Gay Marriage: The New Choice for a New Generation

Daliya Salih
5th period
PIG - Mr. Spoth

Society is facing a lot of changes and lot of problems which results the world to become
harder and more complicated for some people, Gay Marriage is one of the most biggest problem
that the world is facing currently because things are out of control after a few countries gave
them rights, which then made them stronger. This problem is sympathetic because they got
people's attention emotionally when the people who want the gay marriage to happen said
Marriage is about love .
Gay Marriage started back in the 1970s to excise in some of the states, the supreme court had
three cases brought by same-sex couples. Richard Baker and James Michael McConnell, were
denied a marriage license they were the first same-sex couple, the court did not agree to that
request at the Minnesota Supreme Court, but here when the people start having an ideas about
same-sex marriage, many of them become interested even though they don't know how did that
start. Being Gay is something that deals with a persons hormones which means that he/she
born with mixed hormones, and this what is the same-sex people argue with and state..
Other people started thinking about it as an interesting thing which they don't know these
people with mixed hormones trying to find a way to be one normal person.
There are many reasons for someone to become gay, for example is mental problems a man who
like the idea of how the girls dress and talk and the other things that might sound interesting and
different for that person. Second reason is community life.Another example, if a man lived
only with girls and is not raised with his dad or brothers then he would take the actions and
moves from his mother or any of the girls who live in the house and that reason have big effect
on that person because even though it's not on purpose that person would act automatically like a
girl and his hormones change as well. For the more it would be Congenital flaw. For instance,
when a person is born with mixed gender sex it called Deformation in the genitals and here

where the person choose what to be depending on the hormones, and that can cause a man for
example to have period and would like to be in a relationship with a man, or a girl be in love
with another girl because she is a mixed gender and that can give the other people an image
about how it would be like with someone with the same-sex as you, and that how the idea came
to the people it wasn't really normal situation at the beginning where the law did not agree and
not even other people but then they start believing in it because many people started to make
other people to agree with them.
The reason why it got bigger because some countries start giving the same-sex couples
the rights and benefits like any other people, lot of agreements and disagreements that people had
for the past years about gay marriage even though it started long ago but people were fighting
over what they need to see. The first country who allowed same-sex people to marry is Holand
and that was in 2001, which allowed them by law to get married. They are other countries who
allowed same-sex people to marry are Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway, Sweden,
Denmark, Portugal Uruguay, Brazil, France, Britain, Argentina and some states of Mexico, last
but not least America. For being more united with people they made for themselves a flag with
rainbow colors to send a message about peace and happiness.

Around 49%of people in the U.S.A believe and agree that being gay is normal and it's a
choice that person can take no future effects or any reason that stop them from doing what they
want ,and by personal experience asked people about how they feel about gay marriage law that
happened few months ago and, most of the people were talking emotionally about how they just
don't care as long as these two people are people happy and knows what theyre doing, some say
that marriage is about being with a person who you love and be comfortable with and not to
follow what life style has been going like before and what is this means that just because we

born and known that the woman can marry only a man and man only with woman we can't stuck
up with this idea forever, but people decided to look at love in different way because and be
more open and more into it .
Basic love is not a big deal anymore and people love to see change around the world.
Many people agree on the gay marriage because they were thinking with their heart not with
their minds, they were too emotional about the cause, all they want is for love to win. In
January 8th, I tasked Dareona Groomes to give me her opinion about gay marriage and she said
I agree and have no problem seeing gay people marry it actually great as long as these people are
happy and choose each other based on love, also I asked Miracle Dejarnette to give me her
opinion as well and she said i dont have problem with them and if my friend is gay and he/she
got married I would like to go and support because its all about love and being with a person
that you choose and feel happy with. People who agree on this it's the people who don't care
what these people doing, if it was wrong or right, but all what they care about is the Happy
End that everyone what to have or Love Always Win.
People who support gay marriage they prove to others that people have the right to be
themselves and act the way they want as long as it's keeping them happy, no religions or laws
can stop them from what they want or even people opinions or believers. Reasons why dose
people support gay marriage because of the following main points, first of all is EQUALITY
and that means that there is no different between gay and normal person we all are human and
we all breath the same air. Second reason is, LOVE, when a person can't control their feelings
and let their heart choose the person that they want be happy with and comfortable. Third of all
LEGAL RIGHTS it's not fair to stop two lovers from each other just because they are not right
to be together, it is a person right to do what makes them happy no law should stop them or not

allowed them to be together. Fourth of all HARMLESS its got no danger or does not affect
anyone else's life as long as these people want to be as they want. Fifth of all WE ARE WHO
WE ARE something not to be ashamed off because that's who you really are and that what you
want to be and believe it's the right thing to do. Last but not least HUMAN RIGHTS which
means a person can have the right of being whatever they want and act they way they like no one
should judge them because everyone is responsible about themselves.
Around 51% of people who don't want the supreme court to allow same-sex marriage.
because love, equality,fair, human rights are words that are used in the wrong way and affect
people who do not know how to protect them life and be successful and special not different in
wrong way. Also human right not a good reasons to let people do whatever they want. For
example, we could use these reasons to hurt our own body and call it human rights, it's just not
fair either because these couple would eventually have a baby and and this baby can happen
without man and woman genes so even if two people marry from. The same-sex they need the
other sex gens and this child would rise differently by having two mothers or two fathers. Every
child deserve a family a mother who can give love and care, and a father who a child can lean
on and feel safe with and who can teach him how to be a good and successful person. People not
only disagreeing because of their beliefs or religions it's also because it is a health problem too.
Having kids by same-sex parents would be more hard on the child to accept later on, because
same gender of people would make that child to feel a missing part is his/her life.
I interviewed Bedoor Mahmood on December,22,2015, and I asked her about her opinion
and she said, I don't have any problem with gay people but also I wouldn't let my daughter or
son to be like them because I would like to see my daughter with a man who can be protect her

and be her back and also rise normal kids with no issues and also i like to see my son with
beautiful wife that can love him and take care of him and give him what he would ever wish.
All religions do not allow people from the same-sex to marry because all religions say
that man should marry a woman. For example, Adam and Eve the father and mother of all
humans they married then, all of us came to life. Also, in all religions they say that man should
support the family like, raising them up in good way and make them feel safe and strong and
also be there with them when they needed it and what the woman should do like pregnancy and
taken care of her kids, feed them, giving them the love they want. Even animals mate male and
female and that's the proper way to have healthy life. People need to realize that there is no such
a thing as love same-sex love, because you can not feed yourself from your own body which
means that you can not be with someone that same as you and that would lead the relationship to
nowhere. Religious people are more strict because they believe that men are meant for woman
and that's the only way to have more people in this world.
I also interviewed Khalid Ibrahim, December/ 23/ 2015, and said no matter how strong
the woman is or smart she will always need a man to complete her, and same goes to men, no
matter how soft he can get he would still called a man and he born a man for a reason. Thats his
responsibility to be strong and not change himself or herself to be something else, love yourself
and also be yourself. Many and many of people who had the same answers and opinion about
the gay marriage and all of them believe that a person born man or woman for a reason and they
shouldn't change themselves to be something that they think it's the right thing for them. It is a
bad image to these children to see people like that because the world need a man to fight for and
a woman to be here and give the support to her man or family. People actually have no point by

supporting the gay marriage because they are too emotional and they give them opinions by
using them heart not mind and they don't think of the consequences of this marriage.
I believe that the world getting worse everyday with these new ideas that the world
coming up everyday. Gay marriage one of the biggest issue that the world is now facing. because
it's getting unsafe and also different from how it was before. I disagree with homosexual
marriage because by misunderstanding one person had lead half of the world turn up the same
and what I meant by misunderstanding is because it all started when that one person was born
with mixed hormones and that's why he was a man with girl hormones, that means he did not
chose to be the way he is, he was born in that type and he fixed it later on, but people took the
idea to another level where they have rights now to marry each other. Marriage itself is
something of religion and most religions in the world have made it mandatory that human should
be sexually,physically and mentally involved with the opposite gender, and i agree that is the
right thing to do because having a religion is same as having a message that people should
follow. Now for these people who agree I think they should use them mind not heart because
30% of the people agree they support the gay marriage but they don't want them kids to be like
them or even have any type of relating with them and that showing me that they use them
emotional side which that made the homosexal people to marry and adopt a kid, and have a
normal life, which that can't happen because i agree that every kid need a mother and a father
and there is no such a thing in my opinion that a girl fall in love with a girl because that's not
how it was years ago before that sickness happened.

Every man deserve a woman and that's what i believe, love, equality and etc can't be
possible reasons to change a human to be someone else, people should accept the way they are
and just be normal, and by giving these gay people rights it would just make them larger and

larger everyday and then the world would finally realize what the reason of man should marry a
woman, and also we can't be equal because normal people would have more natural healthy
lifestyle other than homo people who have no point by being with each other even though it is a
human right to do whatever they want but it's fact that after this issue the people would get
consequences for that, and they think it's harmless which is not true because all the people would
see these people and also learn from it and change these people's mind about it, which going to
lead it for later on as normal thing to see. Gay marriage and normal marriage are big different
from each other and thats the reason why they can't be equal because it's like fitting the Circle
in the square or for example did you ever saw an animal gay? even though they have same
development by having babies but naturally the male animal always go for the female animal
and that shows that even the animals without strong mind as human still can choose the right
thing.

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