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a letter from

Chatter

There are few things in life more sobering than waiting with a child who is about to vomit. I have been to funerals, ill-advised weddings, underrehearsed school productions, and awkward Sunday brunches, but all of those pale in comparison to the dread-filled silence before your baby yawns in technicolor. I held vigil for four days total while, in quick succession, Drew came down with the Steve Jobs of stomach bugs followed quickly by Maddie. Since he is a worldly, experienced five-year-old, Drew knows to fear and detest the whole throwing-up process. Like any normal adult, Drew deludes himself into thinking that he really wont be sick up until the very last possible minute.
But Madeline is a different story. Up until last week, she had never thrown up in her short, pigmy life. It was interesting to observe a little human being with no preconceived notions about nausea. That type of innocence is fleeting, like chaff in the wind. The morning when her sickness began, Gordon got her out of her crib and set her down in the hallway at the bottom of the stairs. Her usual policy is to trot down to the TV room to join Drew in front of some inane episode of Caillou. But this time was different, ominous. She was staring. Her hair was covering her face. Her shoulders were hunched over. If she was not so tiny, and if she hadnt been wearing pajamas covered in happy flowers, you would have thought she had walked straight out of The Ring. Sufficiently creeped out, I scooped her up and put her in her booster seat at the kitchen table. She continued to stare, though not in any kind of real distress she appeared to be working out the law of thermodynamics in her head. I began fixing breakfast, an activity I knew to be a fools errand, but it was too late for me to begin thinking logically. I was succumbing to that willful ignorance that only nausea can produce. THIS IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN, and I was sure of it.

Eggs, nectarines, and a leftover cherry turnover looked so cheerful on our breakfast plates. We ate in silence. I stole sideways glances at her as she chewed slowly and with an almost bovine nonchalance. She was picking up steam. GOOD, I thought. I took a bite of nectarine just as Madeline shoveled about half a cup of scrambled eggs into her gorgeous mouth. Then it was The Exorcist and I was out of my seat, lunging wildly into the natural disaster area like an unprepared first responder. Still chewing my bite of fruit, I had suddenly found myself dealing with this unfathomable, untenable and yet entirely predictable nightmare. Madeline was not upset. She might as well have sneezed. My hysteria, however, was enough for the both of us. When everything was cleaned up and Madeline was snuggled on the couch in front of Caillou to do silent battle with her virus, she said, Mommy, you stay with me. You stay here. It felt like being asked to attend an execution. But sit I did, cradling her little body in the crook of my arm. She didnt know that she might throw up again, but I was racked with dread. All Madeline knew was that she didnt feel right and that she needed me, yet I knew I might continue to serve as her vomit tarp. I was a willing martyr, a sacrificial lamb. And you better believe I was proud of myself. If God ever had my whiney, arms-length attitude when it comes to dealing with me and my various sicknesses of spirit, I would want to curl up in a dingy Sonic bathroom somewhere and die. Im glad he sits with me during my bouts of idolatry, squeezes my hand while I retch with selfishness, holds my hair back in the midst of my complaining. Im glad his pity is steely and strong, able to handle the mess I make when the illness of my nature overwhelms me. Im glad he is not afraid of my next episode; that he watches in sadness as the consequences of my wanderings catch up with me. Im glad that even when Im reeling from my own wanton narcissism and dont even notice his presence, that he is there shoring me up and making me clean. Im glad he will sit with me on the couch until the end. That someday, even today, he can make me well and whole.

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Irving Bible Church: a community on a journey.

Thanks for picking up Chatter. Chatter is a publication of Irving Bible Church in Irving, Texas.
Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to life transformation through Jesus Christ. We engage this journey by growing in Christ, connecting in community, and joining the mission. This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).

How do we do this?
Growing in Christ At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us (Ephesians 4:11-13). Connecting in Community The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been transformed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with one another on the journey (John 13:34-35). Joining the Mission The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world (Matthew 28:18-20).

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Photo Update: Newcomer Gathering

On April 4, newcomers to IBC gathered in The Zone for the quarterly Newcomer Gathering, an event designed for those new to the church to learn more about IBC and meet ministry leaders, elders, and Pastor Andy. The next Newcomer Gathering is August 22.

Andys going on Sabbatical

Sabbati-what? Sabbatical: just a fancy name for a simple season. Every seven years, IBC sends each member of the pastoral staff on a 3-month sabbatical for a time of refreshment and reflection. We believe it's a vital part of the life cycle of ministry to build in an extended Sabbath rest for those tasked with shepherding the body of IBC. While Andy won't be preaching or doing church business this summer, he will be engaged in intentional study, prayer and writing. With all that in mind, please join us in praying for Pastor Andy this summer. He will be back in the saddle mid-August.

 More than 250,000 children enter the U.S. Foster System each year (adoptuskids.org).

The words,

The President is sorry to inform you... would turn the Vandertulips lives upside down.

Robert, age 55, and his wife Louise have been married 38 years. They have five children 4 boys, 1 girl and 3 of the boys have served in the U.S. Armed Forces. After the tragedy of 9-11, their middle son Josiah, fresh out of high school and eager to follow in the footsteps of his older brother Craig, enlisted in the army. He volunteered specifically for Iraq, saying, Im single. I dont have any children. If my going will keep a husband and father here, all the better. Little did he know how profound those words would prove to be. Although he was in intelligence and not technically allowed to go out on patrol, Josiah routinely requested permission to go out on the dangerous missions. One day in October, he requested permission again and was granted patrol duty for the next day; he spent the evening cleaning the equipment of a buddy who had just been killed. Robert and Josiah spoke via web cam that night in what would be their last conversation. We talked about everything and about nothing, says Robert. I always told him I loved him. I am very blessed that nothing was left unsaid. Josiahs patrol left on October 14, 2004 to secure the circumference of an observation building in the center of Baghdad. One instant, Josiah was pointing out the position of an enemy sniper in a window; the next he was dead with a bullet wound in the head. Josiah was the first soldier from Irving killed in Operation Iraqi Freedom. There would eventually be four others. I was thankful he felt no pain, says Robert a small comfort for the Vandertulips painful road ahead.

also there, sitting around the living room: daughter Asa, son Micah and his wife Jennifer, plus Louise. There were also about 20 or so friends there, waiting in the back of the house for moral support. Robert remembers the surreal scene of turning onto his street: The parking was horrible but I didnt notice they were my friends cars. The armys policy is to notify next of kin, and so Officer Sanchez had not yet delivered the blow everyone knew was coming. We had a piano that kind of blocked the view when you come into the house, explains Robert. I took a couple of steps inside and saw my son Micah first. He just looked up at me, and was crying his eyes out. Then I saw her uniform. Everything afterwards was a blur. Robert tried to run out of the house. I couldnt hear the words, he says. A friend grabbed him so he could hear the awful truth. Officer Sanchez was not supposed to tell how Josiah was killed, but she told the family what little she knew. She read the standard verbiage dutifully; this was her first time notifying a family. The Vandertulips got more information over time. A sketch artist who was on location in Baghdad that day told them later that once Josiah was killed, all hell broke loose. The scene had erupted in a firefight, and Josiahs buddies brought in a tank to retrieve his body. He was buried at the DFW National Cemetery. In the early days after Josiahs death, the Army provided remarkable support and encouragement to the Vandertulips. President Bush spent an hour with Robert and Louise at the military base Fort Hood in March, 2005. Here is the most powerful man in the world giving us so much time, marvels Robert. The President arranged for their other son Craig to be kept from deployment to Iraq that month.

Robert hadnt dwelt too much about the posJosiah Vandertulip was the first sibility of his sons death. Since their oldest soldier from Irving killed in son Craig had already spent a year in AfOperation Iraqi Freedom. Eight ghanistan when Josiah was heading to Iraq, years later, the need to remember Another lifeline for the Vandertulips was the Vandertulips had been forced to come to is more important than ever their marriage, and Robert notes that he and a point of release. The fear is horrible, and especially for Robert, his dad. Louise could not have weathered the storm you cant just sit in fear of what might hapwithout each other. They also began looking pen, says Robert. He remembers a conversafor community close to home. Robert had tion he had with Louise while they were on a been a faithful Christian for many years, walk. She asked, What if Josiah dies? and but after burnout and some disappointment with the church, was not at the time Robert said, How can we be so selfish as to say not us when in over 200 years, so involved in a community of faith. It was heartbreaking not to have a church home, many have died for our freedom? says Robert of that time. Robert told his wife, We HAVE to have a family, and IBC became that place. Since then, Robert has found a real connection with the men in Robert tuned in to his radio on October 14 like he usually did while driving his First Watch. truck. Thats when he heard the report: A soldier was killed today in central Baghdads Tahrir Square. As was his custom whenever he heard casualty reports or news of an attack near Josiahs region, Robert immediately prayed yet never agonized over his sons safety. I heard the radio report that day and I prayed as usual, says Robert, not knowing I was praying for us. And what about his connection to God? It might be surprising that Robert says he is not bitter, though he still finds himself crying over his immeasurable loss. More than anything, forgiveness has been his main struggle. It wasnt God who shot Josiah. But I had a hard time coming to a place of forgiveness for the man who shot him. It would take a couple of years of regular grief counseling for Robert to find healing. Then he learned the sniper had been captured and executed. Im glad that I came to the place of forgiveness before finding out about that, he says. Life has moved on in other ways, too. Robert has used his grief in the years since to comfort and support those he meets in different stages of loss. He recalls a story from just yesterday: I ran into a guy that I hadnt seen in a while. I found out he had lost his wife of 41 years last year; he literally looked like half the man he used

remembers

a father

It was a Thursday afternoon. Robert, a truck driver, had just fueled up at about 3 p.m. when his daughter Asa called. You need to come home, she said. When he pressed her for more information, she could only repeat, You need to come home. The Vandertulips have a rule that when someone summons you home, you dont ask questions, you just come. Are you sure? asked Robert. His truck had just broken down. The day had been hectic. But when he pulled into the driveway and opened the door to his living room, the scene was crystal-clear, stunning. Standing in her dress uniform in the center of his living room was Staff Sergeant Sanchez. She was wearing her Class A uniform which unmistakably meant she was there as a Casualty Officer. The family was
Memorial Day was originally known as Decoration Day to commemorate both Union and Confederate dead after the Civil War.

Continued on pg. 6
Also known as Liberation Square, Tahrir Square in Baghdad celebrates the 1958 establishment of the Republic of Iraq.

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Memorial Day by the Numbers

1.3 million
Continued from pg. 5 to be. And I just held him. I told him, I dont know your grief. I know that youre hurting, but I have no idea how it hurts. I just held him and cried with him. The Vandertulips life and grief is obviously still a story in progress. Does Robert regret his sons service? Never for a moment. Does he still grieve? Absolutely, but it does not control his life. I recognize grief for what it is, I just dont wallow in it. And when I cry, I cry. I let it go. I dont try and stuff it down. He and Louise make a point every Memorial Day to visit Josiahs grave and remember both big and small things. What will he remember the most? Josiahs sense of humor. He told, or tried to tell jokes since he was about three years old, laughs Robert. He didn't always succeed, but he kept plugging away at it. Josiah was also very driven and curious as a child. Robert reminisces about having to come up with new hiding places each year for all the Christmas presents because little Josiah would always manage to find them even though he would be disappointed Christmas morning. He was very stubborn, recalls Robert, And it was his stubbornness that caused him to stand up for what he believed in. Josiahs stubbornness, his strength of character, would be the driving force behind his enlistment and ultimate legacy as a fallen hero a legacy that is not difficult to remember, at least for Robert. Turns out, remembering is one of the best things for non-military families to do to support grieving military families. The first thing is, thank them, says Robert. Families like to be told they are being prayed for, that their childs service is appreciated. Then what? Just remember, says Robert. Now, its important to just remember. Julie Rhodes sister Liz is in the Army Chaplaincy training program. Julie is extremely proud of her, yet does not envy the unattractive footwear.
Julie edits Chatter and corrals preschoolers. Check out her blog at wetbehindtheearsblog.com.

in all American wars since 1776.

(Wikipedia)

total casualties

22,328,000
projected total war vets
still living.
(Dept. of Veterans Affairs)

total soldiers currently deployed

(Dept. of Defense, Dec. 2012)

172,966

outside the U.S.

Wreaths
In honor of fallen military service men and women, IBC will be providing Memorial Day wreaths for sale in the Town Square on Sunday, May 19 & 26. Five dollars from each $15 wreath sold will go to help a young family that has lost their service member in combat or while on active duty.We encourage you to place your wreath at a grave at the DFW National Cemetery to honor a fallen soldier. Placing your wreath is a great way to educate kids about the sacrifices made for our freedoms.

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The last living documented veteran of the Civil War was Albert Woolson of Minnesota. He served as a Union drummer boy and died in 1956 at the age of 109.

Hint: McQuittys lair sans diabolical scheming

Hint: Where great music pecks through its shell.

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Hint: Think birds-eye view.

Hint: Like The Dixie Cups famous song.

I n s id e t h e S t e e p l e
IBC is a big place. Theres a lot going on around here every week that you might not know about. How well do YOU know your way around?
Hint: Rocks a Honey, I Shrunk The Kids mojo.

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KYLE
Steed
Youve seen his work for IBCs recent teaching series, This Changes Everything. So just who is the man in the hat? Illustrator, designer and creative all-round guru Kyle Steed loves Jesus, adores his wife, and proudly calls Dallas home. Heres more about this pen wielding dude who draws. The best kind of project is one that challenges me to think and grow as an artist. There is nothing worse than feeling like a machine making work that looks exactly the same. What advice would you give to someone just starting out? Get out there and meet folks. There is nothing more important than meeting people and making good connections. At the same time, dont expect to ride the coattails of anyone elses success. Work hard to refine your craft and share your journey. You dont have to be a good writer or anything, but Ive found that keeping a journal is a great way to reflect on what youre learning. Dont listen to the voice inside you that screams it cant be done. Remember that there will always be those ahead of you and those behind you. So dont be too hard on yourself. Be humble with whatever success you receive. The more you recognize your talents as a gift, the better off youll be. And when you start to feel like youve learned a thing or two please share your knowledge with others. Chances are theres someone else out there who needs to hear what youve learned.

MEET

the ARTIST:

Did you have a conscious strategy approaching This Changes Everything? If youre asking if I had it all planned out ahead of time, then no. I took time to sit and read through the Scriptures for every week and let the ideas flow naturally. I looked for certain words or phrases that stuck out to me and then started to sketch out those words. You are very open about your faith. Is that hard for an artist in Dallas? Yes and no. Yes, because sometimes it seems like all people want to do is put you in a box. Its hard breaking outside the box of what people normally think of as Christian design. For me, the word Christian in front of anything but a person is a marketing term. But Ive come to a place where I feel comfortable in my own skin and can just make the work that I feel God has inspired me to make. The satisfaction that comes out of knowing who we are in Christ is much more fulfilling than finding satisfaction from our peers praise. As far as living in Dallas goes, I actually think its easier here to be accepted as an artist of faith. But Ive been all over the country and am continually encouraged by other friends who love God and are continuing to make great work. There is definitely a revolution going on right now in the world of art and design. How does Jesus resurrection change everything for you? Its the crux of everything. Defeating death will go down as one of the greatest acts in human history. Jesus resurrection proves the heart of the Father for his children, which is nothing can separate us from his love. Everyday I am thankful for another chance to live life again. And everyday I know that even if my work is unfinished on this earth, I still have an eternity awaiting me.

What exactly would you say you do? Probably one of the hardest things a creative person can do is describe what they do. I can tell you that design solves problems, photography tells stories, and art asks questions, but that still doesnt give you any greater insight into my day-to-day world. I spend my days somewhere between the clicks and clacks of my keyboard and the sketching and erasing of my pencil. Drawing is my first love. The possibilities are endless when you start to move your pencil on the paper. To me, it makes more sense to sketch my ideas on paper first, then start pushing pixels. Its so exciting to just start doodling and not have an end goal in mind. I think its great to make it up as you go along. There are no rules to being creative. There isnt any magical formula that will help you get better. The secret to getting better is sitting down and doing the work, day in and day out. Where do you find your inspiration? This is the question I feel that everyone asks hoping to discover the secret behind what makes somebody else so great. Well I dont mind sharing who or what inspires me, just so long as you know there is no such thing as a secret ingredient to success. It is simply hard work. With that said, I find most of my inspiration when I am at rest (and when I look at my hot wife). Giving my mind time away from all the other distractions is the best way for me to be inspired. Dont get me wrong, theres inspiration all around us. A conversation with a friend. The sunrise/sunset. Architecture. Old hand painted signage on the side of a building that is fading away. Just name a place, and I bet you can find something to inspire you there. But when I need a moment of inspiration, its only as far away as my pillow.
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kylesteed.com.

You can coNnect with Kyle at

irvingbible.org/ media.

For video and audio of past IBC Teaching Series, visit

and

INSIDE INSIDE BRENTS BRENTS BRAIN

BRAIN

Chat: You were not an IBCer when you were hired. What about Mission at IBC intrigued you? BM: I might not have been an IBCer, but working in a Bible church 16 miles away put me in orbit around IBC since 1997. Proximity gave me a chance to get to know IBC pastors and staff through working with them or attending conferences with them. It also gave me a chance to get to know about the ministry and people who make up IBC. One reality that IBCers may not be aware of is that those working in other churches and ministries hold IBC pastors and staff in high professional regard. Its obvious that over the years a lot of talented and innovative people have served here, so when I had the chance to serve on a staff like this one, I jumped at the opportunity. Who doesnt want to work with gifted and fun people? But what truly intrigued me about Mission at IBC was the long history of an entrepreneurial spirit this congregation has shown when it comes to reaching those who dont know Christ. So many creative ministries have been launched from here over the years, like the Kutchi ministry or Tapestry or Water is Basic and Laundry Love. This gathering of people not only supports missions in more traditional ways, but also thinks outside those boxes. Its almost a perfect blend of old school and innovation, both of which are important. Chat: What gets you most excited these days about Mission at IBC? BM: Id say its the almost unlimited potential of IBC to reach those that dont know Jesus wherever they are by whatever it takes to do it. I mean, theres such a diversity of passions and when you combine that with people who joyfully commit their (hokey Christian buzzword alert) time, talent and treasure and have faithfully done so over the long haul, whats not to be excited about? It would probably be less time-consuming to answer the question, what doesnt excite you about Mission at IBC? Chat: We were told to ask you about Soccer Sunday and Red/Blue Ocean. Is this some sort of fad workout regimen or diet plan? BM: A few years ago Id been doing a lot of reading on shaping churches for the future, and one thing most books noted was the overall decline in church attendance. One Sunday I was on vacation and my sister invited me to attend Soccer Sunday with her friends. It was only families with toddlers in a local public park having mimosas and getting caught up on life, and when they found out I was a pastor who wasnt in church on Sunday they started discussing why they werent in church on Sunday. It had nothing to do with negative experiences that couldnt be overcome OR with Jesus. They noted that church just

You might have seen Brent McKinney walking the halls of IBC like hes on a mission. Turns out, he is. Chatter caught up with IBCs new Mission Pastor to get the skinny on who he is, what hes all about, and what excites him most about his new job.
Chatter: Hey Brent. First off, thanks for Chatting. Youve been around several months, but a lot of IBCers might not have met you yet. Why dont you tell us a little about your people first? Brent McKinney: I married my college sweetheart, Tracy, in 1988. We have two daughters, Kelsey (age 21, a student at UT Austin) and Shelby (age 19, a student at Paul Mitchell Cosmetology school in Carrollton). We have two dogs, Lloyd (the greatest of all dogs) and Gobi (his apprentice). Chat: Give us the CliffsNotes version of your education and professional background. BM: Graduated from Auburn University with a B.A. in Religion in 1987. Graduated Dallas Theological Seminary with an M.A. in Christian Education in 1997. In my 25 years of full-time ministry, Ive had only two jobs: The first one was with Greater Birmingham Youth for Christ as a missionary on public school campuses through Campus Life. The last 15 years were spent at Crossroads Bible Church, most of the time as Pastor of Student Ministries, but I also served an interim role as Pastor of Discipleship. (Similar to a lead pastor here at IBC.) Chat: OK, real quick, lets talk hobbies and entertainment. Your top picks. Go. Sports fan of: Auburn University football, the Texas Rangers, Dallas Cowboys, Dallas Stars, and Newcastle United Music: early punk, late grunge, and Mississippi Delta blues Authors: Francis Schaeffer, N.T. Wright, Alan Hirsch, Theodor Seuss Geisel, Kurt Vonnegut, Malcolm Gladwell, and Douglas Coupland Movies: Stranger than Fiction, Grosse Pointe Blank, and Field of Dreams

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seemed irrelevant to where they were in life and wasnt worth the time and energy. Thats when it dawned on me that no matter how charismatic a pastor is or how great a worship leader is, theres a segment of our population that will NOT come to church. Chat: Interesting. So is there a solution? BM: About the same time I discovered a business term being used called Red Ocean/Blue Ocean. The imagery is one of a deep-sea fishing boat chumming the water, drawing fish to the red ocean around the boat. Meanwhile, theres an untold number of fish in the vast blue ocean beyond the bait. So, the red ocean is the known market share for a product. Like, for tennis balls. How many people will buy them to play the sport of tennis? All the tennis ball makers fight in the red ocean to get those folks to buy their product. However, somebody could make a great deal of money if they could get in the blue ocean by dreaming and developing a new market say, for the bottom of furniture to keep it from scratching the floors. Manufacturers could sell to an entirely new demographic. Anyway, statistics show only 40% of any population is open to attending church on a Sunday, and only half of those will ever actually bother to go. Thats our red ocean. But theres a vast majority of our population that needs Christ-followers to come up with creative and innovative ways to build relationships with them. Thats how we can reach the other 60%. Chat: OK, but most of us arent vocational missionaries or pastors. Any tips for living our regular lives to reach the blue ocean? BM: First, change the way you think about where God has already placed you. Your vocation and hobbies and involvements are already your mission. Accountants, homemakers, and teachers have built-in mission fields. We have to erase the lines between secular and sacred. Second, pray that God would lead you into moments where his love needs to be shown and that youd be sensitive to the Spirit as he does so. Finally, get serious about being true friends and showing love with your neighbors, without a hidden agenda or targeting them for evangelism. Chat: Sometimes the sheer amount of local and global needs is overwhelming. How does IBC approach them strategically? BM: We build deep relationships with the ministries we support (or plan to support). We get to know them so we can ensure they are in alignment with the values that are important to IBC. For example, we want to be a part of ministries that empower local people to continue to sustain the ministry. We also want the ministries we support to serve in a holistic manner. That is, we want them to make sure the organizations and/or missionaries are engaging the spiritual, relational and physical needs of the people they serve. And lastly, we want the ministries to help the people they serve discover, develop and pursue their unique ministry for the Kingdom. Chat: You have a beautiful flowing ponytail. We are envious of its color and texture. Whats your secret? BM: Pert Plus since I was in high school. I really have never done anything else. It is important for people to know that my long hair is not a statement of rebellion or anything like that. I am a five-time donor to organizations that serve cancer patients by providing wigs. My family and friends in ministry have been affected by cancer, and this is one small way I can serve. Until it falls out, anyway. Chat: Were hoping thats decades away. Thanks for your thoughts, Brent. And welcome to IBC.

THIS JUST IN:

BREAKING PARTNER NEWS

My Refuge House: IBC has committed to build a cabin in Cebu, Philippines that will provide live-in aftercare for six young sextrafficking victims. Ground broke in March, and the cabin will start housing residents in early 2014! Kutchi: IBC recently sponsored the 14th Annual Kutchi Vision Seminar in India. Work continues checking the New Testament translation for accuracy, as well as translating Psalms and Proverbs. Family Promise Irving: The firstever fundraiser held in February netted $10,000 that will provide a path to stability and permanent housing for homeless families in Irving. Mercy Street: The West-Dallas mentoring ministry is now also a community of faith: Mercy Street Church. They meet the first Saturday of the month and will officially launch in September. To learn more about these and the other IBC partners and missionaries, visit irvingbible.org/missions.

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Insid e the St eep le A nswer Ke y

(from page 7)

1 . pa s t o r a nd y s office
The old Bible on pg. 7 belonged to Andys great-grandfather, Philip S. Dreher, born in 1872. It sits on a side table, next to Andy's motor cycle snow globe.

See how IBC-smart you are.

2 . T h e h at c h

Ever wonder where the Sunday worship experience gets incubated, cracked open, and pan-fried to perfection? Welcome to The Hatch, the workspace of IBCs worship team.

3. Worship center

Take a load off your feet in IBCs Worship Center, where exactly 2,214 people could find a spot on Sunday or for special events.

4. the chapel

Walk the path of Christs suffering with IBCs collection of 100-year-old Stations of the Cross from Ireland. Youll find them downstairs in The Chapel.

5. The bugs

These creepy-crawlies have nothing on your little rugrats. The Tubes and the softplay area (Chatter calls em The Bugs) are open to the public daily from 9 a.m.9 p.m.

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J o u r n e y On

The IBC facility is just one resource we use to reach our friends and neighbors with the love of Jesus. If you want to be part of making IBC mortgagefree and able to expand the ways we can join God's mission, its never too late to Journey On. Learn more today at irvingbible.org/journeyon.

Pentecost S u nd ay

The church is more than just a building with quirky nooks and crannies. Join us Sunday May 19 as we celebrate the Big-C Church, familystyle. Head over to Town Square after every services for food and activities.

Coffee with Kenneth

Shannon Miller, coordinator of Special Needs at IBC, introduces one of her favorite people...

I came to IBC four years ago and immediately started looking for opportunities to get connected, starting as a SonShine Pal for special needs kids on Sundays, then helping with Respite Care, then finally moving into the SonShine Room. In May of 2011, God showed me a need that wasnt being met what about adults? Where do older people with special needs go to learn about Jesus and have community? In September 2011, In His Image, a Bible study for adults with special needs, began. I first met Kenneth about a year and a half ago. He started coming to IHI with a group from the Association for Independent Living (AFIL). I had seen him around IBC for a few years, so when he started coming to the Bible study, it was like meeting a celebrity. Since then, Kenneth has truly become one of my favorite people. He is funny, sweet, passionate, and extremely genuine and honest. He also loves Jesus with all his heart. Everyone should have the pleasure of knowing Kenneth. One Sunday, we sat down at his table in the hallway between Town Square and the MO for a little interview. IBC, meet Kenneth Green.

Shannon Miller: It is pretty early on a Sunday morning right now. What time do you usually get to church? Kenneth Green: Sometimes I get to church around about 7 a.m. SM: Why do you like to get here so early? KG: Cause I like to walk around and play my music and not jam, you know, but get my exercise. SM: What is the best part about coming to church? KG: Worship God, worship Jesus. I go up on the top bunk sometimes. (the balcony) SM: When did you start coming to IBC and why? KG: My brother invited me to come. Couldve been 17, 18, 19 years ago. When they had the old sanctuary, and the Dallas Cowboys were coming at the time. SM: What? The Dallas Cowboys? KG: Yeah, I saw Herschel Walker.

SM: Wow, I didnt know that. Why did you start coming to the Bible study on Wednesday nights? KG: Because I wanted to learn about the Bible. Kay (his supervisor at AFIL) came up and told me about it. My brother and his wife used to go to a Bible study. Id been to their Bible study. I liked going and learned a lot from that. SM: What would happen if we stopped having the Bible study? KG: Id be out in the cold somewhere! SM: Whats your favorite thing that youve learned so far? KG: I learned about the Bible. I learned he (Jesus) didnt stay here long enough! SM: Ok, tell us about yourself. Where do you live? KG: I live on Storey Lane. We have a place where you have to live on your own. Its called AFIL (Association for Independent Living). I graduated from the program and have lived in my condo for probably 19 years.

SM: I know you love TV. What do you like to watch? KG: TBN. SM: Ah, TBN. Why? KG: Because its a Christian station. I like to watch it at night. And on Wednesday nights the thing comes on about Jesus dying. It makes me boo-hoo. SM: What do you love the most about Jesus?

KG: Thats a good question. The only thing I think about is him dying on the cross. I saw something come on TV and I bawled my eyes out. I wept like a baby. I like when he did the big speech on the mountaintop. The fish and the bread, thats what I like. SM: What do you love most about your friends at IBC? KG: Coming to be by them and talk to them. Making people laugh. I do that all the time. I like doing that.

Nobody brings a smile to my face like Kenneth. So now that you know his name and a little about him, go up and introduce yourself sometime. Youll find you have a new friend at IBC. Shannon Miller was a competitive roller skater from the ages of 8 to 11.
Shannon oversees Special Needs at IBC and is a full-time special-ed teacher.

In His Image is a place where adults (18 and older) with special needs

can grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission. IHI meets Wednesday nights from 6:307:45 p.m. in the Training Center. A typical evening includes a time of worship, group discussion and an opportunity to share prayer requests. IHI also takes time out for fun activities such as bowling and parties. Contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org for more information.

THIS MONTH
Bible Communities
Groups on Sunday
Theres always something new going on in Bible Communities! Heres a taste of whats happening this month:
Synergy 9 a.m. Middle School Room Couples in their 40s & 50s If you desire to dive into scripture and deepen your faith, this class is for you. Come join us. The Tree 9 a.m. West D 20s & 30s, married and young families Join us as we unpack John Pipers book This Momentary Marriage, looking at the truth that marriage is the display of covenant-keeping love between Christ and his people. Crossroads 10:45 a.m. High School Room Married late 20s and 30s Join as we use teaching topics to facilitate group discussion with the goal of deepening relationships both in community and individually with Christ. Journey 10:45 a.m. Middle School Room All Welcome We have an informal and relaxed format centered on Bible-oriented lessons, followed by table discussions and prayer. On Track 10:45 a.m. West C Single Parents If you are a single parent or a blended family, please join us for Bible study, fellowship and prayer. Thrive 10:45 a.m. West D Singles in their 30s & 40s Join us on Sundays in May as we learn how to walk empowered by the Spirit. Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center Diverse, all ages and stages Join us we begin a new series, New Testament: Energizing Disciples in New Truth. Legacy Builders 6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome Join us for fellowship, prayer, and in-depth Bible teaching as we search Gods word.

for bringing friends. K-5 grade. Contact Gary at glindsay@irvingbible.org.

5th Grade Transition Open House Sunday, May 26, 10:45 a.m. The Alcove 5th Grade Graduation Sunday, June 2 The Commons Join us after all three worship services in The Commons for 5th grade graduation and an informational.

Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. West Wing Youth Lounge Do you deal with perfectionism, pride, overeating, inappropriate anger or control? Recovery is confidential and all are welcome. Grace For the Wounded Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. A confidential small group ministry that explores the wounds we have received and the healing journey Gods prepared for us. Female group currently offered. Contact graceforthewounded@irvingbible. org to register. NAMI Family-to-Family Class Mondays, 6:309:30 p.m. West B A 12-week course designed for families and caregivers of those with serious mental illness. Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com. Shelter from the Storm A confidential small group that meets weekly for 16 weeks focused on seeing God in the middle of recovery and finding hope and healing from sexual abuse. We offer groups for both teens and adults. Contact Michelle at shelterfromthestormibc@gmail.com or (214) 7250898. Mental Health Grace Alliance Every other Monday, 6:30 p.m. West A and C Family Grace Group For family members, friends, and caregivers to understand and support individuals with serious mental disorders. Contact Buzz Moody at myrabuzz@gmail.com.

Missions

Local and Global

Laundry Love first Saturday of the month, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Located at Amigo Laundromat, 3349 Country Club Dr. in Irving (just down from Sam Houston Middle School). Please join us as we provide free laundry cycles and detergent, strike up conversations and build relationships. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org. Prayer Meeting 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, 6:458 p.m. The Chapel Join us as we pray for IBC and the needs of our people and the world.

connect

Events and Resources for Newcomers

Launch Pad Sundays, 9 a.m. West C A class for anyone interested in joining a sermon-based small group at IBC. Join us beginning May 12 to learn more about the Small Groups Ministry and get in line for a group this fall.

Parenting

Events and Resources

Online Book Club Begins June 9 No babysitters required to join the Parenting online book club. We will be reading "Parenting is Your Highest Calling: And Eight Other Myths That Trap Us in Worry and Guilt" by Leslie Fields (speaker for the Parenting Fall Conference, September 20-21). To sign up, visit irvingbible. org/parenting.

Faith and Belief

Events and Resources
Baby Dedications May 12 Registration runs through May 3 at irvingbible.org/babydedication. Space is limited, so if you have a preference of service times, please register early. Photos of children being dedicated should be sent no later than May 3 to Donna at doreilly@irvingbible.org. Hard copies are also acceptable. New Parent Orientation: May 5 at 9 a.m. in the Senior High Room. Orientation is not mandatory, but strongly encouraged. We will explore what it means to dedicate your child and answer questions about parenting issues and our childrens ministry at IBC. Membership Class May 12 and 19, 10:45 a.m. West A If you are interested in becoming a member at IBC, this class if for you. Led by our elders, May 12 is an orientation to the beliefs and values of Irving Bible Church, including time to ask questions. If after the orientation you decide you would like to become a member, join us May 19 to share your story of coming to faith in a small group setting. To register, visit irvingbible.org/ connect. Contact Donna OReilly at doreilly@irvingbible.org

Seniors

For Folks Ages 55+

Potluck Lunch and Fellowship May 19 Immediately following the second morning service in the Commons Annex adjoining the Haven. Bring a dish to share if you can. Dinner and a Show May 30 6 p.m. : Dinner at Applebees on Belt Line, near Hwy 183

The Living Grace Group For those who have mental illness. Contact Melissa Clark at melisser34@yahoo.com.
Stephen Ministry at IBC Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, contact stephenministry@ irvingbible.org.

8 p.m.: ICT Mainstage Dupree Theatre presents The Last Night of Ballyhoo. Call the box office for tickets at (972) 2522787. Contact bgroezinger@verizon.net for more info.

Please visit page 18 for more Sunday Bible Communities.

Men

Community and Resources

First Watch Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons See ad, pg. 16. First Watch Xtra Meets Wednesdays at 6:30 a.m. in the Training Center.

Single Parents

Community and Resources

Andrew Esparza Single Parent Family Carnival May 11, 58 p.m. Mustang Park Rec Center Join other single parents and kids for a fun-filled afternoon of live music, bounce houses, Midway games, visits from the Irving Police SWAT truck, a petting zoo, pony rides, and more! See ad, pg. 17.

Children

Infants Through 5th Grade

VBS June 1720, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Registration now open at irvingbible.org/vbs. MyZone Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. Zone/Zone Jr. A mid-week event for kids thats great

Hope & Healing

Community Care
Abortion Recovery Counseling One-on-one, confidential counseling for those living with the aftermath of abortion. For information, contact Kym at (972) 5604632 or kyeichner@irvingbible.org.

Visit irvingbible.org/men for more info.

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Sit with us on Sunday! Several single-parent families enjoy worshiping together in the 9 a.m. service. Join us in the lowest righthand section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.

Teen Recovery Monday nights, 67:30 p.m. Zone, Jr. Teen Recovery is a safe and confidential environment for middle and high school students to identify and share their pain and struggles. Contact Trey at tgrant@irvingbible.org.

2435 Kinwest

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Vox Humana Choir Wednesdays, 6:308:10 p.m. IBC Worship Center The choral community of IBC is always looking for new singers, beginner or pro. Everyone is welcome and you can join at any time! No auditions necessary. Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ17, 18 and 19 Do you want to learn English? Improve your English? Come practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. For more info, contact Corey at 2435esl@irvingbible.org. IBC Career Transition Ministry Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Want to find a job? Come learn how to craft a rock-solid resume, use the Internet and LinkedIn to network, and ace the interview. For more info, contact 2435jobtransition@ irvingbible.org.

Miscellaneous
A Little Bit of Everything
Garage Sale benefitting Journey On May 4, 7 a.m.12 p.m. Join us for a good, old-fashioned garage sale in the IBC parking lot (corner of Regent and Kinwest). All proceeds will benefit Journey On. Contact Brandon at bmaenius@ gmail.com. Red Cross Blood Drive May 5 Please sign-up for the Red Cross Blood drive. The sign-ups will be April 28 in Town Square after each service. NICHE (North Irving Christian Home Educators) Monday, May 13, 69 p.m. The Alcove Join us for a free event featuring veteran homeschooler and author Kathe Lee. She will be presenting on Financial Aid 101 and What Colleges Want. RSVP to Sandy Lowry at lowrysluvjesus@verizon. net. Seats are limited and available by RSVP only. Contact board@ texasniche.com. IBC Spring Softball, Mens teams only Now forming teams. Contact Kurt Heinemann at kurtheine76@ yahoo.com or (972) 765-9912.

Special Needs

Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

Community and Resources

In His Image Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:307:45 p.m. Training Room A small group for adults (18+) with special needs. See article, pg. 13. Special Needs Support Group Wednesday nights, 6:307:45 p.m. The Conference Room Contact Lori at lorikuy@gmail.com. Respite Care Every fourth Saturday For families that have children with special needs. SonShine Pals and Room Our SonShine Rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children with special needs. There are also opportunities for children to be matched with a SonShine Pal.

WOMEN

Community and Resources

Save-the-Date Womens Summer Bible Study July 2August 6 Join us as we study Wonderstruck by Margaret Feinburg. Register today at irvingbible.org/women.

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

Young Adults
20s and Early 30s
The Gathering Thursdays, 7 p.m. The Alcove Join us as we walk through the book of Philippians. We will learn to find a joy that is not marked by circumstance or achievement, but by the overflowing presence of God in our lives. Family Dinner May 30, 6:30 p.m. Join us as we close out the year with good food and great company. We have taken care of the burgers; you just need to bring your favorite side dish, dessert, or drink to share. See ad, pg. 17. Small Groups Many young adults (marrieds, singles and mixed) meet in small groups during the week and on Sundays to connect in community and grow in Christ. To learn more, contact youngadults@irvingbible.org. Sunday Mornings at the Mo Sundays, 10 a.m. The Mosaic Caf Join us for fellowship before the 10:45 a.m. service.

Visit 2435kinwest.org.

Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

Students

Middle/High School and College

5th Grade Transition Open House Sunday, May 26, 10:45 a.m. The Alcove

Pool Party Saturday, June 1, 11 a.m. (Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org)

5th Grade Graduation Sunday, June 2 The Commons Join us after all three worship services in The Commons for 5th grade graduation and an informational. Middle School Sundays MERGE AM The Alcove, 10:45 a.m.12:05 p.m.

A GATHERING OF VOLUNTEERS
WHEN: May 14, 5:308 p.m. WHERE: IBC (Town Square and The Commons) RSVP: irvingbible.org/summit QUESTIONS? Contact Victoria at vandrews@irvingbible.org
Theres no other place you will want to be on May 14 but The Summit at IBC. The May Summit will celebrate our volunteers and prepare for the craziness that is summer. Be our guest as we enjoy dinner and fun (read: bounce houses), and then gather together for stories from this past year. The stories God is telling in and through the people of IBC wouldnt be possible without your willingness to serve, and thus were eager to get together, share, and celebrate. Dinner and fun for kids: 5:306:30 p.m. Summit program: 6:458 p.m. in the Commons. (KidZone begins) Please register by May 8 at irvingbible.org/summit . KidZone will be available when you register.

SUMMIT

- THE-

Life Groups the Commons, 6:458 p.m. Middle School Wednesdays The W Student Ministry area, 6:308 p.m.
High School Sundays Life Groups Student Ministry area, 6:458 p.m. High School Wednesdays SWAG (Students Worship and Gathering) The Alcove, 7:158:30 p.m.

IBC College Ministry Sundays at 6:458 p.m. The Alcove.

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VBS 2013

AT IRVING BIBLE CHURCH

JUNE 1720

ENTER THE EPIC ADVENTURE THAT EMPOWERS KIDS TO STAND STRONG. HERE, GODS VICTORIOUS POWER ISNT A FAIRY TALE IT CHANGES KIDS FOREVER.
When: June 1720, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Where: IBC Who: Kids entering K-5th grades Cost: $20 per child. Price increases June 1. Family discounts and scholarships are available. Contact: Melody at mparlett@irvingbible.org Register: irvingbible.org/vbs

7-week breakdown
Summer Series:
May 3: Genesis Intro: Our words either imitate our creator or Satan. They can give life, or destroy life. May 10: I am a dwelling place for Scripture, therefore God gives me the power to speak as he has designed. Through The Word, the tongue becomes tamable. May 17: As we turn our hearts towards God, our words begin to align with his heart. May 24: As we submit to Gods sovereignty,
our speech models his methods, mission, and character.

Speak Life

Home, Work, and Everywhere In-Between

Fridays, May 3 June 14, 6:22 a.m. | The Commons Join First Watch this summer for a special series based on Proverbs 18:21: Words kill. Words give life.
Questions? Contact Kym at kyeichner@irvingbible.org. No registration is required.

May 31: Speaking for Gods mission, methods, and character compels confrontation for the purpose of correction and reconciliation. June 7: Thinking redemptively about all our
relationships causes us to affirm the work of God in each persons life.

June 14: Consider, confess, commit and change.

Andrew Esparza Memorial

Invite your single-parent friends and neighbors to this FREE* event!

Join other single parents and kids for a fun-filled afternoon of live music, bounce houses, midway games, visits from the Irving Police SWAT truck, a petting zoo, pony rides, and more! For more information or to volunteer, contact Jennifer at jerlenbusch@irvingbible.org or visit irvingbible.org/singleparents.

May 12 and 19, 10:45 a.m. West A&B

M e m be rs h i p at IB C

If IBC is your church home and you are interested in becoming a member, this two-part event is for you. Come the first week and get to know elders, learn more about our core beliefs, and discover what membership is all about. If you are ready to take the next step, come the following week to share your own story of faith and complete the membership process. For more information contact Donna OReilly at doreilly@irvingbible.org. Register at irvingbible.org/connect.

Saturday, May 11, 58 p.m.

at Mustang Park Rec. Center (across from IBC)
2223 Kinwest Parkway, Irving TX 75063
*event is free except for concessions

5K /
Start time: 3 p.m. Registration fee: $25 (includes a t-shirt)

FUN RUN

YOUNG ADULT FAMILY DINNER

MAY 30, 6:308:30 P.M.
Join us May 30 as we close out the spring semester of The Gathering by eating great food with great company. Were serving burgers, so bring your favorite side dish, dessert, or drink to contribute. Dinner will begin at 6:30 p.m. For location, contact youngadults@irvingbible.org. We look forward to seeing you there! RSVP to youngadults@irvingbible.org.

Stop by Mustang Park before the Carnival for the Annual Andrew Esparza Memorial 5K and 1 Mile Fun Run.
This race benefits the Andrew Esparza Scholarship Foundation in memory of Andrew Esparza, a fallen Irving Police officer and former volunteer with Single Parents at IBC.

Please register at athlete360.com, or arrive day of race at least 30 minutes prior.

Sunday Schedule
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) Synergy (40s & 50s), Middle School Room The Tree (young marrieds and families), West D

HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
Lawyers Needed ALARM (African Leadership and Reconciliation Ministries) is looking for lawyers to share in God's work. Working with the African church, we can be agents of God's leadership, reconciliation and justice. Contact melodymgranados@gmail.com. Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families Men, be a big brother to a boy by spending one-on-one time encouraging him, teaching life skills, and modeling how a godly man lives. Women, have fun mentoring girls at our Girl Stuff events, teaching girls their identity in Christ. Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingible.org. Visitor Follow-Up Team (Rex Greenstreet Ministry) We are looking for a volunteer to make calls to visitors each week at IBC. Training and coaching will be provided. For more info, contact ssharp@irvingbible.org. Meal Team Volunteers IBC makes meals available both Sunday and Wednesday nights. These fun teams could use some additional volunteers to serve together. For Sundays contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org. For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org. Respite Care Volunteers By giving a few hours of your time to do crafts, play games, and spend time with special needs children, you give their parents a few hours for themselves. Every fourth Saturday evening. Contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

Wednesday Nights Special Needs Volunteers Volunteer to help care for children with special needs while their mothers attend a support group. Contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org. Kids Night Out Volunteer Kids' Night Out, a ministry for single parent families, meets the third Saturday of each month from 69 p.m., to give their parents a much needed evening to themselves. Contact Jennifer at jerlenbusch@irvingbible.org.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s-30s couples), High School Room On Track (single parents), West C Journey (all welcome), Middle School Room Merge A.M. (middle school), Alcove Renew (multi-generational), Training Center Thrive (30s & 40s singles), West D

My Resources
New Childrens Shoes for Haiti It is our desire to bring a new pair of shoes to every child that attends the summer camp we are hosting in Haiti with Hosean International. Bring childrens shoes to the donation box in Town Square any time in May or June. Contact missions@irvingbible.org. Breakfast Cereal Need for Brighter Tomorrows The womens shelter in Irving has an ongoing need for cereal to feed their women and children. Drop your boxes in the donation area at IBC. Contact Marjorie at brightertomorrows@irvingbible.org. Online Giving Option If you would find it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit irvingbible.org/give.

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

Legacy Builders (all welcome), West A Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

sunday Community Meals

Join us in the Town Square for our community meal on Sundays at 6 p.m. Meals are $3 per person or $10 max./family. 5/5 Pizza, breadsticks, salad, and fun. 5/12 All American Burgers and brats 5/19 NO MEAL, Pentecost Sunday. 5/26 NO MEAL, Memorial Day Weekend. If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

Interested in learning more about IBCs budget for 2013 or other financial nuts and bolts? Visit irvingbible.org/budget.

Wednesday Midweek Meals

Each Wednesday night from 5-6:20 p.m., IBC prepares dinner for anyone wanting a good, hot meal. PB&J sandwiches are also available. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. Just come by The Commons and grab a plate! 5/1 5/8 Mac and cheese with sausage, green beans, salad, rolls, dessert. Burgers, chips, baked beans, pickle spears, dessert.

New to IBC?
Have questions? Were here to help.

Were so glad youre here. Sometimes its hard to know where to begin, but we want to make the process of connecting and feeling at home as easy as possible. Here are some ways to start. The Information Center is a great place to get your questions answered, find help and encouragement for your personal journey, or just have a cup of coffee and settle in. Our team of volunteers would be happy to help you, and our goal is to make you feel at home. The Information Center is open every Sunday after all three worship services. The Newcomer Gathering is an informal get-together for those new to IBC and/or those wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in. Meet other newcomers, ministry leaders and elders. Cant seem to figure out what IBC is all about or how you fit into the larger picture? Want free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks? Propel is designed to help you figure out how to best plug in to IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission and what that might look like for you. Youll also learn more about membership at IBC. Small groups exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships and in our hearts. We do this in the context of sermon-based Bible studies that meet in homes. Groups comprise 12 people or fewer and are formed by leaders who have completed small group leader training. To sign up for a group or get more info, contact Ryan Sanders at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

Information Center
irvingbible.org/connect

5/15 Turkey Tetrazzini, mixed veggies, rolls, salad, dessert. 5/22 Chicken tenders with gravy, mixed veg- gies, salad, rolls, dessert. 5/29 Pizza, salad, dessert. All May meals hosted by the Summer Team. Changes to the menu may be made depending on food cost, availability, and Bob Downeys whim. If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please email bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Newcomer Gathering
Learn more about IBC and meet others like you.
irvingbible.org/connect

Ready to get plugged in?

irvingbible.org/connect

Propel

The Mosaic caf (the mo)

Caf Hours Monday, Tuesday & Thursday: 8 a.m.5 p.m. Wednesday: 8 a.m.7 p.m. Friday: 8 a.m.12 p.m. Saturday: Closed Sunday: 8 a.m.12:30 p.m. & 47 p.m. Phone: (972) 443-3323 New signature drinks! Stop by The Mo and see what weve got brewing.

Connect with others on the journey.

irvingbible.org/smallgroups

Small Groups

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Bursting the Blocks

days, as the strain to release the first grandiose failure of the season has reached Chris-Farley-in-a-tiny-jacket levels, they pushed it back into April. Or March if you count Ashley Judd kidnapping rom-coms. Which you should not.

In the olden days of 2002, the summer movie season began on Memorial Day Weekend with the release of what industry people (or wags, as industry people like to call other industry people since everyone owns Chihuahuas named Tiny) label tent-pole, franchise or Tobey Maguire in Spandex films. These

her ashes from L.A. to her childhood farmhouse in Nebraska, lessons in patience, familial bonds and badger wrestling ensue. Starring Ryan Gosling as the short-tempered-hunk-with-a-heart-of-gold Chaz Montague, Moses Arias as the no-way-is-he-15-urchin-with-a-heart-of-gold Nicky Montague, and Emma Stone as the way-too-good-looking-hitchhiker-with-a-heart-of-gold that charms them both but only Chaz in a mildly PG sort of way. Surprise twist: Ryan Gosling doesnt brood. Day of the Harp. Tiring of mans continuing slide into craven carnality yet not ready to declare the beginning of the End of the Age God the Father sends an angel to earth in the form of Roger Rog Ziel. A virtuoso harpist for the local philharmonic orchestra, Rog assumes his true calling as the Angel of Wrath at night, sweeping the streets clean of graft and greed. In the process he runs afoul of Melvin Memphis Topheles, the local crime boss with connections of the most authentically underworld kind. Starring Chris Pine as the grape-trampling Roger Ziel; Scarlett Johansson as the woman torn between darkness and light, Angelica Buttersworth; and Kevin Spacey as the Kevin Spacey-esque Memphis Topheles. Surprise twist: No Morgan Freeman. And thats just three examples. I havent gotten to rom-coms, dramas, sci-fi or ripped-off TV shows. But I do believe Ive successfully proven that it is possible to create entertaining narratives imbued, infused and otherwise inhabited by a Christian worldview without coming across like a bunch of dadgum, joysucking, gosh-durn eggrolls. Personally, however, I will never take offense at being called a biscuit eater. Not even by Kevin Spacey. Jason Fox would gladly write direct-to-DVD movies starring the dog from Air Bud.
Jason is a writer who used to live in Dallas, but now resides in Omaha because he loves corn and a steady paycheck.

Along with the explosion of explosion-, halfling- and Robert Downey, Jr.-based offerings, recent summers have seen the (moderately) wide release of so-called faith-based films. Although, if you wish to get all philosophical, all films are faith-based in one way or another it just depends on where your faith lies. Can I get a Keanu Reeves whoa over here? Anyway, the faith-based film movement has proven rather successful from a profitability standpoint, if less so from a creative angle. No offense to those involved I understand how difficult producing a movie really is. It just seems like most faith-based films are a bit obvious in their plotting and a touch preachy in their proselytizing. Which makes them no different than standardissue Hollywood films, only with an over-abundance of gosh-durned, mother-lovin sons of biscuit eaters. Apparently, the road to purgatorial cinema is indeed paved with good intentions. But it neednt be so. As the recent miniseries The Bible proved, messages that matter can also be entertaining. Especially when produced by Brits. (Granted, Im only guessing at the awesomeness of The Bible since we havent had cable or satellite TV since 2009. Im also assuming Fabio played Samson because, I mean, come on.) But Bible lovers shouldnt be resigned to CGI Red Sea partings as their only source of creative entertainment. Or even edutainment, which is actually a myth. Nor does Kirk Cameron need to star in every production. Seriously, he must be getting tired by now, and Id for hate him to grow weary in his well doing. So here are some loglines which are even shorter than synopses or treatments for potential biblical blockbusters. Some are genre. Some are four quadrant. And if you know what those last three sentences mean and have some cash, give me a shout one of the following ideas has already been scripted and is ready for you to option. The Roaring. With the fate of his daughter and ultimately the world hanging in the balance, widowed college professor John Michaels awakens his long-suppressed ability to see evil incarnate and soon finds himself the reluctant hero in a race to stop a rogue preachers apocalyptic machinations and discover the truth behind his wifes death. Starring Liam Neeson as the taciturn-yet-deadly-with-a-crucifix Professor John Michaels, Ellen Page as his sassy-yet-vulnerable-yet-sassy daughter Sara Michaels, and Malcolm McDowell as the heretical apocalypse-loving preacher Reverend Parsons. Surprise twist: Rev. Parsons isnt Catholic! Hes Presbyterian! I know! My Other Brothers Keeper. To honor his moms dying wish and avoid a third-strike jail sentence petty thief Chaz Montague becomes the legal guardian of Nicky, the tween-age half-brother he only half-believed ever existed. As the unlikely duo drive their moms 73 Caprice convertible and

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