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24. So, how can you teach and transform a person? So, this is called transformation not so much by preaching as much as by setting an example not in a snobbish way. Setting an example very humbly, with compassion, with patience. So, you need patience with people. You cannot afford being intolerant because people will not meet with your expectation, they are not quick enough, they are not efficient enough. You get intolerant because you are quick, you are efficient others are not. You are intolerant, you make a demand - my way or highway you have heard this? My way or highway. Just you want to control others so this is what people think this is the way to live. Thats how a manager should lead, be able to control others. Be able to dominate others. Create fear in them. By threat you get things what you want. My way or highway. As I said in the morning that does not work too long. Because there are many highways that a person can go to. They will be on your highway as long as it is convenient to them, they will find another highway. 25. And what do you get by that? The leader wants to win over these people not dominate people. You dont want a slave with you; you want a friend with you. A slave always needs to be instructed a friend just thinks without instruction. You understand? They talk of three kinds of servants. One is the servant who knows what the master wants and he does things without being instructed. An ideal servant knows what the master w a n t s a n d d o e s w h a t i s n e e d e d w i t h o u t b e i n g i n s t r u c t e d . U tt a m a - t h i s i s t h e b e s t k i n d of servant. The middling one does when instructed, as instructed; a third one does not do even when instructed. 26. What kind of people do you want? You want to keep on instructing people and micromanaging other people then you are always busy instructing and managing other people. You want people who can take their own initiative, who know what you want and can do things then you can do some better things. So, for a manager or a leader wants to create people who are with him and not scared of him, not afraid of him, not looking for an opportunity to escape. When you threaten people and create fear in them then they will deceive you. In front of you they will act in one way and they will tell lies to you because they are afraid of you. On the other hand, if you have won
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