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Eating well and college dont typically go hand-in-hand. As classes and social lives busy our schedules, home-cooked meals turn into faint memories and convenience becomes the theme of our diets. For many, pizza, beer, Easy Mac and Jimmy Johns make up the food pyramid, but for the health-conscious students, their pyramid consists largely of fruits, vegetables and other whole foods. As a firm believer in the you are what you eat mantra, I identify with the latter. Since starting college, Ive always made an effort to buy groceries and eat healthily, but when schools in full swing, the balance of my diet goes out the window. With little time (OK, and maybe a lack of energy) to really prepare anything, I would consistently eat salad, fruit, yogurt and other on-the-go snacks, not realizing the insubstantiality of it until I crashed.
My dad likes to call this eating like a rabbit. This rabbit-like diet got me through the week all right, but I couldnt help but notice how weak or tired I felt after only a few protein-deprived days. And it became even more apparent just by how much better I felt anytime I would eat a burger, piece of fish or even some almonds. In more extreme cases, such eating habits might teeter on the line between being healthconscious and disordered eating, medically recognized as orthorexia. For more on what this disorder entails, read Bres story on page nine. While its important to get an adequate amount of the stuff on the bottom of the food pyramid, its even more important to not take creative control of the pyramid and overdo or entirely omit a food group.
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College can be a pretty overwhelming time. Daunting classes, crazy weekends and crowds of students ready to steamroll over the freshmen makes it feel like theres no stopping the madness. Luckily, everyone soon falls into new friendships. For some students, theres someone even closer to them that they can turn totheir sibling. But having someone youve known forever right by your side isnt always easy.
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Its common for siblings to share with their parents what their brother or sister has been up to at college. Even the strong-willed siblings who swear to secrecy can crack under mom or dads pressure. There is potential for some real conflict when parents get involved in college siblings relationships, Dr. Lynch says. Like Kurtis and Kelli experienced, its not always best to clue the parents in on certain activities. If we fight ever, its about the fact that I tell mom stuff that she doesnt need to know exactly, Kelli says. Brittany and Mark had it a little easier. Their parents would more so ask general questions about their relationship at college than get involved. That type of conflict can not only damage the relationship between siblings, but also the relationship between the siblings and their parents, Dr. Lynch says.
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After examining the physical and emotional boundaries in an age gap relationship, its important to remember the psychological effect it might have on a person. According to Omri Gillath, an Associate Professor of social psychology, younger parties might subconsciously use their older partners as a replacement for their parents or as a security blanket. Inversely, older partners might see their younger halves as a fountain of youth. It can give [the older person] a fresh perspective, or make you feel young again, Gillath says. But it can also add stress because your partner isnt mature enough or doesnt have your life experience. Couples with large age differences might face some judgment from the public. Although these types of Hollywood relationships receive criticisms from the public, they dont receive more or less than any other celebrity relationship, Heath says. She says that couples must be prepared to face the disapproval from their family and friends, because while they might have an ideal relationship, people looking in will draw their own conclusions. Browns family and friends have fully supported her relationship, and although problems can arise in age-gap relationships, she believes that everyone is capable of making it last as long as theyre smart. Just be wise, she says. Are you a relatively stable, mature, self-sufficient person? Do you have good boundaries? Can you say no? A lot of those things are essential to any relationship, but especially if youre going to start dating someone older, you need to be aware that a lot more complications can come.
Photo illustration by Morgan LaForge Numbers game: Consider all the factors before dating someone older or younger than you. After hanging out with a group of friends one summer night, Jay walked Lawrence sophomore Katie Brown to her car. As he was hugging her goodbye, he confessed that he was really liked her and asked if she would like to go out sometime. She eagerly accepted, as she had grown increasingly interested in him through the summer months as well. There was only one thing: she was 19. He was 28. When the two first met through the KU Swing Society, a swing dancing club, during Browns freshman year, she was instantly attracted to his helpful nature; Jay was accustomed to serving people after spending six years in the Navy. Although he was dating someone else at the time, the two remained close. It wasnt until last summer, though, that they began to see each other as more than friends. For many, a nine-year age difference would be cause for concern, but it was nothing out of the ordinary for Brown. My parents work with college students, so I have always been used to interacting and relating to people much older than me from a very young age, Brown says. But [his age] was definitely something I took into consideration before dating him.
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According to Sonja Heath, assistant director at the Emily Taylor Womens Resource Center, there are a variety of factors that students should consider before jumping into a relationship with someone who is significantly older or younger than they are. I think it might be safe to say that if youre older, youve had more relationship experiences. You might also be more in touch with the things you want out of a relationship emotionally, physically, mentally, Heath says. As a younger person, though, you might not know. Knowing what you want to gain, Heath says, is one of the most crucial elements of having a successful relationship. Its possible that an older partner will be more eager to settle down or more comfortable going a step farther in a sexual relationship. Confusion can easily occur if the couple is unwilling to talk openly about their personal comfort levels. Also, she says that it might be difficult finding common interests to bond over. Unlike some, Brown hasnt had any issues in those departments. She says that one of the main reasons she was drawn to Jay was because of his straightforward personality. Like herself, he gave open and honest answers that didnt leave her unsure of anything. Additionally, Brown could appreciate the fact that although there was a significant age difference, because of his time in the service, they were in similar stages of their lives. If he had been 28 and if he had had a career and a job and had been totally outside any realm of me, that wouldve been something where I wouldve been like, OK, lets take a major double look at this before I start dating you, Brown says. But I feel like yes, hes much older, but were in kind of the same boat. He just happened to have spent six years on a boat.
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Whether its hot or cold, rain or shine, its easy to find an excuse to not make that extra effort to walk across campus. Its simple, but when the weathers uncomfortable, it can seem difficult to climb the mountainous hills and hundreds of steps to trek across campus. Benefits like improving your posture and increasing your blood circulation may be worth walking, says Patty Quinlan, nursing supervisor at Student Health Services. Quinlan recommends getting at least 30 | CHRISTY NUTT | minutes of exercise a day to stay healthy. Theres a greater benefit by doing one 30 minute workout since it increases your pulse and heart rate, Quinlan says. But still completing the 30 minutes during the day is better than no exercise. An easy way do get your daily exercise in, is by walking to classes instead of taking the buses and elevators. On average, there are 16,600 KU on Wheels rides a day, wrote Margretta de Vries, parking commission secretary Photo by Christy Nutt Beetlejuice: Your favorite foods and drinks may at KU Parking & Transit. With 29,462 students contain dyes from beetles. enrolled last year, according to University
other natural red dyes because it is more stable and doesnt fade. Carmine performs like red-40 without having the negative effects of synthetic dye, Jones-Dille says. A 2007 study from South Hampton, United Kingdom, linked artificial colors to hyperactivity in children. Jones-Dille says that because of the study there has been an increased interest in natural alternatives to artificial dyes especially in products for children.
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Photo by Kylie Nutt Power walk: Trekking across campus is a suprisingly easy way to get exercise. statistics, about every one-in-two students ride a bus. If it takes ten minutes to walk to one class and you have three classes, you are done with your workout for the day, Quinlan says. There are an estimated 30,000 steps on campus, says Curtis Marsh, program director of KU Info. With this many steps, its easy to get a good workout on your way to class. If you want a more challenging workout, consider jogging up the steps, Quinlan says.
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Photo illustration by Rebecca Dreyfus Fruits n Veggies: Limiting your diet can be harmful.
DEFINING A DISORDER
Health Food Junkie It may be hard to differentiate between a healthy eater and someone who has Orthorexia. Timberline Knolls, a residential treatment center out of Lemont, Ill., provides a clear-cut guide to determining the disorder. Here are a few questions to ask yourself to figure out if youre a healthy eater or a health food junkie: 1. Do I completely avoid foods with artificial colors, flavors or preservatives? 2. Has my opinion of acceptable foods re duced my diet to consuming less than 10 foods regularly? 3. Do I have a fear of eating out because I cannot control how my food is prepared? Orthorexia is an obsession with healthy or righteous eating. Due to the fact that its a newer disorder, many may be seeing this term for the first time, but it shouldnt be undermined. In 2004, the University of Rome surveyed 400 students to see how prevalent the disorder was. Out of those 400, 28 of them (6.9 percent) showed orthorexic behavior, which is a higher percentage than Anorexia and Bulimia combined. Before you think you dont fall into this category, ask yourself if you are a healthy eater, and then you can start to define the lines between healthy and obsessive.
Lets pretend for a minute that you love celery because its an unprocessed whole food. You love celery so much, in fact, that you eat it every single day because you are obsessed with the health benefits. Then you discover that celery is better once dipped in hummus, but you make sure the hummus doesnt contain preservatives or artificial dyes that could be considered unhealthy. Next, you read an article about the health benefits of carrots, so you add those into your daily food routine. Pretty soon you are only eating five or six different foods because these foods are what you have established in your brain as healthy.
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Despite the stigma, it is acceptable to eat processed foods in moderation, according to Chapman-- especially since avoiding processed foods or foods with additives/preservatives in them makes your grocery shopping experience less than exciting. The broken grocery cart with the sticky wheel and slob-
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You may shrug this off as selective or picky eating, but restricting yourself to only a few specific foods can be dangerous. A
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Photo illustration by Abby Davis Choose wisely: Selecting the right bra prevents a variety of problems. Why do we wear bras? Is it because theyre good for us? Will they prevent our breasts from sagging or keep them from growing if we sleep in them at night? Women hear many myths about bras, but what is actually true? Wearing a bra is a personal preference, but it is a social norm we tend to follow, says Sue McDaneld, a nurse practitioner at Lawrence-Douglas County Health Department. There are some cons when wearing a bra, but a simple tip can help women prevent the negative effects. Women can unintentionally alter their menstrural cycle and increase the risk of infertility if a bra causes frequent rubbing on the nipple, says Carolyn DeSalvo, OB/GYN at Watkins Memorial Health Center. The rubbing can trigger the breasts to produce milk. To prevent this, DeSalvo recommends wearing a supportive bra, especially during exercise. Wearing an ill-fitting bra can cause rubbing, skin tags, irritation and yeast infections along the bottom of the bra line. If a woman has a history of yeast infections, constantly wearing a bra bring on infections because heat and moisture get trapped against the irritated nipple, McDaneld says. To prevent this from happening, it is crucial to wear the correct bra size. Getting fitted at a department or lingerie store is free and painless. Hannah Rutzick, a junior from Plymouth, Minn., says she was fitted two years ago at a Victorias Secret when she went bra shopping and has not had any problems since. It is a quick process because the bra fitters measure around your chest with your clothes on. There is some physical benefit for large breasted women to wear a bra because it provides better support and comfort, especially with physical activity, McDaneld says. Women with large breasts tend to have increased neck and back strains because they carry a lot of weight, so wearing a supportive bra with wide straps will help reduce some of that strain. The caveat for a large-breasted woman wearing a bra is that the straps are not too tight because they can cut in and cause worse back pain, DeSalvo says. For small breasted women there is no health benefit if they wear a bra or not; it is a matter of preference and comfort, McDaneld says. The bra fabric does not necessarily matter, whatever feels comfortable for each individual woman, McDaneld says. Bras with hard or rigid lace may cause more irritation and synthetic bras can increase the risk of skin infections because the fabric traps sweat and moisture. The bra fabric depends on the activities the woman will be doing while wearing the bra, McDaneld says. There is no medical basis to say underwire bras cause cancer, DeSalvo says. Underwire bras can cause inflammation because they rub and this sometimes can cause confusion during a breast exam, so some say it is cancer, but it is not, DeSalvo says. Wearing a bra 24/7 will not affect your breasts in a negative or positive way as long as the bra is clean, Dr. DeSalvo says. Despite
1. Keep your bra on 2. Use a tape measure 3. To find your band size, measure underneath your breast 4. To find your cup size, measure the fullest part of your breast 5. To calculate, use a bra fitting guide on www.lindasonline.com
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Contributed Photo Rachel Austenfeld (right) ran past scenic monuments, such as the Sydney Opera House, during her first half-marathon. It's so funny sometimes how you get yourself into things. I first found out about the marathon through a friend's Facebook status that I had met there: "Officially just registered for the Sydney Morning Herald Half-Marathon!" From the second I saw that, I knew I was in. I had always wanted to do a half-marathon at some point in my life, and I couldn't have asked for a more perfect setting. My two running buddies and I booked a hotel the night before located right next to Hyde Park. We figured this would be the best call since the race started so early, and we could just conveniently walk over to the starting line. When my alarm went off at 6:30 a.m. on the day of the race, I was ready to go! I put on all my gear and had peanut butter oatmeal and a banana for breakfast, with a generous amount of water. We left our hotel at about 7:05 a.m. to get a good spot at the starting line, and even though we still ended up in the back. I was so pumped. I felt completely invincible. I had been training, preparing, and waiting for this day for two months and it was finally here, all to be over within a few hours. Definitely a feeling I had never felt before. We couldn't have asked for a more beautiful morning. I could see the glistening water in Sydney Harbour to my right, and the sky had a promising pink hue. And then all of the sudden, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1...boom! We were off. I ran next to my good friend Katrina for the entire race. I definitely did a lot of thinking during the race, which I liked. It felt absolutely incredible to be surrounded by 10,000 other runners who were all in something together for the same common purpose. The first half of the race wasn't bad at all; I felt almost weightless. My breathing settled into a steady rhythm that almost made me feel as though I were walking. The very second we passed the halfway point, though, I could feel my muscles, joints and ligaments start to wear down. I kept pushing though and I wasn't going to walk, even for one minute. The entire time I kept thinking about how so many things we do in life are a mind gamehow our mind affects our body in incredible ways. After we made it past the finish line, I was so excited to be done. There was just a common feeling of camaraderie and goodwill in the air, which I loved. We made our way back to Wollongong (a city just 50 miles south of Sydney where we lived), and after sitting on that train for an hour and a half, my joints definitely went into shock. That night, we had a big buffet-style dinner. I went to bed that night feeling happy, accomplished, and rightfully full. Training for and completing the Sydney Morning Herald Half-Marathon was something I will cherish for my entire life. It taught me that no matter what your goals are in life, you absolutely cannot settle for less, because they make up who you are. No matter what you will always learn something from striving to be your best self. I don't think I'm going to become a marathon junkie by any means, but I wouldn't trade the experience for anything.
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Bon Iver played a sold-out show at The Uptown Theater in Kansas City, Mo., on Friday, Sept. 9.
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Photo by Katie James Carb control: James limited her carbohydrate intake for an entire week. Pasta. Smothered in cheese and served with hot, garlic breadsticks. Sounds heavenly if you ask me. While it is nearly impossible to completely go without carbohydrates, I will admit my food pyramid could be a little more balanced. Between working at an Italian restaurant and being too tired and lazy to do much more than boil some water for mac and cheese, I eat pasta at least three times a week. I had always thought that going on a lowcarb diet would be too difficult; I loved my carb-heavy foods too much to give them up. Nevertheless I decided to give it a try, cutting out pasta, breadsticks and crackers for the
Photo by Chris Neal Clean sweep: Clear your broswers history to keep passwords safe. At one time or another, weve visited a website that our friends or significant others might call us out on. Whether youre checking out the boob tubes or looking up the latest World of Warcraft news, clearing your browser history could save you from embarrassment and also keep you safe. Lyle Harte, a sophomore from Overland Park, says his browser is set to always delete his web history when he closes the window. It increases his Internet speed, and he doesnt want people seeing what hes been looking at online. Brett Gerstenberger, a Client Solutions Specialist for the KU Information Technology department, says deleting you browser is a good way
Contributed photo Did you know?: A new exhibit offers little known facts about campus. How much do you know about the KU campus? Did you know there used to be swimming at Potter Lake? Or that Fraser Hall once looked completely different? Glorious to View: the KU Campus Heritage Project exhibit at the Spencer Museum of Art focuses on the prior history of campus with a modern twist. The exhibit runs through the end of the year and is a unique collaboration between the Spencer Museum of Art staff, Spencer Research Library and advanced graphic design students. It features Spooner Hall, Fraser Hall, Old North College and Potter Lake. Each historic site has a dedicated panel designed by the students that features im-
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Photo illustration by Rebecca Dreyfus Practice makes perfect: Photograph various subjects often to improve your skills.
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Weve all done it before; taken a picture and thought, That looks terrible! Many of us dont have the time or resources to take a photography class, between classes, jobs, and countless hours of homework, not to mention workshops can be pricey. Here are some tricks to improve your technique quickly.
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The fundamental elements of a photograph provide the foundation to build your picture on. Is the lighting good? Is the subject in focus? Did you crop the photo so it looks like they are cut off at the ankle? Make sure you keep the horizon straight; these are all things to keep in mind when setting up a shot. Its important to know all the rules when it comes to fundamentals, because then you can tweak them, and make them your own, Havana Mahoney, a senior from Manhattan, Kan., and majoring in photo media, says. Then you can bend them, but still have the basics to begin with.
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A good portrait gives you a glimpse into the subjects life and personality. It tells a story about that person. You want to look at it and feel something, says Laura Wolfe, Photographer and Studio Owner of White Lotus Photography, located in cameras flash. Lawrence. Spend some time with your subject and make them feel comfortable before you put them in front of a camera. depth of field: how in focus the background of a photograph is. Youll get a more natural expression, Wolfe says. Ask questions to get a sense of who your subject is, and what they are Short depth of field: the subject is in focus and passionate about. I sit down on the floor with the children I photograph and just play with them before I take their picture, the background completely out of focus. so they open up and act more natural, Wolfe says. long depth of field: the subject and the background are both in focus. shutteR speed: the length of time the shutter of the camera is open, determining how much light is let into the camera. Situations with low light should have a longer shutter speed. Situations with lots of motion or bright light should have a shorter shutter speed. apeRtuRe: the aperture is like the pupil of your eye. Depending on how big or small you make it, the more or less light is let into the camera. exposuRe: how much light is let into the camera based on the shutter speed and aperture. A photo that is overexposed looks washed out, and a photo that is underexposed looks too dark.
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Photo by Drew Wille Something for everyone: Hastings houses everything from beverages to books. can check out the rest of the store. We literally have everything "entertainment" you can think of." Next time you and your friends need an entertainment fix, stop by Hastings and lose yourself in its endless selection of books, music, movies, games, electronics and more.
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Photo by Morgan LaForge Drinks and a designated driver: After a night of drinking, Saints + Patio will give you a ride home. Known for its made-from-scratch menu, drink specials and outdoor patio space, Saints Pub + Patio has finally made its way to Lawrence. With more than 47 televisions available for the sports enthusiast, Saints is the new place to be on game day, or any day. Saints Pub + Patio is a sports pub that can only be found in two states, Iowa and Kansas. Theyre known for their outdoor patio spaces that have televisions embedded in the walls of the building, and also for their free shuttling system for guests to and from the bar. Saints is a trendsetter in the sports bar industry and is expanding with a goal to please customers everywhere. Since opening September 1, Saints Pub + Patio has gained a lot of attention from KU students. Students not only view Saints as a new restaurant and bar where they can socialize but also as a place for employment. Daryl Green, a senior from Wichita, works at Saints and was hired during open interviews, which were held in late August. I wanted to work at Saints because it seemed like a nice place and I had been looking for a bartending position around Lawrence, Green says. The most exciting part has been learning everything about Saints Pub + Patio and knowing what their philosophy on service is. The free shuttle system Saints provides is another reason for its popularity. Its an element that sets this bar aside from all the rest in Lawrence. We have a number that you call which is 785-856-2301, and it goes to a cell phone to where our shuttle guy will answer it. You say,
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Pursuing Love
The water is still. Across the lake, the sun cuts through the dark pines that spring up where the water meets land. Was it a mistake to move here? Twelve-hour days spent clinging to a ladder, brush in hand, beneath a summer Minnesotan sun is not exactly what I signed up for. Two months ago it had sounded like a great way to spend summer vacation. The opportunity to work with a dear friend and experience a new place seemed better than anything Kansas offered at the time, but I find myself missing home. These thoughts rock back and forth in my head, like the water softly lapping against the sailboats tethered to the docks. The sounds of the Westwood worship band practicing for this mornings outdoor service scatter the thoughts of home from my mind. Down by the water a boy helps his young love in to a metal canoe. After finding her seat in the front, she tosses her straw bonnet to the belly of the canoe, letting her curls unfurl down her pepper skinned back. I watch their oars slice through the water propelling them through life together, and I am jealous. Excuse me, do you know anything about what is going on at the amphitheater this morning? I turn my head and there she is. Her beauty catches me off guard. Answers to her question fumble through my head, but all I can think is how her eyes sparkle like diamonds beneath the summer sun. After finding a spot near the back of the crowd, I manage to give Kate the details quietly as the Sunday service begins. Sitting on the grassy knoll beside her, I notice a blue fraying bracelet hanging from her freckled wrist and I imagine what it would be like to hold her hand. My mind begins to drift off into a sea of questions that swirl around this girl and her beautiful Minnesotan accent. Would you want to take my canoe out with me? Around us I notice people making their way to the parking lot, blankets in hand. Sure, that sounds great, I reply in disbelief that nearly an hour had passed since we first sat down. Sitting in the rear of the canoe I steer through uncharted waters listening to Kate. With each paddle we draw closer to the center of the lake, closer to each other. She spent the first month of her summer vacation in Costa Rica volunteering at a hospital, and is pre-med at the University of WisconsinMadison. Want to drop the anchor and rest a little, she asks. OK, I reply as I toss the anchor over the side. dock. Before I can catch up to her she jumps onto a boat and down the stairs disappearing into the cabin below. Without hesitation I hop the railing and follow her down the steps in to the darkness. Where are you? I whisper. Over here, she snickers holding a tan wicker basket. Do you know who owns this boat? I ask sitting down beside her. No, but thats what makes it exciting she replies, opening the basket to reveal oranges, apples, and grapes wrapped in a red and white checkered cloth. She breaks a grape from the stem and hands it to me. I continue to stare transfixed by the moon reflecting in her eyes. Inside I feel myself slowly losing control, giving in to the moment. I watch my hand slowly push her bangs from her eyes. I draw her to me, my hand quivering as our lips meet. That kiss happened four years ago, yet I can still recall every detail. As that summer came to a close we worried what life apart would be like. I returned home a month before classes were scheduled to begin and two days later I knew. I knew that even if Kate was the only person I knew in Wisconsin, that was where I wanted to be. The following three weeks were spent filling out forms and convincing my parents and friends that I was making the right decision. It wasnt until Kate and I later painted my bedroom that I truly knew I had made the right choice. Above my bed to accent the beige, she left a blue handprint. Beneath it she wrote, I love you in cursive lettering. Unfortunately the pursuit of love is unpredictable and such was the case for us. After a year of dating, Kate and I felt that our lives were moving in different directions and parted ways. Even though the right decision was made, her absence left a void in my life that only time could fill. Since then I have felt loves sting twice more, and while I would like to say it gets easier, the truth is losing love is always painful. Theyve each left fingerprints on my heart that I now carry with me through life. While at times it can be tempting to lose hope, I still believe if you pursue love with a sincere heart, one day you will find it. And so will I.
Contributed photo Summer love: Rafferty fell in love while working at a summer camp in Minnesota. Sprawling across the boat, I begin to share my story. I tell her about my volunteering experiences in Cairo. I tell her about school at Colorado University and my plan to transfer to KU in the fall. She tells me about her love for water skiing and I tell her Ive never been able to. We talk back and forth for hours. Above us the stars shimmer against the lilac sky. Looking at my watch I cant believe its nearly 7 oclock. Kate reaches for the anchor suggesting it is time to head back to shore. Paddling toward the marina, I cant believe how much has changed in just a few hours. I never would have thought one afternoon, one person could turn my summer around. The stern scraping against the moss coloredrocks along the shore reminds me this is not a dream. Kate steps on to the embankment and steadies the boat as I make my way to the front. Together we pull the canoe with tired arms along the paint-cracked boards of the marina floor. Reaching her slip, I bend down to tie the canoe to the metal cleats fastened to the wooden plank. Is there a special knot to tie this, I say. I quit Boy Scouts before getting the knots badge. Nothing special, she replies, laughing. Finishing my knot I sit beside her on the edge of the dock, our feet dangling above the crests of splashing waves. Thanks for taking me out today. I really had a good time, I say. After an afternoon of conversation, suddenly I find myself tongue-tied. Jack do you like mischief? she asks standing up. What do you have in mind? I ask. Follow me, she replies darting up the
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