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On Being ''Youngered''
THE WORD
"elder"-whether noun or ver.b -is an authentic Quaker term. Elfrida Vipont Foulds in her History of Quakerism writes that elders were originally chosen "not for their gifts in the ministry but for wisdom, discretion, and judgment." Although being "eldered" came to be "synonymous with being criticized adversely by a person who tended to be repressive rather than encouraging and forward-looking," it was assumed nevertheless that such a person spoke with authority on matters of faith and practice. The word has largely disappeared from use, but the attitude remains; and we adults- Friends or nonFriends-are frequently self-appointed elders, busily engaged in eldering-in telling it as we choose to think it is or as we wish it might be. In youth the absence of such highly regarded virtues as wisdom, discretion, and judgment is compensated for by the simple ability to see clearly. To young people life is fresh and new, its outlines bold and definite. Peculiar to our day is not the ability of our young people to see clearly but their unpleasant compulsion to tell us frankly what they see and what they think about it-sometimes quietly, sometimes violently. If, instead of agonizing over the disruptive actions of our youth, we could join forces with these seekers, before it is too late, what an exciting frontier might be established at a growing edge of our society! Perhaps we eldering elders should submit more gracefully to being "youngered." Perhaps we should put on our bifocals and look more intently; it may be that our middle-aged vision is faulty and that the emperor's clothes are at best shamefully threadbare.
the service of God has to be vitalized by the supernatural power of His grace. But grace is granted us in proportion as we dispose ourselves to receive it by the interior activity of the theological virtues: faith, hope, charity. These virtues demand the full and constant exercise of our intelligence and will. But this exercise is frequently obstructed by exterior influences which blind us with passion and draw us away from our supernatural objective. This cannot be avoided, but it must be fought against by a constant discipline of recollection, meditation, prayer, study, mortification of the desires, and at least some measure of solitude and retirement."-The Ascent to Truth.
January 1, 1969