Documenti di Didattica
Documenti di Professioni
Documenti di Cultura
NETP E
PN
UD
BE
LN
I CTA S
TT
IO
NA
I VTEI R
Y FA T
T HBEU U
FF
E T1 B
9U
50
I NED
UN
D EO
NFT TPH
UEB LUI C
OSNI T O
NA
I VLEOR,S S
I TI N
Y CA
FFALO, SINCE 1950
ubspectrum.com
Volume 65 No. 45
ISSUE
ISSUE
PROFESSIONAL SEX
A UB students story in porn and escorting
BY TOM DINKI
EDITOR IN CHIEF
PAGE
Almost 30 percent of UB
students have needed
Plan B
PAGE
PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS BY
YUSONG SHI, KENNETH CRUZ , THE SPECTRUM
COVER DESIGN BY
KENNETH CRUZ, PIERCE STRUDLER THE SPECTRUM
ADVERTISEMENTS
THE SPECTRUM
3
LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
Editorial Board
EDITOR IN CHIEF
Tom Dinki
MANAGING EDITORS
Alyssa McClure
Gabriela Julia
COPY EDITORS
Rene Staples
Saqib Hossain
NEWS EDITORS
Joshua Bodah
Michael Perlman
CREATIVE DIRECTORS
Kenneth Cruz
Pierce Strudler
Professional Staff
OFFICE ADMINISTRATOR
TOM DINKI
EDITOR IN CHIEF
Helene Polley
ADVERTISING MANAGERS
Nicole Dominguez
Lee Stoeckel, Asst.
Evan Pantofel Asst.
ADVERTISING DESIGNER
Derek Hosken
THE SPECTRUM
Monday, February 8, 2016
Volume 65 Number 45
Circulation 4,000
The views expressed both written and
graphic in the Feedback, Opinion and
Perspectives sections of The Spectrum do
not necessarily reflect the views of the
editorial board. Submit contributions for
these pages to The Spectrum office at Suite
132 Student Union or news@ubspectrum.com. The Spectrum reserves the right
to edit these pieces for style and length.
If a letter is not meant for publication,
please mark it as such. All submissions
must include the authors name, daytime
phone number, and email address.
For information on adverstising with The
Spectrum, visit www.ubspectrum.com/advertising or call us directly at 716-645-2152
The Spectrum offices are located in
132 Student Union,
UB North Campus, Buffalo, NY 142602100
picnic area.
Crossroads
Culinary Center (C3)
C3 is the perfect place to go to
embrace your inner-romantic on a
budget. Here, you enjoy the dining
centers all-you-can-eat dining services with the swipe of a meal.
The dining center has a wide range
of dining options including vegan,
vegetarian and gluten-free meals if
you and your partner happen to be
health conscious. Although the center tends to be rather crowded, you
can still have an intimate date.
Baldy Walkway
Baldy Walkway is the perfect
lobby for deep conversation. Grab
a cup of coffee from Tim Hortons located at the front of the
caf and get to know your partner.
No need to be concerned
with numbers
Why should it matter how many people youve slept with?
ADVERTISEMENTS
THE SPECTRUM
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY
KAINAN GUO, THE SPECTRUM
Now theres an app with a similar namesake and for people looking to swipe right
in a perhaps more adventurous and unconventional way: 3nder.
3nder, pronounced thrinder, is a London-based dating app for people looking
to find two other partners for a threesome
or couples looking to spice up their sexual fantasies. Users must verify their likeness
through Facebook but can give themselves
a fake name for privacy if they so desire.
Since the apps launch in 2014, nearly 1 million users have downloaded the app with 1.2
million messages sent per month and 4 million swipes logged, according to the New York
Post. The app recently received an anonymous
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
nothin
but a
number?
MANAGING EDITOR
During the summer of 2015, Allison Demarco* stumbled upon a sugar daddy in a
Staten Island pizzeria.
A sugar daddy is an older man with money who gives expensive gifts to a younger person. Sometimes, these gifts are in exchange for sexual favors.
For a younger woman, a relationship with
an older man sometimes allows her to experience more, not only sexually but financially.
Shopping sprees, new cars and expensive
dinners are usually not in a college males budget, making it exciting for a woman to explore
that other side, whether its for one night or
for a long period of time, Rencsak said.
As Demarco ordered her slice of pizza,
her soon-to-be sugar daddy stared at her,
making it clear he was interested. After they
exchanged numbers, Demarco thought to
Bouncing Back
MOSAIC
Peaceful Minds
ADVERTISEMENTS
THE SPECTRUM
Limited
spaces
remaining
for Fall 2016!
On-campus leasing
office now open!
UB COMMONS SUITE 116
UNIVERSITY VILLAGE AT SWEETHOME
SAVE $100 WITH ZERO DEPOSIT
VILLAS ON RENSCH
AMERICANCAMPUS.COM
FORMERLY BUFFALOSTUDENTHOUSING.COM
AMERICANCAMPUS.COM
Amenities subject to change. While supplies last. See office for details.
SEX ISSUE
WHATS
YOUR
STORY?
Spectrum editors
anonymously share their most
embarrassing sex stories
THE SPECTRUM
THE BACK-UP
PLAN
Almost 30 percent of UB students
say they or their partner have taken
morning-after pill
BRIAN WINDSCHITL
SENIOR ARTS EDITOR
used contraceptives.
Up to 11 percent of sexually active women
ages 15-44 have taken the morning-after pill
at least once, according to the first-ever federal study on emergency contraception, which
collected data from 2006-10. The pill has become more accessible in recent years, as the
U.S. Food and Drug Administration lifted the
18-and-up age restriction for purchase of the
Plan B One-Step pill in 2013. Since then, the
pill has been available for over-the-counter
sale without any restrictions other than what
some might consider a hefty price tag.
The average price of the morning-after
pill, depending on your insurance, will run
between $35-65 at your local pharmacy. Michael Hall, located on South Campus, offers
emergency contraceptives to students.
Plan B, when taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex, is 89 percent effective at preventing pregnancy, according to Planned Parenthood. This, compared to the estimated
91 percent success rate for oral contraception and estimated 98 percent effectiveness
for condoms, makes the Plan B pill the least
overall effective form of contraception.
Still, in both national and school-wide
surveys, the statistics place the morning-after pill in the top three most popular forms
of birth control for women.
Yet, despite the widespread usage, the
The Plan B pill is one of the most popular contraceptives on the market right now. Despite
its popularity among women, the day-after pill is still weighed down by negative stigmas and
expensive pricing. Many sexoligists and womens rights advocates agree that the pill is not
only the safest alternative, its also the most mature choice.
SEX ISSUE
SEX
THE SPECTRUM
SURVEY
FEMALE: 52%
{ {
IDENTIFY
AS LGBT?
YES
YOUNGER
THAN 12
2%
8%
12-14
44%
15-17
NO
32%
18-20
15% 85%
21-23
3%
24 OR OLDER 0%
NOT SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
11%
2-4
5-10
45%
44%
11%
13%
6%
YES
NO
EVERY DAY
3%
NOT
SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
EVERY TIME
30
29%
MULTIPLE TIMES
A WEEK
18%
34%
24%
11%
7%
11%
13%
11-20 21-30
NOT
SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
MORE THAN
ONCE EVERY
FEW MONTHS
19%
18%
ONCE EVERY
FEW MONTHS
MOST TIMES
ONLY SOME TIMES
RARELY
NEVER
NOT SEXUALLY ACTIVE
18 11
YES
%
NEVER
IN A
%BEEN
RELATIONSHIP
71
NO
%
{ {
{ {
{ {
HAVE YOU EVER USED A
DATING APP TO HOOK UP OR
HAVE SEX?
24% YES
NO
67%
9%
NOT
SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
52% YES
NO
38%
10%
NOT
SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
24% YES
NO
66%
10%
NOT
SEXUALLY
ACTIVE
10
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
ELLIOTT VANCE
he works as an escort.
Elliott knows participating in this article
with his performer name and face included may mean hell never be able to bury
his past as a sex worker in the future. He
doesnt think hell ever want to, though.
Hes content with his decision and is happy with his choice regardless of whether or
not its deemed acceptable by the majority
of people.
I think really with this generation, were
doing what were told to do, Elliott said.
Youre gonna have that realization that you
know what, Ive done what everyone wanted me to do, Im gonna do what I wanna
do. But unfortunately many people have
that too late in life. I consider myself fortunate.
BECOMING ELLIOTT VANCE
You wouldnt know Elliott was a sex
worker if you walked past him on campus.
Elliott Vance, as he most commonly goes by with acquaintances and in the sex industry, is a
UB student, male escort and formerly an adult film performer. He supports himself financially
through escorting as he earns his biology degree and doesnt feel escorting and porn should
be stigmatized.
ELLIOTT VANCE
He has the attire typical of a college student: Abercrombie and Fitch jacket, jeans,
along with a trendy man bun and septum
piercing. Hell pick up lunch from the Subway in The Commons on campus and lament the chocolate chip cookie he shouldnt
be eating.
He doesnt go around with a large crowd
either. His friend circle doesnt include his
classmates at UB. Nothing against them, he
says, hes just at the point in his life wheres
YUSONG SHI, THE SPECTRUM
Elliott keeps a low profile on campus you wouldnt know hes a sex worker
if you walked past him.
11
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
Elliott balances his courseload as a senior biology major with sex work - though he says
school comes first during the semester.
PrEP can significantly reduce the risk of infection, Warren said. And that is a huge
step forward.
Warren said its estimated there is in excess of 50,000 people taking oral PrEP in
the world, which he admits is not a huge
number, but he also said its not a surprise.
The U.S. Food and Drug Administration
didnt approve PrEP until 2012, and the
drug has only been approved in three other
$500 - 1,500
HOW MUCH MONEY COULD A MALE ESCORT
MAKE IN A WEEK WHEN ACTIVELY TRAVELING?
$5,000
eral are at an even great risk as anal sex is
the highest risk sexual behavior, according
to the CDC.
Elliott protects himself from HIV with
what he calls a miracle drug.
In addition to condoms, he takes PrEP,
often called by its brand name Truvada,
once daily to prevent an HIV infection. He
gets tested every three months to make sure
hes negative and the PrEP is still working.
The drug is combination of two antiretroviral drugs often used for treatment in patients already infected and is up to 99 percent effective against preventing HIV if
used correctly, said Mitchell Warren, executive director of AVAC, a New York Citybased HIV-prevention advocacy group.
If used correctly and consistently, oral
Elliott is unafraid to come forward with his performer name and face. He doesnt feel theres
anything wrong or immoral about sex, and that societys view on sex has to change.
12
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
The longer,
the better
LEARN TO DRIVE
AT BUFFALO DRIVING SCHOOLS
834-4300
www.buffalodrivingschools.com
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
THE WORLD
OF GRINDR
Popular dating app for gay
men has both its praises
and criticisms
Grindr has become an increasingly popular app among gay men as a way to meet one
another behind a phone screen rather than face to face.
MARLEE TUSKES
SENIOR NEWS EDITOR
13
CONTINUED ON PAGE 16
SLAW ME!
14
SEX ISSUE
Seeds of artistry
THE SPECTRUM
UB student Cole Pawlowskis work turns to the human body for inspiration
LUKE HEUSKIN
ASST. ARTS EDITOR
Artist Cole Pawlowksi has been channeling his creative muse since childhood, but
the sophomore psychology majors work
has recently taken an experimental turn.
In late 2014, he began work on a sexthemed series starting with the piece 37
Ejaculations: With Pollock in Mind.
Yes, it is exactly what you think it is, Pawlowski said. Human semen on canvas which
has dried to form various abstract patterns.
The pieces title refers to Jackson Pollock,
the 20th century painter who pioneered the
famous drip technique.
Pawlowskis other ejaculation-themed pieces
have included The Feel Good Constellations
and The Eight Lonely and Not So Lonely Little Yellow Islands.
The series has been polarizing. Responses
have ranged from shock and disgust, to support and critical acclaim, which Pawlowski
attributes to the context in which the work
has been exhibited. Rather than being shown
alongside artwork of a similar experimental
strain, the semen-based pieces have debuted
in the company of more conventional art.
Acutely aware that his art is controversial,
Pawlowski stands by his creation.
I have nothing to be ashamed of, he said.
I am proud of the art that I make, and I will
continue to create no matter how the public
responds, and if they choose not to support
me or my art form, then that is perfectly okay.
According to Pawlowskis website, his
piece 37 Ejaculations aims to aid in the demystification of human sexuality and the
eventual ridding of our embarrassment pertaining to natural bodily functions.
The power of his work lies in its ability to
prompt self-reflection. The nature of the medium elicits responses deep-rooted in beliefs that
Pawlowski encourages viewers to reconsider.
In the meantime, he looks forward to debuting what he described as his favorite work, an
eight-foot-by-four-foot acrylic painting titled
Celebrate the Ignorance. The piece has yet to
be displayed in a gallery or on his website.
Pawlowskis ejaculation-themed art is exemplary of his broad-minded philosophy,
probing viewers to look inwards and examine their own reactions and attitudes.
Rather than going through great lengths
to separate the self from its bodily functions, Pawlowskis art is a reminder to embrace these processes as innate and natural.
People often say there is no reason for
anyone to feel ashamed of themselves or the
skin theyre in, Pawlowski writes on his website. Its about time we start believing in it.
email: arts@ubspectrum.com
ADVERTISEMENTS
THE SPECTRUM
15
16
SEX ISSUE
THE SPECTRUM
he ignores me.
The 41-year-old mans clinginess and talk
of marriage is somewhat atypical for an older man seeking a younger woman, according to Rencsak.
She said there are a number of older men
who suffer from sex addiction and a younger woman who may not be looking to have
children or settle down with one man for
good may be attractive for them. To some
men, these younger women seem more desirable because they arent looking for a
commitment, making the sexual experience
more satisfying.
When it first happened, Liegh didnt tell
anyone because the initial shock bothered
OPEN HOUSE
tion, its gonna be a big issue. Thats why everyone needs to know about themselves and
communicate it to partners.
Its easy to assume that those who are in
a long-term relationship have vanilla sex as
well, which, according to Schmit, isnt necessarily true. Though the newness does wear
off, that doesnt mean that the sex is any
better or worse off.
Generally in long-term relationships there
is spice initially, which is what leads the
couple to continue seeing each other, rather than just novelty in which having sex a
few times is all the pair wants.
Too many people approach sex from
a goal-oriented vantage [point] and then,
Tony Richards* spent some time in Philadelphia the summer before his sophomore
year at UB. He was 18 at the time and went
to visit his older brother and his fiance.
While looking for things to do on his trip,
Richards and his brother decided to go to
the King of Prussia Mall. When he went
into the shoe store, he noticed the manager was someone hes seen before: On Instagram.
It wasnt long before they formerly introduced each other and the Instagram guy invited Richards to his apartment.
Me being me, I felt like doing something
email: features@ubspectrum.com
THE DONALD L. DAVIS LECTURESHIP FUND & UNIVERSITY LIFE AND SERVICES PRESENTS
CHARLES
OGLETREE
Internationally Renowned Legal Theorist
Expert on Race and Criminal Justice
FEB 11
UB ALUMNI ARENA
UB Gospel Choir
Performing at 7:30PM
Student Affairs
CLASSIFIEDS
HELP WANTED
HELP WANTED
Flower Shop Helper part-time. Fun job!
Main St. Amherst, Peter 716-400-4891.
PART-TIME CLERK: Count and sort
container returns. Requires Customer
Service skills, attention to detail. Stop
in and complete an application: 2790
Sheridan Dr, Sheridan-Parkhurst Plaza,
Tonawanda. (Three minutes west of
Walmart) Must work some Saturdays, $10
hour.
Part-Time Positions Available.
Lasertron Family Entertainment Center
is currently hiring for general customer
service. Working at a fast, detail-oriented
pace and having excellent customer service
skills is a must. Starting at $11/hr, must be
available nights and weekends. Stop in and
complete an application at Lasertron, 5101
North Bailey Avenue, Amherst, NY.
APARTMENT
FOR RENT
APARTMENT
FOR
RENT
RENT
5-BDRM PRESTIGIOUS
HIGHGATE. Half block from S.
Campus. Living room, dining room, family
room. Refrigerator, stove, non-coin washer
17
THE SPECTRUM
RENT
BARTENDER TRAINING
874-9112
DAILY DELIGHTS
sponsored by Collegiate Village Apartments
Institute
Inc.
18
SEX ISSUE
&
THE SPECTRUM
ONE NIGHT
ONE NIGHT ONLY
A deeper look into the cultural phenomenon of
one-night stands and hook-up culture
JORDAN GROSSMAN
SENIOR SPORTS EDITOR
Before
Even as recently as 40-50 years ago, hook-up
culture was limited to a rare encounter. Married
people stuck to themselves. If a married person
cheated on his or her spouse, he or she would
be considered a bad person, according to sex
and relationship expert Reid Mihalko.
Today, a run-of-the-mill hook-up in college demographics is very common, but the
same risks apply. Before considering a onenight stand, women and men have different
factors to decide whether or not they want
Slipping away
How ghosting has become the new way to breakup
TORI ROSEMAN
SENIOR FEATURES EDITOR
Ghosting, or suddenly not responding to someones texts anymore, seems to be one of the
easiest ways out of a short-term fling.
After
A guy wakes up from a one night stand with
a girl whos not traditionally pretty. And then hes
worried about what his friends say, Mihalko
said. Now, hes worried post one-night stand.
There can be worry. There can be guilt showing.
There can be concern for their reputation.
For women, there is great risk of being slutshamed or run the risk of succumbing to a
bad reputation, but thats not always the case.
Hamiltons roommate recently had a onenight stand with his girlfriends housemate.
Instead of adhering to the social norm, she
began to openly talk about it.
But he does see a downside in it.
She likes to brag about it, Hamilton said.
Some girls have the same mentality as I do.
Girls are also like I was with this person last
night. But if it happens too much to women,
it may become a personal problem for them.
But ultimately, putting aside slut-shaming,
safety and reputation, spontaneous sex happens in college because many people enjoy the
idea of casual sex with no strings attached.
Some people like one night stands because
its novelty. A new person; new genitals; new
body, Mihalko said. Culture isnt encouraging
us to be self-expressed and to explore sexuality
in ways that are empowering. Sex is fun for a lot
of people. Sex and pleasure and human sexual
connection can be fun and rewarding.
email: jordan.grossman@ubspectrum.com