Sharing one or more of the following six cross aspects with another person may

potentially foster inexplicable FEELINGS of fatedness, kinship, and deep connection

between the two people involved.

1. Let Me Lose Myself in You!

(or Calgon, Take Me Away...)
Cross aspects between person A's birth Neptune and person B's birth luminaries and
personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars)...

The conjunction, trine and sextile aspects are (for the most part) a bit "easier" to handle
- with the conjunction being the most intense connection.

Cross aspects involving Neptune and the other person's luminaries and personal planets
can even hold true with sign conjunctions and oppositions that aren't necessarily within
orb aspect - but generally speaking: the closer, the better.

Finding what's sometimes called a "double whammy" cross aspect - such as person A's
Neptune conjunct person B's Venus and person B's Neptune sextile person A's Venus - is
all the better for creating that special connection feeling.

A double whammy helps create mutuality of feeling (with both people feeling the same
way about each other).

2. Haven't We Met Somewhere, Before?

(You're so familiar)
Look for person A's birth planets conjuncting the angles of person B's chart (Ascendant/
Descendant axis or the Midheaven/ I.C. axis). This is especially true of person A's
luminaries and personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars) and especially
true of conjuncting person B's Ascendant/Descendant axis.

Again, if you find a double whammy - such as person A's Ascendant conjunct person B's
Moon and person B's Ascendant conjunct person A's Moon - then all the better!

3. We May Never Pass This Way Again

(Karmic Lovers)
Cross aspects between the Sun, Moon, Venus and/or Angles (Ascendant/ Descendant axis
or the Midheaven/ I.C. axis) in person A's chart and person B's Lunar Nodes.

The conjunction is the most intense (and compulsive) and gives the strongest "feeling"
that the two of you have been together in previous incarnations. The conjunction, trine,
and sextile aspects are (for the most part) a bit "easier" to handle than squares and
oppositions. Again, look for a double whammy.

4. You Are My Destiny

(Destiny's Gate)
Cross aspects between the Sun, Moon, Venus and/or Ascendant in person A's chart and
person B's birth Vertex.
This is especially true with conjunctions. I personally don't concern myself much with
looking for the other aspects. (Sometimes, I break my own rule and look for other
aspects.) Again, look for a double whammy.

5. Hey, Venus!
(Love in the Afternoon)
Cross aspects between the Sun and/or Moon in person A's chart and person B's birth
Venus.

This is especially intense with conjunctions, squares, and oppositions, but trines and
sextiles are awfully comfortable and nice. Again, look for a double whammy.

6. Immortal Lovers
(Ooh baby, ooh baby...)
Now here's one you probably haven't heard of before... I originally got clued into this
connection by astrologer Kira Ivory, although I'm not exactly sure how she uses them.
The Immortal Lovers concerns the minor asteroids named Eros and Psyche.

If this is a relationship between a male and female - then first look for the male's birth
Eros conjuncting the female's birth Psyche. This even appears to work with sign
conjunctions which aren't in orb. In my experience, finding this cross aspect between
lovers is fairly rare... (If this is a relationship between same-sex partners, then first look
for the more masculine partner's birth Eros conjuncting the more feminine partner's birth
Psyche.)

Bringing it down a notch, this also seems to work fairly well with (in orb) aspect
oppositions and squares. Then, to a much lesser degree, it can work with trines and
sextiles. (Although, as a general rule I don't consider trines and sextiles when comparing
Eros and Psyche.)

Then... check to see if anything's up between the female's birth Eros and male's birth
Psyche. Finding a double whammy cross aspect between lovers (involving conjunctions,
oppositions and squares) is rare...

Note: Finding a double whammy between family members seems to be rather common
(which is sort of a scary thought, but consistent with many of the differing theories on
reincarnation).