well, you have to face all of the bad things about that. Your past story continue to grow up without you happily as what he want to be. With you or without you everything is going well because you worth nothing, you are replaceable, and you are far to meet his standard. Ok. We have to breath again after those bad times with no cheers these past days. The weirdest thing is you can easily forget it, for many times that you have believed could delete it, you only find yourself being mad and finding a lot of substitutes that could not replace him. Yes he get much better, i am not, for the same variable, yes i am not. I could not be grateful for what I have got here and now, i am growing up not for such kind of growth. I am growing up to more lenient, humble, and warmhearted self that help people much, waited everytime, stronger, but i have never realized and go on every single psychological depression about how worth am I to those people. Well, if the best love i can give to them is not enough. I am the loser in love, and that is ok, i decide to no more concern about loving. I will find something that can help me to be loved, to be waited, to be remembered from people who is purely seeing me as a respectable human.