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16. Find one activity you both enjoy, whether it’s going to
baseball games, golfing or watching classic movies, and
make it a point to do it regularly together. A shared activity
can give rise to many special moments and creates a
common bond for conversation and something to look
forward to together.
20. Don’t spoil your partner’s fun just because you can’t join
in. A survey found that, especially at the holidays, married
couples argued frequently over invitations to events. If you
can’t meet her for your office Christmas party, that doesn’t
mean she shouldn’t go and have a great time without you.
Just because you don’t want to attend the annual fundraiser
that he loves, don’t expect him to stay home with you and
forego the function.
24. Don’t expect your spouse to act the same around his or
her family as he does around you. If your husband
temporarily turns into a loud, boisterous buffoon with his
brothers or your wife suddenly starts talking about nothing
but the details of the latest family scandal, don’t panic. They
will return to their normal selves as soon as the family event
is over – this is a bonding ritual for them.
27. Have one hobby each that is separate from your partner
and enjoy it regularly. Maintaining separate interests means
you won’t rely completely on your spouse for entertainment,
which can be draining and a real burden.
33. Tell your spouse you love him or her every day. You can
never say it too much and it will give them a safe, secure
feeling knowing your love is something they can rely on.
36. Plan well ahead for the holidays and any other time
when a conflict may come up about sharing family time,
then present a united front. Don’t say, “Robert wants to
spend Christmas day with his folks, so we’ll see you the
night before.” Instead say, “We’ve decided we’ll go to
Robert’s parents Christmas day, but we’ll be over all day on
Christmas Eve.”
51. Don’t try to change your spouse into somebody else now
that you are married. If you pretended to like his wardrobe
or her friends before the marriage thinking to change things
now that the vows have been said, forget it! You professed
to love them for who they were – you have no right to
change them if you love them.
52. Above all, wake up each morning and remember how
lucky you are to have a loving partner to share your life
with. And every night, let him or her know that you still feel
that way before going to sleep. It’s a wonderful way to end
their day!