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Katie Bell
Professor Jarvis
FHS 1400
February 24, 2016
Unit 3 Essay 2
Prototypes of Love
The concept of prototypes of love is discussed in our textbook. The assumption is that
all of us, whether formally or informally, have a list of what we are looking for in a mate. Make
of list of the 15 most important things you look for in a mate. Once you have completed the list,
put a start next to the five characteristics, traits or qualities that you believe are most important.
Explain why you identified those five as being the most important qualities in a mate.
What Im Looking for in a Partner:
1. Same religious beliefs and practices*
2. Same moral standards*
3. One who can make me laugh and smile
4. One who is trustworthy and honest
5. One who is committed and loyal
6. One who is deeply my best friend*
7. Same hobbies and interests
8. One who is caring and sympathetic
9. One who is creative and unexpected
10. One who fits well with my immediate family
11. One who can go through tough times well*
12. One who can communicate well
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to me so I would be looking for someone who cares just the same about families and children. I
dont think a relationship would work for me if my partner didnt want to have children.
All of the items on my list are important, but these five are a must have for my future
partner. Since these items are who I am, thats who I am looking for in a partner. I think having a
list of what you look for in a mate is important because it helps you to learn what and who you
would work best with in a relationship.
Works Cited
Strong, Bryan, and Theodore F. Cohen. The Marriage and Family Experience:
Intimate Relationships in a Changing Society. Print.