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Hypnotique Circle (Madras)

cordially invites all its members and guests for the monthly meeting on Sunday, the 12th August 2012 at Hotel Palmgrove, Kodambakkam High Road, Chennai 34. Investment Rs. 150/2.29 pm : 2.35 pm : 2.45 pm : Welcome Address Self In(tro)duction by Members and Guests Significant Phenomena in Hypnosis - Demo by Dr Shamanna Ramaswamy, Anatomist, HypnoTherapist and Past President, Hypnotique Circle Tea Memory Training - Mr.R.K.Thamizh Arasan Human Relations in Offices & Factories - Mr.Muthiah Ramanathan Mass Relaxation

HYPNOTIQUE
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HYPNOTIQUE CIRCLE CREATES YET ANOTHER RECORD ! We are very happy to place on Record, that we have created a new Record of sorts. We have had 152 knowledge hungry seekers participating in our regular monthly meeting on Sunday, 8th July 2012 at Hotel Palmgrove, Vaishali Hall was bursting at the seams with veterans and new comers jostling for space. The jam-packed hall was over-flowing with positive people and pulsating with positive energy. Dr C N Ramgopal presided over the meeting. Dr Kabilan, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Guest Speaker, made a Splendid presentation on Quantum Physics and the Power of Thought. Ms. Ananthi Karthic, Psychological Counsellor, gave a captivating talk on Love Languages. Both the interactive presentations were well received by our Members and Guests. Our Senior Member and Past President, Mr. K Aravamootham presented the Mass Relaxation with timely suggestions and affirmations befitting the occasion and brought the curtains

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THE JOY OF SHARING

When we share laughter, Theres twice the fun; When we share success, Weve surpassed what weve done. When we share problems, Theres half the pain; When we share tears, A rainbow follows rain. When we share dreams, They become more real; When we share secrets, Its our hearts we reveal. If we share a smile, Thats when our love shows; If we share a hug, Thats when our love grows. If we share with someone On whom we depend, That person is always Family or friend. And what draws us closer And makes us all care, Is not what we have, But the things we share

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YOU CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY

(Gist of talk delivered by Dr M Kabilan during our July monthly meeting)

Anyone who is not shocked by quantum physics has not understood it - Niels Bohr (Nobel Laureate, Developer of Quantum Physics) 1. Atom - an introduction : Atoms are the building blocks of the universe. Everything from table,chair, cloths, vehicles, to human body all are made up of atoms. Then how do we see a wood as a wood and gold as a gold? The no.of electrons & protons inside the atom makes all the difference. For example, if an atom has only 1 proton and 1 electron it becomes hydrogen. If it has 79 electrons & protons it becomes gold. And surprisingly, an atom is 99.99999999% empty space. 2. A brief intro about God particle as mentioned in the media 3. Observers effect experiment : This experiment proves that the expectation of the observer determines the outcome of the experiment. Scientists who expected to see particles in photon

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LIFE S OPPORTUNITIES
A young man wished to marry the farmers beautiful daughter. He went to the farmer to ask his permission. The farmer looked him over and said, Son, go stand out in that field. Im going to release three bulls, one at a time. If you can catch the tail of any one of the three bulls, you can marry my daughter. The young man stood in the pasture awaiting the first bull. The barn door opened and out ran the biggest, meanest-looking bull he had ever seen. He decided that one of the next bulls had to be a better choice than this one, so he ran over to the side and let the bull pass through the pasture out the back gate. The barn door opened again. Unbelievable. He had never seen anything so big and fierce in his life. It stood pawing the ground, grunting, slinging slobber as it eyed him. Whatever the next bull was like, it had to be a better choice than this one. He ran to the fence and let the bull pass through the pasture, out the back gate. The door opened a third time. A smile came across his face. This was the weakest, scrawniest little bull he had ever seen. This one was his bull. As the bull came running by, he positioned himself just right and jumped at just the exact moment. He grabbed........but the bull had no tail. MORAL Life has full of opportunities. If you let go the first ones, with the hope of getting something better, you are loser by not grabbing the initial ones.

saw only particles and scientists who expected to see waves saw only waves. If you expect to see success & happiness in your life, you will see/get only that. And if you expect only failure and sadness you will see/get only that (Law of attraction). 4. Double slit experiment : An electron when it is not oberved it behaves like a waves and when it is observed it behaves like particles. It is called as collapse of the wave function. Quantum physicists says that it does not have a pre-existing state, we create a state for that the moment we observe it. This experiment shows that we create reality just by observing it. 5. There is no matter as such. All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force. We must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligent mind. This mind is the Matrix of all matter.-Max Planck (Father of Quantum Physics) 6. Reality is an illusion...albeit, a persistent one-Albert Einstein 7. What is Real? How do you define Real? If youre talking about what you can feel, what you can smell, what you can taste and see, then Real is simply electrical signals interpreted by your brain. -from the movie Matrix 8. Quantum entanglement / Non-locality: Another strange mystery of quantum physics is Quantum entanglement. If you take two quantum particles that were twins and separate them billions of miles apart and then do something to one particle here, the other particle will immediately react exactly the same way. Albert Enstein called this as spooky action at a distance Numerous experiments proved that this is 100% true and physicists says that the

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particles are communicating through space. And this proves the existence of telepathy. 9. Teleportation : Teleportation is the transportation of an object or person from one place to another instantly, like appearing in one place and reappearing in another place. Scientists were successfully able to teleport sub-atomic particles dozens of times even across the sea. In the future human teleportation is also possible. Scientists are doing research on that. You know how human teleportation will take place? The particles of your body will be split at the starting point and created afresh in the destination point. In a way, you are destroyed in one place and re-created in another place. It is only the information in the particles/cells which makes you as you. So the information alone will be teleported. 10. Quantum physics says that objects are not determined things as Newton thought. Instead, objects are quantum possibilities for consciousness to choose from - Dr.Amit Goswami (Quantum Physicist) 11. Consciousness is the creative element in the Universe. Without it, nothing would appear - Dr.Fred Alan Wolf (Quantum Physicist) 12. Edgar Mitchell and his psychic experiments: Edgar Mitchell NASA Astronaut, sixth person to walk on the Moon, Pilot of Apollo 14 Conducted ESP experiments from Moon in 1971 13. After you learn Quantum Physics, you will never really be the same again - Steven Weinberg (Nobel laureate in Physics)

many. Life is not always the same. There are ups and downs equally as the days and night. There is no such thing as failure; it is only the feed back that makes the huge difference. Do not be afraid of the failures. Try out new things. If you try something and did not succeed, that does not mean that you are incapable, it means that you learnt a new thing. If your efforts work then thats superb. Do not let that obstacles stop you and restrict your path to success. There is no one who does not suffer from any kind of trouble or hardships. The reason behind many successful persons is the tragedy, the humiliation and the defeats that they have undergone in their lives. They are now successful because they have suffered a lot. They can admire and value the things in their lives. What made them successful is their ability, capability and confidence to go on in life. They bounced back from defeats and kept going. Thats why they are outstanding... Develop the attitude to not to be defeated by the problems. Makeup your mind not to stop by the problems, rather develop the attitude that the more the obstacles, the more you will try to approach your goals. Resolve to take more powerful action every time you fail. Adopt this mindset and see your personality and outlook changes. So, make the Resiliency your perfect friend. It is a saying that, it is never too late to be good. Make changes in your behavior and see yourself standing at the peak of success.

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The failures are the only thing that makes us understand the difference between success and defeat 2. Learn from your failures: Try to cultivate positive attitude towards the things in your life. When you fail does not take that failure as a defeat which you can never overcome, in fact take that as an experience from which you got to know something new. Every failure teaches you something which proves beneficial for you to succeed in future. From every failure try out to learn something that can help you to never fail. 3. Learn to overcome failure or hardships: It is very important for a person to understand the root cause for their failures. You should try to find out the factors that led to failure or trouble and try to overcome failures. You should think and take the examples out of your failures rather than taking failures as the disheartening event. 4. Do not let the failures destroy you: Never take the things in life for granted. Success and failures are the facets of life without which the human life will be not be complete in its fuller sense. The failures make the success more special. Do not become pessimist if you face any problem. Learn to destroy the causes that failed you in your attempt rather than letting the problem or failure destroy you. 5. Learn to be resilient: There are failures in each and every bodys life. They are the part and parcel of human life. The main thing is the fact and the human caliber to overcome the failure and get back to the previous position is not within the reach of

FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES BY GARY CHAPMAN

(Gist of Talk presented by Ms Ananthi Karthic, Psychological ounsellor, during the July monthly meeting).

After many years of counseling couples Dr. Chapman noticed a pattern: everyone he had ever counseled had a Love Language, a primary way of expressing and interpreting love. He also discovered that, for whatever reason, people are usually drawn to those who speak a different love language than their own. He finds 5 common love languages. 1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION Words of Affirmation- Words can be Kind, Encouraging and Humble. Words can be simple expressions. Praising the person and encouraging the act of the person helps people bond together. If words of affirmation is your spouses love language then in using those kinds of words to him or her, you are strengthening affirming your love. 2. QUALITY TIME Togetherness has to do with focus, giving a family member your undivided attention. It means that we couples are doing something together and that we are giving their full attention to the other person. Maintain eye contact when the other person is talking. Dont listen to the person and do something else at the same time. Listen for feelings. Observe your body language. Refuse to interrupt. Discover new things about your familys culture and how to celebrate. Identify the common interest of your partner. These can include anything in which you or a family member has an interest. The emphasis is not on what you are doing

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but on why you are doing it. The purpose is to experience something together, to walk away from it feeling, This person cares for me. S/he was willing to do something with me that I enjoy, and did it with a positive attitude. The essential ingredients in a quality activity are: at least one of you wants to do it, the other is willing to do it, both of you know why you are doing it. Quality activities involve careful planning. 3. RECEIVING GIFTS Dont mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. The gift can be purchased, made or creative or found. If you or your mate answer yes to the question Do you feel most loved when someone brings you gifts or some tangible item, no matter how small or inexpensive?, You or your mate speak in the primary love language of receiving gifts. A person whose love language is receiving gifts generally does not need the gifts to be large or expensive; she or he just needs to receive gifts on a regular basis as a show of your love. Often if you keep your ears open as you spend time with your mate, you will hear what he or she wants. When you hear these comments, make a mental note or write it down Here are some ideas for communicating with a mate whose primary love language is gifts: Pick up a favorite candy on the way from work Buy a book s/he is been interested in reading Send an e card Dedicate a song to your mate on the radio station she or he listens to Finally you can Gift your Self to your spouse 4. ACTS OF SERVICES If this is your spouses primary love language, nothing speaks as loudly as these acts of service. You may give him or her

HOW TO GAIN RESILIENCY IN JUST 5 STEPS?

What actually does the term resiliency mean? Very few are aware of this term in its true sense. Ever person undergoes hardships in any task and endeavor, he under takes. The obstacles are the part and parcel of life. They are the important facets of life and success. They make our attempt towards success more powerful. If there would not have been any obstacles, the taste of victory would certainly not have been so wonderful and enthusiastic. How can you say that you enjoy the victory? How do you know that victory/success is wonderful? It is the hardships that make the victory worth. They give you the feeling of being successful. The resilient power is the power that gives you the strength so that you can bounce back from any trouble. There is something that separates the people who are constantly successful and the failing person. That is Resiliency. Resiliency is the persons ability to persist despite the obstacles and bounce back from the temporary defeats. The Five secrets to Resiliency are: 1. Accept failure as a challenge : The failures are said to be the stepping stone towards success. They make the person curious to attain success. Failure derives you to be more successful. You can make efforts to defeat the defeat. They enable you to overcome failure. They enable you to overcome failure. It is said that you cannot appreciate light unless you have known darkness and also you cannot praise good times unless you have been through the bad times. Similarly, failures make the success worth making effort. You can appreciate success because you have experienced failure.

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the goal. The Upanishads say: tamsoma jyotingamay O Master of the Universe, take me from darkness to light. What do we mean when we say God is? We only mean that the world is intelligent, nothing else. God cannot be proved objectively, thats true. Nobody is trying to prove him objectively. In fact, if God is proved objectively, he will be no longer God. Then he will become a thing. Then you can dissect God in your lab, you can analyse; then it will not be God at all. I have again and again said that Creation is the Creator, that the world is God; that there is no separation; that it is not like a painter and the painting in fact it is like a dancer and the dance. God is existence. There is no separation. Not that God has created it; God has become it. You cannot find God anywhere else other than in his existence, and you cannot separate them. Can you find the dance when the dancer has gone? Or can you call a person a dancer when he is not dancing? They are always together; the dance and the dancer are together. They are two aspects of One energy. Creation and Creator are together. In fact, my own choice is that I dont like calling God Creator. I call God creativity. It is an ongoing process. Not that one day God created the world. Creation continues. It is moment to moment, moving, it is a process, it is dynamic, it is river-like. And God is not separate. Through meditation you come to your innermost core of intelligence. Through meditation you become so silent that your own intelligence is revealed to you. In that very revelation, God is revealed. The First Principle, courtesy Osho International Foundation, www.osho.com

words of affirmation, but they are thinking, Cut the talk. If you love me, you would do something around here. For them, actions truly speak louder than words. You may be tempted to stop helping around the house because you get criticized. Your spouses critical remarks may be your best clue as to his or her primary love language. The next time your spouse criticizes you, look behind the criticism and see if you can discover their love language. They are trying to tell you what is important to them emotionally. Dont fight the criticism. Seek to learn from it. Love effectively by learning your spouses primary love language and speaking it daily. When I talk about acts of service as an expression of love, I am not talking about being a slave. It shows equality in love. Here are few examples in which you express your love to your loved ones. Make his/her favorite meal. Announce that you will be doing chores today by saying, Because I love you, I will do the dishes tonight. Invite his/her friends home Help take care of your pet Assist with sorting, washing or folding your laundry. Remind your partner that you do these things because you love him/her

5. Physical Touch
This language isnt all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or facethey can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.

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When you reach out with tender touch, you create emotional closeness. This is especially true if the primary love language of your spouse is physical touch Determining Your Own Love Language Since you may be speaking what you need, you can discover your own love language by asking yourself these questions:

LOOKING FOR GOD IN THE LAB

God is not proved objectively. What is proved objectively the electron, neutron or proton? Nobody has yet seen electrons, neutrons, protons, but the scientists say they are. If nobody has seen them why do you say they are? Scientists say, Because though we cannot see them, we can see their effect. The mystics say the same thing: God is not observed objectively, but we can see the effect. Cant you see the universe running so intelligently? Cant you see tremendous intelligence permeating the whole? It is not only the mystics who say the universe is full of intelligence. Albert Einstein said, The scientists religious feeling takes the form of a rapturous amazement at harmony of natural law which reveals an intelligence of such superiority that compared with it, all the systematic thinking and acting of human beings is an utterly insignificant reflection. Listen, this is not Bohme, Ramakrishna, or Rajneesh. This is Einstein saying that it is not a dead universe, that it is not a stupid universe, that it is intelligent. Physics has become metaphysics again. Physicists even talk about atoms having free will. Einstein said no event can be postulated without the presence of a witness, an observer. Molecular biology has conclusively proved that the matter of organic life, our very flesh, really is mind-stuff. What is the purpose of this intelligent universe? Scientist David Foster says: To become more intelligent. I love this answer. This is what the mystics have always been propounding. From unawareness to awareness... from unintelligence to intelligence... there is the way and there is

How do I express love to others? What do I complain about the most? What do I request most often?How do you identify your spouses love language? What does your spouse do/ not do that hurts you? What have you requested your spouse most often? In what way you regularly express love to your spouse? Speaking in your spouses love language probably wont be natural for you. Dr. Chapman says, Were not talking comfort. Were talking love. Love is something we do for someone else. So often couples love one another but they arent connecting. What you invest, you repay the same in that same form. The couple has the final choice of expressing love. When it comes to Children express all 5 love languages in abundance.