somewhere out there

students cope with the space between

them and their better halves
page 4
rubbers revealed
how they really make you feel
page 9
February 7, 2008
sex on the hill edition
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staying close while living apart
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editors note I frst met my
boyfriend when we
were both sackers
at the local grocery
store. I liked him the
instant I saw him. he
hadnt even noticed
me. But I soon changed that.
I made sure to get his attention any way
I could when we worked together. some-
times I would sack groceries next to him
and strike up a conversation. sometimes it
was more extreme, like poking him or even
tripping him when he walked by (I was only
a sophomore in high school, so give me a
break). After a little while, he fnally started
responding.
he began sacking next to me and striking
up conversations. he started tripping and
poking me, too. It was a beautiful thing, in-
deed. I had succeeded.
Even after I was promoted to cashier, we
still found ways to firt. He would poke me
with a long roll of foil. I would suggest the
customer choose paper bags instead of plas-
tic (because sackers hate sacking in paper).
This was a great tactic when the chase
was on, but now that were dating, all this
has taught us is how to piss each other off.
check out Diannes personal essay on pg.
23 about her own experience with love in
the workplace. spoiler alert: It is so damn
cute.
lDani hurst, editor
On the cover:
Photo Illustration/Brenna hawley
play
contact
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manual
feature
speak
reviews
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why some students choose abstinence
timing is everything
one writer dishes about finding love on the job
casual dining, serious dating
who loves em, who hates em
condoms unwrapped
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William Allen White
Day Honoring Journalist
Seymour Hersh. Kansas
Union,Woodruff Auditorium,
1:30 p.m., all ages, FREE, www.
journalism.ku.edu.
The Black Dahlia
Murder/3 Inches of
Blood/Hate Eternal/
Decrepit Birth. The
Granada, 7 p.m., all ages,
$12-$14, www.myspace.com/
blackdahliamurder.
Greg Giraldo: The
Indecision 2008 Tour. Lied
Center, 7:30 p.m., all ages, $5,
www.suaevents.com.
Film: Gone Baby Gone.
Kansas Union,Woodruff
Auditorium, 8 p.m., all ages, $2.
Caulfeld and the Magic/
Volunteers/OK Jones.
The Jackpot, 9 p.m., 18+, $5-$7,
www.myspace.com/
thevolunteersmusic.
Saosin/Armor For
Sleep/Fear Before
the March of Flames/
Meriweather. The Granada,
6 p.m., all ages, $15, www.
myspace.com/saosin.
Norman Brown. Uptown
Theater, 7:30 p.m., all ages,
$29.50-$75, www.normanbrown.
com.
Grace Potter & the
Nocturnals. The Bottleneck,
8 p.m., 18+, $13, www.
gracepotter.com.
Its Over. The Jazzhaus, 10
p.m., 21+, $4, www.myspace.com/
itsoverkansascity.
Sex Robots/Snake Bite.
The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m.,
21+, $2, www.myspace.com/
sexrobots.
Dark Circles/Roman
Numerals. The Record
Bar, 11 p.m., 21+, $7, www.
thedarkcircles.net.
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february 7
Emery. Liberty Hall, 7
p.m., all ages, $15.50, www.
emerymusic.com.
Jazz Ensembles I, II, III.
Lied Center, 7:30 p.m., all
ages, $5.
Pat Green/Whiskey
Falls. The Granada, 8 p.m., all
ages, $25, www.patgreen.com.
Film: Gone Baby Gone.
Kansas Union,Woodruff
Auditorium, 8 p.m., all ages, $2.
Lecture: Kevin
Willmott, Associate
Professor of Theatre &
Film, CSA-Confederate
States of America.
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Auditorium, 8 p.m., all ages,
FREE.
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To Kill a
Mockingbird. Kansas
City Repertory Theatre, 2
p.m., all ages, $10-$52.
Double Reed Festival.
Murphy Hall,1 p.m., all ages,
FREE.
Inward Eye/New
Franklin Panthers. The
Replay Lounge, 10 p.m.,
21+, $2, www.myspace.com/
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Uptown Theater, 7:30
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marilynmanson.com.
Kevin Devine/The
Jealous Girlfriends/AA
Bondy. The Jackpot, 8 p.m.,
18+, $7-$8, www.myspace.
com/kevindevine.
Yourself and the Air/
The Noise FM. The
Replay Lounge, 10 p.m.,
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february 13
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Musical: Ring of Fire,
the music of Johnny
Cash. Lied Center, 7:30 p.m.,
all ages, $24.50, www.lied.ku.edu.
Tuesday Night Folk
Concerts. Signs of Life, 7:30
p.m., all ages, FREE.
Jim Ward/Secret Life of
Sparrows/Ryan Wise.
The Jackpot, 9 p.m., 18+,
$8-$9.
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Chess Night. Aimees
Coffee House, 7 p.m., all ages,
FREE.
Stories My
Grandmother Told
Me. American Heartland
Theatre, 7:30 p.m., all ages,
$20-$25, www.ahtkc.com.
Acoustic Open Mic. The
Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., 21+, $2.
Its Over/The Autumn
File/The ACBs. The
Record Bar, 10 p.m., 21+, $7.
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The Jackpot Music Hall
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Lawrence
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The Jazzhaus
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Lawrence
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Kansas City Repertory
Theatre
4949 Cherry St.
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 235-2700
The Record Bar
1020 Westport Rd.
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 753-5207
Uptown Theater
3700 Broadway St.
Kansas City, Mo.
(816) 753-8665
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How students cope with long-distance
relationships
By Jessie Fetterling
jfetterling@kansan.com
Chase Weideman returned to the States one month ago from studying
abroad in Leicester, England. He brought back the British skinny-jean
fashion, a penchant for eating only vegetables, and a relationship that
had never felt so perfect. The only problem is his boyfriend is now
5,000 miles away.
The last day Weideman, Omaha, Neb., senior, saw his boyfriend, Andy,
was Jan. 7 at London Heathrow Airport. Andy dropped him off and they
said their goodbyes. Both cried, but they agreed to somehow make it
work. Since then, they have found ways to keep in touch through Skype,
a software program that allows users to make free telephone calls over
the Internet. The couple also communicates through Facebook, e-mail
or sometimes on the phone, and Weideman says they have interaction
of some sort every day. Of course, their relationship isnt exactly easy,
especially because of the six-hour time difference.
For me, the most frustrating time is when I know I want to call him
and I cant do it. Especially when I cant drunk-dial him, because Im the
king of drunk-dialing, Weideman says.
Caroline Adolffsson, Halmstad, Sweden senior, shares similar
frustrations. She is studying in Lawrence for a semester, and before
arriving at KU, Adolffson lived with her boyfriend of four years, but
now the two only get
to talk once a week on
Skype and sometimes
through text messages.
Whats most frustrating,
Adolffson says, is that she
and her boyfriend cant
fully eliminate distractions,
even during their once-a-
week conversation. I think
our situation is a lot easier,
though, because weve
known each other for so
long, and we trust each
other, Adolffson
said.
Larry James, professional speaker, author and relationship
coach, says the key to a long-distance relationship is the
couples trust in each other. You cant have intimacy in
a relationship unless you have absolute trust frst,
James says. If theres suspicions about what each
other is doing, then it wont work.
Christine Maxwell, Overland Park senior, has
faced the diffculties of a long-distance relationship
since her boyfriend moved to Seattle when he
graduated almost a year ago. Maxwell and her
boyfriend started dating when she was a freshman
and he was a sophomore at the University. They
used to see each other almost every day. Now, they
see each other only every four to six weeks.
All three students, of course, miss the
cuddling, the phone calls and the face-to-face
interaction that come with relationships in
which distance isnt a big factor, but theyve
found ways to make their situations work by
still communicating with their better halves.
The No. 1 problem in a relationship is a lack of
communication, James says, If something annoys
you more than once or twice, you better talk
about it.
James says that a long-distance relationship
can be positive, though, because the
couple has an opportunity to
grow together while theyre
apart with the hope of eventually being together. You have to have the
willingness to be together, but the courage to be apart, James says.
Weideman says he mainly misses the things he used to take for
granted, such as playing Guitar Hero with his boyfriend or waiting at
the bus stop together. Im trying to be more easygoing, Weideman
says. Its a good thing to not always get whatever I want whenever I
want it.
All three students say they will eventually be reunited with their
signifcant others. Weideman plans to move to England for work (and
now for his boyfriend) soon after he graduates. Adolffson will get to
see her boyfriend again mid-May after her studying in Lawrence is done,
and Maxwell plans to move to Seattle after she graduates.
For now, though,Weideman says he can appreciate just a two-line
Facebook message from his boyfriend in the morning to make his day a
little better. After all, its the little things that keep his relationship going,
and in any relationship, thats usually all it takes.
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contact
photo illlustration by: Alex Bonham-Carter
You have
to have the
willingness to
be together,
but the courage
to be apart.
Larry James
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and Benito Mussolini all suffered from syphilis. www.perils-of-pleasure.com
What are the hardest and
easiest things about your line
of Work?
hoW did you get into the film
industry?
Whats the most difficult
thing youve had to film?
What is the best music to have in
your films?
Who are the biggest influences
in your life?
Tyler Noah
Overland Park senior and
flm student
Bill Fisher
award-winning adult flm
director
l Jessie Fetterling
5
questions
The hardest is to fnd girls who have
families that are okay with them being
in the industry. The easiest thing is
going to work every day knowing that
my job is to get girls naked.
I started as a photographer and then
got into video, starting my own flm
company. While I was shooting a TV
show with Dennis Rodman, I met
Jenna Jameson and she wanted me to
start shooting adult flms. Ive had
my business for 15 years, but Ive only
shot adult flms for four.
I personally dont like anal scenes.
Also, one time, I had to stand in a pool
up to my waist in water, and I had to
have a specifc light on my camera that
plugged into the wall. Every time I
took a shot I got electrocuted.
I like everything. I make the music go
along with whatever genre the flms
are.
My father was a huge infuence and his
best friend, Helmut Nuton. Helmut
was a photographer that my father
made me work for a lot during the
summer when I was 14. He showed me
a lot of stuff about photography that
I never appreciated until I got into the
industry.
The hardest is getting the classes you
want because its a program on the
rise. The easiest thing is that its a
major where I can defnitely do what I
like to do. Its something you wouldnt
have gotten to enjoy as much in high
school.
I always liked movies growing up as
a kid. I got a camera when I tore my
ACL, and I began flming my friends
that skateboard a lot.
Snow boarding in zero-degree weather
with no gloves and no boots.
Im a sucker for early 90s alterna-
tive music that people dont hear that
often anymore.
In the skateboarding industry, Ty Ev-
ans and Frank Mortagne. They kind of
set the standard for the skateboarding
video today. Brad Bird is the director
and screenwriter of the Incredibles and
Ratatouille. I respect him, too, because
he is bringing back classic pure-hearted
entertainment that makes you fall in
love with the characters.
contact the writer:
jfetterling@kansan.com
Nothing says I love you (and the Earth) like a
Valentines Day full of organic massage oils, a box
of fair trade chocolates and a bottle of locally
produced wine.
Even though most people dont think about
keeping the environment clean before doing the
dirty, spending a little extra time choosing more
environmentally friendly products is worth the
delay.
Some sex toys and dildos contain chemicals
called phthalates, which makes hard plastics
like PVC softer and gives a jelly-like feeling. But
phthalates are endocrine disruptors, which means
the chemicals mimic hormones and do damage to
sex organs. The European Union has banned the
use of phthalates in childrens toys since 2004.
According to www.treehugger.com, a
surefre warning
sign is a
disclaimer that
you might fnd
on sex toy
packages that
say that the device
should be used for novelty
purposes only.
To avoid the more dangerous end of the
chemical spectrum, look for sex toys and dildos
that are made from hard plastics, silicon, metal or
glass.
As with all your purchases, try to fnd products
that are labeled natural or organic. Steer clear
from petroleum-based products and anything with
artifcial scents, favors and colors. Find products
that are sexy but durable and rechargeable.
Although these products might be more expensive
initially, you get more bangs for your buck in the
long run.
Unfortunately, there are not many green
products available locallyboth Richard
Osburn, the owner of Naughty But Nice, 1741
Massachusetts St, and Holly Kirkpatrick, manager
of Priscillas, 1206 W 23rd St., say they did not
carry any specifcally environmentally friendly
productsbut a quick Google search should satisfy
your green spot.
Latex and lambskin condoms are generally
thought to be biodegradable, but polyurethane
condoms are basically plastic, which does not
biodegrade and creates more landfll waste.
Still, the best green love option available is to
fnd someone who isnt going to fuck over you or
the planet. For single ecosexuals, there are several
online dating sites that promise to hook you up
with your green soul mate.
One of the oldest green
dating sites is www.
greensingles.com, which frst
started out as a postal
newsletter in 1985. Lee
Schulman, president of
GreenMatch LLC, says the
site has just over 14,000
members with 800 new
members each month.
Schulman says that
GreenSingles was created as a
place for progressive singles in
the environmental, vegetarian and
animal rights community and other
green singles who love the outdoors,
holistic living, personal growth and
spirituality to meet up and network
for friendship, dating, romance and the
exchange of information and ideas. Other dating
Web sites for the environmentally friendly include
www.green-passions.com, www.human2human.com,
and www.veggieromance.com.
Of course, theres always the Lawrence Farmers
Market, the Wal-Mart Recycling Center, Critical
Mass gatherings or the produce department at the
Merc to fnd that special someone, too.
greening it
your guide to
greener living
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Contact the writer:
lkeith@kansan.com
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manual
By Lauren Keith
Green sex toys:
www.eartherotics.com
100 percent certifed organic massage oils
www.northernnaturals.com
Fair trade chocolate
www.gxonlinestore.org
Locally produced wine
Kuglers Vineyard
1235 N 1100 Rd., Lawrence
Davenport Orchards & Winery
1394 E. 1900 Rd., Eudora
www.davenportwinery.com/wines.shtml
Latex or lambskin condoms:
Available at Priscillas and at most drug stores
A Greener
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These panTies are personalized in your favoriTe candy or flavor.
DIY: edible underwear
Add a little spice to your sex life by dressing up in something that can be lickedor eatenright off you.
Edible underwear is not known for its excellent taste, though. It was gross. Seriously it tasted like stale
twizzlers, says Katie Eads, Kansas State alumnus. Why not make the experience taste good? Pick up your
favorite fruity candy and fashion a pair of your own for $5 or less.
I began by unwrapping and laying out Starbursts on wax paper. Place the candies in an upside down
triangle formation one layer thick. This will make the front of the panties. Use a variety of colors or create
a pattern for a vibrant look. Make the layout slightly smaller than will ft. Once all of the candies are laid out,
place the wax paper in the microwave for 30 seconds.
After microwaving, the Starbursts should be warm and soft. Using a rolling pin, slowly applying only a
little pressure, roll out the candies to smash them together and make the underwear the size you need it.
Make the back of the under-
wear using the same
method.
Next, fashion the
sides out of Twiz-
zlers. I used strings
from the pull-and-
peels and wove
them together
in an under, over
pattern to make the
panty strings. Lift the
top corner of the underwear and slide
the end of the Twizzlers underneath. Stick
everything back in the microwave for 10
seconds. Press the Starbursts frmly onto
the Twizzlers to glue them together.
Do the same to attach the Twizzler sides to
the back of the underwear. Place everything in the
refrigerator for a few minutes to harden the candy.
Try using whatever candy you enjoy most. Eads even
suggested using string or thread and Froot Loops for a
crunchier pair. l Peyton Baldwin
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patrons are familiar with Quintons upstairs, but few know it
as Quintons after dark, perhaps the most romantic place
to be if youre looking to meet someone and make out in
front of a bunch of strangers.
After you fnd Mr. or Ms. Right Now, the two of you can
grab a seat in one of the many booths. Each seating area is
separated by a curtain, providing a little privacy for you and
your companion. The super-low lighting and background
music coupled with a drink from the ice bar guarantee that
youll have a good time.
Employee Sarah Keith, Wichita freshman, says people usually start hooking up later in the night after
a few drinks. There always seems to be one couple thats all over each other, Keith says. The overall
atmosphere gives it a sexy vibe.
l Deepa Sampat
Quintons after dark offers an ideal hook-up atmosphere
nooks & crannies
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Guy: I should be in a sorority.
Girl: Yeah, its a good time.
Guy 1: You know what we should do before we
graduate?
Guy 2: What?
Guy 1: We should get into every building on
campus at least once before we leave.
Guy 2: Naked.
Guy 1: That would work.
Guy: Its cold out there, isnt it?
Girl: Yeah. My thermometer this morning said it
was negative zero. I dont know what that means,
but it means its fucking cold.
Girl: Seriously, tell me what straight girl wears her
hat backwards?
Guy: (snuggling in his jacket with a girl) This is
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People, One Jacket.
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How students really feel
about rubbers
By Kaitlyn Syring
ksyring@kansan.com
Its a familiar situation: Youre with a girl
or guy whom you fnd particularly attractive,
and you exchange lets get busy looks. You
start kissing, things get progressively heated,
clothes start coming off, and youre anticipating
a pleasurable experience. At this moment, you
have an important decision to make: condom or
no condom?
What makes a person say, Yes, condom or
No, no condom tonight? Some students say it
all just depends on how well you and your
partner know each other.
Jimmy Shelite, Medicine Lodge
senior, says he always uses a
condom when hes with
a girl for the frst
time. Once
he gets
to know the girl and knows she doesnt
have any sexually transmitted diseases, he
says he stops using condoms.
Jessica Phan, Overland Park senior, also says
that knowing someone makes a difference. She
says she almost always uses condoms, unless she
is in a monogamous relationship and both she
and her partner have been tested for STDs. But
even then, Phan says, she prefers to use them
because they make her feel safe. She says she
likes having that peace of mind and knowing that
she is taking care of herself.
Fear of unwanted pregnancy and contracting
diseases keeps people reaching for those boxes
in nightstands and underwear drawers.
Torie Kim, Overland Park senior, says that
since she switched to birth control pills from
the birth control shot Depo-Provera, she has
become more insistent on using condoms. Kim
says the pills effectiveness depends on so many
factorslike the time of day she takes itthat
she always wants to have a back-up method of
birth control. Kim says that she likes and usually
uses Trojan Ultra Thin condoms, and although
she admits that condoms can be a hassle,
protection against pregnancy and STDs trumps
any inconvenience.
Daytha Lindburg, a physicians assistant in
obstetrics and gynecology at Mowery Clinic in
Salina, highly recommends using condoms as a
method of STD prevention. She says that even
women who use birth control should still use
condoms to ensure that they will not spread or
contract diseases and infections.
Most students can agree that condoms serve
an excellent purpose, so what makes them so
inconvenient? Why do some couples opt to leave
condoms out of romance?
Shelite says he simply dislikes the feel of
condoms. It isnt real, he says. It feels like there
is too much between me and the girl. He says
that some condoms tend to dry up, which kills
the mood and usually brings sex to an early and
unwanted end. But, if he has to wear one,
Shelites condom of choice is Trojan.
Phan stresses the necessity of lubrication
with condoms. She says she sees how its
uncomfortable for a guy to wear one, but she
also says girls can up the arousal factor by putting
the condom on for him.
Phan prefers to use Trojan Magnum condoms
with warming sensation, but only if the size is
comparable to the product, she says.
Lindburg says that when in need of lubrication,
you should never use Vaseline because it tends to
weaken the latex in the condom and increase the
risk of a ruptured rubber. According to Lindburg,
the best lube solutions are personal lubricants,
such as KY, or lubricated condoms.
And, though many students cite pregnancy
prevention as their main motivation for using
condoms, Lindburg says that condoms are not
the most effective method of birth control.
Its kind of like playing Russian roulette,
she says. They can break or leak.
Some men and women can have trouble
with condoms because of latex allergies,
Lindburg says, but condom companies have
accommodated by making latex-free products,
which are usually made of lamb skin. Lindberg
also says that condoms with spermicidal
lubricant can cause bladder infections in
females, so women should consider avoiding
them.
Bottom line: Couples should work together
to fnd their ideal method of protection. Its
all about preference. You have to kind of play
around and fnd out what works and doesnt
work for you, Lindburg says.
So try some clear, some pink, some
warming, some extended pleasure, some
twisted pleasure. Create your own condom
smorgasbord, and then have fun fnding the
perfect pleasure for you and your
partner.
condoms
unwrapped
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lCondoms date back to 1000 B.C., when the
Egyptians started using linen sheaths to protect
them from diseases during intercourse.
l In the 1500s, the syphilis epidemic in Europe
enticed lots of people onto the condom train.
Gabrielle Fallopius said he had invented a linen
pouch to prevent men from getting syphilis.
It was only later that this invention was also
deemed useful for preventing pregnancies.Also,
during this time period, people began dipping
the linen in chemicals and allowing it to dry
before use.Thus, spermicidal condoms were on
the map.
lThe word condom was frst used in 1706 in
a poem. It is said that a doctor named Condom
invented the device to prevent King Charles II
from having any more illegitimate children. It
was around this time that condoms were being
made of animal intestines.These were very
costly, and trade shops for handmade condoms
popped up, no pun intended, all over London.
l Rubber condoms were all the rage after
Condoms: A Look
Back In Time
Goodyear Tires discovered a process
called vulcanization, where rubber is
transformed into a strong elastic material.
l The New York Times printed the frst
condom advertisement in 1861.
l The frst latex condoms hit the market
in 1919.
lDurex launched the frst lubricated
condom in 1957 in the U.K.
lToday, we can choose our condoms from
all kinds of colors, favors, sizes, styles and
brands.
Source: AVERT International AIDS
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Poker, the clubs organizer, says frst-time couples
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dinner at an expensive restaurant, bringing her
home to a nice bottle of wine and fnishing the
evening in passionate rapture, having sex while
shes on her period doesnt exactly put the O in
rOmantic.
You would probably just grip it and bear your
abstinence if you did run into this situation, but
sometimes the urge is too great. If men and women
do indulge in sex during that most inopportune
time of the month, there are some things to
consider.
Carolyn Johnson, head of the gynecology
department at Watkins Memorial Health Center,
says there is only a slight increase in the chance of
contracting disease.
If there were an open cut, there is more
exposure to blood and that could provide more
risk, Johnson says. This is especially true if the cut
is on the man.
Johnson says she has more fear that
people dont realize that a woman is
susceptible to getting pregnant during
sex even when she is on her period.
Women with shorter cycles are especially
fertile near the end of their period.
This came as a shock to Andrea Steen,
Overland Park sophomore, who said she has had
sex while on her period but would probably not
do it again.
Steen says, That makes me a little scared. I had
no idea that you could get pregnant.
Steen says her decision to participate in sex
while on her period really came down to the guy
being comfortable with it. She says she felt slightly
self-conscious about it, but was able to get over
any insecurities when she found out the guy was
fne with it. She felt most concerned with the mess
involved.
After learning that she was vulnerable to
becoming pregnant, Steen says she has another
reason not to participate in sex while on her
period again.
Johnson also says that it is not typical for a
woman to have a high sex drive while on her
period. She says the period of ovulation usually
coincides with a higher sex drive among
women.
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Matthew Buxton, a dermatologist at Free State
Dermatology, 3511 Clinton Pkwy., says women
tend to experience more irritation after shaving
than men, especially when they shave around the
bikini line and under their arms. The curlier and
coarser the hair, the more ingrown hairs, bumps
and itching, Buxton says.
Men with curly hair have more trouble shaving
for the same reason, he says. If a woman shaves
frequentlylike during swimsuit season when
its vital to have smooth legs and a hairless bikini
lineshe will have increased irritation that can
last a long time.
Because of the time it takes and the unsightly,
unpleasant bumps that shaving produces, many
women and a bold breed of men have turned
to waxing. Buxton says that most people who
try waxing prefer it to shaving. Their body parts
stay smoother longer, he says, and they skip the
unwanted side effects of the razor. But Buxton
warns that you need to know if youre allergic to
the wax before you go down that road.
To ensure the most presentable fuzz-free
skin, Buxton stresses using mild cleansers and
moisturizers before you shave. Both, he says, will
contribute to a healthier relationship with your
razors and wax.
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Valentines Day is one week away. Why not skip the crowded restaurants, light some candles and
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Easy Shrimp Pasta
2 Tbsp. Balsamic Vinaigrette
lb. frozen shrimp, defrosted
1 tomato, chopped
2 oz. (1/4 of 8-oz. pkg.) cream cheese, cubed
2 Tbsp. chopped fresh basil leaves, divided
4 oz. (1/4 of 1-lb. pkg.) fettuccine, uncooked
2 Tbsp. shredded Parmesan cheese
Pour dressing over shrimp in a small bowl. Cover and refrigerate for 20 minutes to marinate.
Cook pasta as directed on package. Meanwhile, heat large skillet on medium heat. Add shrimp
mixture. Cook three minutes or until shrimp turn pink, stirring frequently. Remove shrimp from
skillet, using slotted spoon. Cover to keep warm. Set aside.
Add tomatoes, cream cheese and 1 Tbsp. of the basil to the same skillet. Cook and stir three
minutes or until well blended. Add shrimp. Cook until heated through, stirring occasionally.
Drain pasta. Place on large serving platter. Top with the shrimp mixture. Sprinkle with remaining
basil and shredded cheese.
This recipe is from the Food & Family magazine by Kraft. Check out their Web site, www.kraftfoods.
com, for additional easy meals for two, or a scrumptious dessert to fnish off this meal.
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By Elise Stawarz
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Sex is something thats part of every students life
in some way, whether youre having it, wishing you
were, or regretting that you did. While it may come
up frequently, there are very differing outlooks on
the topic. Some people have committed themselves
to waiting until theyre married, others just want the
commitment of a relationship, and some are just out
to get what they can.

Charles Goldberg
Chicago junior
I think that if youre going to end up having sex,
you should make a commitment with the other
person. Make sure youre not just doing gymnastics.
There are two aspects to every relationship: physical
and emotional. I think if youre dating someone and
you dont even kiss, then good
luck to you. Ive had sex with
girls Ive only known for a few
days, but then weve stayed
together. Everyone needs this
time to fnd themselves and
fgure yourself out.
Tori Komsthoeft
Olathe sophomore
Since I was seven Ive been going to Christian
sports camp, and as you get older they talk to you
about Christian issues you will go through. One of
the talks really got to me. I dont know who my
future husband is, but I wrote his name on my heart.
Every person you sleep with, you give away part
of your heart to, and I want my husband to have
my heart. My friends know my
morals and respect me for it.
One analogy I use is sex is like
a Christmas present and its fun
to want to peek at it before
Christmas, but when Christmas
comes its better to wait. I
also have chosen to wait for
marriage because I do not want
to be on my wedding night and having to compare it
to something. You know, it could be the worst sex,
but to me it would be great because I have nothing
to compare it to.
Cole Davis
Wheaton sophomore
I had sex fairly early on in
high school. It was more to
get it out of the way and sort
of see what the big deal was
than anything else. I dont think
I ever regretted it and always
enjoyed it. After sex that frst
time, it stopped being that huge
deal people make it out to be.
I look at it as Im young and Im in college. I came
into college with the mentality that I wasnt going
to get into a relationship. Id rather wait until Im
older when I can put a lot of effort into a serious,
committed relationship.
Sarah Coughlan
Beloit junior
My husband and I waited
until we got married. It was a
conscience decision. The frst
time is very signifcant for
anybody. Its something you
never forget. Wed already
waited and we decided what
could be more romantic? The
fact that we were there for each others frst time
because we were each others frst time is very
romantic to me. There were also other advantages,
like not having to worry about STDs or pregnancy.
Im very glad that we did wait. I get frustrated when
you hear someone say Oh, everyones doing it,
and I dont think thats the case. Its something you
have to be purposeful about. Especially when we got
engaged it was a lot harder. [Not having sex] doesnt
just happen, and we would like to have a marriage
that lasts forever and thats not something that just
happens, either. You have to work at it.
timing is everything
A look at the various reasons people
choose to have sex, or to wait it out
not everyones doing it
Its clear that the Universitys students have
a wide variety of outlooks on the topic of sex
and, according to a Guttmacher Institute study
made available in 2006, 46 percent of teens have
lost their virginity by age 19. This is basically half
the student population, and goes to show that
people are on all different playing felds as they
move onto Daisy Hill for their freshman year.
Not everyone is having sex on the hill, but you
should still keep an eye out for that sock on the
door.
Alex Eshelerenner, Dallas, Texas, senior, may be a
big reason why Christy Tuohy, Dallas, Texas, junior,
decided to come to KU. The couple has been dating
for about three years, and they frst met when Tuohy
was trying to decide which college she wanted to
go to.
Eshelerenner was a freshman at KU when Tuohy
decided to come visit. Her brother had set it up so
that his friend, Eshelerenner, could show his little
sister around Lawrence and around the campus. She
did not remember him from the high school parties
that her brother would throw, and, in fact, she had
thought that he was someone else before they frst
met.
When she arrived KU, though, he made quite
the impression. Instead of staying with a friend,
she spent the whole weekend with him, including a
pretend date in the downstairs cafeteria at Naismith
Hall. He acted like a best friend would, Tuohy said.
After that, they started talking on the phone, and
by that summer, they were dating.
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When asked what he would do for a date on
Valentines Day, T.J. Riedel, Overland Park freshmen,
doesnt have much to say. Id probably try to think
of something creative, but I cant right now, he
admits. Like T.J., many guys feel a bit lost when
thinking up something to do for someone on
Valentines Day, but they shouldnt sweat it too
much: Most students just want to spend some time
with their dates.
Valentines Day is defnitely overrated, says
Laura Wolf, Overland Park freshman. She sees the
holiday the same as any other day, reasoning that
your special someone should treat you well every
day of the year. For her, a casual dinner is just fne,
but thats not to say you wont hurt someones
feelings if you dont put effort into Valentines.
Lauren Larsen, Green Bay, Wisc., senior, says
her worst Valentines experience was when
her boyfriend at the time decided it would be
acceptable to take her to Schlotzskys Deli and
get her some Jelly Bellys. He didnt even get me
a sandwich, she says. Larsens ideal date would
be a trip to the Legends in Kansas City, Kan., or
the Plaza in Kansas City, Mo., for some dinner and
shopping.
Indeed, most women just crave some alone
time with their signifcant other on Valentines
Day. Thats why many cite dinner as a good
Valentines Day date, as it provides a chance
to sit down and talk one-on-one without
all the distractions friends and family can
bring.
Having family around isnt always such a
bad thing, though.
Laura Hollar, Overland Park freshman,
is going to be eating dinner at the opening
of her boyfriends grandmothers restaurant. To
her, thats the perfect Valentines date. Flowers
would be icing on the cake. Although many girls
would appreciate some fowers, Nicole Pan, Xian,
China freshman, says that the best gifts are made,
not bought. She would like any sort of drawing
or artwork commemorating the relationship
or how her boyfriend feels about heranything
that showed he took some time to do something
special for her. For those that arent confdent in
their artistic ability, fear not: Pan says she would
still happily accept gifts purchased at the store, and
she says they dont have to be expensive.
If youre planning to go to dinner on Valentines,
make sure you make reservations, even if its just
at a casual restaurant, because most places will be
busy. Some restaurants have special menus and
multi-course meals available, so call ahead and
ask. Above all, just relax and have a good time.
The holiday is about spending time together, not
having reservations at a fancy restaurant.
Your date will be happy as long as
you make an effort to show that
you care.
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Variety is, indeed, the spice of life. So why not try bringing a little variety to your
bedroom romps?
Start off by testing out a few new moves and see where that takes you. If youre
drawing a blank in bed, there are numerous books and calendars that are sure to
inspire you. Try the Sex: Every Day in Every Way position-of-the-day calendar from www.
nerve.com. Each day comes complete with a new and inventive position, an illustration
and even how many calories each participant can expect to burn. And lucky you: its
already February, so it looks like youve got some catching up to do.
If you arent particularly limber, try adding sex dice to your routine instead. They
come in all varieties, but the basic idea is universal: on each side of the two die there
is either an action to perform (lick, suck, kiss, nibble, etc.) or a body part to which the
act is to be performed (nipples, toes, genitals, neck, etc.) You just roll the dice and let
Fate do the rest.
If neither of those do it for you (or you just want one
last suggestion), try combining sex with one of
lifes other pleasures: Pop Rocks. These feisty little
sugar bombs add just the
right amount of fun with
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The safest way to
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enhance the feeling
(and taste) of an
already sweet and
satisfying act.
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The show is hosted by Stryker, a Los Angeles DJ, and Dr. Drew Pinsky, a
physician and addiction medicine specialist who answers callers questions on
everything from sex fetishes to substance abuse to what exactly caused those
bumps down there.A few nights of Loveline a week will up your sex IQ, and
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When looking back, I think our generation might consider Saved by
the Bell the greatest show of all time. It taught us how to live, love and
wear our Buddy Bands with pride.
Dustin Screech Diamond stakes his claim as the sleaziest member
of Baysides graduating class with his much-publicized sex tape. But,
unlike other celebrities, Diamond decided to embrace and capitalize on
his hand-held antics, endorsing the DVD release of Screeched.
The flm opens on Diamond sitting in a bubble bath with a woman
who is holding the camera. With the scene lit only by candles, the
couple goes on for 10 minutes discussing everything from which
season of 24 theyre going to watch to what kind of food is left in the
fridge, before turning off the camera just before the love-making begins.
At this point, theres still hope. Maybe Screeched isnt as vile as the
video cover had promised. Maybe its just Diamond enjoying a quiet night at home with Mrs. Screech.
Those hopes are soon dashed, though, as we cut to a scene of the actor introducing the rest of the video. In
his best dude, brah voice, Diamond, referring to himself as The D-man, gives a run-down of the situation for
submission to something called The Brotherhood of the Bros. Apparently, D-man and his buddies have a secret
society where they award each other points for taping themselves performing various sex acts.
For this particular scenario, he explains that hes just done a comedy show, and that a bride-to-be and her
brides maid were in attendance as part of a bachelorette party, and invited the D-man up to their hotel room.
At this point, it becomes painfully clear that this tape is a set-up.
We get a thrill as he tries to convince the girls to put on sexy lingerie using all the tact and personality of a
horny, 13-year-old boy. The best part is, D-man uses nostalgia and his limited star power to tap into the gentle
psyche of the brides maid when he, to help her overcome her shyness, says,You grew up with me, Baby.
Finally, the girls come out in the lingerie. Sexual gag gifts are conveniently sitting around the hotel room, such
as double-headed dildos and candy cock rings, and you better believe they get incorporated.
The thrilling climax comes when the D-man executes a move known as the Dirty Sanchez. If youre not
familiar with the term, look it up on www.urbandictionary.com. Once you do that, imagine those words printed on
a scented sticker and youll think twice before investigating anything with your sense of smell.
The flm ends with the D-man bragging about his conquest, and how cool of a dude he is. It also ends with
him not only shattering the joy and happiness he brought to many children through the 90s, but also shattering
the idea that any decency could exist in the world after viewing this tape. Congrats, D-man, you fnally left your
dorky persona behind, but now you have a new one to take its place: D-bag.
No stars
Jared Duncan
contact the writer:
jduncan@kansan.com
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I had worked as a host at Jack Stack Barbecue in
Overland Park for almost three years when Doug
started working there. I dont remember meeting
him, and I didnt pay attention to him for the frst
nine months that we worked together. Then in
December 2005, he decided he wanted to make me
his girlfriend.
He frst started pestering me to go out with
him after he overheard my co-worker Amy and me
checking out some guys. Doug wanted to know
why we werent checking him out. So, whats wrong
with me? he asked. After a few nervous giggles, I
told him he was too old for me. He remembers me
saying that he was old and ugly. I know I never called
him ugly, but after that, he decided he had something
to prove. That December, he began firting with me
on a daily basis.
He asked what I was studying and what I wanted
to do when I graduated. He asked about my new
car, too. I had been in a bad car accident earlier
that year, so he told me about the accidents he had
been in when he was my age. We talked about our
co-workers, and he kept me up on the latest gossip
from the kitchen: who was sleeping
with whom, and who wanted to sleep
with whom.
I knew he wanted to date me, but
I had decided I could never do it. I
was 20, and he was 30. Ten years was
too much. I worried about what my
friends would think, but most of all I
worried about what my parents would
think. Theyre protective of my three
brothers and me, especially because Im
the only girl. Would they lecture me
about how older men only wanted sex?
Or would they ignore him, using silence to make it
clear he wasnt welcome?
I also worried about how I would ever relate to
this guy. Other than a hatred for snotty customers,
what did we have in common? He grew up with
Magnum, P.I.; I grew up with CSI. Childhood pop
culture references would always be lost on one or
the other. On top of that, he was my manager. Doug
had convinced the other hosts that he was perfect
for me, but what would the other managers say? I
had never dated any of my co-workers, and I wasnt
about to start, especially with my supervisor. I had
worked at this restaurant for three years, and dating
Doug would ruin my reputation as the good girl
who loved her parents and never slept around.
Doug was undeterred. He didnt worry about
being fred for sexual harassment because
he already had another job lined up.
He had never enjoyed his job at
Jack Stack, mainly because
he had other aspirations.
He wanted to open
his own restaurant,
one without all the
problems he had
found at other
restaurants.
When I
had to go
back to
school,
our gossip
sessions were limited to Saturday nights, my only
shift while classes were in session. Doug worked
Saturday nights, too. I always needed someone to
swipe a manager card so I could clock in, and he
was always eager to help.
I never would have admitted it, but
I started to look forward to seeing
him. Dougs jokes could always make
me smile. If I was in a bad mood, he
would ask me what was wrong. Are
you constipated? he would say. Did
your dog die? I always said no to
both questions, but his frankness about
constipation made me laugh.
One day in early March, Doug was
scheduled to work Saturday morning, so
his shift was ending when I came in. He
helped me clock in, walking up the stairs
behind me from the kitchen to the dining
room while I wondered if he was checking
out my ass. I secretly hoped he was.
But then he said he had to go, surprising
me with his departure. I must have shown
my disappointment on my face,
looking up at him and pushing
out my bottom lip. Youre
going? I asked. He said yes with
a similar expression on his face.
Tingles ran through my body,
turning my stomach as he put his
hand on my arm.
I knew at that moment that I
had to give him a chance. As much
as I didnt want to believe it, I was
falling for Doug. He knew it too,
but it wasnt until June, when he
had already quit his job, that I let him take me
on a date.
When I fnally let him into my life, I learned
we had plenty in common. We have both dealt
with depression, and we have both totaled at
least two cars. We both love snuggling in bed,
forgetting about life and watching movies until
our eyelids start sagging. We both love eating out,
critiquing the restaurants and complaining about
the poor service.
Doug and I have been dating for a year and
a half now. My parents love him. With all their
parental wisdom, they can see that he loves
me for who I am. I thought I knew my
type: tall, nerdy guys, with dark hair
and classic, clean-cut looks. Even wearing a tie and
a button-down shirt for work, Doug never looks
clean-cut, and his wild, curly hair will never be
tamed. I never thought my future husband would be
the man that joked
about constipation to get me to crack a smile.
But Doug makes me happy.
Casual dining,
How I found love in the most unexpected person
By dianne smith
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02.07.2008
VOL. 5 ISS. 19
Contact the writer: dsmith@kansan.com
Graphics by: Brenna Hawley
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