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Ry oT FOR THOUGHT How participants bonded over , mating delectable sit your aia a mem ish een ges al Cee ere eerie 00D OL Relive childhood memories with FEMUR (SEAFOOD FOR Read more about our festive themed speed-cating cocking class, (Seafood for Thought, and find out why Norwegian, salmon may very wel be the best choice for your Chnstmas feast! a7 ‘born MTV V3 Alan Wong, thoughts on love, long- distance relationships and being on TV FOR UST ONE DAY... costume up for Halloween—all it takes,‘ a couple of tweaks to your wardrobe! rOUN ae Disney's popular movie, Frozen teaches some powerful lessons about Ife and love Kt BREAKING UP 24 Guest contributor Chou CC shares his views on how to move on from a toad relationship, wvENTS 26 Fil your days with a wide variety of events and meet like-minded frends! BROUGHT TO YOU BY: Network EDITORIAL MANAGING EDITOR Leal CREATIVE CREATIVE 6 ARTISTIC DIRECTOR SENIOR DESIGNER CHERLIN CH (CREATIVE SERVICES MANAGER Ex UIA ‘TRAFFIC & PRODUCTION MANAGER SPECIAL THANKS TO: sentosa FUN — NORGE. 3 Vou ecroetn oe spirit than to celebrate it with a someone special? If youve never costumed- up during Halloween because you think its a hasste and/or ‘Tis the season to be jolly indeed! Christmas is just around the comer—personally, it's a holiday that I love best. The day—and the lead-up to it—seems to Wishing all our readers a wonderful countdown to the year- end, and may you share wonderful moments withi your family and loved ones! put everyone in the mood, Everywhere, Christmas lights are strung up, making tropical Singapore seem like a winter wonderland, Our excitement ratchets up as the days tick by, and we spend the lead-up making celebratory plans and spending with the family. Now that’s ‘festive’ means to mel Of course, it's not just Christmas that makes this last quarter magical. Perhaps i's because of how close the other celebrations, such as Halloween and the New Year, are. Or perhaps the idea of ending yet another year and the start of another one isin itself a cause for celebration. It's possibly a cornbination of all the factors above, and what etter way to maximise this 02 ocroner-ottwsee 2081 gh expensive to do so, then tum to pi6 for some tips on making a costume out of your existing wardrobe—one that you can wear in everyday situations, too. There, you'll also find some reasons why cosplaying, or varying degrees of it, 18 so popular and liberating, Are you and your significant other fans of fireworks? Flip to 6 for a guide to the best spots to watch this year's spectacular display on New Year's eve! Or if youre planning something a little more intimate, consider preparing a romantic dinner for ‘two=tum to p8 to read how our participants prepared delectable dishes of premium Norwegian salmon. If youre single, fret not— ead on for a perspective on why activity-based dating events work ees READER'S QUIZ READ DUET, TAKE THIS QUIZ, AND STAND TO WIN ONE OF FIVE SETS OF CAPITAVOUCHERS WORTH $20 EACH, 1. Which organisation partnered SDN for the 7 (Sea)Food for Thought event? C3 | a) Norwegian Seafood Council b) Norwegian Salmon Council c) Norwegian Sea Council = ‘AM 2. Who is Dr Love? mT a) Dinah Lee-Phua b) Chou CC e ¢) Shelen Ang perry 3. Where was Alan Wong born? CES is = a) Singapore eure) b) Malaysia re eeAI NS) €) California ee acs - 4. Why did Anna turn to ice? EE a) Elsa froze her heart é ) Anna tried to save Elsa from Hans es ¢) Anna was too cold Eee 5. Where can you get nostalgic gifts for your ai friends? wean a) WHENIWASTHREE peseatu b) WHENIWASFOUR _ c) WHENIWASFIVE ee Roecreny Peery Bea Pe ea pester Head over to ductsg.cam/contest HRP ee oo CuO CLOSING DATE: 1 *Terms and conditions apply to DUET readers who are in SDN's database network sign up at www.sdin.sg information, events, dating resources and ns. OUT & ABOUT IN THE GOOD OL" DAYS IT’S TIME TO GET FESTIVE WITH YOUR SPECIAL SOMEONE, BECAUSE THE END OF THE YEAR IS UPON US! KICKING THINGS OFF IN OCTOBER IS A DAY ‘THAT WE ALL REMEMBER FONDLY: CHILDREN'S DAY! BY CHIN WEI LIEN 04 ocroner-ottusee 2081 gh ‘You know that the year is drawing to aclose when the public holidays start coming one after another. With Hari Raya Haji, Deepavali and Christmas all arriving between October and December, you cannot help but get into a festive mood. And we've not even mentioned all the miscellaneous celebrations in between, such as Halloween in late October, New Year's Eve inate December and, of course, Children’s Day on 1 Oct. When you were a kid, Children's Day was the best single-day break sn the academic year because you got to go home early, but not before ‘the teachers took to the school hall for your entertainment. Some of us even received special stationery sets from our teachers, which we coveted as much as limited-edition Dragonball Z cards. There's a certain sense of nostalgia and fun associated with those carefree days, and i's an ‘experience we all share. ‘What if you could relive those days all over again this October with your date? You don't have to be back ‘in primary school to celebrate Children’s Day—as long as there's an ‘nner-child in the both of you, there's no Teason why you can't have some innocent, child-like fun on your date. 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We understand that things off with a bang, after all and year! some of you just want to have nowhere else has a better view of t's time to hold a New Year's a quiet and cosy time with that the New Year's Day fireworks than Eve party, open a few bottles of special someone on New Year's the Marina Bay area. Yes, there's the champagne and dance the nig Eve-over a glass of wine while crowd to contend with, and the away to loud music! After all reminiscing about the highs and traffic afterwards can be a pain, but there's something about the end of lows of the past year, perhaps? now often do you get to cross over the year and the start of the next Whichever camp you belong toa new year with a significant that’s worth celebrating to, you gotta love fireworks—who other anyway? Trust us—i's going However, partying isn't for doesn't? Everybody wants to start to be worth the trouble. Tore) and that's Kinki in @ nutshe! festive end playful stmosphere goss yw fer J sive drinks list rma Bay ney some chi @ 22 Collyer Quay @ 70 cottyer Quay 06 ocronzeotceusee 208) gh Ifyou dont quite know where you and your date should ‘camp out for the best views, here are a few places around Marina Bay, along with a few strategically located restaurants, that will give you the view of 2 lifetime. So just sit back with your date, countdown to 2015, enjoy the fireworks, and drink to new beginnings. Cheers! ESPLANADE WATERFRONT PROMENADE The Esplanade is located alongside ‘Marina Bay near the mouth of the Singapore River. And since The Float is located right next to you. you can bet your boitom dollar that the view here wail be absolutely spectacular. Do keep in mind, however, that since this 1s a prime location, the promenade will be crowded. So get there as early as Spm with your date to secure a good sitting spot. ‘THE PROMONTORY @ MARINA BAY Located across the bay from The Float, The Promontory boasts a spectacular View. The downside is that, because you are on the Raffles Place side of Marina Bay, Singapore's familiar city skyline will be behind you. However, you are there for the fireworks and the time of your life with someone special, so that shouldn't matter. PADANG ‘The Padang may not be where the party's at, but it does have a leg up over the other viewing locations around the CBD: space. No matter where you decide to set up a picnic mat with your date, you will have a good view of the fireworks without being jostled by the crowd around you. Besides, who doesn't ike big fields and picnics? MARINA BARRAGE ‘The Marina Barrage may be a little out of the way and is the furthest location on this list to view the fireworks, but does offer a sense of seclusion from all the hustle and bustle perfect for a more intimate countdown experience. There aren't many places to grab a bite if you feel pecksh, though, so pack your own food and chope a good spot eariy! SKY ON 57 Let the crowd catch the from the ground fleor. Here on tha 57° floor, you can enjoy a panoramic View whils you Iounge in a chair on 57. That's welcoming 2015 in stv. © 20 Baytron Avenve crane lemme Poe Perera Na Cocoon eur ket! ee cers nee Ueto Ren be Paar eee Cie need Dre iam) Deuces Cee ed Sets Parsee Pee an Miaige ras rod snapping away for the full Sani Ol SS Uae Ne) Pa ae .. FESTIVE CHEER WITH GOOD FRIENDS AND GOOD FOOD. “ Dena Lag =r Cece eo ae Christmas 9 It's a long-established tradition—in the United States and Canada—to have turkey as a main course for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Even in the UX, turkey meat has been eaten as early as the 1540s! HISTORY OF THE Although indigenous to the Americas and first domesticated by the Aztecs, the turkey became a part of Christmas tradition almost as soon as it was introduced to England. Today, part of the continued charm of the turkey could be due to the fact that it's a large fowi, perfect for large family reunions. The turkey has never been culturally significant in Asia, although the tradition may P been introduced when much of Southeast Asia was colonised The meat today is falling out of favour because of the hassie wnvolved in its preparation, from defrosting to ensuring that the meat is cooked evenly! The }ought of spending hours toiling in the kitchen and fussing over the difficult bird is likely to kill one’s appetite. FLIPPIN So, instead of fretting over a turkey recipe, why not consider something much more manageable, such as Norwegian salmon? Yes, there are a variety of meat choices to choose from. but the more health-conscious among us may want to veer away from roasted red meats or hams, While protein is part of a balanced diet, experts agree that protein from fish is healthier than that from meats. That's because fish on average has less saturated fat than meat; they—particularly Norwegian salmon=also contains sources of good monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, which improve blood cholesterol levels and lowers one’s risk of heart disease @ octonne-oecruse 2014 09 oro eo W ana nc’ iota Coe ec) eto i eect) ee mea menu ray Oona} Se ea Ree ie naly Ce] arena) Precast oy eee) eer ns they are free from toxins pete cco Pero ics peed) cone igen) eee eat e) Pheu Pen Ee Perret eiees FEATURE ON 26 AUG 2014, THE SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT NETWORK, TOGETHER WITH NORWEGIAN SEAFOOD COUNCIL (NSC), ORGANISED AND CONDUCTED A SPEED-DATING COOKING CLASS THAT BROUGHT TOGETHER EIGHT MALE AND FEMALE, CHEFS IN AN EVENT CALLED (SEAJFOOD FOR THOUGHT. ¢ 42 ocroner-ottwse The participants started out getting to know each other in a roundtable chat. An icebreaker game was played to loosen ther up for the challenge ahead, Aiter Jon Erik Steenslid, NSCs Regional Director, South-East Asia, gave a quick introduction to his organisation and the benefits of Norwegian salmon everyone was raring to start and gathered around Chef Jimmy Chok, the man tasked with demonstrating how. to prepare the event's four dishes, How the challenge worked Participants were paired up to make each of the four dishes. From starter to dessert, male Participants were rotated upon completion of each dish so that each guy got to interact with every girl The dishes were assessed by a panel of judges, who gave points for taste, presentation, as wel as the chemistry between the duo who prepared it. The winning dish for each round was awarded a number of points, which was added to the final tally. The couple with the highest points wins the competition Pretty straightforward, but there was a twist: participants weren't allowed to seek help from the chef or refer to the recipe! Points were deducted for each question asked, while interaction points were given when a working pair showed some sparks eb ocronne-otcre 2014 13 FEATURE READY, GET SET Before Chef Chok proceeded with the demonstration, he expertly sticed a whole salmon, identified the parts and advised what they would be good for For example, salmon sashimt arguably the most preferred raw fish is best when taken from the loin of the salmon. “The fat s more evenly circulated, which gives you great flavour and texture,” he explained During the demonstration, all eyes were on Chef Chok as he skiifully handled the beautiful Norwegian salmon, Hands were a-flurry as everyone furiously jotted down notes—we even spotted someone drawing a diagram of the final plated dish! Fresh Norwegian salmon is delectable in itself, as anyone who has tasted a slice of premium Norwegian salmon sashimi can attest. When your fillet is one-third cooked, you can fip it over,” Chef Chok advised. The participants then headed to their owm stations, and began their challenge, Right from the start, interaction points was dished out—we spotted Derek Koh helping his partner, Doreen Low, put on her apron. We also noticed the male participants graciously offering to handle the knife, or got their hands dirty just so that the ladies won't have to It was almost a religious experience observing the harmony that prevailed among certain pairings, even though they didn't know each other. Surprisingly, this was the first time any of them had joined an event like this! I never really knew there were events such as this," revealed Sally Wan, a demure looking civil servant. She jumped at the opportunity when she came across a mailer by SDN. "I may join something like this again in future, came her ringing endorsement Itwas impressive, even heart- warming, to see the participants gelling more and more with ich dish. ‘Cooking, [ike ina relationship}, is all about the 14 ccroneeoteusee 2081 gh teamwork.’ Tim Chew commented, a thought echoed ‘Tng: "Because it requires a coordination and collabor as a result of toi jan salmon masterpieces, the best part of the event, reckoned Derek, was to be ple to interact with their partners ang, in the process, make friends s was in part due to he challenges revolving preparation—participants bonded sks that were assigned to. While their dishes, little snippets from cipants' lives cane up in sation, which flowed freely as the day progressed. We found out that Derek and Sally both scuba dive, Timis a jokester, Doreen loves isa is Keen on Kore: culture, Alvin dabbies in woodcratt Iltyas is into all sorts of music and line breakdances ‘And while the participants worked closely within the g tim mpiete a dish, one realises that an event like this is a good gauge of personality: when put under pressure, true selves were revealed—the fact that all present were nice to each other and did not once snap reflected well on them, Peay ores Crean Ltt \TURE BY CHUA KIM BENG ‘This couple fell in love after getting to know each other while playing board games. Play on, Michelle and Yong Fai! Technical support advisor Michelle Sim and assistant engineer Aw Yong Fai, both 34, have been married for about five and a half years—and they have Settlers Café to thank for getting them together. BOARD, NOT BORED Iwas some time in Apr 2006 when these two first laid eyes on each other. Yong Fai was already at Settlers Café with a group of people when Michelle called the organiser—someone she got to know at a SDN event—for directions, “I was surprised to hear a guy's voice,’ recalled Michelle. “I thought it was supposed to be an all-girl outing" Still, Michelle tumed up at the gathering. ‘I thought it was very. gentlemanly of him to offer to escort me.” One night of playing board games made quite an ‘impact on the both of them. Yong Fai was attracted to her affinity for planning and strategy. Michelle was quite chuffed by the fact ‘that their answers to the game of Telepaths were similar. Another gentlemanly gesture that Yong Fai displayed was offering to swap his seat, which was against the wall. with Michelle when her T-shirt kept riding up her back throughout the night “That gave me a good impression of him,” she gushed. BRIDGING DIFFERENCES After a month of dating, Michelle saw other qualities in Yong Fai that she appreciated. “He was family oriented, filial, kind, honest, responsible and willing to help out with household chores,’ she listed But there were other details that bothered Michelle, She was worried about the language barrier between Yong Fai and her familyand an aunt's funeral was not really the best way to introduce a boyfriend. “My dad speaks Teochew, which Yong Fai doesnt understand. My cousins are all highly educated and English-speaking while Yong Fat is more comfortable conversing in Mandarin,” Michelle Bee ey described, ‘But I'm glad he tried to converse with my dad in Hokkien and my cousins in English. He even. drove my dad home.” Action obviously speaks louder than words ‘Michelle was also worried that the gap in their educational levels would be a source of conflict. When they first got together, she was just embarking on a degree programme while he had been working in the. family engineering business after graduating from a polytechnic. "We realised that we stil have many other things in common; our qualifications are just pieces of paper. So our advice to singles out there is to look beyond qualifications and listen to your heart.” SETTLING DOWN Now that the buzz of courtship and honeymoon is, behind them, how is married life for Michelle and) Yong Fai? Michelle, for one, is glad for Yong Fais willingness to do the chores. "My hands will become red and swollen. When exposed to excessive dust I first discovered this allergy when my fingers became so swollen that the doctor advised me to get the ring cut, as it is bad for the ¥ CALLING blood circulation,” she revealed i COMMITTED COUPLES! "Nonetheless, I still try my best to help out. Hubby has been very understanding.” The one skill Yong Fai picked up from Michelle was cooking, “Ttaught hubby how to cook during our courtship; now he can cook very well!” you found your partner are featured nd on SDN online platiorms the: ‘wo of you will receive ouchers wort mite. FINAL WORDS “Look beyond the physical Alovable person may not necessarily be biessed with ‘good Icoks. Inney beauty ts What matters most, as everyone will age sooner or later” advised Michelle W any fends who have gotten mamies PERSONALITY f, What is the best part about being on The MTV Show? For me, being in front of the era gives youa larger reach ability to spread ideas, hurnour and smiles. Hove hearing viewers say, "That made me laugh!” or'I didn't know that! Were you seeing anyone in. California before coming out to Asia? Iwas fortunate to not be ina lationship (LDR) nn, as I can only imagine how icult that’ be Do you believe in LDRs then? Tm glad you asked because Im currently ina LDR with a girl first met on the rooftop of the Marina Bay Sands (MBS)—where the Social * ~~ Star Awards were held last year. It's not exactly long-distance with her, but she travels a lot for work. Here's the thing: if the love is worthit if she's worth it, then it's worth it! Youll go to great lengths to get strong, stable Wi-Fi to communicate with her Via Skype. Communication— that's Key, What was the attraction? ‘When I met her at MBS, I was immediately attracted to her. She and | are from San Jose so I got pretty lucky—she had a reason to keep talking to me because we have shared experiences. We not only grew up in the sarne town, ‘our high schools are pretty near each other, and we even had similar friends back then! CALIFORNIA-BORN MTV VU ALAN WONG SHARES HIS: THOUGHTS ON LOVE, LONG- DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS, AND BEING ON TV, BY SARAH LIU You mentioned love. Is it something that happens at first sight, or does it develop cover time? In my experience, love grows from the [attraction] that happens. Love at first sight is that inexplicable spark at the beginning that made Te persist m courting my curr girlfriend; ttis different from the love a married couple shares. I think that, with marriage, love becomes 4 process of learning more about each other and building a stronger relationship My favourite love story is. Beauty and the Beast. 'ma cheesy Disney guy. Somehow, Belle is able to look past his beastliess: fur, claws... you know, unsightly things. 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It's not first Feoceereeen veo Peeeneteormarenc} RELATE Everybody wants to be in a relationship, but sometimes, things end. This is life: sometimes, relationships change, and your former partner moves ‘on. That shouldn't be surprising. What do we do when relationships go downhill? We work hard to salvage what we had. But when that isn't ‘enough, some pretend like nothing has happened This, however, is not the way to go, and instead of panicking or feeling lost, | feel that it always helps to prepare for the unexpected in love as in life. As human beings, we love hard, but we also need to recognise that not every love story works out Letting go may be difficult, but it will free you from future heartaches, And when you finally let go of a bad telationship—who knows?—your Mr or Ms Right may be right around the corer. 24 ocronee. cBER 200) HOW TO HANDLE A BREAKUP Do you lie awake at night trying to make sense what went wrong? Do you deny the abysmal state of your relationship or convince yourself that i's your fault? Do you feel that the onus is on you to salvage the relationship? Do you continue this way until you finally see your ex with someone else? While compromise is important in a relationship, how much of itis too much? That's something you need to decide. But you also need to know that, sometimes, nothing will make a difference—even if youve tried your best Once youve accepted the reality that your relationship is not going to work out, it's time to step out of the loop and move on with your life. Your losses are recuperable if you promise yourself to come cut better, after an acceptable period of mourning, of vel AX BOX OF CHOCOLATES ASHEART BREAK IS: NOF THE END, BUT: MERELY “THE CHANGE FOR AY sNEW- BEGINNING. course. Cocooning yourself may bring some consolation, but it doesn't heal you. 2. 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