"The only way to be happy is to make others happy" !

" A family is a place where minds come in contact with one another. If these minds love one another, the ho me will be as beautiful as a flower garden. But if these minds get out of harmon y with one another it is like a storm that plays havoc with the with the garden. " - Buddha The one who has bit of awareness that... -Intimacy and lasting affec tion is what makes a marriage, not the ceremony. -Familiarity breeds contempt. Humans easily get bored. -Ego is a barrier. Egolessness is the way. Ego will fee d you, you will eat, but you will not live !! -A successful marriage requires fa lling in love many times, always with the same person! -Life is not bed of roses ...but it is like..."A Flower upon the thorns" in a desert storm." "True love it is like holding water in your hand, squeeze it or hold it too lose, it's gone !!" - Swami Vivekananda The one with an uncorrupt soul (ie. Still had not lost a childhood heart) (I can understand the every essence of the above quotes..becau se of an accident. Now it is null and void ! (some may call it nightmare, bad dr eam or what ever:-) Victims are not always supposed to be women. I know ..Expect ations will lead to frustrations...OK.. forget all the dream parts :-) MOST OF A LL she should have the extremely rare quality called "COMMON SENSE".(funny..it i s not so common :-) Having said all this and...since i can realise the pain of l oneliness... (I hv reached a higher level in meditation...but all I hear is the sound of a broken heart:-) I ASSURE YOU... If YOU ARE a non egoistic and COMPASS IONATE being, with reasonable level of awareness (abt living in the present/abt the uncertainities and imperfections of life), I ASSURE... YOU will be cherished and pampered like an angel. You will be my greatest joy / purpose of my life! I t will be great if you r into any sports, arts, fitness. (or atleast hav some in terest to learn!) I would like to have smart, healthy and beautiful kids :-) (It is an undisputable fact that in...Life/Poker : We cannot control the out comes, but can always control our decisions!) So I am... Looking for smart, enthusiast ic, beautiful and caring girl; a true friend for life !

Basically I'm into fitness, (Fitness Director / Martial Arts and Yoga Instructor / Yoga Therapist), starting a Health and Fitness club soon. God has gifted me w ith a wonderful family. My dad is a very honest Judge (Retired). Now he is a Adv ocate in Chennai High Court. I'm a junior counsel with him. My mother is also a retired Section Officer there. Had one sister married and settled in US. There a re a few things about me that I will mention here. I have passion for many thing s. List is end less ( ranging frm Boxing to Chess) And i'm almost honest (99%). One percent Standard Deviation! :-) I strongly believe and follow the "Golden Ru le" - "Treat others as you like to be treated". (Yeah..it is some times.. as "th ey" like to be treated or whatever they deserve). I always used to call a spade a spade! I finished my MCA and Law, But I dont believe in Education system - bec ause the system is a 'way of ever expanding ego' which mindlessly trains rats fo r rat race. I hate the Best-vs-Rest attitude world, because victory is just a co mparative term. So all egoistic psuedo-intellectuals and zombies u can avoid me like a plague. "Law of Thermo Dynamics" states - "All Things tends to fall apart ". This law applies to every single thing in this universe, (both materialistic and non-materialistic things) from political, judicial system to human relations hips. So "love and relationships" has to be protected from both sides mutually ! Because there is only a thin line between love and hate. A glass jar once broke n is always broken ! Scars remain forever. Art in any form is a reflection of li fe. It is a 'way of life' which atleast creates some awareness about the TRUTH o r atleast made one to THINK. I like a calm beautiful village more than this loud concrete jungles with lot of fake people with plastic smiles. I believe more in conscience than religion. I believe in God, but always question him, (though he

is omnipotent and omnipresent) why this world is full of flaws with crime, war and poverty. And always like to know whats his idea behind creating every human as a cracked pot :-) (Genesis 6:6 - And it repented the LORD that he had made ma n on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.)