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Eye-Gazing Bonding Technique

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Eye-Gazing Bonding Technique

We have already talked about eye-gazing during orgasm. It feels fucking

amazing. And it's an incredibly powerful technique for connection
building.
However, if you really want to go deep, I recommend you try my 4Minute Eye-Gazing Technique.
Eye-gazing is a Tantric practice that is said to help us go beyond a
persons physical self and our preconceived ideas about who the other
person is. Eye-gazing truly gives us an opportunity to see into anothers
depth of being.
People have reported being flooded with feelings of empathy, compassion,
bonding, love, oneness, euphoria, openness, well-being, vulnerability,
truly perceived, deeply understood, etc. when eye-gazing.
Quite a powerful cocktail for developing a deeper bond! (See my segment
on oxytocin.)
When I was a novice and just starting to figure all this out, I tried this
technique with a girl that I had just begun dating. We both felt closer and
more connected afterwards, but she fell in love HARD. So be careful
who you try this with!
You are going to give them an experience that is unlike any experience
they have ever had before, and they will develop a strong association with
you being the source of the wonderfully intense feelings with which they
will be flooded.

Step 1: Get Her On Board

Ask her if she would like to try this thing you read about called The 4Minute Eye-Gaze, which is supposed deepen the connection between two
people.

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Or, perhaps, you guys have already tried it with orgasming, in which case,
you could just say something like, You know how we make eye contact
when we orgasm and it feels so good? Why dont we try sitting across
from one another for 4 minutes and eye-gaze? I read that 4 minutes is the
magic number for creating a deeper feeling of connection. What do you
think?

Step 2: Get Comfortable

Its really important that the two of you be comfortable when using this
technique. You can sit in chairs across from each other, but I prefer sitting
cross-legged on the floor or bed. That way you can also be in contact by
touching each others knees or holding hands. If sitting cross-legged is
uncomfortable for you, stack some blankets or pillows underneath you.
That usually helps, especially if you have tight hamstrings.
You'll probably notice that you are both feeling a mixture of nerves and
excitement by doing this exercise. Perhaps even a bit uncertainty about
what is going to happen but looking forward to connecting with each
other.
Take a minute to let all that settle down a bit.
Have a timer set and ready nearby so that when youre ready to begin,
you can quickly reach for it and hit start.

Step 3: Breathe
Now that you are both comfortably situated, close your eyes and take a
few deep breaths together. Use my 3-step-trance technique to put you both
in a light trance.

Once you've done this, open your eyes again.

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Step 4: Eye Gaze

Grab your timer and hit start and begin gazing into one anothers eyes.
You will probably find that your eyes want to dart back and forth from one
eye to another.
Thats OK and normal.
But you may want to settle down and choose one eye to focus on for a
while, and then maybe switch to the other. Keep your gaze soft and
relaxed. This is not a staring contest.
Notice what is happening in your body without judgment and allow
whatever sensations or feelings that are coming up to flow like the waves
of an ocean; they will come and they will go.
You may notice various shapes or colors changing when it comes to your
vision of the other person.
Her face may begin to melt and change as if you both took a hit of LSD.
This is all normal and you should just let it be and dont get overly
focused on it.

Step 5: Share your insights

Afterward, discuss your experience with her. How did it feel to be seen?
How was it to look deeply into one anothers souls? What feelings came
up? Did your faces change? Are your hearts more open? Do you feel
closer and more connected?
Feel free to do this with each other as often or as little as you like. Ive
found, however, that making it a regular practice can really help keep the
relationship on track and help both people maintain a feeling of relaxation
and safety.