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Day 1
August 21st, 2015
Circle-Up
(10 mins)
Overview
Today you will learn:
What mediation is
Understanding conflict nature,
origins, responses
Principals of conflict resolution and
peacemaking
Communication skills
Six-step mediation process
Mediation practice
How the program will operate
(15 mins)
Ground Rules!
Show respect for others
Be a good listener
Honor differences
Cooperate and help one another
Questio
ns?
(15 mins)
Diana
Claudia
AlexanderBeverlyStephanie
Maria
Joaquin Fabian
IsabellaSandra Matilde
conflict
Understanding Conflict
In your group: Compare your responses
Look at the lists which items represent (+) and which
represent (-)? Why?
Look back at your worksheet add 2 (+) words, symbols,
phrases into the remaining boxes
Conflict Happens
Please write 2 or 3 examples of conflicts you have
experienced or noticed for each of the following settings!
Share with your group add your conflicts to the giant
paper!
Conflict
Conflict
Conflict
Conflict
Therefore
Conflict will happen; violence does not have to happen
It is not our choice whether or not to have conflict; but it is our choice
how we act!
Response to Conflict
Think about conflicts you have had with peers or adults
have you participated in any of the following responses
to conflict?
Responses to Conflict
Have you ever:
Responses to Conflict
Have you ever:
Responses to Conflict
Have you ever:
Outcomes
In your group: what are some possible outcomes of
unresolved conflicts? What about if people work together
toward conflict resolution?
Origins of Conflict
(50 mins)
Limited Resources
When resources are limited, conflicts may result.
Money, property, time
Example: two students want to use the same book for their
report.
Understanding
Peace (45mins)
Peacemaking
Peacemaking is honoring yourself, honoring others, and
honoring the environment. Peer mediators are
peacemakers who also have the skills to help others
make peace.
In your group: complete the Peace or Violence Worksheet
Peacemaking Pairs!
Pair 1
Pair 2
Juan Pablo
Pair 3
Claudia Diana
Maria
Joaquin Matilde
Pair 4
Pair 5
Pair 6
Stephanie BeverlyFabian
Alexander
Isabella Sandra
Peacemaking Exercise
Each pair should receive a Negotiation Simulation to roleplay!
DO NOT SHARE YOUR STORY WITH YOUR PARTNER!
Once you are finished answer the following questions:
Do you think you and your partner were making progress
toward solving the problem between you?
Do you think you and your partner were making no real
progress toward a solution or even making the problem
worse?
BREAK!!!
!!!!
10 Minutes
What is Communication?
Communication occurs when a listener heard and understands a speakers
essential thoughts and feelings. Often, conflicts continue because of poor
communication between people.
Communication Pitfalls
A peer mediator facilitates communication between disputants. The following are
ways that the peer mediator can shut down, rather than facilitate, communication:
Interrupt
Offer advice
Judge
Ridicule
Criticize
Distract
Bring up own experiences
Communication Couples!
1
JP
Fabian Maria
6
IsabellaBeverlyDiana
Active Listening
In order to help disputants communicate, the mediator
uses the following skills:
Attending
Summarizing
Clarifying
Active Listening
Attending means you are using nonverbal behaviors to show you
hear, that you are interested, and that you wish to understand.
Eye contact
Facial expressions
Gestures
Posture
Hum Uhm Uh-huh OK Wow
Leaning forward
Smiling
Nodding head
Ignoring distractions
Active Listening
Summarizing means you do two things: you restate facts by repeating
the most important points, organizing interests, and discarding extra
information. Also, you reflect on feelings about the conflict. It is very
important when summarizing to recognize feelings in the situation.
Role-Play (1 minute):
Student A talk to your partner for 1 minute about a recent conflict
Student B demonstrate attending behaviors. When time is called,
summarize facts and reflect feelings.
Switch!
Active Listening
Clarifying means using open-ended questions or statements to get
additional information and to make sure you understand.
Qualities of Mediator
(30 mins)
Qualities of Mediator
The peer mediator is impartial.
A mediator is neutral and objective, a person who does
not take sides.
Could you be impartial if you were having a problem
similar to the problem one of the disputants is having?
Could you be impartial if one of the disputants is your
best friend?
What other situations can you think of in which being
impartial would be challenging?
Qualities of Mediator
The peer mediator is an empathetic listener.
A mediator is skilled at listening with the intent of
understanding what each disputant thinks and feels.
The peer mediator is respectful.
A mediator is able to treat both parties with respect and
understanding, and without prejudice.
Tell me some assumptions about someone who would wear these
shoes?
Qualities of Mediator
The peer mediator is trustworthy.
A mediator builds the confidence and trust of the
disputants in the mediation process by keeping
information private. A mediator does not discuss the
problem with other peers. Also, a mediator allows the
disputants to solve their own problem
rather than
imposing his/her own favored solution.
TRUST SNAKE!!
Qualities of Mediator
Did the individuals with their eyes closed trust the person directing
them?
What might this experience have to do with maintaining privacy in a peer
mediation session?
Mediators should never tell any information from a session to any other
student!
Qualities of Mediator
The peer mediator helps people work together.
A mediator is responsible for the mediation process,
not the
solution to the problem. The solution to the
problem is the responsibility of the disputants. When the
disputants cooperate, they are able to find their own
solution.
We need 2 volunteers for this next demonstration!
Overview of Process
(30 mins)
Agree to Mediate
Gather Points of View
Focus on Interests
Create Win-Win
Options
5. Evaluate Options
6. Create an Agreement
Overview of Process
Preparing for Peer Mediation (forms)
We need 4 volunteers!
Peer Mediation
Process Summary
LUNCH!!!
!!!!
30 Minutes
Group 2
Claudia
Fabian
Alexander
Group 3
Diana
Matilde
Maria
Group 4
Joaquin
Isabella
Sandra
Beverly
Stephanie
1. Make introductions.
Introduce yourself! Hi! My name is ____ and I will be your mediator
Ask each disputant for his/her name
Welcome them to mediation
2. Define Mediation.
Use your own words!
BREAK!!!
!!!!
10 Minutes
(30
Closing Activity
(10 mins)
Day 2
August 22nd, 2015
Send a Letter
(10 mins)
Lets Review!
mins)
(15
Group 2
Claudia
Fabian
Alexander
Group 3
Diana
Matilde
Maria
Group 4
Joaquin
Isabella
Sandra
Beverly
Stephanie
(60
In this step, your goal is to search for interests that join both disputants.
Common or compatible interests serve as the building blocks for an
agreement. Do not move on to Step 4 until you know what their interests are.
1. Determine the interests of each disputant. Ask:
What do you want? Why do you want that?
Group 2
Matilde
Alexander
Isabella
Sandra
Joaquin
Diana
Stephanie
Beverly
Group 3
Fabian
Maria
JP
Claudia
(30
mins)
Many possible ideas exist for resolving a conflict. However, when we
are upset or frustrated, we often do not consider all of our options. In
this step, you will help disputants create, through brainstorming, a
number of options that could potentially solve their problem.
1. Explain that brainstorming will help find solutions that satisfy both
parties.
2. State the rules for brainstorming:
3. Tell disputants to try to think of ideas that will help both of them.
Write their ideas on the brainstorming worksheet.
Brainstorming Practice
In your group lets practice brain
storming!
On your sheet of paper draw a brick at
the top.
You will have 3 minutes to come up with
as many uses for a brick as you can!
Lets share
Brainstorming Practice
Using your Brainstorming Worksheet create 7 to 10 possible
options for resolving the conflict.
1. Two students are in conflict because one of them keeps cutting
into the lunch line.
2. Two students had a loud disagreement in class.
3. Two students were ready to fight in the cafeteria.
BREAK!!!
!!!!
10 Minutes
Your main task in this step is to help disputants evaluate and improve
on the ideas they created during brainstorming in Step 4. It is also
important that the disputants apply objective criteria when deciding
whether to keep or reject an option. This helps to ensure that they will
be able to reach an agreement that both are likely to honor.
LUNCH!!!
!!!!
30 Minutes
Co-Meditation Practice
In co-mediation, two mediators work as a team to
facilitate the mediation process. Co-mediators act as a
single mediator, managing the process while supporting
each other. In the co-mediation model, the team
members perform two responsibilities:
1. One member of the team actively facilitates the 6-step
process
2. The other member observes the process and supports their
teammate
Co-Meditation Practice
It also involves paying close attention to what is happening and
being prepared to help your teammate at all times. Often, someone
who is observing can more easily think of a question that might
help move the mediation toward a resolution because that person is
not thinking about what has to be done each step of the way.
Co-mediation works best when teammates share equally. One
member facilitates steps 1, 2, and 3 while the other observes; the
observer then facilitates 4, 5, and 6.
Who will facilitate 1,2,3 or 4,5,6?
How will the observer help the facilitator?
Co-Meditation Pairs
Choose someone who you have not yet worked with.
Once you have found your pair, team up with another
pair!
Set up your mediation space!
Mediation Simulation 7 - 10
Co-Meditation Pairs
Co-mediators will have 2-3 minutes to decide who will do
what.
You will have 15 minutes for each mediation session.
Co-Meditation Pairs
Find a new partner! Team up with a new pair!
Repeat the process!
BREAK!!!
!!!!
10 Minutes
Things to Remember
(60 mins)
Things to Remember
(60 mins)
Things to Remember
(60 mins)
Review
Lets review each form one last time
Peer Mediation Contract
Q & A!
Closing Activity