PFLAG-Johnstown members change direction, leadership
by Jane Muder
‘he Johnstown chapter of Parents, Families and
Frionds of Lesbians and Gays is changing i rulee—
sod ling errr iar
rently reviewing and revising its by-laws,
PPLAGJohnstown bogan making definitive changes
to ts exective board ts March 30 meeting
"At that meeting, board chair John DeBartola
was removed from effie by 221 vote. The vacated
Postion was fled by nominating, Will Stinmetz
{Ronng that same meeting,
‘Nancy Meredith, trnsurer said that one gol of
recvalusing. bylaws and ‘chatrahips "0, gat
FPRLAGobnstown) on tho right track where it be:
longs." Meredith joined PFLAG-Johnstown in part
‘cee her som ha tried fo take hi if while come
*“hecording to Meredith, one problem with the
soup infrastructure provely ie that there in
Geil ofce of “president” denoted in PFLAG's
ota
We've novor had a president, por 30” she sald
serve with ue, “here were
‘lected boar hale in Sepemboe
2007. According to several board members, he bad
feted ana capable leader ofthe group during hs fret
{ow month i elle However, DeBartla. later
ee tha were ott ine with
Soredith sald that PFLAG's porposa is to pro.
vide suppor to the GL community and thet
te
Tier and frends, "John ‘ore of les to be
‘socal organization,” she sald. "We are more o lets &
Support geaup
‘Shidey “Gardill is the founder of PFLAG.
PFLAG chapter changes
leadership, direction
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had gone from a PFLAG ovent to a personal event
Bolt sald that the group speeseally designated
time at their March meeting to reevaluate the x
‘cutive board's pedtone Uy re-electing al of the
rou = officers
“Trearurer Nancy Meredith said, “Yes, [DeBarto-
4a ered to have a fundraiser. He’ maimed i "Yo
Isic] Fuk-Graay in Love.’ He tied to put PFLAG's
hname on its. twas Just vidoulous the way he
worded everything
‘On Feb. 6, PELAG Co-Chair Andrea Sadvari, as
voll as Meredith, Bot and Gardil, provided Lucile
bar with a notice thet read) “We, the wundersiged
from the executive board of the Johnstown Chapter
of PELAG, have in no way approved tho cantents of
'A Paycho Spectacular Valentnm's Extravagansa’”
‘Though the note requested that PFLAG not be
sasoelated with the drag show, it-ad not demand
thatthe show be stopped It also advocated that all
proceeds be donated toa worthy eases
Tm an email interview with Out om April 9, De
Bariola wrote, "Those who oppose me da so beealee
they do not ste the great vision of what we cai do
Being mare united within our efforts to repress the
say community a it allet and bes igh
He added that be had "dynamicaly led this or-
ganization into making’ the changes necessary 10
Fepresent the whole gay community that exits ith
inour specific area ahd have put on a nuimber of se-
poke teeter 5
“ohnstowa, Aftor her tenure as group chair, she cur
Fenlly sits as an adviser on the beard, She said th
Started the Johistown chapter of PFLAG because
she has a gay son who came out to her
az living in Pitsburg at the time, going
to Pitt, anda came out. to me. Ofcoure, being from
‘Johnstown, T needed somo support myself. Todd ad
joined PFLAG in Piticburgh, and they were. very
supportive of him, and they gave hin the Courage to
‘come out and come hone to ot,
Sho felt there had to be other mothers and fa-
thors in her area who” were going. through. the
process of find out thir nom of daughter eg
‘After discovering that DuBois already hada local
PFLAG chapter, Gardill made some phone ells. "We
hhed” 19° or" 20, peopleat-the “fst meeting. Lin
‘Thnatown} and east geet Gard said
‘Gara boioves that PFLAG-Johnstown’s role in
the local community Is important bees
bia je stil rampant inthe aren and that e supportive
environment is necessary. All phono calls tothe
‘Jhustowa headquarters aro carefully sctesned to
‘snr he ton oft a piracy fr ober
in addition to reavaluating the makeup of the
ive board, Garall sald, "We are redaing ot
Bylaws. We're doing a lot of damage control anf also
tying to get back some ‘aembers who have quit in
the past year and a half—and hopefully we can get
‘members
‘Because PFLAG’s proximity tothe University of
Pittsburgh-Johnstowa. ‘maker i¢'2 prime means. of
support for GLBT calloge students, PELAG fe worl
{ng withthe university to add student sees tothe
Membership controversy
‘Gardill explained that DeBartola was removed
Gardill confirmed this statement, “When Joh
first borame president, he waa dolng a really good
Jeb he had a speaker every month,” she sat. She
Sided that the drag shew taused such controversy
Because It eontelned unaoeoptable content: Tt pare
died personal fight betwoen two dotinstow! es
ane
He wanted to depict the fight, but in drag.
avails
‘Stil Gardll romains hopeful about the ongani-
zation’s future. "We want people to fes! comfort
fnd come back co this organization or iain thie or
‘anlzation [for the ist timel” She added, “Over the
pest to years, things have really-progressnd in
Totatowa
‘Board secretary Holt, nad decided
to make organizational changes in pert because “Un
Foviewing the bylaws, we realizad we don't have a
‘president’ or a vice president" The language say
‘Shair and "
Bolt said that in the spirit of their bylaws,
Steinmste was named the new chair of the PFLAG
board. “Though ‘ehai” shows authority,” sho added,
is not a word that someone might let go to theit
PFLAG's newest board chalr ie @ 22-yearsld
student at Pittlohnstown. Asrorsing the group from
bis postion ae chair, Steinmets wrot in an email to
Out, “Te rejuvenation of PFLAG-Johnstown will
be continuing fora while. We are alco glug to look
{nto eter advertising (for) the group and our mse
from office because he had sent letters to Out during
hie tenure as chair, and Uhat some of thor letare
contained negative press for PFLAG Johnstown,
‘One of DeBartolas lettre to Out, dated March
13, sald "The executive board had a sesret meeting
swith eight people on Sunday to remove me as pres
dent without announcing the agenda... whieh is
‘complotaly ridiculous when everything T have done,
ght or wrong, has bean right out in the community
and ss beou upfront
He contined, "Look ab the controversy of the
clubas itis”
‘in January 2008, DeBartole mado plans for a
drag show fond.esior atthe Jabatown gay bar Lie
tilles, On Jan. 21, DeBertola emailed a ntlce about
fhe show to Out
He wrote, “On Feb, 8, 2008, at 11:30pm,
PELAG-Jahnstown io presenting a drag show se Lat
elles ted, "A Poyeho. Spectacular Valentine's
Extravagant: Your (sc) PukeCraay in Lavo.” Later
in ‘the. e-mail, he “wrote, “Two. lesbians from
Johnstown... are claiming that this drag show ie
bout thei relationship end they demanded that
Lele’ eancol the chow. They age laa de
that the exeentive board of PFLAG sJolustown te
‘nove lite! loge and cane i
‘Board Secretary dilate Bolt, a graduate student
at Indiana University of Pennaglvania, sd DeBarto
4s planned dhe show without slicing input from
lier PFLAG members
“Other members of the executive board sere
allowed to Yeieo their opinions,
Droblem was that onco wo got closer to the drag
lized the content of it was not sme
thing that PFLAG wanted to bo associated with
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