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Not very long ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. She told me to move on, and she wouldnt even
answer my calls. Amazingly though, a few months later, we were back together and engaged. We
couldnt be happier, and its all because of an old friend of mine from way back, who showed me that
theres a specific how to get your ex-girlfriend back process, which you NEED to follow if you are
going to succeed in getting your girl back.
NOTE: The following process will tap into the mating and attraction side of human nature, meaning
that it will work only on women who are still ripe for reproduction (i.e women under the age of 40).
The things that 99% of guys do in trying to get their girl back actually
have the total opposite of the desired effect. Thats right, all the shit you want to do to get her back
(call her, tell her you miss her and love her, beg her to come back etc.) will actually repulse her and
drive her further away.
Thats why I HAD to create this guide, which talks you through how to win her back in the way that
works, simple step by simple step:
Step 1.Tell me who broke up withwho
The approach we will take on how to get your ex-girlfriend back will depend on who initiated the
breakup. This is to say that different breakup circumstances require different techniques.
So did she finishwith you, or did you dumpher? If she ended the relationship and you want her back,
carry on to step 2 below.
If you dumped her but youve realized you made a huge mistake, and now you want her back, go
here, because all steps on this page are not relevant to your situation.
Step 2. Lets figure out why she broke up with you
We need to make sure that, whatever it is you did, that made her want
to finish with you it ends now. You gotta stop doing it, and this can only happen if you know exactly
what IT was.
She will likely have told you some wishy-washy reason for why she ended it. Maybe she saidyou two
have grown apart or perhaps she gave you the classic, I just need some space.
Whatever she said, it will almost certainly have NOT given you any clue as to what exactly went
wrong. This is typical of women, but Im a fellow guy whos on your side, and I can give it to you
straight, so here goes
There are 3 possibilities for why she dumped you, and Ive put them into categories A, B and C. You
need to figure out which Category your situation belongs in. 95% of guys will fall into category A.
Category A. Did she lose attraction for you?
When a girl stops feeling attracted to her boyfriend, the relationship goes stale for her, and if she
has any dating market value left (i.e. if shes still hot enough to draw in a decent new guy) then she
will dump the boyfriend and sooner or later shell go get a new guy (one who she DOES feel
attraction for).
As I said, this is the most common situation for guys wanting to get their ex back he got dumped by
the chick because she lost attraction for him.
Heres how to know if loss of attraction is your break up situation:
Think about your relationship with her in the past few weeks/months/year, and answer YESor NOto
the following questions:
Did you try your best to be extra nice to her all the time?
If you were nice to your girlfriend literally all the time, she would have picked up on the subtext that
you were trying to get her to accept and like you that you were vying for her approval.
The unwritten laws of the social food chain dictate that inferior people seek approval from superior
ones, and not the other way around. Women naturally know this, and by trying to get your girl to like
you more (approval seeking), using nice behaviour, you made her feel like shes superior to you.
very primal and subconscious process that has been in place for thousands of years, so she wont be
consciously aware of why she lost attraction for you.
Did you give her compliments on a regular basis?
A girl with any degree of DMV (dating market value) will start to think of a guy (even a boyfriend)
who regularly compliments her, as a fan boy. Do hot female celebs date their fans? Fuck no! They
date other celebs, who have a DMV as high as, or higher than, their own.
By complimenting your ex consistently, you basically showed her that her DMV washigher than
yours. She lost attraction to you because of this and it led to a break up. See the master/slave
answer above for more details, and also the first answer I gave, which was about being nice all the
time.
Did you give her gifts regularly, especially at the moments that she showed her demands?
Consistent gifts will have made herthink you were trying too hard to win
her approval. It sets a frame where you are demonstrating that it is YOU trying to win HER over, and
thus she detects that she is superior to you.
Women are not attracted to men they feel superior to, so if you were buying lots of gifts, you can
consider it to have helped kill the attraction/relationship.
Did you make it very clear to her that she is the most important thing that you have in your life?
It would make logical sense that this should boost attraction surely every girl wants to be the center
of her boyfriends universe, right?
Wrong. The truth is a girlfriend wants to be important to you but she also needsyou to have other
activities in your life that dont includeher. Because, if youd made your life all about her, itd be a case
where she sees that shes 100% won you over, and women get bored of men theyve won over fully.
Why? It makes them think maybe they could do better, and thats the last thing you want your ex
thinking.
Girls need that element of challenge in their guyshe needs to feel that she won you, but not 100%
yet, and to keep her on her toes/from getting bored, you should never let it quite reach 100% in her
mind.
Did you stress your commitment to her?
Again, showing her that shes got you 100% by the balls like this will make her bored, which equals
reduced attraction that contributes to a break up. Itll also indicate to her that you have no other
viable dating options (becauseif you did have such options, why would you be so concerned with
Did you give her signs of affection (kisses etc) more regularly than she gave you them?
This is another example of the guy trying harder than the girl and her perceiving her own DMV as
the higher of the two. She perceives this because the person trying harder in the relationship is
consideredto be compensating for his/herlower relative DMV. Attraction reduced.
With sex, did you verbally ask her for it? Did you ask to change positions? Or just as bad, did you let
her take control in bed?
Yet another example of the man in the relationship not taking the lead, and perhaps even behaving
submissively. Nowhere is the male dominance/ female submissiveness dynamic more important than
in the bedroom. Bucket loads of attraction gets lost this way.
Equally though, bucket loads of attraction can be gained in the bedroom, and if with my help you can
get herback into bed, Ill show you how to use sex to make sure her attraction for you stays sky high.
Keep reading.
Did/do you think shes the best girl who you are capable of getting?
If youve been answering yes to lots of questions above, then its likely that you will answer yes to this
one too. Why? Because believing that your GF is the best chick you can realistically get, creates a
scarcity mindset which brings outall the desperate and try-hard (i.e. unattractive) behaviours that
we discussed above.
Answered Yes to a few of those questions? Loss of attraction caused your break up
If you behaved in 3+ of the above ways during the latter stages of your relationship with your ex,
then the reason you lost her is because her attraction for you faded out. She will likely have told you
some other bullshit reason for the break up, but the fact that you answered yes to the questions
above, coupled with the amount of sense that the explanations I gave make, shows that dying
attraction is unmistakably the cause.
What about evidence that my theories representreality? If youve been using many of those
behaviours I asked you about in the questions above, and you also got dumped, then the fact that
both happened in your own life, and that I was able to call both out despite the fact Ive never met
you that should be all the evidence you need.
To Confirm: Click here if you answered yes to the above questions and are therefore a Category A
guy (link takes you to our Category A Video).
Category B. Were you too hard to tie down into a secure relationship?
It is entirely possible for a girl to be super attracted to her boyfriend, but dump him regardless. Its a
situation where she absolutely wants to have you, but she feels she cannot. Why?
Because something about your behaviour is making her feel as if you are not really committed to
her. She feels that, although shes attracted to you, you wont give her what she wants and needs
from a relationship (i.e. support her, and not keep fucking other girls).
Heres how to know if this (B.) is your situation:
Think about your relationship with her in the past few weeks/months/year, and ask yourself these
questions
alluring to themabout the fact that you dont feel like you need to try hard. BUT, if you overdid the
whole play it cool thing, your girl would have interpreted it as you going cold/lacking interest in her.
In that situation your girl will, in return, go cold on you too. Again, she ends up feeling disconnected
from you, hes being distant, and so she dumps you.
Did you show far too much value?
Its great to show that you are a high value man (read: masculine, charming, witty, adventurous etc).
But if a guy overshows his value (i.e. he demonstrates cool things about himself too often), it will
backfire on him.
Why though? Surely the more great stuff she knows about you, the more shes into you?Not
necessarily
Most women have quite simple and somewhat boring lives, soshe might struggle to relate to you
with yourtravel-filled lifestyle, amazing car and massive house that you told her about. And if she
struggles to relate to you because she sees you as WAY better than her, she will go cold on you. Hes
out of my league. Then she initiates a break up.
And so you can see
category B here contains the exact opposite behaviours of Category A. In Category A, those
behaviours are try hard (too hard). But here in B, these are the behaviours of a guy who hasnt given
enough, so the girl doesnt consider this guy as having long-term potential either.
Nevertheless, if category B fits your situation, then you have a great chance of getting your girl back
so long as you play your cards right from here. Move onto the next step and I will show you how to
get your ex-girlfriend back!
Click here if you answered yes to the above questions and are therefore a Category B guy.Category
C. Did either you or her move away to another area?
This is the easiest circumstance in which to be getting her back; a situation where one of you moved
to another area, and then the long distance made having a healthy relationship impossible.
Why is this the easiest? Because you only broke up due to distance, meaning that the attraction she
feels for you is still present. In fact it might even have increased, since women get off on desiring
what they cant have (you).
So if you are a Category C guy then you need to move to where she lives to solve the whole distance
problem, and then do a few things right from there, which Ill show you now
Click here if you answered yes to the above question and are therefore a Category C guy.If you
havent picked a Categoryyet
Its decision time. Are you:
Category A: The nice guy who she lost attraction for (95% of guys visiting mysite arethis)Category B:
The guy she felt she couldnt build a secure relationship with (a minority of guys are this)Category C:
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