take a light caressing almost like youre using pressure points to press into her. Some might take a massaging and some might just take a light cares Implementing all these into your lovemaking is the key thats going to make you a lover different to all the other lovers shes had. This is the difference thatll make the difference, where shell worship you because youre taking the time to really honour and all aspects of what her body is communicating to you 60m:25s Yab Yum Move energy together. You can just be sitting together is say Yab Yum. Yab Yum is a tantric term for the position where youre facing her, shes sitting on you and youre inside her, with both your legs wrapped around each other. In this position you have your heart to heart and eye to eye contact and just feel into your sexual energy. Later well discuss how to move energy through your spine. With some of Neos lovers, therell be so much energy that their head will be filled with so much white light, that they almost cant handle it. Its a whole new different realm of pleasure that you can really explore with your woman thats absolutely incredible Use all these things to keep you connected 61m:40s Dirty talk For women making love is so pleasurable on a physical level and they love the intimacy that gets created with a guy. Its the only time when the guy lets down his defences, gets really close to the woman and shows a lot of affection. Women absolutely love this, they love the intimacy and connection that they feel with the man when that occurs. Now the things that were going to discuss may not on the surface seem like it adds to the intimacy, but taking a closer look can actually pull you closer together and that includes dirty talk. This is because sex is a very private and intimate realm we share with very few people and there are places we may not feel like we can be loved. A lot of woman have mental pictures about being a whore, about liking sex too much and being called a slut because of that. However all of us can express all things, so when a woman feels like she can be loved as a slut and whore, that she can let that aspect out and not be judged and actually be loved for it, then shes going to totally let loose.

63m:25s Every person wants to be loved at their lowest So what its really about is allowing the other person to love us past our idiosyncrasies. This applies to a man as well. A man might be insecure about his penis size, how much money he makes, his physique and looks. Although men usually put up a lot of shells and protection he also wants a woman wholl love him at his lowest. For a woman to love him even though his penis is small whatever the standard is. To love him even though he even though he doesnt have much money, even if he has a pot belly. For a woman to love him with his whole being, for who he bes in the world, his vision for the world, his purpose, the way he bes. For her to love him through all that This is the same as man who loves her thorough all her sexual expressions and emotional outbursts, through all the things that may or may not be pretty. To feel like she can relax into who she is, because at the core we all want to be loved just for ourselves. To be chosen fully 100% just for ourselves. So when we can have a person who we admire and adore, who we think is hot and gorgeous and amazing with an amazing personality who thinks the same about us, then that is absolute heaven. Regardless of everything else we talk about, thats the level of energy were trying to create A lot of us overcompensate for this by going to the sexual technique, by going to varying sexual positions, by making ourselves almost invulnerable. Yet it is the vulnerable part that we most yearn to be loved for. It is in opening our self, in revealing these part to another that we get the satisfaction that is the depth of what sexuality has to offer. This is Neos vision for us 65m:50s Dirty talk brings you closer. Requires a confident secure man So the reason why dirty talk can bring two people closer is because when youre talking dirty to her i.e. calling her a slut or horny, things that from a general societal point of view are negative. However really youre making it okay. Yeah I see this aspect of you and I love it. I love the fact that you have so much sexual energy and that you ask to have your ass probed. That is so sexy. It takes a man whos really confident in himself because what happens often, is that the women who get called sluts and whores, are usually being called that by men who arent getting any or cant satisfy that woman! So basically as a defence men will call women that name, so he doesnt have to point fingers at himself for not being able to satiate that woman, for not living up to par or for not even getting any. So its a loop where the woman rejects the man and the man rejects the woman, when they really want to get it on really well 67m:11s Compliments Dirty talk doesnt just have to be calling people names. It can also be complimenting i.e. I love the way your amazing soft velvety pussy feels against my tongue. So youre describing to her the taboo part of sexuality youre experiencing with each other. My God its so hot when you show me your ass as you bend down for me. Basically youre just telling her what you like and she can see the same thing, its like oh my God, or oh Daddy, fuck me hard. All these taboo arenas that you forage into, make sex so much hotter because you couldnt even share this intimately with any another person, maybe not even your closest guy friend, except your most intimate partner. Its very vulnerable and thats why dirty talk can really add to this 68m:23s Appreciation Another way to amplify and deepen your connection is through appreciation. You can just tell her what part of her body you love the most about her, it may be she has amazing breasts. Women never tire of hearing how amazing they are, how beautiful you think she is, how succulent her nipples are. Theyll never get tired of this Choose a woman whos at least an 8 for you. Although here is no definitive perfect woman, there is the perfect woman for you so choose her so you dont have to fake it. Youre naturally inspired to work through the difficult times. Tell her how you love the way her hair feels in your fingers and that level of appreciation will turn her on and open her more than you can know. Itll really amplify the amount of sexual and sensual pleasure you experience with her and really open her orgasmic potential

 Appreciate her any time you can. Tell her how much you adore and love her 69m:49s Sexual amplification Every time Neos lover is getting close to another orgasm and Neo tells her how much he adores her, her whole body opens and the degree to which her sexual energy gets amplified is insane. Amplify her response any way you can. One of Neos past lovers called him up about a movie shed seen that was about bondage and she said to him thats what she wants. Yet shes the most innocent joyful fairy type woman but she wants to open and explore this realm with him. So Neo said to her hes going to buy a paddle with a heart shape on it, so itll leave a heart shaped marks and it was very hot. 70m:55s Fantasies So talk about what amplifies your sexuality with each other, like fantasies for example. If youve never asked your woman what her fantasies are, then do so. You dont necessarily have to act it out in person, use words to pretend that youre there, although outfits totally add to it. If her fantasy is to be playing with another woman or guy and youre confident enough in your sexuality and who you are as a man then you can pretend to be you and that other guy. You can even switch your voice when youre the other guy taking her from behind and she cant see him, your mannerisms are totally different and youre pretending to be a big football player for example Give her the fantasy she desires. If she wants to be fucked by 3 other guys, you can be all 3 of them and shell have the most amazing sex ever because youre changing personality and playing with that You could both be nerds discovering each other. Some women have rape fantasies when she feels safe enough o explore that with you and she wants feel your power in being able to take her When youre playing with fantasies create safety words like the colour red or whatever. So you push the edge of where she wants you to take her unless she says the safety word. The realm that youre going to be able to explore and the amount of opening that shes going to have from this, is going to blow your mind. If she wasnt able to have ejaculatory orgasm before, maybe she needs to trust you on a deeper level before she can open up to that level with you So ask her what her fantasies are. Tell her what your fantasies are. Its through these incremental steps of deeper trust that the two of you are going to co-create the most amazing sexual experience possible. Its through these incremental steps of being comfortable with almost anything, that theres nothing in the shadows that you arent comfortable with each other. You may not approve of certain things but you accept them in each other , that youre going to be able to give each other the love at the core that each other deserves and craves for. When you can fulfil women to that degree the amount of pleasure, sexual openings and orgasms will be at a totally different level 73m:50s Female ejaculatory orgasms While youre making love to her, take breaks. Remember the exercise mentioned where you can last longer in bed, when youve given her 2-3 orgasms in one position you can actually pull out and there are some spots, some degrees of stimulation that your penis wont give her. With ejaculatory orgasm, youll fell her G-Spot bulge out a little bit as it fills with fluid. Neo has found that he can be having so much fun, hell be in the Missionary position and actually feel her insides well up and her G-Spot will almost be talking to him, I want this juicy release and hell actually pull out and stimulate her G-Spot in a way that makes her squirt. Shell have these incredible orgasms and hell enter again and just cuddle her and be really loving. Then be really animalistic again and maybe 15-20 minutes later he might feel it again and give her another G-Spot orgasm. Shell have G-Spot orgasms while hes making love to her and also clitoral orgasm because hes stimulating her clitoris. Neo will also vary it up with ejaculatory orgasms, which can be gotten through the G-Spot, the Fornix (the deep channel to the side of the cervix) and for many women through the cervix as well Whether she ejaculates or not is not the point, its just about creating these incredible adventure that youre having with each other. So why not incorporate the whole realm, which includes the G-Spot, the fantasy talk.

76m:00s Anal stimulation Some women love to have their anus explored. Just remember to be really gentle and honour and respect your woman, from this foundation anything goes. If she doesnt like it then let it go. If she does like it or you can test by taking some of her juices and lightly just glide it up her anus. Some women will go crazy. While youre inside her, not even putting your finger inside her anus, just glide really lightly over her anus, its going to give her a crazy sensation that pushes her over the edge again and again Some will want a finger inside their ass. For some women you can get at their G-Spot through anal sex, which is why some really like it. Some dont however 76m:55s Accepting and sharing each others taboo fantasies Its not about the act itself, its not about her anus, its not about the sexual positions, its not about the specific fantasy, its about where you can co-create an opening for both of you. Where you can go into and feel into one of the most amazing experiences you can have with each other. Its about really sharing and delving into these taboo realms that you dont necessarily feel anyone else will love you for it. Yet here is a woman who will love you through it, here you are being a man who will love this woman through this taboo spot that she thought no one in the world could ever accept, whatever her fantasy may be. Yet you accept it and help her act it out, which will make it really incredible Make love with all of your being with her. Weve covered a lot of technical stuff, but all the techniques are there so you can master the technique so you can transcend them. So you can make love with all your being, so you can co-create the intimacy that she so craves. Given that, play with as many variations as possible because it might add to the spice that will connect the two of you even deeper 78m:27s Different kinds of penetration strokes From a technical point of view, play with; o short, o medium o versus long strokes Take note of the variations of your; o power, o speed, o timing, o rhythm and tempo Many people like music while making love, so try moving in tempo with the music, the baseline. See if you can gyrate, go inside & outside of her on a 1:1 beat or 2:1 beat or 1:4 beats whatever. Its this sense of rhythm that you get to listen to her body as well. Take your ability to really listen with your whole body and whole being as you make love to her So you can have a short gentle stroke versus a short powerful stroke. Play with it. You can have a slow short stroke versus a fast short stroke and see what difference that makes to her, and vary it up You dont have to go straight in all the time. You can shift her body so you can come in from; o above, o below, o left, o right, o or any angle of a circle You can also go clockwise or counter clockwise as you go in. You can thrust in clockwise in a circle and then come back out counter clockwise. This will drive some women crazy

80m:17s Transcend the techniques

 As mentioned before, the main point is not in the technique, its in the experience. Youre having an amazing adventure with each other, an amusement park ride with each other, that is one of the most incredible sensations in this world To be able to give each other the sensations, the honour, the love, the caring, the fantasies, the play that each other wants and desires is one of the most incredible gifts you can give each to other Using sexuality to take you into the real world, where you get to remember how good it feels, not only with each other but with the sensations, energies and powers that you get to run through your own body. To remind yourself so that when you hit a difficult spot, so many times its the great sex that brings people back together again, to have them work through it, to make us better and wiser people Neos vision is for all of us to become such amazing lovers that we transform any woman you come into contact with. That you transform yourself in who you are as a man, through this work, so that every technique you learn, every increment of power you gain, every distinction and refinement that you have, becomes a gift of who you get to give in this world

81m:55s Spinal Energy technique

Mentioned earlier, the metaphor of moving energy through your body. When doing the Kegel exercises, squeezing that muscle you can actually be squeezing energy up your spine. At first youll only be imagining it, but as you practise, youll feel it like someone running a finger lightly up your spine. As youre squeezing the PC muscle, feel the energy go up your spine into your head, as youre making love. When youre with your woman, say in the missionary position or Yab Yum, circulate that energy through your womans head and have it run down her spine and back down into your penis. So circle like this and when you do it enough you will actually be able to have whole body orgasms. What youre doing is taking the energy thats localised in your penis and spreading it through your whole body. You can begin to feel the sensation in your penis at the tip of your forefinger and to spread that orgasmic sensation

83m:05s Bringing sexual ecstasy into every day life

This is just a metaphor. You are an infinite being who comes from spirit whos having a bodily experience. Through this experience of sexuality you get reminded of how much divine energy and ecstasy you can run. You through this reminder, get an opportunity to bring this level of energy into the world. So when you are confronted by a challenge, just remember what incredible sex youve had, itll bring a smile to you and youre going to be able to go through the day easier For example, if youve just had the most mind blowing sex youve ever had and afterwards you go to a restaurant together. It could be a shack with terrible food and service, but youll have the most incredible time ever, because your whole body is in ecstasy, youre in love and feel good. Thats the reminder Even just thinking about a time you had great sex will bring that energy back to you So your possible gift is to bring that level of energy to every encounter you have with your woman, in very encounter you have at your work, to every encounter you have as youre creating in the world. This is the metaphor of sexuality Neo is trying to give us. Its simply a metaphor for whats possible in terms of the level of opening, power and refinement, energetic bliss you can have and give to yourself and other people. Thats the power you have with sexuality Its a continuing journey to develop and hone yourself, there is no end point. You can continually improve yourself, see more and open more. Learn and practise this as much as you can The important thing is to actually do the exercises. because philosophies are good but are useless if you dont implement them into your life