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Table of Contents
Introduction How to Use This Book Wisely Page 4 Chapter 1 So Youre Thinking About Homeschooling Page 6 Chapter 2 Surviving Your First Year Page 19 Chapter 3 Homeschooling Curriculum and More! Page 29 Chapter 4 Legally Speaking Page 43 Chapter 5 The Early Years: Ages 3 through 8 Page 48 Chapter 6 The Middle years: Ages 9 through 12 Page 55 Chapter 7 The Teen Years: High School Page 61 Conclusion Page 67 Appendix I Curriculum Sources Page 68 Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Introduction
Using This eBook Wisely
see the gleam in your eye. Youve got the inclination, but youre not sure yet if you have either the patience or the education . . . or any other perceived attributes you associate with educating your children at home.
After all, taking charge of your childs educational future is not a decision to be taken lightly. And youre not quite sure what is involved. Perhaps youre feeling this way because your son or daughter just isnt rising to the level of potential you feel thats truly possible. Perhaps your child has a learning disability. He really needs extra attention. In fact, youre sure he could do better with some one-on-one teaching. But are you the one to be providing it? It just may be that your son has Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder that makes it difficult for him to sit still in a conventional classroom for a full day. Hes disrupting the class, but more than that his self-esteem is low because of the teacher is constantly scolding him. Then, perhaps youre just disappointed in the quality of education. You had higher hopes for your child. You know your son or daughter can excel if given a proper, high quality education. Sounds like youve pretty much talked yourself into taking the reins of your childs learning and making it work. But youre still wondering exactly what youre getting yourself into. You worry that you may totally mess up and your daughter learns nothing. Thats where this book comes in! Its here to give you an overview of what homeschooling is all about. Admittedly, several decades ago, it was practically unheard of to homeschool your own children. Today, more children are taken out of the rigors and regimentation of both public and private schools and placed in a more relaxed environment of the home classroom. Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Chapter 1
So Youre Thinking about Homeschooling
What is homeschooling? Why do you want to homeschool? How to know if its right for you? Truths and myths of homeschooling
ouve thought about it. Youve discussed it with your close friends. Youve mentioned it to your family. Youve even asked your children what they think about the idea. No doubt, your suggestion has received mixed reviews. Youre planning to do what? Theres no way youre qualified to do that! Good for you! Youre doing the right thing! I wish I would have done that with my children. What are you contemplating? Homeschooling. Its a popular trend in this country, fueled by such newscasts that the National Spelling Bee Champion for 2007, and the National Geography Bee Champion for 2003 were homeschooled. Then there was that fantasy novel. Oh, you know the one. It hit the best sellers list before being turned into a movie Eragon. It was written by a 15year-old homeschooled student. Its enough to make you investigate the reason why an estimated 1.7 million to upwards of 2 million and more -- children are kept home at the start of every school year. Instead of being sent away on that big, yellow bus, they run to the family bookshelves and pull out the books. What homeschooling is and isnt! The official definition homeschooling is simple and straightforward. Its simply providing your childs education at home instead of in a public or privately run school. It usually implies that the parents actually take control of their own childrens education, from performing the actual teaching duties to selecting, planning and carrying out a Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Why homeschool?
If youre interested in homeschooling, youve probably already rattled off the answer to the question posed above. Each family has its own reasons for keeping their children out of school and educating them themselves. My reasons were quality and convenience. As I stated earlier, not putting my daughter in a traditional school allowed our family to travel together as my husbands job dictated. This provided us with a wonderful sense of family.
Parent Survey
In 1999, the NHES surveyed parents to discover their reasons for home schooling. The question posed to these home educators was simple, if not open ended: Why do you homeschool? Obviously, a long list of answers resulted. But consistently three reasons appeared. Nearly half of the respondents cited the opinion that parents could provide their children with a better education than the local school system. More than one third 38 percent said that they keep their children home for a more fully developed religious education and more than one-quarter 26 percent said that the specific learning environment in their local school system was poor.
Chapter 2
Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Chapter 2
Surviving
Facing Fears Troubleshooting Problems Socialization Issues Finding Support Balancing Home and School Management A Typical Homeschool Schedule
certainly hope I havent painted a picture of homeschooling as a process that eliminates all of your familys problems, because it doesnt. Homeschooling takes time effort and what may seem like endless energy on your part.
While you may say that you love your flexible schedule, you may find you have to work hard at ensuring that your children do have some type of schedule. Many parents find that its far too easy to get involved in the extra-curriculum activities of homeschooling only to discover that . . . oops! . . . weve kind of neglected the academics this month. Dont be embarrassed if this happens to you. Making a flexible schedule work for you is part of the first year (or more!) of homeschooling. It takes time, trust me! But you can minimize some of these problems. Youre not the first family to homeschool. So you can learn from what other families did that worked and what they did that well . . . didnt work out so well! One of the first items youll have to deal with is an effective internal organization. While you may consider yourself the queen of organization, youre about to discover that organizing your homeschooling is quite the challenge. Searching for that math textbook at 9:30 a.m. is not effective teaching. Despite your best attempts, this will happen. Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Homeschooled children are taking part in the daily routines of their communities. They are certainly not isolated; in fact, they associate with and feel close to all sorts of people.
Medlin though goes several steps beyond just socialization, commenting that homeschooled students have better leadership skills than other children as well. And they appear to be functioning effectively as members of adult society. Ask any homeschool family about socialization and youre likely to get an earful! And much of that will be how the public schools are producing students who are far too compliant. This can be a dangerous habit to adopt, for it can follow a child throughout life. Michael Brady conducted research about this issue and published his findings in an article called Social Development in Traditionally Schooled and Homeschooled Children: Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Find a mentor
In fact, if you can find a parent who is an experienced home educator, you should ask this person to be your mentor. She (Yes, its typically the moms who home educate their children!) can help guide you through at the least the first year. In this way youll have a person to go to for routine questions. Youll also have a shoulder to cry on when you believe the situation is getting unbearable. (And trust me at times even with the best of children, itll feel like it!) Not only that you can actually see and feel the homeschool process in progress. Its easy to explain that certain paperwork needs to be filled out to stay legal with the state. Its a whole different story when youre faced with these forms. With a mentor, shes only a phone call or an email away. She can help explain all the forms step by step. When youre choosing a mentor, dont base your selection merely on the fact that the individual is already your friend. You may decide you want person with whom you have no connections to guide you through your first year. By doing this, you know that your friendship wont get in the way of the mentoring relationship and the mentoring relationship wont destroy the friendship! When selecting a mentor, you want a parent who has already been successful in the process. This would just go without saying that this person would have more experience teaching her children than you have.
Chapter 3
Homeschooling Curriculum And More!
The Pre-Designed Curriculum Creating Your Own Curriculum The whole world is your classroom Finding learning resources Teaching life skills Building on your childs natural gifts Instilling a lifelong love of learning
o youre still convinced homeschooling is the route for your family? Great! But now youre faced with the logistics of actual teaching. Just where do you find your curriculum? You dont exactly have a magic homeschool wand to make this material appear. Literally thousands of homeschool educators buy pre-packaged curriculum every year to use either as their sole source of instruction or as a part of a originally designed course of study for their children. Obtaining these curriculums is as easy as logging into your favourite web site. Youll discover that many universities and publishing houses now offer curriculum especially designed for your needs. The advantages of buying your curriculum ready made are great. It saves you the time and energy of having to create daily, weekly and monthly compilation of resources.
Sonlight Curriculum, Ltd. (www.sonlight.com) This curriculum is not only literature based, but Christian oriented as well. Sonlight is unique among curriculum providers because it offers an eight-week money-back guarantee with its materials. If youre not satisfied you can return the curriculum within the first two months of purchase and receive a full refund. The Sonlight basic package costs abut $600, but many families find they like this material and purchase additional resources as well. You can easily contact these suppliers simply by going to their web site and requesting a catalog. Once you get on their mailing lists, theyll continue to send you catalogs every year. In fact, through out the school year, youll also receive periodic updates as well. For a more comprehensive listing of curriculum suppliers, read the book The Big Book of Home Schooling (Vol. 1) by Mary Pride. You can either purchase it online, through your local bookstore, or borrow it from your library.
Wait! Are you headed out the door right now to buy them? Do you know where youre going? Here, before you rush out with your charge card in hand, let me give you some ideas about the best place to look for additional resources to supplement or even create curriculums.
Homeschooling.com
Thats right! A simple web site. Not only does it have plenty of resources, you may be eligible to receive free resources. Yes, I said free. Creators of products are always looking for families to try their products. They gladly ship you the product, if your child writes the review of it. And yes, again, I said your child. So not only does your child receives a resource (and your pocketbook thanks you!) but then she gains the experience in writing. Overall, homeschooling.com is a great site it could indeed be the home educators best friend. Check it out.
Teachable moments
Not only did we find what homeschoolers love to call teachable moments along our travels, but this method of learning has instilled in her a life long love of learning. To this day, if theres a question she cant answer, she knows where to turn to get the proper answer. More than that, implicit in this statement is that she asks questions, which is the only way any individual learns regardless of his age! You dont have to be traveling fools to enjoy the benefits of what the entire world has to offer. Youll soon discover as you homeschool, that field trips are one of the best ways to facilitate and encourage learning. Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
Chapter 4
Legally Speaking
here you sit at the kitchen table, waiting for your children to wake up for their first day of homeschooling. You look at the clock wondering why theyre not awake yet. Could it have anything to do with the fact that its only 5 a.m.? What, you havent slept all night? Anxious? Excited? A little fearful, perhaps? Great! Its good to be all of those things and more. But, now I need to ask you one question. Did you notify your school district? What do you mean you didnt know?! Unless you want your children to be considered truant from school, you should probably use these extra couple of hours to brush up on the local and state laws in your area!
Chapter 5
The Early Years: Ages 3 through 8
The fun, active years Tips for homeschooling preschooler through third graders Potential problems and how to overcome them Ideas and activities for a great school year
xcuse me, but dont you think that physics book just might be a bit beyond your second graders grasp of science? Oh, I see. You consulted it in preparing for teaching your son about the solar system.
While thats admirable of you, I think perhaps you over prepared for your first day of class. Your second grader is highly unlikely to ask a question thats going to require an understanding of physics at the college level! Your preschooler or kindergartener ability to learn will needless to say fall somewhere between astrophysics and the first inklings of learning shapes, numbers and the alphabet. Dont be intimidated by the fact that if youve chosen to homeschool even before your child steps foot in a real school. In fact, you should be rejoicing. Theres nothing more rewarding than teaching your very young the fundamentals of learning. Naturally your pre-schooler isnt going to start off knowing the alphabet or even his letters. Youll have to guide him through all of this. In many ways, its an activity as parents we all do without even giving much thought to. It seems to be instinctive to talk to youngsters and ask them what color is this blanket, how many toy cars are lined up in a row or what letters did you draw? Between the ages of 3 and 4 most preschool student are able to do the following activities: Listen to storybooks, then talk about them afterwards Realize that writing carries some message with it. Try to both read and write Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
How to start
You dont need a lot of store-bought educational stuff in order to teach your children effectively at this age. Some of the best learning, in fat, takes place with some of the simplest tools. Lets talk for a moment about counting. Children learn to count not only by writing numbers, but by counting objects. Your preschooler can count blocks, socks as you do laundry or . . . as a treat M&M candies. These colourful candies in fact can help not only your childs counting skills, but he can separate the candy into colors, then count the different colors. To help your child learn his shapes, you can simply cut out cardboard squares, triangles and circles. Cut out at least five of each of these shapes in order to play a great learning game. These cardboard shapes should be no smaller than three inches. Have him place all the shapes of one kind into a pile. He should be able eventually to put all the squares together and to call them squares and to put all the triangles together as well.
Chapter 6
The Middle Years: Ages 9-12
The imaginative, inquisitive years: Tips for homeschooling children of this age Potential problems and how to overcome them Ideas and activities for a great school year
Ah, so you think youre a pro at homeschooling now, because youve breezed through the lower elementary school years with ease. Or perhaps youre new to the activity. Your children spent the first several years of learning in a public or private school. And now youre ready for the middle years. Those grades 4 th through 8th in which a child enters a child but emerges . . . well, lets just say she emerges. These are the developing years for children. They may start out sweet and compliant, but they may end up a bit defensive. You may find homeschooling this age group to be more challenging, not only in the subject matter, but also in the manner in which the children approach the idea of school. The older a child gets, the more important his peer group becomes. Dont be surprised if by the eighth grade youre not the hero or the role model in your childs life anymore. And dont be surprised if the neighbourhood children and other homeschool children become a big part of your childrens lives. Because they will! This, though, is not necessarily a bad thing. And in many ways this is a good thing! It means theyre becoming independent people and thinking for themselves. And in the long run thats the goal of homeschool. In fact, by the time your child emerges from these years, hell be pretty confident of his own social and academic skills. Youll discover that hes able to work on his own more, at a pace that he sets for himself. Thats not to say that he wont need some supervision. Many children love to test the bounds of their parents patients. If they could get away with not studying they would. It may be that youll have to sit your children down at the kitchen table to make Homeschooling Your Child From Preschool to Graduation
If younger children are going to aid in the creation of the project, then youll want to keep the mouth of the jar as wide as possible. These are the easiest containers to place plants in. Youll want to buy miniature plants. You can find these in nurseries and in some plant departments in larger grocery stores. Choose plants that will thrive in similar environments. Now that youve chosen both your container and plants, now youre ready to get down to the really fun part actually constructing the environment. Before you even begin, gather the list of components youll need: Wire hanger Pieces of wire Sponge Horticultural charcoal (Dont worry, every nursery carries this!) Potting soil Gravel Funnel A long-spoon to use as a shovel A tamper (this can be a simple as a dowel with a cork on the end) A placer (this can be a wire puller from the hardware store) Longhandled tweezers Small, soft-bristled brush Cotton swabs A sprayer bottle A kitchen baster Long scissors
Youre going to mix the soil for your terrarium using even amounts of sand, topsoil and peat moss or leaf mold. Of course, the type of soil you ultimately put in her new horticultural environment depends in great part on the plants you bought. Desert, tropical or forest plants all require different soils in order to thrive. If you want to make sure youve got the right type of soil, consult a book from the library on building terrariums. Its landscaping time! Plant all the plants according to size from large to small. Dont hesitate to arrange and rearrange them. If you want to move them around its simple
Potential problems
Occasionally, youll discover that you may need to air out your self-contained environment. This may be true, even if you have chosen plants that love humidity. Dont worry, theres some very telling signs of when this should be done, especially if left untouched to long. Fungus, mold or mildew growing in the container is one of those obvious signals. Simply open the container and let some air in. Yes, its that simple. Dont worry. The longer you have the terrarium, the more experienced you and especially your children will become in caring for the plants. Your plants, just like any others, will require a certain amount of light. You can get a general idea of the amount of light when you purchase the plants. They usually come with a good description of the type of light their species like, as well as watering instructions. Beyond that, youll need to experiment. It may be the light in the dining room is too strong, the light in the kitchen too weak. If the terrarium doesnt seem to thrive in one location, dont hesitate to place it in another, observe how it grows and change it again if you must. After all, thats all part of the scientific process, now isnt it?
Chapter 7
The Teen Years: High School
The searching for truth and self years Tips for homeschooling youth of this age Potential problems and how to overcome them Ideas and activities for a great school year
h, dont tell me. Youre going to wimp out on me! Sure, homeschooling when your kids were in elementary school was amazing. The middle school years are sometimes a challenge, but always rewarding.
But trying to teach a child whos going through puberty... most parents regard the thought as they would going up into space or to making a nuclear warhead in their garage. Physically possible, but with astronomical odds. The fact is, your teen is going to be doing a lot of self-discovery during these years, and they do need your support and love. Homeschooling through this time isnt going to be a walk in the park, but its not impossible.
Tutoring as an option
Hiring a tutor is something that many parents enjoy doing. It gives them at least an hour of free time in the middle of a day, and they know that their child is getting a good education. Call the local college and ask for a recommendation for a tutor. Make sure its someone who majored in what your child needs to know, and has plenty of experience. Most of the time, you can get an advanced level college student whos just looking for a way to pay a few extra bills. Internet schooling is something that some parents dont like, but others love. Its available in most states, and easy to use the school provides a computer, curriculum, and teachers.
Homework Tips
Homework can be a constant battle with you and your children. Really, it can be truly miserable for both sides. By this time, your child should have a favorite place to do their homework. A bed, a desk, a floor, a table somewhere that they really enjoy doing it, and its easy to work with. Now all you need to do is to stop nagging. Just, stop nagging. Really! Your kids are going to find different ways to do their homework. Sometimes they can talk on the phone and do their homework, and others can watch television and complete an award winning paper. Give them space to do their homework their way, and youre going to end up with good work and a happy child. Now, saying that, your child should always have a desk on hand if they choose to use it. A $20 desk from the local Goodwill or thrift store works fine, but its important to have a structured environment to work in. Make sure that you facilitate your teens homework needs, and have everything they need. Files to file away good papers, labels, pencils, plenty of notebook paper and enough light to see by (even though many times they wont use this light!). The best way to know what your teen needs for homework and school needs is to take them to an office supply store and ask them exactly what they need. Highlighters, pens, paper its what theyre going to use, after all, to secure their future. You should also have a dictionary, an atlas, and a thesaurus so that your child always has what they need to complete an assignment. A computer is also almost essential for your child. While pricey, you can purchase a desktop for just a little over $300, and its going to introduce your child to a world of learning tools.
Conclusion
ow! Look at you! Well, that is a rather unique piece of apparel youre wearing there. Isnt that a suit of armor? And exactly why are you wearing it now? I see, you slipped it on as a Medieval demonstration and now you cant take it off. At least thats what youre telling people. In reality, youre wearing it to protect you from the slings and arrows of the angry homeschooled mob following you about all day long? Excuse me? But I only see three children. And they all look pretty content doing their schoolwork. Yes! I guess I do see how effective the suit of armor is! Good job! If this book taught you anything, its that you actually dont need a suit of armor in order to homeschool. In fact, you can be an effective home educator regardless of the level of your education . . . how many children you have . . . and how old your children are. Homeschooling is a wonderful opportunity to help ensure a good education for your children. Youll discover that they learn more than they ever did in public schools. And they dont have to spend as much time in that structured environment. But the added bonus that youre going to discover that youre forming bonds with your children that you never knew could exist. What you and your children experience as you make the journey through homeschooling will be some of the best years of your life. Your children will blossom. And as a family youll have more freedom to spend time as you please! Youve not only discovered the hidden talents of your children, youve discovered that you have talents and creativity as well. Youll discover that even if you need to occasionally don that suit of armor to protect you from those flying pens and hurling notebooks . . . you know that at the end of the school year your children have learned some of the biggest lessons in life . . . among them that you care enough for them to dedicate your time to their education.
Appendix II
Academic Competitions
The following competitions all welcome homeschool students. For more information on any of them, simply click on the underlined words. Achievement Awards in Writing This is a fairly limited writing competition; sponsored by The National Council of Teachers of English, its only for high school juniors. Promising Young Writers Program --writing competition only for those students in the eighth grade. Geography Bee- This competitions main purpose is to encourage teachers to include the instruction of geography in their classrooms. Every year thousand of schools and home school students participate in the event, sponsored in large part by The National Geographic Society. Students from grades four through eight are eligible. Intel Science Talent Search Science competition, formerly known as the Westinghouse Science Talent Search International Mathematical Olympiad--World Championship Mathematics Competition for High School students held in a different locale worldwide every year. The Knowledge Master Open- This may sound like the golfing event of the academic world, its nonetheless a unique test of skill and knowledge. Secondary school students are given 200 curriculum-based questions on a disk, elementary school students 100. As a team, they must answer these questions using a computer. MathCounts - A national math coaching and math competition program open to students in the seventh and eighth grades. Math League Press-Specializing in math contests, books and computer software, The Math Leagues aim is to introduce math students to challenging math materials. The goal is to stimulate interest in mathematics while building the confidence of math students from fourth grade through high school.
Appendix III
Miscellaneous Resources
Homeschooling as a Way of Life (article) A personal homeschooling philosophy Free Online Homeschoolers course Free online schoolroom for the use of home educators. Any homeschooling parent may be added as a teacher and create resources and activities on this site. Online classes for Homeschoolers Courses offered online by Excellence in Education and Abacus Educational Services Degreewire This may be the only college homeschool site currently on the web. Explore colleges in your area and online. Take college classes while you are homeschooling if youd like or homeschool all the way through to a degree. Recommended Children's Books Everything you could possibly want in childrens books . . . reviews, excerpts, downloads, bookstore links and more! Most of these resources are free for the download. These works, by the way, are specifically for children and demonstrate the English language at its best. Pedagogic Perfidy (article) A homeschooler's struggle with a perfidious pedant Reviews at Wistfulvistas See what other homeschoolers have to say about a wide variety of books, films, and food. Critical Thinking and Mind Control (article) A critique of reflexive compliance. Excellence in Education The definitive homeschooling resource in Monrovia California Excellence in Education Online Courses Courses offered online
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