Brain Chemistry and Sex

Pavlovs Pussy

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Pavlov's Pussy
"It has long been known for sure that the sight of tasty food makes a
hungry man's mouth water..."
Ivan Pavlov
In this technique, Pavlov's Pussy, Im going to teach you how to condition
your woman into immediate arousal in mere seconds at your whim.
Once you've put this lesson into practice, she will immediately drop
whatever it is she is doing and want to have sex with you.
I know this sounds amazing and you probably think it also sounds
impossible, but Im going to lay out the exact steps for you to follow and
you will see that achieving this is actually much easier than you may
think.
I mentioned the word condition earlier. What Im teaching you here is
actually a proven psychological phenomenon known as conditioning. Im
sure youve heard about Pavlovs dogs, but would you have guessed that
the same technique could be used in your sex life?
Not until now.
History tells of a Russian scientist nerd named Ivan Pavlov. He ran a study
where he rang a bell and fed his dogs at the same time. His dogs,
therefore, began to associate the sound of the bell with being fed. After
using the bell during feeding time repeatedly, they would salivate anytime
they heard the bell, even if they couldnt see the food.
Pavlov thought he could explain the universe of human behavior with this
theory which he couldn't, but he did give us insight into this concept that
living things can be conditioned to respond to certain stimuli in a certain
way. These conditioned responses, once associated to a certain stimulus,
can trigger actual sensations in the body, even without the actual stimulus
being present.
In the dogs minds, the bell came to represent the serving of food, just the
same way as seeing their food being brought to them would.

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In this exercise, we are essentially going to figure out what your bell
signal will be, and we will replace food with sex. Simple. And it works.
By combining the bell with sex, you are going to train your woman to
respond to the signal with immediate arousal.

Here is how I accidentally discovered conditioning in my own sex

life.
I had a girlfriend who loved giving head. She was an expert at taking me
right to the edge of cumming but would then pull me back. Letting the
intensity build and build. These blowjobs would always end in either me
returning the favor and giving her oral sex or our having sex, so I wasnt
the only one getting all the pleasure.
She had long hair and usually wore it down. I didnt like having an
obstructed view and I could tell that it really got in her way, so (being the
gentlemen that I am), I naturally began holding her hair back for her in a
type of gentle but firm ponytail grip. I wasnt pulling on it (I didnt want
to make it difficult for her to continue what she was focused on), just
loosely holding it back for her.
One day, she was in the kitchen cooking and her hands were covered in
goop. Her hair was getting in her face, so she asked me if I would pull it
back for her. I grabbed a hair tie and began running my fingers through
her hair scooping it up into a ponytail. She started going crazy.
Before she even consciously knew what was happening, she leaned her
body into me and began gently rubbing her ass on my cock. I could tell
she was incredibly turned on.
It was then that I realized that my pulling her hair back had become a
signal to her. She had become conditioned to think that my pulling her hair
back = sex.
Once I figured that out, I realized I had tapped into a powerful trigger that
I could have a lot of fun with.

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If we were out waiting in line somewhere, I would casually run my fingers
through her hair and pull it back into a ponytail and give a little tug. She
would give me THAT look. The look that says, I want to devour your
whole cock in my mouth right now.
And she'd snuggle up closer to me.
If we were watching a movie together on the couch, I would play with her
hair and slowly pull it back away from her face. Needless to say, we began
having to re-watch a lot of movies.
I could just send a text that said, Come over NOW. Bring a hair tie. and
she would be there in her mind immediately.
A benign thing like a ponytail became an incredible sex symbol for us.
Ponytails arent even remotely naughty, but the meaning of ponytail had
become a sexually-charged stimulus for us.
The key here is that the stimulus was simple and clear.
A ponytail was our Pavlovs bell.
We eventually broke up but have kept in touch. She tells me that, to this
day, she thinks of me when she pulls her hair back. And, she says, that no
one else has ever found a way to make her so horny with something so
simple.
Success! Everybody wins!
Ok. So now I want you to be a sex scientist. First, I will need you to
understand exactly how conditioning works.
Lets use my ponytail example from above.
Before Conditioning Period: pulling her hair back into a ponytail = no
response
During Conditioning Period: pulling her hair back into a ponytail +
blowjob (and later sex/oral sex for her) = orgasmic bliss for both of us

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After Conditioning Period: Pulling her hair back into a ponytail without a
blow job = anticipation and desire for orgasmic bliss

Step 1: Find Your Bell

You need to decide what object or action you want to use as your bell
with sex.
Some ideas to consider:
A certain cologne. I have a friend who has a fuck me cologne. His
girlfriend absolutely loves when he wears it. Theyve been together for a
while and have two young kids, so they began planning their sex dates. He
made it a ritual to only wear this cologne on the days when they have their
sex date planned. It became a really erotic reminder, whenever she got
near him during the day, of what they had planned for later.
Playing a certain Pandora/Spotify Station or the same song. I have a
Sexy Yum Spotify station that I always play during sex. My girlfriend
told me that once she was out and about running errands and heard a song
from the station and felt her panties get instantly wet. That makes me
happy.
Make an aphrodisiac drink. My friend bought a tea that was supposed to
increase libido and enhance orgasm. He would set the mugs on the dresser
by the nightstand and he and his girlfriend would drink it before sex. Soon
just seeing a mug on the dresser would turn her on.
Light a candle or burn some incense. I had a friend who used to joke about
this Venice Beach hippie she was dating. He would always have Nag
Champa burning in his little studio apartment. The sex was great, but they
didnt last. However, even today (years later) she told me she cant go into
any little hippie store without getting horny and wanting to flirt with the
sales guy if Nag Champa is wafting in the air.
Coconut oil. Coconut oil is a great moisturizer and natural lubricant. A
friend of mine started using it with his girlfriend and she loved it. Soon it
became code for "I'm horny." He would put the jar on the nightstand and

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would wait to see how long it would take her to notice and then jump his
bones.
Think of a habit, toy, or fetish you or your partner already use during sex.
Fetishes and toys are perfect for this type of conditioning. And, if she
already associates it with sex, you are even further along in the
conditioning.
Grab a journal and jot down some ideas. Its okay to try out one or two
ideas to see what you are most comfortable with before you move on to
step two.

Step 2: Use The Item

Once youve decided on the item you want to use as your bell, you need
to plan and remember to consistently and intentionally use the item.
Simple as that. Use the item during sex.
Lets continue outlining these steps, assuming you choose to use coconut
oil as your bell item.

Step 3: Use It Some More

The next few times you plan to initiate sex, use the coconut oil. Step three
can last a few weeks or longer depending on the frequency with which you
have sex.

Step 4: Test Her Response

After a few times using the coconut oil, test whether shes begun
associating the item with sex. Pull the coconut oil out and begin to rub it
on your body like lotion. Maybe mention that your skin has been feeling
really dry lately and you need to moisturize it. See what she does.
Does her attention perk up? Does she smile at you teasingly and offer to
rub some on your back? Does she begin to hint or flat out ask for sex? If

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the answer to any of those is yes, then the conditioning has begun to take
hold.
If the answer to this question is no, DO NOT WORRY. Remember, this
technique is one that takes time to develop. So just continue working Step
3. Every so often test her response to the item outside of sex.

Step 5: Tease
After the conditioning has been cemented in her brain, you can begin to
tease and toy with her.
For example, if you see a coconut candle in a store, you can simply ask
her to give it a whiff and see if she gives you that knowing hungry look.
You could casually leave a jar of it lying on the bed when you leave for a
guys night out so she sees it, but you arent there. Or, if you meet up for
dinner one night, you could ask the waiter if they use coconut oil to fry
their vegetables and watch her squirm in her seat because she cant wait to
get you out of that restaurant and into her bed!

Frequently asked questions:

How many times will I need to use my item during/before sex before she
gets conditioned?
That depends on how close she is paying attention. It might be a few
times, it might be many. Just stay consistent with it over time, and every
so often, try out Step 4 to see if she responds to the item when you show it
to her outside of sex.
Should I call her attention to the item/signal?
Not directly. I wouldnt say, When you see this coconut oil that means
we are going to have sex right off the bat. But you could casually
mention things like, I love the smell of coconut oil on your skin. That
could be enough to trigger her to begin to associate the oil with sex.
What if she notices Im always using this item/signal with sex?

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Chances are she wont. However, if she does catch on to what you are
doing, just stay cool and play along.
If she says, Hey, Ive noticed that every time we have sex lately, you are
playing that song. Whats up with that?
You can casually say, Oh really? I hadnt noticed. Maybe thats our
song... or turn the question back on her: You noticed that song, huh? Do
you like it? There really is no wrong way to respond. If she notices the
pattern, that just means that she is paying attention and shes already
associating the song with sex. Which is good! The point is to remain
playful and confident.
What if I forgot to use my item during sex?
Thats okay! Dont stress about it if you guys get spontaneous and you
forget your bell. You can just use it the next time you have sex.
Remember, this technique is one that takes time to develop, so a couple of
times without it wont matter.