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BOTTOM

BOTTOM SPACE

BOY

A submissive (often, but not always, male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common among gay men and lesbians. A submissive who enjoys rebelling in a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the spanking scene.

BRAT

CONSENSUAL

An activity done with the consent of adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM play..

COUNTING GAMES

Rituals engaged in during whipping, flogging, spanking , or during other forms of flagellation, in which the submissive (or slave) is required to keep count f the number of strokes delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more. Example: "Thats five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have another, Sir?" A dominant (usally, but not always, male) who has a submissive "boy" and who relates to that submissive in a parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining currency among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well. Training by a Master in how they wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper manner. One who enjoys assuming control. One who decidees what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be sadistic. The general act of one person striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling, flogging and whipping.

DADDY

DISCIPLINE

DOMINANT FLAGELLATION

FLOGGER HUMILIATION

A multi-tailed whip in which the tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible material. Activities which cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies widely from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive.. A term for a male dominant. Often used as a term of address, such as "Master Tom". It is often considered somewhat rude to address a man by this term without being first given permission to do so. An ongoing SM relationship in which the slave is submissive to a male dominant.

MASTER

MASTER-slave RELATIONSHIP MONDAY MORNING REBOUND SYNDROME MUMMIFICATION

Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear, and so forth that sometimes emerge hours or days after a person willingly, and often lustily, takes part in SM play. Immobilizing bondage, usally done by wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or by placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this purpose. A person just beginning to learn about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by the more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER. As loosely defined with the SM Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may be dominant without being sadistic. It's also possible to be sadistic without being dominant. A rather vague term referring generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of domination, submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities into erotic play. A specific word or other signal used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are "really" becoming too intense for the person. Usally used by the submissive or slave, but may also be used by the dominant. "Safeword" itself is sometimes used at SM parties to signal a desire for outside intervention. A person who has an on-going, structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a particular person. Cling someone "my slave" generally indicates a relatively sophisticated, ongoing relationship between the two of you. One who yields control. One who obeys orders adn may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their dominant or Master.xt An unwarranted attitude of superiority taken by a domiant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior and treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of insecurity or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top's Disease often (surprise, surprise) complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. a mirror image of this syndrome is called Bottom's Disease. A "squeeze signal" between players used to non-verbally signal that, "I'm all right." To adore the personage of the dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant's body such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their body, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex on the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.

NOVICE

SADIST

SADOMASOCHISM

SAFEWORD

SLAVE

SUBMISSIVE

TOP'S DISEASE

TWO SQUEEZES WORSHIP

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