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Is your love life ruled by the scale? If your body image is poor, absolutely, say these three women. WH convinced them tostrip down and share their stories about how they learnt to love themselves again
By Zodwa Kumalo-Valentine
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You know how it is: you put on a few kilos and suddenly youd rather curl up on the couch with aDVD than hook up for some toecurling pleasure. And its true, extra kilos can be a passion killer, inmore ways than one.
A recent US study showed that the sex drive of significantly overweight women may actually be affected by poor blood circulation. This is because the constriction of the blood vessels leading to the clitoris impacts blood flow in the same way as it would to the heart, or, in a mans case, the penis, which could cause erectile dysfunction. And when the blood flow is restricted, your body is less responsive, which can lead to a drop in libido. More bad news for the very overweight is that the more body fat you have, the higher your levels of sex hormone-binding globulin (SHBG), a natural chemical that binds to testosterone. And this affects you how? Well, doctors have theorised that the more testosterone thats bound to SHBG, the less there is available to stimulate desire. Cue more libido plunging. However, neither of these two scenarios is as pervasive as the role body image plays in stimulating desire and allowing you to enjoy a healthy sex life. According to recent studies published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, body confidence and appearance-based distracting thoughts during sexual activity play a significant role in sexual satisfaction. And a survey published in the International Journal of Eating Disorders showed that for sexually active women,
The day I did my first lingerie shoot was a turning point. I saw this beautiful, voluptuous,sexy woman
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I realised then that how I feel about my body is more important than how others see me. Im at my happy weight now and no man will ever convince me to fatten up or trim down. I love me, my slender frame and my juicy derrire just the way it is.
we asked the Mens Health* team what they really think about womens bodies
the side and underside of a breast if she has alarger pair, likeaC-cup. Its soft, smoothandcushioned. a woman is at her sexiestwhen shes relaxed enough to eat what she wants so she has that little bit ofextrapuppy fat, before the pointwhere she starts to get cottage cheese thighs. skinny is not sexy slimandtonedis. my girlfriends bum could be a little fuller itsa bit on the flat side. I dont get the hype about being skinny. Iprefer a bit of weight, butrather a big girl thanafat girl. Ima stickler for proportion, soIfindapear shapeprettysexy. every woman is different. I might find onewomans collarbones attractive and in another its her delicate ankles. Boobs, bum, stomach, legs, face, hair, vagina itsall good, but depending on the girl and what shes wearing, different parts speak to me atdifferent times. theres something about a womans hip bone area I guess itsaprimalinstinct because Icant fullydescribe why I like it. *We made it anonymous so they could be brutally honestwithout incurring our wrath!
Guys Weigh In
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