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Sandy Buchman,
a good deathamong
family, the past put to rest,
comfort and acceptance
close at handis something
to strive for
death
By Susan Bourette
P H O T O S : b e n m a r k ho l z b e r g
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Dr. Buchman
stresses that for
a good death,
a relationship
of trust must
be built with
the patient and
the family.
doctors bagreceived as a gift for
his acceptance to med school in 1978.
I have seen people realize that
some of the things they are angry
about, and have fought over, are
really trivial, he says. Just as I have
seen others swearing from their
deathbeds about this one and that
one, and that they can go to hell.
Death isnt always peaceful. It can be
quite awful.
Buchman, slight of build and with
closely cropped grey hair, is inured to
the harshest realities of lifes end, yet
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fic on his way to the next appointment, is being able to help other
people. For me, its knowing that Ive
made an important contribution to
peoples livesboth to the people
who have passed away and to their
loved ones.
His job? Teaching patients how to
dieand their families how to live.
His ultimate goal? The good death.
hile philosophical
and religious scholars have struggled to
make sense of death
for centuries, those who see it regularly and up close have a clear vision
of the good death.
In 2006, a study published in the
Canadian Medical Association Journal
surveyed patients in palliative care
window. Her primary caregiver is another nun who has just returned from
a long-term stay in Africa. Others in
the convent, those who have lived
and shared their entire lives with the
dying nun, are unable to care for her.
They are too shaken by the thought
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