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Table of Contents
How to Overcome Any Fear using EFT.................................................................. 3
The Setup...........................................................................................................4
The 9 Gamut Procedure..................................................................................... 5
How to Let Go of an Emotional Trauma using TAT................................................. 8
What is TAT?....................................................................................................... 8
The TAT Pose..................................................................................................... 9
How to perform TAT............................................................................................ 9
The 10 Stages of Releasing Fear......................................................................... 12
How to Release Fears & Emotional Blocks Using EFT and TAT 2008 Ryan Randolph
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So if you have an extreme fear of flying, people may explain to you all the safety
precautions and statistics of airplanes, yet you still feel the fear. Its not until you clear
out your energy system that your fear goes away. It can take many years of retraining
your body using the traditional methods or a few minutes with EFT.
So how do you perform EFT?
There are four steps to EFT. Once they are memorized, a full run through can be
completed in about 1 minute.
1. The Setup
2. The Basic Recipe
3. The 9 Gamut Procedure
4. The Basic Recipe again
The Setup
The setup is used to properly orient your bodys energy system for healing.
Sometimes we experience Polarity Reversal, which is like a self-sabotage effect that
the ego creates with problems it doesnt know how to handle properly.
Through the use of the setup, we temporarily remove this polarity reversal long
enough for EFT to fix the disruption. This step is crucial to success because, in some
cases, the polarity reversal is so strong that nothing
will work unless the setup is done first.
To do the setup, simply rub your lymph area
on either side of your chest about 2 inches above
your nipple. This is known as the Sore Spot. You
will know you hit the right area when you feel a very
sensitive twinge.
While you are rubbing, you must say an
affirmation statement three times. Even though I
have this ________, I deeply and completely accept
myself. In the blank, you fill in the fear or problem
you are experiencing.
So for the fear of flying you would say, Even though I have this fear of flying, I
deeply and completely accept myself. Say this three times while rubbing the sore spot
and youve completed The Setup.
The Sequence
The sequence is the set of acupuncture points which you tap to balance your
energy system. Simply tap each point about 7 times with your index and middle finger.
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You can use either hand, though your dominant hand is preferable.
The list of points is as follows:
1. Eyebrow - Located just above the nose where the eyebrow starts, slightly to the
side.
2. Corner of the Eye - Located on the bone alongside the corner of the eye.
3. Under the Eye - Located an inch under the pupil.
4. Under the Nose - Located in the area between your nose and upper lip.
5. Under the Mouth - Located below your bottom lip and above your chin.
6. Collar Bone - Located where your collarbone and first rib meet. To find it,
locate the U shaped indentation at the top at the bottom of your throat (where a
man knots his tie), then move down 1 inch and to the side 1 inch.
7. Under the Arm - Located about 4 inches below the armpit.
8. Under the Nipple - Located about 1 inch below the nipple.
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9. Fingers - Located on the outside tip of each finger where the nail and the skin
meet.
10. Karate Chop - Located on the fleshy, outside part of the hand between the top of
the wrist and the bottom of the pinkie finger.
Tap all points in any order about seven times each (The under the nipple point
can be skipped for ladies in social situations). You can use either the right or left side
for any of the points.
Each time you tap you must say a reminder phrase. The reminder phrase is
a shortened version of the Setup affirmation. For the example we used above, the
reminder phrase is simply, fear of flying. So in this case we would simply say fear of
flying once for each point during the tapping. This reminds the body to fix its energy
system for that specific fear or issue.
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Sometimes after doing one round of EFT, the fear will be gone forever. Other
times you may need to do multiple rounds of EFT for the fear to subside. Also, there
may be various aspects that you need to get through before the fear is completely
gone.
For example, a person who is afraid of flying may need to do multiple rounds of
EFT like this:
The first round they can say Even though I have this fear of flying, I deeply
and completely accept myself for the setup, then do the sequence with the reminder
phrase fear of flying, then do the gamut, then the sequence again with the same
reminder phrase.
The second round they may do the exact same thing exact change the phrase
to fear of takeoff. For the third round, they can change it to fear of heights, or fear of
tight spaces and so on.
Many times our emotions get entangled with each other and what seems like
a simple fear of flying could actually be many fears that are triggered all at once. By
doing rounds of EFT on each aspect, you become closer and closer to completely
overcoming that fear.
I have personally used EFT hundreds of times on many things. Ive used it
before I gave business presentations, before I played in softball games, and even
when I was feeling nervous about surfing in big waves.
The results are so subtle and instantaneous that I often look back and think Was I
really afraid of that, no way. Its like I cant even relate to being afraid anymore. EFT
can also be used for
Pain or trauma
chronic illness
addictions
allergies
weight loss
anger
sports
How to Release Fears & Emotional Blocks Using EFT and TAT 2008 Ryan Randolph
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What is TAT?
TAT stands for Tapas Acupressure Technique and is the most powerful method
of releasing emotions from painful traumatic memories that I know of.
Its an easy process of holding a few acupressure points while going through
a series of statements that allow your mind and body to let go of trauma or negative
beliefs. It allows your body to dissipate negative emotions and leaves you with greater
energy, personal power, and inner peace.
To do TAT, find a quiet place where you can spend 10 minutes to yourself. I
usually do TAT before I go to sleep since it helps relax me and clear my head. Sit
down and hold the TAT pose.
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Now take your other hand and gently place the palm against the back of the
head with the thumb resting just above the hairline so that the palm cradles the skull.
Either hand can be in front or back. You can have your eyes open or closed.
You may also lie down if youd like.
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the people in these three parts.
Step 5 - Forgiveness Part 2: I forgive everyone who hurt me related to this
and wish them love, happiness and peace.
Step 5 - Forgiveness Part 3: I forgive everyone I blamed for this, including
God and myself.
Step 6 - Parts: All the parts of me that got something from this are healing
now. This heals the painbody or psychological reversal part of you which may
receive some benefit from the pain such as attention and sympathy.
Step 7 - Whatevers Left: Whatevers left about this is healing now.
Step 8 - Choosing: I choose ________. Fill in the blank with a statement of
how you want to feel or any positive outcome that you want. Make sure its
positive such as I choose to feel love towards my parents, and not I choose to
forget all the pain my parents caused me.
Step 9 - Integration: This healing is completely integrated now. Next, swap
hands so that the one in back is now in front and review this statement again.
Then put the fingers tips of each hand around each ear so that the thumb is
touching the bottom of the earlobe and the pinkie is touching the top of thr ear
with all the other fingers touching around the outer part of the ear and review
the statement again (As if you were cupping your ears with your finger tips).
Step 10 - Gratitude: Simply give thanks to God, life, source energy etc. for the
healing that has taken place.
You may feel dramatic shifts immediately or a more subtle shift within a few
days. You may feel like a weight has been lifted or you just feel happier or more
emotionally free.
This is the process of regaining that youthful joy of being a kid again. Feel free
to be creative with the wording. Say the words that feel best for your situation.
Also, during your first time doing TAT, do the pose and focus on this statement:
I deserve to live and I can accept love, help and healing.
I have personally used TAT, dozens of times to overcome many things in my life.
I like to focus on one trauma or limiting belief at a time and do it every night for about 5
days straight.
Ive done on things that I logically thought that I was beyond and Ive found that
its helped a lot since there was still a bit of pain buried deep within my psyche.
Throughout the day if anything comes up I may go into the TAT pose and
reaffirm the I choose statement from step 8 to refocus myself. Its a great way to
center yourself and refocus your energy. Try it on a painful event youve experienced
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in the past right now and see how it works for you.
For more info on TAT and various TAT products,
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safe and protected playing the victim role because you could easily blame someone
else for your doings.
Now that you are finally taking response-ability for shaping and creating your
own reality, it scares the hell out of you because if you try and fail, you have only
YOURSELF to blame.
3. Projection and Unsolicited advice
You are no longer on autopilot and are now aware of your problems. This
will cause you to see your problems in other people and to react negatively to other
people because the world is your mirror. You point a finger at them because they
remind you of the problems that you have inside of yourself that you still judge.
Point a finger at the world and three will point right back at you.
A lot of people at this stage will try and help people who are stuck at stage one
instead of realizing that the problem is internal. They want their problems to go away
but like most people try to fix the outside, thinking it will take care of the problem on
the inside.
I am needy and I see you are needy. I will try and help you even if you didnt
ask for it. I will try and convince myself that it is you that needs the help but really Im
trying to fix the mirror.
4. The world is my mirror
After trying to help everyone see their problems, trying to convince them that
you are right but being met with strong resistance, you begin to realize that you are
projecting your OWN insecurities and fears onto them.
You begin to understand that you arent trying to help your needy friend but
trying to get rid of the neediness inside of you.
Its no longer god his neediness is annoying. Its now, I hate his neediness
because it reminds me of my neediness, ohhh. It is an a-ha or satori moment when
you realize that the world is merely a reflection of yourself.
5. Awareness
You become aware of your problems and notice how often the issue floats to
the surface and how often you project it into the world. You are conscious and your
problems are no longer on autopilot.
An important part is to not judge but rather take the observer role and watch
your emotions and thoughts. Some people get scared and freak out when they
become aware of how often the problem surfaces. They think oh god, its worst then I
thought.
They get so scared and judge their problems so much so, that they regress
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back to the first stage of fear and denial. They simply werent ready to face the truth.
6. Compassion
After awareness is achieved, you no longer desire to hold onto your problems
and now you are ready to let go.
You run the compassion formula and begin to ask why did I create this
situation? How did I invite this into my life? and so on until you learn the lessons.
[The compassion formula is part of the Girlfriend Training Program. If you dont own
the GTP yet thats ok, you may use TAT in its place.]
If you are unable to cleanse and release and still feel angry, upset, emotional or
whatever, it simple means that you havent learned all the lessons involved. You can
numb it down out of frustration of but it would only give you temporary relief and will
resurface stronger.
You can try and avoid dealing with your problems but the universe will keep
sending you a lesson over and over until you finally wake up. At first the universe
sends you a soft little whisper in your ear that most of the time you will not hear or just
ignore. But the universe is persistent and will keep sending the message.
By the tenth time that you dont listen, the universe sends you something huge
that knocks you on your ass like your girlfriend cheating on you, your boss firing you,
going broke and so on.
There are times where you cant fully see all of the lessons involved in a
situation right away. At this point, I suggest writing down what you were working on and
just walk away from the problem for a couple of days. What happens is your mind will
continue to work on the problem even if you arent consciously thinking about it.
This is similar to what they teach in schools on how to take tests. They say if
you are having trouble with problem one, leave it and come back to it once you have
gone through the rest of the test. Your brain will find the solution and just needs time to
work on it.
A very important part of compassion is I accept full response-ability for creating
my reality. If you cant accept full response-ability for creating everything in the
situation and play the victim role, you will be unable to have full compassion and learn
all of the lessons.
I have a couple of guide lines or things I like to keep in mind when I am doing
the compassion formula.
A) If anything bothers me, makes me angry, stings my ego or whatever-its time
to do compassion.
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Many times we will just let things go and sweep them under the carpet
instead of dealing with them.
Not with me. I get excited when something bothers me because it gives me an
opportunity to learn and grow by doing the compassion formula.
B) If I am unable to accept full response-ability for creating my reality, which is
essential for compassion, find out what you will lose and what you have to let
go of by having compassion?
When you do the compassion formula there are things that you have to
let go of that you might not want to part with. There are certain things that you
gain from not accepting your role in creating your reality so you put up sort of a
road block to prevent yourself from having compassion.
For example, my girlfriend overheard her mother talking badly about
her when she was in the next room over and listened to the entire thing. I
was running the compassion formula and asking her why she didnt just go
into another room where she couldnt hear her mother talking badly about
her. She was kind of stuck so I asked her what she gains from NOT having
compassion?
She was a bit confused but I explained to her that there are things that
you get out of NOT having compassion. You get to enjoy anger, revenge on
your mother, self righteousness, poor me energy, drama, excitement and so
on.
She was resisting accepting full response-ability and put up a wall in
order to not let go of these things these energies.
So if you find yourself stuck stop and ask yourself what do I have to let
go of if I have compassion?
C) Everyones world is right
I only date bisexual women who will hunt for new girlfriends. I train
women. I only do polarized relationships where I am dominate and the women
is submissive. I dont clean dishes ever. I just get up and walk away when I am
done eating.
This is the way that I live my life and I believe that there is nothing wrong
with it - My world is right. Other people may disagree and think that the way I
live is wrong but I know my world is RIGHT.
In order to have compassion, you must first understand them. In order to
understand someone you must assume that the way they live their life is right.
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What prevents most people from understanding and completely seeing
where the other person is coming from is them imposing their own judgments
and views onto the other person. They project what they would do and how they
would act and what is right or wrong onto the other person.
This is why religious people cant have true compassion. The second that
they try and understand a drug addict, rapist, whore or anyone they judge them
so much and project their views onto other people. They dont even come close
to touching compassion.
Assume that a rapist, killer, whore, drug addict or anyones world is right
in the way that they do things. Know that the behaviors that they have, the
thoughts they think and the beliefs they hold are right for them, otherwise they
wouldnt be doing it.
7. Prescribing the symptom
So you have run the compassion formula but still the problem lingers. At this
point it is smart to prescribe the symptom.
Everything is energy and we play with certain energies to learn deeper lessons,
even if they are dark energies.
To prescribe the symptom you take your problem and actively, purposefully, do
the problem, fully engage in the problem.
If you have a problem with neediness, you actively become needy in order to
learn the lessons. You dont fight being needy or deny that part of you, you simply bring
full awareness into being needy.
This works extremely well for releasing the stuck energies like neediness, anger,
sadness and so on because you are no longer repressing the emotions that you feel,
which allows them to flow through you. Repression is a sin.
Continue to prescribe the symptom until it is no longer serves you.
8. Cleansing
When you run the compassion formula and you have learned ALL of the lessons
involved, you almost instantly release the anger, guilt, shame or whatever fear based
emotion that you were feeling at the time.
But there are still energtic junk that is stuck inside of you that is clogging up
your chakras. When we get yelled at, energy vamped, cheated on, lied to, feel anger
and so on, these emotions get absorbed into us like a sponge. Its like emotional
residue that needs to be cleaned out through scooping and bubbling the bad emotions,
situations, experiences.
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Most people skip over this part because they dont understand how much
stuck energy has an affect them. When you dont shower for a while you can tell that
you are dirty since you can clearly see the dirt. Though with bad experiences, energy
vamping, anger, depression and so on, you cant see visibly see it yet its definitely
there.
Here is a real quick, simple cleansing technique:
Imagine yourself meditating by a river in a very calm relaxed manner. Take
the bad experiences, stress, guilt or any other unwanted fear based emotions or
experiences and scoop them out by imagining etheric white hands going into your
solar plexus and then sending it down a river. Imagine the river as white light that
dissolves anything.
When you are doing this, a lot of other experiences will float to surface that you
havent thought of in years such as repressed memories. Just continue to scoop those
memories out and send them down the river.
9. Surfacing
When you do the master cleanse and clear out all the bad foods that you
have eaten over the years, you will have an incredible, intense desire for these junk
foods. All of the bad foods are coming to the surface and you crave it big time. This is
the same with clearing out stuck, negative energy and emotions.
As you release certain stuck energies, the pain that has been numbed down
in the past rises to the surface and you experience it as intensely or stronger than
when it first happened. You will feel as depressed, as angry, as sad as you initially did.
These will result in very dark nights of the soul.
If you fight your emotions and thoughts it will only serve to make them stronger.
At which point the emotions will become too much for you to handle and it will force
you to numb them down and start all over again.
Instead of saying I hate feeling depressed for no reason, feel it fully. It will
pass through you quicker if you dont fight it and allow it to be just like when you are
prescribing the symptom.
Become the observer and watch this whole process go down inside of you.
Watch your emotions go crazy and simply observe.
The meditators life is one of a schizophrenic going from periods of Zen,
nothing can touch me to feeling depressed, needy, scared. It is truly beautiful life to life
and a chaotic one as well.
10. Release
You finally let go of of your fear based emotions and feel thirty pounds lighter.
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Final Stage: Repeat
Then you get to repeat the process all over and peel another layer off. Know
that one layer peeled back will lead to another layer that is wanting to be released. You
will repeat the process many many times because there is tons of stuck energy and
repressed emotions dwelling beneath the surface just waiting to let go.
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