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Middle childhood
social and active in peers groups or friendships; it is important for teachers and
parents to be observant of what groups and peers the child is adapting to. In my
classrooms and areas of work; I encourage the children to use their voice, this
allows for me to hear what is going on in the classroom and to be aware if there are
every any problems arising among the children. It also helps that child to focus on
how to regulate themselves in group settings. If for example there are two students
that are disagreeing with one another and I hear the discussion getting heated; I
can proceed to intervene with questions such as why they are disagreeing,
suggestions as to both sides of the situation and possible solutions to resolve
conflict. This would indeed show the children that I am being empathetic to their
ideas or feelings as well as teaching them how to resolve the disagreement with
some sort of compromise. This would also allow for the children to realize that there
can be different opinions and not in all cases is someone else right or wrong.
If there are ever times that I have encountered child in middle childhood stages
that are dealing with self-regulation issues, I first and foremost quietly remove the
child from the situation that has them acting out so that we can discuss why they
are behaving the way that they are privately. This allows for the child to have time
to think about the situation and how it could have been handled differently. I
encourage the child to talk to me freely; yet appropriately although I know that they
are upset, and I can then possibly offer suggestions to correct the behavior that is
undesired without making the child feel further singled out in the group. If there are
excessive behaviors that I cannot accept in the classroom, I would then need to
contact the childs parents with information in ways that we could possibly promote
better behaviors together or find assistance for the child that could benefit the
aggressive or inappropriate actions that they chose to take. I would first and
foremost allow the child a chance to correct themselves before going any further.
Impulsivity is often many times to blame for our youth making inappropriate
choices when dealing with their emotions or how to handle someone elses.
Although we as adults cannot change the way another person thinks or feels about