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Another important factor that contributes to how much of a man someone is, is how much
emotion they express or feel. Growing up, boys hear the phrases boys dont cry,be a man or
dont be a sissy all the time. This sends an indirect message that whatever boys feel is invalid,
and if they want to be manly or masculine they cannot show emotion, for that is too girly. In
Being a Man Paul Theroux asserts : Even the expression Be a man! strikes me as insulting
and abusive. It means : Be stupid, be unfeeling, obedient, soldierly and stop thinking. (568).
This concept is an exceptionally dangerous concept to be teaching young boys because it
implies that being insensitive and unfeeling is a norm that should be accepted. It damages the
fragile masculinity because showing emotion is not what societys ideal man does.However, this
should not be something that young boys think is normal because it can cause further damage
in the future.
The way we can avoid this issue is stop defining masculinity and femininity. Even in school, it
is extremely important to stop creating boys and girls sports teams. It is important to stop
constantly implying that all boys and all girls have the same interests and hobbies simply based
on what gender he/she identifies with. It is important to stop gendering everyday items in stores.
So what can stop this issue of making masculinity so fragile, is telling teachers and parents to
stop implying certain ideas on kids based on gender. It is telling sport coaches to not create
teams based on gender. It is important to question commercials, ads, the media. It is important
to question why stores have bold labels gendering items. It is important to stop applying idealic
definitions.
Time
35 minutes
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